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For 500 years, Transylvania’s Gábor people have held onto their values and rituals. This film explores the insular world of the Gábor Roma, and asks whether they can maintain their traditional lives in a globalized world.
The Romanian village of Karácsonyfalva is the center of the Gábor Roma community. More than 1,000 Gábor live there. The men wear large black hats, the women long skirts. The men travel all over Europe as traders, while the women raise the children. Most Gábor belong to the Adventist denomination. Many only learned to read in order to study the Bible. Abstaining from pork and above all from alcohol and tobacco makes them targets of curiosity. Considered aristocratic among the Roma people, the Gábor have their own laws in all areas of life. Problems are solved within the community; in cases of conflict, even the police turn to the community leaders. Their biggest and most important celebration is the wedding, the foundation of their society. Gábor marry exclusively among themselves. For this reason, girls are removed from school at age 11 and married at 14. Boys move from organized education to the "school of life" at 14. This documentary follows the marriage of 14-year-old Mundra to 16-year-old Bobbi, while giving a portrait of their families and the wider community. For the first time, they share an insight into their exciting, colorful, contradictory and insular world, in which wealth and poverty collide. This is a tight-knit community, one caught between tradition and the pressures of modernity.
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Комментарии : 8 тыс.   
@soolly357
@soolly357 2 года назад
It's amazing to see the contrasting difference at the end. The wealthy family wants to keep tradition the same while the poor families see a way out of poverty through education
@Fakhrealammm
@Fakhrealammm 2 года назад
This is how the rich remain rich.
@finallythere100
@finallythere100 2 года назад
But I like the poor family's house better!
@mumufeeder
@mumufeeder 2 года назад
Well why would they want change? Change is always facilitated by poor and marginalised people because they're literally dying because of the status quo.
@sherrylawrencelewis2544
@sherrylawrencelewis2544 2 года назад
When you have money and are rich why change things?
@gaslitworldf.melissab2897
@gaslitworldf.melissab2897 2 года назад
Typically, it's the opposite. Wealth generates worldliness (through exposure) and lack of wealth shelters and keeps people thinking insular. Interesting development.
@LauraLegends
@LauraLegends 3 года назад
10 seconds in and I’m impressed by the snapping
@danielebruno1531
@danielebruno1531 3 года назад
I liked the snapping very much so lol
@Hi_i_am_cindy
@Hi_i_am_cindy 3 года назад
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@caroll6541
@caroll6541 3 года назад
the what??
@amandabrank4652
@amandabrank4652 3 года назад
V
@pawanjoshi2505
@pawanjoshi2505 3 года назад
Lmao this comment 😂
@cagedREmix
@cagedREmix 3 года назад
"Employment is viewed as servitude and a breach of Gabor tradition." I have found my long lost people.
@gabiv100
@gabiv100 3 года назад
It doesn't mean they don't work, they probably refer to work where you have to bend your back and they seem kinda chubby for it. I concur, after adding some 20 pounds in the last year.
@aq3395
@aq3395 3 года назад
😂
@carolina2158
@carolina2158 3 года назад
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@shahee6579
@shahee6579 3 года назад
@@gabiv100 what does that mean ?
@gabiv100
@gabiv100 3 года назад
@@shahee6579 that I put on 20 pounds? Hard to bend, to get the socks on.
@dominikdworak130
@dominikdworak130 3 года назад
People: Money can't bring you happiness Gábor: Hold my gold bar
@FighterFlash
@FighterFlash 3 года назад
Perchik: Money is the world's curse. Tevye: May the Lord smite me with it. And may I never recover.
@democracyforall
@democracyforall 3 года назад
The video maker makes so much of education, tell that to my university friends- from electrical Engineering with degrees. All are unemployed and works as labourers and shop keepers and drivers. But those who study the humble building profession are earning big money. I was unemployed and for nearly ten years and doing stupid jobs despite I had 69% in Electrical and Electronic Engineering. Then went into plumbing etc and now I earn 55000 pounds a year.
@Perririri
@Perririri 2 года назад
Normie
@Sarah.Riedel
@Sarah.Riedel 3 года назад
This is the most chaotic wedding I have ever seen in my life lol
@riah8600
@riah8600 3 года назад
On TLC you can watch " gypsy wedding ". Same thing.
@arshinur8942
@arshinur8942 3 года назад
You should see a Bangladeshi wadding
@mrbatman4robin
@mrbatman4robin 3 года назад
@beentheredonethat Indeed. They mention India several times in the documentary.
@CherryPi314
@CherryPi314 3 года назад
AGREED! Hahah, cackling hens abound! So loud! What a riot, I didn’t know where to look!!!!
@Sarah.Riedel
@Sarah.Riedel 3 года назад
@StarryPluto idk where's your degree from lol
@notafailure2138
@notafailure2138 3 года назад
Mans literally build a whole ass mansion because he was depressed due to his father's death. How do I learn his ways ?
@anojnakarmi7398
@anojnakarmi7398 3 года назад
May be he buys expensive cars and jewelleries when he's sad..lol.
@GSPDUKE
@GSPDUKE 3 года назад
You find Jesus Christ in your life, but realize that's difficult for you, as you think your Leroy Brown.
@MrGadinck
@MrGadinck 3 года назад
Such a smart way to Mourn!
@GSPDUKE
@GSPDUKE 3 года назад
@Reality Tube Hey, it is a Federal Crime to use the CIA Banner on any site unless you are on official CIA Business. A lot of patriots or Officers have died in action. I suggest you pull it Grasshopper.
@outlawJosieFox
@outlawJosieFox 3 года назад
Ancient patriachal order. You need to be born into this level of old fashioned bs.
@teddy98100
@teddy98100 Год назад
I am from Romania and I knew one of those guys, I think he appears in this video at the church scene. He was the father of a friend of mine growing up. The kid was very smart, but dropped out of school after the elementary because his father said that that's enough. They used to make rain drains for roofs and that was what their family has done for generations. I ran into him last year I think and he now has a construction company doing the same thing but on a bigger scale and and kids even though he is just 23. They grow up faster. One thing I always appreciated is their sens of family, even though they were nomadic and moved from region to region to find business, their elder was always in charge and they all respected him.
@notimefornonsense722
@notimefornonsense722 Год назад
Bine că macar ai lucruri bune de dpus despre ei. Multi nu ii suporta deloc
@SolomonSunder
@SolomonSunder 3 месяца назад
Some Indian communities where the Romas come from have a similar mentality. They would try to run a business and most boys drop off after having learnt to read and write. However, they can be exclusivists and this causes problems with the locals in Mumbai etc.
@annakapuscinska3786
@annakapuscinska3786 2 месяца назад
Oni są jedną z niewielu narodowości gdzie zachowane są silne więzy rodzinne, kultura i tradycja, zobacz tylko na kraje Zachodu...
@TingTingalingy
@TingTingalingy 2 месяца назад
It's normal to have a family by 23 in even USA. It's plenty old enough
@Merky-ace22
@Merky-ace22 2 месяца назад
@@SolomonSunder all roma are indians emigrated from southern india since hundreds of years, they are all over world now, even in america
@linnyhajnalka4393
@linnyhajnalka4393 2 месяца назад
I am Hungarian, and I love the fact that I can understand what they're saying without the English translation .
@malikamasimova7631
@malikamasimova7631 3 года назад
Sushku - the girl who studies, I hope she achieves everything she dreams of.
@Zodroo_Tint
@Zodroo_Tint 3 года назад
No you don't. You are shallow. Stop acting like you are superior. There are very few people achieve everything he/she dream of. (You probably care about only the womans.) In this world you only can achieve everything if you only care about yourself. If you care about others or you want to make the world better you will fail.
@idek7438
@idek7438 3 года назад
@@Zodroo_Tint Who hurt you man
@鹤绒
@鹤绒 3 года назад
@@idek7438 probably failed their dream because they used to "care" about others lol
@terintiaflavius3349
@terintiaflavius3349 3 года назад
@@Zodroo_Tint I think your understanding of what shallow is has been limited by core education. I do not blame you, I blame your parents. It is by dreaming that humanity went from homeless hunters to farms to civilization
@nullinvoid1415
@nullinvoid1415 3 года назад
Seriously, and gtfo out there
@flenard4697
@flenard4697 3 года назад
A shame DW felt the need to censore what the man at 1:15 says. He says "We are Gabor Gypsies", not "We are the Gabor". Gabors are very proud to call themselves gypsies, I actually saw Gabors arguing that they are not to be called rroma, they are gypsies and proud of it, despite the EU rhetoric being that the term is racist. They indeed insist on doing things "their way", regardless of laws, social norms, or how it affects those around them etc. Oh, and for those wondering, Karacsonyfalva is Craciunesti in Romanian, it lies on the Niraj river valley (Nyaradmente) in Mures county. About 15-20 km by car from Targu Mures (depeding which side you approach it). Regarding what they deal with and how they make a living, most have indeed inherited valuable items hidden by their forefathers from the communist regime (maybe some of dubious origin), some are still copper workers (sell copper dishes at festivals and fairs for ex.), tinsmiths, roofers, some indeed travel western Europe and bring back items to resell (some items bought, some stolen, counterfeit, found in dumpsters throw away by western Europeans...nobody really knows), of course without legal forms (unregistered) and paying tax, so on paper they have no income and receive welfare. In Transylvania you can easily spot them due to their garments and their cars which most of the time have Hungarian, Polish and Lithuanian licence plates, for (to Romanians) obvious reasons ...
