This plays right into the conversation of finding your tribe. Those are the women that WANT you, that desire you on that level. Trying to always punch above your weight class will leave you knocked out like Max Holloway did Justin Gaethje.
Facts. It’s actually common sense. We look at woman for their body. We should focus on the same, have them looking at ours. Dudes complain and are extremely out of shape. No matter what you have, if she’s not attracted to you.. ehh
I agree, usually the ones who complain are out of shape, it's rare to see a guy who is in shape complaining about not getting women, imagine if we all looked like athletes, there would be no incels, most of us wouldn't complain about not getting laid and most of us would be confident. When I say athletes don't get me wrong, I mean having some muscle and a healthy bodyfat level, not the bodybuilder jacked look lol
Uncle Rom you are right about women noticing you before you notice them. I dated a manager at a restaurant. When we started talking she mentioned how she noticed me a few months earlier when I came to the restaurant. I was surprised when she was able to describe the coat and shoes I had on that day from a few months ago. Women don't forget anything.
When you present your authentic self to the right women in your tribe it doesn’t take too much. They will choose you. When your really being You and not thirsty they might circle back later on to see if you are interested in them
No, you’re worth Never settle for less get your body and mind right carry yourself with confidence. Keep up your appearance. Stay well groom. Pay attention to the women who wanna be with you. That’s all we can do.
Nobody should be trying to convince nobody of anything. The ones who want to stay, will stay and the ones who don't, won't. That applies to everyone in your life, specially when picking a life partner.
THIS. I try time and time and time and TIME again... to tell my friends this. Money won't make her like you. Your status won't make her like you. BODY GAME has shown me the light! As Killa Cam said, for me to be interested, she gotta damn near ATTACK me. She has to lust over you, crave you! If you're sitting up in her face tryna convince her to like you, you're wasting your time.
Hear Hear on the massage... Brothers need to put their heads down, improve their physical appearance on all levels and then notice who gives him lingering eye contact after a year or two of you grinding... It changes gradually all at once...
Exactly and nice guys act like they don’t understand the simple concept like who like you it will be easy to get more play if you chase a woman who don’t like you then you wasting time and you will get used and definitely not get the play 💯💯💯
This man is speaking straight up facts! A woman must want you first, keep chasing and she'll eventually lose interest. As a man, chase excellence first.
I hear you Unc. Guess I have to do better because if 3’s & 4’s are “My Tribe”, I need a new tribe. I don’t work harder than average just to accept below average Women. I’ve done the “mismatched” relationships before, and the insecurities just cause constant arguments.
Got a buddy of mine who is oblivious to stuff like this. A female friend of his for 3 years is always purposely bumping into him, putting herself in his view and looking at him when he isn't looking and she asked him several times if he has a girlfriend. He is very purpose driven but I told him if a woman is doing these things, a good woman with values, at least ease up and check with her.
I definitely cosign the clothes and way you wear them haircut and cologne..I worked in public safety for hospital I live in Chicago..but one of the most attractive nurse that worked in hospital at that time emergency room was always putting herself in my eye sight or find a way to communicate with me..we ended up messing around for bit but she said.." was checking for me for while but it was way I wore uniform always had haircut and smelled good..that's why I always would come around you to smell you"..her words exactly..definitely something that we are in control of presentation
The internet has told us countless lies about how relationships go. If you go on Instagram reels or tiktok, women are literally telling us about their game in front of our faces. Yet guys are so judgemental, they've gotten to the point they'll say something controversial for the attention it brings in the form of likes. Also thanks for responding to my email.
@ 1:47, the song “I Want You” by Marvin Gaye (written by Leon Ware), talks just about that. “I want you, but I want you to want me too.” Then goes into, “This one way love is just a fantasy, oh sugar To share is precious, pure and fair” This co-signs on the fact that a man wanting that woman, who doesn’t want him, is a fantasy. And you have made significant improvements, Rom. Almost can’t tell the difference.
Truth, happened to me recently. I was too stubborn trying to get with this woman that didn't feel me. I got into my senses and decided to look for women that picked me first.
