I agree, the fear of unknown, what might happen , fear of failure. I try to say “yes I will make mistakes.” :-) And move forward How do you overcome this fear?
I had that fear but when I got sick last year and just recently gotten better I realized that this was what I wanted. Gave away or donated my material belongings and set up my Subaru for stealth camping.
Most individuals consider living through characteristics such as working a full time job, owning a house and having children/pets to take care of. They never really take the opportunity to ponder life outside of these societal norms and when you tell others that you would prefer to work less, own less and perhaps travel more frequently you are considered living on the fringes. Many people I've talked with deep down desire life outside of work and are seeking fulfillment. One must fight hard against the group mentality thinking to live the life you want.
So many people in my life (friends, family, girlfriends) have tried to scare me into not doing the things I really wanted to do. I cut down on my interactions with these negative people and man did my options open up. What's crazy is these same people flip flop on their opinion of you a year later when you're successful. Doing those things they were discouraging you from doing makes them respect you even more ironically. I think a lot of people hold you back from what you want because THEY themselves are afraid to pursue those things.
I had to stop and watch this. My mom recently passed, and I am excited to be able to start really LIVING. I am handicap, but I was responsible for caring for my mother for the past 15 years. In that 15 years I was DX w/ cancer twice, 2 autoimmune diseases and type II diabetes. After the house sells and I organize my life, I am hitting the road. Tim, something I learned from one of my relationships, in every relationship in your life you learn at least one thing about life and one thing about yourself. This isn't limited to intimate relationships, but work relationships, family relationships, etc. If you can take just one new piece of knowledge away from each relationship you are growing as a person. I keep this in mind as I go through life. I am excited for my new life, yes I am sad my mother is gone, but with 3 other children to help take of her and didn't I was blessed with her wealth of knowledge that they missed out on. But, it is my time now, with my death sentence looming nothing is going to stand in my way!!!!
No death sentence looming, it's all curable! And now that you are free you'll get your health back. Being in situations like you were is what causes our bodies to not be able to fight off the cancer cells we are born with. The stress and poor diets feed their mutation. You are well on your way, I know it!! And I say this as a person who was told I wouldn't see 21 due to my poor health since birth!
a older guy at work ask me why i travel so much at this young age....he said people wait tell there bills paid off like car notes house an etc...im like brah who made that up ?god put me in the position my bank account nice an im going to live the life i choose not what society thinks right i dont care what others say about my life im having a blast
I was brought up with the great American consumer creed that most important goal was job, house, car, $ in the bank. Loving what you do, new experiences, love of the avant-garde was never mentioned. It was touted as being easier, happier life, but I didn't observe it making my parents happy. Instead i saw them with stale work routines, irritable, house/yard work, weekend chores. My mom with diamond earrings wearing an old housedress. I choose a bit different path. If i could do over, I'd have owned even less, traveled more, made nonconformity my mission.
I’ve made excuses my whole life. Working a job I don’t love or hate. But it takes up 5 days where I’m so tired I don’t live….then try to make it up on my weekends. For twenty years I’ve been doing this…… Tim, you’re not kidding! 100% correct
I genuinely feel for the people who are essentially trapped in the societal machine more than myself. We've all been indoctrinated into this system that trains us to be damn near completely dependent on its resources (how many people are self-reliant enough to get the food for their family outside of a grocery store, or raise their children without the watchful and scrutinizing eye of the government?) This is not a free society, regardless of how much we in America like to tout it as such. There are institutions to be adhered to (with the threat of imprisonment if you refuse) the moment you're born, essentially. A big part of the reason I chose not to have children is because of the compulsory education system in the States. Even in private or homeschooling environments, you as a parent are obligated to participate in that system within their guidelines and principles. And I just... refuse. I already got out of it as a child, I'm sure as hell not going to chain myself to it again by bringing another soul here. There's a lot to get tied up in within this existence. Be mindful of the actions you choose and the contracts you enter into, friends.
