You really are lucky he stuck around. Men need to learn to leave women in the dust who keep mistreating them. Taking some accountability for something you were wrong about goes a long way and I applaud you for that.
Here is the ONE element that, we the people Forget, our marriage vows! I've been married for going on 35 years now come November 5th. It is the third for us both. In her first two marriages, the guy number one they had 14 years of marriage but he was a cheaper, the number two guy was irresponsible, he married her then left her with his son, for five months marriage then divorced her. I am a solid man responsible caring, and honest. You would think that all these qualities would change things, no way. The damage done from her childhood into both marriages piled up more damage; therapy is needed. Emasculation the whole time! The marriage vows mean something to me, till death do us part, for better or worse, for richer or poor. Godly Love is the answer to all things! Right now, she moved out thirty days ago, but I am still here for her to the end! Positive mindset! Vietnam War veteran with PTSD, so I do have my limits, but I will not let the circumstances, take control of me.
She emasculated me for nearly 35 years, but when she could not control me, she left thirty days ago, saying, "I did not leave you, but I am on vacation." Emasculation is a behavior learned from her childhood, her mom did it to her dad, and she watched it for 18 years.
You have been abandoned. Speak with a divorce lawyer immediately, do everything you can to protect yourself and start the divorce process. She does not need to hear about it until papers are served to her. She made her bed let her sleep in it.
Why didn't Pastors or Teachers or Rabies, or Shrinks teach all kids at like 11 years old about female and male nature? By the time we were 20, we could have made informed decisions on whether we wanted to be married or not. I was married for 35 years too. She left with no fighting at all. We just had a lack of knowledge that we are sharing with the kids that are coming up now, but it's way too late for us. I know some of this is getting out because men do not write love songs to or for women at all anymore. It still should be taught to all kids as a parenting thing. Well, I have to admit, I didn't know, so I could not teach, so I guess this is generation one.
“Women congratulating each other for treating men badly”, it’s such eye-rolling bullshit that more women don’t acknowledge this happening. When people find men who do this, the men are generally treated as assholes. Thanks so much for saying this.
You say it doesn't take much for a man to happy in a marriage. Affection, respect, kindness gratitude, and appreciation are among the top 5. This is true. Then WHY is it so difficult , after all this time, for women to realize this? Instead they ignore it , then continue to pour gasoline on the fire. I'm 60 and have seen endless amounts of women magazines, talk shows, and books talk about women and relationships , yet here we are and women just don't get it.
Because women only care about themselves. They do not care about men these days because we created a society so good and so civilized and so safe that they think they no longer need us. Why care about something you don't really need.
It is one thing to not be aware of it, but I think the women who blatantly ignore these very simple things were never in it to see their husband happy in the first place.
They do realise it, they’re not unaware, they just choose to be wicked and evil in this modern era. This stuff is spiritual, it stems back to the garden of Eden, Eve and the snake in cohesion vs Adam.
That is such great advice... "a beer, a sandwich, and a little lovin'". I would have to say that in the last seven or eight years of my marriage, I did not get one of those things. At some point I think a wife who mistreats her husband like that eventually truly hates him for putting up with her abuse. You can say that a man should leave when he is mistreated but it is a radically different situation when you have children you love and do not want to leave them. My divorce was sane by most standards, still, when I calculated the time I eventually ended up spending with them after the separation, it was less than 5%. You can make any arrangements you like but the reality is kids want to be with their friends on the weekend and teenagers even more so. For so many women to deny good men they have divorced from being an integral part of their children's lives is cruel and really tells you something about fundamental female nature.
I have 12.5 hours per week with my 5 children. Any time one of my children wants to spend more time with me, my wife cuts more time off that we could have together because in her words the kids need to be "transitioned" back to their routine (what she means to say is, interrogated about their time with me). This lady is so spot on! I wish more women could see what they are doing to men in their lives and themselves! But they can't! They have to be in control of everything, which will destroy everything!