@Michizoechling
@Michizoechling 3 года назад
100% agree with all you said
@alexanderlouah
@alexanderlouah 3 года назад
Indeed!
@catherinemontblanc1430
@catherinemontblanc1430 3 года назад
Dodgy!
@pehash
@pehash 3 года назад
Truth
@ghiuleaalex2752
@ghiuleaalex2752 3 года назад
It's funny that the "documentary's" rhetoric is all about "oh how will their traditions survive globalization" when clearly their mentality of the people making this is a globalist one because purpousefuly avoid translating a term that western euope considers "problematic" or straight up racist.
@irisshalurhad7901
@irisshalurhad7901 3 года назад
His wife was like “ Stop telling all our business, I ain’t got to love you, I’m here aren’t I !”
@vandergrad
@vandergrad 3 года назад
Their conversation reminded me of the song "Do you love me?" from Fiddler on the Roof.
@angeliquecheung574
@angeliquecheung574 3 года назад
@@vandergrad YES!!! I was literally thinking that.
@FighterFlash
@FighterFlash 3 года назад
Do I love him? For twenty-five years I've lived with him Fought with him, starved with him Twenty-five years my bed is his If that's not love, what is? Then you love me? I suppose I do And I suppose I love you too It doesn't change a thing But even so After twenty-five years It's nice to know
@richyyLR
@richyyLR 3 года назад
Lmao she definitely wasn't in it for love
@blessingsofparadise4439
@blessingsofparadise4439 3 года назад
That's cute🤩🤩🤩🤩, LOL‼️‼️‼️❗❗❗❗
@elainex5666
@elainex5666 2 года назад
The way the mother in law treated her new daughter was beautiful 💜
@FriendlyCroock
@FriendlyCroock 2 года назад
This documentary should be shoved down the throats of all those geniuses in the west who still think that gypsies are just brown indians and they all came from india. "romani" is not a race or a skin color.
@vinros0120
@vinros0120 2 года назад
@@FriendlyCroock bro you are gypsy?
@cheetoclips1904
@cheetoclips1904 2 года назад
@@FriendlyCroock k
@SarahWanjiru-1
@SarahWanjiru-1 2 года назад
Elaine X, It really warmed my heart ❤️
@MrBoredcertified
@MrBoredcertified 2 года назад
Agreed
@toi6158
@toi6158 3 года назад
The guilded bedroom set is sending me over....And here I am, sleeping on an IKEA platform bed, like a commoner
@Lara-xu3yc
@Lara-xu3yc 3 года назад
I was literally just on that part as I read your comment, it looks like a royal bedroom for goodness sake!
@toi6158
@toi6158 3 года назад
@@Lara-xu3yc Legit! Like, I'm not saying it's over the top for a 13 yo, but like, where do you go from there?
@leonhorder8979
@leonhorder8979 3 года назад
Yeah it's fancy that's for sure
@brandyb2931
@brandyb2931 3 года назад
Its a bit loud for my taste...lol.
@annetoronto5474
@annetoronto5474 3 года назад
Well you are living like a Queen, because I sleep on an Ikea sun bed. 😂 Nothing says you have slipped down in class than sleeping on garden furniture 😂😂😂 The only up side is saving space and the backrest has several reclining position.
@solitudesembrace
@solitudesembrace 3 года назад
Minimalism is definitely not their thing 😌
@magicmachine1637
@magicmachine1637 3 года назад
More is More is Gabor!
@SzodikE
@SzodikE 3 года назад
You gave me a real good laugh after a hard days work, thank you! :)
@cruiserandtraveller
@cruiserandtraveller 3 года назад
I'm minimalist living! I'm hoping they will have a documentary about not wealthy Gabor!
@danquaylesitsspeltpotatoe8307
@danquaylesitsspeltpotatoe8307 3 года назад
So this is where ex soviet block brothels get their decorators from? all gabor style!
@kathleen5296
@kathleen5296 3 года назад
@@cruiserandtraveller Are you a Gabor? Pardon, but it sounds as though you are a minimalist Gabor by your comment, though I might be misunderstanding, and if so, I do apologize. However, I am genuinely curious, and with respect. I find the Gabor culture fascinating. How clean the villages are is also quite admirable.
@AsimoTan
@AsimoTan 3 года назад
"How much color do you want?". Gabors: "Yes".
@3hutp
@3hutp 3 года назад
Yeah, Indian traditions and stuff. That's what roma people are like basically everywhere.
@zenokarlsbach4292
@zenokarlsbach4292 3 года назад
Scary beauty for certain.
@jaebonjiya1275
@jaebonjiya1275 3 года назад
Lmao
@countryposh
@countryposh 3 года назад
🤣🤣🤣
@adasam4771
@adasam4771 2 года назад
How lovely is to have a mother in love like her
@Maatkara1000
@Maatkara1000 2 года назад
I love the fact that thr mother in law understands that her new daughter in law and her own son are still just kids. She takes such good care of them. I know many people who should have that mentality too
@triarb5790
@triarb5790 2 года назад
But yet it was fine for them to be married off, forced to have sex and the girl is expected to get pregnant quickly.
@AndreeaCe
@AndreeaCe 2 месяца назад
They were forced married, what's to be loved in that?
@zsofiaszollosy9161
@zsofiaszollosy9161 2 дня назад
Thats the point. If you get the wife of your son at your home its much easier you to influence her. If i can say the new family forms her to fit in your family. As a mother in law (or any in laws) its much easier to get on well with a girl you raised at half of her teenager years than with a grown up. She is gonna feel for you more like a mother than a mother in law. Thats what they said as well. Thats because family wants the wedding at so early age.
@HolyEnchanta
@HolyEnchanta 3 года назад
The thing about keeping marriage within the same community when the community is so small.... is that all of them looks the same!
@sallyslife7566
@sallyslife7566 3 года назад
@Indian Weeb Desu 😂😂😂
@roefully
@roefully 3 года назад
These comments are ignorant. And racist. No?
@hannahn3240
@hannahn3240 3 года назад
@@roefully In-breading is just never healthy. Race or tradition doesn't impact biology
@HolyEnchanta
@HolyEnchanta 3 года назад
I don't think there's any racist undertone in my comment, inbreeding happens/happened in many races and cultures but it is never a healthy thing. And the only ignorance here is one that denies the danger and tragedy that inbreeding brings.
@edwi3719
@edwi3719 3 года назад
Inbreed for sure
@caitlinmitchell6759
@caitlinmitchell6759 3 года назад
One thing I will say is that the brides mother in law is the sweetest lady ever. Like she’s so nurturing it’s so nice
@satyaprakashrout3539
@satyaprakashrout3539 3 года назад
Women education is important in life , if her mother is good then she should support her study not worried for marrying and doing children ..
@timeittakestoletgo1687
@timeittakestoletgo1687 3 года назад
I agreed. We would all be so blessed if our mother in laws treated us with such unconditional love.
@jupitercyclops6521
@jupitercyclops6521 3 года назад
The long hug the young bride gave her father or grandfather brought a tear to my eye.
@satyaprakashrout3539
@satyaprakashrout3539 3 года назад
@@timeittakestoletgo1687 maam love is everywhere , but education is important
@jimby_vokk3110
@jimby_vokk3110 3 года назад
It's actually cool that I can understand what they're saying
@RandomDudeOne
@RandomDudeOne 3 года назад
Tell you one thing those Gabor sure ain't malnourished.
@peterpyke1213
@peterpyke1213 3 года назад
ALL A BIT ON THE HEAVY SIDE
@0xszander0
@0xszander0 3 года назад
@@peterpyke1213 Just big boned people is all..
@Blue-sy1gh
@Blue-sy1gh 3 года назад
You can be overweight and still malnourished. That’s like most Americans.
