UPDATE! We Were Wrong About Japan 

As someone who lives in Miami, those videos are generally true and give a good glimpse of what the culture is in Miami. Crazy.. I know

@@martelly55most people should know that….. that’s why I wasn’t surprised. There is ALOT of cheating and over sexual perversion in Japan and China. Which is worse? That’s debatable. But Japan is known for a lot of its perverse sex clubs and stuff. What’s happening is people are taking it and running to all the Japanese people with questions as if they all partake. A lot of black people eat fried chicken. I as a black person don’t like fried chicken but I’m constantly asked to speak for the majority.

@@martelly55 is that indicative of Miami or just spring break people?

Places like Miami and Los Angeles are different worlds compared to the rest of the USA

​@@martelly55yes but then imagine saying that those people are how everyone in the USA is like

Lmao this is too true dirty 6th

Lolol absolutely 💯

Honestly. It's like women and men going to a club and being surprised they can't find good men and women there...and after that, they think every single man and woman is the same. To think every single man and woman is the same is pretty "sexist".

Fr.

Ive been to Japan and lived there. The cheating culture DOES actually exist and is very much normal compared to the west, at least my home country of the Netherlands. Here it's rare for me to hear about cheating, but in Japan I saw it happening everywhere. People I knew cheated casually, friends parents were cheating and the kids would use that against them to get what they want, even a good friend of my girlfriend who was dating someone from my home country was cheating on him WITH HER EX while he was back home waiting on his visa to come live with her in Japan. That girl had no remorse and even joked about her ex being better at sex. Japan is loveless and of course there are examples of lovely relationships, but from my personal experience, they are rare. Every Japanese person I have spoken to had horrible relationships and were just dealing with it without solving it.

Was nice to get other point of view! Refreshing.

I really enjoyed your take!

Technically it's kind of representative because Tokyo has literally the majority of the Japanese population.

​@grimjowjaggerjak Nah theres nothing technically representative. If Tokyo has most of Japans population, then you have to get the opinions that represent most of the population of Japan. Just some street interviews with young women in nighttime Shibuya or Shinjuku is a very specific crowd.

But is'nt also that the Japanese woman don't even tell their husbando if they are cheating because it is like quite shamefull but they do expect their husbando to tell them, rules for they and not for me. I did saw in a vid on youtube from a creator that also was interviewing japanese people about cheating

Yea, I've lived in multiple of both and the media is way off...

I know this is like a poison belief at this point because of the cultural backlash happening against social progressiveness---but this is why diversity is helpful, it doesn't need to be forced or whatever, but when people actually live and socialize with different kinds of people they really do understand others better. Because what you notice the most is the ways that you are similar to that group as opposed to different. Our differences are all pretty surface.

Well said 👌❤️

@@user-ri5ex9xl9e nothing like multiple life experiences from different perspectives to broaden your views 👍

If only people realized this and just focused on character, the foolish generalizations would die. Granted I do believe stereotypes are stemmed in some truth to some degree but assumptions being made before you talk to people is on you. TV and the internet exploit more than educate nowadays.

Ya who would have.

You better shut the fuck up with rational logic like that. This is the internet and it will not be tolerated

Bet you don’t apply that to the United States.

Many people , actually... Go to Japan and they will tell you what they think about Americans, based on what media tells them.

@@Baldlesbian1 I'm one of the biggest advocates for not applying that to the US too lol. I really don't like the "All american women are shallow beings that only want your money and don't wanna settle down.", because it's simply not true. I went to New Hampshire and saw...surprise, surprise, women actually being appreciative of their men? And helping them with the yard work while they carried their kids? And actually enjoying themselves? The shallow people will think I'm talking about a southeast asian country, but nope, I'm talking about the USA...

😂

Facts

Your girl can’t be called a thot if everyone and their mom a thot too.

Some are built with gravel, others with asphalt... But all roads lead to Rome 🗿

Then we got china built with super glue and ductape.

