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We almost called 911! | Story Time
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Today we posted a video talking about a time when we failed. Cole ended up on the ground of our hotel room during our anniversary trip. For so long, we didn’t want to talk about what happened because we were so upset about it. After thinking about it, we realized how important it is to share with everyone. No one wants to fail but the truth is, everyone does, and THAT’S OKAY! Don’t be afraid to talk about the bad or hard days because doing so may help others just as much!
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Hey everyone! We’re Cole & Charisma. Since the start of our relationship we've gotten a lot of questions about how we make things work as not only an interracial couple, but an interabled one as well. There are certainly differences, and despite them we have a great time, all the time! On this channel, you’ll find travel vlogs, Q&As, couple challenges, how-to/educational videos and more. We started this channel to bring people into our lives so we can answer some questions about how we navigate the world. We’ll show you behind-the-scenes stuff people typically don't see, and hopefully raise awareness surrounding accessibility and dating in a wheelchair. You'll quickly see in our episodes that we're all about positivity, inclusion, and keeping a great attitude no matter your circumstances, so if that's what you're into, you're in the right place!

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@joanharrison8439 4 года назад

Charisma my twin sister has MS, she has fallen three times this year, the last time she fell out of the bath tub. We are 77yrs young. God has given me the strength each time to get her in a chair or in the bed, I roll her on to a blanket, pillow under her head and drag her to the bed. In his name all things are possible. Last year I did call non emergency. Charisma the love you have for Cole 😍 you will be a loving wife, mother, caregiver, friend you are all he needs. Wish I had another 77years to feel the love you have for one another. Stay postive🙏🏽🌹😍

@Faythe98 4 года назад

Joan Harrison you are so strong! I will keep you and your sister in my thoughts.

@sunnydae6602 4 года назад

Joan Harrison Sending love💖

@joanharrison8439 4 года назад

🌹 FAYTHE 🌹 🙏🏽

@Christy-og6kz 4 года назад

Joan Harrison you are a true blessing to stay by your sister’s side!

@olafl7 4 года назад

Aww so sweet! I too have a twin sister!

@btayswiki 4 года назад

Interable couple here! Chris is a c4-c6. 10 years post injury. 4 years married. He LOVES the outdoors. I do too, but I get so scared because he gets stuck or something happens to his 300 pound electric chair and i have to be the one to solve the problem 😖 We went for a walk in the woods (his idea) and I didn’t bring my phone. Rolling along and BAM! gopher hole. He tips right out and falls on the ground. No one around. No way to call anyone. I go full blown this-is-why-I-don’t-like-going in-the-woods Mode. He just smiles and says: “come lay with me and look at the clouds” Ugh. How could I say no? I laid on the ground next to him and looked at the clouds. It was beautiful and peaceful. I did my best to cherish this moment in the midst of chaos, because when would we be able to look at the clouds like this again? It was beautiful ❤️ Until I realized we were laying on slugs. 😱 I jumped up and we started to finagle his power chair so I could get his butt on the peddles and lift him up with the controls so I could pull him by his pants onto the cushion. I felt like a superhuman. A superhuman who wanted to go home and never go for a hike again 😂 I have several more stories of him falling out of his chair. It’s good to know I’m not the only one who cries and wonders about the future. It’s a big task and responsibility. You don’t understand it until you’re in it. But someone told me “don’t let fear keep you from what you want in life” We are stronger for what we face, even if we ‘fail’

@MadamLolz 4 года назад

Britmo28 thanks for sharing!

@lisa30123 4 года назад

Britmo28 what an amazing woman you are! You and Charisma are diamonds in.the haystack. (My new saying.) Please keep on shining. The world needs.more diamonds like you. 💎

@rachelgooglyeyes3772 4 года назад

I really expected this video to go the way of "so we gave up and went to bed and worried about it in the morning" 🤣 and I wouldn't have even seen it as a failure because what's it matter if he gets up right now or eight hours from now, so long as he gets up when he needs to ?

@mariannescalise6658 4 года назад

You are a super woman!💕 that doesn't mean super woman or you don't have a bad experience or time there will.be times like that but it's the way you handle it and the way you and Cole handle things and believe me it's the way you two do things that gives you the strength to get through life and thanks if you didn't give us the bad experiences people would say really what are you hiding you know how people are but that's why I love you two you are both so real to share everything, your hardships, struggles love it's never easy but you guys do a great job making it look easy ! 💕 stay strong you two praying for you, and God Bless !

@chrism9294 4 года назад

Britmo28 ~ I’m sorry you two went through that. Glad you guys got to bond and enjoy nature and get him back up, but when you mentioned the slugs, I felt that (I cringed and laughed, sorry) And when you said a superhuman person who never wanted to hike again, that would have totally been my mood.

