Ua Zoo Nkauj Tham Luag Tus Txiv. 10/6/2022 

Stop trying to justify your selfish actions. The audacity of this conceited woman. Once a cheater always a cheater. A man only wants what he can’t have, best believe he will do the same to you too once he gets you. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Nothing to be proud of, nothing to brag about. You don’t need a man, you need therapy lady. 🙄

Divorcees make it seem like they would LET GO of that guy If only their wives "spoke nicely" to them about it. Why does she owe you anything?? as soon as you know he's married (no matter how late or early it is in your relationship with him) you should STOP!! and yes, IT'S ALSO the guys fault too.

Ib don’t pick up his phone calls. Ob don’t open the door for him. Just cause a hungry dog show up at your door, don’t mean you have to feed it.

There is no excuse for being a home wrecker. I was a divorcee because my ex cheated on me with someone who is overweight, short, but 20 years younger than me. I have a college education, a really good job and a good looking woman. I’ve NEVER EVER went after another woman’s husband or boyfriend, because I know the pain of being cheated on. I disagreed with everything this person said. There is absolutely no excuse!!!

It amazes me how entitled this lady is, and so many women like her. Lady, remember this: if he cheats with u, he will cheat on u. Trust me on that. What u do today will return to u in ten folds. That's the cycle of life. Let karma do its job. If u have done goods, u will receive goods. If u have done bads, karma will serve u well.

Txhob rawm maj zoo siab qhuas Koj tus kheej ov ...

Some of these women are stupid. What makes you think you are special? If he's willing to cheat on his wife, with you what makes you think he won't do the same to you? I am a divorced woman as well. I don't chase after other woman's husbands. I have respect for myself......I rather be by myself, then cause that much pain and heartache for another woman. That karma isn't the kind of karma you want lady. Do better, there are tons of single man out here if you can't be by yourself.

I don't understand all these women always have this excuses " kuv tsis muaj txiv nas, kuv yuav tham leej twg los tau" BS! Doesn't matter you are married or not show some respect and value yourself ladies!!

This lady said she’s educated and smart. A smart woman will never steal another woman’s man no matter what. It doesn’t matter what the other wife say about you. You should had let him go. You are a selfish woman! You didn’t think about the children who are involved and how they feel. I hope the wife gets him for every penny.

Sister you are in no position to advise others. Look yourself in the mirror first. You are at fault for dating someone’s husband, period. Fix your wrongs before consulting others.

Don't be saying "txiv tsev zoo" ib tug zoo txiv tsev yeej tuaj tsis txog ntawm koj. Not saying that you're bad, but you are desperate! Ib leeg zoo txiv tsev yeej tsis mus Tham thiab noj sab nrauv.

I keep hearing this phrase in this type of story, ‘cov txiv tsev zoo es pheej yog luag tus lawm xwb.’ By the time a married man cheat on his wife, then he is not that great a man. Best thing to do is to save yourself the energy and stop fighting their wife to get that cheater husband. Also, I don’t understand how some woman can have a cheater husband leave them for a home wrecker woman; then turn around and cause that same pain to some other woman by being the home wrecker?! Where is the empathy? Did you not go through the pain and heartache that you are now causing?

Lady, karma will bite you too. She has the right to be mad. You lady should be more considerate and leave the guy. I think your not tell us the whole story. I think your the caused. HE HAS A WIFE AND KIDS LADY. You think your life with him would be soo great after stealing another womans husband? See, your attitude with your X and NOW I can tell you have a short temper. karma.

This lady is evil, truly. She has no heart. How can she put another person through that pain, when she also went through that pain. How can she even sleep at night? Well...karma is always close by.