Agreed 100% I stayed in Japan for about 2 years myself and loved it.

It’s funny cause my japanese friend said never date Japanese guys and kroean guys cause they’re the worse 😂😂😂 but shes not wrong.. cause my other friend experienced several guys who ghosted her after intimate times. Another found out her boyfriend had 5 other girls he was dating. So ya.. again, the country side no.. but ya.. japan has a lot if you’re into that night life

You can still be kind and sweet and a cheater lol.

Isn’t that just fake personality? Everyone cheats over there it’s western culture.. its disgusting

I doubt all the women they’re cheating with are single, either lol

Isn't it also a phenomenon of excessively urban areas vs excessively rural areas? They bring about very, very different mentalities.

nope. they got it right the first time (for the completely wrong reasons) and wrong hte second time and they never learned either time the right way to gather data. these guys are idiots that really should be ignored. but that japan cheats is absolutely true. most do. it's pretty shocking when you first see it, but its one of the few black eyes about the country that you see when you first come and stays true after you've been here for 3 decades (while most other ugly things about the country get hidden from foreigners for up to the first 7 years or so... i still know of people who went 'home' talkikng about how nice and perfect japan was, after living here for more the 7. they just never got past the tourist stage even though they tried somehow)

It's the culture. Way more than the west. I lived in a small town with a Japanese family and lots of people had similar sentiments. Even in class we learned It's more cultural for married couples to cheat after having children as it more a duty to maintain family but outside of that they can seek love.

The sexual degeneracy is the norm based off the sexual disparity of advanced cultures. This degeneracy is more prevalent than _not_ and the data supports it.

😂😂

I wanna witness one of these "spit-offs".😂😂

That would be hilarious.

😂😂

@@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqedsearch up “serpentza” he has a couple videos with clips of Chinese elders spitting on each other like rapid-fire guns. It’s insane

Why do club people cheat?

@@bbb_888 I mean the types of people who tend to go to clubs are people who like to party and live a little bit faster of a life. Now that doesn't mean all of them cheat it's just it's pretty superficial and those people are more likely to either be cheaters themselves or it not know cheaters.

There have been surveys with good sample sizes from pew research on this matter that show a great percentage of the population are pro degeneracy though.

what this girl does is gaslighting, really. trying to make you think those interviews are not representative

@@zloidooraque0how about you go take a walk! you really love to spam comments about how much you hate japan

So basically Japans own version of sin city

Sure but it is known that japanese have a different attitude towards sex. While it might not be as extreme as depicted tin the video but my cousin from Brazil lives there and he can confirm that it way more common to just go to a brothel even if you are married. Some husbands even let them pickup by their wife afterwards. Something that would never be possible in Brazil because your wife would kill you. lol

で、どう思いますか？風俗店に行くのは浮気っすか？

@@aa-cx8nc As long as your partner okays it, no.

@@TheSpeedyLoonyCanolibasically its like Las Vegas.. there is also problem with teenage runaways and sleeping and cough medicine ‘over doses’ going into prostitution etc.. again.. its another side of japan peopel doin’t know about

I never really viewed street interviews as an idea about a whole people or culture, it’s usually just shitty people having shitty answers so it’s more of a person to person basis

This would be funny if people didn't actually believe it

Having such a fetish seems so peculiar to me.

What is NTR?

@@rtjay6770 cuckoldry

That’s wild 😂

🎯 😂

Lol she was the realest one

😂😂😂

Never trust women, theyr’re masters at their hypocrisy, and then gaslight you with their mindplay into you being “sensitive/ insecure”

Hoes gon be hoes

And see how many people weren't even willing to talk to them. The people willing to talk on camera are already outliers from the norm and not representative to the majority.

Yep, and she allegedly has vested interest in doing damage control.

Both sides are simultaneously so wrong and so right lol.

Exactly.

No fr😂

or Vegas. Remember those clips drunk wife answering to street interviews, of course we are cheating, its Vegas baby. Second part of the video explain it quite well, street interview content creater farming contents in particular district that moral is generally lower.

