Your remarks show us that your out of touch with how lonely and gullable seniors are. We grew up in an era where one could depend on another's honestly. Wait until you get old.
This is the part i can’t wrap my head around, that so many people out there severely overestimate their own attractiveness and looks. And the fact that so many people seem to think ultra superficial chat is like profound conversation. It’s just mind boggling.
good idea in theory, but I think unethical people would get involved. Plus, these old people want phone sex and lovely dovey stuff...ewww! No way an ethical person could fulfill their fantasies.
So her poor husband gets cancer...she complains that he's not romantic anymore..LADY HES FIGHTING CANCER! Then she goes behind his back and gives all their money away to some stranger who tells her what she wants to hear. Talk about kicking someone while they're down 😠
She said his personality changed and she lost her lost for him. She didn't allude to and abuse or turmoil in the home, claiming he's more like her brother now. It sounds like perhaps he's depressed abs struggling mentally and emotionally with both the chemotherapy and diagnosis. Not that there is ANY excuse for her cheating, but if he had become violent and pushed her emotionally in a corner this woman's story would make sense. Sadly, she is just selfish. I wonder if he knows about the money she's spending... the money that could be put towards his hospital bills.
Marry a woman, have a daughter, grow old together, get cancer and then your wife calls you "this guy" and seeks romance online. Proceeds to send the family's money to a Nigerian scammer. Perhaps we should hear from the real victim here.
@@revelations2798 Marriage is a legal union between two individuals while a common-law marriage involves two people who live together and present themselves as a couple without getting married. Divorce is a possibility for married couples but isn't for common-law marriages. Soooooooo...... the dynamics of the relationship are very close but the main differences are legal.
@@lisawentworth6831 you obviously haven't taken on 3rd wave feminism. Most modern women would divorce a terminally ill man. What can he offer her? Nothing. Some learning for you: modern feminism = women are stronger braver and more intelligent than men whilst simultaneously being oppressed by those same men.
She landed 2 scammers and cheated on her man, on Bernard and on Johnny. Presumably all 3 would end up fighting over her... If they weren't fake and if her man wasn't battling cancer. I wouldn't want someone like her.
@loveutill theendoftimes Come on !! It is NOT just "old people", that can be cruel. I think if one has "it" in them, then, a person cannot hide or cover it up. "It" WILL come out, young OR old. But maybe I'm wrong.
This is very rare to happen with women, apparently. When a wife becomes sick her husband is 6x more likely to leave her, even more so if she is terminally ill. Whereas in terms of statistics women almost always stay to support their sick husbands. I suppose there are always exceptions to the rule, though.
Yeah, but the scam is not about being charitable or giving money….no shortage of ways to do that. It’s about selling a fantasy of romance, love, excitement, etc.
THAT part. But when I tell you these guys are demonically verbally abusive when you say no!!! Omg SO hostile and SO insulting. They will call you anything but a child of the living God! Stay blessed everyone❤
Don't be a smartass. The poor guy probably just lost his passport and his plane landed in the middle of nowhere and need that money to refuel the plane or something. Don't you have any common sense? Smh
Every time I see these ones about the celebrity scammers, I’m floored. There’s no way on God’s green earth your celebrity crush will reach out to you. Not happening. With that being said, Sylvester Stallone and I have been dating for 4 years now and we’re very happy.
And on top of that she makes it sound as if she was some sort of martyr her entire life and “ALL” she wanted is just one nice person to not use her. In my opinion, she sounds exactly like the type of person who only uses people and ditches them the moment she can’t use them for anything. Her common law husband was clearly suffering a tremendous amount of various types of pain; while she went online looking to find some excitement. This is one of those people I hope gets scammed for everything she has; she deserves it.
Her online fantasy man was "taking care" of her while HER REAL MAN OF 20 YEARS WHO HAS LOVED AND SUPPORTED HER EMOTIONALLY AND FINANCIALLY IS DYING OF CANCER. YEAH, SHE'S A WINNER!
I was struck by that comment of being " taken care of". So a few typed words online equals being taken care of? Since when is typing on a computer considered as such?
