We Got Our Kids iPhones... Under ONE Condition

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Here is the link to the phone agreement we discussed in the episode→ messengerinternational.org/at...
Do smart parents let their kids have smartphones? And if so, when?
Many parents feel overwhelmed by the challenges that come with navigating the digital world with their kids. There’s so much pressure to protect them, but often, they are unsure how, or even if, that’s possible. How do you go beyond rules that restrict and find ways to truly teach and empower your kids to make wise decisions?
Perhaps no issue brings all of these challenges to the forefront as much as smartphones.
This week on At Home with the Beveres, we invited our two oldest kids Asher and Sophie to join us, and we’re tackling the phone issue head on.
Tune in for some practical tools to help your family thrive in the digital age!
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Chapters:
0:00 - 4 Things We Are Talking about Today!
0:12 - Screenagers
1:25 - Our Prayer and Consideration
5:03 - iPhones But NOT Social Media
10:05 - Asking Our Kids If Getting Them Phones Was a Good Idea
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We love hearing from you! Drop a comment to tell us what spoke to you in this episode. If you have any questions you'd like us to tackle in future episodes, drop them in the comments as well, and we'll work hard to get to them!
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24 июл 2024

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@user-og2wt3le4j Месяц назад

Life was so much easier when there was no internet and smart phones. But that train has left the station. This is a good idea to discuss phone use with our kids.

@madikarankali1636 Месяц назад

I understand honesty when I'm in a good mood 😂😂😂 I love how honest your kids are❤ you guys are doing a great job

@ruthieloar8805 Месяц назад

Your children are so blessed to have parents so intentional in their parenting. Keeping the conversation open between you all is so wonderful. Keep up the great work!

@Mmmm-wr2kf 24 дня назад

I love how he said “it gets confusing sometimes to see if I have the restrictions because my parents love me more OR is it just because they are stricter?” That’s so so smart because usually it’s immediately “they hate me!” Or “they are strict!” Rather than… hey they are doing me a favor with this

@tylercupp8540 Месяц назад

I have two young boys, these videos are SUCH a blessing as we navigate parenting. I love the honesty of your son! It shows you’ve given him a son-ship mindset. He knows he’s loved, you’re on his team, and he knows you want the best for him.

@TheKurtLyon Месяц назад

That was the best opener ever LOL

@celeryy6 Месяц назад

I love the honesty of the young boy

@alyssah52 Месяц назад

Honestly I am so impressed with your son and how he is so honest with you. Gives me so much hope that I will have the same type of relationship my son as he grows.

@BlancheNtrOy 16 дней назад

This is so good! My son just turned 12 and he wanted a phone but we said no, not quite yet. Even my own mother attempted to buy him a phone (secretly) and he got so upset about that idea because he knows it’s not allowed with us. Which I’m super proud of my son telling me. I love this discussion.

@judythebus1029 9 дней назад

I love this family dynamic. A family to aspire to. The kids authenticity, love it!

@carrenolady Месяц назад

These shows with teens are so insightful. Thank you So much. One of our boys just turn 13 and when I was listening to Asher, I was able to understand more my son and the moods and changes he is going through… to your teens. Thank you for joining mom and dad at the table!

@_thetrinityfaith 4 дня назад

I wasn’t sure about kids but they way you converse with your kids makes me want to be a parent 🤍

@chelseabrown5763 Месяц назад

I LOVE these conversations and I love hearing your young teens being honest. I want to hear their perspective on RU-vid and y’all’s perspective on RU-vid as social media/ a way of learning and how yall train in that aspect. 🙏🏾

@cookingforkidswithavah3291 Месяц назад

I love that you’re talking about this. I got my oldest daughter a phone at 13 and we completely locked it down. Locking it down was a big frustration for her and as she got older, we unlocked it and then just put restrictions and time limits on everything. She still says that she feels like we got her a phone too early Our next daughter got her phone at 15. The way we did social media was they first have an account through my phone for at least the first year. That way I can see everything that’s going on. And they have to ask for my phone to look at it lol I think that worked out great and they seemed very happy with that, my daughter didn’t get Instagram on her own phone until she was 17.

@TiaThomas-n9e 27 дней назад

Thank you, Bevere Family, for always being so transparent and relatable! I am so thankful that you arm your children and viewers/listeners with facts and information that support your decisions! You mentioned a lot of studies concerning the effects of social media on individuals of varying ages- is it possible for you to share the links to those studies or other information where we can see and share those findings?

@hennieenlouiseburger9798 24 дня назад

Just love it.. wish we had your insight when our kids were growing up.

@jennyc5100 21 день назад

Wonderful podcast-thank you all so much!

@TheKurtLyon Месяц назад

Really appreciate you having your kids on and sharing as well. This is good. Appreciate this.

@lvlc5 Месяц назад

I looooove you all's honesty... This was a very very productive conversation. I will watch this with family to discuss... many good points and reality checks.

@vilmarieramos6076 Месяц назад

I love the honesty from your children. So helpful hearing all sides of it. Thank you!

@nwanyibuifeobiako162 Месяц назад

This was a great episode - I love when you bring your beautiful children into the discussions!

@sashafransen2819 15 дней назад

Soo good! I watched it with my teen and he connected so much with your son and the struggles between what is right and what his impulses want to do. Thank you to your family for sharing and being sincere! Also, what is the Ted talk you guys mentioned watching with your kids? I’d love to watch with my kids as well.