@thisworldisatemporaryhomef5942
@thisworldisatemporaryhomef5942 3 года назад
At least they can walk 🤣 Yea on the heavy side as you can see
@PineappleOnPizza69
@PineappleOnPizza69 3 года назад
I thought I was the one who noticed it. 😂
@thoragraham897
@thoragraham897 2 года назад
I really enjoyed this one. It was great learning about their culture. It would be amazing if a follow-up could be done in the future
@DWDocumentary
@DWDocumentary 2 года назад
Hi, Thora! There are no plans for a follow-up but thanks for expressing an interest in finding out more. :)
@thoragraham897
@thoragraham897 2 года назад
Ok mabe in the future I hope. But Thank you for making it anyways
@kiarasmith-beckford1579
@kiarasmith-beckford1579 2 года назад
Wast your house from the reasons I have a great day and you go in on you have a lot of a week of the reasons did you go in on a hellie to work on the way 😊😊 day 🇯🇲 I will try you 🇯🇲 I think I can do that 😍 is you can come to the store 😂 the kids are in and out of my life my life is a kid to call yourself and you have a hellie and I think I have a great day and I think I can 🥫 it out I guess I can 🇯🇲🇱🇷💦🦶🦵 to call 😂🤙🙂 I will try to get it difodkk to and you have to be a 🙅‍♀️ ugh 😂😫😫 I can 🥫 it 😃🐱 and we
@MelesaEFary
@MelesaEFary 2 года назад
@@kiarasmith-beckford1579 Something here is lost in translation. Sorry Kiara! You do sound very happy and upbeat but cannot understand what you are trying to say!
@annieseaside
@annieseaside 3 года назад
I find different group’s beauty standards and home decor very interesting.
@SuperVistaprint
@SuperVistaprint 3 года назад
interesting?! ever wondered why they look the same? jupp - because they are all related -
@Raymanujan
@Raymanujan 3 года назад
diplomatic.
@SuperVistaprint
@SuperVistaprint 3 года назад
Joe Sure, Not they are one community- more often then not, one family (regional) one reigns in luxury-the other in dirt. It is a lot of shallow show- little substance of actual Care. And before anyone says anything… I know and worked with several hundreds of em
@AnniePBeautyDefyingAge
@AnniePBeautyDefyingAge 3 года назад
i dont think one of them is pretty. Not one...I promise I'm not trying to be mean but damn
@AnniePBeautyDefyingAge
@AnniePBeautyDefyingAge 3 года назад
@@SuperVistaprint true
@cherkkiable
@cherkkiable 3 года назад
DW, I'm so in love with your documentaries. Always great content no matter what is the topic
@yogithashetty2587
@yogithashetty2587 3 года назад
So true. DW knows the art of good documentary 👌🏻👏🏻
@LubulaChikwekwe
@LubulaChikwekwe 3 года назад
I feel the same i look forward to them
@fisheart1829
@fisheart1829 3 года назад
@cherkkiable - I wanted to write the same so I can only agree with you in 100%. Thanks a lot DW for your work.
@Rob_GUERRERO
@Rob_GUERRERO 3 года назад
Cell phone: new documentary. Me: 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️
@DWDocumentary
@DWDocumentary 3 года назад
Hi @cherkkiable, thank you all for the kind words :)
@Ari-ld9hi
@Ari-ld9hi 3 года назад
"By age of 35, they are grandmothers". Me: 45 and single male with no children. Me also: Happy as a clam.
@Chrisko1492
@Chrisko1492 3 года назад
Sounds lonely and sad, tbh.
@Ari-ld9hi
@Ari-ld9hi 3 года назад
@@Chrisko1492 to some it sounds lonely. But I do find solace in exploring the world. Engaging with people. Observing nature and humanity (or the lack thereof), studying philosophy, having a dog and dating. If I were to have a child I would adopt. Too risky to get married these days.
@SylviaKincses
@SylviaKincses 3 года назад
Clammed as a clam too :))
@dustsky
@dustsky 3 года назад
Solitude is all good while you're still strong and healthy...
@Rob_GUERRERO
@Rob_GUERRERO 3 года назад
@@Chrisko1492 no it's not, the world is much more, but the majority of people think that the REAL happiness live in marriages, parties, money... THE WORLD IS MUCH MORE INTERESTING. DON'T BE TRAPPED.
@MidnightCreationsASMR
@MidnightCreationsASMR 2 месяца назад
This really made me smile !! I love how the mother in law takes such great care and pride in making sure her daughter in law is well taken care of . And I love how she understands that they are still children!!! I love learning about new cultures!
@jacobcativo6877
@jacobcativo6877 2 года назад
The old man who repair all things, I just amazed what he said at the end of the interview, when he was asked to choose food or money then he suddenly answered him "I am satisfied"
@thegreatujo
@thegreatujo 3 года назад
I enjoyed every second of this. Really well done documentary.
@DWDocumentary
@DWDocumentary 3 года назад
Hi @thegreatujo, thank you for watching and sharing your feedback!
@jgbs8710
@jgbs8710 3 года назад
well made*
@nuckinfuts7610
@nuckinfuts7610 3 года назад
@@jgbs8710 *well made
@riah8600
@riah8600 3 года назад
Because you're not Székely ( Transylvanian ). Otherwise you would know better.
@thegreatujo
@thegreatujo 3 года назад
@@riah8600 I'm not transilvanian ?! 😅 I've been living in Arad, Romania my whole life. Arad is pretty much transilvania.
@Itsme-kc9mf
@Itsme-kc9mf 3 года назад
It broke my heart seeing her cry as her dad tells her good bye
@countrylivers
@countrylivers 3 года назад
I cried like a baby at my wedding when my dad “gave me away” because I’ve always been a Daddy’s Girl! And I was less than 30 days until my 25th BD at the time. People who love each other and are close, tend to be emotional when family structures change.
@samiramirzayeva5937
@samiramirzayeva5937 2 года назад
OMG! I cannot find the right words to describe my feelings and thoughts! Another masterpiece from the DW documentary! This is an amazing documentary! I have enjoyed every single minute! Such a great pleasure to know that in our world this type of diversity exists! I am also from a traditional country. Now I am living in the Baltic country but I brought my tradition also with me. I am proud of my customs and I think this is awesome that we are different from each other! It makes us unique! Dear, DW Documentary, I invite you to my country! You will see a lot of diversity in my country. Thank you for an amazing job!
@DWDocumentary
@DWDocumentary 2 года назад
Thanks for the positive feedback. We're glad you like the documentary.
@anniefraser
@anniefraser 2 года назад
So you are proud of child marriage? I am all for different cultures and traditions but child labor, children getting married and female circumcising are barbaric and should be outlawed.
@teodorugabriel2175
@teodorugabriel2175 2 года назад
@@anniefraser gipsey They are not Europeans, they do not have European culture and they do not have the European language. They come from India. That's the way it is with them, barbarism
@bavros1998
@bavros1998 Год назад
@@teodorugabriel2175Totally agree! Let everybody enjoy their cultures and traditions - but keep them in their own countries and not import them to Western Europe.
@xaxion_faza2453
@xaxion_faza2453 3 года назад
"Who are you?" "Gabor" "And you?" "Gabor" "What about you?" "I'm also gabor" "Let me guess, you are..." "Yes, i'm gordon"
@meatballsandwich5329
@meatballsandwich5329 3 года назад
LMAO
@mimiashford5544
@mimiashford5544 3 года назад
Eva and Zsa Zsa Gabor were probably related, as well.
@Zodroo_Tint
@Zodroo_Tint 3 года назад
Gábor is their family name. Like Smith, nothing special.
@skylove1336
@skylove1336 3 года назад
Took my American husband to a Hungarian party the first 4 women I introduced him to were all named Andrea plus my middle name is Andrea & also my mother’s first name is Andrea so you know it’s a thing….
@rachelcookie321
@rachelcookie321 3 года назад
@@Zodroo_Tint they said in the video that everyone is named Gabor. Last name or first name.
@krishnaabyan6575
@krishnaabyan6575 3 года назад
Can’t believe this villager actually wealthier than European standards
@DutchmanAmsterdam
@DutchmanAmsterdam 3 года назад
Yeah, good business practice since the fall of communism 1990. Travelling to western europe a lot and making use of the cheap property prices in eastern europe.
@BlasaGo
@BlasaGo 3 года назад
They seem to hate employment and prefer to take the risks of entrepreneurship. I am sure the majority fail, but the few ones that actually make it, create a source of revenue that can scale depending on the consumer's demands. High risk high reward. I m sure out of every 100 trades, only 10-5 succeed meaningfully.
@pedsexbeckham
@pedsexbeckham 3 года назад
What european standard?
@orionxtc1119
@orionxtc1119 3 года назад
because they go around of Europe stealing and begging and then send the money back to their village...
@bronze2956
@bronze2956 3 года назад
@@BlasaGo ok they don't really do this. The Roma don't make their money this way, lol...
@thecobaltroom
@thecobaltroom 3 года назад
I could watch 3 hours of this. Love the togetherness of the families, the respect they have for each other, the colorful clothes, and I wish I could have a meal there cuz I bet the food is awesome!
