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Turning Women On: How To Master Seduction, Power, Confidence & Charisma | Sadia Khan 

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Welcome back to another thought-provoking episode of Impact Theory! Today we're diving into the complex world of relationships and social dynamics with the insightful psychologist, Sadia Khan.
In this eye-opening, hard to hear discussion, we examine how the allure of beauty on social media has transformed the landscape of modern relationships, often leading women to prioritize their appearance while men lose sight of relationship values that are important to selecting well.
Hear me when I say, there is NOTHING that has brought me more joy and wellbeing in my life than my 21 year marriage with Lisa. From material wealth to millions of followers, downloads, awards and sales, nothing has mattered more to me.
If you want to master life, you have to master pair bonding.
Sadia is a psychologist and relationship expert known for seemingly controversial viewpoints when it comes to modern dating and the roles men and women are taking. We unpack the negative implications of:
- Over-glorifying a single trait,
- The importance of core values such as honesty, integrity, respect, and care for your partner's well-being, and
- How manipulation can shape relationships for better or worse.
This conversation challenges societal norms and expectations. We talk about the value of monogamy, the misunderstood perceptions of feminism, and if the independent woman is creating her own roadblocks for true connection.
Wait till you hear Sadia’s view on women submitting to their men in relationships. Is it necessary? Is it a natural inclination for women? Why are women struggling so much with the idea of submitting to their male partners?
This episode isn't just about love and relationships; we’re going to expose the misconceptions often spread by 'red pill' content that’s targeting the weak and vulnerable men in need of healthier perspectives when it comes to women, love, and relationship power dynamics.
Your journey to a better understanding of human behavior and relationships starts here.
SADIA KHAN QUOTES:
“What social media has done is allowed women a platform to kind of showcase their body, their preferences, basically put themselves in the marketplace.”
“We have to start learning to reject rather than glorifying the one ingredient we like.”
“If I dilute my experience with you by also talking to Tom, Dick and Harry, what will happen is I'm wasting energy not realizing that you might be really bad for me, [...] it creates internal chaos, whereas internal consistency will allow us to know what's good and bad for us.”
“Feminism has taught women that catering and appreciating and showing love for your man is babying him and he should be a grown up and he should do it himself.”
“A secure, healthy woman is not attracted to men who treat her mean, she's attracted to a man who has a willingness to leave if she misbehaves too much.”
“Just because it doesn't hurt doesn't mean it's not a deal breaker.”
“When I talk about narcissistic women it is because we've tilted it where women are automatic victims and sometimes they are the narcissist in the relationship.”
“I always say to men that competition is not other men. It's her childhood. If it's totally chaotic, no matter how much stability you provide her, she'll find it very, very difficult to settle into that stable relationship.”
“When you meet a man who is such a safe bet and so secure, submission is a natural consequence, [...] You'd be missing out on a great connection simply because you want to maintain your independence. But independence is overrated.”
“I don't recommend ever being with a man that you can control. You become a woman that you don't like.”
“I don't necessarily know that the woman needs to submit, but the guy needs to lead.” Tom Bilyeu
“Good women are not attracted to money. They're attracted to the process of a disciplined, self-controlled man. But vacuous women are attracted to the outcome, not the process.”
“If you couldn't access her without money, then chances are any man with money can access her.”
Follow Sadia Khan:
Website: www.sadiapsychology.com/
RU-vid: / @sadiapsychology
TikTok: / sadiapsychology
Instagram: / sadiapsychology

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@TomBilyeu
@TomBilyeu 9 месяцев назад
WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!
@GuidetteExpert
@GuidetteExpert 9 месяцев назад
Arranged marriage does not mean someone forces you to marry someone. Arranged marriage means you recommend people that come from good family's and you chose each other who you like the most. So please stop spreading false meaning on what arranged marriage means.
@ApteraEV2024
@ApteraEV2024 9 месяцев назад
Amazing , I dont know how much anyone Makes, I don't know why we would value it as a part of Our Worth...
@ApteraEV2024
@ApteraEV2024 9 месяцев назад
..it's like a Woman's Beauty , outer..
@SETfourLyfe
@SETfourLyfe 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for this interview! Watched every minute 🙌🏼 definitely pushing the envelope forward!
@DeepThinkersClub
@DeepThinkersClub 9 месяцев назад
Tom, of course Elon is “smarter” than you. He’s an NPC in this simulation. 😂
@jamierush1167
@jamierush1167 9 месяцев назад
She had me at "we're replacing feminity with narcissisim" 🔥🔥🔥
@Freebyrd1991
@Freebyrd1991 9 месяцев назад
She is absolutely brilliant. I was captivated in the first minute of her speaking. I will sit back and listen to this WHOLE THING...going to soak in every single thing she says. I know this is a must hear for everyone right now. 😮🤔😃✌️ 😶😶👂👂👂👂👂👂👂😶😶
@roserevancroix2308
@roserevancroix2308 9 месяцев назад
That is not a good trade - healthy vs toxic.
@kimbothwell917
@kimbothwell917 9 месяцев назад
Yep!!!🎉😮
@pellaxestorba4836
@pellaxestorba4836 9 месяцев назад
So interesting how her feminist ""sisters"" attack her physicality calling her an ""ugly slut"" and things at that level. This is an hilarious unmasking of the actual ugly face of feminism as it truly is in its netherly crypt. Underneath all the fake intellectual, high and mighty, system-sponsored, societally polished, washed-tomb, feminist Pharisee's facade, is discovered the demonically hideous high priestesses of Molochite-worshipping sacrificers of innocent babies to their Baal god of abortion and sodomite orgy death rituals. Underneath it all are just plain old, foul-mouthed, female Jezebel dogs waiting to bare the hidden horror of their ROTTING SOULS. Those she-servants of the Worm-king would rather burn in hell than surrender their souls to a loving and righteous, heavenly Father. When will they learn? He would forgive them if they were only humble enough to receive his gift of love. Sadia is very friendly, and intelligent and brave and has a very sweet spirit and going in the right direction even if so far it has been somewhat coloured by muhammedism which also has its own dark sides unfortunately. We can always pray that she and her eventual husband-to-be will find the true Spirit of Christ that is so lacking in our modern Western societies. All the best parts of our Western culture were inspired by the words and Spirit of Christ Jesus to the point that we are STILL seeing the positive effects to this day even if the sun is setting on that as well because of the love so many are abandoning for lesser things of this world like temporal power and pleasure. Yet there is a reason why her family moved to the West in the first place. THEY SIMPLY THRIVED HERE AMONGST US PSYCHOLOGICALLY CHRISTIAN PEOPLE BETTER THAN THEY WOULD HAVE AMONGST THEIR OWN. Facts.
@relaxwithme__
@relaxwithme__ 9 месяцев назад
🎯
@Fitnessonfireonlinetraining
@Fitnessonfireonlinetraining 9 месяцев назад
“if it takes money to get her, you are REPLACEABLE” - that quote did not fly over my head!
