Victim loses $50,000 and finds out the truth! 

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Red flag words 🚩: “Queen”, hospital, oil rig, gift card

Hi. I used BeenVerified to check into a man I met in real life and not an online, which turned out to be just as dangerous. After watching enough of these videos, things this man said (when we were together in person) didn’t feel right so I signed up and ran a check. Turns out he was a convicted violent felon in multiple states, including sex crimes. Just wanted you to know that you’re doing good work and even people you meet in person should be validated.

Any time someone calls you "Queen" via text, there's a 99% chance that he's Nigerian.

Every single woman in these catfish stories says the same thing: “He spoke to me in a way no other man ever has. He writes me poems, love letters, and gushy messages. My husband never talked like that.” 😳 That’s because most men don’t talk like that in real life! 🤦‍♀️ It doesn’t mean they don’t care, it’s just that most men don’t go around spouting cheesy lines from the inside of a Hallmark card 🙄. People in real life don’t talk like the characters in a Hollywood rom-com

Dating in your teens: I hope he has a car Dating in your 20's: I hope he has a job Dating in your 30's: I hope he's mentally stable Dating 40's and up: I hope he's a real person I'm becoming so okay with the idea of being a cute little old maid

I gave up on marriage, realized my age, became at peace with myself. Got hobbies, started a news channel, called friends. Then one day my neighbor of 17 years came over. We're married 11 years. Ya never know.

If someone starts 'love bombing' you straight away, he's either a scammer or a Narcissist, run for your life.

He’s an engineer in charge of a crew but needs her to send him gift cards to call his kids… right… On which planet are these victims living?

I'd rather see my mom with a real guy 25 yrs younger than a fake digital guy.

The moment “a man” says crypto, Bitcoin or gift card your conversation should logically BE OVER.

Imagine being a scammer and threatening your victim. These parasites are the lowest form of life on earth.

Barrels for the oil? They must be laughing their heads off.

“I need money to buy barrels” I can’t😂😂😂

Imagine your employer, a multi national oil company, forces you to use your own money to hire an employee to replace you. And that payment is made by your internet girlfriend sent to the replacement employee's wife. Why do these scammed people think this is normal.

That poor dude that gave her his heart for 15 years. Imagine spending 15 years dating and NOT wanting to marry 😭

That is so sweet of her to send $50,000 to 1 scammer... and now she is going to spread the love around to a new scammer.... she is an angel

3 things: a real man doesn't ask for money, looks aren't everything and if it sounds too good to be true it probably is.

Ann needs to fall in love with kittens and puppies... they love you back unconditioally, and won't rob you blind.

😒Its getting harder and harder to feel sorry for these people. They are their own worst enemies.

Yes, big oil operations ask random women online for money in order to buy barrels. Makes total sense to me.

Wtf lol she left a REAL long term relationship with a younger man over age just to “date” younger men online

This one finally helped me realize the commonality between all of these people who get conned.. They are ALL superficial and base everything on appearance.

So the only one that is real is the one NOT asking for money? Well, colour me shocked.

She never asked what kind of surgery for the imaginary son. Did she really believe doctors in Texas would let a child die if they didn't get paid upfront? This is willful blindness.

So she already was in a loving relationship with a man who spent 15 years with her and proposed to her.... and she ended it cause he was 25 years younger. And it took her 15 years to realize that. And then she fell for a scammer. I'm sorry, but sometimes I wished people would learn to appreciate what they have right in front of them.

Don’t these victims wonder how the scammers paid for things beforehand? Like this guy who needed $2K for his son’s “surgery,” how would he have paid for that before? And how did these scammers pay for food, bills, and rent before? It’s so ridiculous. 🤦🏻‍♂️

Do not pick your partners based on looks EVER

"If you don't send me the money my son will die Ann". OMG, what a scammer!!!

It took her 15 years to figure out that 25 years age difference mattered to her?

You stayed with a guy for 15 years but didn't wanna marry cause of age? How does that work? 😳

She threw away a 15 yr. relationship with a younger man who wanted to marry her. Then goes on a dating site and gets scammed for $80,000. Far as I'm concerned she deserves to be alone.

Let me get this all the way straight. She left a 15 year relationship with a real man who loved her just to fall for three scammers????

Imagine having to pay for your own supplies working on an oil rig. You think oil companies would trust their employees to buy quality containers?? For oil??? One of the world's biggest commodities??? Be forreal

Damn, Ann...leave some men for the rest of us🤣🤣

I’m 38 and In my experience there isn’t “the one” it’s a lonely world but you must occupy yourself in new hobbies and subjects. Stop searching outside of the soul.