@DWDocumentary
@DWDocumentary 3 года назад
Hi @thecobaltroom, thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts! 🙂
@var7071
@var7071 3 года назад
But what about the child marriage?
@karimmanaouil9354
@karimmanaouil9354 3 года назад
@@var7071 14/15 yo might still be young for responsability, but in my opinion, it's not that bad in the context of their culture. In those cumminities, children are raised to maturity quickly. 14/15 yo is also not that young in all other cultures. Even in western countries, people start relationships around or before that age and many of them have sexual experiences by that age. We all know 15 is not a child anymore. In the west, family building, work and the way of living is different: it's more individualistic and capitalist way of life: married couples are expected to be autonomous and completely independent of their families, they must have their own place to live (they don't live with their parents after marriage), have jobs, salaries, etc. For this reason, marriage doesnt make sense at very young ages in the west and many other countries. But I guess in communities such as Gabor which are still largely traditional with farming and family businesses at the center of their lives, married couples live in the same big family house and they work for the family and get help from family, which makes it less harder to get married at a very young age.
@karimmanaouil9354
@karimmanaouil9354 3 года назад
@@var7071 and this is also not like pedophilia, the couple are the same age, they are both are teenage. I don't think their older people can marry very young girls. Gabor have a nice culture, it's different but respectable, traditional and lovely.
@zumeybear6883
@zumeybear6883 2 года назад
My grandmas parents were from Budapest and Romania and met in Hungary where they immigrated from when Germany was wiping through the country sides in the early 40s Let me tell you, that woman could COOK. She was a house wife on steroids, spoke Hungarian Spanish (immigrated to Panama) and English I wish I could have met my great grandparents and experienced more of the culture
@mavemave1073
@mavemave1073 2 года назад
I wish that y'all had included more from the perspective of the families that are not as fortunate in the village, as well as how the younger people view their traditions.
@hellencook6868
@hellencook6868 2 года назад
Totally agree would’ve been better to show the differences and especially the young girls that had dreams other than becoming housewives.
@AlexanderBC42
@AlexanderBC42 2 года назад
They live as they can, doing menial work and working the land for just enough food and money to get on with the next day. The traditions they have are the common ones, x-mass, easter and so on. When she finishes HS she will have to decide if she wants to stay in the dead end village or try moving to a town or city to get an unskilled job find a boyfriend and move together to be able to afford rent. Learning spanish from soap operas and going abroad to pick fruit in the summer is a well established practice. College is unlikely, because these village schools are lousy and are unable to provide thorough enough education to actually keep someone going trough a single exam session. But still possible as there are guaranteed minorities spots in every university. Having to pay rent in a city would be a nightmare tho. This is not only her destiny as a minority, everyone in that school shares this curse, the Gabors are well off because of "trading", the rest of the village is still going medieval.
@bookkeeper8092
@bookkeeper8092 2 года назад
This reminds me of the culture my family escaped from in the Ukraine. It breaks my heart when traditions are valued over freedom and building your own life. This was fascinating and yet painful to watch due to memories. When I was 14 years old, I was spending time with my friends and doing well in school. I can’t possibly fathom having to worry about being married off. You’re still a child, regardless of having undergone puberty or not. As interesting as this can be to outsiders, it’s different when you were a part of this kind of culture and managed to escape.
@mistereearly1141
@mistereearly1141 2 года назад
Freedom is all relative I suppose. I’d rather be 18 years old and a Gabor then 18 years old and being drafted into the Israeli defense force for war. If you don’t know it exists, then you are free. Shoot, for all we know, human bickering is an example of how enslaved we are on this planet. Maybe there’s other planets with humans on it that are far more utopian and “free”
@angiegigiari1111
@angiegigiari1111 2 года назад
@@mistereearly1141 Hey I don't appreciate that you compare one pain with another. This is not a competition and I am so tired of all the time hearing about the same problems and same cultures, the world is big and so is it's problems! You are comparing guns with being forced to sleep with some one as a very young woman/man. Who the hell can choose? Trauma either way.. open your eyes for the rest of the world, some one could say your problem is "small". There is always worse...and we are watching a video about the Gábor, not Israel..
@angiegigiari1111
@angiegigiari1111 2 года назад
Yes I agree, I am Hungarian and I saw the video from a diffrent point of view. Yes beautiful clothes and people etc , yes an interesting culture but many other things also, if we just read between the lines. But I respect them and they have a purpuse like all of us here on earth.
@triarb5790
@triarb5790 2 года назад
I totally agree. As a teacher, my heart bleeds when I see the enslavement of girls.
@juliie007
@juliie007 2 года назад
I believe it’s finding that sweet balance where traditions are not lost but built upon and incorporated into the modern world.
@amnika2536
@amnika2536 3 года назад
I grew up in Transylvania surrounded by the Gabors. They are honest and genuine people
@davidlaczko6858
@davidlaczko6858 3 года назад
tényleg?
@popescocristian9838
@popescocristian9838 3 года назад
@@davidlaczko6858 Nem tud románul
@cruiserandtraveller
@cruiserandtraveller 3 года назад
I wonder if they have crime in the community. If it's they have zero crime I want to let live with them.
@riah8600
@riah8600 3 года назад
Én sürün látogattam Erdélyi rokonokat gyermek koromban év tizedeken keresztül. Ez nem egy igaz erdélyi documentári.
@MAMAGOO21123
@MAMAGOO21123 3 года назад
@@riah8600 Erdély magyarországhoz tartozik. Erdély ezer éve magyar
@blondie8524
@blondie8524 3 года назад
it's interesting how they switch between Hungarian, Romani and Romanian languages.
@r.b.7368
@r.b.7368 3 года назад
I'm from Romania...first of all they live in a city that was part of Hungarian Empire and untill now there live many of them. So in that city people will speack romanian,hungarian and theyr dialect. The problem with many of them is that they woun't accept romanian as main language. For example if they will go to Bucharest they will be forced to talk romanian because there no one talks hungarian ore other dialects.
@blondie8524
@blondie8524 3 года назад
@@r.b.7368 frate ce vorbești? e plin de unguri in București. ideea era că era interesat cât de repede schimabau limba când vorbeau cu alți țigani. deci de unde așa zisa lecție de istorie?
@compout2
@compout2 3 года назад
@@r.b.7368lol why is it a "problem" that they want to speak hungarian?
@ythelldoineedahandle
@ythelldoineedahandle 3 года назад
@@compout2 why are you feeding the troll?
@compout2
@compout2 3 года назад
@@ythelldoineedahandle seemed like a genuine comment to me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ my bad
@Neuron1on
@Neuron1on 9 дней назад
Thank you for this documentary. May all the good souls be blessed regardless of ethnicity. Hats off !
@alecboley9238
@alecboley9238 3 года назад
I love seeing all the less wellknown cultures in y’all’s programs. It helps dispel the popular myth that we live in a violent, hateful world. Thanks for showing us how common love is
@missbeehaven9903
@missbeehaven9903 3 года назад
Jesus, when I was 14, I was making my sims characters get married. I couldn't imagine being 14 and actually getting married, yikes. She's way too young.
@lolbots
@lolbots 3 года назад
biologically, you are ready as soon as you bleed - they seem to mature fast, look at the 50 year old dude looking like an 80yr old granpa
@piotrkowracist9094
@piotrkowracist9094 3 года назад
@@lolbots not really true, the fetuses of young mothers are often sick and don't make it.
@panchopistola8298
@panchopistola8298 3 года назад
Not really it’s only in modern times that people for married at a later date . We are just an immature society
@panchopistola8298
@panchopistola8298 3 года назад
@@piotrkowracist9094 that’s not true my mom was 13 when she had my older sister and 15 when she had me
@piotrkowracist9094
@piotrkowracist9094 3 года назад
@@panchopistola8298 Not true, teenage marragies were considered weird in western culture even in the medival times.
@perritocometotopos
@perritocometotopos 3 года назад
The parents of the girl who goes to school are right! Really glad to see they empower her to get a career and study further 💕
@alizaerom1019
@alizaerom1019 3 года назад
is having a career really important?
@user-jv3qj3jc9t
@user-jv3qj3jc9t 3 года назад
@@alizaerom1019 bruh what do you mean? It is
@perritocometotopos
@perritocometotopos 3 года назад
@@alizaerom1019 Saying things like that just reinforces the privilege we have. Maybe for you it is not necessary to have a career and it's fine, but for this girl it is the only way to be independent and to provide a better future for her and her family. Didn't you see the part where they marry young girls and they don't have a say about it? Education is the single more important thing you can give to children to empower them and give them the tools to aspire a better quality of life.
