Videos Viral ஆகுறத நிறுத்தணும்.. Dr Shalini speaks about Pollachi Issue 

உண்மையை உலகுக்கு வெளியே கொண்டு வந்ததற்கு நன்றி நக்கீரன் ஆசிரியர் அவர்களே

பெண்களுக்காக பேசும் ஒருவர் நீங்கள் மட்டும்தான்.... எந்த நாடு பெண்களை பாதுகாக்க படுகிறதோ அந்த நாடே வளர்ச்சி அடையும்....

This is one of your marvelous speech Dr Shalini. Those animals parents should see all your videos and I want them to understand what you really mean . May God Bless You Dr Shalini.

ஆண் பிள்ளைகளை வளர்க்கும்பொழுதே அவர்களின் தாய் பெண்களை மதிக்கவேண்டும் என்று சொல்லி வளர்க்க வேண்டும்

You're absolutely right Doc👍💯🙏 well said

She not say any bad about men she only says cruel men not all men her point very well

Good video Pls take this to all parents students

my advice to all parents , brothers , sisters ,,,,,, unga son or brother 7th std mela pona vudane , avan college mudikum varai , avan enda madhiri close frds vechirukaan , avanga yaaru , enda madhiri pasanaga nu ellam neenga therijukanum ........

Intha vedio va ellarum share pannugga......please .....everyone should accept what she's saying ....

Matured speech I have came across pollachi issue.

Dr oda kuralla ORU tired theriyudhu.solli solli onnum sari aga metengudhungira virakthiya madam.manusan irukkiravaraikkum vakkiram irukkum Pola madam

Thank You for sharing Madam Dr Shalini.

Mam you are awesome... What is the use of unknown friends in social media... Please guys first try to be loved with your near one's. Then later you try to show your showers to unknown persons. Mam you are clear with your points I loved your speech and now a days I'm trying to be in my point ... Thank you mam

Thank you Shalini madam for supporting women. Still society has to change

Please trust only father mother... This is from my life experience..

சமூகத்தின் மீதான பெண்களின் பயமே, தவறான ஆண்களின் தைரியமும் பலமும்...

First and foremost one must come to agree the fact that female are born naturally as expressive. Those who have female child they will know. Infact compared to boys who are shy girls at younger age are normally very expressive and bold. For example between kids, one can see female children like to dance, sing, dress up when compared to boys who are less bold to express on the stage. How many times we have seen the crying boy on stage. If you look all the children dance shows or talent shows one can see female children are naturally more expressive. 2nd point is Female kids also seek more attention from parents especially from the Father. This is because compared to the Mother they are attracted to the Father, they see him as a role model the perfect man. Haven’t we heard the analogy that most women look for a husband with qualities like the Father. Again the attention from the male starts here. Also for Father the female child is always the favourite. 3rd point is this child who was care free happy go lucky little girl over the years become a teenage girl and now suddenly told how to dress how to walk or talk and how to behave in front of people especially with men. This definitely have a huge impact to them psychologically. Why this sudden change? They ask themselves What is wrong with me now I have to follow these rules. So these children type expression which was accepted by the society when she was young suddenly became a taboo. So she starts looking for answers, and here she stumble upon the media which provides her information on what is “ideal women should look like, dress up, behave e.tc “ So suppressed feelings and Unanswered questions about her own identity is revealed by the media. So what is this identity? 4th point: Over the centuries female natural Instinct for attention heavily suppressed by the society. However over the last few decades, the media played a huge role over the world in sexualising how women should look, dress, role models they should take. In western countries this started in the early 50’s by the advertisement agencies which found that large portion of women could be a pool of untapped clients to sell product. So companies start to pour money to attract women customers and the idea they came with is to promote the “ideal women” a man would want. Look at the Netflix series “Mad Men” you will know. However, this media craziness over objectifying women has only started impacting India hugely over the last few decade as more women are now educated, studying comming to workforce. So the media are very certain to continue to sexualise how women should dress that would attract men so they can sell their product. Look at soap, facial advertisement e.t.c. So obviously most indian men since teenage years also see the same media exposed to this “ideal women” so they have this same idea how a “ideal women” should be. So who is this “ideal women” for men? It’s all over the media , Bollywood, Tamil cinema. This include showing women with fair skin, hour glass figure, talk with more feminine tone, shy, timid, always in need for men to save them. In western countries this situation is so bad that teenage girls get breast implants at the age of 16 and parents infact sponsor for the surgery. Why? This is because the teenage gals think that that having them is considered to be ideal gal. They can be attractive. So why this happens because music media, fashion Brand’s subconsciously feed to the female mind on how women should dress to attract attention for survival in the society and to be fully accepted as a women. 5the point: Naturally like any species male and female gender at sexual age would want to show themselves more attractive. This is a nautrual behaviour in the DNA for reproduction of continuity of species. However, religion and culture has suppressed this behaviour especially for women harshly by controlling how they should behave. So social media like Tick Tok or FB give this opportunity, for them to express. So female find this as an avenue for them to express and come interns with their identify. This is no different than a female child trying to dance and sing and get attention of the parents. Here the suppressed female gender is getting attention from the rest of the people in the social media. I believe there is no ill intent in these Tick Tock or FB but their behaviour is significantly is influenced by the overly sexualised exploitation of portrayal of women by the media. 6th point: So how can we stop this? Question here can we stop a billion youths behaviour? India soon will overtake China in terms of population and also the male to female ration is hugely skewed in india as there are few females to males. So as long media continue to portray women highly sexualised and not respecting that female intellect also matters than the her body this will not stop. Also take note all this tick tock gals are not going to do this when they are 50 years old. So this is just a phase but reducing the sexualised nature of their behaviour in the intent will be a good step forward. Men on the other hand should also not pay close attention to women beauty alone and not make that a yardstick of measurement for their “ideal women” rather they should also be attracted to their intellect. They should show their appreciation for it too. But this does not mean men should be like the older generation of men not showing affection to the partner. Women naturally want to be complimented on their looks. So in a marriage men need to do this as a sign of appreciation to her in a marriage. Giving unnecessary appreciation to female beauty when you just meet a gal online or in person is giving wrong signals to them and it looks very uncharacteristic.