Or asking New Yorkers out in the open around hundreds of people going by them in the city what they think about the state and it's policies and them giving the PC answer, but if you ask them the same thing around family during thanksgiving trust and believe they will tell you a different answer lol.

it is most likely some wife resent the husband or not sexually attracted to him anymore and gave no axn for a long time like a year or two so maybe then if he goes to a whore i guess it becomes acceptable in the sense "atleast i don't have to do it"

But it is known that japanese have a different attitude towards sex. While it might not be as extreme as depicted tin the video but my cousin from Brazil lives there and he can confirm that it way more common to just go to a brothel even if you are married. Some husbands even let them pickup by their wife afterwards. Something that would never be possible in Brazil because your wife would kill you. lol

I think you are right but we should also accept that potentially in other countries the culture may be different. If there is consent involved then I wish them the best.

​@@hyui5096 as a human I can tell what makes humans unhappy deep inside. All I'm doing is providing warnings.

@@octoberwildsmoke9065 I don't think I comented on you did I? I mean you can think what makes people unhappy and you can think that. But the truth is maybe you are right that most people think that way and maybe you are wrong. I don't know what your position is. But that is why I said if it is consentual. People can decide for themselves what they want from their relationships. Also, you can't expect everything your partner does to make you happy. For example if their jobs involves traveling all across the world across the whole year then perhaps a committed relationship doesn't suit them at the time. You can't expect them to quit their job. Now they might decide to if they want a committed relationship or they might think they are not ready for a committed relationship yet and look for something else.

Is cheating common among men as well or just women in japan? And do men consider their gf/wife going to a prostitute not cheating like some of the women in this video does ( if male prostitute is indeed common in japan)?

@@btb554 for physical cheating? I think it might be about equal. If you're including one-off prostitute visits as cheating, for instance. But for emotional cheating (dating other men, or an intense/intimate relationship with another person in a non-"professional" manner), particularly in marriage, it's LARGELY women. The reason for this is simply workplace and (more specifically) gender-role inequality. And there aren't really male prostitutes here, so the culture is different. Women work less, or not at all - men work overtime every day. It's also why female prostitution places are open til like 3 or 4am. Some are even 24hr, so they can catch the guys working super late on a regular basis. The first cheater I was with, we were together for like 6 months? It wasn't dating, it was fwb on both sides. But she spent a lot of time with me, even Christmas day (a big day for dating/romance in Japan). Turned out she had kids, too. Her husband didn't have any idea because he was working too much. And she also had a job, herself. Even with that, she had more time than him apparently to be spending so much of it with me. It's part of the reason I stopped casual dating in Japan at all. After being with cheaters more than half the time, I figured it's just not worth the risk of being an (albeit, unwilling and unknowing) accomplice to that.

What are the STD rates like

​@@ReadyorNot811As a sailor who lived in Japan..it's still not as bad as America.

@@lifelinebynature Huh? Yah there are all over shibuya. They have very famous gigglos they just call them host (not all host or hostests are hookers but is a usual front).

Facts they think all women in the USA are all the same base on the women in miami

This is what people keep saying. F&F always pick those certain type and then of course their viewers think that's how all women are like because those dudes don't actually know any women in real life.

The issue with fresh and fit is that the points they make arent wrong. But it only applies to the subset of women in miami. If you only go for miami thots and only look at them of course their absurd generalisations are going to apply. In reality less than 2% of women in the world have an onlyfans,but they somehow believe that every woman in the corner has onlyfans,makes thousands,sleeps with 10+ men a week and flies to a different country in yachts every month. Of course if you go to miami you will see that,thats is where most of that 2% is concentrated,but they prefer to believe what they see instead of what is factual

@@Gnomesmusher facts they think every woman in America is like that because all they know is OF thots in miami

A lot of street interviewers do this, which is why I stopped watching street interviews altogether. They only go to areas that they know will give them the wildest answers and then present it as if everyone thinks that way. They are intentionally deceitful people

Because (1) they’re busy and (2) getting plan B is expensive and requires seeing a doctor. So I guess theyre culturally more aware of repercussions of the almighty creampie.

