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Trying to Escape a Toxic Relationship | Vicky McClure Incredible Acting | I Am Nicola 

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Hairdresser Nicola is searching for her romantic ideal, but she's stuck in a coercive relationship with her partner Adam.
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@Channel4Entertainment
@Channel4Entertainment 5 лет назад
Watch the FULL EPISODE: bit.ly/2SBgEak
@mnolee7400
@mnolee7400 5 лет назад
Hello I'm from America. I want to watch the series but unfortunately I can not bc I dont live in the UK. Where can I go to finally see the I Am series?
@llamazarecool
@llamazarecool Год назад
@@mnolee7400VPN Surfshark
@jacemofo
@jacemofo 5 лет назад
"Please stop following me around the house" i have been there, she would stand in doorways. It is a horrible feeling being trapped like that.
@georgia8592
@georgia8592 5 лет назад
@misslaurap
@misslaurap 5 лет назад
Horrid I couldn’t tolerate it
@jacemofo
@jacemofo 4 года назад
@Mike Oxbigger the virginity is strong in you 😑
@georgia8592
@georgia8592 4 года назад
@Mike Oxbigger How do u know it isnt a woman who posted the comment?
@jacemofo
@jacemofo 4 года назад
@Mike Oxbigger 😂😂😂 try not to get too triggered snowflake
@kellie5476
@kellie5476 5 лет назад
Absolutely brilliant actress, loved her since 'This is England'.
@alexajones2331
@alexajones2331 4 года назад
michael Longford Yes!! I knew I knew her from somewhere!
@Soprano_661
@Soprano_661 2 года назад
And line of duty
@dopaminefiend6182
@dopaminefiend6182 2 года назад
The actor playing Adam was also in This is England (‘86 and onward). He played Flip.
@amby1984
@amby1984 3 года назад
Wow, has the writer been through this? 14 years I put up with this and every detail is spot on and really hits home
@ZrankFappaH
@ZrankFappaH 2 года назад
Fourteen years? Wow! I have no idea what you went through exactly but it sounds like you’re pretty strong person! Hope things are far better for you now!
@kristinavilagiova6278
@kristinavilagiova6278 2 года назад
It has name , personality borderline disorder. That is why it exactly fits, people like this need professional help otherwise it looks like this
@smcvids814
@smcvids814 Год назад
14 years ?
@TheMadAfrican1
@TheMadAfrican1 Год назад
You're right. It is so spot on. Every time I used to try and leave, she'd have a panic attack and struggle to breathe, which would force me to stay to make sure she was okay. Getting to the point where you can walk away is so, so difficult.
@amby1984
@amby1984 Год назад
@@ZrankFappaH Thank you so much x It took a long time to get the strength but things are much better now
@joanofarcxxi
@joanofarcxxi Год назад
Amongst many other abusive things, my ex used to follow me around the house with a camera, and then he would provoke me and poke at me relentlessly, hoping that I would break down and react, hoping that I would lose it so he could have "evidence" of how crazy I was. I never did react, I tried hard to ignore him and not show any emotion, but it was so hard and so exhausting, and felt totally insane. I was trapped with that individual for many years, but I finally freed myself. It was one of the most difficult things I had to do in my life, but I made it and I am free and happy now.
@ismabilal7521
@ismabilal7521 3 года назад
i love Vicky McClure since watching 'line of duty' and she is my celebrity who motivates me to do challenging things and watching this as well is emotional but honestly she is good actor.
@aisadal2521
@aisadal2521 5 лет назад
This hit home so hard 😥😭
@DM-it1qf
@DM-it1qf 2 года назад
An acting masterclass right here.
@j.s.2281
@j.s.2281 5 лет назад
Damn.. terribly accurate.
@adamwaddoups7811
@adamwaddoups7811 2 года назад
Both fantastic actors
@Chickenbone263
@Chickenbone263 5 лет назад
Flip and Lol ended up getting married in the end
@Sewfulyjass
@Sewfulyjass Год назад
🤣🤣🤣
@joseffwilliams7369
@joseffwilliams7369 3 года назад
Just realised he's Chris Lomax in Line of Duty!