Intha maari problem naala thaaanda love naale parents payapduraanga

For once Dr Shalini agrees with me, rather I agree with her.... "Videos Viral ஆகுறத நிறுத்தணும்.. Dr Shalini speaks"

#BanTikTokInINDIA

Well said mam...

Great speech mam

Good advice madam ....

Anchor shud improve his skills

Mam unga videakagathan waitpannan

Betrayal is the worst thing. All men should be punished.

பெண்களே ஸ்மார்ட் போன்களை கவனமாக கயாளுங்கள் இந்த முக நூல் டிக் டாக் வேண்டவே வேண்டாம்

Wrong is wrong who ever done. Brother r son r others. Punishment.,. ..,...........punishment...........

14:00 👏👏👏👏 true. They are passive aggressive to subordinates too, on the side.

நவீன கலாச்சாரம் !!! நாகரீகமான கலாச்சாரம் !!! மேலைநாட்டு கலாச்சாரம் !!! பணம் படைத்தவன் திமிரில் சுகம் தேட விரும்புகிறான் !!! பணம் படைத்தவளும் தனது சுதந்திர வாழ்க்கையை அனுபவிக்க நினைக்கிறாள் !!! பணம் இல்லாமல் இருக்கும் ஆணும் பெண்ணும் , பணம் இருக்கும் இடம் நோக்கி ஆர்வமாக பயணிக்க , அதை பலவிதமாக அனுபவிக்க இந்த காலத்து ஆண் பெண் சரி நிகர் பழக்கங்களால் சீரழிந்து விடுகிறார்கள் . பெற்றோர்கள் கண்டிக்காத வரையில் இது போன்ற மோசமான நிகழ்வுகளை ஒழிக்கவே முடியாது !!!

Yes, block this video.... Ammava paarkkiren, do something please

When i see this video , i saw 91 dislikes so I suspect still 91 animals are there in our society who not accepting their cruelty. Dear men in a women’s life we are so loyal to men who are in the frame of father brother friend husband son etc., but try to be little responsible please protect us don’t destroy.

இப்பவும் ஆம்பளங்கள மட்டும் தான் குறை சொல்கிறார், மருத்துவர். பெண்கள் வெளில உல்லாசமாக இருக்கப்போறது அதுவும் திருமணத்திற்கு அப்பால், போறது தப்புத்தானே? எப்படிப்பட்ட வலை விரித்தாலும் சிக்காமல் செல்ல பெண்கள் தயார் படுத்தப்படவேண்டும்.

First girls konjam control ah irunga tik tok a partha avlo kasttama irukku nammalum over ah poga kodathu ... Popular aganum nu limits ah cross panna kodathu

ennoda personal opinion , in today's generation due to outside influences like movies , serials , and internet , lots of studying and working gals are attracted towards guys who show off themselves to be adventurous , fun loving , sporting a rich life style etc

Well said!

Ma'am! 👏👏👏

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Anchor keka vara vishyatha theliva kelunga.

Good information

Super madam 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 best speech !!

