Why does dm ghost you? because to them you have died! As one part of a two part soul the trigger caused the DM to run away and ghost you and DF really feel like she has died making DF destroy their own existence. this is the intricate dance of soul . This is a play in divine energy. After Df rebuilds her life from the destruction and grabs back the energy that the DM ran away with DF become more powerful than the DM and the DM feels dead from the lose of the stolen energy. DF has to become alive again and get out of soul to cause DM to die and go into soul. Dark night of the soul or suicide is a deadly remedy for the lose of soul energy if either part of soul is not aware that this is a calling to divinity and a better world.
I'm glad you made this video, it reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, honest husband, $75k biweekly and a good daughter full of love ❤️
I've been choosing myself for years I've been working on myself for years I distance myself years ago and this person still pulls on my energy and then as soon as I respond energetically they disappear again and I'm sick of it
Cat, you came in my life at a critical point on my journey: I was lost and you were God sent to guide me. Now, I came to a point where I am totally peaceful, I hardly ever think of my DM but he is there always. It’s a peculiar feeling. I also understand the journey, and made through the blissful bubble, the crazy, the insane chase, the dark night, the death, the rebirth.. the killer depression.. now I came full circle.. and live from awareness and gratitude. All of a sudden here I am caring less if he ever returns, barely ever think of him, and there are these quality men lined up for me out of the blue but I have no desire. Although I do want someone to share my life with, and I am solicited and courted from these great men, but I just can’t. I try to use my mind and talk myself into giving it a try but then there is a blockage. No desire whatsoever. I just can’t bring myself to even try. I don’t think I will ever be able to be with any man after my love for my DM. Would you please, Cate, give me your input? Thank you
@@sacredsoulrising1 you are right, it’s a 180 shift, and I definitely feel this unbelievable ascension, but I am still also a 3D physical being. On a mind/physical level I so badly want to share my life with someone but my soul has no desire for it. My soul doesn’t need or want any one and it feels nobody can ever measure or even come close to my DM. I know that my TF experience is not a romantic relationship but a catalyst for my healing and growth but I cannot deny my love for my DM even now that I made it through the tunnel to the other side. I also feel that he is not only the greatest love of my life but the very last also. So, do you think that this “need” I feel to be with someone and my running away from it when opportunity presents itself is a sign that I am not healed still? Or is it that TF is the very last love I will ever have? Again, I seldom think of him, when I do it’s with total peace and a faint smile, at the same time he is always subtlety present similar to the beating heart: I do not always feel it’s beats but it’s there!
I know how it feels, even I am married ,having two baby girls(second child is 6th month) I still have no desire for anything else except for memories I share with my dm. I have no hate for my husband and children, I care for them I do my mother duties but still my dm feels like home to me. My soul knows what it wants and where it belongs but I trust in God's plan, let's things unfold naturally as they are meant to be ❤❤❤❤. I wish best for everyone ✨️ may everyone find their way back to home❤.
Recently identified attachment style. Most of us DFs have anxious attachment, knowing they are our twin feeds this worse than ever. Once we identified attachment styles we started working to heal those, we both are avoidant and anxious, had a second kundahlini awakening last week with overwhelming feelings of love. Cried for 3 days, we struggled with communication because of those unhealed aspects of ourselves. Struggled! Push pull...now I get it from a psychological perspective and with your help the spiritual perspective..... amazing journey ❤ Take accountability for attachment styles they are a huge part of getting through big hurdle. 😊🎉
Yes.The things DM says was always connected ,looking back . After soul recognition, he called me up to say it's not possible . I was freaking out and the last thing he said was , " pray to god " . We didn't even know what were we talking back then .
Yep. Talked to my DM and she said "but I do live now". Man was that a reminder to be in the moment and not in the future that might never be. I am so thankful for that lesson - and several more.
Finally someone that explains it right because I’ve seen coaches saying DM cannot be spiritual at all cannot be awakened wouldn’t want to meditate etc and that’s not true at all yeah in the tf journey I am more awakened but he is also very deeply spiritual so much so that our bubble phase when we first met lasted nearly 3 months we were committed straight away until we moved in together and all of the sudden he couldn’t explain how he was feeling he was feeling empty and we broke up
Well that throws out the old idea that the Masculines "must to do the work." That's all I could read, and hear about earlier on my journey during the time when I thought a catalyst was my TF in which I never heard of TF until I met this person.