They having sex and popping plan B's after.

Quick and easy sex is often the only option available for severely overworked people in Japan. It's much easier to just walk into a brothel for an hour then create a family with a stable relationship when you're working upwards of 12 hours a day. Karoshi "death from overworking" is the largest factor in japan's declining birth rate.

1. Contraception is a thing 2. You think that the men are the ones sleeping around despite data showing for YEARS that it's mostly just women sleeping with the same dudes? Oh you sweet, sweet summer child. . .

@@Delimon007 I never said one did over the other and I talked about how they as a whole are under populated. The interview itself also addresses the same thing so not sure what brought you to that conclusion lol 😂😂

It was. For a loooong time.

There's such thing as a "National Culture" or "Regional Cultures" Or "Ethnic Cultures" and even things called, wait for it, "Sub-Cultures" Aye! Imagine just thinking one thought at a time and living your life that way, how simple it must be.

It straight up is though. The girl probably just wasn't thinking back to what she would've learned in school about Japan's history and literature

Buddy if the things in LA are accepted. Do u think that would extend to the culture of the whole US.

It depends on who you’re talking to. A newspaper did a report on my town saying it’s the ghetto and one of the most dangerous places in my city. I lived here all my life and only started feeling unsafe once the gentrification started like a couple of years ago and I’m almost 30. What became a known thing outside our town, wasn’t really acknowledged or known to us inside, yh some people I’d spoke to agreed whole heartedly but the rest would disagree and say they wouldn’t live elsewhere. So if a person says it’s accepted in society and yet that’s the same person who accepts those ideals and surrounds themselves with the same people, doesn’t mean it’s a cultural truth, just tells you more about that person and how they see the world. Prostitution is more famous in other countries that cater to it way more publicly than Japan, I’d say their porn industry is more known than their prostitution industry. Maybe it’s a language thing and it’s talking about sex work in general?

Ppl are nuts 😂😂

It looks like cheating but I don't think it is because cheating means you're going behind your partner to engage in affairs without their knowledge, if both parties have discussed it and are ok with it I'd doesn't really seem like it anymore. Not saying it isnt wrong, just that it doesn't look like cheating.

​@@tristan9482Thats basically what an open-relationship is. If you signed up for exclusivity then its pointless.

that husband for sure not coming back to them, as the same person. Soul ties exist.

I mean that’s how many other cultures feel about American culture sometimes.

And it doesn't bother you having a father who thinks half Japanese women are slut which is obviously not true ?

You're projecting. I've lived here for over a decade too. It is not "the norm." It is just one of those things people have repeated enough that our confirmation bias makes us believe it's true.

@@wolfganghumboldt4830 Mate, cheating is the norm EVERYWHERE not just in Japan 😂

I also have lived in japan for over a decade, around tokyo and also kanagawa, I have friends from all over japan and we all agree that cheating is not normal 😂

@@wolfganghumboldt4830 I dunno dude, I can back him up. Even out in the boonies like Nara its pretty common to just bang. From my experience with Japanese women: Loyalty is emotional, not physical. Can't speak for Japanese men, as I didn't date any.

@@ZeroNumerous It is just as common as in western countries. Sometimes we see a few examples of this in Japan and forget that it is just as normal in the English speaking world for people to do that. But we hear a thing, see a couple anecdotes confirming it, and assume it must be an extra different problem. It ain't. There are literally billboards for people to hire anti-cheating PIs all over here lol. Ain't nobody spending money to find out what is "normal." But it is so not normal or tolerated that there is a whole ass market for that.

They are unless you are going to pick one from the streets then don't make a surprised stupid pikachu face.