Im so blessed to have female friends that are committed to being better wives and mothers. We all get together to let our kids play and end up talking about our relationships and marriages and how we can be better and what things we're doing that arent helping. We vent but also call ourselves out on bad behavior. I absolutely love and respect my husband so much and the thought of being a stressor in his life makes me anxious. I just want him to feel as amazing and he makes me feel
Good to see you here again! Can I ask you a question? You're a good woman and I'd really value your opinion. I don't have any good women around me that I can ask without gaslighting me. I'm sorry if this is too much. She makes a point in another one of her videos that ALL women emasculate men to varying degrees, which is emotional abuse. I agree with that. Why should we as men interact with women at all? Really curious about this lately and have been struggling with it a lot. Women are constantly told to leave men even at the perceived notion of a hint of abuse, even if it's not factually true and perceived differently emotionally. Men are told to be strong in spite of it. Can you imagine if we told women the same? "Hey, we know your husband physically beats you. It just makes you stronger though. Eventually you'll get strong enough to continue taking punches to the face and it wont bruise you." You can imagine how well that would go. How is this not another form of collective gaslighting? I don't think most people have that level of awareness honestly. Probably not even myself sometimes. I understand that there's varying degrees; Meaning you could develop strength as a man coupled with a good woman who doesn't do it as severely or as often, but it's still abuse right? It doesn't mean it hurts any less. I'm really at the point where I question the entirety of it. The idea of a committed relationship and a family appeals to me, but in the end, there will always be abuse in some form or another, and I'm the one expected to just continue taking it? Call it out. Be strong. Hope for the best. You can't change her though ultimately. Why bother getting involved at all? I don't want to be abused.
@Chrono826 because people drank the feminist kool-aid. I feel as though so many women get a pads and yet we supposedly live in a patriarchy? I think not. And I think, even in the best relationships, we have bad judgements but they should be learned from and not continued. I think genuinely good people mess up but when they realize that, they want to fix it. I don't think all is lost, my friend and I have faith for you. The best thing you can do is always strive for betterment. That's what struck me so much about my husband and what continues to make me want to be better, as well
@@Chrono826 "Why should we as men interact with women at all?" The answer is really simple.. Do you want to be alone and not have a family? Then don't. But if you rather try to build a family, that's the reason why we should interact with women. Also, if you adopt and become a single father, it's not the same as being a complete family with a masculine and a femenine role model. So the best and optimal outcome would be to have a family with both parents that are happy and have a good, healthy relationship. Is that easy to achieve? Not at all.. But I believe that's the answer to your question.
At 20:10 you made the point about women being fed the myth that their unhealthy behaviors were actually due to them being complex creatures really opened my eyes. Thank you for sharing!
I'd like to throw another 'emasculating behavior' out there that doesn't get much air time - responsibility with the resources provided. In my 20 year marriage that went belly up, there was never 'enough'. She wanted frequent vacations / concerts / fun times, and I wanted out of debt and a cushion so that I could actually relax into and enjoy the fun times without thinking of how many months of work it would take to pay it off. Lesson learned - not doing a shared bank account again.
Exactly, when nothing you ever do is good enough, it is very disheartening. The age old conundrum, "He doesn't make enough", coupled with "he is always at work, and when he is home, he just sits around". Meanwhile, she stays at home with the kids. Wouldn't it be nice to trade places for awhile?
Never enough.... never enough.... never enough..... it's never enough for them. Just this morning, Valentines day, I was on my phone planning the day and I cleaned up after breakfast. Then my wife came out and complained that the bedroom wasn't clean enough for her standards. Then she complained I wasn't ready. Then we didn't do my plan, or her plan. She threw a fit when I called her out for her bad behavior and got mad at me for wanting an apology. I'm not perfect. I am a jerk sometimes. But she is evil.
Withholding sex is the equivalent of a man withholding safety in a relationship. What would happen to a relationship dynamic if a man was yelling, punching holes in walls or punching the woman?
It's the equivalent of withholding provision in a traditional relationship. You have a headache tonight, again? Well you can sleep that headache off outside the house then.