@someone-ji2zb
@someone-ji2zb 9 месяцев назад
I mean, even in the great depression marriage rates plummeted. If a man cannot provide for a family (which is all about money), then a woman should not marry him to begin with. So my thoughts on that statement are mixed; yes a shallow woman who wants luxury over anything else should be avoided, but we have to face the facts that a guy has to be able to provide for a family.
@ixmooves2261
@ixmooves2261 9 месяцев назад
i'd say that applies to "beauty" as well
@imcustomized
@imcustomized 9 месяцев назад
She makes a fair point, but I think the converse is also true: If you have the money to "get her," then she is also replaceable.
@roserevancroix2308
@roserevancroix2308 9 месяцев назад
Bro, if it takes money to get her she's trash - what is another word for girls that do things for money with men they don't really care about? It's called prostitution. So if you hear a female ask what you do for a living leave, she's not interested in YOU whatsoever, she is only interested in ehrself, and money. People like that are useless trash, and not wife-material.
@mujahidabdulrazak2977
@mujahidabdulrazak2977 9 месяцев назад
Neither me
@TheSpasher
@TheSpasher 6 месяцев назад
When it comes to relationships I always remember what my Grandfather told me. " Looks fade, hunger doesn't. " 😄
@LouLouLion
@LouLouLion 6 месяцев назад
Wtf does that mean?
@firecrackerNJ2CA
@firecrackerNJ2CA 6 месяцев назад
Meaning be a good cook...
@LouLouLion
@LouLouLion 6 месяцев назад
@@firecrackerNJ2CA yeah you should be a good cook so you can cook for yourself. A part of being an adult
@cryptohodler824
@cryptohodler824 5 месяцев назад
​@@LouLouLion no cook to your man. See wherr world is going. Men will be needed. More than ever. Support and love your man. You will need them at west more than ever
@Suj599
@Suj599 2 месяца назад
It means be a good digger and ignore your real desires
@willpagan1316
@willpagan1316 23 дня назад
Everything she said is the same way I looked at the internet when it first came out , and until this day I still don’t have a social media, 38 now , and this social media is destroying how we feel see and connect with one another, it separates us all at the end
@sadiapsychology
@sadiapsychology 9 месяцев назад
Thank you so much for having me i loved meeting you guys x
@lindakagonia9344
@lindakagonia9344 9 месяцев назад
love your work so much. intelligent, articulate, brilliant and beautiful too. thank you.
@sybersandy
@sybersandy 9 месяцев назад
So, now you know what he thinks 😅. You ve got patience!
@evka24
@evka24 9 месяцев назад
You were on fire ….absolutely brilliant talk❤
@Lafemmefutile
@Lafemmefutile 8 месяцев назад
Your take on slavery was appallingly uneducated and your lack of reflection on you benefiting from your appearance over other women was truly cringe. I’m not sure if it’s valuable to watch other interviews of you at least being confronted by other women with more critical thinking skills.
@matthewjamez
@matthewjamez 8 месяцев назад
​@@Lafemmefutilego back to school
@AriD2385
@AriD2385 8 месяцев назад
“A duty to one another’s well-being.” This is a gem.
@JmGmail
@JmGmail 8 месяцев назад
But husband cheating because of his unmet needs is ok by this lady, in facts she goes further to blame the wife for not recognizing he4 husband is cheating… very confused lady…not to be taken seriously at all.
@theyetti90
@theyetti90 7 месяцев назад
​@@JmGmail"unmet" "NEEDS" not wants, needs. My ex could be furious with me, but she never once withheld sex. It's a need for 99% of people. You think it's okay to withhold it because the woman's needs aren't met, yes? Or you'd at least bring that up and say there must be a reason, right? Fair enough, but there are going to be negative consequences on either side when any duty we have to each other isn't met.
@MelissaDelaney-ro8gr
@MelissaDelaney-ro8gr 7 месяцев назад
As someone whose ex-spouse cheated and abandoned our marriage, finances, and family, I can say that it is 100% his fault. But that would be less than honest if I didn't look at how I also impacted the relationship too. I tolerated far too much abuse, disrespect, and unhealthy boundaries, and therefore, it was almost inevitable he would take it to its natural conclusion; betrayal. It seems you misunderstood. Sadia is not condoning cheating, by either partner, but is advocating looking at what both contribute to the breakdown of the relationship. Whoever cheats is ultimately very broken and is coping from a place of trauma that is not the fault of the other partner. Looking at myself in the mirror through all that I endured was one of the most critical elements to my healing @@JmGmail
@user-yc3gs6xz1j
@user-yc3gs6xz1j 7 месяцев назад
Only men understand relationships in terms of duty. Women only understand relationships according to what benefits them at a given moment.
@shankurrim5540
@shankurrim5540 6 месяцев назад
⁠@@JmGmailwow. That’s what you took away from 3 hours of content. The saying goes Ignorance is bliss.
@jadedowdy91
@jadedowdy91 Месяц назад
I don’t know why some of you are saying he is talking to much. This is the first podcast I’ve seen with Sadia where the interviewer is giving her any push back at all and I think the contrast he brought to the table was perfectly balanced and filled in a lot to of gaps over all. She clearly doesn’t shy away from it either.
@johngalayromans831
@johngalayromans831 3 месяца назад
The Wall comes for all! Proverbs 31:30 “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.”
@Bronte866
@Bronte866 26 дней назад
That ‘s nice for a tee shirt but it’s vague as hell and doesn’t mention the woman’s criteria - the child bearers., nor does it cover the majority of people on earth who do not subscribe to the Jewish/Christian bible
@himikotoga1966
@himikotoga1966 23 дня назад
@@Bronte866you don’t have to subscribe to the Bible to understand it/relate to something. The Bible saids thou shall not kill. I’m sure you can agree with that.
@himikotoga1966
@himikotoga1966 23 дня назад
@@Bronte866also it’s pretty simple. It’s saying charm can be a distraction and beauty comes and goes. But a woman who loves God is rare.
@Magicisreal66
@Magicisreal66 7 дней назад
How about if a man loves God?Doesn't mention about a man No does it??? Of course not
@SDHome-nc3qy
@SDHome-nc3qy 6 дней назад
⁠@@Bronte866just because one doesn’t believe doesn’t make a truth any less a truth
@ARiley650
@ARiley650 9 месяцев назад
I love listening to Sadia Khan...she's so spot on. I love how she holds women accountable in such a gracious way.
