Unintentional Abuse After Traumatic Past | Chicago Med 

Homeless guy: Nowhere to live. Dad: Hey! Buy a house.

Geox: "Allow me to introduce myself"

Kid: drowning Dad: just swim

Girl: im being bullied Dad: no

@@abbiejohnson5220 he wiuld say : then dont be bullied

I'm glad I'm not a Doctor because I'd be consistently up before a Tribunal because I responded with "I studied Medical for 10 years at {UNIVERSITY},where'd you earn your Medical Degree,on the back of a Cereal Box or did you buy it off eBay?" to every idiot who said "I'm his/her {RELATIVE},I think I know what's best/them better than you..."

Die otngudi k

@@flashstudiosguy honestly that’s something I’d say😂

Wait- I have to study for 20 years to become a doctor?! Gurl bye I’m becoming a donut decorator

I am disabled and therefore go to the hospital a lot. I can promise you that a lot of times the doctor think they know best. Every patient is different and in med school you just learn one or a few of the “possibilities”. The child is the one who knows the symptoms and feelings best, and a lot of times the parent can know better than the doctor. After having an undiagnosed sickness for 9 years, going to multiple different doctors (one of them was the best in our country) no one knew what was wrong with me. But one day my mom thought she found out what she was so she talked to the doctor, he tasted me and she was right.

@Oscar Ward tv show actually, Chicago med to be exact, search it up

I see you don’t know many real life doctors honey

@@emily5098 i dont know if your talking to me or.....

@@adeshroberson haha me too...

Exactly

😂😂😂😂😂😂

😄😄IKR

Omg i screamed of LAUGHING 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

nooooo😂😂

😂😂😂😂😂

*jerk

@@Joelle0821 Berk means 'fool' sooo they said it right.

He did nothing wrong... The father advised the doctors of the medicines she was taking... The doctors should know before doing any procedure. The father may have gone where he is not concerned, but it is what an average father would do... (My apologies, my English grammar is bad...)

@@ishanagoswami2750 berk is actually short for Berkeley Hunt. I’ts cockney slang for a rude word

Tue

I’m at 1:51 and he’s annoying me

I’m at 0:40 👁👄👁

same

667🖐🏻

1:16

I'm drunk af.....

I hear police sirens I died

If that was the case you’d be dead drunk before 6 minutes

@Stephanie van den Berg times it by 50

Im in jail

This reminds me of Munchausen’s.

Thanks for the explanation mate, seriously underrated comment, 👍👍

I've been in this kind of abuse. It took me years to figure that out and to get better.

Well said. Do note, it can also occur if there is a parent/sibling suffering from an illness in the home.

... This sounds weirdly accurate to my parents' behaviour-

Nah to be honest it's so annoying and I find it weird

Nah to be honest its annoying and weird

Does this dad even know his own daughter's name?? Omg it's really... agh!

Kassy P It’s a nickname, Most parents have a nickname for there kids.

@@haileyparsons3844 - I know it's a nickname but in this little clip, it's very overused and I found that (personally) very cringy and somewhat unsettling. To me again personally, the dad was acting very suspicious (more so than the daughter) and I was just getting that vibe, that bad sort of vibe, where there could be more going on in the shadows. I haven't seen this in an episode yet so I'm just going off what I am seeing here at the moment. Hope that makes sense and you can understand. :)

Ikr it’s annoying

Yh 😂

You haven’t heard your parents call you kiddo growing up.

@@haileyparsons3844 not even my Dad would call me 'kiddo'

@@charmaine7781 yh which is realy weird 😂😂

Kate Brown yes I think your right.

Except she’s not faking intentionally

She's not faking it, she's getting legit sick because her brain thinks a sick body will get emotional attention.

