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@@YourCharismaCoach It was great! At first it was more awkward but then eventually I had a longer conversation and I felt super good afterwards. It made me feel better for the rest of the day. I want to stick with it
@@user-cm9yx7hz3j Well done! It's a great skill to develop. You'll find the awkwardness often vanishes if you plough through the first minute. It occurs because you're doing something novel; and it takes a few moments for most people to get used to this. In those first moments, just RELAX (breathe normally) and act like it's no big deal: most people will eventually follow along. Keep it up.
@@user-cm9yx7hz3j It's 100% okay to make the task easier. For example, just sharing an observation with somebody (or even noticing something about them). Anything is better than zero; and this will build momentum for your next attempts.
@@YourCharismaCoach seeing the natural infield interactions in different situations along with the caption explaining why your saying certain things. and also showing how natural things can be if u don’t get into your head to much. How would you handle a group of two or three people?
These advices are still awesome, and if you follow them they indeed lead to better self esteem... and better life overall The hard thing is not getting complacent with how we are, but to do that extra step.
Honestly if someone asked me do you like books I would burst out laughing. I would fire back I can’t stand them I came here to glare into them so they know my hatred!
I am confident I am insecure I am charismatic I am weird I am succesful I am a loser I am funny I am cringe I am witty I am boring I am deep I am shallow I am loving I am cold I am loved I am rejected I am respected I am humiliated I am strong I am weak I am whole. I can choose to be any of these things. And still love who I am. I love who I am.
@YourCharismaCoach please make more videos on approaching groups of women and making friends with them all as a Man. And inviting them all to a social event (dinner party / bar b q / pool party etc etc).
With groups of girls just say that you got stood up by your girlfriend who is on call at work and got called in then ask if you may join them. Tell them you have to much food and drinks for one. And bring something of value. Delicious mixed juice and alcohol drinks. Food enough to share. Marijuana edibles if it is legal were you are. Etc.
You have several paths. If you're starting out then it's a good idea to warm up your mind before pushing yourself into approaching strangers. This video ('5,000 Conversations') on my channel is worth a watch in regards to these steps (ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-1nc1nfLCJn8.html). The practice of having a single, 1 minute conversation a day, will take you really far. However, perfect practice makes perfect, which is why the steps in the video are so important. It's not enough to simply approach hundreds of people; although that can help provide some initial personal growth. Mastery comes from quality over quantity. Another really good way is to incorporate conversations into your lifestyle. Get out of the house: find a hobby, take a class or sales job where you will be socially interacting with others because you're essentially getting free training. I used to work in a cinema and that gave me lots of practice (and er, free films!)
Okay so this is great and I love the videos. I've honestly followed this channel since 2013 and am actually quite adept socially now and have a really good ability to make friends. But I moved city about a year ago and my relationship recently ended so now I realise I have so few friends here. I'm only good at making friends when it's the "right" time in a room together or forced to talk. I really want to just meet people and say hi but the only thing holding me back is the "what if they react badly" thought.. I even get weird thoughts like "what if they get aggressive" which is stupid really but it stops me from talking to people. You talked a lot about courage in the last video which is definitely a barrier I need (and WANT) to overcome. Regardless, I used to be a really socially awkward guy and now I feel comfortable as myself and I embrace being weird; and your videos helped so much with this so thank you.
Thank you for taking the time to share your story. I'm really happy you've developed your skills: well done! I used to have that voice too ('what if they react badly') so now I ask myself "I wonder would happen if I said Hi?". You'll only ever experience a 'bad' reaction if you break someone's personal boundaries/ values. In polite society, that's actually quite tough to do, even if you're goofing around. To get your social life back on track, find some sports or hobbies where you can attend a weekly class. It'll provide a social base from where you restart your growth. Keep it up!
If I can add to this I would say it’s good to have a reason It can be a stupid reason and a good place to get creative Like you both noticed the same thing doesn’t matter if your interpretation is the same, it’s still relevant