@giftmorzel6318
@giftmorzel6318 9 месяцев назад
more like holds everyone .... i love it
@dante19890
@dante19890 9 месяцев назад
It's called sugarcoating critique, something u have to do with emotional beings
@missgolightly5488
@missgolightly5488 8 месяцев назад
​@@dante19890men are far more emotional beings than women..if this wasn't the case then men wouldn't commit the vast majority of crimes in the world since the beginning of time..both against women and other men
@Consultant31
@Consultant31 8 месяцев назад
Also known as manipulation haha@@dante19890
@sbrooks904
@sbrooks904 7 месяцев назад
@@dante19890like everyone isn’t emotional lol
@taratravers159
@taratravers159 9 месяцев назад
Sadia Khan is a true modern woman with traditional values. Her intellect, insights, communication style, gentle yet firm demeanour makes her so wonderful to listen to. AND Her femininity, spirituality, intuition and beauty is appreciated by me too :) Great conversation -thankyou
@davedsilva
@davedsilva 9 месяцев назад
She is full of crap. Notice how she shames women younger than her for naturally liking older menn
@ousamaabdu794
@ousamaabdu794 9 месяцев назад
She's far from traditional
@choicemc
@choicemc 9 месяцев назад
You articulated my sentiments exactly!!
@NicolasNiggles
@NicolasNiggles 9 месяцев назад
Agree. She talks like a high class escort in a lot of her videos and has said she wouldn’t even look at a man without money (how unsporituai !!) she’s not a licensed psychologist and not trained - she’s been reported to authorities. She called me a slut and a hoe because I said women watch porn as well as men as she shakes men watching porn. She then made a hate campaign against me lying about me telling her followers that I hacked her instagram- she’s not mentally stable and I have all the proof if anybody wants to see it. She’s also suggested to users they have been neglected as a child. She’s damaging and immature
@jgg7168
@jgg7168 9 месяцев назад
She is a breath of fresh air, although her views and own actions can be slightly confusing. She preaches many things that she does not either do or follow herself. Almost all of her views on religion and culture for example are very contradictory
@kendplumber4615
@kendplumber4615 Месяц назад
This is deep….. Fantastic. I’ve been single for the last 3yrs because I’ve seen my 7yr old daughter going through hell, living with her mother and her new boyfriend (not so new now). I live for my daughter with a safe home for her to get away. I don’t need to look for a new partner just yet. I just love receiving a smile or a giggle from my little peanut… until she spreads her wings. I’m here for her. Everyone has a different story with different priorities. PS: I’m a successful business owner.
@yanicklajoie6237
@yanicklajoie6237 4 месяца назад
What a gem of a conversation ! When normal/regular people bring more than decades of TV moguls.
@Shay416
@Shay416 7 месяцев назад
I love how she corrected his definition of Boundaries; a boundary is NOT a punishment. It is simply explaining what/what not you will allow and the how the person who set the boundary will react if that boundary is crossed. It is a way to keep people in your life by clearly expressing how you will react to certain behaviour especially behaviour that challenges your peace/safety.
@TeamProU
@TeamProU 6 месяцев назад
I like that
@medini2
@medini2 6 месяцев назад
Yeah, but the problem is people like to use the "you're crossing my boundaries" argument for attempting to discuss your own boundaries.
@jboogie722
@jboogie722 6 месяцев назад
@@medini2that’s when a discussion needs to be made because that person who says that may have a misunderstanding of what a boundary is
@Devil_Around_Midnight
@Devil_Around_Midnight 5 месяцев назад
​​​@@medini2that's because a lot of people are just shitheads and you shouldnt listen to them, do your own thing, obviously people will have boundaries and there are always rats and abusers. But those petty hearted people should not dominate any narrative. Choose yourself, and learn how to explain your wishes and wants in a non aggressive and oppresive way that allows combat and turns into a fight, for a man it's important to master the skill of being unmoved, because women rarely understand this skill, do not match her energy or it's not going to last. If you have confidence in your own desires then you can make people accept those, even admire you. Instead of being mad over the things they have been taught and how they think they will get their way. Also, you can mold women, even ones that are broken, but sometimes it can be dangerous, a lunatic is not worth working on. Key things to look out for are malignant lying and small acts of violence towards you, these people are capable of exploding, ignoring morals and do terrible things to others.
@juliemainwaring3329
@juliemainwaring3329 5 месяцев назад
Tom just said that the smartest man is smarter than the smartest woman. Where's the data on that?
@dzelumichello4968
@dzelumichello4968 9 месяцев назад
This was one of the best interviews I’ve seen online. One, because Tom is a great interviewer and he asks the uncomfortable questions while checking for facts. Secondly, coz Ms. Sadia has awesome emotional intelligence, she answers the questions calmly and collected without wavering on her core values and beliefs. Above all, both are able to articulate their views with respect for one another. Shout out to both of you 🫡🫡🫡
@preciselogic
@preciselogic Месяц назад
When she spoke on the simple things to make a man melt for a woman are feminine qualities. We're supposed to attract to that. That's her super power! A man's appreciation is like a pat on the back for scoring. A woman's appreciation is fuel for me to keep fighting and playing the game! My family 😊
@BMUDD316
@BMUDD316 5 месяцев назад
This is the first time I have been introduced to you and I was glued. I found your thoughts and opinions concise and filled with conviction. I think you have an amazing ability at expressing yourself and this conversation was inspiring, interesting, thoughtful, and I look forward to hearing the next podcast on whatever the topic because I have no doubt that there will be something to gain from it. Thank you for your motivation at human fulfillment. All the best with full sincerity!
@gulkhan8437
@gulkhan8437 8 месяцев назад
I love this woman. Her “ humanity” is breathtaking. The insights, the vulnerability, the silliness, the bravery, the openness. She puts herself out there. I don’t even have to agree with her, it’s just amazing.
@DTreatz
@DTreatz 7 месяцев назад
she's a grifter
@user-yc3gs6xz1j
@user-yc3gs6xz1j 7 месяцев назад
Even if you disagree with her, she is at least trying to be the communicator that women claim to be. She has some courage and worthy of respect.
@gdcskates
@gdcskates 6 месяцев назад
woman?.
@youtubesucks2755
@youtubesucks2755 6 месяцев назад
@@gdcskates She is not a woman?
@user-dh8yb7oe9v
@user-dh8yb7oe9v 6 месяцев назад
I absolutely agree. She is like a wave, she is a force❤
@johnmorggan619
@johnmorggan619 7 месяцев назад
I’ve seen her in many interviews and she is usually being asked the questions. Tom is a great but he dominated the conversation. However, Sadia is so gifted at what she does, she allowed Tom to be him while transforming herself to interviewer…and then masterfully playing off his responses to ask questions and build content! She just put on a master class! Credit to Tom’s sharing and transparency!!
@marcgossack2500
@marcgossack2500 7 месяцев назад
Tom seems to always overload the conversation.
@louiser1985
@louiser1985 7 месяцев назад
Loved Tom but have moved away from him for that reason.
@johninflorida8634
@johninflorida8634 7 месяцев назад
Tom, interrupts and talks over people. Let's face it, he IS a self centered jerk.
@solvedfyi
@solvedfyi 6 месяцев назад
I think it's my first time hearing her but I ran so fast to the screen in the first few minutes to see who she was and what her name is... she was spitting pure facts the whole time. An amazing interviewee, insightful and thoughtful
@ParaFoxxen
@ParaFoxxen 6 месяцев назад
@@solvedfyishe’s just saying the things you want to hear - aka psychology 101/manipulation 101. Why do you think she’s so suddenly big, compared to the ones that truly speak of the truth? The algorithm has been programmed to make her look good.