😂😂

Same with Latin America 😂😂

@@Altair-El-Haddad and idk why the fixation on Latin America, those are western nations still with high rate of feminist women LOL!

@@Altair-El-Haddad I'm from a Latin American country. The women get divorced, they yell at their husbands and like to party lol.

I read that a huge percentage of japanese men in their 20s aren't interested in dating at all, it's an even bigger percentage with the men in their 30s. A lot of them are still virgins too. I'd argue it's worse there than the west lol.

@@cherryhazard8002definitely worse than the west. But I think the main difference is they don’t harm anyone else but themselves.

​@@369ZIR nothing changes in a society where all of the negativity is turned inwards despite having external causes

@@epicfiend1999 human condition.

​@@369ZIRthey don't harm anyone right now, but they definitely harm everyone and themselves in the future. No replacement meant no taxpayers and old people is keep increasing. Who's gonna maintaining everything?

You were having 2009 PUA chats?

😂

​​@@Shockguey"Go to Asia, it'll solve all your problems. Of course the problem isn't you, and that there are good women and negative women everywhere, and like wherever you go, there you are!"

??? Are you planning to go to Japan to date women and cheat on them???

@@cherryhazard8002I’m sorry you had to go through that. Time heals, be safe. 😢

The hell is that

The what?

@@-DA-ONE-You and Jon don't want to know... *Trust me on this*

Lmao

​@@windghost2 Don't go down the goon hole, you might come out but poor and sticky

Same. And Sourry.

I have heard many native canadians say aboot.😂

Lots of Canadians also say "beg" or "bayg" instead of "bag". Canadians saying some words differently is not some myth that Americans made up 😆

Bahgel(bagel) Malk (milk), pahllow (pillow) I’m Canadian and its certain people from certain areas, not typically kids of immigrants.

I was born in Minnesota and grew up in the south, and I have hints of a Yankee accent. Aboot is one of those words.

Yeah I'm a sceptical of her response because if I go to London, the biggest and fastest city in my country and did street interviews, Im 90% sure that 95% of people would say going to a prostitute is cheating and have more negative opinions of cheating overall.

@@xxxmelissatacionxxxwe don’t even really have a prostitute culture or strip clubs either, if you even further the question and ask them if they think those two things are American or not they’ll probably say yeah that’s only in America.

For hundreds years.... Are you saying that Japanese have always a sex addiction? He he he.... November will be mine..😂

​@@xxxmelissatacionxxx In Japan there are many shops that beckon men to walk inside. It is almost as normal as women going to a nail salon or getting their hair done and viewed as normal maintenance for men. The first time I went to one was with my boss back in 2004 when I was working for a major travel agency. He treated the men of the office to what is known as a "pink salon" after we finished working. These shops aren't only in the big cities, they are throughout rural Japan as well. Many small towns have these shops even when they don't have a proper shopping district... Everyone is different and there are many women who still find it gross, poor taste or be upset that their husband does it for sure. However, it also has wide acceptance and many women understand that men go to these shops regularly. From my experience, 6 out of 10 women would not care/accept their boyfriend or husband doing this in Japan. Some women even consider men visiting these shops as a "hobby" and use that word to describe it. it's seen as normal male behavior and doesn't effect their relationship. To be honest one of the reason it's so widely accepted is because many women have also worked at these shops at some point in the past. Many men marry a girl that maybe worked at these places for a month when they were younger, so there's acceptance both ways. 20 years ago it was even common for highschoolers to work these shops before the government got strict and put new laws. It became rampant for highschool girls because they could make better money and was less demanding than normal part time jobs. Many generations of wide spread cultural acceptance or at least wise spread awareness/understanding. It's not just shops with girls photos in front.. most hole-in-the-wall shops you see in Japan with prices listed on a small sign are these shops. When you're in Japan, take notice of how frequent you find these places in ALL areas of the country

@@Rk-xx1sg that's true. We have prostitutes but it's not really a thing and it's looked down on. Most people would be even confused if you asked if prositution is cheating because it's such a given.