@MrPeachblossom
@MrPeachblossom 3 года назад
@@alizaerom1019 it is to the western system where from birth your programmed to work borrow buy and die, which is reinforced by the world around you, by friends parents friends media etc its a matrix like system most cant comprehend as there so deeply entwined into it they never see it
@Maddie9185
@Maddie9185 3 года назад
I am glad her and her parents are thinking about other things besides marriage
@ancaandreea9859
@ancaandreea9859 Месяц назад
I am Romanian and to be honest I apreciate this people.They are hard working.It’s interesting to find out more about their community and tradition.I can see them every day but of course I don’t talk with them too much.
@bangtanwishes313
@bangtanwishes313 3 года назад
Thank you for making this documentary. It made me see what's happening on another part of the world and it is amazing.
@THORMYN1
@THORMYN1 3 года назад
I totally agree, I’m stuck on this kind of documentary right now, nothing good on Netflix anyways😂
@anadungu6433
@anadungu6433 3 года назад
As a Romanian from transylvania I feel the same :))) because I've never socialised with the community I feel like I'm watching what's happening somewhere far far away.
@cottoncandy4486
@cottoncandy4486 3 года назад
I love the way he declares the love of his beautifull wife.Then shows his wife's skirts. Good greif they eat well.The word diet must be a word never spoken. Notice no rubbish on their streets.
@ink3539
@ink3539 3 года назад
I noticed that there were no tags on the walls too
@JessMess415
@JessMess415 3 года назад
I also noticed everyone seemed was pleasantly plump, must mean their food is amazing right??
@dariusdauderys6218
@dariusdauderys6218 3 года назад
Bones and whatever other trash that is produced likely gets buried. That has been common practice at 1990 and before~. My grandparents used to throw all trash into "compost" pile and neighbours would burry theirs.
@constancelee6724
@constancelee6724 3 года назад
That is so funny you mentioned the diet... Which apparently doesn't exist! Every woman is very sturdy in girth!
@celesteadeanes4478
@celesteadeanes4478 3 года назад
@@constancelee6724 they got a lot of diet, its diet everywhere u can see, what u mean it dont exist
@friendsoftheamazonjungle
@friendsoftheamazonjungle 3 года назад
This makes My Big Fat Greek Wedding look like a Junior High dance 😂😂😂
@melgm002
@melgm002 3 года назад
Hahaha
@czarina_1012
@czarina_1012 3 года назад
You probably haven't seen an indian wedding
@giacomozanetti2077
@giacomozanetti2077 3 года назад
Bitch please xd The south italian wedding has no end,period
@Emma-lc7cx
@Emma-lc7cx 3 года назад
@@czarina_1012 or nigerian
@thesleepy_man05
@thesleepy_man05 3 года назад
@@czarina_1012 roma was actually came from india so it's pretty much similar with indian wedding
@hellencook6868
@hellencook6868 2 года назад
As much as I enjoyed this the difference between the wealthy Gabor and the poorest the poor recognised that education for their daughter was important at the end when you hear the school children saying their dream jobs my heart broke especially for the little girls,what chances will they have if they’re parents take them out of school so young.
@sissyrayself7508
@sissyrayself7508 2 года назад
i think the Garbor are educating us. When they said there are some things you can not learn in school..so true..so true..so very true.
@sheilamongey3443
@sheilamongey3443 Год назад
@@sissyrayself7508 they need to educate themselves as to the importance of further education for girls/women. Backwards sexist community.
@xymonau2468
@xymonau2468 2 месяца назад
When things change, they may be able to take up their education again. Who knows? There is a quiet acceptance of future change.
@Jersey.D3vil201
@Jersey.D3vil201 3 года назад
I need to turn on my notifications.... I love documentaries about different cultures and it seems DW has many
@annaandrea8320
@annaandrea8320 3 года назад
That is quite impressive! All those Gábor people speak at least three languages: their mother tongue, Romani, then Romanian, and Hungarian.
@kurucmarianna5054
@kurucmarianna5054 3 года назад
and they are clever and good businessmen, not stupid. The old generation teaches everything important for life. The other is just media lie
@gloriamontgomery6900
@gloriamontgomery6900 3 года назад
That makes four, actually
@isaacadkins2344
@isaacadkins2344 3 года назад
@@gloriamontgomery6900 Mother tongue is romani
@lumenpierce8583
@lumenpierce8583 3 года назад
@@gloriamontgomery6900 you read it wrong...
@rmbr343
@rmbr343 3 года назад
My great-grandmother was Czechoslovakian and Hungarian. She spoke 7 languages!
@ottobenthaus3349
@ottobenthaus3349 3 года назад
I imagine, in hundreds of years, when there is a depressed Gabor whose dad died, he Will build a whole space station with his bare hands
@financialwizard5181
@financialwizard5181 3 года назад
@@breakinglimited3035 too bad the moon can't be landed on
@Meilk27
@Meilk27 3 года назад
@@financialwizard5181 what are you on about
@gaemover6522
@gaemover6522 3 года назад
They barely go to school, let alone higher education, surely the chosen ones to conquer the galaxy.
@lucacsikos577
@lucacsikos577 2 года назад
I am Hungarian, and I want to point out, that during the film, they are talking in 3 different languages... even the children... not necessarily on the highest level, but this is still amazing. We often forgot that these communities are talking multiple languages.
@DWDocumentary
@DWDocumentary 2 года назад
Thanks for watching and for sharing your thoughts on the topic.
@Michael-bf1dt
@Michael-bf1dt 2 года назад
Hi Luca greetings from Ireland 🇮🇪 to Hungary 🇭🇺. It’s a good video. Best wishes for a lovely day 😊🙏 Michael
@hdragongirl7628
@hdragongirl7628 3 месяца назад
Did they say the wedding at the Sarkany family? Isn’t that a common Hungarian name?
@mangopudding5979
@mangopudding5979 3 месяца назад
Which communities?
@Susie470
@Susie470 2 месяца назад
What are the 3 languages they speak? Thank you
@dwest889
@dwest889 3 года назад
Y’all notice how Mundra claimed all of her perfumes and lotions as “hers”, and then corrected herself by saying “ours” when she initially said her husband’s stuff was “his,”? Lol.
@Zodroo_Tint
@Zodroo_Tint 3 года назад
What is the different?
@emj6631
@emj6631 3 года назад
Sure did😂
@nao543
@nao543 3 года назад
@@Zodroo_Tint in many cultures the women have their own stuff but everything a man owned is also owned by his wife
@byBeauxARTFULIVING
@byBeauxARTFULIVING 3 года назад
I was laughing and loving her !
@tryphineshumba1181
@tryphineshumba1181 3 года назад
No matter which culture u are , whats mine is mine, what's his is ours
@ciudat105
@ciudat105 3 года назад
💥🤗🦸‍♂️ I live in Romania and as a Roamanian now is the first time. When I see how the customs are in the Roma community . I am amazed. even if we live in the same country. We are separated and we have totally different customs.I like to learn about them ..they are interesting people.👍🏻
@cool_cat007smoove3
@cool_cat007smoove3 3 года назад
I'm glad that you saw this video
@dragosi8980
@dragosi8980 3 года назад
@Julaybib is My name same as who?
@ciudat105
@ciudat105 3 года назад
@Julaybib is My name💥💥💥👍🏻 Search on RU-vid. Romanian wedding. Orthodox Christian
@carlomarco1895
@carlomarco1895 3 года назад
@Julaybib is My name u talking shit,the life style of romanians got nothing to do with this gabors!
@ciudat105
@ciudat105 3 года назад
@Julaybib is My name you are stupid nobody steals these people trade maybe you steal and you are a criminal Romanians don't do that and it is said that there are 500,000 Roma in Romania if you haven't heard the video....you name is not Romanian ..spune ceva in romană vorbeste..
@lilia_spn
@lilia_spn 3 года назад
Typical conversation in this village: „Hey, Gabor!“ „Hello Gabor!“ „How has your day been so far Gabor?“ „Not much, just taking a walk with my grandson, Gabor-Junior over here“
@alreadydead7651
@alreadydead7651 3 года назад
Lol hahahahhahahahaa
@ms.martiegallego8834
@ms.martiegallego8834 2 года назад
Have You seen ZhaZha Gabor ??
@Highlyblessed_favored
@Highlyblessed_favored 17 дней назад
😂😂😂😂
@Tanzim_Khan
@Tanzim_Khan 2 года назад
Thanks a lot DW Documentary for bringing up such a beautiful story that's otherwise unseen
@DWDocumentary
@DWDocumentary 2 года назад
Thank you for watching, Tanzim!
@shanleecaulfield7064
@shanleecaulfield7064 3 года назад
There’s a lot of things I like about them but I am a bit weirded out by the married couple being related and being so young.
