Great video. I find that I feel there is a lot of (Self)judgement which is holding me back and negative emotions. After interactions, I'll feel guilty for looking weird. I also feel really frozen sometimes in mid-conversations -- I don't know what to say or do, and it feels so awkward. If I try to be playful, it feels wrong because it is forced and I come off nervous.
THIS WAS GOLD! I finally have a word to what I'm looking to learn more from, Psycho-Social Education. There has been so many mentions of things I have semi solidified in my thoughts about this and now that you've talked about them they have the weight needed to learn more from them. Thank you. By the way, what's in the vase?
Hey Adam I'm really happy this video was a useful jigsaw piece. I checked out your awesome and inspirational channel and see you're on an adventure yourself! Take on the world! As for the vase...what would you have liked it to have been? I figured it would have been cool to have a coiled rope in there that just extended out half way (Aladdin style) through the talk...
I was not always confident. But I certainly felt skinny and ugly. With time, I realised that such labels are superficial (negative ones like 'ugly' and positive ones like 'confident'). Only your own mind or the minds of others can hang such labels on you. The first goal is to take control of the mind to prevent such loathing self talk. The second is to understand that negative labels from others are expressions of their own inner pain. Neither mean anything...or they mean everything, depending on your own feelings of worthiness. Vulnerability is about going beyond either of those judgements and opening yourself to be praised or ridiculed with the understanding neither mean anything in the scheme of things. You are mighty and capable of great and amazing things. Get your mind under your discipline then the rest will follow.
Fucking fantastic!!! I WANNA FUCKING JOIN YOU GUS I WANNA BE PART OF THIS GOD DAMN ORGANIZATION!! AHHH I JUST WANNA BE FREE AND EXPRESSIVE LIKE YOU GUYS ARE!!! I guess ill have to fall in love with myself before I continue my journey isn't that right?
Thanks for your support! Consider yourself joined! The journey unfolds in little pieces. More of my life was spent unexpressive than being free. What's important is that you have an idea of what you want to become and take little steps to get there. A little risk here and there to push yourself outside your comfort zone. Sometimes it works and sometimes it falls flat (which happens to us, too), but by just pushing yourself a bit further than you would, you've already won. Falling in love with yourself is the key, so give yourself lots of reasons to love yourself, too!
You guys are really cool and this was a good speech. Could we see some more of those cool videos like when you defused the drunk homeless guy, with the gun banana? That was my favorite. You have such a different take on cold approaches and I love it. I think you have a lot of potential to be different from the charisma guys and everyone else. Keep up the good work