Yep, women who cheat the most are usually women who's husband they know cheats on them. Cultures where cheating on the man's part have the most amount of women cheating.

Nobita's channel is not better in the least.

For Japanese social commentary? Yeah, it is. Seeing as he focuses on a wide range of topics regarding Japan from homelessness to mental health. His videos about Japanese p-stars are predictable and boring though, I will say that.

@@perrywinkle5000 His videos are the way they are because doesn't have that much life experience. He was literally a Neet.

Because women care a lot about emotional cheating, and less about physical cheating. Men care a lot about physical cheating, and less about emotional cheating. Thus the question from men is "Did you bang him?" And the question from women is: "Did you love her?"

Yes.

It makes perfect sense if it’s purely physical the man will most likely not leave and she still has her security.

@@Kirbystare1992 i don't think most people are mad at cheating because they are afraid to lose their security

that floor needs a few extra nails!

There are plenty of American's that do it. They just don't talk about it.

If that’s true, then that completely flips the confirmation bias angle, since it’s entirely possible that the women she provides these dating services are seeking western men specifically because they don’t want to deal with Japan’s cheating culture.

@@theguileraven7014 or they are just gaijin hunters

Also, as much as it may seem counterintuitive to the average person, a single person's outlook on a country is actually not representative of their country in most cases. Most people don't know their own country (including western countries) as well as they think they do, only their local viscinity, while some of the people who hold the most accurate outlook on a country tend to be foreigners who travel a lot in said country, in many of its places/cities/regions, and live a significant ammount of time as an expat in several different areas. On top of having seen more of the country than the average native has, they'll have much more unbiased views and such.

​@@Dice-Zthat is stupid as hell.

​@@Dice-Zthat is terrible logic.

Their

​@@spencertegtmeyer6525 petty king

It’s literally like how Miami, or LA is to the rest of the country.

@@sleepyking4558 People in Japan are a lot more homogenous than the US. Even in their thinking. And, how would you get the general consensus of Japan? You can't really go to all the prefectures and ask. Even if you do, somebody is going to say 'well, you didn't ask everyone in that prefecture'. Asking people in Tokyo and Osaka is not a bad place to start to get an idea of what people in Japan thinks. That's why even the interviewer asked whether people in Japan cheat a lot, the interviewees don't really say 'I can only speak for people in Shibuya' because they understand the general culture of Japan. Even in Japan when they do studies or street interviews, they usually just ask people of Tokyo or Osaka.

Asagi (the woman in the video) has these videos on her channel - 'This Is What Successful Men Do To Date Japanese Women', 'Is Speaking Japanese Important To Have A Relationship with a Japanese Woman?', 'Japanese Tries Biscuits And Gravy For The First Time!'. She's basically making generalizations about Japan. Or she's passing her own opinion as a representation of Japan. Isn't that just hypocritical?

Kabukicho is in Shinjuku

​@tigerbear3038 no diff then Takashii presenting generalizations too

Yet brothels and love motels can be found everywhere and every woman knows that, so they must be aware that it IS part of the culture while not outright rebelling against it... hmmmmmmmm

@@KangMinseok Last December i went to Tokyo, i noticed that all the host clubs and the likes are concentrated around like Shibuya. I never seen those kinds of shops in like Odaiba, Toyosu, Ariake, etc.

@@ImRezaF you do know that host clubs are just the flashy, fenzy versions of the "accompanied drinking" places you find in every damn city, right?

🧢 I lived in the tiny town of hirakata with brothels and love hotels and similar cheating culture. It's definitely normalized. There's so many books and articles about it. Just Google. In 2015 I wrote a paper about it for my university. We had to choose topics that were more Japanese.

@@sonderexpeditions Hirakata is in Osaka prefecture. Of course if you live by love hotels and brothels you will see a cheating culture.

"Pretend the problem doesn't exist" yep seems very japanese lmao.