Whats worrying is the amount of people that are brushing over that. Third wave feminism, not just splitting up families but also removing care givers to the terminally ill.
Imagine if SHE was dying of cancer and her husband "fell in love" with Pam Anderson and gave away $115k of family money. No outrage tho, right? She gambled $115k and she LOST. Morally bankrupt. End of story
She didn't say he was fighting it. Could have been brain cancer that made him a psychopath and cured ten years ago for all you know. Don't be so quick to hate.
Sent $115K. Smh. If anyone out there has this kind of money just pestering them and weighing them down, I’d be happy to take it off your hands for you. I’ll call you Queen and everything. Lol
Her partner got cancer, and “his personality changed.” Uhhhh, yeah. As someone fighting a cancer battle myself, I can tell you that’s normal. Fear, depression, physical pain, exhaustion, sickness from chemotherapy, searing pain caused by radiation burns so bad that you can’t sleep or move without pain, fear of metastasis… sure. That causes changes, lady. Thank God I’m married to a man who knows what love is. He stood by me through it all, for a year, and is still here and in love with me. This woman doesn’t deserve her partner. I feel no sympathy for her whatsoever.
She said “he treated me like a queen”! He didn’t take her out for a date, massage her for hours, cook her delicious meals, take her on walks in the countryside, make her breakfast in bed, build her a camper van, hold her hand or even look her in the eye lovingly. Basically he called her babe, said he loved her and got tonnes of money off her.
She has absolutely no regard for her poor husband who's fighting cancer, yet she has all the consideration in the world for a stranger who's scamming her🤔
My partner and I have been together for 11 wonderful years. A few years ago, I became disabled and very very sick every single day. He didn’t leave, and hasn’t complained once. He sets up and runs my feeding tube every day, goes to every doctors appointment, he has been unbelievably amazing. But this woman just disposed of her sick husband, despicable
I have no sympathy for her, this is what you call karma. I'm 56 and my wife is 53 and she went into renal failure and almost died but ended up losing one of her kidneys. I cannot imagine leaving her alone to deal with this by herself while I'm sending all our money to someone that doesn't exist.I cannot believe people are this stupid.
I kno exactly what u mean. My husband is bedbound with MS + I'm his carer 24/7. After years of love + loyalty I can't imagine ever doing 2 him what this woman did 2 her hubby, pretty disgusting!!
But that's just speculation or maybe you are applying her story to your situation. We know nothing about their relationship. Hateworthy a*sholes can get cancer , too, you know. From the way she tells it to me it sounds more like he had cancer in the past and they drifted apart over the years. But we just don't know. No judgement here. You obviously shouldn't leave your spouse BECAUSE of an illness but you are absolutely allowed to leave a bad or toxic relationship DESPITE of an illness. I'm sure you did what you did out of love and not obligation and that's very honorable.
Yeah, agree, and I am usually one of the few commenters defending the person scammed. It’s one thing to think some celebrity loves and needs you, that’s incredibly naive but not “wrong.” But brushing off a spouse with cancer or other huge health issue is selfish and wrong beyond belief.
Yes, and not really even her husband. They are in a common law relationship. Poor guy, fighting cancer and then having a woman like her to deal with! Just sad. Good luck to him with his cancer fight.
I believe, most of these idiots, are greedy and selfish themselves!! So, she is a QUEEN and deserves Johny Depp, but not this sick man!! They're selfish to put all their savings to get that rich life with young super star!! It ends up for her being a story for laugh.
No. I think you didn't understand. Equals attract equals. She is attracting to her life the type of vibe that emanates from her soul. She is merciless and she attracted one who is dark and merciless too. She doesn't care about her husband's condition and deep down desires his death. Selfish. Merciless. Egocentric and entitled. Here comes along her equal: a scammer. They have no mercy either.
