wonderful video portraying how insecurity can be the reason people are bitter or resentful. but the fact that she admitted her mistakes at the end and made up with her friends shows she's not a bad person. treat everyone with kindness but don't be afraid to stand up for yourself and educate others about their behavior!
Same! So from time to time, i started to going out without mask on, and i slowly felt comfy as i don’t have to take off something that will probably cause me to be insecured and feel like people will judge my looks once i took of a mask so yeah
I dont really judge because of their looks but at least speak softly and not loudly? Because your saliva can be going everywhere, for my school, everybody must wear a mask, I am alright with those that don’t wear mask but at least speak softly
Saying someone is mask fishing is mostly a joke tho I know some people will mean it in a judging/rude way but not everyone who says it means it like that
When covid restrictions started, as scary as that time was, I was so happy everyone was wearing masks, it made me so comfortable about meeting people. But now with restrictions going down everywhere and people wearing it as a choice people are always saying to me to take it off or always asking me why I’m wearing it as if covid didn’t just happen, I ended up getting more attention than I actually wanted but I just feel so insecure now without it >
Last year that’s how I felt too because wearing masks became optional at my school and not many people still kept their masks on. My friends would always wonder why I wouldn’t take off my mask and it was because I wore it so much it was uncomfortable being at school without it. Eventually wearing a mask ended up giving me anxiety by making me feel kind of isolated from everyone. once I got rid of it I felt so much better and now I literally hate wearing them because it reminds me of when I was really insecure so I hope you learn to be comfortable without one.
@@alyssacheong5083 yes the same thing happened with me.... But now I am happy after leaving mask still I do feel insecure but that's how the world runs
Same for me especially when I'm in a place that has alot of people the mask used to make me more comfortable and i got used to it especially that i was depressed for 2 years or something since corona started so i felt more insecure about how i look and things and as soon as i took it of i didn't feel really comfortable but with time it's better and taking it off gave me some kind of power or energy so i understand you
@@giuliab8484 I was exactly like u, my classmates literally chased me down trying to take off my mask and my parents didnt let me wear it either but i still put it on at school, next school year try going to school without a mask, itll be very hard but eventually you'll get used to it and ur classmates wont care either over time. thats what i did and i feel way better than i did last year and my mental health became way better aswell
I didn’t know Koreans also had a word for mask fishing lol. I’m glad we don’t have to wear masks but at the same time I liked how comfortable and anonymous I felt wearing it.
I just want to say this as someone who hides my face and pimples with my mask, you are beautiful even when you have those marks. You just need more confidence, you're not ugly.
Yep! Ngl, I don’t even think acne looks ugly Like I was talking to this guy at graduation the other day and he had quite a bit of acne on his cheeks, but idk, it looked cute on him tbh
Being insecure about yourself doesn't allow you to look down on others. Just because you hate how you look like doesn't mean you can hate how others look. You don't have any rights to talk about others looks & appearance. Don't be such a pick me/toxic person. That just show how bad person you are.
Someone could have a mental illness and not control the way they act. Just because someone has a mental illness doesn't make them a bad person. They just need therapy. I'm just saying.
@@Mika_Kagehira. then they should've go for a treatment/therapy instead of expressing bad attitude to others. I'm myself a person with mental illness and I seek for a help from professional instead of doing nothing because I know I can't control the way I act and it would hurt people around me.
@RELEASED_SCARA I think you missed the point of their comment, the message is to be kind to others instead of projecting your insecurities onto people. You can have understanding and empathy for people with mental conditions without using that as an excuse for bad behavior, yk?
해나가 이 세상에서 제일 필요한 사람 같다 친구가 상처 받을까봐 자존감 업 시켜주는 말 해주고 친구가 우는 거 보고 달려가서 위로해주고 근데 또 한 사람의 의견만 듣지 않고 친구 함부로 의심하지 않고 잘못한 것이 있으면 바로 사과하고... 나도 이런 친구 있었으면....부럽다 :)
My friends sometimes would tell me to take off my mask since they took off their mask but I don’t feel comfortable taking it off since I’ve been wearing a mask for a long time so I don’t feel comfortable taking it off. But, one thing I know is that I would never criticize my friends for their looks, and it’s not a big deal if someone looks different without their mask. As long as their personality is the same I’m okay.
One of my exfriends acted like this when a boy I liked confessed back. I was young and insecure so I rejected him. I just realized she was acting like that out of jealousy. When I got a boyfriend, she acted bad again. This time I cut her off my life tho, it was better to cut off someone so toxic.