So you didn’t finish the vid

Usually the case with "sister wives" and polyamory too, especially in strict religious and cultural context. Super depressing is right.

And as usual, the tube does nothing about it. 😂

Hell I’m an OnlyFans model and am friends with a lot of prominent models. The majority of us are pretty boring and pretty much fade into any crowd. While stereotypes may have some credence…at the end of the day they’re lazy approaches to social interactions

Even the good wmn in the whatever podcast aren't the move, modern day wmn everywhere are not the move

​@@awesomeirlablemodel? Uploading photos of yourself doesn't make you a model

Nice, a fellow JJK fan

@@Aronzzi89 are…are you serious?

​@warlock757 nah im good life sucks for adults

Nah, I'd cheat

​@@doctorisjoewell played 😅

Who is the cheater?

By "culture," do we mean something that is normalized and socially accepted? Does "culture" imply a particular way of life for an entire civilization? Cheating certainly exists, but is it a wide-spread phenomenon, or is it simply embraced by a morally-corrupt minority? I am not convinced "cheating culture" currently exists, but it will SOON become the reality, especially as human relationships + morality continue to deteriorate.

source?

​@@-DA-ONE-The woman that lies that cheating doesn't exist. People are not going to self-snitch.

Who said that

And even in those US states you only hear it up north by the border too. Would be interesting to know where the accent originated from. It's likely dying out too.

It kinda is if the partner is consenting solely because they are afraid refusing might have negative consequences for them, their reputation or their relationship. Depends if it's weakness (can't truly blame the other party for taking the chance, but can't truly blame the other if it ruins the relationship for them either) or if they were heavily pressured into it, but either way, if consent worked that way then grape wouldn't exist as long as you forced someone to say yes. But this is a complex topic and one that is too easy to sabotage with politics.

was looking for this comment, finally someone mentioned it. Not sure why it's translated as prostitution here. I've lived a couple of years in Japan and no one would be talking about prostitution openly like that in the street.

Oh come on don't be silly, we all know what they really mean. And you know the highly illegal part is damage control, it's extremely easy to find

I didnt know there was a separation. Thank you for the context. But wait if sex for money is illegal how do places like soaplands exist?

​@@basedmod2139 I don't think Japan is that lax on crime.

Exchanging money for sex = Bad, prostitution Exchanging money for "extra services" = Good, not prostitution Fascinating knowledge!

Older than edo my dude. Im generalising but the Japanese weren't that reserved until the west started influencing them. I've seen so many wood carvings of dickery from the Japanese from just about every era. It'll still boil down to region and culture. Like hokkaido is vastly different than idk tokyo. Some sects were pretty reserved, but historically japan looks at sex veeeeery different and openly compared to even their closest neighbors

The worst I've seen it is where I live. Newfoundland Canada. Look it up. We are number one for escorts,infidelity etc. I hate it.

I used to work at a sushi joint and there were many rumors of staff who were older men sleeping around and stuff. My old boss was a Japanese like 60ish and he openly expressed how much he liked cheating. He definitely hooked up with one of the women staff who was like little less than half his age. That was something else.

@@jetta.silence6356 US has the worst cheating culture in the world but it's the coastal states that prop up the numbers. Haven't heard of Newfoundland's escapades.

Do you think "what I've heard" is a reliable source? Who did you hear from? And is this something they also heard? Or experienced firsthand?

Women have height, financial, look, personality, confidence preferences: that's fine, let's gooo queeen. A man has an age preference: omg that's disgusting. Lol

I personally think that if as you and your partner age, your sex drives don't align anymore as one slows down faster than the other's, arrangements for the partner with the greater drive should be made socially acceptable. Western culture is ridiculous with its inability to tell love and sexual health apart, despite most having no issue separating the two when it comes to kids or relatatives. Love means wanting to see your partner's needs being met.

@@KangMinseok The what with that second-to-last frase?

@@foisopracurtir6389 phrase of what please?

That might be what people meant by the “aboot” spelling but it’s not the best option