Now it's true that ultimately a woman has to want you. But, that does not mean that you simply wait till she sends you a signal or she makes a move. That is very passive and feminine to do so. Now, there is nothing really wrong with using choosing signals, especially if you are more concerned with other matters at hand. However, using my experience from relying on choosing signals for the past couple of years and meeting a couple of players, women respond best to a man's aggressiveness to get the things that he want in his life. These type of men are always talking to or chatting with any women they can. There is nothing wrong with approaching a woman you're interested in and letting your intentions known. It becomes problematic when a woman directly or indirectly communicates her lack of interest and cooperativeness and you're still trying to convince her. It is just weak. Also, going along with the topic of this video, you have to leave your ego at the door and realized that not every woman is going to want you which is fine. Just keep pushing till you find the women that wants you. Then, everything falls naturally to place. I have to make this comment because too many dudes are comfortable being passive and are leaving pussy at the table because of it. If you want to have any sort of sex life, you have to talk to a woman whether she chooses you or not because some women are socially awkward and may not have the confidence to communicate their interests. That is why you have to be a man and just approach and lead the situation. If it does not work out then just leave. Even though I am on the road being a truck driver, I am finally starting to get the sex I want from these women because I am getting more aggressive on dating apps and approaching women in real life. Got a shorty in Baltimore and have a couple of women locked down in Chicago. Be a man and get everything you want in life and leave nothing on the table. That is how you will live a fulfilling and successful life as a man.
Uncle Rom, i havent tapped in in a while. Im so thankful youre doing well today. You've helped my understanding with my relationships with women immensely. I've actually started dating a woman who I vibe with on another level. I worked on body game, my mouthpiece, and just sculpting myself into a solid man. And yes, she made the first move. I like to say that she passed me the ball, and i shot my shot. All net. Peace, Unc ✊🏾
When women tell you or say things like "This is my baby daddy right here...or we had a baby together, or they simply ask you out for lunch"...THEY ARE THROWIN IT AT YOU....Believe me, that will happen to you at some point in your life, especially if you are a thorough, decent guy
I have literally never even considered chasing a woman, but not because it was something I actively pondered on. It's just not something I would ever do. Like paying MSRP for a car. It just doesn't make any sense. The "prize" you are getting is a flawed human being who is going to bring you stress and challenges at times, and that's if she's a GREAT woman. Many of them are a net negative, though. Relationships are not easy, even if she's a unicorn. No woman is doing you a favor by being with you.
Young men of today are blessed to have a man like this giving them the knowledge to safe time,heart attack,misery and feeling rejected. I never had this kind of knowledge as sa young man. I am 53 now and still open to learning.
Rom, been following since 2016, always had this conundrum that u touched on - get buff and get money for myself or bc that's what women want? I wanna say I go to gym count macros for my health but reality is curls for the girls. I wanna say I try hard at career to own a classic hot rod but I would be happy driving a corolla with good ac. I see ur point just do what attractive guys do and you'll be ok, but I hate doing it for women but ig that's natural nature 🤷♂️
Our instinct as humans is to reproduce with the opposite sex, a lot of us aren’t willing to admit that majority of the stuff we do is to attract the opposite sex. The Most High Yahweh even told Adam and Eve to populate the earth and that’s what we have to do.
Shoot few years ago i was in the mall shoes/clothes shopping i was walking minding my business, i peep’d this one woman tad bit older then me kept following me around the mall my dump self 😂didnt fully grasp back then that she was putting herself out there for me to notice her i went back in my car like “You dummy, she gave you the green light heyy..helloo im interested in you cant you tell” 🤦🏾♂️ but now it is what it is lmao
Make yourself paramount by taking really good care of yourself, make money, & be seldomly available, you will attract women. Chasing is for low class men, women will not respect you.
I'm trying to figure out what kind of women are my true tribe because women say I'm handsome or very attractive but that doesn't automatically mean they want me but I've been noticing that I attract more Ethiopian or Spanish mixed women or dark skin black women.🤷🏾🤷🏾🤷🏾
Makes sence she being the one that chooses first cause, she is the one that gonna carry that whatever man baby inside of her for almost a year, and also cause woman are more in tune in terms of intuition, even "more in tune" sounds like intuition, that "6 sence" as people used to say so if thats true, and i was never a woman to be able to judge and afirm thats the cause, but if it is, she has a better abillity to choose anyways
Rom I’m curious to know, with social media being so popular nowadays, how do you feel about men posting pictures to show progress of body game? It is effective?
He's not lying ...... most the time the woman has to make the move whether indirectly or directly that's how it last longer especially if the man not even paying attention