This is so powerful. I certainly made mistakes in my previous relationship as did she. Except she took zero responsibility and is still blaming me for everything
I’m glad I found this if my girlfriend takes this and really listen and applies it to herself you possibly just saved a relationship I appreciate you have this information out here to help women navigate themselves and also help men understand and navigate themselves in relationships
It’s nice to know that there is a genuine understanding of what is going on in society today between relationships. You display a deep understanding of men and relationship dynamics and articulate it in such a way that everyone can understand which, sadly and surprisingly, is far too rare
Again, I love the goal. However when you stated that we (women) can are not limited is because of the women before us the took up feminist stand. I agree that its getting out of hand and so appreciate your stance. I can only guess you will get more back lash than support so let me applaud you.
My wife did all this so much. She was contantly (very loudly) demanding i would share my feelings with her. And then i finaly did... it turned out as well as you would expect
I am a french/italian Doctor of 66 years old. And I agree with all the previous comments. I only can add this: merci beaucoup chère Madame. You are a great minded person.
I was in a relationship 13 years ago with somebody that I shared a classroom with an high school, she found me through Facebook and I thought that maybe this could work out since we already knew each other. Not even 3 weeks in a relationship she got real comfortable and showed her true colors especially with her alcohol issues. I had to deal with that everyday 2 months, every time she drinks she acts like there's a different persona that I have to deal with and she would act like she can't remember a thing the next day knowing full well she was in control of her whole attitude and habit. I don't drink I don't smoke I never did a drug in my life and to deal with somebody like her cause me to have PTSD or should I say just be fearful of thinking about being in a relationship with somebody again and I understand that not all women are the same, but for what I see nowadays it is not looking too good for women as far as dating and relationships and especially marriage
You had an experience with a toxic person. I did, too. Is it fair to treat an entire gender like they are not good because the spouse I chose wasn’t good? I feel like this is happening in both sides. People have bad experiences and then decide it’s all of that gender. Or they get caught up in listening to the stories of others and they make generalizations based on that. I gave 18 years to a man who was unhealthy and unwilling to get better. I chose him even though I was given enough red flags to know better. I lead with my feelings not with logic and it wasn’t sustainable. However, I can’t say I wouldn’t try again. I’d chose differently. And hopefully if my ex ever remarried wife number three (I was wife number two), it works out for them.
@@kschuhmeier-ortega9899I see you live in the comment section here and enjoy gaslighting men is search of answers by redirecting the topic from WOMEN’S TOXIC BEHAVIORS to well all people are like this. Sorry luv. These tactics are uniquely female and if you can’t handle hearing that then YOU are the women she is talking about. Thanks again for providing accountability is kryptonite to unhealthy women. 💯
Thank you do much for all that you do. Yours is a much needed voice in today’s backward world. I will offer what I believe is an important correction here… Dr. Laura said that the three things needed for the proper care and feeding of husbands are, “Respect, good food, and lots of lovin’.” Not, “a beer, a sandwich, and a little lovin’.”
7:23 Can you please talk about HOW you were "called out" on your toxic femininity and by whom? It would be enormously helpful for men who find themselves in a relationship where their female partner acts the way you described and who want to work it out instead of just leaving. Was it your husband? A therapist? I've found personally that often I can shout from the rooftops something to my partner and she won't hear it until her therapist says the exact same thing. There may be men out there now who desperately need their partner to be called out *and to actually hear it with an open mind*, so any help on getting there would be really awesome to hear and could even make a great video subject.
9:40 It's important to get that right. Men are not simple. Men want simple things from a relationship with women. Men create art, literature, music, science, philosophy and complex infrastructure in great quantity and quality. This is not simple at all.
@samuelbrooks1096 who are you to determine what an issue is for anyone besides yourself. If he sees it's an issue, it iscan issue for him. What is WRONG with that? This is the root of all BS between ppl now, they only care about what they care about and as soon as they disagree with a person on something, instead of letting the person have it, you have to tell them how they should feel instead of letting them feel it just because you disagree
As a man I can say, you’ve missed one key point. We also want peace, so it’s sex, sandwiches, and silence. You’re not the Sun. You are the moon, for it contains feminine energy. A man is the Sun. A woman is the moon. Yin-Yang. Counterbalance.