@jasminasinanbegovic6225
@jasminasinanbegovic6225 6 месяцев назад
I love her presentation, from softness in voice, mimic to sitting posture, says a lot
@BlackButterFlyTongue
@BlackButterFlyTongue 5 месяцев назад
We just watched Tom's therapy session in which he vented and exercised his thoughts, feelings and beliefs that are within his paradise garden/marriage.
@Michelle-cn9zp
@Michelle-cn9zp 8 месяцев назад
I totally feel this woman when she say women give women a hard time. I’m currently experiencing this at a new job I started. Women are cruel to other women that they are intimidated by. It’s ridiculous. This whole episode has been very informative as usual. Love this.❤️‍🔥
@BonaFideWildLife
@BonaFideWildLife 8 месяцев назад
Be the change you wish to see! Stay you, beautiful you!
@idunnmyhr8854
@idunnmyhr8854 7 месяцев назад
If the past and present system valued women. The mothers were to provide the heir, continue the family name.. It's not longer ago we were 'kept' like children. Maybe if that wasn't part of the history we would have less broken women. Today's world valued women has ' sex appeal , beauty, etc., but it's based on biased expectations. Modern girls self esteem where sisters, colleagues, and such feel competitive as to heal self esteem issues, the broken value systems.
@kellyrmcmahon7893
@kellyrmcmahon7893 7 месяцев назад
I know women are really the worse for judgement of other women
@hmart276
@hmart276 7 месяцев назад
Totally @Michelle-cn9zp I have seen this often. Severe cases at times. If you're pretty and well-liked, be ready for women to hate on you. Bullies at work are all too common sadly. Stay being you as chiched as it sounds. Keep living by your values.
@nope5749
@nope5749 7 месяцев назад
Yes as a woman I completely related to what she was saying in regards to female managers. I haven't fared very well there either. It's like they have to assert their controlling dominance and prove themselves above you. It makes me wonder what their home environment is like if they feel the need to control at work. Perhaps do they have no control in other areas of their life?
@antoniosantos4354
@antoniosantos4354 9 месяцев назад
This episode has been exceptionally stimulating already. But Sadia's "Awws", just sounds so particularly endearing to me. And I am awed by her gentleness while questioning, and the clarity and the depths of her points of view, and her fearless intellectual persuasiveness. Tom's passionate eloquence is such a delight to witness and to listen to. Bravo to Tom and Sadia. This episode is indeed a class on its own. Thank you, Tom and Sadia for the intellectual delights that you shared with us.
@latinaries
@latinaries 6 месяцев назад
Not me crying about wanting that sense of love and security that you have with your wife 😭 literally goals!
@DianaOrzan
@DianaOrzan 6 месяцев назад
Tom, I can't get enough of your talks with Sadia Khan. I'd listen to a 8 hours podcast, should you do such one!❤
@Kdreidable
@Kdreidable 9 месяцев назад
I love so much that she said, “He can get his own [tea, coffee, sandwich] but he likes when she does it. Just like she can pay the bill, but likes when he does it. ❤
@tharlikar1
@tharlikar1 8 месяцев назад
tea coffee sandwich is cheap. bill are expensive.
@tharlikar1
@tharlikar1 8 месяцев назад
@@BB-xx3dv lol yeah, men will pay every tea, coffee, sandwich and bill just to have and enjoy the small gesture beneath them. oh poor man.
@Maggiebenjee
@Maggiebenjee 7 месяцев назад
Literally nothing new about that statement.
@eQuariuz
@eQuariuz 7 месяцев назад
The difference is, women NEED the cooperation of men for survival, men don't need the cooperation of women.
@nope5749
@nope5749 7 месяцев назад
I think the more modern issue is that both partners are paying the bills but he still expects to be served tea, coffee, and sandwich while giving nothing extra in return.
@Paula-fd6lj
@Paula-fd6lj 9 месяцев назад
What i loved about this interview is 1. The level of honesty in Sadia in admitting her expertise is capped in some areas and is actually looking for more data to complete her own opinion on a subject by asking Tom. 2. Tom's honesty in sharing his personal experience and wisdom. 3. Sadia teaching the rules to a healthy relationship and Tom embodying that example. In life one can learn to recognize toxicity but will continue to make the same mistakes due to an inability to create a new path to replace the toxic one. Seeing Sadia's theory come alive through Tom's real life experience and witnessing Tom sharing real steps towards a healthy partnership is priceless. I have trained myself to be hyperaware of toxic patterns but I lack the ability to recognize what to replace them with, to recognize what the alternative should be and Tom brought such clarity to this subject for me and of course this was accomplished because his guest was Sadia.
@pryncessyanni
@pryncessyanni 4 месяца назад
I love the concept of having shared meaning and purpose in a partnership that was highlighted by Sadia! I align more with Tom's perspectives, but I do appreciate Sadia's worldview.
@garygameon
@garygameon 6 месяцев назад
How are they able to speak for 3 effing hours? But still create value. Tom does actually have or will have a legacy. It's this, Impact Theory. All this valuable content for generations ahead. To inspire, motivate, learn and be better.
@HARwinsOUTagain
@HARwinsOUTagain 9 месяцев назад
The problem I see with arranged marriages is assuming that parents have good judgement themselves. Parents are not perfect.
@jarvanwildrift8056
@jarvanwildrift8056 9 месяцев назад
Correct, its borderline slavery and cant be applied easily to a free society.
@DeepThinkersClub
@DeepThinkersClub 9 месяцев назад
Amen!
@DeepThinkersClub
@DeepThinkersClub 9 месяцев назад
Also, people change. Life is about evolving.
@bobby8630
@bobby8630 9 месяцев назад
Based on my experience, the only reason the divorce rate is low is because of the huge social stigma a divorce presents within these cultures. If you are divorced, the chances of you getting another arranged marriage are effective zero. So they both stay with each other out of fear, and this breeds massive resentment. I have uncles and aunties, who have been married for decades, have a nice home, children, but there is absolutely no romantic connection whatsoever, some sleep in separate rooms…
@juniperk912
@juniperk912 9 месяцев назад
Arranged marriage just means arranged to meet the other person. The potential couple ultimately has the choice to be married or not. At least, that's what arranged marriages are like now. Back in the day I'm sure parents chose spouses for their children without push back.
@therelationshipmessenger-u6838
@therelationshipmessenger-u6838 9 месяцев назад
How intellectually refreshing. Dr. Sadia Khan has my deepest respect in a world where truth and understanding is fashionably unpopular.
@jarvanwildrift8056
@jarvanwildrift8056 9 месяцев назад
Still its a lot of stigma around arrange marraige. I mean you get beaten to a pulp if you disagree. You are also poor and have to take care of the family when the partner works 12 hour days. You cant apply it to a modern society with a great outcome, its borderline slavery.