@@magnum_cx8805 ye, she's faking her illness physically, but mentally she is not

@@kabibabi she's not faking it physically either. The mind associates being sick with emotional support from her dad, so her brain makes her body sick on purpose to get that attention

Mitochondrial diseases are long-term, genetic, often inherited disorders that occur when mitochondria fail to produce enough energy for the body to function properly. 😐

Isn't the mitocondria something in your cel. I just had this at school so i don't really get it

@@aeryn770 we are aware, thank you. op's just making a joke

I only know this fact from memes

Same hahahaa

Someone can unintentionally abuse their kind if they become too overbaring and overprotective. Specially when the parents are constantly scared of what the world might do tho their babies. They are trying to be good parents but at the same time, the child might develop anxiety and fear of the outside because of that overprotectivenes. Being a parent is the hardest thing in the entire world.

This situation is actually on the kid. Hiw are you going to play up your medical conditions to make him happy to take care of you without thinking how it hurts him to see you suffer in the first place before getting better

Cycles of abuse can make someone unintentionally abusive. Being protective and over bearing can also become abusive. Not respecting a child's bounderies and all can also become abusive. A lot of people aren't aware of their toxic traits and qualities and it can lead to them being unitentionally abusive, let alone as parents. It's scary to think about, but even being aware of it shows that you're not gonna be like that. You're gonna be a good dad, Thomas

@@Ebunoluwa13 you can’t really blame it on the kid. She was probably young when her mom died, leaving her with a grieving caregiver. She found a way to make her dad less sad and repeated that. She is too young to see the consequences and moral implications of her actions.

The way to stop that happening is to listen to others and admitting when youre wrong. I know you think you know how to parent but it is always a good idea to reach out to other parents and take advice from them. If youre really nervous, think about joining a support group. I know that sounds weird but it really does help!

He's actually a psychiatrist

Right! Oliver Platt is an amazing actor, i really wanna see more of his work.

Psychiatrist!. There's a HUGE difference!

hes a psychiatrist

Can u guys tell me the difference between psychologist and psychiatrist pls?

it's everywhere it's following me

I can’t escape the meme

PLSSSNDJDJ

I literally can't escape it-

I- I can’t escape it

Kitty PotatoPie the bad acting and terrible script « kiddo, just breath, blabla »

@@Wavesinsomniac How should he be acting?

@@Wavesinsomniac chill, he acts fine, you are over reacting

+Hermonie Granger Psychopathy doesn't equal insanity.

How the hell do you sound like a psychopath?

@@lulebliri9776 Seems to me like it was a case of malpractice on the hospital's end. Supposedly the conditions they kept her in were horrible and the family were slowly refused visitation and a second opinion. Also, if it hadn't been mito she'd have gotten better after a year spent in the hospital, but she instead got worst, to the point where she ended up in a wheelchair. Sounds horrendous. I'm absolutely disgusted that the hospital essentially got away scot-free after what they put her through.

Is there any documental or something?

Just because a case is similar doesn’t meanp it is based on it. This show takes real life situations and makes up a story with it. It isn’t based of a specific case, certainly not the case you mentioned. This is a real psychological disorder that happens to people all over the world.

Pelletier*

@@AlexanderMason1 yea, i think it was called hypochondria or something like that

Ok, this is the first comment to make me laugh

@Miu - Iruma what did u say danganropa wannabe

@Miu - Iruma bruh that was so ✨irrelevant✨

@@megsaga lol

I’m the 700th like~

Nah if he says "kiddo" 😭🤚

@@katrinaloughran8939 nah if he blinks one more time....

Nah if he breathes one more time 😭🖐

@@gone8113 If he exists one more time.

If he says open this door one more time

Emily it’s a show not real life

@@corrina9830 it’s a joke because I think that girl is in the Netflix original "unbelievable" lol

@@corrina9830 did i das we need to arrest them? No. Did I say it’s more than a show to me? No. So why do you assume I see it as more than a show?