Personality change is a recognised side-effect with many forms of chemotherapy. That is no excuse for her behaviour and the effect is usually temporary, but it is a story you will frequently hear. A good doctor will mentally prepare both the patient and their family for this eventuality beforehand.
there are many kinds of intelligence. many of these victims have jobs that require high level of intelligence/skill. they’re gullible, naive but that doesn’t mean they’re stupid overall. they often have traumatic pasts, were emotionally neglected, ab*sed, or are otherwise mentally ill/unstable. many of these women just lost their husbands and were contacted by the scammer shortly after. the mental and emotional instability makes them easy victims. they’re buying human connection. it’s really sad. ofc some are just perverts but those are also not all there in the head, especially if they’re doing this (and obviously not the case with this woman).
The thing that bothers me the most is her blaming her partner for getting cancer and not being able to meet all HER needs. I lost my husband to cancer and it is difficult when you’re the caregiver, but to leave someone when they’re sick is pretty cold. If the situation were reversed how would she feel then?
my husband died of cancer so i have no pity for this horrible woman--i wish i could meet her in person so i could slap her in the face-- i hope she reads all these comments
I was married for 20 years, I always knew I would push my ex around in a wheelchair and care for him if he got sick...then my kidneys failed and I needed a transplant...he immediately made that "my" problem, did not even offer to get tested as a match and within a year was gone
@@theneedyelf8867 fuck that’s awful. I have Crohns and within 3 months of getting married it became really bad. That was 32 years ago and he looked after me forever. I work and look after him too but the work is mainly him. Honestly, I am lucky. ❤❤
It's not the first time an older woman had this same sob story. It was one of the last vids in fact. She wanted to believe young hot men wanted her because when her husband got sick she had to care for him fir 10 yrs tol he died and she was so obvs DISGUSTED at the idea of having to go through that again. Sickening.
@@bell6dandy564I feel embarrassed for people like this. If they have money to burn they should get a PI. And Johnny Depp still ranks arm candy which she’s not. Sorry ma’am.😢
Like my guy the general. Never told me high branch or even which nation but he’s a general ….. 🤔🤔😉 I wasted about three hours of this scammers time befor3 I sent him a “selfie” … it wasn’t a polite one 😜
@Chris Kyle Good point, you don't really need intelligence to be in positions of power. Now that I think of it, you never really did for most of history.
My King and My Queen are terms used mostly by African Americans but apparently, the Nigerians have picked up on that and use it in their scams. Disgusting scammers seem to be mostly in organized crime in Nigeria!
I'm honestly sicked by her! She said he got Cancer like he caught a STD. I hope she continues to get every bit of karma she deserves. And I pray her husband "that guy" heals physically, mentally and spiritually than cut the other huge Cancer out his life!
Oh good grief, celebrities do not want to meet random internet strangers how on earth do people fall for this bs 🤯 Millionaires certainly don't need people to send them crap tons of money 🙄 If you are in a relationship that you are not happy in, have the decency and integrity to leave the relationship. Talking to strangers behind your partners back shows a complete lack of respect, honesty and loyalty!!!!
As a widow of someone who was disabled from Parkinson’s & his primary caregiver, this person makes me gag…cold, heartless & incredibly stupid doesn’t begin to describe her.
But that's just speculation or maybe you are applying her story to your situation. We know nothing about their relationship. Hateworthy a*sholes can get cancer , too, you know. From the way she tells it to me it sounds more like he had cancer in the past and they drifted apart over the years. But we just don't know. No judgement here. You obviously shouldn't leave your spouse BECAUSE of an illness but you are absolutely allowed to leave a bad or toxic relationship DESPITE of an illness.
why don't these women understand as soon as money is requested IT'S A SCAM???.. I feel so embarrassed for these women, You would think her children would have told her this!!