@Katelovessoup 4 года назад

`the way Cole looks at Charisma when she's talking; pure love💖

@coleandcharisma 4 года назад

❤️

@sdhardy75 4 года назад

I was looking at that too. Awesomeness 🥰🥰🥰

@lourdesdelapena1852 4 года назад

😘❤️🙏🏻

@aquilaclark814 4 года назад

They have so much love for each..and confidence in each other..💕💕this couple

@poeticmeditationsbyyaffa 4 года назад

It really is! Omg to have a man like cole...the way he just is so calm and reassuring....🥰🥰

@giselavargas44 4 года назад

I’m a quadriplegic married for 16 years. Cooking forgot to put the brakes on my wheelchair and washing dishes by myself in the house. My husband was at work and my chair just sliding under me I had to decide to let myself go to the floor. Especially because the chair went far away from me. Water faucet was running, the stove was on. Phone was not close to me just my Bluetooth. To make a long story short I was able to reach to turn off the stove I had to let the water run and wait for my husband to come home for like two hours on the floor. I am till this day proud that I did not panic. So, Yes, I can relate.

@milobar100 4 года назад

My goodness, that sounds super scary.

@Aquarius-ji9ip 4 года назад

Gisela Vargas God bless you!

@moselc09 4 года назад

wow

@jesslabrunette 3 года назад

I know i can’t relate but i always have my phone one me because i always have a fear that something is gonna happen to me, like fall or break my ankle or something because i am a clumsy girl lol. Last time i didn’t carry my phone with me i had sprained my ankle and nobody was with me and couldn’t get up because i just recovered from a 2 degree ankle sprain so it hurt bad.

@beautifulirawo1900 3 года назад

Wow

@tmoney0831 4 года назад

The way Cole looks at Charisma is so beautiful

@kalik5665 3 года назад

Omg I know right I always notice that. It’s so sweet. Ahhh I just love these two ❤️

@archiearchie4352 3 года назад

Because he really love her. They both love each other

@laneshalewis7124 3 года назад

Yes he absolutely loves her. You can see it in his eyes!!!! So beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

@jenniferolvera9693 4 года назад

Even as an ER nurse that is depended on for emergency transfers.... failed transfers happen. Your problem solving is awesome, BUT don't ever think it's a failure to need help. 911 is there for just these seemingly simple assistances also. Love your story

@verabolton 3 года назад

I agree. She did a very good job but I wish she could relax a bit more. Ending up on the floor is not a disaster and asking help is not a failure. The bleeding would freak out anyone though, I can understand that. Do they have no hoyer lift?

@bluebaconjake405 3 года назад

@@verabolton They were in a hotel room so i dont think they have their hoyer lol

@verabolton 3 года назад

@@bluebaconjake405 There are folding hoists, you can take them with you wherever you go. What is funny in this?

@bluebaconjake405 3 года назад

@@verabolton Oh i never knew about hoyers that you could travel with. They probably didnt bring it cause its really difficult and inconvenient. Also, the 'lol' is not really implying that its funny or anything. A lot of people use it not literally as "laughing out loud" but to imply that the comment was 'light hearted' or not that serious.

@nisielaing1991 4 месяца назад

I, too, am an ER and ICU nurse. The fire department will also provide lift assistance in most cities. I was a caretaker for my mother and could not get her downstairs by myself. They came out every time I called.

@lindatoliver9138 4 года назад

My husband and I call those " team test", that life throws at couples!!! And believe me, after 36 years of marriage, we've had quite a few!!! You two are a real team!!!

@CRAFT7445 4 года назад

"Through Sickness and Health" Thank you for sharing your stories to show what true love looks like and you are taking your wedding vows seriously.

@ninaappelt9001 7 месяцев назад

And he already had his accident. I love that she looked beyond his wheelchair.

@leannepaxton5012 4 года назад

I can picture the whole incident!! I’m a registered nurse and a large part of my job is assisting people, with varying mobility levels. The whole way through your story, all I could think about was, “ I wonder if they have ever tried using a sliding sheet?!” If you haven’t got one, or ever used one, I can tell you that it would actually come in really handy in situations like this, and also everyday life. They are great for transfers, on top of your sliding board. They are incredibly cheap, you can get one for $5-10. They weigh practically nothing and they take up no space, so you can bring it with you wherever you go. They take all of the hard work out of transferring yourself or someone else. Even if you had it in this situation and Cole still fell, dragging him to the bedroom, on top of the sliding sheet would have taken a lot of the hard muscle work out of it. I think the sliding sheets are made of nylon, either fold the sheet in half or use 2 sheets, depending on how far you need to move, and you will glide along so smoothly, with so little effort, you will be shocked. Normally, you are supposed to have 2 people to help, but Cole has upper body strength, so you should be able to do it just yourselves with no problems. I have used it alone with patients who haven’t been able to help much, many times. I hope you guys see this comment. It is such a cheap piece of “equipment “ and it would make such a huge difference in your lives. 😁💕