Ok Karen

Depends actually, there’s often cameras in ICU rooms. Obviously here it was wrong but some rooms have video surveillance

So true

Right lol. But to be honest he was acting very unnecessarily outraged and incompliant. Hence the need for restraint. I think both him and the daughter need psychiatry care

Because he knows what they're going to say and he already rejected it. Violently rejected actually. While such abrupt reaction is far from evidence of anything, it does seem to happen more often in people who are actually afraid that this might be true.

emotions don't have to be practical to others

Same

If I was a doctor I'd be like ZOMBIE LOCK THE DOOR

They were about to cut a hole in her throat, she didn’t want that

@@oliviahilton1582 exactly

Can't argue but then, if I was suffering psychologically, I'd have no objections to Doctor Charles monitoring me, the guy is a marvel!

@@flashstudiosguy agree

No it's not creepy... If they knew she'd continue pretending

Oh yeah, I remember that

It does sound like a Gypsy Rose case

It does! I think the gypsy case was more to do with her mother’s issues with munchausen by proxy but in this case it appears to be that the father would only pay attention/care for the daughter (in her eyes) when she was sick, so her body would give her physical symptoms because the psychological impact of neglect was so strong. Almost like, if you only pay attention to your kid when they’re doing homework, if you do that enough then they’re gonna start doing more and more homework, that it then will impact things like eating and sleeping, just to get the validation from the parent.

Nah the mother in gypsy Rose was wayyy wayy worse she knew what she was doing

It’s not as extreme as the father presenting munchausen by proxy ‘symptoms’. To be classified as such, the father would need to be inflicting injuries or illness or making up that his child is sick. The however is more psychological on the girls part because she’s presenting symptoms merely as a projection of her own emotional state.

Been watching since season 2

Is there a continuation to this 🤔

@@jartistsimpression2291 I am sorry,I don’t think so but I could be wrong

Where can I watch this?

@@caitlind9883 yeah it's out here now aswell

Gypsy Rose would agree...

Pfft yeah you clearly sound like someone who supports toxic families

@@Friskycandy no I literally based everything I said off one of my only memory with my dad I wouldn't support that

@@Friskycandy all I was saying was an example of what could happen for people who didnt understand

No. Its not that. Due to evolution, a child and caretaker will try to make eachother happy. The girl saw her dad sad, so her brain used a physical illness to make her dad look after her. Seeing that the illness was making him less sad and the let the child get the attention they needed the brain unconciously kept this up. It wasn't abuse it was a cycle of them trying to look after each other, the way that a child needs to make their care taker happy (subconciously) and the father's traumer of losing his wife motivating him to be overbearing on his daughter. (Also the things like her stomach hurting and feeling dizzy and stuff could be linked to high amounts of stress, I may be wrong but this is usually how I react to high amounts of stress)

Same it's like I'm turning the director of the movie!

Same!i was like 👁👄👁 why? Just why?

🤣🤣🤣

Be careful, these shows aren't always 100% medically accurate. x'D Don't apply this "knowledge" in real scenarios, get proper training.

Parents calling there kids kiddo and sweetie isn’t weird, it’s normal. Especially when you’re really young. Tons of good parents use them.

@@haileyparsons3844 I bet that it is just how much he uses them.

@@maisy_lol5332 Every dad calls their child kiddo

However, you're missing a huge chunk of context as to why both father and daughter are behaving the way they do. Simply put, Michelle's body may have converted emotional symptoms into physical ones because she thought her dad would only take care of her if she was sick, hence the many physical symptoms and trips to the hospital. It might be solely her dad's fault for neglecting Michelle while he was grieving the loss of his wife, but that means he wasn't able to cope with the death in a healthy way and it's not entirely his fault as well. People need time to heal, but it's 1000% much more harder to grieve when you are also a caretaker.

@@salomelau thats what i was getting at hes trying to act like he cares about her in public

Awh I'm so sorry to hear that.. but if you don't mind me asking.. what really happened?

I'm so sorry that no one helped you.

WHT happened to you?

What happened?

