If you walk away you have to have the mindset that you’re not doing it so she will come back bc if she doesn’t, you have to keep walking strong and not turn around.
After 30-35 years old, dating becomes a game. Women don't really want anyone who pursues them. We have to wait for them to pursue us. This is a new rule for dating. Maybe we're better off because women over value themselves. They've been told by the media and on social media that they are the boss and the hottest chick who's ever lived. If someone shows repeated interest or makes it a point to see you, she's the girl to ask out.
Most guys dont know how to use this tactic. When a women reaches out to you that means the trick worked: BUT you have to reply to her in a non reactive way. Most men do is that they continue to IGNORE so the regained attraction dies; or they respond in an angry way. Chris Canwell / Develop Attraction helped a lot in my life, you can apply this to ANYONE.
Respect is the only foundation and pillar you need from a woman. Without respect, there would be no trust, there would be no love and most importantly there would be no value in you.
My wife cheated on me multiple times then I send her away to the garage with a list of do’s and don’t. Next day she came back and told me that sending her away was exactly the thing she needed to reevaluate me and appreciate me again amazing
Just did this. omg I feel like myself again. Strength. If she doesn’t give me what I want, I’m fucking out! She tried friend zoning me, so I set her straight real fucking quick. We either hang out and have sex (FWB), we either date, or we are NOTHING.
I chased the fuck out of a woman and I was needy. Now I've walked away and I'm in no contact. I don't know if I'll hear from her again, but we'll see. I'm just gonna keep moving forward either way.
My son has told me that my ex wifes fiancee' talked to her about marriage after two months of dating her. He offered to buy her a car, sell his house to pay off her $360,000 mortgage and as soon as she mentions something she wants, he runs out and buys it. Takes her on trips. They got engaged after 8 months and three days later she asked about me selling her that car he wanted to buy her. All of this started 6 months after she told me twice in one night that she still loves me two years after our divorce.
Of course most coaches don't bother mentioning that this only works if she was already attracted to you. For most regular guys, she wants you to walk away because she's waiting for her Prince Charming and you're just in the way.
Went no contact for 2 months after she left me. She got into another relationship, and began reaching out for no real reason. Selfies, videos from our past…it made no sense to me. With time came clarity; she reaches out because a part of her misses me. Is it enough to make her come back to a pretty good thing we had? Maybe…but I’ll be damned if I’ll beg, plead or even initiate contact w her. She broke it, she can fix it. Walking away and letting time be my ally will work to get her back, or work to get me back…
@@MYGmusic97 She sent me some pics of a camping trip we took 2 years ago, a nice memory we share. Was sure this was yet another sign she really misses me. Later in the week I text her to ask if her 9 yr old son could join me and my 9 yr old son to the lake. We hadn’t seen him in awhile, and it was a hot day. They weren’t around that day, but she suggested her and her son could meet us there the following day. We met up as planned, and had a visit, I played in the water w the boys…a good afternoon. That was 10 days ago. My birthday was a couple days ago, and I was sure she would text me to wish me a happy one, but heard nothing. It really really hurt. I was in no contact over her birthday in April and didn’t wish her one, so she may have not wished me one for that reason. I was certain I was getting closer and closer to getting her back, but I’m more discouraged than ever after my birthday snub…if she couldn’t be bothered to reach out for that, then how much could she really care? Thinking about giving up after this. Any suggestions or thoughts on what may be going on would be greatly appreciated, cause I’m more confused than ever.
@@cwigg7728 not much to do. Stick to limited contact. Let her initiate. But in the meantime just work on being the best you can be. She notices then good. If not you’re still better than you were before.