@sharonhicks-jones5471 4 года назад

LPN retired an yesmaam.. .the story tickled me ...We going down🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♂️🤣🤣🤣#BLESSIT

@sanobermalhotra6307 4 года назад

What a super tip. 🙏

@KssMeAndRollOva 4 года назад

Omg, as an OT, I was shouting this immediately when she said they were going down lol! At first, I was like "I know you took the sheets off the bed to tuck under him.... ahh, shit she didn't use a sheet." But a sliding sheet I would definitely make an essential item, especially if they have plans to be alone. I've seen a few things occur accidentally with my stroke and neurological patients, especially when they need to be lowered to the ground for a 1-person get up. It ain't pretty, but she made it work & I'm so happy she was able to get it done! Thanks for sharing this comment. I hope they can see this as well!

@toscamilanga4640 3 года назад

That's what I thought too. Sliding sheet is the best thing since the hoist. 👍🏾👍🏾.

@leezafeyisetan2774 3 года назад

As a nurse as well, I was shouting out sliding sheets.

@annahavard3900 4 года назад

My husband and I are both in wheelchairs and listening to todays vlog reminded me of a few times that we had to help one another with stuff ... one that i can remember off my head is when my husband slipped off the shower chair at home. I had to get on the floor to help him lift himself up and more. Took alot out of both but you do what you have to for the one you love and care for. Glad you have each other. Happy New year's from my family to yours .❤🌺

@luguy8347 4 года назад

Anna Havard Wowwwwwwww, that’s amazing, I can visually see this happening in my minds eye. That took such spirit and fortitude.

@candisbar524 4 года назад

Thank you, Charisma, for being honest and vulnerable. It actually makes me feel better about your future with Cole knowing you are not "oblivious" to what the future may hold, and you think about this, and you cry, and ya'll have good and bad days. You are a strong and beautiful woman, and I truly wish you and Cole a wonderful future!!

@moanaandmaui405 4 года назад

I literally. Literally have not watched anything else on Yt for the past 3 days except this channel 😂😂😂I love ya'll. Sometimes even when I'm not watching I still hear Charisma's voice in my head 😂😂😂

@dianajennings2486 2 года назад

I bought there was something wrong with me. I’ve binged….

@CAD9686 4 года назад

Videos like these show the strength of your relationship and also the real world examples of how you two cope in these situations!

@coleandcharisma 4 года назад

Thank you Connor!

@CAD9686 4 года назад

@@coleandcharisma Love your videos! Wishing you a great 2020!

@K.Leeeee 3 года назад

I appreciate this video... I appreciate their transparency. More so, I appreciate the both of them ALLOWING GOD to use them. In life the truth is we all want love..a genuine unconditional love that regardless of what happens.. I still love and appreciate you for being you. I think that this love is beautiful. ..and I know that GOD is great and abundant and HIS love and mercy is unconditional. And you two are proof that there is still sunshine after any storm. Thank you both for allowing me to be a fly on the wall... I think that your transparency has opened my mind to a love that I could never imagine. This is a GODLY love. I know that HE loves like this...but who am I has always been my question to myself. We are all still works in progressive... always striving to be better on so many levels. Many blessings to y'all.. and your future. May GOD continue to keep the both of you covered with HIS protection, mercy, and love. 😘 I stumbled across your page accidentally...but I think on purpose. Thanking the Universe for sending yall to me. I'm binge watching all of y'alls videos. Thank you for inviting me into your world. Sending healing.

@taramattiemanieram6222 2 года назад

This is life 🤣🧬 beautiful ❤️😍 lol such inspiration for everyone since today I been through look in it's amazing these two it's seems two people r very much light of life 😂

@allyrooh3628 3 года назад

As long as only one person freaks at a time you're golden LOL! I'm glad that the story ended as well as it could. Stay strong!

@terribanks8633 4 года назад

You 2 are PERFECT for each other. The definition of strength!

@tamarbar465 2 года назад

I agree!!!!!