Geht es noch! Was erlaube. Sie sich den IQ von Personen nach ihrem Äußeren zu bewerten. Ob jemand naiv oder intelligent ist, liegt nicht am Erscheinungsbild. Sollte dies so sein, dann tut es mir leid für sie, dass Gott sie nicht mit Schönheit gesegnet hat... denn dieser Spruch war hohler wie eine Nuss. Sorry😮
@olympucbrag5913 please send a pic of yourself, u and the multiple people who “liked” your comment, please send pics. we would like to see if u are “unattractive enough “ to potentially be scammed yourselves. thank u! 😊
You know nothing about their relationship. Hateworthy a*sholes can get cancer , too, you know. From the way she tells it to me it sounds more like he had cancer in the past and they drifted apart over the years. But we just don't know. No judgement here. You obviously shouldn't leave your spouse BECAUSE of an illness but you are absolutely allowed to leave a bad or toxic relationship DESPITE of an illness.
She really said “we’re like a brother or sister” in regards to her relationship with her husband who has cancer🙂. Yea missy I’m glad your ass got scammed, bless her husband’s heart.
Believe me the internet makes it very easy to have a nonconfrontational relationship online that can be much easier to navigate than a real person one lives with. She was trusting innocent older woman who believed his lies. He was emotionally supportive. She was used to selfish men who wanted a spouse to take care of them not an equal partnership. And he seemed to offer what she wants because that's how they work. They use pet names so they don't have to remember who they are talking to. He offered to pay her back. Same old story. Many of them fell for it. He needed a money mule too. And then he scammed her out of her life savings. She had no one around her to offer her support or protect her and they use ye olden urgency and emotional guilt to pressure. I really wish the feds in Canada and USA would do more to help people.
She wants to be beded again, and the hubby is old news, all the while both in the twilight of their lives. Maybe this is all there is for the future? Maybe I should get my vaccine.
I could be wrong but sure seems selfish of her leaving a 20-year relationship bc physical dynamics change, personality changed (prob bc chemo and/or radiation r terribly rough on the body of her hubby)... appears disloyal, but I don't have all the facts. Just saying....
My husband got Alzheimer's and certainly his personality and other things about him changed. My brother, who certainly had my best interests at heart, told me, "You didn't sign up for this." I told him, "Oh yes I did. This is EXACTLY what I signed up for when I took a vow to love him for better or worse, in sickness and in health, as long as we both shall live. How is that not signing up for whatever bad things came along?" Evidently this woman should have added to her wedding vows, "and as long as your personality doesn't change." Amazing!
Why are people willing to send money to a stranger, but their interior in the background mostly looks cheap and ugly. Why don't they spend money for improving their homes and themselves (looks and especially mindset and maturity).
Her husband changing after chemo is not an excuse to cheat unless they have agreed to a divorce. Chemo takes a lot out if a person! I feel more bad for him
This is not the first person who was about to their partners to the side because they saw greener pastures approaching. I think in a way, they falling for scammers is a form of just desserts.
The moment she told about the cancer and said "im still living with the guy" i knew shes a bad person. Calling the husband of 20 years "guy" is just disrespectful on all levels already. Hope he beats cancer and finds a woman who doesnt call him guy.
As sweet as she sounds, she just revealed herself to be the worst asshole in this whole thing. She abandoned her cancer-stricken partner, said that he's changed. (Like no shit, granny, cancer is and could be a terminal illness one has to fight for the rest of their lives probably, OF COURSE it will change you.) She deserves to get scammed for leaving her partner. She forgot the 'in sickness and in health' part of the marriage vow.
60? She hasn’t seen that in over a decade at least considering her daughter is almost 50. What I don’t get is how she would think Johnny Depp would be interested in her. I notice she said the same thing as the other woman who thought Johnny was in love with her, “oh maybe he’s tired of the Hollywood life style and is looking for something different” Not that different!
@@marylivingstone9815 no one thinks they're unattractive. most people don't look at attractive, wealthy and even famous people and think "they're out of my league" even if they most definitely are.