@annelally
@annelally 8 месяцев назад
Which one was Chris?
@billjones2629
@billjones2629 4 года назад
Good story. However the "house rules" in the friend's house made me grin
@ComplexGodUK
@ComplexGodUK 5 лет назад
Goddamn. Good acting.
@georgia8592
@georgia8592 5 лет назад
God this brings bk memories 😦
@BCS1105
@BCS1105 4 года назад
I feel for you. Stay strong.
@rosemaryfarell5264
@rosemaryfarell5264 2 года назад
Shes AMAZING.
@mollymilneday5391
@mollymilneday5391 5 лет назад
This is so emotional 😭x
@samanthadeeprosediphe4551
@samanthadeeprosediphe4551 4 года назад
Infuriating. Great acting. Horrible situation In real life.
@adityarao7255
@adityarao7255 3 года назад
she is an excellent actress.
@hinaz85
@hinaz85 13 дней назад
Both are amazing acting!!! Nothing beats British drama
@sarsonsue
@sarsonsue 5 лет назад
That’s me and my husband, separated a year ago but he is still living with me, perpetually stuck.
@benh9863
@benh9863 5 лет назад
sarsonsue do u need help?
@sarsonsue
@sarsonsue 5 лет назад
Don'tmakemesadboii Plz sir it’s not physically abusive we don’t even argue anymore but he says that even though we are separated if he moves out he won’t have anything to live for so the guilt he may do something stupid stops me from being able to move on. It’s a form of psychological warfare.
@sarsonsue
@sarsonsue 5 лет назад
James Wilcock I’m the main bread winner, always have been, we don’t have kids, he didn’t want any. I already owned my house before we married. So when we divorce he gets half of what I have worked for since I was 16. Which I would happily do if he’d just let me move on.
@jani3095
@jani3095 5 лет назад
If he’s stopping you from living your life, thats a problem. Him saying he wont have anything to live for, thats his problem. you come first. he is not your responsibility. I had to leave my dad and though i felt guilty at first, it was probably the best decision ive ever made. He wasn’t physically abusive, but that didn’t mean it wasn't bad. You shouldn’t have to feel guilty about something that isnt your problem.
@suziecheeseman3760
@suziecheeseman3760 5 лет назад
sarsonsue You’re still being controlled and abused. I hope you find a way to leave or remove him from this toxic, sad situation. It doesn’t sound healthy for either of you and God forbid there are children observing. Kia kaha, be strong.
@purecanadian7792
@purecanadian7792 4 года назад
Excellent acting
@LashyYT
@LashyYT 4 года назад
He’s definitely narcissistic
@stupid0account0name
@stupid0account0name 5 месяцев назад
It could also be that she's just extremely avoidant/dismissive and it's triggered his anxiousness and insecurities... . Can't tell the whole relationship from one short clip. Maybe I'm a narcissist haha. Either way... poorly matched
@The.One.7.
@The.One.7. 3 года назад
Surprised he didn’t count down from 13…
@strawberryblondemilk7249
@strawberryblondemilk7249 2 года назад
🤣🤣🤣 fuck off with your ginger chips
@gimmemore9709
@gimmemore9709 2 месяца назад
😂😂
@aap2310
@aap2310 Год назад
My ex assaulted me for years. I had to escape to a domestic violence shelter
@Betty-wt3sw
@Betty-wt3sw Год назад
Did you cheat?
@breeamethyst8691
@breeamethyst8691 4 года назад
Can someone send me a way to watch this? I’m in America and i’d love to see the rest of this.
@actionjaxon7570
@actionjaxon7570 3 года назад
A little late sorry but All4 with a UK VPN
@historynut00
@historynut00 3 года назад
Kate and Lomax??
@annelally
@annelally 8 месяцев назад
I don't remember Lomax.