She gets it. It's a dopamine rush. She's an addict.

Wow, James looks like he could be a male model. And him saying “you’re the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen!” screams scammer, scammer, scammer!! I mean, Ann come on…..look at him! And that’s even before he started asking for money. I want to feel sorry for these women, but it’s hard sometimes because they can be so foolish and gullible. I’m glad Social Catfish was able to confirm that Estefan is a real person. I wish Ann happiness.

Doesn't she know that hospitals bill you? They would never deny a dying child or person. They have to treat you.

“You are my true first love” - dude in his 40s 😂🤣

He needed money to buy the oil barrels??!!??? Seriously? Does he go to Home Depot? Thats ridiculous!

She needs to find a new therapist. That was terrible advice. She is a prime target for scammers. And if her therapist is going to give people that kind of advice it needs to be followed up with "Watch out for scammers, here are some videos to tell you the warning signs." People who've been out of the dating game for a while don't necessarily know about catfish and scammers. I only learned about all this because I was thinking about joining and app and Googled dating stories to get an idea which apps were more successful and came across all these scammer stories.

Red flag when date sends you personal documents. You never give your personal information to strangers, even your own family.

Ugh poor lady. She a pretty lady, she could meet someone Real! Stop sending your hard earned money on strangers!

If a man says he loves you etc., but you've never met in person, then you know it's bullshit. It's as simple as that.

The real guy is the only one who did not ask for money.

How do these ppl have so much money🤑🤑 to lose in the first place??

They struck oil and needed him back on the rig? 😂😂😂😂😂 No one person is that important on an oil rig (unless he is the cook! 😂😂)

She didn't "LOSE" a dime! She willingly paid for the fantasy boyfriend experience. She fell for ridiculous stories that the writers of a daytime soap opera would find incredulous!

"I will treat you like a diamond" Unsure what that means exactly, but at least they're moving away from Queen

If you can't see someone in person, red flag. Even Skype/Zoom. Also, why give a grown ass man money? If he doesn't have money, find a man that does.

I can’t even with these people. And I mean the “victims”. It’s always the same story; all the scammers look like models and they all need money for their fake drama! Even if they were real, why would anyone want to be involved with someone who constantly has problems and needs YOUR money to get them out of their shit? I understand if you’re in a REAL relationship for years or a marriage but come on! Who wants that shit? 🤦🏼‍♀️

I don't understand how anyone can fall in love with someone they have never met. It's a total fantasy.

These "victims" who have *multiple* catfish should put to bed the myth that this is about falling in love. It's about narcissistic supply.

Grown men begging for gift cards so he can call his kids??! 😂😂 ohhhh hell no! In real life, that’s what we call a deadbeat. Why would you be paying a stranger’s son’s medical bills?! Stop being so gullible and work on your self esteem. I don’t feel sorry for her whatsoever. If a man asked her for money face to face in person she’d probably laugh and ghost him. She needs to stay away from any and all dating websites! Keep your money for yourself and work on you. Why are these older women so damn desperate? Edit to add- This is absolutely an addiction for her! She’s going to keep doing this until she’s broke. Seek out an excellent therapist and stay off the Internet!

To all the older ladies that get scammed, please avoid dating apps period, if you must be on, ignore needy men (such a turn off), military men, men stuck at oil rigs (watch dr. Phil), men with school age children, handsome men ( look yourself in the mirror and be honest if he is in your league or not). If you are going to pay someone just hire a handsome professional that will dust off the spider web and walk away without ruining your life.

She spent 15 years with someone but felt it wouldn't work to get married. ???

How many times can she say that she liked him for his looks?

This lady is not stupid so she should be more careful. Anytime anyone calls you QWEEN, he’s Nigerian. Any time he has emergencies and needs money he’s a scammer. She is going on looks in the men she talks to. A lady I worked with met a man and he was younger and very handsome, a 9. She was short, overweight, and about a 5 in looks. When she told me about him, I wondered to myself what he was doing with her, but said nothing. A couple of weeks later I asked how her love affair was going. She just shrugged and said oh he’s gone. Much later she told me he called her from jail to come bail him out that he was arrested by mistake. She had already “loaned” him money until he got paid. After checking on him, he had no job, was in and out of jail and lived off women by getting “loans”. Best to check them out first and when the age is much younger than you and he’s a 10 and you’re a 4, beware!