@googlekopfkind
@googlekopfkind 9 месяцев назад
Actually she is not a Dr.
@Greenleaves-pf2xn
@Greenleaves-pf2xn 5 месяцев назад
Tom is so mentally sorted. Love it. I’m almost saving this to rewatch everything he said.
@sorintudor6062
@sorintudor6062 6 месяцев назад
The only podcast where the host talks more than the guest
@furiosaningveryserious7104
@furiosaningveryserious7104 9 месяцев назад
Sadie is amazing with her insights. Also she knows how to give time letting Tom talk. I really respect her.
@TheDionysianFields
@TheDionysianFields 9 месяцев назад
I felt like Tom had most of the convo by himself, and could have had the rest of it. She lost me at God.
@user-xt5ot2us1x
@user-xt5ot2us1x 8 месяцев назад
But I did not tune in to hear Tom talk. I want to hear the guest.
@gs2tab
@gs2tab 8 месяцев назад
Is there a version of this chat that mutes Tom? I'd prefer to listen to that one.
@Maggiebenjee
@Maggiebenjee 7 месяцев назад
Isn't the point for the GUEST to speak????
@bad.chickie66
@bad.chickie66 Месяц назад
@@TheDionysianFieldsyou can’t have morals without God.
@icedemond24
@icedemond24 9 месяцев назад
finally a woman that know a bitter truth is better than a sweet lie
@roserevancroix2308
@roserevancroix2308 9 месяцев назад
Knowing and learning are two seperate things though, many people know driinking is bad for you but does that mean they don't drink? No, they will still go out and drink again next weekend. Did their previous hook-up lead to happiness or failure and depression? Did they learn something? Did they change? Unlikely, people don't change - they repeat the same mistakes. And they don't learn either - they blame everything and vereyone else for their own bad choices in life.
@icedemond24
@icedemond24 9 месяцев назад
@roserevancroix2308 can't say I'm part of that group. I've never been a drinker, and those who don't learn from their mistakes are a lost cause and sadly they problem is a bigger pandemic than covid was
@TheDionysianFields
@TheDionysianFields 9 месяцев назад
@@roserevancroix2308 I disagree. It's important to do things that are "bad" for us now and then. Alcohol is another way to shock the body, which we know that shocking the body is a large part of how it grows and adapts. Plus, you're not boring.
@TheDionysianFields
@TheDionysianFields 9 месяцев назад
@@roserevancroix2308 Adding to my last comment, I would say that the time to quit is the first time something no longer brings you joy. And for something like a hook-up, that could certainly be the very first time. To continue doing something that leaves one feeling empty is certainly a sign of mental illness. And if that's your overall sentiment, I'm on board with you.
@florianb3935
@florianb3935 9 месяцев назад
What she says is really interesting yeah. However she's soo seductive in her attitude. She's playing with him the whole interview. I would find it EXTREMELY uncomfortable. When men project their flirty energy to other women, we call them harassers. But on the other hand, it's the man's fault if he falls for her hostess-like manners, which she uses to try & take the upper hand in the conversation. Hats off to Tom for being so stoical!
@nsebast
@nsebast 3 месяца назад
My wife is gorgeous but she has this entitlement attitude that she deserves all things given to her. She sometimes gets angry if I give her less than what she expected. I told her about this and thankfully she is changing.
@mattyghost3409
@mattyghost3409 Месяц назад
I have a pretty thai gf but she does think she's a deity...In Thailand women think in terms of scarcity because most men there aren't well off and the regular girls that aren't working girls want relationships....They want certainty and stability... Every thing in the West is based on an abundance mindset...
@jacobclayton2954
@jacobclayton2954 6 месяцев назад
Truly enjoyed their intellectual connection. Loved the humanity in Sadia as well as her curiousity. I loved his balance and logic to keep them both honest and answer critical questions and think critically when needed.
@akhtar7574
@akhtar7574 9 месяцев назад
This level of maturity and wisdom in the conversation between these 2 people is astounding
@something1162
@something1162 9 месяцев назад
It's almost ridiculous how insightful Sadia is. And someone of her caliber deserves the kind of probing questions you asked. Phenomenal content.
@villaespesa1
@villaespesa1 9 месяцев назад
She reminds me of Esher Perel. She is so insightful too.
@PythaGoras1776
@PythaGoras1776 8 месяцев назад
Not really. She's says she's non judgemental. That means she's not really telling you what she actually thinks. Women always say they're non judgemental so we don't judge them. Anyone with a brain is judgemental
@timothylong617
@timothylong617 2 месяца назад
How does someone put this lovely woman down? This conversation is absolutely terrific! I can honestly say, I agree with probably everything discussed here. Bless you!
@niqko8055
@niqko8055 2 месяца назад
One of thee best podcasts. We appreciate what you do Tony and the guests you bring
@Xosamanthaotero
@Xosamanthaotero 7 месяцев назад
The part you mentioned about really appreciating Lisa’s attractiveness and beauty while she is young just made me feel so emotional. As human beings it can become all too simple to take things for granted. The communication you two have in your marriage is similar to what I aspire to in mine.
@TeamProU
@TeamProU 6 месяцев назад
simp
@mili7374
@mili7374 9 месяцев назад
Tom you are the most sincere and bold man that I have seen on You Tube! Thank you to you and Lisa for sharing your life lessons with us. I wish you two healthy long lives!
@DreadVEMON
@DreadVEMON 6 месяцев назад
One of the best and most truthful interveiws on the record to date!! This platform and ALL others! Thank You! This episode is puuure gold wrapped in beautiful womb wisdom. Big ups & props for this one Tom! ...and special admiration & gratitude to you Miss Sadia Khan.
@TaniaSeabock
@TaniaSeabock 2 месяца назад
These 2 are so brilliant! Great interview!
@donvee2000
@donvee2000 8 месяцев назад
She said so many things that Kevin Samuels used to say... especially the part about a marriage being more about duty than romantic love. Duty is the ultimate expression of love...Romatic love will fade long before duty to one another. Without duty there will be nothing left once Romantic love fade. Then we wonder why the divorce rates are so high.
@sophiashekinah9872
@sophiashekinah9872 8 месяцев назад
I TOTALLY agree that Honesty and Integrity are non-negotiables.
@theknownpoet
@theknownpoet 19 дней назад
She’s amazing!Appreciate the platform beyond words🏁
@tiniciayoung
@tiniciayoung 4 месяца назад
I love love love her Unapologetic realness especially when it comes to things that are true. I love her values! Awesome episode
@Nah-ah
@Nah-ah 9 месяцев назад
When Sadia talked about women being difficult in the workplace, that has also been my experience! Men had never been a problem to me. That’s been my personal experience as well! Edit: I meant “women being difficult to other women” in the workplace.
@beedebawng2556
@beedebawng2556 9 месяцев назад
Difficult in what way exactly?