Ladies keep up your looks!!! Even if you’re older and have grown children. Men are evil. They will always look at prettier women. These divorcees do try their best to look good. We must also do the same To the sister in this story… he will leave you. He will hurt you too one day. Karma will come for you. A man will only want you when he doesn’t have you. Once he has you, he’ll treat you worse than your ex. And he refuses to leave his wife. You’re only second choice

ผู้หญิงที่คุยกับผัวคนอื่นน่ะมันต้องเจอมากกว่านี้แค่นี้มันน้อยไปผู้ชายอ่ะถ้าเราไม่คุยด้วยต่อให้เขาอยากคุยเราสักแค่ไหนอ่ะเขาก็ไม่สามารถมาคุยกับเราได้ ไม่ต้องไปโทษเมียเขาโทษที่ตัวเรานี่แหละไม่หาห้ามใจเมื่อรู้ว่าเขามีเมียก็ต้องถอยเจ็บแค่ไหนก็ต้องถอยไม่ใช่ว่าเมียเขาด่าแล้วต้องจับผัวเขาให้ได้อันนี้มาผิดศีลธรรม

How can you be proud of yourself for doing that? If Youre so great, he would have left his wife in a heartbeat. Also, if you are as great as you say you are, when you found out, you should’ve left the relationship. It doesn’t matter if you are in love or not. It’s called morals and principles. Something not a lot of people have, you included. You are a woman, you should know how much hurt the wife is going through. Don’t be too full of yourself.

Wow!!! Sister, you are truly a homewrecker!!! You must love fighting other women for a married man! Of course his wife is pissed, just like your husband cheated on you, but you chose to be just like the women your husband left you for!!! So sad, you say your beautiful and have everything. but a beautiful kind women don’t act like you. We need more kindness and love towards our fellow sisters, don’t treat your sisters like this horrible sister!!

Lady I think you’re too desperate to find love. You need to love yourself first. You’re looking in the wrong direction. When you looked too deep, you’ll make mistakes. You don’t need a man to make you happy. What makes you think he’ll changed for you? Once he divorced his wife and married you, soon he’ll compared you to his wife. Thaum neb sib tham nws yog nws ib tug, thaum sib yuav kiag lawm nws yog nws ib tug.

Two wrongs do not make a right. She is trying to justify her wrongdoings by saying she was "provoked" by his wife. If you were malicious enough to keep pursuing her husband, you are evil as well. But whatever makes you sleep at night. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Some of these stories annoy the heck out of me. Some women are so traditional in how they think, always talking about how wives should please and pleasure their husbands. It goes both way.

Absolutely shameless, but thank you for sharing the story. It provides perspective of a home wrecker; merciless.

From the moment you know he has a family you had the choice to walk away. His wife has every right to fight for her husband. How can you even compare your plastic self to his wife...how funny. All men when they are on top of you will tell you that you are the best they have ever had. *I dont believe the wife paid for someone to do black magic on you...i think you did the black magic on her husband...u did say that the lady was your aunt.🤔 You should take your own advise and stop justifying your selfish actions. If you didn't learn from your first karma....just remember she's always riding on your shoulder.

Why some of us ladies look down on each other? We are women and we should respect each other. No 1 is better than another.

To the wives with cheating husbands, once they cheat on you, they no longer love or respect you. Best to let them go and let karma do it's job. It's not worth fighting for a marriage that will end up in divorce anyway. Respect/love yourself for your sanity and let the loser go.

Lady stop bragging about yourself. You r a home wrecker and plastic surgery. Luag tham koj tus txiv ua koj lub neeg Puas twb mib koj siab cas koj tseem ua kiag li thiab

Oyo, I guess there are no more men in this world. If he's cheating on his wife with you, he'll be cheating on you too. Sad that women continue to do this to other women and the cycle never get broken.

Yog lawm o qhv twg zoo yuav tau xyaum thb txiv neej yeej nyiam li tus niam laus no hai ua tsaug kj tseem lod qhia. kv kuj nyiam thb ua rau kv rov feeb dua ib lub txwv yim 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

No wonder so many drama because of poj nrauj like this one

Marriage is between two adults that wants a life together. If you already knew he's married why would you still want to be with him? Much less to be a second wife. If he's cheating on his wife what makes you think he'll not do the same with you? Not to mention why would you want to shared a husband and be in competition with the other woman for his affection and time? Not only that but to subject yourself to be miserable and mistreated by the first wife and her children. You not only destroyed his family but your own. Your doing well by yourself without a man. You choosed to complicated your life with a lying, cheating man. Who only wants to used you.

