The college system will be different in US vs Iran Pat created his American dream in this country , whereas he is crying about the college system & spending $200k
Here in California, we essentially pay taxes…just so the state government can work against all our interests! “Here…take my money, and please make my life harder!”🤦🏻♂️
@@reallll2778 VVomen everywhere in the World, in every age bracket, in every social and economic class; they ALL cheat. It's simple to observe and understand when you open your eyes and accept reality.
The irony about my education was that I studied “entrepreneurship” but literally all of my teacher told me “you have to get good grades or else nobody will hire you and you can’t have a good life!!” Lol .. when I heard that from the 3th teacher I stood up, leaving class and quitting school. Now I make more than 3 or 4 teachers combined with construction. Without a degree or whatever they told me that I need to have a successful business. Honestly quitting school was the best choice of my life. And i’ll thank my mother for supporting me !
Know several parents who protected their daughters by replacing their freshman year with a terrific year abroad in Italy with relatives. They traveled & took in all the culture & were able to take basic classes online. They missed the drunken ravages & pole dance parties, matured & became more experienced. Most colleges are liberal, but just don't send them to a liberal city or part of the country.
lol too bad they couldn't stop senior week, prom, homecoming, and highschool parties where this behavior started. But yeah, sure. Liberal cities are surely the only reason their daughters act out, experiment, do dumb shit, and try to have fun as cognitively-undeveloped human beings in the prime of their lives and peak of their freedom from authoritative and institutional control. It's human nature for them and not the fault of colleges. You would get a lot more underreported SA and grapes in conservative cities. Why? because hypocrites are always the worst, most prolific offenders and perpetrators of anything they're outspoken about!
Yup, we have only so many years to influence our children before they're out in the world. So we need to invest in our kids in every way, not just financially. And don't just hand them things. Make them work for it.
I wish someone had told me this years ago. I spent a large portion of my lifes savings to send my daughter to a "top college" in NY. She came back changed each year until she was a completely different person then she always had been. It was very noticeable that she had lost all respect for me for the crime of being a white male with slightly right leaning views. I had always had a strong and supportive relationship with her and never saw this coming. She barely speaks to me now and I basically paid to have her brainwashed. Literally the big mistake ive ever made.
Its sad, my best friends sister in law is dealing with regret and side effects when she went along with some of her trans friends and started taking the shit to start her transition so she could be like them. Almost immediate body hair growth, weight gain and complete hormone imbalance that had her being an emotional wreck all the time. If it wasnt for the fact she sees how happy her sister is having my best friends kids i think she would have fully committed transitioning.
Students go to schools and colleges to get education. Not to study politics. There needs to be a big change in terms of what they are being taught and what not.
what happened to the freedom to think what you want to think? the daughter wasn’t “brainwashed” she just changed her perspective. you might not like that, but it’s not brainwashing.
It seems you think bonds and relationships are a permanent thing but they ebb and flow you can manipulate people over 10 second of subtle media now what about instead of subtle it’s all the information that they give you is bad
@artemishumaan6984 you're saying someone deserves something over an assumption you just made? You literally have no idea if she was spoiled or not. You don't have to be well off to save for college, all it takes is a little bit of money put away every paycheck into an account like a 529. But I wouldn't expect a presumptious mouth breather like you to understand the time value of money and how saving $200k over 18 years is rather simple.
As the people who actually have common sense in life while our entire society joins the cast of the movie 'Idiocracy', I wish we could simply learn how to spell the word lose. As they rewrite history we can't continue to expect the bare minimum from EVERYONE. Yet this is now also normal and accepted. No need to talk or spell correctly as society becomes more and more stupid. It's simply all accepted, the decline is so steep that we think distinctions in words do not even really matter. While common sense went out the window, our response is that we "loose".
@bagelboy257 Breathe and don't looose your temper. Do you feel good about yourself for writing nonsense just because you think it should be written by your standards? Or do you need attention? Are you lonely? Rejected? Hurt? Other people hit like because the message I conveyed was more important than how the letters were put together. Don't looose your energy on other people's thoughts. Loose your heart when you see an elder struggling, children being abused by society. 🥱 I got bored by explaining to you simple things in life.
Today, I’ve watched Anthony Weiner, constantly changes subject to other direction, constantly interrupting, it does infuriates but watch you how to handle to learn is much need it this days and thank you for your show👍👍👏👏👏!
