Young Love is not the same as Mature Love. At a young age, we accept too easy, love too deep, and hope too high without considering the complexity and challenges of relationships. it's not too different from a fantasy like a love story or move where we decide all of the drama all the way to the "happily ever after". We fall into this trap with the lack of education or practice. Safeguard yourself: learn how read and understand personalities, improve your own, and know that it takes time to see compatibility.
His behavior has nothing to do with the fact that you two didn’t get each other when you were young. A bad person with a bad heart; no matter when you get him; it wouldn’t work out.
Something I’ve learned from listening to all these old lovers story. If it was meant to be in the beginning, life would’ve been great, but it wasn’t meant to be from the beginning and it won’t end well at the end. Lesson learned.
Definitely proud to did what you had to as a mom. Men come in go, but our kids don't so do depend on them. If you know you raised a bunch of good kids, you know they will be your back bone once you get older.
Ua tsaug os tu niam tsev aw koj qhia. Ua rau kv hlub kv tu txiv dua qub lawm os yog li koj hai lawm os yu tu txiv mam mu dab tsi lo xwb yu twb paub hai tia yog yug tu txiv no kv nyiam koj txoj neej neeg no heev
I’m a believer of an Ex is an Ex for a reason. When my Ex BF tried connecting with me. I told him love your wife a lot, treat her well, spoil her rotten. So when I see how happy she is, I will cherish how great you are. I never responded to him or checked to see how is life is. (Keep moving forward. The past is a lesson, the future is your life.)
Ua li cas kuv yuav nrog koj tu siab rau lub neej mus rau ob tus txiv tib neeg siab phem zoo li no vivncaus aw tabsis ua siab zoo rau yus cov menyuam thiaj li tau txoj siav mog.
An ex is an ex for a reason! It's your fault you accept him back into your life, lady. I don't feel sorry for you. Problem is that 20 something years people forget who they were then. I'm sure you regret connecting with him. Best of luck to you don't trust men easily. And no I didn't finish the story...
Tus viv ncaus aw!! cov txiv tshiab uas zoo li kos ces peb yuav txiav txim siab nrog peb cov menyuam es lwm hnub lawv tsis hlub peb los peb mam mus tsev laus yuav dua li peb hlub luag tus xwb mog es hlub peb cov menyuam zoo dua li koj mus luag tus mog .es txhob ntsaws tej tug tsis dev zoo li no mog .
Sister you absolutely right and exactly as I learned from too many cases. I was telling too many time to the people in the hmong radio conference as exactly as your story, don't even trust your qub kiav roj they never be the same any more. As I saw at my own eyes too many cases were divorced one by one cases again and again every day now, don't be sad.
There is a good reason that God won’t let you both be together at first…now you know the truth about your ex…you should never marry him then and now…!he has small heart! Go and be with your kids. Man comes and goes…😩🤠!
yog lawm nawb yog leej tws nco qub nkauj qub nraug no tso cia nawb tug tswv haig neej nees no haig tau zoo tshaj plaws li os ua tsaug mos yog li lawm os tus tswv thiaj li txawj haig yog lawm mos tu siab tshaj li os quaj luas quaj luas xwb os 😂😂😂😂😂
Sister, just be strong for your kids. Your kids will be part of your life forever. Your spouse or partner is just there temporary. He/She can be replaceable but your kids are not. Be strong, it's a rough road but you will get through it.
Men like your 2nd husband is the most cruel, selfish & small minded beings. Men who expect you to love his kids but can’t even love yours the same is not worth it, you don’t need losers like your 2nd ex-husband.
I've listened to alot of these old lover or ex flames that didn't get together and later on try reclaiming a past that's long dead and buried. If it was meant to be, it would have been. You would've gotten married and spent your life as a married couple. But remember, fate has its own story. You cannot rekindle what is passed. Life has moved on. You're living and loving something that doesn't exist anymore.
If he was a good person, he wouldn't have been divorced. She should have found out why he was divorced from his first wife. He was an immature, petty and selfish person from the beginning. She remembers him with rose coloured glasses, that was her mistake. It took her long enough to pick her kids but all in all, she finally made the right choice.
Peb cov niam tsev yog peb yug tsi muaj ib tug me tub menyuam ces mus yuav txiv los tau yog peb twb yug muaj tub muaj ki ces ua ib siab zov lawv os kuv li kuv xav tias yog kuv ces kuv yuav zov kuv cov menyuam os kuv khwv rau lawv noj tu lawv kom loj lwm hnub lawv tsi hlub kuv los kuv yeej tsi tu siab os lawv
Your second husband is a selfish fool who only want you to love his but not the other way around. You don’t need a selfish fool like this guy. Koj yuav nws los yeej tsi ntxi koj qhov twg nawb yog ib txiv neej yawg siab me npaum li no na.
Nej cov pog laus uas pheej hais tias nim khiv khiv xim tej qub hluas nraug os yog tsis yog . Yog koj ntshaw qau xwb ua ces tsis nyob twj ywm xwb thiaj Tau ntau yog koj ntshaw ib lub neej kav tsij nrog koj tej me nyuam nyob xwb koj thiaj muaj lub chaw tuag yog xav Tau ntau rab nyob ua xwb thiaj Tau ntau yog xav Tau lub neej kaj siab lug tsis muaj tus txiv lawm tshuav cov me nyuam nyob twj ywm thiaj yuav zoo rau yus tej me nyuam.