I've binge watched a bunch of these videos and this is the 1st time one of the people a victim was interacting with turned out to be real.

Barrels? Say what? How absolutely dumb

Even though I am only 5 mins into the video, I can definitely say James is obviously a scammer. His key words being " My Queen" along with his empty promises of a comfy life, love and companionship. Ufff these blood sucking unscrupulous individuals are truly incapable of any of that. They disgust me!!!!

I think Anna has a addiction to online dating is just like gambling hoping to get lucky.

Lady, lady, lady…by the time one gets to your age, and my age, your common sense MUST tell you that a man who looks like that will NEVER have to resort to online dating unless he is a bankrupt, a drunk or a drug addict. Nothing about him…especially his looks, makes any sense! Use your life experience and your common sense!

She left her boyfriend because he was 25 years younger, and dated men online who were 40 years younger.

Im so glad that one man was really who he said he was.

Barrels for the oil ? Omg ! Hahahaha

I have a hard time believing her therapist recommended online dating. I think she is prone to hearing what she wants to hear.

It’s refreshing to see some of these victims realizing it’s an addiction just like a drug. That’s why some can’t stop. However it’s also quite shallow just to keep texting with someone just because they’re good looking and they say flattering things.

Queen.. it means RUN in English!

Too bad she’s so mesmerized by looks.

I’m a Turkish American and it really makes me mad that these scammers use Turkey as a hub of work and eventually lie about being imprisoned, detained ect!! It is absolutely ridiculous

Imagine working for a company that say you have to pay someone’s salary to replace you while you take a holiday 😂

We found oil. Get back here, quick!

I’m impressed by her pull-ups 💪

She wasted 15 years of that younger guy's life

These scammers are so terribly evil, these stories turn my stomach. The nerve of them to talk so sweetly, send pictures they know are appealing and attractive and then just proceed to destroy someone's life and do it over and over again.

When it sounds to good to be true unfortunately it is 😔

Serves her right she's blinded by looks so desperate

I've had a few surgeries in my life and I have never been asked or required to pay any money prior to having surgery. How are these women so gullible??

The SECOND he asks for money, you know it’s love fraud. Please know this!

I don’t understand why she went from dating in real life to settling for someone online. And then him asking for money but still not meeting her and she still put up with him? 🙄

Her therapist was negligent. Encouraging her to find someone online is not a bad idea, but all he had to say is for her to be aware of scammers. Sounds like he wanted this for her. For sure she ain't too switched on, and that can't be helped much, but a few words of advise would have prevented all this. Mature guys that good looking are sleeping with women half their age. They don't need to go online for 50 plus women. Not trying to sound mean, but that's the way it is. Ladies, think carefully. She only focussed on looks. There is more to people than just looks.

I"m shocked. An actual real person.

Oh my! She’s the brightest lady yet. She still fell hard. So unfortunate.

Barrels for the oil? I mean cmon 🤦🏻‍♂️

As soon as they ask for money the first time, ask them why at their age that they do not have ANY money put aside for expenses! Do they not even have one friend or family to ask instead of asking you? I'd be concerned about having a relationship with someone who does not know how to handle his money responsibly.

Thank you! 🙏

Real or not, this is so abusive. Why would they associate all the demands as "love." Something is broken if you can fall for someone like that.

They usually work on a rig, have a sick child and their name is usually James.

First time a person was real! That's sweet. I never saw the person come to their office too. Great job keeping things fresh.

I love these podcasts. I really believe you’re doing the public a GREAT service by printing out in plain English. what these crooks are up to. 😡😡 It is difficult for me to listen to the victims🙀

Any therapist who recommends you go to online dating needs to have his/her license revoked! How stupid!

A hospital isn’t going to refuse to do a life saving surgery because the copay hasn’t been paid. When I broke my hip and when I had a near fatal asthma attack, I was treated even though I couldn’t pay AT ALL.

Even if they don’t hook up, it’s very sweet that at least ONE of these guys was actually who he says he is. And he IS attractive, looks like he takes care of himself, is interested in women HIS OWN AGE, and has REAL old guy problems (which he handled without requesting 💰💰!).

Great content. You guys are doing great work!

As a woman this is really embarrassing! She’s so smart but she can’t tell when when she’s being conned!!!!

That younger guy who wanted to marry her must be relieved. He dodged a bullet.

Wait, I’m confused. She left a REAL young guy she was dating in real life (because he wanted marriage) for young guys online (who weren’t real)? That doesn’t make any sense.

I’m glad someone is real here. There is still hope.