@sihlezondie4299 4 года назад

I'm a CAREGIVER this once happened to me while I was trying to transfer my patient and we both fell he started to laugh at the same I was crying 😭😭😭 he was like don't worry about it I got you hunnie booh we can do this I started to laugh too and we made it I picked him up I don't know where I got all the energy but God helped us when we finish we both laughed I felt so bad that I failed him at the same time he responded on the positive way , sadly he passed away but he gave me a courage to do it no matter how hard is it but its possible also I'm not a failure I'm a HERO

@smartypants7885 4 года назад

No. Words. I’m so glad God showed up & showed out for you. My horror story (short version) involves my daughter, bleeding profusely in the waiting room of the emergency room. The staff were unconcerned and unresponsive. I called hospitals until I found one with an “empty” emergency room. I drove 20 minutes to the next hospital. By that time, blood was dripping down the front seat of the car to the floor. My daughter required 2 emergency surgeries. I did not pay the hospital bill (a whole lotta people heard from me!); I didn’t get to cry until days later. Like Cole said, sometimes you have to be strong to provide strength. My daughter would have panicked if I had panicked. God is faithful. I’m glad you’re in a better place because of your struggle. You learn something new every day. 💞💞

@hmslovesmonkeys1403 4 года назад

that's why i think hotels should have disabled access to the showers r baths

@hmslovesmonkeys1403 4 года назад

@83706Rachel i have seizures and use a walker r wheelchair cause my right leg shakes and i lose blounce a lot and i also have a picc line and feeding tube for meds and nutrition so i no how that is and i'm glad they r ok to

@lawandarussell4821 4 года назад

I agree with you.

@marikiemarie7622 4 года назад

They do.

@YesIlikebananasSo 4 года назад

marikie marie Not every hotel.

@JK-wp4nl 4 года назад

They said at the beginning she wanted to take a bath. I believe they requested a room with a tub.

@est1989x 3 года назад

I don’t understand what happened and how in the world did he start bleeding😭 I’m glad he’s okay and Charisma you’re amazing💕

@marthawoody8190 4 года назад

keep strong, keep positive. You guys are amazing together xxxx

@joicewinslow8889 4 года назад

I'm so glad that you both did this together. Charisma, I know the feeling of being doubtful of yourself. My husband and I had an incident a while back. He had a stroke (5)yrs ago, which left him paralyzed on his left side. When this happened we where in the relationship for (6) months. I really like him so I knew I wasn't going to leave him. I didn't know nothing about taking care of a person in his condition, so yes I had doubts. Anyway, this day he had fell in the guest bathroom ( which is very small compared to our master bedroom (which is handicap accessible through the VA). Now I tried every way to get him off the floor. Charisma, I actually had to call (911). I was so so upset that I couldn't help him. My husband, told me that I did what I could do & stop being so hard in myself. But, @ that moment Charisma, I know how you felt TRUST ME!!!! Love you both ❤

@tracibillington8025 4 года назад

You rock Charisma. I love that you were trying to have romantic time. To switch to Superwoman and get him lifted was amazing. Cole - you rock for supporting her the right way while she took care of you. Sorry it happened but glad you grew from it

@tracytempleton8618 4 года назад

Cracked up at Cole's "While I'm nakey" you two both crack me up!

@beatriceschnitzler2645 4 года назад

Since I’m in a wheelchair, I understand what you went through. My husband and I also have problems sometimes accessible rooms when we travel. Our bathroom at home is wheelchair accessible for me. I would like for us to speak to each other. We can share our experiences. Charisma you did well. My husband and I have been together for 22 and married for over 20 years.

@AlyFowler 4 года назад

Ugh. I just love you two and your relationship!

@coleandcharisma 4 года назад

Thank you Alyson! 🤗

@juliecollier3526 4 года назад

I have to say this because so often, we hold it all in. We are strong, but let me tell you, as a wife of someone with a disability, sometimes you just want to cry and scream. In the end , it's healthy for both of you to be real. Life sucks sometimes, but with each other, leaning on one another, you will be better for it.

@jcanino20 4 года назад

I don't mean for this to sound corny, but I think one of the most positive things you guys can do is indeed to talk about the off days. There are obviously things you should not be made to put on camera, but I actually found the reality presented in this video really uplifting. I only discovered you earlier this afternoon, but I have kind of been binge-watching because I am in a place where I need some inspiration! Anyway, I really appreciate this video a lot. Thank you for sharing it with us.

@coleandcharisma 4 года назад

Thank you for your nice comment and support! We hope that whatever you’re going through gets better! Sending love your way!

@heatherschaper8191 4 года назад

What I took away from this vlog...lots of love between both of you, emotional growth, patience and understanding...these are some of the strong foundations of any relationship!!

@LeeLee007 4 года назад

Aww. I’m glad you two got through such a hard situation. It sounds like it was an emotionally draining experience. I’m sorry this happened to you guys.

@coleandcharisma 4 года назад

Thank you for your concern, Leah. It certainly was draining but we feel unstoppable having gone through it together!