Kat, I need your 1-1 help ASAP! My twin and I are in class and yesterday he explained to me that he feels suffocated by me, that am I the only one not feeling how I blast so much energy in the room etc. he couldn’t deliver a proper presentation while speaking as the energy was suppressing him- I need to balance ASAP as we are messed up both. 😮
Thankyou for everything you do. Also we have to remember that most divine masculines and feminines have implants, overlays and negative attachments on them which doesn't help. We have to remove all these from our souls and vessels. I do this all the time with source x
DF is the spiritual boss. DM rules in patriarchal 3D. I leave the DM with breadcrumbs of spirituality without labeling it. I'm waiting for the dialog(to confirm it's TF) because I'm expecting the man to lead. Coming from a biblical perspective, the man leads (created first, head of the family, hunter, etc.) I know I need to shift...
I think my DM knows about our connection not just the jargons though.. in our worst fights i have always asked him to leave me.. but he never moved.. im grateful to God for initiating me into this journey ❤❤
Bahahhahahaa I don’t want my DM to return. All that running makes you able to be completely self reliant and no longer miss them in the 3D. Our connection is the 5D is fine and that’s ok for me. I am choosing me. 😊
I’m not playing into the twin flame thing anymore. See it as balancing the energies within self and everyone’s ourselves pushed out mirroring back to us and there’s infinite realities we can shift into. So seeing my SP as a soul mate now and even if that’s not that case then the key is sorting everything out in my own reality as main focus.
I’m trying to shift. Trying not to force also. I don’t want dm in pain. I’ve only had one dream about him, and this morning i had a dream about 222, 333, and 555
Is it normal to have been balanced for eight months or so and then wake up one morning feeling like you are in Dnots again? Heavy Anxiety and grief. This started four days ago I am barely functioning, I don’t understand…. is it all mine? Maybe some theirs?
You advice too not tell the about the hole concept to DM, but that if you have already done, it is part of your souls Journey. Well, it is vital that we ALWAYS do what feels right. For me it was very important that I told him, because it made him run into the arms of some other Lady wich chocked me in a way that I needed to make contact to wounds that needed healing before we could go to union. Before that our relation was not sadisfying at all, me always nervous about when we would see each other etc. So Always listen to your inner voice and not some advice.
You can listen to advice but should always follow your inner voice. I did not when I met my TF but now have learned that my inner voice is always right and will now always follow even if my mind tries to tell me that it is crazy.
I am a man with Divine feminine (twin) and my partner is a woman with her divine masculine (aquarius) And wat you said is totaly right, for 100%. Love Your Reading ❤🙏 Thank you 💓
Signs have nothing to do with whether you are a DM or DF. I am a Gemini and I am most definitely the DF. My Capricorn DM is currently existing somewhere I don’t know.
My question is at the point of becoming no contact she gas light me by saying the things that I was saying was insane and unstable and proceeded to block me fast forward 8 months now I am almost there I can get to my place but I don't feel she is going to get over the hoop saying what she said to me in the past without apologizing and remembering her with her big ego not sure if I see her apologizing at all but absolutely she is my twin flame through ego death number synchronicities and other weird energy stuff
I can't stand it I have separated myself from this person 2 years ago I've been choosing myself and they still want to come back in my energy and bother me then disappear and I can't stand it I'm just trying to cut this connection out of my life and work on my own life i hate this stupid journey
Clear... Great podcast! Thank you. However, I'm at the stage of not knowing what to do in this separation and it's frustrating because she told me she has a boyfriend. Now I feel that I have to say something to her, but at the same time, all the people talking about twin flames say that I have to let go and work in myself... So, what does this feeling of talking to her doesn't go away? Could you please clarify it for me?
Cat, Can you do a video on how to transmute the sexual energy? It feels very intrusive. I feel like he's inside my body. I feel his emotions all the time. Which course is the one that teaches you how transmute the sexual energy? It doesn't feel like an attachment or soulmate where you can just block it and goes away. I have no idea which course or session to purchase.
Dear Cat ... had asked this earlier too .. what exactly is UNION.. there is so much hype around this word ... INNER UNION .. PHYSICAL UNION etc .. What does it really mean to be in Union ? On a physical 3D level does it mean the usual living together / marriage etc .. But then you say this isnt a normal relationship .. its a spiritual awakening ! So in that context what is union ? And once ive truly awakened would union even matter ?? I would be content in myself .. Look forward to your explanation
From what I've picked up over the years of watching these videos is, when they say it's not a typical relationship, it means the rules and energy exchange in expectations and all the emotions that go into a soulmate or karmic relationship do not "work". If you want to be in physical Union I think you have to have enough inner Union with your own masculine and feminine energy so you don't project out or try to control any of the outer world which is basically them. That's why I think it's so difficult for people to actually have a real long-term relationship because you would have to do so much in your work and balancing that the average person just doesn't do it or would be so much easier just to let loose and be yourself with a soulmate. I also think it's not necessarily the goal of this person to deal with a lot of karma with us, like it's not the goal to have a house it's not the goal to have a kids the goal the fundamental goal is for spiritual development. They don't grow alongside us hand in hand like a soulmate. They are brought into the 3D world because that's the world we live in. If they were meant to go through all these challenges with us by their side then why aren't they? I don't think it's impossible to do things like have kids with a twin flame, but I don't think it's the primary purpose. At least it doesn't seem that way from all the comments I've read over the years. That seems to be my conclusion of all of this. You have to get to a certain point to be able to be in each other's presence because of the one energetic system. if you get "wild and crazy", they're not going to want to stick around because the energy is not balanced. Think of the image of the pencil, where if you push the eraser, the tip end (DM) runs away. it's only when you are still in center that the pencil stays.