It takes two to start a relationship. So dont try to blame on the husband. Ur willing to play a part. Txoj kev phem yuam kev yog thaum koj tsim lawv lub siab tham lawv tus txiv.

You're the reason why those of us divorcees whose trying to be a good woman are given and labeled as easy and desperate. You don't need a man to complete you...especially sonwone else's man.

Omg this lady talks like she is nice but nice don't do that to other woman, you are evil that's why you say you are better than his wife you will get karma that's for sure. I use to be divorced once too but man who is married I don't even care to look at them since I know how much it hurts for my husband to get a 2nd wife. But you are evil in my book.

I think women cannot fully blame divorcee women all the way. But most divorcee date married men is because the men lied to the divorcee. I feel like we should be mad at the husband first. The reason why there is another woman in his life is because he allowed it. If he didn't allow it there wouldn't be another woman. There is also some divorcee that doesn't care if they're married or not.

mloog tag zaj no mas chim kawg xav xuas 1 maum khauj rau xwb

Pojniam tsis txawj hlub pojniam li tos txiv neej saib tsi taus pojniam li na. Vim pheej muaj cov pojniam zoo li no. Tsi tias luag tu pojniam cem thiab chim lawm ces tsum ho tseem haj yam txeeb tas zog siab dev.

Tham yawg nrauj txawm txom xyem los thiaj g muaj tus ntxub yus, ma khwv no respect for you. Once a cheater always a cheater. Nws nyiag noj mov sab nraum thiaj qab xwb, thaum noj koj ntau pluav lawm g hnov qab lawm os, don’t believe him he only tell you what you want to hear. totally BS

Congratulations on your Master degree for YOURSELF how to be a homewrecker. I'm pretty confident your advice is worth zero %. 😉

Xav hnov tus txiv tsev no tus niam tab cuab los hais nws sab thiab.

พี่เคยผ่านชีวิตที่สามีหลายใจเจ้าชู้นอกใจภรรยา พี่ก็รู้ว่าเจ็บขนาดไหน แต่วันนี้พี่กลับคุยกับสามีคนอื่น ทำไมพี่ไม่สงสารผู้หญิงด้วยกันแถมยังตั้งใจจะแย่งอีก ไม่มีความละอายเลย พี่ได้สามีเค้าไป สักวันชีวิตเดิมๆจะวนมาหาพี่ ของใหม่ก็แค่ใหม่เวลารักแรก นานไปพี่ก็จะได้รุ้รสชาติที่พี่พูดกับเมียเค้า เหนื่อยกับคนที่คิดแบบนี้ เห็นใจเมียเค้าบ้าง

If he is willing to leave his wife for you today, he will leave you tomorrow!! Mark my word. Your excuses do not justify taking someone else’s husband!! Kev npam muaj tseeb!!

This lady is bs! No self-respect. We all waiting for part2 after you marry to this man. When karma hit, we also want to know.

No, no, no. You’re doing it all wrong. If you highly respect yourself, you should use all your SKILLS which you are so proud of, why not use it towards single/divorced men? Why do you have to hurt other people? Even if the wife accused you of sleeping with her husband which you are guilty of, you can kindly acknowledge and leave. No need to compete and be a home wrecker. After all, you’re in the wrong. In reality, you really lack morals. You appear to be insensitive, selfish, and cold hearted. Not bashing you, simply advising you. You’re not the only one with SKILLS.