This exact scenario happened with my sister and my Dad. And my sister and my Step Dad. Even though both of those men literally paid for her college, car or housing / food in someway her entire life. They even helped her move away from them. 2 years after college and she’s much better than she was but still not who she was when she left
My cousin was a God fearing, good natured, quiet person... He went to a College in NY & now he's all about allowing 8 yr olds to transition, take hormones, & even begin the process of gender surgery for young teens... He got married... To a man of course. Oh & btw, he's a lead Dr. At a Major Hospital in NYC. This is what these "Professionals" think about your children. I no longer talk with him... He says that I'm a brainwashed conspiracy guy! Meanwhile it's perfectky Moral, ethical & ok to go after other people's kids, in his view. But I'm the sick one... These people need a stoppage!
Wow. No wonder this is not stopping. And there is some big pharma influence in there as well for sure. The world has gone crazy. I’m a very open minded thinker and didn’t think it would come to this.
tried to go to college in 2009 cause all my life I was told to do exactly that right after high school. didn't have a plan. didn't know what I wanted to do. failed just about every class and if I wanted to continue even attending I would need to accept being put on "academic probation", despite attending college on a grant. Yeah I didn't go back. Fast forward to now, I'm grateful that I didn't cause had I dedicated myself to going beyond the small grant that paid for just a semester, I would've been stressing about passing grades in classes that ultimately have NOTHING to do with whatever career I chose to pursue and educate myself, meaning I might as well have just been wiping shit all over the money and burning it cause it wouldn't do anything for me. College is a socially engineered scam. No other way to put it. Perhaps once upon a time it actually had great value. Not in today's world. I'd rather spend that much money on a getting a house. At least then I'd be in debt for something I'd eventually own and use.
It all goes back to the 1960's with the influence of The Frankfurt School. Research it, their motives and the individuals behind it. Things will start to make more sense once you have an understanding of it.
Here in india there is no such case because in our culture we respect our parents very much ,what the college teaches us dosent matter we still listen to our parents
True, but at the same time, when you are young you are more impressionable. If everyone around you thinks a certain way you are more likely to follow along. If you don't you will be mocked and isolated. It takes exceptional fortitude at that age to go against everybody around you.
We are doing the technical college route, paid by the state. We literally live 5 mins away. God is still working in our lives and we will be fully involved in their education.
Cut the umbilical cord. If you’re still hovering over your kids by the time they graduate high school, then you’ve either failed as a parent or are a helicopter parent. Probably both.
@@fvr12345incorrect, this was extremely common to still be close with your family past 18 years of age as a human being, until maybe the very recent Industrial Revolution.
That’s bad parenting to me. Until she’s gonna follow Lenin and make a revolution, she better understand that it’s smarter to be a capitalist in a capitalistic world. Her father didn’t have meaningful talks on that subject since she was around 10 and that’s a critical mistake
@@brianowens1002Baseless? His statement is 100%, 1). The dude clearly was not close to his daughter and 2). The dad probably held some pretty stupid beliefs
This happened to me, I am a Black American I come from 6 straight generations of Pastors, but I walked away from God I grew up in a Hispanic neighborhood was in Sureno Gang in and out of jails then went to Corcoran Prison in the 90’s called gladiator school! I married my wife in prison my dad visited me in prison and I came back to God! I was Blessed got a job at a dealership in 3 years I was running it and being a capitalist my daughter being half Mexican went to college in California and I noticed she began to say it wasn’t a sin to be gay! She began talking about how hurt her childhood was as she grew up in a white beautiful neighborhood! She sided with BLM and began to hate me, even though my daughter grew up as a messianic Jew! This year I just now got our daughter back and trust me you better know what these teachers, clubs are saying to our children because mu daughter was raised loving White people and actually began hating them until Yahshua removed that evil spirit from her!!!
Unless you raise your kids to see it coming. Anything they disagree with, they tell you first. Anyone tries to manipulate them, they tell you first. It doesn’t start in college. It starts in middle school, least it did 10 years ago. When they walk into college, they should know the battle is coming.
And it’s an investment. So instead of having a capped salary at some dead end job, you’ll actually have a career. Only in America would we celebrate ignorance!
This is terribly sad, but this is happening to way much more kids while they are still in the (liberal/"progressive"/woke/leftist/Democratic) indoctrination camps (aka public "schools"). And the worst thing in all of that is that parents can't go back in time to redo or fix things...
The damage is long lasting. Even when the kid finally wakes up and realizes he’s been indoctrinated, in essence the damage was done. Those years were lost. Academia has become poison.
@@paradigmshift7541 I’ve seen it where these kids get deeply into the sciences, such as astronomy or astrophysics. The 18 year old who was was so loving and personable starting off in College and then 4 years later; they no longer believe in God, never mind Jesus Christ or the Holy Spirit, we were seeded here by an Alien race… They are lost!!!