@rozqr4320
@rozqr4320 3 года назад
I know what you mean, but still can't help but think that we, the western society on one side allow for couples that young (unmarried) to have sexual relations ......but on the other hand look at communities such as Gabor as weird. What is marriage if not a lesson of commitment.. The related part is weird though, not just culturally but innate (hereditary) aspects associated with it!!
@doityourselffixityourself3110
@doityourselffixityourself3110 3 года назад
They were not related.
@Mmfmfjdrndb
@Mmfmfjdrndb 3 года назад
@@doityourselffixityourself3110 did you watch the video?
@memes13
@memes13 3 года назад
@@Mmfmfjdrndb Mundra didn't actually say that they are related. It was translated wrong.
@matildamaher2650
@matildamaher2650 3 года назад
I agree, they marry way to young
@jennygibbons1258
@jennygibbons1258 3 года назад
OMG! The wonderful husband who loved his wife so much after 42yrs, that he wanted the whole world to know. Wow! Now that’s a man 👍🏾❤️
@BB-vj1ne
@BB-vj1ne 3 года назад
I live in Mures county in Romania and as hungarian I must say Gabor Romas are very hard working people, very respected in bouth hungarian and romanian communities. They are masters of making things. This documentary is spot on. They are like that and they dont still. They are a very colorful community.
@barbaratreuil6591
@barbaratreuil6591 2 месяца назад
This is a fabulous documentary. Thank you. I am mesmerized by the luxury of the fabrics. The women’s clothing made from them are some of the most beautiful I’ve ever seen.
@DWDocumentary
@DWDocumentary 2 месяца назад
Thank you for your comment!
@lovelightlaughter69
@lovelightlaughter69 3 года назад
Very Clean people homes and streets are lovely! Love the colorful skirts and clothing. Its so gaudy I somehow adore it! I am Hungarian and remember going to a festival and loving the dancers traditional outfits.
@lindah5011
@lindah5011 3 года назад
The skirts would look gaudy in our country, yet really suited to them.
@Luhern3
@Luhern3 3 года назад
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@lovemusicnatureartsfoods...
@lovemusicnatureartsfoods... 3 года назад
As an introvert person I can't stand with noisy and crowded place but this makes me happy seeing them happy and it tears me too and I like this people and place so peaceful and loving people...
@wackyruss
@wackyruss 3 года назад
Gypsies take "gaudy" to the next level!!!
@landomilknhoney
@landomilknhoney 2 года назад
Interesting that you would call the ethic flare of your OWN country, "gaudy".
@transylvanianfarmer
@transylvanianfarmer 3 года назад
I really enjoyed this documentary. I’m Romanian, never knew much about the Gabors. Thank you for showing us
@DWDocumentary
@DWDocumentary 3 года назад
Hi @Transylvanian Farmer, thank you too for watching!
@gahayrabdu8493
@gahayrabdu8493 3 года назад
Dw is real school, love from Somalia
@DWDocumentary
@DWDocumentary 3 года назад
Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment!
@phatmaabdalla9280
@phatmaabdalla9280 3 года назад
Somali nimo
@megangarcia6991
@megangarcia6991 2 месяца назад
The kids getting married reminded me of like when a photographer tells two 3 year olds to kiss or hold hands for a photo op… the kids don’t seem too interested in being together or like they actually love each other… more just like their parents telling them what to do and they’re just going with it
@c00mgoblin
@c00mgoblin 3 года назад
I’m actually shocked at how loving and supportive the community is, just due to the high religious connotations of the culture. Very refreshing.
@paleface4404
@paleface4404 3 года назад
The rich get rich off human trafficking forced prostitution and benefits fraud crime all over Europe
@paleface4404
@paleface4404 3 года назад
The rich get rich off human trafficking forced prostitution and benefits fraud crime all over Europe
@user-or6yn8pm3c
@user-or6yn8pm3c 2 года назад
He said dont shame the family. Refreshing to see a functional family.
@adansylvestres8080
@adansylvestres8080 2 года назад
What a coincidence that you write these thoughts, because i was thinking that if the video was about some people in some region of my country who live and marry exactly in the same way - exactly except for the age of marrying and age of leaving school - the comments would be so insulting towards horribke muslim traditions. Everything is the same, the gifts on the bed, the money to the family except that women guests give money to the mother while men give it to the father. The father says exactly the same thing to his daughter before she leaves her home. And there are always tears on the bride's family cheeks. Also the men are still served first in these communities, and men and women are still separated when the guests are not relatives.
@Lastinterceptor
@Lastinterceptor 2 года назад
nah! They are just pretending. It boils down to either you are rich or pious. You can not sit on 2 chairs at the same time....Just Gypsies
@samclarn
@samclarn 3 года назад
I love the colors and the vibrancy of their lives! I know nothing is perfect but this documentary paints a beautiful picture of a proud people. Really interesting!!
@rameshsingh2480
@rameshsingh2480 2 года назад
most significant part is love ,helping attitudes and respect for each others.
@EuSuntFlo
@EuSuntFlo 2 года назад
@@rudigabor4066 Forza Sandu Ciorba pralaaa!Bahtale
@florinmoldovanu
@florinmoldovanu 2 года назад
​@@rameshsingh2480baby, it has got nothing to do with love. Actually you don't even know what love actually is. Love for YOUR family is just herd mentality it's survival. Love goes beyond your need for safety or survival. Love has no motivation to be. These people "love" each other only in the appearance because their love is rooted in their ego. They marry their kids young to preserve their wealth. This is survival mentality based on the fear of losing ones identity but even that identity will go like Sumerians, Egyptian, Mayas or the Inca have gone, the Gabor will go too. From my experience gypsies, and I'm not trying to be judgemental, split in two types. Rich beyond belief or dirt poor. Very few are middle class working decent jobs. This happens for 2 reasons. In Romania for example and probably in other places the main population doesn't accept them and in their turn, especially the poor gipsies often are involved in stealing and violence. Both parts must work together if they want to integrate in society but how can you do that when you marry your kids at 16 to protect your wealth and only care about many dresses your wife has and how much money you can splash around to show off while a large par of the wider community pesters in poverty resorting to ilegal activities and getting involved in violence?? You call that love? This little picture you're looking at only fits in the four corners of your screen, the world is much more complex than that.
@rudigabor4066
@rudigabor4066 2 года назад
@Abhinandan Zambare yes sure
@FU7IM7CANADIAN
@FU7IM7CANADIAN 2 года назад
@@rudigabor4066 you treat woman like property and it's disgusting.
@Raregreens
@Raregreens 3 года назад
Dw is my favorite youtube channel. Thanks for this wonderful doc.
@MarissaEnriquez-k1p
@MarissaEnriquez-k1p 12 дней назад
I found the farewell from Dad and Daughter very emotional. He was losing his little girl and she was losing her Daddy.
@MiThreeSunz
@MiThreeSunz 2 года назад
Until this docu appeared in my feed, I was unaware of the Gabor. Forever curious about different ethnic groups, I watched it with great interest. I won’t judge them for their heritage, culture and traditions, but they are indeed an rather unique people. My primary concern is how can an insular community of 1,000 people living in the same town for 500 years keep their gene pool from becoming polluted due to inter-family marriages and related offspring? It appears like a natural breeding ground for mental and physical defects.
@89helybely
@89helybely 2 года назад
my thoughts exactly - very interesting though!
@hazel5189
@hazel5189 2 года назад
Indeed. I would expect a high rate of genetic disorders. I haven't watched the whole video yet. I wonder if this will be addressed.
@Arabzene
@Arabzene 2 года назад
That is why so many of them look similar; they are all closely related to the others in the community. If there are people with genetic defects (as there must be some), they would hide them from the world.
@leflann2633
@leflann2633 2 года назад
I thought the girl said they were related
@cleone423
@cleone423 2 года назад
@@leflann2633 she did say that
@Artemis_me
@Artemis_me 3 года назад
Not a fan that the kids get married so young but.... But I have to say I am amazed by how the family's are supportive of each other they have such a beautiful traditions that they share and pass down from generation to generation. ...
@1976mcfarlane
@1976mcfarlane 3 года назад
I completely agree. I saw beautiful traditions but also things I think could change for the better. I love that they care for their elders. I bet none are in old folk homes all alone .
@marshallapplewhite47
@marshallapplewhite47 3 года назад
Honestly, I wish I had been married off that young. Woulda saved me alot of trouble
@mo9204
@mo9204 3 года назад
The kids not doing anything together.
@laurahutcheson5853
@laurahutcheson5853 3 года назад
I know, it crazy how half way through when the MIL was talking about how she takes care of her and her son because they’re so young and shouldn’t have to worry about anything. I guess I understand that they’re afraid of their daughters getting snatched for brides, so they make them brides first to boys of their choosing, but they’re literal children being “married” (I use quotations because they make sure not to go through the church to make it legal). I appreciate how there is the option that if she decides she’s homesick or is unhappy she can leave and go home. But I’m assuming that that probably brings some sort of shame associated for not making the marriage work.