ผู้หญิงด้วยกันควรเห็นใจกันเคยเจ็บมาแล้วควรเข้าใจจุดนี้ที่เค้าด่าเพราะของเค้าเค้ารักเค้าหวงมันก้อเรื่องธรรมดาของผู้หญิงที่ไม่อย่าให้ชีวิตมาพังให้มือที่3ถ้าคุณเข้าใจควรปล่อยเค้าไปดีๆบาปกรรมมันมีจริงหากคุณทำให้เขาร้อง ไห้แล้วสบายใจก้อทำไป

This lady seems to be very narcissistic and crazy

All you will ever be is a side chick! When he is done with you he will run back to his wife and find himself a new side chick! Don't forget that you might be hot now but your look is not gonna last you forever there's plenty of those in Laos! Go find someone who is your and you're alone before it's too late! Never be proud to steal another woman's men!

Lub ntuj nyob qes qes lawm ces nyias Ua li nyias nyiam thiab yeem mas. Remember that decision always comes with consequences, good or bad depends on you.

Good advice to love and please your spouse more.

lol. This dam woman!! Brags how rich n independent she is but can only settle for someone’s else trash? 😂😂😂

The only story that I forwarded fast toward the end....

You lost all credibility when you know he is married and continue on with the relationships. There is no justification here. It doesn’t matter how much he try to pursue you afterwards there are other means (move away, restraining order). Ladies be smart investigate the dudes before you get into a committed relationship with them.

Koj keej kawg tab sis mas yuav tsis kav koj mus ib txhis li nawg Nco ntsoov tias thaum sib tau kiag txawv thaum tseem yog nkauj nraum no os

Kuv kuj yog ib tug poj niam thiab, niam tsev los kuv yeej ua dua, poj nrauj los kuv yeej ua los. Kuv hais qhov tseeb raws li txoj kev txoj cai ntiaj teb neeg siv tau. Yog peb yog ib tug poj niam ntse thiab paub tab, thaum peb tus txiv mus tham hluas nkauj lawm. Peb txhob hu mus cem tus hluas nkauj, peb thiaj yog ib tug poj niam ntse thiab paub tab rau txiv neej khuv xim. Txawm nws tsis hlub yus lawm los nws thiaj li khuv xim yus rau tom ntej. Yog yuav hais yuav cem ces hais yus tus txiv xwb thiaj yog lub hauv paus tua hluav taws tuag, yog cem tus hluas nkauj ces tab tom mus zes hlawv taws kom cig loj ntxiv xwb. Tos txiv neej tsis ntshai peb poj niam los vim peb tsis ntse, peb mus ntse qwb lawm tsis yog ntse hniav, txiv neej thiaj tsis fwm tsis ntshai tsis hlub peb. Txiv neej yeej ib txwm phov siav, tab sis nco ntsoov tuav peb txoj cai.

Don’t listen to her story listen to her advice 😂😂😅😅

This lady seems too proud of herself and her actions, makes her sounds a bit psychotic.

เบื่อฟังพวกเรื่องราวที่ไปแย่งผัวชาวบ้านแล้วยังมาทำเป็นดีอย่างโน้นอย่างนี้ ทั้งที่จิงแล้วความผิดอยู่ที่ตัวเองทั้งนั้น

Sometimes, I thank God for not being married. Some of these stories are wild and unbelievable 🙄🙄

People like this have no right to give advice or lectures to others when they themselves are still in the same situation that they're telling others not to be in. Use your own advices and get yourself out of your situation then. People only respect u if u do what u preach, NOT "do what i say, don't do what i do."

Lady I don’t know what you’re so proud of. You still don’t have him yet. My understanding from this story is that he’s still with his wife, right? Well, that says it all. Anyways thanks for your advice but I’ll leave it here.

OMG! The audacity of this home wrecker knows no bound. You are not that good, that’s why you can’t attract a good man. You can only get cheaters. He will cheat on you too once your plastic surgery goes away and your money is gone. Get a life lady. Karma is a bitch and it’s coming for you real soon!