@lauraf.e2788
@lauraf.e2788 5 лет назад
Covert narcissist alert
@damianwikotu5828
@damianwikotu5828 Месяц назад
Brilliant acting
@Q.Q.
@Q.Q. 5 лет назад
Is the cameraman having a seizure?...
@Sam_Martyn
@Sam_Martyn 5 лет назад
it’s supposed to enchance the realism
@billjones2629
@billjones2629 4 года назад
Better than the cameraman in Fake Britain 😆
@nicolasteer3747
@nicolasteer3747 2 года назад
I been through this and its so confusing. Funny my name is nicola aswell!
@carygottlieb4422
@carygottlieb4422 Месяц назад
This should be required viewing for psych majors.
@eternalreverie3473
@eternalreverie3473 4 года назад
How can I watch these episodes? I live in Switzerland and when I try to download the Channel 4 app it tells me its not available in my country... and I cant watch it either on their website 🙄 Can anyone put them on youtube?
@j-mesSteppingStonesandmore
@j-mesSteppingStonesandmore 5 лет назад
is the full episodes available in the US?
@aprilhansen2222
@aprilhansen2222 4 года назад
Jaime Cazares I am asking the same thing I can’t seem to be able to watch it here in the USA
@alexajones2331
@alexajones2331 4 года назад
when I want to go to my local pub with 2 of my girlfriends (who also have boyfriends) my boyfriend always threatens me with “oh ok no point coming home so I’ll just go down to my cousins house for the weekend ( we live in Bristol and his cousin lives in poole) and he winds me up saying I like other men’s attention ect that he does trust me but not other men to the point I snap and say “ok I’m not going out” then he says he’s only joking but this is all the time.. I have lost my 3 closest friends over this and constantly being with him instead of them I’m trying to please all of them I feel so alone. He even proposed to me thinking it would make me happy and not see my friends **the relationship is great other then this**
@CM-dz9sj
@CM-dz9sj 4 года назад
Alexa Farrell sounds so familiar 😩
@alexajones2331
@alexajones2331 4 года назад
Carys Pallett 😪
@annag8678
@annag8678 4 года назад
The bit at the end is the problem. Always finding an excuse to stay such as 'the relationship is great other than this' The relationship is jot great while you have to deal with that. Especially if you've lost friends over it. His trust issues are his. You need to tell him to either get help or to leave because that is no way to live the one life you have on this earth. When you look back on your deathbed are you really going to be happy with how you spent your time? Not regret never going out just to please him? No. He needs to get a grip of his issues and stop projecting them onto you and you need to stop letting him. Good luck with everything!!
@CM-dz9sj
@CM-dz9sj 4 года назад
Yeah I agree ^, I really recommend you watch star puppy’s video on her toxic relationship, luckily I’ve escaped mine last month and I’m so glad I have
@frankiet826
@frankiet826 4 года назад
He is slowly isolating you. First it's cutting you off from friends. Then family. Then the nasty comments start, then financial control, then he starts telling you were to go, how to dress. Google red flags in relationships. He'll get inside your head and leave you feeling worthless and alone. A normal healthy relationship is built on trust and understanding. He lacks both. Drop him and run for the hills. Good luck x
@davedogge2280
@davedogge2280 4 года назад
I really want to see this but I am living in Southern Europe, anyone know how I can view this ? I do a search and all I get is a video on Nichola Sturgeon from the SNP !
@eco611
@eco611 2 года назад
I really want to watch this but I live in Thailand. What other platforms or channels can I watch this on ? For some reason I can’t seem to access channel 4 streaming even with payment. Is this series on DVD ?
@cesarx5592
@cesarx5592 Год назад
The guy doesn't get enough credit
@j.garcia6206
@j.garcia6206 4 года назад
Where can i watch the full episode of this?
@abimorris730
@abimorris730 4 года назад
J. Garcia it’s on All 4 :)
@clarencebodicker3299
@clarencebodicker3299 3 года назад
Here's here for the ginge! Him there head to toe in fuckin ginger!!
@ravenbeast813
@ravenbeast813 4 года назад
How can I watch here in the states?