My wife passed away from brain cancer 6 months ago. I was her full-time caregiver at home till the end. Watching her suffer, especially in the last few months, completely destroyed me. Afterwards, I felt like a zombie, staying in bed and unable to even take care of myself. I became stuck, leaving the house every 4 or 5 days for essentials. I have never known such despair and guilt in my life. After recently discovering your channel, I began watching several videos each day, usually in bed. You have inspired me in such a deep and meaningful way. Today, I actually left the house and walked a couple of miles and did some light strength training. I truly feel you have been what I needed to start taking some baby steps. I am grateful beyond words.
i do not live all my life i took care of my kids being single life i cant wait until my son is 18 i can live now my life is rasing my son as single mom im tired im unhappy i do not have a lif for it seems all my life taking care of kids as single mom
I get what you mean Tim. You are saying people should be making an effort to live their life to the fullest with what they have, instead of looking at everything they don't have. Be grateful and enjoy the present moment. Get back up and keep going. In the words of Mr. Abel Tesfaye, "I'm not scared of The Fall. I've felt the ground before." Take care Tim💕
Live your life now. Love that message. I am currently in a new job, and I like certain aspects of it (a steady paycheck), but honestly I may be jumping ship sooner rather than later. I am seeing some opportunities that I have more interest in. And this time I won’t let fear hold me back.
I live in southeast Europe. There is nothing to do here and no where to go. Just shopping malls and bars and businesses that want all your money. Nothing for the soul of the people. Only greed.
I never did find out exactly the kind of life I wanted -- but I'm finding the things I like to do -- getting rid of TV and anything that is a useless time sink. I find my satisfaction in Christ and living a very simple, minimal life. I'm becoming more patient with myself, and less patient with drama. This video has a very profound POV Tim.
Thanks for this video, Tim. You truly appreciate the journey of experiencing freedom and trying to convey that message to your viewers. As much as we think money is not that important, to some degree you do need a minimum amount of money to enjoy your freedom. A (wo)man has got to at least eat and sleep to feel fulfilled at the primary level. If non-materialistic people would have this primary level of income, I'm 100% sure you can experience full freedom by making smart choices. Excess money doesn’t add so much to your happiness, but the primary needs do determine 95% of your happiness. As you mentioned, it is not mutually exclusive, earning money and living your life. The system however does not want you to reach that level of happiness as governments despise independent people. It is a government's biggest fear. That's why the majority will always be trapped in this hamster wheel.
Exactly!! & Like Tim’s said before, put a date on your goals, (“I need to do this goal by 2024”) so you can start thinking ahead into the future to make certain decisions to get you where you want to go. And even preparing yourself to save up money for whatever you’re going to pursue! Great message Tim! Missing those livestreams 😭
Thanks a lot Tim for all the helpful advice you've given me. I actually stumbled upon your channel after having this thought in my head a month ago of quitting my full time job. I just resigned from my job a few days ago, and now I'm free! I coudn't be happier honestly!!!
Great stuff Tim! I loved your example too how you stepped into the unknown with that job in ND. It didn’t work out how you wanted but you tried something new and it sparked a new interest/path for you in traveling & the things that come with it. Most people are too scared too step out of their comfort zone. Look at you now! Peace brother.
Just found your channel yesterday and love it! I’m trying to work toward the life you’re talking about, but my biggest hang up is having health insurance for my family!
I feel like outside of work I don’t really have a life. But, if I did have free time I don’t know what I’d do with it. Traveling gets boring. Most activities out there get boring
Then when you get bored, you can move on to something else, or go back to work. Then when that gets boring, you can come back out to travel again! The best part of having multiple interests is that you remember the fun you had and want to experience it again, and you can! It's okay if they cycle for months or years at a time.
I'm doing my first solo trip tomorrow morning. My sister said something negative. I didn't work my butt off to stop now... I'm going to have fun. I've been a home body since leaving high school. People made jokes because I don't go out . My city is BORING. I don't drink, nor smoke, don't care for the night life style. I'm going on this trip. I didn't book a concert, plane ticket, and hostel for nothing.
He's got a like of great insight. I recently read a self help satire called "You Suck" by Paulie Amigo and it also had good tips for getting out of the deadness of society. We need to live while we're alive.