Why do you equate silence with peace? I don't want a silent woman. I enjoy a peaceful woman who is intelligent enough to have complex conversations or whom I can learn things from. The problem is that the peacefulness expires with familiarity; then she speaks more as I speak less, and her speech centers around her contempt towards me.
I do tend to get emotional and I can see that I need to develop high emotional intelligence. I hope to see your video on that. Thus far, after watching 5 of your videos, I do see areas where I need to change and improve regardless of whether my husband changes. Thank you.
Are there toxic behaviors that are masculine? Yes. Are there toxic behaviors that are feminine? Yes. I don't use the term "toxic masculinity" because 1) it's a term that's used almost exclusively by feminists, and I completely disagree with the feminist narrative and with feminism in general, and 2) because it's a term that's typically used to describe male behavior in GENERAL instead of calling out and critiquing SPECIFIC behaviors. That makes the term too vague to be useful, as well as excessively adversarial and accusatory, which serves to drive a wedge between the sexes. That's why I personally don't use the term "toxic femininity" either. Instead, I call out SPECIFIC feminine behaviors for criticism and explain why they're toxic. I do the same thing when I see toxic male behavior, but let's face it...most people are already very aware of which male behaviors are toxic, and they don't need to have it pointed out or explained to them.
This is my first day seeing your content. 53 year old white male married 28 yrs. On the brink of divorce at the moment. We're going to attempt to show your content to my wife tonight. We'll see what comes of it. But thank you either way.❤
@@jonodonnell9926 I'm sorry to hear that. I wish you the best. ... make sure you get as much sleep as possible. And water. I just turned 50 and I'm in similar circumstances (to some degree, I suppose).
I can read that love and kindness in those beautiful eyes... Thanks for the great work. Young men and women are in need of that kind of light you're providing. Who breeds hate in young men against women? Theirs feminists mothersm...or the lucking...father...! So please keep up. Much Love and blessings
Grateful to find your channel! I am eager to all you have published to help further my understanding of what defines a healthy relationship between men and women. Thank you!
"Emasculation: The destruction of a man's essential masculine nature to make him WEAK and impotent. So that WE can have the CONTROL." There it is. This is great content honestly. Thank you for these definitions! It's about the control. What are your beliefs about women in positions of leadership or power? Isn't this emasculating on a societal level? If this definition is taken to it's logical conclusion, on a macrocosm of society, then women should not have power. Women shouldn't be able to vote or own property. Basically we should go backwards in time. Doing this by definition is emasculating men on a collective societal level. I am NOT saying I agree with this extreme, what I am saying is this definition logically follows on more than just an individual level, and I find that absolutely fascinating. Would love to hear your thoughts on it. If emasculation is emotional abuse, and emasculation is women taking control from men, then to what extent SHOULD women have control in the wider society?
That is not what she is saying in the slightest. Rights and privileges that every person should have are not up for debate. Women AND men should be able to vote, hold positions of power, etc... those are rights and freedoms of people. Those are not part of romantic relationships, so they don't belong in the conversation. She is only talking about the feeling of power in a relationship. Power isn't a position. It is a feeling. The marriage ought to be a team, not one versus the other in some power struggle for dominance.
Ma'am - you are a treasure to the llstener who has lived life not knowing what to do when the "wheels" literally fell off of our relationship - what a blessing you are to us wanderers through life that find ourselves struggling with our own sanity for short periods not knowing which way to turn, or how to "fix" the problems.
Thank you for this channel and thank you for validating my experiences as a DA survivor. May I tell you, I'm relieved I'm not the only one who searched for the definition of toxic femininity and thought "that's just plain wrong". People who don't know (or aren't willing to admit it to themselves) have no idea.