@charlesmcdowell9436
@charlesmcdowell9436 9 месяцев назад
​@beedebawng2556 they sometimes feel they have much to prove and go crazy on the micro managing.
@roserevancroix2308
@roserevancroix2308 9 месяцев назад
It's everyone's experience not just yours - more females in the workplace or any place = more problems. Same thing goes for the gyms, problems problems - if we create only-female spaces and only male-spaces let's compare stats after a year or so and you will find and see just how problematic females are and all they do is fight, and disagree, and get jealous, and hurt, and bla bla, they love drama and they love attention, if they don't get it they get bored.
@Nah-ah
@Nah-ah 9 месяцев назад
@@beedebawng2556 I meant to write “women being difficult to to other women in the workplace.” Women tend be nasty to other women in the workplace. It can be bc you’re younger, attractive, come from a certain class/family/ethnicity/you’re intelligent/smart and especially if other people also find you attractive, and it used to get worse when they saw male colleagues chatting to me! I don’t know if it was a competitive thing, maybe! 🤔 I never stopped to ask. It’s crazy bc my then bf (now husband) was always very present and everyone knew him where I worked. The annoying thing is someone made something up about me and another male work colleague as a joke and my bf found out and that was a hurtful thing. It still blows my mind to this day. Women gossip and especially bring other women down if they feel threatened in some way. I never understood it bc I’m the youngest of 5 girls and I’ve always been cared for by my older siblings and I’ve always looked up to them and other women especially older women (still do) and 3/4 of times I wasn’t really appreciated. The same thing happened to me in school as well, all the way to high school.
@nobledarkmoon
@nobledarkmoon 9 месяцев назад
As a guy, I don't want to work in a female dominated workplace. There are far to many risks, and those risks will affect my family. Accusations of impropriety can end up with loss of job and possible criminal record. These affect income, and that income will affect the family.
@ShutterNChill
@ShutterNChill 8 месяцев назад
"You should not be offended by reality, it truth offends you, you have a problem." Thank you Sadia Khan! I think this is the key issue that we as society face. When someone points out something where I made a blind (perhaps unknowing or unaware) compromise, I thank the person, even if it hurts. This is what it means to be a responsible adult. And yes, the more it hurts, the harder it is to look inside and face the truth, or, at least, take steps towards seeking it. Throwing a tantrum because compromised values or standards or actions were exposed is extremely childish. High time for our society to grow up.
@23e445
@23e445 Месяц назад
I love this conversation. This was very mature, respectful and knowledgeable, insightful, and convincing.
@anitateilane8472
@anitateilane8472 5 месяцев назад
Such a great conversation ❤ lot of things to learn from your life experience Tom. Thank you for sharing!
@devanggraini111
@devanggraini111 9 месяцев назад
I just love when Tom speaks about relationships and marriage particularly because he has a loving marriage with Lisa. Refreshing to hear. Thanks for bringing Sadia Khan, Tom.
@beyourself2788
@beyourself2788 9 месяцев назад
Sadia is one of the most intelligent women I have seen, the only young women I can really say I follow! An influencer!
@streetschoolprof.
@streetschoolprof. Месяц назад
I need a woman like this in my life. Beauty, character and intelligence all in one package.
@christk76
@christk76 Месяц назад
not many real diamonds in this world, but exists :D
@sateIIitepilot
@sateIIitepilot 29 дней назад
Grow hair, dye that gray and get some muscle on you pal and you might be able to
@Bronte866
@Bronte866 22 дня назад
I find that most men my own age have one foot in the grave and the other one also in the grave. They seem to have no care for how they look and have perhaps not been socialized to care a great deal about their look and persona. . These comments have many older men who are drooling over her -“THIS is what I want. I want a woman like THIS. “ Getting their groove on might mean taking a shower & putting on a new shirt. Sure, you want this woman, and it’s just bad luck you didn’t run into her so she could date you. This woman has her hair professionally colored & styled. She is wearing expensive cosmetics and has spent a lifetime learning how to apply them. She has a professionally done manicure. The suit she is wearing likely costs around $600. She has spent many hard, grueling years pursuing a university education. Her demeanor and manner of speaking didn’t just come to her by luck. Cary Grant spoke about practicing taking a cigarette out of it’s CASE & lighting it a million times in a mirror so he would look like perfection doing it. Not for films but for his personal polish. He looked breathtaking until the day he died and had his choice of mostly any woman he wanted. Because he was just lucky? A film star? Wealthy! No. He cared about how he looked, wanted to be polished and graceful because those were the type of people he wanted to be around. He colored his hair, he took care of his body ‘and stayed fit. He liked the way he looked with a tan. He kept up with fashion and only bought the best clothing he could afford. He did not go to university but kept himself well/informed of the world and read constantly. He made an effort to be a polished gentleman. The second I hear a man say, “ What women require is money,” I’m out of there as the man has just told me he is jaded and is not a good judge of character. Actually I suggest never saying something silly like that out loud to anyone. It’s such a bad look. So I agree with you that if almost any man or woman will bring to the table what they themselves want, you will have it.
@brooklyn3299
@brooklyn3299 15 дней назад
Y’all just going to try and destroy/humble women like this. Stay away from them.
@mlghs8771
@mlghs8771 4 месяца назад
There’s one thing that kept coming back to me and that was why Sadia kept interrupting Tom’s line of thought.and I’ve checked a lot of Sadia’s interviews and this keeps on happening!
@SheriBellLifeCoach
@SheriBellLifeCoach Месяц назад
Agreed. She didn’t let him finish a lot of his thoughts.
@garyrickards9562
@garyrickards9562 8 месяцев назад
It comes down to not being with someone in order to feel completely whole, work on yourself and listen to your gut. It never lies
@JasmineSkyeYoga
@JasmineSkyeYoga 9 месяцев назад
Amazing!! I love how Sadia speaks so courageously against the overwhelming promiscuity that is so prevalent in todays culture. Thank you for having her on your show.
@Johnny_Savage
@Johnny_Savage 8 месяцев назад
then why is she single and a serial dater?
@n.altondesign9711
@n.altondesign9711 8 месяцев назад
She said she’s in a committed relationship.
@Medietos
@Medietos 8 месяцев назад
Serial-dating to find her husband-potential to date seriously, is not what promiscuous means, which is often to change sexual partners outside of committed relationships; casual sexual dating @@Johnny_Savage
@nancci3
@nancci3 8 месяцев назад
@@Johnny_Savageshe said she doesn’t believe (practise) in sex before marriage and is in a committed relationship. I’d say that relationship is sexless with a view for marriage. This is how authentic Christian’s and Muslims behave in the dating stages. Even divorcées revert back to this if they believe in their God and remain with same values.
@benrb287
@benrb287 5 месяцев назад
This is an awesome and very humble discussion. Just two people wanting to discuss ideas and learn from each other. Thanks for sharing!
@sevdateske
@sevdateske 5 месяцев назад
Sadia is so wise, always amazed by her insights and wholesomeness!