R Hobbs I am sorry that you were not heard by the people who you thought were suppose to be there to help you every time that you went to the hospital. The results of your situation depended on why you were admitted to the hospital, the laws and support systems of that time in the country in which you live. Just because we want our circumstances to be different does not mean that it was possible. Whether you were neglected, abused, or used and manipulated... Other options could lead to worse circumstances. ......foster care is not always better than your home of origin....... .....institutions can treat you as if you were an adult even if you are a teen/preteen, where you would have been responsible for your behaviour. For example: If you got angry at home and threw a glass of orange juice at your father you could be grounded, verbally abused or beaten. If you threw that same glass of juice at a foster parent you could be removed from that home and become a ward of the state. If you threw it at a staff member in an institution you could have been charged with assault. Ideally, we all should have a primary care giver that bonds with us and loves us as we deserve. The reality is we are all animals with gifts and not everyone uses their gifts..... Either through ignorance or choice. Not every family of origin or country of origin has the infrastructure to support the being best of humanity. I hope that you find your peace. You may find peace in purpose..... For example: Like helping children that are in the same situation that you found yourself in. Look into supporting children directly or in lobbying the government to develop or change the support services so people like you do not feel unheard and unprotected. Best of luck on your life journey.

Is it similar to munchausens by proxy?

@@rochelloelofsen6471 Nope. Munchausen's by proxy is completely intentional on the behalf of the caregiver and usually there's nothing wrong with the actual person.

@@rochelloelofsen6471 yes the only difference is Rivers syndrome the child is actually sick in the first place but when they get better they cause them to be ill again and munchausen by proxy is when the child is never sick in the first place. Munchausen by proxy is worse as they invent something that was never there.

Like in series sharp objects?

That's not rivers that much

I agree with your sentiment, not your wording; a parent panicking is normal. What he did was not panicking, he was actually calm, ready to get his fix. Also; Going on these simple signs is how cops who are amateur body language experts overreact. Just because you are nervous doesn't mean you're guilty. It can mean you have trust issues, ...

U r crazy

Yup, I think it's a bit of overflow among writers thus they lose consistency of character between each author.

She is not the best written character in the show

IKR, everyone is like “ oMg I hAtE hOw He SaYs KiDdO , UrRrGgGgGgGgGgHhHhHh”

Nobody says “kiddo” that much. That’s the point people are trying to make. If you can’t see that, you need to go back to school and learn how to read.

@@coco-mw3mp You too. Jesus.

Shimmer Shine Yeah that do, if the kid is sick or pain. They do it as a way of comfort.

@@shimmershine6902 sis I know how to read,back off

Me too

Same I will buy them one day......one day......

Wait what? Are these scripted?

@@simjaeyunss it is it’s a show

@@dracosgirl3766 thanks for telling why wasn't I aware of this 😳

@@simjaeyunss I mean... camera cuts, the professional video quality etc... didn't occur you? Lol

@@kerimca98 actually this video was my first ever one watching of Chicago med so

I would love to see him watch the nanny cam video they took.

um

Hi there? Hope you’re fine and staying safe?

But it's till season 4 only in India

But it's not available in my country 😞

Yesssss

Ikr

She was also in Pretty Little Liars

Meredith

@@clairecheney yeah as Melissa Hastings spencers sister

Im watching pll right now

Same!

I was kinda thinking about Gypse Rose Blanchard's mum whilst watching this

Hi there? Hope you’re fine and staying safe?

Dayna Arvanitis kiddo**

@@laetitiayardemian6306 HAAHHASJDJSJSAHA

IS IT

@@josephine.france5 yess, nd chicago fire, only season 1-4 thoo

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Ikr

😭😂

When I was in labour with my mother for company I was a big wimp. When my birth coach showed up I stopped being her child and spoke like an adult with the other adult. Change is scary but good for us.

Awe

Awww 🥰

😂😂😂😂

I didn't get the impression he was narcissistic, he just fears for his daughter after losing his wife to breast cancer.

@@fabplays6559 maybe you don't know narcissists very well

Ya too bad the actor sucks