@Angelaius
@Angelaius 3 года назад
Yes roma people many time force their kids marry at a young age. 16. Its still a child. 😐
@darrellmurdock6880
@darrellmurdock6880 16 дней назад
Thank you for this unique insight into a culture unto itself, very well received 🙂
@ANDREA-rr2rv
@ANDREA-rr2rv 3 года назад
I love this documentary, I'm Hungarian from Transylvania and we have Gábor families in my town, they are nice people and have the biggest houses 😆💗
@DWDocumentary
@DWDocumentary 3 года назад
Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment!
@rudigabor4066
@rudigabor4066 2 года назад
I'm proud to be a gabor I like to respect our traditions but also to respect everyone and their traditions God bless all people
@ErinJeanette
@ErinJeanette 2 года назад
@@rudigabor4066 your lifestyle and culture is truly interesting and seems happy and warm.
@asvir9110
@asvir9110 2 года назад
In our village we had Gábors as well and they always wore the most amazing colors! Such sweet people!
@okelodaga4435
@okelodaga4435 2 года назад
Please invite me for a week, just to experience such great blessings of the Gabors. I love the Gabors, I wish I am one of them.
@timeittakestoletgo1687
@timeittakestoletgo1687 3 года назад
1. Awww, that MIL absolutely loves that little girl. I won’t lie, it was pretty adorable. 2. TITANIC PRINT SKIRT?
@CataVlad21
@CataVlad21 2 года назад
If a Titanic print skirt was that unappealing to you, i'm glad you didn't notice this 32:46 blouse print! 😛
@lungdumtu_vawksa
@lungdumtu_vawksa 3 года назад
It's so wickedly cool that they made a mess with the gifts in the bride's bedroom and then left. 😂😂😂😂
@margaretcurrie4093
@margaretcurrie4093 3 года назад
I knw I watched.. And went 😱😂😂😂😂😂😂
@laviniajanehollis4064
@laviniajanehollis4064 2 года назад
This is an absolutely fantastic documentary. I was all smiles from ear to ear watching this. I hope DW team will find more subjects like this but of other ethnicity or nation. Thank you. I've watched a lot of Turkish TV series and the Gabors have a bit of cultural traits/practices with the conservative Turks.
@ionutflorinsirbu2342
@ionutflorinsirbu2342 3 года назад
WRONG TITLE. The documentary is not about Transilvania. Is about tigani maghiari from Transilvania. Is like making a documentary about Mexicans living in USA and name it USA: Between tradition and modernity. Data history has also a lot of mistakes.
@andeugensson
@andeugensson 3 года назад
Iar sar românii de fund în sus. :-)
@LeWildTet
@LeWildTet 3 года назад
Thank you! I already reported it for misleading captions.
@gligorandreea4990
@gligorandreea4990 3 года назад
@@andeugensson da, sar.. care e problema ta cu alegerile altora?!
@andeugensson
@andeugensson 3 года назад
@@gligorandreea4990 absolut niciuna. :)
@didivicky
@didivicky 3 года назад
@@andeugensson 🤣🤣🤣
@agnesr.4664
@agnesr.4664 2 года назад
I line the grandpa in the beginning, seems like he has a ver dry and funny sense of humor but he's also quite well-spoken and just seems to be a very nice man. I bet all his grandchildren enjoy hanging out with him. He would be the kind of grandfather with a new story to tell every time.
@chioptnstdr3448
@chioptnstdr3448 2 года назад
People for sure missed that 😅
@физика-э8ы
@физика-э8ы 2 года назад
i feel so sorry for the women in these communities. i am so grateful i have a right to choose about my education and life.
@fla9086
@fla9086 3 года назад
So... Are we going to ignore they said girls are imprisioned in their houses once they become 12?
@inkerikavantera
@inkerikavantera 3 года назад
Yeah... that is in the line of other female friendly traditions. Women also eat after men and so on.
@snowwhite5842
@snowwhite5842 3 года назад
It’s called tradition. Who are you to say it’s wrong? It may not be what you would want, but they lead a whole different lifestyle. Don’t think you have the right life style and everyone should be like you.
@fla9086
@fla9086 3 года назад
@@snowwhite5842 oh, so you are ready to dismiss the imprisonment of innocent kids as a simply case of "tradition"? You may as well think that we don't have the right to say that things like female genital mutilation and death sentence for gay people are wrong because it's the "tradition" in some countries, I presume? Wake up sis, just because something is a "tradition" doesn't make it ok.
@jeangreyfan4148
@jeangreyfan4148 3 года назад
@@snowwhite5842 algumas tradições e culturas não respeitam o livre arbítrio eu sou contra a vários tipos de cultura que seja a favor a casamento abaixo dos 18 anos isso que eles fazem e inaceitável e toda criança tem um sonho que eles fazem e forçar sua cultura a suas familias como se ele tivesse obrigação de seguir isso ta muito errado.
@fla9086
@fla9086 3 года назад
@StarryPluto wrong of you to assume I'm american. People are allowed to have an opinion , mate. I try not to judge people I don't know, but when I see something that goes against my values I can't help but think about it. They said in this video that girls aren't allowed to go outside once they became 12, which happens to be considered a crime in my country btw, and I definitely don't agree when innocent people are stripped of their freedom, so no I will not turn a blind eye to this. You guys need to understand that speaking against serious, potentially harmfull things, is not the same as judging trivial things like the clothes they wear or their beliefs about what kind of work one should have.
@sonyaisztojka6335
@sonyaisztojka6335 3 года назад
Was one of them-from Cluj, Transylvania. Ran away, lived in an orphanage, came to the US, finished high school and college, now accepted into Grad school.
@gergelyerdely
@gergelyerdely 3 года назад
wow! beszélsz még cigányul?
@sonyaisztojka6335
@sonyaisztojka6335 3 года назад
@@gergelyerdely sar te na. Igen:)
@gergelyerdely
@gergelyerdely 3 года назад
@@sonyaisztojka6335 én magyar vagyok de meg szeretnék tanulni cigányul beszélni
@hollywoodhh5646
@hollywoodhh5646 3 года назад
@@gergelyerdely magyar vagyok en is. Soha nem eltem magyarorszagban se romaniaban, (kanadi vagyok) de erdekes hogy a gaborok meg magyarul beszelnek 100 ev trianon utan es nem magyarok.
@elodgyori8793
@elodgyori8793 3 года назад
I'm happy for you that you could do this, it takes bravery and mental strength to do what you did. Glad you could continue studying
@tapsars7911
@tapsars7911 3 года назад
She asked for 500 euros for the red printed yardage and the customer immediately agreed ?!! No bargaining ?? Shocking !!
@RJ-tr8vt
@RJ-tr8vt 3 года назад
It's be like that when dw is filming 🙂
@zunaiandre2341
@zunaiandre2341 3 года назад
I doubt is the exact Euro we know,
@kurucmarianna5054
@kurucmarianna5054 3 года назад
@@cardibee8969 this clothes are very expensive. They told us 20 ys ago when visited them. So I can imagine.
@rain-cy6ve
@rain-cy6ve 3 года назад
@@zunaiandre2341 it s the same euro. There is no other euro out there🤣🤣
@Chings001
@Chings001 3 года назад
😅😅
@marinamartinez6886
@marinamartinez6886 2 года назад
Thank you for this wonderful glimpse into the Gabor culture! They appear to be very happy abiding their traditions. 👍
@FakeR19920828
@FakeR19920828 2 года назад
so nice to constantly be in defiance of state laws, not to pay taxes, get welfare every month ... ideal citizens
@pauliedibbs9028
@pauliedibbs9028 Год назад
It's not often you see so many people that are very well-off, whilst being highly congenial, warm, and practicing strong family values...
@wutdafeezy
@wutdafeezy 3 года назад
Wow what an amazing and close knit community. I absolutely love how they take care of each other and I was shocked that they converted to Seventh Day Adventists. I grew up in that church and they truly are about inclusiveness, family and good health. The way the sister in law was playful and adores the new bride is really cute. Their customs work for them and are not harsh towards anyone. They are a blessed and happy people and I wish them the best.
@pinacolada1393
@pinacolada1393 3 года назад
Same thing in my family Men at one table or outside and women separate. The parents speaking at the end of the documentry are amazing for allowing their daughter to pursue education.
@letthelightshinein
@letthelightshinein Год назад
My husband's last name is Gabor, he is hungarian roma. His family traveled here to America 120 years ago. It is amazing that this is more than likely his families origins.
@basile5992
@basile5992 Месяц назад
Gábor is a very common hunagrian (sur)name, so it is not likely that his origins are from the Gábor gypsies. but there is always a possibility.