@fanolawilkinson7963 4 года назад

Congratulations! You pass that test.Love you dearly.

@ashleycraddock6305 4 года назад

Yep

@ashleycraddock6305 4 года назад

@@coleandcharisma you are so cool

@patsavage2714 4 года назад

You're such a special couple God bless your in 2020

@estherjames9428 3 года назад

Cole found a earth angel, I am very glad for him, God can move mountains, one morning Cole will get up and walk again in Jesus name amen love u both,🙏🥰💯❤💃

@ambermarko6180 4 года назад

I love how authentic you both are! We need that more in the world 😊

@GeorgeJansen 4 года назад

"You can't have bad hair days. Your hair is perfect all the time. "....1:39...🥰🥰🥰 Great future husband. Happy future wife.

@theedenadventures 4 года назад

You two are so adorable together , That sounds terrifying 😳

@coleandcharisma 4 года назад

Sounds just right to us 😂😂 thank you!

@shellytate8602 4 года назад

@@coleandcharisma I think @Eden Adventures meant the experience you had sounds terrifying not your love for each other. All the best to you two.

@solasunny8965 4 года назад

@@shellytate8602 ....No, i think Eden Adventures ment it's almost to good to be true. True love can be scary when you experience that. But, lets ask her what she ment...😊

@Tayjahbaby8371 4 года назад

I love you guys man. I truly believe God put ppl together for a reason. WHY AM I CRYING???

@doreenmorrison2941 3 года назад

O yes and thank God he gave her the strength. What a beautiful couple.

@joygross 4 года назад

You guys are so awesome together. Please don’t ever worry about calling the fire department for help with a lift. My son is a firefighter 👩‍🚒 and they NEVER mind doing it. even though Charisma is young , strong , and healthy there is no shame in getting help. Keep being you and your awesome ❤️❤️❤️

@cheryljones3507 4 года назад

With today’s technology the hotel’s should be ashamed not having Assessability for cole’s needs

@OutdoorAdventuresFun 4 года назад

As much I 20000% agree with you but BASED on Cole's situation it got me thinking. SOMETIMES if someone DOESN'T experience certain things, usually the NEGATIVE aspect of THINGS, the design and accommodation for the disability will NOT happen. Unless the disabled is the one who personally CREATE the technology of it. There is a LIMIT to what the NON-disable can think ahead of if he/she doesn't experience it either personally or has seen it (first hand/by 2nd hand). Them sharing this, MIGHT turned the lightbulb for some designers. MAJORITY of time accidents NEED to happen in order for solution/technologies to happen. Just saying!

@connie7192 4 года назад

The hotel doesn’t have to be ashamed my lov. They can take this as a learning point instead and improve. There’s nothing to be ashamed about. The world is changing and we are definately making steps. Small ones but definately in the right direction. As more people speak up and create awareness about this issues and the importance of inclusion for everyone then people learn. Nothing shameful about it.

@queenbee2447 4 года назад

So I guess suggesting a portable Hoyer lift would be a good recommendation for hotels.

@junbh2 4 года назад

I imagine it's partly a matter of knowledge and partly a matter of money. Renovations cost money, though I think in the long term it might be worth it for them. And they might not be knowledgeable enough to know what's needed or to know what cheaper options would be really helpful?

@divawithaattitude4121 4 года назад

It’s 2019 People that’s a dam shame

@karithompson5621 4 года назад

I cried through the video. Your relationship is so vulnerable. My husband and I of 19 years are not that vulnerable with each other. You are a TEAM! You are good for each other. Cole loves you Charisma. He is proud of you.

@lakep7798 3 года назад

That was really hard, guys. Thank you so much for sharing. I am not in an inter-abled relationship, but I thought of you guys today as I was going through my own struggles. I kept saying to myself-actually aloud-“Stay positive. Stay positive. Stay positive.” It was hard, but it did help, even if only to help me downgrade the mountain back into a molehill and keep things in perspective. Then tonight I watched this video...and it actually helped, you sharing the fact that you guys struggle too, have hard days too, but you MAKE IT THROUGH. LITERAL AND FIGURATIVE illustration of “we fall down, but we get up.” Sometimes we get bruised, cut, and come away sore, but we “get back up again,” heal, and move forward. You have no idea how much I needed this right now. Thank you so very much. 🤗❤️

@porscheglass8329 3 года назад

My mom started me on watching your channel she says me and Charisma act alike. So I had to check it out and I have to say I love your channel. The stories about your life are up lifting. We do act a lot alike, still I would like to say if I could be as strong and kind and brave as you are in such situations I would be and feel very blessed. Shout out to Cole and Charisma. Keep it up Inspirational power couple.

