Trying to make everyone happy ISN'T WORKING (people pleasing keeps you poor and stuck) 

in my opinion, there are two types of people: givers and takers, in-between I try to be, but I am a giver and this seems to be a weakness in this forever taking me me me world

Psst, you chose the name for your vlog, what if you used that as a business? Either create a web page, or go do the vendor thing, and sell your vibe. Collect a little product, like let's say peach candy, peach candles, peach skin lotion, Princess Peach dolls, peach ornaments, peach table cloths, peach baskets, peach notebooks and artwork. Did you know there was peach twizzlers, and peach jolly ranchers? Make some peach beaded bracelets and peach head bands. Crochet some peach square heat pads. Lol, be a "People Peacher" :)

My suggestion is that you break down those goes into smaller pieces. Those that are set too high can bring failure and then you feel like a failure, but you are not a failure. Breakdown your goals to a day by day Tesk, that will give you small goals that you can accomplish in one day. We are only giving today and we try to do what it takes years to accomplish. Then we feel like we have gotten nowhere. Today my goal is to eat healthy and to find something positive in my day, I am thankful that I was able to get up and move around the goal for today was to make a homemade potato salad for a birthday dinner at my mom and dad. I broke down into cooking the potatoes and the eggs separately as I made the potato salad, I did one thing at a time and then was able to fixand stored in the fridge this is what we need to do other test just break things down to smaller pieces you can do it

Keep your head up, you’re feeling your way through this in your timing and not anyone else’s. Everyone will go through this at some point in their life. Keep your head up, everything’s gonna be all right.

You are suffering a lot. As a person who has been going through similar things as you have, I can empathize with you. I could more or less feel the pain that you are feeling..

Pretty sure that if you spend a lot of time with people who have actively given you the message, that you're not good enough, and these people are still in your life, you can surmise who I mean, it's your parents! Having them in your life is having them in your head, so guess who's taking up space in your head instead of you? You chat have space for you in your head if they are living in it. Best of luck!

What Jesus says about people pleasing? Jesus explained to his disciples that loving God was demonstrated by obeying God (John 14:21). When we desire to obey God, the desire to please others fades, and pleasing God becomes more important (2 Corinthians 5:9). I was where you were for many many years , until I changed .Low self-esteem: People who feel they are worth less than others may feel their needs are unimportant. They may advocate for themselves less or have less awareness of what they want. They may also feel that they have no purpose if they cannot help others. I am so happy you are getting help I was a people pleasser all my life until 3 years ago & I am 73. i wasted al those years you are so young & I am so happy you are changing . Have a lovely day !

Study the Big 5 personality assessment, OCEAN acronym, some people are low in agreeableness, it's best to stay away from them if you are high in agreeableness, otherwise you'll get taken advantage of

You look like Tweety bird.

I am unlearning how to be a people pleaser at 65. 🫤😕☹️😔. It is a long journey. So much of your experiences resonate with an old lady like me.💪🏼👍🏼🙌👏🏼❤️. Keep it up sweetheart. Our bright free day is coming. Keep your chin up and believe in your self and your amazing abilities. ❤️😘🥰