I have to say walking away works so well that it caused my ex to be depress she came banging on my door 3 months later at 3am in morning.. very powerful now we’re back together
No pal, the only reason she came banging on your door 3 months later is because it didn't work out with the new guy, 3 months is a long time to be waiting and doubt she would have been living like a virgin 🙄
is this still the case and does the hard NC rule apply if you destroyed your ex’s trust in a situation such as emotional cheating? (loving the regular uploads thanks for the great content btw)
@@Christofion I had this happened and went nc reached out to her after like 2 weeks and she forgave me. We dated again for a year but broke up which was my fault and had a lot to do with me not staying motivated and on my purpose
@@gtcam723 I apologised very honestly but she was still very angry. She later blocked me on everything apart from messaging apps. I don’t blame her at all but I will give her the space. In the meantime I will work hard on myself :)
Relationships, love and people are complicated things, it’s actually not that she’s done with YOU, it’s that she’s done with your shit, your neglect, your anxiety, your lack of ambition, your lack of giving a shit about her feelings or needs, etc, etc, this stuff can be fixed… So if she walks away it’s because - you didn’t listen to her when she expressed her concerns and needs, which leads to a drop of attraction. Even if she still loves you, she’ll walk. So it’s not simple, she might be special and worth pursuing and she’s walking because you fucked up - my ex walked because I was neglectful in the relationship, I’ve dated heaps of girls and they’re all average and dull compared to her, I ain’t done, I get the feeling she’s not too tbh.
So year and a half NC thinking abundance mindset working on FU money however been going into the loop but been working to keep mind occupied have not heard from her it was a LTR three years thinking she's not the unicorn I thought she was
They never are... stop putting Women (and other people) on pedestals. I need more than "hotness" from a potential GF/Mate - what else does she bring to the table besides Looks/Vanity? Is she loving & kind? Does she respect others who might be Working Class or who serve her in Public? Is she financially savvy/responsible? Is she a hard worker or just a lazy, whiny, entitled Princess who is glued to her phone all day? If she's not an asset and a positive force in my Life, I don't care how "Hot" she is- I ain't interested. And I walk away.
I feel needy when I send a text message 2 times, and I try to talk to her 2 times but she ignore me. Now, I ignore her presence everyday at work. It's been 5 months me and she is not talking at work. I do not react if she is near me to do her job, I act normal and like she never exist and never attempt to approach her but she always avoiding me.
What if you’re seeing them at work and you have to either say hi or not bc if you don’t say hi you look like you’re upset but if you say hi you look like you’re tryin to talk to her ? What if she owes you money too?
Have a neutral vibe and just say sup. Keep things casual. Don’t show or have the energy of awkwardness or a pleaser. Just say hey btw, where’s my money
I agree. Literally seen so many short kings with hot girls over the years. I’m coming to the conclusion that these black pill and some red pill dudes just sit behind a computer screen regurgitating the same BS.
Help me get my girl back please I’m so lost… we’ve been though to much and we have so much history together.. she’s seen me walk through hell and back and I love her so much please :(((
We’ve been together for 3 years and she broke up with me a week and a couple days ago.. and I’ve been doing the no contact rule and I feel so lost please help me ;((((
Don’t mean to downplay your situation mate but if you don’t have kids and properties etc etc 3 years is not a lot sorry if that sounds harsh but walk away level up as a person physically financially and with that comes confidence etc you will then enjoy turning her down, sorry again if I’m being harsh but I speak as a divorced dad been through it and come out the other side all the best mate
The fist time she disrespects you (name calls, says something rude to you in public in front of others, etc.) you let her know the behavior is unacceptable. She does it again, tell her “I’m leaving, when you’re ready to treat me with the same respect I give you, we can try this conversation again.” If it becomes a repeated problem you dump her respectfully “I’ve told you about this behavior and how it’s unacceptable, it’s becoming a problem, and for that reason I’m exiting this relationship”
Some women don't like games. We prefer communication and a genuine effort to improve the relationship. It's one thing if you both agree to a time out. Some women may resent a unilateral walk away.
@@coachkyle812 I thinking normally I’d better cope with the ads but todays just one of those days. I do appreciate your work to help guys with understanding their dilemmas. We are in a generation that is virtually neutering and demonizing masculinity.
Enough is enough. Look dudes. If yall could just be authentic the right one will show up. Rules? Ya'll make it a game from the get go. Yep women do it too. The only Rules should be be yourself. SMH
That's what the walk away option is for...if youre being yourself and yet still not appreciated...walk away. Sometimes it takes walking away from the wrong one to get to the right one.That goes for any games on either side