@cynthijohns 4 года назад

So glad you prayed to God for help. He will always come through for you both if you continue to ask. God bless you both.

@manxkin 4 года назад

Charisma is Wonder Woman. Glad to see you both upright! Not to lecture but in the future don't hesitate to call 911 or the non emergency number for assistance. Not to get too personal but is the skin tear healing well? You guys can do anything together. You are both so lucky to have each other.

@fanolawilkinson8309 4 года назад

I couldn't watch this without teary eyes. Cole and Charisma God was with you and He gave Charisma the strength that she needed .He is Awesome !

@Aj-rj1wy 4 года назад

You two were literally made for each other! I’ve been binge watching y’all for a little while. This is what true love looks like.

@renedemery2853 4 года назад

Even though the situation was scary there is so much beautiful empowerment in how you both pushed through it. You guys will have a beautiful future there's nothing y'all wont be able to accomplish because you continue to build each other up. God Bless You Both

@evelynprice3976 4 года назад

Amen

@coleandcharisma 4 года назад

Thank you! We definitely feel stronger together! 💪💪

@lourdesdelapena1852 4 года назад

😘❤️🙏🏻

@lindahines4470 4 года назад

Yes, Amen

@taneishakim3673 4 года назад

CHARISMA WE CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS US... CALL UPON HIM AT ALL TIMES... ITS JUS SO EMOTIONAL LISTENING TO HOW STRONG UR LOVE IS FOR EACH OTHER... WE NEVER KNO OUR STRENGTH UNTIL WE ARE PUT TO THE TEST!!! YOU GO PRINCESS!! THATS THE STRENGTH OF A WOMAN💪💪

@addiepagan9028 4 года назад

Taneisha Kim ❤️

@catherineroberts1969 4 года назад

That the key my dear God bless them both

@moche2303 4 года назад

Charisma you are more than enough! You're amazing, and so is cole. Together you're the best.

@jacinthanamiirobaseka9672 4 года назад

Being a caregiver, I really appreciate your struggle. Am glad God gave you the strength. Cole thanks for reassurance and patience. You two are destined for greatness.

@cherylb1586 4 года назад

This is why I admire you both. You put your life out there and it helps others

@evelynprice3976 4 года назад

I agree it all so teacher others how to love and support each other

@cherylb1586 4 года назад

@@evelynprice3976 Right. They are wonderful

@deereman5537 4 года назад

Charisma if you were a failure you would not have such a good guy as cole

@brea1443 3 года назад

Charisma got me in tears talking about her future and what she has to do for him. About the doubts she have.

@lachelleburroughs7040 4 года назад

After you said you wouldn't be good enough the first time and it cut...girl i wanted to cry and give you a hug. Life will sometimes make us feel we can't do something but if you take a moment to release the frustration as you did, it allows you to pull the strength that is in there out. Love you guys❤

@ninaappelt9001 7 месяцев назад

She is more than good enough. She's his rock and vice versa.

@noggie3934 4 года назад

Wow! Amazing story. You both are mentally and physically strong. Charisma please take care of yourself. Being a caregiver is stressful and taxing. Cole is so appreciative of the help he gets. Staying positive is sometimes difficult. I went into a depression when I became disabled. I am better now. I always say "Enjoy Life"

@audra4639 4 года назад

This was the most loving and nurturing horror story I've ever heard!🛁💖

@christophergoodman9647 3 года назад

I hope these 2 get to celebrate 50 wedding anniversaries

@paulinecronneit8400 4 года назад

Its a blessing in disguise charisma GOD will always give you the strength in difficult times✌👌✌just keep the FAITH.

@faithfulone4678 4 года назад

I could literally see Charisma in Survival mode ....You guys make a awesome team👍

@imdashy1 4 года назад

Omg you were telling the story and I think I would of just cried 😭 💔 I thank God for you and Cole to have each other I get scared of the little things you got this charisma I love you guys ❤️❤️

@judgej9853 4 года назад

Thank you sooooo much for sharing. I dated a quadriplegic that I wasn’t prepared for. I felt like I failed him when his traveling nurse didn’t show and I had to get him prepared for the day. It sorta ruined our relationship... because I wasn’t prepared... caught completely unaware of what to see and expect. He was understanding but. Had no way to rebound. If you guys were on fb then it would have helped me adjust and move forward. All things work together. I miss my friend though. He is a brilliant man and an awesome guy , smart and a true man of God ... and I just had no clue how to love And care for him

@brianaylor8121 4 года назад

Thanks for being vulnerable. We all have our struggles, but we can support each other.

@jessicahill4740 4 года назад

"That was one of the worst pictures I had ever seen, not because of the bleeding, but because of the perspective" haha I am dead!