This was a great video! Karyn you hit a ton of nails on the head and I’m learning a lot about my past behavior. I didn’t have the vocabulary to express what I was doing to my husband until now. Thank you for shedding light on the behavior that causes marriages to breakdown and sometimes ending up in divorce.
I appreciate you sharing your thoughts. This is offensive to me because I don’t abuse my wife. I work, sacrifice, and do everything so that my wife is free, happy, safe, and free to choose to work if she desires.
Preciate the video. The "men's happiness is simple" myth has to go. Its another way a woman can mentally position herself above a man so she can the deflect the reality that she is not in control of his happiness. A man happiness is not a chore for her to check off a list. Got beer? Check. Sexy time? Check. You should challenge yourself to think about this differently. Men have the gift of singularity. We were made with the ability to focus, even hyper focus on one subject. We find something we like and drill down on it until we know everything about it. Our happiness is clear-cut, direct. The more a man is supported in his efforts to find his mission of focus, the happier he'll be.
The amount of scapegoating women do with toxic feminism is INSANE. that 1st little piece you read basically shook off all responsibility and accountability for womens actions, words, thoughts, emotions, and any other thing thatbrequires personal accountability. Then they pin in on MEN?! It is truly sickening.
Tremendously helpful and informative. ❤ incredible vulnerability and honesty, but above all, you have an gift for explaining such and important and delicate topic with humbling grace. Thank you.
Omg...thank you tictok for leading me to you. You have touched on so many issues going on in my own life in just one video. I've never heard such wisdom in this topic. This feels like you're taking directly about my situation. Thank you for your words...
I don’t believe in happy wife and happy life, because now you’re depending on someone else for your happiness. If she’s not respectful, well “BYE”. This is the first time all my years have I have heard the woman is the sun and man is the earth, when I have the reverse. One thing about it is by nature, you’re not more aggressive than me, so trying that is a lose lose.. and I been told that my voice can carry. I showed this unintentionally by getting my boys attention one day by yelling and caught everyone off guard. So when you get aggressive and yell at me and especially at my boys, I look at that as a threat..because if a man does that it’s going to the next level. That’s what this feminism is dangerous towards men. That’s why me and my kids’ mother are not together now. My mother told her she couldn’t even tame this bull and my grandmother told her, “he doesn’t mess with anyone, but he’s not go let anyone mess with him tho”
The title says “does this destroy marriages?” IT CERTAINLY DOES. I say this after spending literally over thousand hours of research on this. I already have a degree in pysc, but my recent studies of marriage behavior problems only have furthered my suspicions I had about this 6 years ago. I watched in horror as my wife transform fairly quickly once she adopted this sick sick sick woke movement , which includes modern feminism philosophy and it destroys marriages. Indeed at its core it opposes marriage to begin with, so how else could it be that this movement is a major contributor to marriage destruction? It saddened me to such a degree that major depression set in which I battled for several long years and I still struggle with remnants of it even today, as my wife has still not fully woken up to this trash. This is having serious and negative impacts on our society today, and we haven’t seen the full effects of it either……. That’s still another 15-30 years out into the future. You wanted a transformed nation? Well WE are all gonna get that like it or not now. Course has been set. Hold on .
The issue isn't that women to share their partner's vulnerability vs. have a "knight in shining armor." The issue is that being with a man who is vulnerable places responsibility on the woman to (A) Never use that vulnerability against him in the relationship, and (B) Defend those vulnerabilities to the public (i.e. have his back). A man who chooses to include his partner in the list of the select few people he shares his vulnerability with does not eliminate his ability to defend her. He just needs to recognize when she NEEDS him to project strength for her and respond appropriately. The bottom line is that when a woman is feeling insecure is the one time when her partner must project strength and security, especially if he is not feeling strong or secure.
It seems my soon to be ex wife was doing it all on purpose. After all these years of trying to get through to her and holding our marriage together alone. 22 year marrisge ending early in 2024 by my hand. I won’t put up with it anymore.