Cas nyob hauv qab Ntuj nov es txiv Neej tsis muaj tus uas muaj lub siab zoo li lawm lo...? Txaus tu Siab dhau lawm lau...ntshe txhob yuav txiv neej hmoob ntxiv lawm o lawv...
The first mistake you did is not to love yourself first. Marriage is about harmony and commitment, I don’t know why you put up with your husband for so long. At the end it’s all your fault because each one of us are all responsible for our destiny. Never let anybody treat you like garbage
Kuv muaj txoj kev lwj siab li koj los kuv ua tiag uv vim kuv ntshai cov kev lwj siab li ko kuv tus hlub twb mus nplog twb 9 zaus no lawm los kuv muaj 8 tus me nyuam kuv tseem uv nyob os sister aw
Tus viv ncaus aw syov nej xav nej li cas nej pheej yuav khuv xim tus qub hluas nraug cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj thaum hluas twb tsis tau lawm thaum laus lub neej tsis kawg mus nrhiav tus tshiab xwb os sim neej no tus qub hluas nraug tsis ntsia txog twb tig tsis caj lub zos muaj nws nyob kuv yeej tig tsis caj li os cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj pheej xav txog tus qub hluas nraug xwb ruam tiag tiag li os
This is the reason why maybe in first place you both couldn't be together is because wasn't meant to be. They always say history is the past, just leave it there because it won't make a difference in the future. Luag yeej hais txhob khum xim lub qub neej , qub hluas nraug vim yeej tsis yog yug hmoo tiag.
Pojruam, yus tham yus lub neej ruam xwb. Koj tsis hnov May Vang twb tham ib cov riv sib tau twb sib sib hlub. Koj tsis muaj cai hais tias txhua tus liam li koj. Yus txhob tham cuag li txhua tus xuab li koj
Ohyo qub hluas nraug cas koj yuav khuv xim luaj na kuv tus txiv twb yuav niam yau tsis hlub kuv los kuv yeej tsis nco tej qub hluas nraug me me li as koj mas yom nco ua hnub ua hmo es ntuj thiaj muab koj mus kom txog ntua thiab yuav kiag nrog nws koom neej es koj thiaj pom thiab paub nws lub siab phem phem es koj siab thiaj nqig thiaj tsis nco nco nws lawm os nawb
Yog yuav tus txiv zoo li kos ces yus laus laus lawm los tsis txhob yuav zoo duas lawm os tus me niam laus aw tus kawg hlub yus tus me nyuam xwb os mog 😢
Nej cov niag ruam Taub haus loj thiaj khuv xim qub nkauj qub nraug xwb os! There is a reason why neb tsis sib tau thaum pib so do not go forcing what isn't meant to be BE. When you go forcing things into reality, it oftentimes WON'T go your way and things become VERY messy like your 2nd hubby.
The old boyfriend has insecurities and is selfish. A true spouse will not make you block your children out of your life. Throw that 2nd husband in the trash!
Sounds like your 2nd husband was trying to compete with your kids. Glad you chose your kids over him because he is chauvinistic and selfish. I would be so exhausted from fighting with him about my kids. Hell, I will always defend my kids from their own father. No man will ever win over my kids.
ua cas koj yuav ntshaw koj tus ko ua luaj os niam laus txawm tsis muaj koj tus txiv ko los tseem yuav tau lwm tus hos koj nrho ib puas txhiab mus yuav tsis tau koj cov me nyuam nawj kav tsij hlub koj cov me nyuam xwb os
Oyo cov niag txiv dev lim hiam li ko nrauj los zoo os!! Ua neeg nyob es nws xav kom yus hlub nws li 100% xwb hos yus li ces nws txiav tua cog riam mas siv tsis tau lau! Qub nkauj nraug txhob sib yuav os ua neej lwj siab heev.. kuv yog niam tog txiv nta tabsis kuv tus txiv wb tsis muaj kev sib khib li os nyias pab rau nyias cov menyuam qhov loj ces ob leeg pab uake xwb peb lub neej kuj tsis mob hlwb thiab os…
Viv ncaus Aw vim li cas koj tseem yuav ntshaw tus txiv ko ua luaj na txiv xwb yeej nrhiav tsu u tej me nyuam yuav tsis tau nawb niag txiv zoo li tus ko xwb siab me dhau lawm muab tso pov tseg u tej me nyuam tseem ceeb dua tus ko os ,
Cas zaj no es ntshav yuav nce hla taub hau ua luaj li… Vic ncaus muab pov rau hauv khib nyiab os. Tus neeg siab pem li koj tus xwb muaj coob thiab tsis zoo ua neej nrog lawm. Xaiv yu cov menyuam xwb.
tu me niam tsev aw tu niag neeg siab me thiab saib phem li koj niag hlua nraug ko ce koj txawm yuav thaum nw hlua2 koj hlua2 lo yeej tsi txog twg li os
Ua cas tus niam tsev no tsis tau nov Lwm Yaj zaj nkauj hu hais tias tus tsi tau yeej khuv xim.tsi txhob nco os mog,vajtswv twb yeej tsispom zoo thiaj ua rau neb tsis sib tau nav.
Tus txivneej coj li no tsis txhob ntshaw ntshaw nws os nwq pab nws xav kom koj hlub tag nrho tabsis koj cov nws tsis kam hlub li . Ces tsis thas yuav os koj yuav mus los tsis txog twg nawj niag neeg siab phem dhau lawm