@Prophetessrina1 4 года назад

My favorite power couple, blessings to y'all!!

@jenniferporter1281 4 года назад

Charisma, you are amazing! There is no reason you should feel down on yourself. You will be such an amazing wife and mother. As you both know, shit gets real sometimes. Lol There is nothing better to do then lean on each other (in your case maybe literally) when those times come. Love you guys! 💕

@danielleblanken1690 4 года назад

This made me cry! But in a good way. Getting through the bad days together is so important. And having a partner that will support you even when they’re scared too is priceless. Thanks for sharing and being willing to be vulnerable.

@robynpi 4 года назад

I am so PROUD of you both. You are AMAZING!!!!This was a defining moment in your relationship and your love, strength, faith, and positivity got you through this horrible experience. I love the love, respect and admiration you have for each other. Warm wishes, Robyn

@evelynprice3976 4 года назад

You are so right about their love for each other that's what gets them through.

@queenbee2447 4 года назад

Well said Robyn 😊

@milobar100 4 года назад

I am 46 years old and here I am watching you guys and learning so much from you and your maturity. Brilliant.

@tanyasedits 4 года назад

I think you guys did an awesome job together. Reminds me a lot of my first years as a physiotherapist and some of the hairy transfers I had to do. Like being called to a portable MRI to transfer a person off the floor when you can’t bring the lift in because it’s metal or being called to the ED to do a transfer with a person who was over 700 lbs and had been brought in with 6 firemen. You just have to think on your feet and use the resources that you have on hand like you guys did just beautifully. Congratulations on your anniversary and don’t look at this incident as anything but a huge success of your teamwork and adaptability together. Lots of love. Tanya

@sharonlewis6787 3 года назад

I am praying that Cole has a miracle healing I believe that Jesus heals today just like he did yesterday.

@clarab6245 3 года назад

I hate this. I have disabilities and was brought up Catholic, went to church every week, went to Catholic school. When I was a kid I totally believed if I was good and prayed I'd be cured. My church even sent me to Lourdes. I am not 'cured' and Jesus isn't going to cure me. How about people just be a bit more considerate.

@brittinijoyo4525 3 года назад

I beg you to stop saying this to people. It makes people feel (if they are religious) that they aren’t doing enough for God if they aren’t being healed. I started having awful symptoms a few years ago, it was scary. Everyone kept telling me to pray & I would feel better. It doesn’t work that way. It’s not a nice thing to say to people. Plus, the reality is he most likely always be in a wheelchair, & there is nothing wrong with that. Your comment makes it seem like there is something wrong with being disabled. I know you mean well, but it’s a very ableist comment.

@mattm1686 3 года назад

@@clarab6245 thank you! I hate this too! stop trying to pray for us! we are not broken!

@migueljoseph6940 4 года назад

i'm so happy u got through it especially the part where u didn't need to call for help in the end...i wasn't there but hearing about it made me feel like i experienced it, as a fellow quadriplegic all i can say is in moments like these, no one should blame themselves it comes with the territory, accidents happen and i have to give Cole props for remaining calm for Charisma i'm sure he was probably freaking out on the inside.

@selenahnjoloma1415 4 года назад

You are such a great team! I just love how patient you both are. It’s your superpower.

@TheLg1985 4 года назад

I'm honestly surprised this doesnt have more comments. These 2 people are amazing. They are what we all should strive for in a relationship. This is what I choose to binge watch on a Saturday bc they are just that amazing!

@mariearmstrong1258 4 года назад

Your an AMAZING Couple. Your honesty about everything is so helpful.

@alisonlowe1002 4 года назад

Thanks for you transparency

@vrogue8026 2 года назад

You can’t help but love you guys thank you for being honest about everything the good the bad and the frightening

@lexiestraughton20 4 года назад

Watching this just made me realise that everyone has their bad days but what makes you stronger is getting past them and keeping positive

@REE71901 4 года назад

This couple is meant to be. They look great together and it wouldnt seem right any other way.

@christinebellosillo2518 4 года назад

You two are indeed destined for each other. Love you both! ❤❤

@karenvictorian 3 года назад

My husband and I have a different but similarly disastrous 1st anniversary story. We have now been together 34 years and married 32!!! I've always said that once we made it back to shore, we celebrated on a sailboat, I knew we could survive anything!!

@hazybrneyesmd 3 года назад

This story only continues to prove that the two of you are such a sweet and loving couple. I love how each of you are super strong as two separate individuals but ever stronger as a couple....the patience and support you show each other is such a sight. Having a “love story” is something not every couple has....from day one, it is truly a fact that a love story continues to unfold every time you share your lives with us. 🧑🏼‍🦽+🧍🏾‍♀️=❤️

@porscha1563 4 года назад

Charisma made me cry thinking she wouldn't be good enough. She is absolutely amazing!!! Cole did an excellent job at staying positive and encouraging her.