I have just found this channel and am watching all the videos in the order they were posted. I agree with everything I have heard so far. I am a female who is at fault in most of the ways she talks about, but I am trying to change to save my marriage. It seems really funny/strange to me that this is the Happy WIFE School but most of the commenters are men. Why is that?
Hi Karen - I just recently found your channel and have found so much valuable information here, thank you! I have watched a number of your videos now, but so far I think this single one covers the broadest swath of core issues and may be your single best! Obviously we all look at these things thru the lens our own experience, but thank you! Please keep up this invaluable work!!
Thanks for your honesty glad to be welcome here as a man however Im sure all us men really wish our women were the ones interested in hearing you. We already know what women do, we're just surprised and elated to hear a woman tell us the truth that we already know. Its refreshing to hear the truth because as you know women are Masters at Gaslighting. I think it pisses my wife off even more when I understand her better than she does herself, but of course won't listen. To her credit in the past she has sometimes admitted that I was right after 3 or 4 days of stewing about it. Unfortunately menopause stepped in and its all gotten way worse.
I've just started watching your videos and you have lots of great things to say. This is the first one that makes me think...hmmm I wonder what views might change for you once you're in menopause and after 20+ years in a relationship. We're still going strong, so I'm here just for tidbits to make things even better. My critique with this one is the stereotyping of women being the emotional ones, not men. And that sometimes emasculational happens from family to young boys/men, tis not always the wife. My role is to lift him up and support him no matter what and to love him always. I do wish he wouldn't leave his dirty socks around the living room, but I'll deal in exchange for that damn good coffee he makes for me in the morning!
I'm so glad we are starting to see women take accountability for themselves! We can only change ourselves and if we stay victims all the time we can never change.
The problem lies within the terminology itself: _"Toxic Femininity"_ (like for _"Toxic Masculinity")_ implies that there is _SOME_ aspect of _Femininity_ that is somehow inherently _"toxic"._ I much prefer the expression _"Female Toxicity",_ wherein females display _"toxic behavior"._ On the other side, there can be _"Male Toxicity",_ wherein males display _"toxic behavior"._ Cruelty, narcissism, selfishness, vindictiveness, etc. are all _"toxic behaviors",_ but manifest themselves differently for men and for women because of our unique gendered (or evolutionary) perspectives and attributes. Unfortunately, the built-in self-centeredness, lack of accountability and victimhood mentality innate to modern _Feminism_ philosophy naturally lends itself to the idea that _ALL_ gendered behavior (meaning _"masculinity" OR "femininity)_ is _INHERENTLY "toxic", BY DEFINTION._ I believe it is the (understandable) fear of _EXPLOITATION_ of women's _INNATE "Femininity"_ by _"toxic men"_ that has led us to this place, and is now producing the counterpart fear of _EXPLOITATION_ of men's _INNATE "Masculinity"_ by _"toxic women",_ leading to _"Incels"_ and _"MGTOWs"._
The best way to deal with toxic people is keep it only at a phone relationship bc its just easier to hang up on them and they are under control. Otherwise just move on. But trust me the phone method works!
As a “ TOXIC MASCULINITY “ Guy and Obviously Apparently NOT VERY GOOD in Relationships the last GO ROUND- Try , Try as I might ? ! - FINISHED ME OFF ! 😳
What I don't get, is why you women would rather make a choice of misery for life instead of peace and happiness?? Like why so stubborn just to be miserable? Like it just sounds pure evil, especially for a guy who all he ever wanted is to be treated nicely by the world. Can't even get that from the wife??
It won’t be long before you get cancelled by the very culture that you speak about. Enjoy it while it lasts. I like your message, doubt the accountability will set in but we can hope
As men, this clip ripped me apart! I barely can find my voice and get myself back to normal. 😔 Not sure how to be more patient, supportive and understanding. I am so shocked and sad how I got into this.
@@betsydoodle9258 don’t worry oldie, I got someone that provides it, all set. You should make sure you are not the “buy a cat or a dog and box of wine and die alone” type.