@littledumpling6454
@littledumpling6454 7 месяцев назад
She so right about the shared values. One of the ways I knew my husband was for me was the way our families got along. And now that we have been married for a while I see all the ways we were raised similarly.
@mexicanlucky
@mexicanlucky 3 месяца назад
Yeah, it's too bad nowadays parents don't see this and leave all the responsibility to the young one. My parents never introduced me to other social circles,It made me feel like they were ashamed of me.
@akumacode
@akumacode 9 месяцев назад
I come from a very different background with different values and beliefs, but the things she talks about and how she goes about talking about it leaves me a lot of room to feel challenged. And I'm liking it
@TheDionysianFields
@TheDionysianFields 9 месяцев назад
Sort of, but the whole God thing falls flat for me.
@TheHighlanderprime
@TheHighlanderprime 6 месяцев назад
Excellent exchanges! I feel like I’ve learned something from this segment that I might have overlooked before.
@danielleclaiborne1155
@danielleclaiborne1155 Месяц назад
Absolutely the most beautiful and insightful podcast I’ve ever listened to. Thank you Tom and Sadia.
@gfresquez86
@gfresquez86 8 месяцев назад
I was gripped to this conversation the entire way through. I love it when intelligent people talk.
@AB-1023
@AB-1023 9 месяцев назад
Dang she is gold. I imagine the majority of women think like her, but are hesitant to admit it. Plus she has the IQ and bravery to articulate it. Thank you Sadia
@2berrydelicious
@2berrydelicious 9 месяцев назад
No many of you type of folks may actually glean this, however ya'll rather and/or make the decision to want to treat women as objects who cannot think and behave for themselves so that women meet your needs solely and lastly you do not have to meet theirs 🤔🤔🤔
@Handlethis342
@Handlethis342 9 месяцев назад
Total speculation
@jimmymaracas6442
@jimmymaracas6442 9 месяцев назад
Imagine being the key word
@jimmyjamessac7171
@jimmyjamessac7171 9 месяцев назад
No person is above anyone
@jimmyjamessac7171
@jimmyjamessac7171 9 месяцев назад
You'll win once you finalize the manuscript, even close to it.
@bricelegendnducho
@bricelegendnducho Месяц назад
sadia khan, I need her kind of self confidence, this is priceless
@user-dh8yb7oe9v
@user-dh8yb7oe9v 6 месяцев назад
That was an amazing video, thank you Sadia and Tom!
@sophiashekinah9872
@sophiashekinah9872 8 месяцев назад
I think it is very dangerous for a person to grow up to "accept authority". I think that a responsible parent would teach their children to question authority, and ultimately to become their own authority. A society full of individuals who "accept authority" is an irresistible temptation to be expoited by someone who's power-obsessed.
@TvrkishOutlaw
@TvrkishOutlaw 10 дней назад
👏
@augustclark3337
@augustclark3337 9 месяцев назад
Very interesting interview.. She is quite a lady, very articulate, straight-talker, full of common sense.. fascinating mixture of Eastern and Western values.. and no sign of wokeness... Thank you !
@Lawrence-tw6yc
@Lawrence-tw6yc 9 месяцев назад
I tried to watch but didn't find it interesting or informative.
@davidmiraglia7054
@davidmiraglia7054 3 месяца назад
I’m so glad you blew the top off the red pill pandemic. A couple years back I decided to listen to a few of these guys, and it didn’t take me long to figure out that they are hurt men that have not genuinely processed their life traumas, or pain from separation. I’ve recently hung out with an old friend that lives by the red pill community. That was the last time I saw him. Men, take ownership of your life. If you lost a high value woman, do the work to bring yourselves up, not destroy her. Be the high value man, and a high value woman will find you. Hell, maybe even the one that left you.
@Daveena1008
@Daveena1008 20 часов назад
Fascinating discussion - very thought provoking! Sadia is a gem to listen to.
@BnPac1
@BnPac1 9 месяцев назад
Tom is really a brilliant interviewer. I'm getting interested in this woman, I find her refreshing and brutally honest in her opinions. I've also watched some interviews with her but I think Tom is the first interviewer who is not afraid to ask her hard and uncomfortable questions. It makes for a very interesting interview. Thanks to both of you.
@Scouthead
@Scouthead 8 месяцев назад
It's such a relief to hear a woman say that it's not only natural for a woman to submit to a man, but it's also healthy. I have found that I truly do better in life with a man by my side. I am capable and can take care of myself, but it's stressful. Having a loving, caring partner whom I can trust makes all the difference in the world. In my last relationship I couldn't trust my partner. He had poor judgement and was deceitful. This was even more exhausting than trying to handle life on my own. Now I'm with a man I adore and trust and to whom I do submit (although that's not something he asks for). I have a huge amount of respect for him and I feel loved and cared for by the endless number of things he does to help make life easier for me. It's such a relief and I am so glad to know that I am fulfilling a natural role. Modern feminists would have women feel weak and backwards for wanting a man to help care for them. It's a breath of fresh air to have someone so articulately explain why it's good and natural for a woman to feel calmer and reassured with a good man by her side. Thank you Sadia.
@LouLouLion
@LouLouLion 7 месяцев назад
Submit my ass
@mztwixed
@mztwixed 7 месяцев назад
Amen. Help meet. ❤ Marriage with a compatible partner is a gift!!
@dotendit
@dotendit 6 месяцев назад
Well said! You're lucky to have such a good man.
@Secular-Serenity
@Secular-Serenity 5 месяцев назад
My husband and I submit to each other in various capacities. He is great at building and designing, for example. I am proficient at managing family money.
@Secular-Serenity
@Secular-Serenity 5 месяцев назад
I feel that the arranged marriages came from long ago and it was for survival of the families. Well, that’s what I learned in college anyway.
@EMSCNM
@EMSCNM Месяц назад
This was honestly the sweetest conversation.
@listen2understand
@listen2understand 6 месяцев назад
thank you for interviewing Sadia, you put it gently, lovingly and simply. God bless you. Please watch Delafe testimonies to see how people can change and understand what a healthy relationship looks like
@RadicalDreamerzs
@RadicalDreamerzs 7 месяцев назад
Tom, Sadia, I want to say thank you to the both of you. This conversation is an answer to my life' struggle. Deep down I always knew what were my problems but I couldn't figure out how to say it out loud in a simple way and both of you just made it so much easier for me. Truly, thanks. Be blessed.
@francobola9920
@francobola9920 5 месяцев назад
Be a dreamer not a radical dreamer, but take radical action, without action , dreams become fantasies
@mmasimi
@mmasimi 9 месяцев назад
What a FANTASTIC INTERVIEW. I’ve watched multiple of Shadia’s interviews, and this is the best one so far. What wonderful questions and such insightful questions. Seems like you both forgot about the cameras in the room and were just having a conversation. What a gift, thank you both.
@PhotoAmbrosia
@PhotoAmbrosia Месяц назад
Husband can say you are fat, but he has to allow her the resources to change that. Also, the fact that there are 20 somethings everywhere in various stages if undress, means you might be expecting too much from your wife. She wont look 20 again and she will sense your disappointment if you expect a 20 year old.