Hello Tim, I can’t believe you are talking about Liveing the life you want to live.... I have a short story about that such subject. I own a clothing company with a family friend and we traveled all he US do International and US National competition from 91-95.We built up the brand and where able to get some corporate Sponsorships and a travel budget which allowed us to give sponsorship deals to up and coming kids in our local rideing trails a chance to travel the US rideing there Bmx Bikes. On this trip to a event in AZ, USA I had a moment by myself and realized I builted it up from the garage. And yes it gave such joy to see all the kids we were traveling US be so happy. When I clicked on to the post I had no ideas that I would start cry 😢 because I really Lived what you are talking about and now in 2023 I’m on a New Journey with a very Special Backpack 🎒 that I design, it took about a months worth of RD but! I actually got Photos samples today of the Backpack 🎒.... Tim thank you for all you 🥰
Thoroughly enjoyed listening to your thoughts on this topic, I've been watching a few of your videos recently, it's very relatable stuff. Something I also appreciate with your videos is how precise you are in what you're saying, it's like carefully crafted thoughts with almost zero filler, but at the same time being humble and not preachy in the slightest. Thank you for sharing 🙏
6:38 There is not such thing like failure in life is outcomes Exactly, how is possible to fail or lose if we didn’t either bring anything or take with us after we are gone , right here in this beautiful Journey in between right now ,everything is profit and a gift Thank you Tim there is power in your words precisely because you are living everything you discuss and that’s more than example we love you Blessings
HI TIMOTHY I LOVE THIS TOPIC MY BROTHER IT TOOK ME A WHILE BUT I AM FINALLY DOING WHAT I WANT TO DO AND I AM PROUD TIM LIFE IS TOO SHORT NOT TO ENJOY LIFE THANKS AGAIN TIMOTHY YOUR SOBRIETY BUDDY HAVE A GREEN TEA ON ME TODAY 🙏❤️👍👍
I am 55 now and work at a company where there are a lot of people in their late 60s and early 70s still working full time because their living expenses are too high (medical, property taxes, living expenses, etc.). I AM working past 65 no matter what the system says, if not sooner even if I have to move to another country to do it.
Tim - You’re my well-spoken, wise RU-vid big brother! You’re right; focusing on the journey is the mission, not blindly acquiring any and all destinations, just to impress others. Much luck and positive vibes to you in YOUR journey!
I'll be honest, i listen to several of his video and I dont agree with 80% of what he says... but I continue to listen becaue every once in awhile he drops some jewels. This video is one of those😅. Just my opinion. Good video!
@J.B and this is just for me, and I understand he's targeting a specific group of folks. But it's more idealistic than realistic. I can go into detail about why I feel that way, but that's the short of it.
No fun allowed due to circumstances. Except 8 days in July when I head to SW CO mountains where there's no cell phone coverage. I'll be completely OFF MY LEASH whoo hoo!
Tim. I feel like you are talking to me directly. I just got married two months ago. My wife is in the military and we're moving to Germany since she has orders there. I'm leaving my job, a trade that gives me no fulfillment. I'm excited and a little scared, I admit. But I believe I will be ok.
Can you make a video about how you're living these days? Are you living in your car part time, doing any seasonal work anymore, or renting AirBnbs? Just curious, and a bit nosy. Maybe now you're a full time RU-vidr. You have earned it.
I apply objective reasoning as much as possible by appreciating the wonders of nature, the sun, sea, birds,plants,flowers, fruits,trees, the bees etc, all that is wonderous. Its all AMAZING. Be thankful for been here. For EXISTING.
I love your talks. I do however find it ironic when Hobby Lobby interrupts a profound observation on minimalism, mid thought, with an enthusiastic counter-pitch for consumerism being the key to happiness. : )
the disease of being "Average" or "Normal", just like everybody else, and it seems the right thing to do in a sense, or the proper, sanctioned thing to do, because you look around and everybody does it. Read something like that in Maslow's "Toward a Psychology of Being"
The cost of living is too high to live you only can do what you can afford which is basically nothing since all of everybody's money goes to bills so it sounds good but reality is cruel in this society money is the means of living limited to no money limited life simple
I agree but society thinks we can't live till I saved 2 million 😅. Tim I am working on my mental health so I can live and do what I love to do. Fears of not having enough $$$ as I might be a burden if I go broke or get sick. Just take me out back and shoot me because I am not going to the hospital 😂 Leaving bedside nursing which is making me sick mentally, physically and emotionally. It is a like an abusive relationship I just keep staying. No am done and have a therapist to help me. I just got stuck. This is my last travel nurse job. I haven't been able to be present and able to enjoy my journey.