That pink hair girl is me..i always wear mask to hide my pimples and dark spots...but i never insult other in out of jealousy...but this episode really shows my thing..😭😌❤️
I used to never take off my mask at school, but at first it started as a stupid dare on how long I coukd keep it on without anyone seeing my face, but then it escalated. Since I was so used to wearing a mask, I started getting insecure about how I looked. So much so that I wouldn't take it off to even drink water or eat. I'd drink water very rarely and I'd either not eat at school or just eat from under my mask. I never criticised anyone else though. mainly because I could never do that, but also because I hated talking about faces or masks. This went on for a almost 2 years. That is, until I changed schools. I still refused to show anyone my face in my old school though, other than some close friends I trusted. They were pretty chill about it too. But another reason I didn't want to show anyone my face was because it wouldn't be what they expected it to be. I'd disappoint them. I hate that thought, so i just kept it a secret forever. But i feel better now,as I'm not gonna be wearing a mask to my new school or anywhere else again. I don't want to repeat my mistakes.
In the beginning I can understand where the girl is coming from. I’ve had someone ask me to take my mask off and when I declined nicely they yanked it off and then told me to put it back on because my face was ugly which only worsened my insecurities so I can tell why she was getting defensive
Sorry that happened to you. Wearing a mask doesn't really affect others so I don't know why they feel the urge to yank it off and disrespect your choices
@@shirin-p7y highly suggest you find some new friends but if you genuinely think they didn’t mean it, talk it out with them. Real friends will acknowledge their mistakes.
my friend used to mask fish too, she would never take it off during lunch either when we all took it off, she once sent a pic of her but it was heavily filtered, she said it wasn't so I believed but the year we entered highschool mask wasn't required and I saw how she actually looked, really different. But I still love her she is my BFF and she never criticized anyone she probably was insecure
ever since covid started and everyone had to wear a mask i was kind of uncomfortable with it but i would never take it off up until i got to the point where i was super comfortable in not taking it off i started seeing everyone slowly take off their mask while i still had mine on made me even more insecure than i was before and people starting pressuring me into taking it off but i would never. next year i’m planning to take it off since NOBODY is gonna be wearing them and i’m SO scared cause i know how bad my school is in judging people
okay girl this happened to me but let me tell you it’s NOT THAT BAD! I went a whole semester NEVER taking my mask off, hell I even stopped eating at school so I wouldn’t have a reason to take it off! I would hide from my own friends to go and eat or have a mask break! I felt so so unsure, but once we returned from winter break I knew my school was gonna drop the mask rules completely so grabbed the courage and it was on Valentine’s Day that I finally took it off completely. I can’t stand masks now which is so ironic! I was insecure about my skin but ALWAYS using the mask throughout the whole day without breakers (I live in a very hot place too) only made it worse! My advice is to get ready as much as you can the day you actually take it off and set your mindset around the phrase “nobody cares”. Literally nobody cares as they’re doing their own thing and in less than you expect people will be completely used to your look and not mention anything anymore!
@@kaydollar2490 omgg I did the same thing I never eat lunch at school or eat around people even during field trips. I did the whole track and field day in 30 degree weather without taking my mask off and skipped swimming and canoeing with my class because I didn’t want to show my face. Unfortunately tho I’m still going to keep my mask on because I also have social anxiety and a mask makes me feel like there’s a barrier between myself and my classmates.
The one with the red hair has such a punchable face 😂 and the girls with black hair are too nice, no one would be friends with someone that’s toxic and keeps belittling you. But I’m glad Hena kept defending Yoonseo. That’s good friendship
@@SkyMika.“force” is a strong word here lmao, in the beginning she could’ve just said no and that’s she’s comfortable with mask, I bet they’ve let her alone. Instead she belittled her friend, called her pig and really thought that her friend deserves less than her. It’s not giving back what they served, it’s just insecurity and jealousy lol
u realise the one w the red hair is still a person right?? she's also just an actor. u completely missed the message and now youre making fun of the red hair girl. disgusting.
Look even I STILL wear a mask today because I’m highly insecure about my acne, the size of my nose, the shape of my face. An I know a mask doesn’t necessarily help my skin condition but I have a huge complex about it due to my past of people saying really hurtful an mean things. They assume I’m pretty, but the story is different. I’m so deathly afraid of going out without my mask. I know it’s become a bit unhealthy, but I will not go to a convenience store or school without it. Too many people stare and I feel judged. But regardless of my insecurities, I’m my friends greatest cheerleaders! My insecurities are my own and nobody else’s. I love making people feel beautiful and special in their own skin because feeling insecure really sucks. An if I can help one person feel a little less insecure, I’ll take my bearings ❤😊
Korean culture sure is unique lol. Completely and utterly superficial obsession with the way one looks, and then being so passive aggressive on top of it.
I was at korea and was said to look pretty and was given free food sometimes, but i had a mask on then so it didnt really make me feel happy nor pretty, so i can relate to the mask fishing, and its good to not be too aggressive when saying your mask fishing, or forcing people to show their faces constantly when wearing a mask
her friends are too nice, me personally, i wouldn't have said a word to her ever again. life is too short to be dealing with people like that, im not gonna teach you the respect your mother and father should've taught you already bye