Going to college or university was overhyped to me when I was growing up. I would see technical schools and wonder what was different from 9 mths and a full time job vs. 4 yrs and a diploma with possible job....never understood it. That's why my husband and I told our sons we would not pay for their tuition to a college or university. If they wanted to go, they paid the bill. Gave them option to live with us after graduation, but they would pay rent. No free rides. Raising men in this house of mine gotta be extra tough.
who knows, maybe the dad was being a “greedy capitalist” and didn’t want to acknowledge it and instead chose to blame the college. There are also many cases in which it is the parent who disowns the son/daughter for thinking differently
This guy is insane, and he is making a ridiculous statement. Instead of blaming the daughter for her actions, he’s blaming the institution she goes to. It’s a fact that young adults are rebellious against their parents. Any intellectual worth their salt knows this. This clown is acting in bad faith.
How about try to understand where the daughter is coming from. If she genuinely has different values, accept that you raised someone who can think differently than what you taught her as long as she isn’t harming herself or others, she’ll have to live with the consequences of her own decisions. Leave the door open for her to come back. There will be value differences between generations, genders, and political affiliation, it’s a fact of life.
That's her fault though for one majoring in a bs major like sociology and or not using critical thinking. You can put me in courses or environments of heavy conservatism, liberalism, libertarianism, red pill, blue bill, conspiracy etc etc and I'd still try to argue with everything and not just adopt it all
@@dathip I had a genetics course where a female professor wasted two weeks on behavioral psychology and the flawed, yet handpicked articles making an example of gender fluidity between boys and girls, as well as men and women. Debunked her but she only started grading harsher after.
@@dathip It's very minimal in STEM other than social sciences. STEM for most part revolves around objectively hard core facts, there's too much to learn in organic chemistry, coding, engineering, physics and biology to really have the same effect it's having on social science or esp humanities where it's non stop.
On the Last podcast about evil doers Spacey,Epstien , establishment ect. We man where created on 6 day and we must enter his rest "Reborn" . Where grace abounds God forgive those that accept him as our savior
Like Daniel living in Babylon. They need the firm foundation and the Truth before attempt to fight the world. 18 years of preparation, a child can have many friends but they only have two parents.
Know the season your living in. One of the prophecies coming to pass, Disobedient to parents. 2Timothy 3 2Timothy 3 are the verses that warns you how people will be in the end times so you would know you are at the end of this age. We are witnessing prophecy coming to pass.
I'll say this: I raised my kids with hard work, responsibly, and the Lord as THEIR God. The VERY first time my child comes into my house and exhibits THIS kind of behavior, I would have stopped paying for college. I would have sent her to Hillsdale, or another like it. If she decides she doesn't want to go, and wants to go back to the woke, I would have taken away funding. I'm the Parent, she's NOT. In fact all my kids are grown, married, and with kids of their own. None are WOKE. I'm STILL their parent, and they are the parents of my grandkids. I'm NOT their friend. Soft Parents create soft kids who have NO solid roots...
Overall college value has gone down but still vet the schools you send your kids to. Why did his friend double down on poor results 4 years in a row on a bad investment? If you're going to send your kid to univ/college do your research.
This happened to me but we still debate. My technique is to drive the conversation to the middle. Then you work your way towards the truth. In all cases on both sides it is money that is manipulating everything and the people leading this have no morals. Capitalism works but can be easily tainted by greed and the power greed creates just like any dictatorship or communist government.
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I really do believe it depends. Having said that, statistically, the trend over the last 10+ years has been a decrease in male college enrollment and a more top-heavy female presence in universities. At mine it really was close to being 60-40 women to men. I've always low key believed there's something poor happening with women. I get 'me-too', but other weird agendas today (like ANYTHING Disney being imho inappropriate for boys/men, or remember Gillette's awful campaigns?) isn't just about dividing genders more. It's to me about consumption and taking advantage of a more vulnerable genders consumption pattern. Manipulating it. Yes, any woman can buy from Victoria's Secret. Let's add more +sized "models" to expand our sales reach so they too will buy our junk. Yes, it's just a silly hand-bag. But you can finance it too! Or Of course you can get a BMW on your salary of 30k. We will finance it for 96 months for you!
So colleges enterprise are all about manufacturing resentement for the system that made them and fund them. We need to go back to professional schools.
Weak minded daughter to begin with. If it wasnt the school that changed her beliefs it would have been the spouse, friends, social media, political party.. hard to tell. Father should have cut her off once he noticed her changing and retaliating with his beliefs.