@@mjey1we are free spirit n have to become independent person then we have to be independent in all aspects...that is the reason I asked for If we are staying in our comfort zone then how will he/she will come?
🧐 when we met I own my own business ❤ Helped him pick a career. He is currently in. ❤ would show universe ❤ self inner dependence. Energy of authentic balance possibly
I’m going on 9 years now. I had my awakening 1 year ago. We have been on and off the entire time. We’re back on now, but not in a commitment which still upsets me. Another woman who he has also been off and on with for 3 years is a “healer” and believes they are twins. I’m focusing on balancing all triggers, and prioritizing my experience. The only question that still haunts me is should I allow him access to me if he is still unsure? I have no problem walking away, but it sucks being apart. I would love to not care about titles or loyalty, but unfortunately it still is hard to know he’s “single”. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Love you all! ✨🌟✨
It's the unsure in you that will allow the unsure in him probably. When you know what you deserve and what you want you will only tolerate that energy. An unsure man will show up if you allow it. But I think that's true with any Dynamics.
We can't ever allow ourselves to be with someone who is unsure about us because that would mean we are working to convince them about our worth. If you are still contemplating being with him while he is unsure about you, you still have work to do around your self-worth. Best wishes
well there isn't really difference , seeing in spirit and repenting from sin , or not seeing g in spirit but still repenting sin through psychology ... righteousnes dienst have to be seen in spirit realm way even to get done the same healing emotionally, in mind body soul etc. this person may be just atycahed in me with his unrepented sin that weights on me even when I look at myself I see lust on my body , eyes gping tp places shouldn't and if I'd allow mind etc . I feel so triggered for this person bwing attcahed on me , can't tell is it a twin. with total opposition or some karmic that projects though sin his world . yes I opened that door tried showing him what he loves in sin, and he never seen love and what he and how must heal to get out . now I pay karma so to say . wich I wouldn't have to pay if he payed his own karma /doing repenting and aknowlaging the truth , no need trough spirituality but through psychology and logic to heal works the same way . or u see god one way or do god another is same god. Just different way of seeing ut . but would ebergetivaly feel the same for me if he would emotionally and in renewing of mond heal . so this person can't give emotional nor mond type of support so I feel as if if I intereact with this person is all the time telling them what they need to heal becaue he sont ask or pulling me down to his place or feel as if I am his male and he's as I'd att ahy female that is lazy in some ungealed ways , so to say. and I don't want to cary him as a weight where he should be able to give me what I gove him and myself and so there would be peace and reliance on each othe not one sided . it's way too heavy . it feels disgusting and his existence in such , near me doenat respect my boundaries not I can so relax in my feminine. he might be proper opposition of karmic ? he nit accepting past his ego that he must heal surten aspect he projects back to me as karma that unhealed persona and it as if energeticaly makes me suffer etc . as if hes moody and doenst accept the truth and so walks like karma. that he must heal ..help? apologies for agitated writing ...I just want hom to f off of my life , or come into my life but WITH HOM REPENTING HIS INNER WORLD SO THAT PEACE COMES WITH HIM , NOT IMITATION OF IT .I WANT HIS SIN TO DISSAPIER FROM MY ENERGERICAL FIELD . ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. I CANT BE FEELONG THAT SIN SHIT OR ATTCAHMNET OF HIM BEING SAFE IN MY EXISTENCE JUST BECAUE MY MINDSET IF HEALED ENOUGH FROM SIN. I CANT , I DISPISE THAT SINNING ENERGY . AND I DISPISE IF HE DONT DO NOTHING ABOUT IT.
🤔 It seems many have these negative energy counterparts: abusive, narcissist, addicts, etc. I don't get that part as it is not my experience. If this is about spiritual growth to better the world, the negative counterpart has a ways to go. Why would one reincarnate to torment?
I don't know if twin flames would be horrible like that. Of course no one knows the absolute truth but many twin flame coaches say they won't be intentionally hurtful.
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