THAT DEFINITION OF TOXIC FEMININITY WAS SHOCKING! So, simply appreciating actual beautiful femininity is…bad. It’s “toxic” to be feminine. It’s better, I suppose, to be manly. Isn’t _THAT_ an anti-woman message?
It's interesting how some of the toxic femininity traits resemble projection and gaslighting which is often used by cluster B personalities. I agree with and commend your mission to spread awareness. I think both men and women, both in dating and relationships as well as all interpersonal relationships would greatly benefit from introspection of one's own behaviors. I suggest everyone should read "Attached" by Amir Levine and "Psycho-Cybernetics" by Maxwell Maltz, the key is to allow yourself to separate from your ego and be aware of when your own ego is becoming toxic both inwardly and projected outwardly. Ask your inner self, the inner child questions without judgement, be aware of echo chambers of consumed media, family, friend groups and coworkers. It takes a bit of practice and it really helps illuminate emotional inner wounding you didn't even realize you had, then the beauty is, you can begin to see, validate your wounds, and take steps to repair them. This is equally important for men and women to thrive in all relationships. Thank you for your videos Karen
Patriarchy is the husband being the sun and his family revolves around him, leading, directing, providing and protecting! We are their helpers, according to Scripture!
I'm not sure I've ever met or been in a relationship with a woman like what she's describing. I would give almost anything for someone like that. I don't agree with absolutely all of it, as I am more complex than what she describes most men as. Are any of you ladies that watch her videos really hearing and doing these things? I'm now 63 and have spent the last 43 years working on myself and my issues. I am also a Christian man and believe that having God as a resource is also a big part of this. Ladies, where are you? I've been on multiple dating sites (good ones, not pick up versions), gone to several church singles groups, Meetup groups, and so on. I believe that Feminism has ruined many women in this country. Anyway, Karen has this nailed and she has the courage to put it out there in this culture of victimhood and wokeness. Kudos to her for that!
All men go on strike!! Stop working and the world will shut down. When alimony and divorce laws are revised in every state, we shall return to work. And pay no alimony or child support ever again!! We already experience parental alienation! Live in an RV until things are reconciled!! You go girl!!
Good morning, Im a subsriber who gets a lot out of your videos. I would like my wife to watch your videos and learn emotional intelligence. Do you have a video you made that can break her in without offending or where she wont feel critized?
All of these videos are for women. Just show her the video and get the ball rolling. Sometimes the truth hurts. You never know what the spark is going to be that might get them to have the awakening that this woman did. It might not work out but you won't know until you try.
It sounds like you’re saying unforgiveness towards men is what makes us so toxic. You’re saying walls, but I’m hearing unforgiveness. lol The Bible has a lot to say about that and how damaging it is. The New Testament says that when we refuse to forgive, God sends tormentors (demons) to afflict us in our hard heartedness. It’s a spiritual reaction. Matthew 18:34
Well I'm going to do some pushing back on this 'Happy Wife happy life' mantra. When it comes to a marriage or any relationship, it's not all about that one person and making sure they are happy. In fact, happiness should really come from within. Don't place all the responsibility of your happiness on the other person. That's self centered and narcissistic. Sorry, but this silly idea that the man is the earth and woman is the sun is simply ridiculous.
Mother Nature loves babies and she’s amoral. Just like she prepares women monthly to conceive, she also prepares men psychologically and has way to punish men if they don’t do want she wants.
Men help videos: You are the problem, not Women... Women help videos: You are the problem, not Men. Hmmmmm... common theme here is ACCOUNTABILITY as HUMAN BEINGS. I think when we do videos or messages just for Women or just for Men we miss the entire picture and while somewhat helpful, it creates more divisiveness. I could be wrong. Just brainstorming outloud and would love to hear other's thoughts on this.
Good for you. When I do videos for women, it is important they take 100% accountability for the choices that create their experience. When I do videos for men, it is important they also take 100% accountability for the choices that create their experience. In marriages with good men, it is much easier for a woman to become happy in herself and outgrow her emasculating ways because then her husband will show up above and beyond.