@LaurenG_HeartofDeborah Месяц назад

This is your best episode yet (and they are all good!). I REALLY appreciate the honesty and the biblical worldview you provide about phones. Also thankful your kids shared the honest battle. We need more of this! Good job 👏🏼

@destinysaucedo3054 Месяц назад

This is so awesome. I loved hearing this conversation.

@LL-vd4gx 25 дней назад

This is such a helpful video! I'm not a parent but watching how you both navigated this conversation with your kids was so healthy and definitely something I'll apply for my future kids ✊

@melissak9627 Месяц назад

This was fantastic and so helpful. Just thought I'd let you know that the agreement has one of the points listed twice (unless it was intentional?) and a spelling mistake "watching shoes" instead of "shows"

@tanyahendricks7907 19 дней назад

I think that phones are not necessarily the problem, social media definitely is. My kids have a shared phone that has no internet or network. So they use it for music or pictures or whatever so for me it's not a big deal. I don't understand what a phone is for other than communication.

@dorenatasha1994 Месяц назад

Well done parents. You raised your kids to be very self aware children. I believe this is possible because you makes it safe for them to speak. It shows how well you researched to make an informed decision for your children. I don’t have any children yet I am a high school teacher and I can see how damaging social media has become. It’s terrifying!! We must pray for parents.

@angelfaulkner3993 19 дней назад

Thank you Ty Ty ❤🙌🏼🙏🏻❤️‍🔥👏🏼. Absolute love your wisdom (Gods wisdom!) Love love love how your are allowing Gods wisdom to flow thru ur young adults❤. YES, Asher n Sophie, SO prOud of the both of U! U r navigating SO Well with this phine “thing” 👏🏼👍🏼💯 This is where I am at w my teens. How to navigate social media, IF it should b allowed in my teens lives. Especially w three of my 4 teens who I see can b prone to addiction (which like Julie mentioned).

@followthefreemans 18 дней назад

This is so good. Making me reconsider when to give the kids a phone. I got off IG a few years ago and it was one of the best decisions I made.

@iamkamillecruz3602 14 дней назад

Thank you for doing this topic!

@jodyperfect6127 Месяц назад

Thank you, God. I needed this. Have a 14, 16, and 18 year old. Lost 18 year old to phone 📱

@user-og2wt3le4j Месяц назад

We were talking about this issue in our church leadership meeting. Parents feel their teens are glued to their phones. I noticed it when teaching the youth class two weeks ago. Three youth were told to keep their phones off during class.

@jonross5899 Месяц назад

Ya,ll are for signs and wonders 😊❤ we love you guys and thank God for your ministry

@williamsusanto5295 Месяц назад

So good 👍 Please have more conversation like this.

@Amazinggrace30 Месяц назад

Love, love the honesty!!

@salserajkl 16 дней назад

So hard! I was personally convicted when they mentioned that they put away ALL phones and not just the kids’. What type of example am I displaying for my daughter? That one hurt. 😮

@brucetenhave6952 17 дней назад

Would you mind putting the link of the ted talk that mentioned teenagers losing 50 percent of their brain, and don't get it back till their 25yrs old. I would like to see that. Thankyou fyrchavingvrhis conversation and the contract idea is a good one. It was good to mention some of the whys behind the whats😊

@mrsjaydie 16 дней назад

Great one!!

@briggseats4472 28 дней назад

You guys are doing great! ❤

@jmkpghsea Месяц назад

What parent control/security program do you use?

@dianedelorme4367 Месяц назад

Going to share this on Facebook

@Revelation.12.11 Месяц назад

We got my oldest a bark phone. They also have a Gabb phone. They are safer phone options. ❤

@projectimpossible2112 10 дней назад

Suggestions on monitoring app or ways to make iPhone safer?

@lvlc5 Месяц назад

That intro! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@nushie17 28 дней назад

THIS IS SO GOOD!!!

@MegaBella1985 18 дней назад

Hi there! I have two questions. Do you guys share a copy of the contract with parents so we can get ideas on what to do and say in contract? Also- do you consider you tube social media if your child has a you tube channel and is talking to kids and getting subscribers and likes?

@athomewiththebeveres 16 дней назад

Here is the link to the phone agreement we discussed in the episode→ messengerinternational.org/at-home-podcast-cell-phone-contract/

@marthazaragoza4385 Месяц назад

His "yaayy 🙃" 😂😂😂. I appreciate yall sharing this. God is good. Little dude did describe romans 7 so well. Thats never gonna end. But God! ❤🙏🙌

@dsan3789 16 дней назад

Beautiful

@kerryleegreco6687 8 дней назад

Please could you send me a copy of the contract! Thank you ❤

@damilolaoladoyin5138 Месяц назад

Do your children make use of WhatsApp or how do they communicate with friends

@user-og2wt3le4j Месяц назад

Getting them a iphone sounds like a good idea until one of them says they lost the iphone.

@jenniferwalsh1731 Месяц назад

It's not a privilege. Amen!!

@msleah8865 Месяц назад

🎉🎉***ATTENTION***🎉🎉 My family and I have a blended dynamic. We have all boys, 2 of which have phones. At our home we have rules and structure. Not so much at the other parents. Can your podcasts include more practical ways to implement structure and obedience in blended families in EVERY SITUATION? We pray for the other parents that they come to know the Lord and we also know that we can only control our household and keep doing our thing God's way, but it becomes discouraging and disheartening when the boys choose things contrary to what is being taught in our home.

@athomewiththebeveres 26 дней назад

If you missed it, we covered an episode on blended families! Here is a link :) ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-otyuzaNqrfQ.html

@msleah8865 26 дней назад

@athomewiththebeveres I did see that one. Thank you. Just searcing for more.