@The_O.G_Cyber_bully_24Hr_Ban
@The_O.G_Cyber_bully_24Hr_Ban 3 года назад
Nicole was just a bit I agree playing the victim AKA gaslighting turning all the problems on Adam when she is the problem she's not happy because she is always compairing Adam to other men it's not up to anyone for your own happiness it's down to you. She triangulates the relashionship getting others involved when she should be talking to Adam when he wants to talk she stone walls him all these are used by the narssasist triangulate, play the victim, stonewalling, blaming and gaslighting. How was he being gaslighted? He was always saying sorry and questioning his thoughts and actions by her constant moaning clue at the end did you see the smile on her face? She as him exactly where she wants him on the end of a string when she cuts that string what does she know Adam as threatend to do? The writer as everyone fooled thinking Nicole is the victim that's what narcs are good at deception again the smile onher face walking away at the end she had you fooled
@courtneybeckett2689
@courtneybeckett2689 2 года назад
Don’t know how to reach out I don’t want people thinking I’m a bad parent it only happens when she’s at her dads
@annashepherd5591
@annashepherd5591 3 года назад
Run don't walk
@bonobo75
@bonobo75 2 года назад
Does anyone know the background song thats in all the episodes? Cant find it online
@leannma4138
@leannma4138 2 года назад
Have you found the piano music yet?
@leannma4138
@leannma4138 2 года назад
Thks
@bonobo75
@bonobo75 2 года назад
@@leannma4138 nope i wish!! Still looking
@leannma4138
@leannma4138 2 года назад
@@bonobo75 😣
@lstanfo1509
@lstanfo1509 5 лет назад
Lollipop
@tommyv4980
@tommyv4980 4 года назад
Can everyone just fucking leave the poor girl alone! Everywhere she goes...
@amandaryan3263
@amandaryan3263 3 года назад
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@The.One.7.
@The.One.7. 3 года назад
GINGE
@Soprano_661
@Soprano_661 2 года назад
Fuck off with your ginger chips Shaun
@donleonshi
@donleonshi 5 лет назад
He’s good too Channel 4.
@juliefewster4735
@juliefewster4735 9 месяцев назад
Why can't we get these in Oz?
@annelally
@annelally 8 месяцев назад
It's on Foxtel.
@Nymbusangel
@Nymbusangel Год назад
To think this was improvised
@nicolarenshaw6460
@nicolarenshaw6460 5 лет назад
I am Nicola
@Hustlersambiton
@Hustlersambiton Год назад
ENGINES OFF
@courtneybeckett2689
@courtneybeckett2689 2 года назад
Think I have a drink problem because of this
@Phuc_Yhou
@Phuc_Yhou 2 месяца назад
@courtneybeckett2689 Are you still in a bad place?
@courtneybeckett2689
@courtneybeckett2689 2 месяца назад
@@Phuc_Yhou yea very badly
@Phuc_Yhou
@Phuc_Yhou 2 месяца назад
@@courtneybeckett2689 There is help out there, you're not alone. The Samaritans are a good starting point and worth a call, sometimes just a small step can start your journey to a better place.
@aap2310
@aap2310 Год назад
I want to see the she spent w combo
@alishaphilbert4754
@alishaphilbert4754 5 лет назад
So not attractive in a man..... so obsessive wowww..... just could not .....great acting though sad if some men are like that in real life ugh
@misslaurap
@misslaurap 5 лет назад
Alisha Philbert not me either too much to handle
@deborabroodbakker2860
@deborabroodbakker2860 4 года назад
Not attractive in a man or woman. It’s psychological abuse
@fourninemarketing
@fourninemarketing 2 года назад
She probably was going to leave him though and let’s face it, being single when you’re a man (in the long run) is pretty shit. He could have expressed his frustrations better and should have at least given her a couple of days, but from my experience that just leads to a break-up anyway.
@chippytea.
@chippytea. 2 года назад
Were attention goes energy flows Don't relate to this 😉
@tanyaflanders2196
@tanyaflanders2196 10 месяцев назад
This stressed me out!