@james414 4 года назад

What a beautiful couple! Charisma your candidness about your feelings were on point. You spoke about life situations we all go through in different ways.

@Judyri 4 года назад

Omg thank god everything ended up ok

@coleandcharisma 4 года назад

🙌

@cynthiacarr8965 4 года назад

ok this video literally had me so emotional. Sometimes you don't understand why the Lord allows you to experience a bad situation but when you get to the other side its a beautiful thing. One thing life has taught me is that once you come out you realize it was actually a perfect situation because you gain so much wisdom and strength. God bless you both and keep loving each other

@lifestylingmydailygrind3590 3 года назад

This guy is a gentle guy. Admirable. Both of you are admirable.

@triniintoronto240 4 года назад

I certainly do not think this is a sad or a horror story!!! To me, this is a story of triumph in the face of adversity!!!! God obviously had a greater plan for you on your anniversary than you had for yourselves. He wanted you to take another step on the journey of two becoming one. He wanted to show that with a union of minds, purpose and determination and with Him in the middle (a three-stringed cord is not easily broken), you are unbeatable!!!!! And Charisma, He wanted to show you that He has already equipped you to do that which He has called you to do...to be an awesome life partner for Cole. No more negative self-affirmations. I celebrate your triumph, growth and love with you!!!

@coleandcharisma 4 года назад

We agree! Thank you so much! ❤️

@triniintoronto240 4 года назад

@@coleandcharisma I am now reading your intro paragraph. I don't know how you can describe this as a fail when I see it as a MAJOR SUCCESS!!!

@LifeinCamoMedia 4 года назад

WOW! What a story! So glad y’all got through that! Like you always say, “Stay positive!”

@princessindigo 3 года назад

The fact that you guys are interabled and interracial actually adds more to the uniqueness of your relationship. I think the fact that you have some similar (but different) traits can help to make your relationship and bonding more comfortable and authentic. I'm here for it.

@veecaines6545 4 года назад

I agree Cole you found a needle in a hay stack , she's a strong woman in every way. May god continue to bless you guys always stay positive and beautiful.

@preparenowseekshelter7568 4 года назад

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, May you both have a prosperous, healthy, and joyous year!

@pauluvettebrown7717 4 года назад

Love the story but actually think that was a blessing from God to let you know that he's always there and he always got you and you guys can do this with his help greater is he that is in you than he that is in the world stay positive and keep pushing

@coleandcharisma 4 года назад

Yes! ❤️

@lourdesdelapena1852 4 года назад

😘❤️🙏🏻

@jonathanspink7982 2 года назад

Just started following you guys a couple weeks ago! I am 2 years post sci. I am injured c5-c7. I’m so blessed by watching. I have sensation and interesting extremely limited movement below my waste. Thank you for always being positive. When I get down I’ve thought more than once. ‘What would Cole do?” Thank you for changing my perspective!

@caitlynlong8914 3 года назад

I’m so thankful I came across your guy’s channel! Your relationship is so pure & inspiring 😭❤️

@pamnoel7856 4 года назад

You guys are so great together and that is what is so inspiring even to able-bodied couples. Well done charisma!!

@1tennismama 4 года назад

Doing the hard stuff deepens the love as you’re seeing and living it ❤️

@vrobinson5100 4 года назад

True love! Cole, you know she has your back no matter what happens! Come what may, you got this guys! 😊❤️

@deedeejohnson3452 3 года назад

I just watched your mother's 30th anniversary vid and 1 thing she said about making your relationship work is to just breath , this reminded me if that . You two are good and will last forever .

@roseiam 4 года назад

Y'ALL ❤ THIS is teamwork. True partnership. Love this. Unfortunate that it happened but I believe that it had to. Often times Charisma, we say that you're Cole's rock but here he was yours as well. Stayed calm through it all and encouraged you. ❤

@projectkj7643 4 года назад

Y’all are serious problem solvers! Way to go - thinking smart and getting the job done!

@fionagal123 4 года назад

I love your tenacity to move forward rather than stay in a bad situation. That is a message for you both in future situations and it also is a message to us. I love that Cole was able to be the encourager to you at the moment. Charisma we don't always know our strength till we are place in the situation. You and Cole are so openly vulnerable and it is refreshing. Hope Cole wasn't bad hurt.

@minibluebird9 4 года назад

i am bawling my eyes out over here. you two are not only a beautiful couple but a great team as well. so wonderful how you can encourage each other. thank you for sharing your journey & being positive but also honest about your worries and fears. that’s such a relatable feeling 😌