Dr. Shalini's speech is good. But defending women is not correct. In her earlier speech, she narrated about symptoms of false men which a women can identify, so these girls ignored such symptoms and fell prey. Am not defending those bad guys, but women should be more careful than ever to escape from such tragedy. Dr. Shalini is good in explaining, but bit one sided sometimes in favour of women.

Madam, avanunga pannathu sitrinbathukaaga illa panam engira paaribathukku.

Nice speeches

I think ippo ulla pasangaluku Psychology treatment kudukanum Yes re habitation centre la sekkanum Ella vakkra buthi ullavanungala Good

for all parents. please attention ! !!!! Enga samuthayathle aan pillaigalai valarkum murai 100% matra vendum. this is the only solution for all family ( s....) problems

படித்த நல்ல குடும்பத்து பெண்கூட வீட்டில் வேலை செய்யும் ஓட்டுனர்,கொத்தனார் ,சும்மா ஊர்சுத்தி திறிகிறவன் வலைகளில் வீழ்ந்து அவர்களது வாழ்க்கையை கெடுத்துகொள்கின்றனர். பெண்கள் இதை கவனத்தில் கொள்ளவேண்டும்.கத்தரிக்காய் வாஙுகினால்டகூட தரம்பார்த்துதானே வாங்குகிறோம்.

Let's not debate that mistake was on girl side or guys side. It's a big mistake on parenting. Kids valakurathu yevalo Periya visyam tu theriyanum. Chumma pethom valathom tu irukama yedhu thappu yedhu Seri tu solli valarkanum. Oru gender inoru gender ku respect tharanum. Women illama men illa,men illama women illa. Rendu perum balanced ah irukanum.

ஐயா அம்மா நமது என்ன அலைச்சுழல் 14 க்கு மேல் இயங்குவதால்தான் நாம் அனைவரும் தவறு செய்கிரோம் தியானம் செய்வதன் மூலம் நிச்சயம் இந்த சமுதாயத்தில் உள்ள களங்கங்களை போக்க முடியும் தியானம் செய்வது அடிப்படையான சட்டம் ஆக்கப்பட்டால் இந்த பாலியல் வன்கொடுமை மட்டும் இல்லை மற்ற குற்றங்களும் நிச்சயம் குறைந்துவிடும்

Well said mdm ✌👍👏

Arumaiii....Sariya Solringaa. Tanq for Upload Awareness videos ☺.tanq Nakkeeran ☺ ( 13 03.19)

Thanks for a comprehensive psychological analysis of the mental condition of these perverts.

One question, does the doctor think they shot these videos with an intention of monetizing them?

3:10 Appo cinemala vara inthamaathiri kaatchigalum samugam paathika kaaranamthaan illaya ...

குற்றவாளியை என்ன பன்னனும் இந்த கேள்விகளுக்கு அரசால் கொடுக்கபுபடும் தணடனையால் பல பெண்களுக்கு நீதி கிடைக்கனும்

The social media basic understanding is wrong..How come any unknown person can be your Friend in social media..social media is created to share and socialize with your real and know friends..if you cross that limit and entertain any unknown person.. it will end you up in trouble..

Oh my god.. This comment section is the most depressing ever... How come everybody criticises her for talking feminism...inum anda ponna pathi thappa solreengale ya.. Avan yean pona.. Ava yean car la yeruna nu.. Yemathurathuku meaning teriyuma teriyada.. Ungala yellam yarum idu varaikum yemathunathe illa.. See... they selected innocent girls.. Ulagam teriyada ponnunga...thapu inga men mela.. Athanala solranga... "Have u ever seen a woman abusing and taking videos..." ungala ellam thiruthave mudiyadu...

Madam, you, tell this, truth I tha,, video,, relay, seytha Fake, magazine,, should,, Be, ban

Thn how d people know about it and hw can d person able to change ....this viral makes d news to know for d girls also who can protect them hereafter

Madam I accept u r speech .. I love u r speech. But some speeches am not accepted...

True mam

You are wrong. Here problem is love before marriage.

We solute to nakkeeran tv

Ungal parvael allam pengalum nallavargal nayamanavargal angal allorum kettavargal super

Hats off mam

all parents should take immense responsibility in bringing up their children. but such physic boys will have some problem in their early childhood or unhappy homes.

ELLA PENKALUKKUM PALA AANKALODU PADUKKATHTHAN VIRUPPAM. BUT NALLAVAR POL KATHAIKKIRARKAL. ELLA PENKALAIUM NALLA OKKANUM.. PENKAL ELLAME VESAIKAL THAN

Anchor konjam prepared aaga questions ketkalam. Romba thayangi ketkara mathiri irukku

Super sariya sonnenga

What doctor said is right. Bu she is not talking abt the money they made by blackmailing them..

Really men can never understand how much They ll b affected mentally..