@H1JaX
@H1JaX Год назад
He only wanted her to try his pasta bake though...
@deedeearnaz1755
@deedeearnaz1755 9 месяцев назад
Manipulative AH
@Gavin48
@Gavin48 5 лет назад
I think Adam just needed some help. He didn't Beat her or anything extreme. I think with some counseling he'd have been saved
@suziecheeseman3760
@suziecheeseman3760 5 лет назад
Coercive control takes much longer to recover from than broken bone and bruises. It's abuse as much as if he'd beaten her.
@Gavin48
@Gavin48 5 лет назад
@@suziecheeseman3760 So you don't believe in redemption?
@jimpickins7900
@jimpickins7900 5 лет назад
i mean I think this is just a case of 2 incompatible people, the guy clearly quite emotionally open and dosent respond well to being ignored and she obviously dosen't want to deal with him when he's emotional and thinks he's being obsessive.
@suziecheeseman3760
@suziecheeseman3760 5 лет назад
jim pickins If you watch the other videos, you’ll recognise that he is an abuser. His emotional state is just another state of coercive control and abuse.
@misslaurap
@misslaurap 5 лет назад
It’s not normal now he’s behaving it’s not healthy or cool
@Rakattack-tx9yw
@Rakattack-tx9yw Год назад
How about supporting the man with mental health, not just leaving. Women cheat the first opportunity they have. Attention from the opposite sex, there off! Men want loyalty and consistency in a relationship, as much as women do. If not stay single! Don’t ruin each other’s lives. How do you know this woman is not a NARCISSIST! Think!
@Greg-rv5vm
@Greg-rv5vm Год назад
Hi Adam 😂😂
@jip230
@jip230 10 месяцев назад
It’s not a woman or relationship partners role or responsibility to help someone with their mental health. Adam should have addressed this eons ago before getting in to a relationship. It’s easier for him to be a pos and project his crap on to her than it is to be in therapy and medication for years and examine his own behavior. People aren’t perfect I understand that, but as soon as behavior like this comes apparent it’s time to head to the door. People with un acknowledged and unaddressed mental health issues deserve to be left
@xkyleprivatex_9883
@xkyleprivatex_9883 5 лет назад
LOOOOOOOOOOLLLLL! HAHAHAHAHA
@jameshackney7314
@jameshackney7314 5 лет назад
Poor lad
@The_O.G_Cyber_bully_24Hr_Ban
@The_O.G_Cyber_bully_24Hr_Ban 3 года назад
In my opinion she's the problem, always compairing her husband with her friends husband's so and so does this and does that for her then turns it on Adam saying he's playing the victim when it's her that's playing the victim I come home cook and clean poor me I have nothing to talk about interesting with my friends. It's not Adams job to make you happy that's her problem. Adam is jealous of her probably because he's not having any bedroom fun and thinks she's getting it from some one else. Nicol comes across as a narssasist with gaslighting and bringing other people in to there relashionship aka triangulation going to work playing the victim my husband does nothing for me when he went and got them a brake away there was no mention to her friends, she was so bad he thought about leaving the world.
@londonlady1966
@londonlady1966 3 года назад
Evidently you've never been in a toxic relationship.
@yourcommentmakesmecomment.3423
@yourcommentmakesmecomment.3423 2 года назад
Did we just watch the same thing? 🤨 He's an insecure, needy leech sucking life out of her. Of cause she's looking at relationships around her. She's is NOT gaslighting him.
@AGolfHitter
@AGolfHitter 2 года назад
I hope you don't have this mentality during a relationship
@XIIIMPC
@XIIIMPC Год назад
This is an absurd take that makes it sound like you didn't watch it at all.
@jajasatorashi136
@jajasatorashi136 Год назад
You're right
@stealthwolf6369
@stealthwolf6369 Год назад
What a fairy
@sanfordcurtis8242
@sanfordcurtis8242 Год назад
*GINGE*
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