I'm still mystified by how people continue falling for these scams. This is insanity and it's sad it won't stop. But, Kudos to Catfished for trying to help the victims.
im not the overwhelming majority just go off a photo and the fantasy of that photo and thats the entire problem with it all cause rather then just basing it on a photo they should look more deeply into what kind of person they are but alas people are stupid and just base everything on a photo
i bet when i was like 10-12 i could be fooled by this style … but kids don’t have money to send 😂 and i know forma fact after 12 it was common for young people to know what’s altered and what’s not. those proof photos with celebs holding papers with a not got old so fast. makes me feel bad for the older generation .. but even then they go against their “don’t talk to strangers online” idea
@@djdarksidejungle559 The interesting thing is that people often conclude the person in the photo seems like a nice respectable person from their photos and they are often correct. The person whose photos were stolen often is a nice respectable person! It's just not the person the victims are responding to!
Congratulations France. You have sent over $115,000 to a scammer just so you can hear him tell you you're beautiful and that he loves you. I bet if you got in your car and drove down the streets of your city you could find a man holding up a sign asking for money and you could pull over and offer him over a hundred thousand dollars and I bet he would tell you the same thing. In fact, you could probably talk him into accepting a lot less than a hundred K and he would be willing to tell you pretty much anything you want to hear. I have lived alone since my husband died over 15 years ago so I understand that you miss having a significant other in your life but I have NEVER been so lonely that I would pay some kid in Nigeria to tell me I'm beautiful! You see, I have mirrors in my house and they are all in very good working order so I KNOW I'm not beautiful. I'm not so ugly that I scare little kids and puppies but I am NOT beautiful, nor am I anyone's "queen". I was not beautiful 50 years ago and I certainly am not beautiful now, and if some buffoon on the internet told me I was I would kick him to the curb in a heartbeat! SMH
I’m sure the people that love you think you’re one of the most beautiful on the planet.. When you love someone they become beautiful in your eyes regardless of appearance. Everyone deserves to find themselves beautiful it made me sad to read how you think of yourself.
I bet you're more beautiful than some other people think of themselves. And you got common sense, too. But I get the meaning of your words and agree that it would do no harm to some people to be a little honest with themselves. Take care!
I just cant fathom how these people say “oh he treats me like a queen!” And all they did was show them some attention and call them baby. Step up your standards ladies!
Interesting theory, if ture were going to have an entire generation of easily scammable women that have bought into 3rd wave feminism. Thats what teaches women to divorce a man who can no longer provide rather than riding it out "in sickness and in health"
Agreed! I don’t consider them victims anymore, I see them as ‘willing participants paying for a fantasy and having a guy text them a few times per day, for an expensive fee’ oh, and alienating their caring friends and family
@TundraWomanSays Elderly people who are unbearably lonely; yet they set their standard for men at really good looking, ultra successful, multi millionaire celebrities who are significantly younger. If she went on a dating site and was reasonable and realistic with what kind of a man she could find for a relationship, she would have been able to find someone local to her who would love and respect her. For a woman like her though, she would consider men like that to be trash and not even worthy of a response from her; not when she’s got a guy like Johnnie Dep chasing after her! Lol!!
As a person who was divorced after over 2 decades of marriage for getting a chronic illnesses she doesn't get much sympathy from me. She said my husband got cancer and his personality changed. Horrible.
Yup I agree! She promised in sickness and health. Of course he changed he had / has cancer that would change ppl , definitely. She gets no sympathy form me!
She has been with her partner for 20 years. He gets cancer and she says. "I'm still with him because we have a house together." She deserves to be scammed!
I love how the “victims” are always so amazed that they have so much in common with their new rando stranger internet love. I picture it goes something like this: Scammer: “So, what are your interests?” Victim: “I like cleaning, bingo, country music, knitting, gardening and crossword puzzles.” Scammer: “Me too my queen, me too babe, me too sweetie, me too princess, me too beautiful and me too my soul mate. Victim to her skeptical friends and family: “We have so much in common, it must be meant to be!”
I was feeling a twinge of spending guilt for buying some new clothes before my vacation but then I sit down and watch one of these videos where someone sends $100k+ in gift cards to a random guy in Nigeria and that guilt magically dissipates
Hahaha, so true! It's my 'go to' as well. I got a £60 parking ticket recently and I was kicking myself.....until I had the thought that I could have sent $100,000 to a Nigerian scammer, and I felt a LOT better 😂
"Treats her like a queen", but steals everything that belongs to her? Poor woman has absolutely no clue what it means to be treated like a human being, let alone a "queen".