Video ok but idhulayum advertisement potu kasu pakuringale...😑 thu 💧

Unmai madam atha ketgurappa kolai verila irukken avanungala nadu roadla avanungala aruththu kollanum

how do we identitfy such characters

EDUCATE MEN

நீங்க உண்மைய டாக்டர் தானா உங்கள தான் மனநல மருத்துவர்ட அனுப்பனும் மிக சொற்ப எண்ணிக்கையிலான இம் மாதிரியான கேவலமான மனிதர்ளை கண்டிப்பதை விடுத்து ஒட்டு மொத்த ஆண் சமுகத்தையும் கூறிபிடுவது உங்க தனிப்பட்ட பாதிப்பை பொதுமைப்படுத்துவது போல் உள்ளது தொடர்து ஆண்களை கொச்சைப்படுத்துவதை நிறுத்தி முடிந்தால் சரியான தீர்வை தரமுயர்ச்சி செய்யுங்க

Ore solution mam girls ah god padaikkama irunthurkalam..... Aaan ulagam mattum irunthirunthal athan arumai purinthirukum

இதற்கு ஒரே தீர்வு உடல்உறவை பொதுவாக்கவேண்டும் உடனே உண் அம்மா தங்கச்சி வந்துறாதீங்க இப்படி இருந்தால் பெண்களுக்கு பயம் இல்லாமல் போகும் வெளிநாடுகள் உள்ளது போல் வந்தால் என்ன

Super madam

And to people criticising about advertisement...Yean da aprom channel nadatha kaasu nee thariya.. Ads la than avanga revenue iruku..

Even though ur well-known celebrity hats of 4 ur deressing sense. How u have been according to generation but decent. And one more thing is some say u r repeatedly talking that all mens bad but they never remember that ur speech is relatedly taken on during these types of sensual topic which has taken place. It seems to be non sensible

Correct

Nirbhaya, nirmala Devi, ayanavaram disabled girl, now this pollachi case ... something big will turn up next ! We need no more men in our world . We are just enough.

Aankal vakira buthi , ponunga ellam olunga pola. shawl la thaila suthikitu ..keduketta boy friends oda ithunga park, beach, theatre , highways bike la ena panranga ooruke therium..so..vakira buthi rendu perukum thaan...

Super mam

"ஊசி தையலுக்குத்தான் இடம் தருகிறது ..."

Boy mela naraiya thappu erukku..... Girl melaium thappu erukku

9.50 100 ku 200 %unmai....

Endha aanaium nambathinga girls...

This is absolutely absurd. She is directly saying its a man s mistake, she directly meant man s mental health is too weak and its thier fault. I accept this incident is wrong but this statement is not acceptable at all

கடுமையான தண்டணை கொடுத்து அந்த வீடியோவையும் வெளியிட்டால் இதை போல் செய்ய வேண்டாம் என்ற பயமும் வரும்

would like to know, how much percent of men getting attracted?, becoz, that should be considered as abnormal people.

S Dr said true male dominant society ,aangal thappa pesatinga,jallikattu mathiri periya protest pannunga pollachi, Chennai,full Tamil Nadu ,intha case cbcid poganum thukku thandanai kudukanum

Their film punishment kodunga

Ithu first time illa....ithuku munnala ethanayo case....apa women's tha care fulla irruthurukanum

இந்த அம்மா ஒரு பைத்தியம் ஒரு ஆண் பெண் இருவரும் தனியே செல்கிறார்கள் என்றால் அவர்களை என்ன சொல்வது. ஒரு பெண் ஒரு ஆணோடு தனியே செல்லவேண்டிய அவசியம் என்ன. வாழ்க்கை முறை தத்துவத்தை மறந்து பேசும் இவர் ஒரு மனோதத்துவ நிபுணரா? இந்த உலகத்தில் காதல் திருமணம் செய்தவர்கள் கூட தான் பெற்ற மகள் காதலித்தால் எதிர்ப்பு தெரிவித்து வருகின்றனர். காதல் என்ற உறவு ஒரு அங்கிகாரம் இல்லாத உறவு இந்த உறவு வைத்துக் கொண்டால் அதில் தவறான முறையில் ஈடுபட்டால் பாதிப்பு அதிகம் பெண்களுக்குதான் என்பதை உணர்ந்து கொள்ள வேண்டும். அதற்காக எல்லா ஆண்களையும் குறைசொல்வது சரியல்ல. இதற்கு ஒரு பெண்ணும் உடந்தையாகிறாள். இது போன்ற தவறுகள் நடக்க சினிமாவும் ஒரு முக்கிய காரணம்

Mam unga channel la video la release panitu nengale viral agathinga nu solringa....😲😲😲😲

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