Peb cov pojniam ma tos txiv neej tsis hlub peb los peb cov pojniam twb tsis txawj sib hlub li es.. puas yuav muaj hnub es peb cov pojniam yuav txawj sib hlub koom siab ua ke os lawv. Peb cov pojniam yuav tau sib hlub sib koom siab es cov txiv neej no thiab saib peb muaj nqi thiab ma

Oh stop it, nobody feels bad for you or has as low a standard as you 🤦‍♀️. The only people who has the right to give any positive marital advice is a woman with gray hair standing at the end of her life with a husband that remained loyal

I'm not going to say too much. Sisters know your worth and self-respect is the key to finding a good man in your life✨️ It takes 2 couple to make a marriage stay strong never let yourself go, never stop dating and never let the spark die 24/7 365days no matter how many kids you have and at what age you are in keep the flame high and on just like day 1❤🙏

I'm not sure what the moral to this story is.. To be or not to be?🤔 One minute you're the victim, the next minute you're justifying your rights to someone else's husband.. I think you're pretty messed up in the head..but whatever floats your boat..

Tos txiv neej pheej ua ua hluas los vim peb tsoom poj niam tsis txawj sib hlub sib hwm koj lub neej puas ces koj ua kom kuv neej puas thaum kuv lub neej puas lawm ces kuv mus ua kom lwm tus lub neej puas thiab peb cov poj niam xuaj xuaj es

Peb cov txiv meej 100% tus yeej ua zoo Rau. Tus.sab nrauv Xwb os mog

What the sister say is true. ❤❤❤❤.

If he can do that to you while in a relationship, what makes you think it will not happen to you? Happiness may not last. appreciate yourself and find true happiness.

Caa nej cov poj niam pheej tsis paub respects each other's li nas.....ua li ko ces peb cov txiv neej yeej lawm mas....thov nej sib hlub mas lov.

Koj lub siab tseem phem tshaj tu poj niam uas tso dab rau koj lawm thiab

Tus poj nrauj no yog ib tus meb cab rau rus txiv tsev no xwb os kuv yog nws tus niam tsev los kuv yeej yuav cem tus poj nrauj no ib yam thiab vim yus hlub yus tus txiv heev ne

Vim muaj cov li koj, luag thiaj saib tsis taus lub npe poj nrauj. Don't be hopeful sister! Yog zoo nkauj npaum koj khav ko ces lawv los thawj koj lawm os. Also, why buy the cow when the milk is free?!?!

In a relationship, it takes two tangle. It can not be blame on one person only. Both players are adults. No one is being force to be together.

I love this story, so interesting about poj nraum and the wife. I learn alot from this story

Koj hais yog lawm thiab mas tus me vivncaus aw. Ua neeg nyob ce tsis paub tagki os mog. Es txhob saib tsis taus pojnrauj thiab ov cov me niam tsev aw.

Ok lady, let’s be honest here. You are using the excuse that the wife yelled at you and did some witchcraft on you so that made you want her husband more. I’m pretty sure you already had your mind made up to take her husband regardless if she was nice to you or not. And how dare you say she should’ve been nicer to you. Women like you make it too easy for men to have his cake and eat it too.

Wow!! You blame his wife for loving her husband. Why do we women do this to us? Just think that when your first husband cheated on you with the other women. The pain that you went through, his wife is going through the same. Shame on you!!! There are plenty of single men out there, why take someone else’s?

All proud for what?he hasn't married you yet. You think he's gonna marry?

Tham luag tej txiv es tseem muaj plhus mus foom luag tej niam tsev na.

So what you’re saying is… you married for revenge. You were ready to let him go but settled… great job.

This lady is so desperate for love she would rather “give advice” and yet sleep with other peoples husband like she is a pro- what a sad panda 😑😑😑

I can’t even finish this story. Too boring. This lady is just too desperate. Bye!

This is so messy. I hope all ends well with the husband, wife and the divorce. The divorce admitted the boyfriend has been cheating on his wife, prior to meeting her, but the divorce some how thinks he's a keeper. Smh. She is wrong on alot of things, but she's also right when she said women need to be clean, learn or know the twister and always praise your spouse.