She deserves it . She drained their accounts. Knowing damn well her husband needed money for the cancer treatments or all expenditures cancer acquires .
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I was obsessed with Johnny Depp when I was a 14-year-old teen in the 80s. I can’t imagine being a grown ass woman not only obsessed with him, but thinking he would date me as well!
Her husband got sick with cancer and she didn't like that his personality changed.. No romance anymore?? Are you serious? A lot of people on here getting scammed deserve sympathy, but she's NOT one of them. Absolutely disgusting.
Sometime people who become ill and dependent also become harsh and emotionally abusive because they hate not being able to do the basics for themselves anymore. They project their discontent onto the people they have to rely on. Just some food for thought.
@@teijaflink2226 she is so going to regret this, when he dies. My mother in law did this; ran off with another ma when her husband was dying. And she was sneaky about it. Afterwards, she had so much regret. She could have stayed for the few months her husband was alive.
@@mysticalvibe4241 I've had that happen in my life; two woman close to me that loved their husbands, but left when they were sick. Pretty crappy thing to do, and neither of them lived very long
It's annoying how they always blame their husband or wife for straying. 'He got cancer so his personality changed'. Wow, real loyal lady. 🤦♀️ I only feel bad for her husband.
She is vile. My now ex did this to me too. Diagnosed with state 4 cancer, ten rounds of chemo, mastectomy, 25 rounds of radiation, and a couple other surgeries in the last two years. My now ex used to scream at me why wasn’t I as intimate with him as I was before?…um, because by body is being destroyed so that I might be able to live :(
The one thing that conflicts me is this: take cancer out of the equation. If you're in a relationship and the person does a 180°, if everyone is healthy but one starts being angry or distant, no one would fault someone for leaving. But because a major health issue is involved, people feel like others should be trapped into staying? It's tough, I don't think someone should leave strictly due to health problems, but the sheer amount of hatred this woman is receiving for that one statement is concerning.
to her daughter: run as fast and far as you can from your mom. I have a similar mom, she brought nothing but misery and tears to the family. Your mom will never ever stop living in her fantasy-world, her “ lover “ will always be her #1, not her (grand) children.
I'm starting to think that these sufferers must also suffer from, at least a little, narcissism. How else could a normal person convince themselves that a celebrity has fallen in love with them, sight unseen. Like, how??
none of these guys say anything on a small human scale like " i was up all night with a sick cat" or "i'm taking back my new tv , its too big for the living room"........
Spolier alert: It was Johnny Bravo!!!!!!!! Well deserved She calls the man she spent 20 years of her life with "this guy" and she complains he changed after getting cancer ... No empathy at all I hope "this guy" recovered fully and left her
My uncle had cancer,he was a self made man,when he had brain cancer,he hated not being able to do anything himself,the constant reliance and feeling that he's a burden for his family while battling the pain and weakness from chemo,all the while watching his family struggle to pay the hospital bills, he passed away three weeks ago,a once happy,bubbly man became a shell of who he was, constantly wanting to end his misery. This woman leaving her husband after saying his personality changed after cancer isn't supposed to anger me, but it does. My aunt was the most kind caring wife, staying with my uncle during his last moments,never complaining,and caring for him makes me feel like her husband deserves something just like that. I hope he survived and has someone genuine and strong to support him
Imagine if this old woman gave the $115,000 to her daughter! wouldn't that have been wonderful? instead she paid that $ on line to hear sweet words said to her. This is sick.
I think it would've been interesting to hear what her husband thought of all this. Has she even told him? Was the $115 000 that she sent to the scammers from their shared bank account?
She said they are no longer living like husband and wife. They are still sharing their home. It's not always possible to split financial obligations. My ex and I lived under the same roof for about 6 years in the same way.
This woman cannot see the forest for the trees. She sees what she wants to see, and in the process is so disloyal and disrespectful to her husband. She's getting what she deserves.