@Kissmytailfeather
@Kissmytailfeather 5 месяцев назад
Really wish that this was what more people would watch when it comes to relationships. This is very balanced and there is no bashing of the sexes. I really appreciate this content. Thank you!❤
@DavidVelasquez9
@DavidVelasquez9 9 месяцев назад
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
@peterwilliams6361
@peterwilliams6361 9 месяцев назад
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
@DavidVelasquez9
@DavidVelasquez9 9 месяцев назад
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@peterwilliams6361
@peterwilliams6361 9 месяцев назад
Her name is *Victoria Lee hess*, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@DavidVelasquez9
@DavidVelasquez9 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@ib1ray
@ib1ray 9 месяцев назад
Are you fucking kidding me! A bot thread to sell the services of a spiritual advisor??
@_stephanie
@_stephanie 9 месяцев назад
Sadia is probably the guest I've had the hardest time *wanting* to listen to, which I think makes it that much more important to listen. I've disagreed with guests before, but I guess our ideas diverge in areas where I feel more strongly. Still, I was actually surprised by how much I do agree with some of what she says, or at least can arrive to a similar conclusion as her, even if for different reasons (like you, I find a lot of religious ideals line up with my own morals/habits that I have chosen for myself, but through science, observation, and coincidence rather than because of religious stories). I really appreciate that you can both agree and disagree and discuss with respect and nuance, not just back and forth shouting about feminist/tradition/whatever.
@Vision33r
@Vision33r 9 месяцев назад
Feminism, it's an illusion to suck women into believe they can do anything a man can do. In reality feminism is simply a whip to crack on men. Let's see how long that whip of yours can keep cracking.
@Titunka
@Titunka 6 месяцев назад
Such amazing interview! Thank you!
@livbz3834
@livbz3834 5 месяцев назад
Sadia is brillant and thankfully honest! Environment makes almost everything. Childhood plays such a key role in the future behavior and personality of people.
@Guddilove801
@Guddilove801 9 месяцев назад
Sadie is a breath of fresh air to our suffocating modern world. Thank you Tom for sharing your values that apply in your marriage as an example and making this interview very authentic and engaging.
@maimaivaj91
@maimaivaj91 9 месяцев назад
Love the way Tom talks about Lisa and to her. They have such a beautiful relationship. I 100% relate with Tom about being aggressive by boiling things down to its simplest thing.
@varia02denys19
@varia02denys19 4 месяца назад
Thanks to you both for brilliant and insightful discussion.
@staceylebron944
@staceylebron944 5 месяцев назад
Another amazing and insightful conversation with you both. Thank you.
@tulaloo6526
@tulaloo6526 9 месяцев назад
I enjoyed this conversation for the most part and agreed with probably 90% of the points outlined. The area I have contention with is the focus on women having to understand that men require them, in a marriage, serving them food, getting their needs met domestically. This is difficult for a lot of women when we are working full time, being a mother full time, caring for the household responsibilities and men are required to have a job. This is absolutely ridiculous. Women would be able to handle all the responsibilities of running a home and family without the full time job they have to have to keep the family surviving. There is no mention of men changing their old style of work, come home be served and cared for and mowing the lawn once a week or shoveling snow. Men should also contribute to the running of the home and caring of the children, it would ease up time for a woman to concentrate some of her time to catering to her husband. I am 60+ yo old woman. I have seen a lot of change because of feminism. I use to experience harassment as a 12 yo girl delivering papers, older men cat calling me or making sexual comments about me. As a teenager, I worked in a BBQ joint and my boss smacked me in the butt and I got fired because I told him not to touch me ever again. As a teenager up to my young adulthood, I was turned down for raises or promotion because the boy/man I was "competing" with was deemed more favorable because he was working towards raising a family. Things are not that way today but I can certainly attest to the fact that my experience may have been anecdotal but a lot of women experienced those types of things in the 50s, 60s, 70s and even the 80s.
@friedllamasauce1014
@friedllamasauce1014 8 месяцев назад
100% agree
@zipkeen8339
@zipkeen8339 9 месяцев назад
After trying many things I now find marriage to be freeing. That is I now have all this time to focus more on other things besides relationships.
@pastexpiry2013B
@pastexpiry2013B 9 месяцев назад
Imagine the freedom if you discard marriage too!
@zipkeen8339
@zipkeen8339 9 месяцев назад
If it wasn't so lonely@@pastexpiry2013B
@imcustomized
@imcustomized 9 месяцев назад
@@pastexpiry2013B 😅😅
@ib1ray
@ib1ray 9 месяцев назад
​@@pastexpiry2013Blol
@mannykirton7232
@mannykirton7232 5 месяцев назад
I can listen to you two banter all day this is very informative and helpful thank you so much this guy is F ing Aces!
@frankosukoya5025
@frankosukoya5025 5 месяцев назад
I appreciate your MENDING MOMENTARILY MENTAL MATHEMATICS FOR LIVING IN PEACEFUL CONTENTMENT WITH LOVING PROGRESSION.
@StrangeMinee
@StrangeMinee 9 месяцев назад
Sadia is the 💣 bomb! I love how honest she is and then she turns it around and interviews the interviewer 😅. She'sso classy and humble.
@TomBilyeu
@TomBilyeu 8 месяцев назад
We're stoked you appreciated the conversation! What was the biggest take away for you? Best, Impact Theory Community Manager
@KiNG-tx9je
@KiNG-tx9je 9 месяцев назад
When I was about 6-8. I used to ask my mom was she mad at me? Did i do something wrong? I always FELT like she was mad. Not at my junkie dad. Not at her job. At ME. 35 Years later. She is suing me for what my grandmother (whom mom low key hated) left me. And the truth has come tumbling out. She always resented the way my Gram loved me..Kids KNOW.
@letsdothis9063
@letsdothis9063 9 месяцев назад
Yup. I grew up with my dad resenting me for my mom's family being from the wrong side of the tracks, and my grandmother resented me because my dad's family was affluent. I always knew.
@reneehenry283
@reneehenry283 4 месяца назад
Thank u for having the courage to share this narrative
@saboorbunny9995
@saboorbunny9995 4 месяца назад
What an amazing conversation i witnessed so grateful for all the gems of wisdom.
@morganyach9378
@morganyach9378 8 месяцев назад
This was the best conversation I've ever listened to. The viewpoints were so respectfully stated, and the questions asked were very thought-provoking. I learned a lot through Sadia and Tom. Thank you!
@limitless88
@limitless88 9 месяцев назад
Tom, you were brilliant, mate! I really loved your perspectives throughout this conversation. The conversation comes alive at the 3-hour mark, and as a society, we need more conversations like this. Thank you both!
@user-qy3gb7sz3x
@user-qy3gb7sz3x 29 дней назад
It is so nice to hear a woman with sound values and morals. Thank you
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