@jesperhall5829
@jesperhall5829 3 года назад
"she was not allowed to leave the house since she turned 12, she has been waiting for this day in 2 years" no one see anything wrong with that sentence?
@MelvinJ64
@MelvinJ64 3 года назад
They are a cult and the comment section is acting like it's all cute. This is an oppressive cult that entraps the young kids, especially the women by forcefully getting them married early and pregnant with lots of kids so that they are less likely to leave and can't make it on their own in the outside world because they have no education either.
@aspenenglish4976
@aspenenglish4976 3 года назад
@@MelvinJ64 agreed
@pragatiadhau1858
@pragatiadhau1858 3 года назад
The skrit is like Indian bangaram skrit
@anonimosu7425
@anonimosu7425 3 года назад
traditions exist before the 21st century.
@janedoe1435
@janedoe1435 3 года назад
@@anonimosu7425 yea some "traditions" need to die and be buried like their like their weird ancestors. This is most definitely a cult.
@ksteak27
@ksteak27 3 года назад
5:23 - DW: "The outside world poses the greatest danger to the insular community of the Gabor." Wilford Brimley: "DIABEETIS."
@mcjoe2411
@mcjoe2411 3 года назад
😂
@herrkulor3771
@herrkulor3771 2 месяца назад
Inbreeding is also healthy
@hollywoodhh5646
@hollywoodhh5646 3 года назад
I'm born and raised in Canada (ethnic hungarian) I knew there were many gypsies in transylvania as its a very multicultural land but its interesting to see even after 100 years after trianon they still speak hungarian. I didn't even know there were different sub groups of gypsy as the gabor s seem to be a distinct group of gypsies. Very interesting documentary.
@joshuabalazs9519
@joshuabalazs9519 3 года назад
Do you speak Hungarian? In Romania there's a part of Transylvania (Székelyföld) where 90% of people are Hungarian (Székely). That is where this town is too
@vayu5199
@vayu5199 3 года назад
but the song is bit indian which rhey sang during wedding. i remember the way the sing is same as my granny used to sing in festivals.
@cosmindvd
@cosmindvd 3 года назад
Thats because Romanian government is very tolerable towards minorities, you have the same rights as ethnic Romanians, you can speak your own language, we even have Romanian and Hungarian schools, and if you enter Covasna or Harghita counties, the name of the cities and villages are written in both Romanian and Hungarian.
@INTEGRITY273
@INTEGRITY273 3 года назад
@@joshuabalazs9519 interesting.. would you know why some of them have blonde hair and blue eyes? I thought Gypsies are dark skinned with dark eyes and hair. Curious here.
@Bob-ck4dl
@Bob-ck4dl 3 года назад
@@cosmindvd tolerant yet wont give them autonomy...
@bikadefjam8500
@bikadefjam8500 2 года назад
DW documentary, I been watching your gems since few years, thank you for showing me corners of our bountiful world that I would never seen somewhere else, never ceased to fascinate your audience.
@DWDocumentary
@DWDocumentary 2 года назад
Thanks a lot for watching and for your positive feedback, Bika. We appreciate you taking the time to comment and are glad you like our content! :)
@dariuskakalia
@dariuskakalia 3 года назад
40+ minutes of fascinating viewing! Well done!
@enthusiasticasian6189
@enthusiasticasian6189 3 года назад
Kudos to the last family in the video to give the girl an education to earn a diploma 🙏
@sissyrayself7508
@sissyrayself7508 2 года назад
meh.. As a grown woman who has had every " opportunity" and a college education myself.. I can say it is over rated. I would have loved to have switched places with the young girl getting married into a strong loving..faith filled family.
@davidbernal6007
@davidbernal6007 3 года назад
If they were darker in skin color the men would look like my dads family in Mexico
@farticlesofconflatulation
@farticlesofconflatulation 3 года назад
I was thinking the same. I was expecting a group of older guys gathering around to have some chelas while some norteñas played in the background.
@timeghost82
@timeghost82 3 года назад
@@farticlesofconflatulation I was going to comment on how they looked like Tejano musicians from the 90s
@hazelrubio0
@hazelrubio0 3 года назад
Right lol
@Bembesito
@Bembesito 3 года назад
Yes they look like tejanos rancheros
@фвы-к4э
@фвы-к4э 2 года назад
Agree, those hats they are wearing look exactly like the ones usually wore by men in the mexican countryside.
@Jchristgirl4284
@Jchristgirl4284 2 года назад
The family letting their daughter get educated are the best ❤
@Michael-bf1dt
@Michael-bf1dt 2 года назад
Hi Mary how are you. Greetings from Ireland. It’s nice video. I agree with your comment. Best wishes for a lovely day 🙏 Michael
@sissyrayself7508
@sissyrayself7508 2 года назад
really?? Because it has turned out so well for all educated women has it? It has been so good for everyone? yeah. What?
@michaelmaniatakos3970
@michaelmaniatakos3970 3 года назад
21:29 - the village didn’t take much notice if the wedding?! I could hear them from Melbourne 😄 I thought Greeks were loud 😆
@stephanie8324
@stephanie8324 3 года назад
My same thought exactly 🤣
@zzz_ttt_0091
@zzz_ttt_0091 3 года назад
I live in the other village next to them. They always are dressed exceptionally stylish and they are keeping their traditions.
@ohhoneyhani9963
@ohhoneyhani9963 3 года назад
It's so interesting that the family that is more well off keep tight to tradition and customs but the other family who are day laborers understand that they live in a new era where education can help you achieve more and fit into the new society. Like I really like this documentary, really shows us every side. Like ya we don't agree with taking them away from education and marrying them off early but they also live a very close and happy life. Like they are just a close community that keeps their traditions alive.
@Polyglot_English
@Polyglot_English Год назад
That's a glaring example of no matter how much money you have you are still the product of the culture you grew up in.
@kinny369
@kinny369 3 года назад
"They don't marry outside their social group " Looks like they don't marry outside their own siblings 🙄
@mehthatisall
@mehthatisall 3 года назад
Was amazing to see how all of them resembled eachother. Gotta keep it in the family huh
@kukulroukul4698
@kukulroukul4698 3 года назад
even their pets goes :D
@lynneanthony168
@lynneanthony168 3 года назад
🤣 lol
@genemechanic6773
@genemechanic6773 3 года назад
If Royals and inbreeding is a norm, guess the 'average' citizen will follow their footstep
@kinny369
@kinny369 3 года назад
@@genemechanic6773 speak for yourself my friend. I have my own mind and my own principles
@seversley831
@seversley831 3 года назад
Also it’s interesting how many cultures it’s custom to cover women’s hair and only the husband sees his wife’s hair.
@insafkarenatuhanberkehenda5946
@insafkarenatuhanberkehenda5946 3 года назад
👍🙏yup
@pardeeprana9786
@pardeeprana9786 3 года назад
Open hair see only husband
@MelvinJ64
@MelvinJ64 3 года назад
All backwards. Just like this one that represses the education of the women so they can't think for themselves.
@kyriljordanov2086
@kyriljordanov2086 3 года назад
It used to be this way all over Eastern Europe. My grandmothers always had their hair covered. We still do it, but only at church.
@Dhhu333
@Dhhu333 3 года назад
Middle eastern influence
@estell8459
@estell8459 3 года назад
I enjoyed this documentary. Very interesting. It is good the elders accept that traditions will not always remain the same, that coming generations will change. Still, they are a lovely traditional family.
@DWDocumentary
@DWDocumentary 3 года назад
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@lillapolgar7171
@lillapolgar7171 Месяц назад
0:26 I am Hungarian and half Transylvanian (sekler) and i am proud to have a forever connection with this amazing place❤🇭🇺
@LionSPH
@LionSPH 3 года назад
Really disappointed in all the comments criticizing their way if life. Earth is a huge place and it is filled with so many people and cultures. No one lifestyle needs to resemble another. It's just like how Christianity has plagued our world by sending missionaries everywhere to "save" people with different lives or beliefs. Let people be.
@dvjfredmerc529
@dvjfredmerc529 3 года назад
Thank you! These folks seem safe and happy...dang.
@lamiyashakil6145
@lamiyashakil6145 3 года назад
The gabor's family reminds me of the traditional rich indian families I've seen in the hindi serials/dramas
@justwannagrill8548
@justwannagrill8548 3 года назад
They are descendants of Indian migrants that immigrated to Europe about 2,000 yrs ago, as all gypsies are. So it makes sense
@alexanderlouah
@alexanderlouah 3 года назад
Because they are descendants of Indians!
@cobidbeksin5200
@cobidbeksin5200 3 года назад
Their reluctance to marry outsiders and zeal in preserving custom is Indian casteism culture.
@Totalchaos0228
@Totalchaos0228 2 года назад
Omg!! All that food!! I'd love to experience one of these weddings!! And that hair braiding was beautiful!
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