I hope he treats you the same he treats his wife. Don’t get too excited yet.

Owner of story: txhob khav khav tias koj zoo dua nws tus poj niam os, yog koj zoo ces koj tus txiv yeej tsis tso koj tseg os Poj nrauj!

Yog lawm os,txiv neej thiab poj niam ce yeej swb tus txawj2 hlub xwb os , koj txawj hlub npaum cas ce koj yog tus tib ib xwb os cov me muam hmoob

Girl, these ladies don’t need to tell you that it hurts them n that you need to back off. You’ve been through it. You said so yourself. It hurts you just as well as it hurts these ladies. You are nothing but a hypocrite because you did just the same as ur ex husband and everything you went against. It does not give you any right or make it right to justify your actions

Thov qhuas koj , koj cov lus no muaj nuj nqi tshaj plaws, tej no yog peb hmoob kev vam meej...

Sister Txhob xav hais tias Koj zoo zoo nkauj thiab muab Koj tus kheej kho haib haib thiab txawj ua kom txiv neej nyiaj koj. Txoj kev zoo nkauj nws tsuas nyob ib ntus xwb. Ib hnub twg ces Koj yeej yuav mob siab thiab txawj tu siab thiab tau ntsib txoj kev ib yam li uas Koj tau ua rau luag no nawb.

So true that men like you said.

Mloog tau ntxim ntxub kawg tab sis kuj yog ib txoj kev kawm zoo kawg li thiab

Yog koi zoo nkauj txaus lawm cas nrhiav tsis tau txiv yuav es pheej mus tham luag tus xwb. Koj yog tus neeg tsim txiaj ces yeej tsis tham luag tej txiv li

Not taking sides, but regardless of gender, at the end it is the SPOUSE that decides everything… the husband chose to cheat on his wife and chose to lie to the side chick… he doesn’t have love or respect for his wife, if the wife is mad, she should be mad at HIM, not the side chick… never be mad at the other lady when your husband is the one who disrespected in the first place… unless she hit on him first then it will be a different story

Qhov koj ua yog koj txhob txwm lawm thaum koj paub tias nws muaj poj niam lawm yog koj tso yeej tau lawv poj niam cem koj vim koj twb rua muag tsuas tham nws tus txiv lawm lawv tus txiv tham koj los koj tsis tham yeej tau kawg

He gonna cheat on you too. Qub dev qub txhias. You will wear her shoe soon 😆

Yog poj niam ib yam yuav tau sib hlub txhob mus rhuav luag lub neej thiaj tsis npam mog. Pab tus me niam tsev tu siab tias tau ib tug txiv siab phem. Yog lawv tsis hlub yus lawm ces tsis txhob tos lawv txoj kev hlub lawm mog. Hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej es lawv thiaj hlub yus os.........

Yog lawm peb cov niam tsev tsuas vuag nyiaj me nyuam kwv tij phooj ywg xwb tsis muaj sij hawm los vuag tus txiv thiab tus txiv yeej hlub yus tsis tag thiab

Cov poj niam aw nej tus txiv twb ua rau nej mob es nej tseem los txeeb luag tug muaj ib hnub yuav yog koj this dua vim koj yog nkauj cuav xwb vimkoj tsis yog tus tseeb vim koj kho koj tus kheej xwb muaj ib hnub koj ua phaj nyaj ces thaum no luag yuav tso koj koj txhob zoo 22 siab

Tus pog no lub hom phiaj los nrau txiv los tham luag tej txiv xwb sab. Tu siab kawg uas peb cov poj niam rov qab tua poj niam. Tos cov niag txiv neej no khav2 los vim cov poj niam coj li no nes.

Cas tseem ho muaj tej tus poj hmoob liam npaum no es tham tus twg los yog luag tus txiv xwb cas yuav liam thiab khaus ua luaj!!!

This is amazing advise. *In Hmong.. words of silver and gold.