Wedding Day Drama: Mom Refuses to Bless Union Due to Past Conflict | HOT TOPIC 

I'm a lady aged 48yrs and I have 5 kids 4 girls and one boy who is the eldest. I remember 2017- 2018 mwana wangu musikana akamitiswa achangopedza chikoro form 4. Mimba takazoiona takutsvaga nzvimbo ye form 5 she passed all 10 subjects...As the parent I was hurt to find out kuti ndozvaita mwana I was more disappointed when I heard that mukomana uyu ndewe mu line rekuseri he had finished A level and was planning kuenda ku South Africa for university. Vana baba nana tete concluded kuti tinomusiya kumurume wake takaita seizvozvo. Hanzi vasvika ikoko vakagariswa pa gate from 2pm kusvika kuma 6pm ignoring them havo. Tete shared nyaya yevana and mukomana akaramba kutoora my daughter....with the guidance of his elders vakati tinokwanisa kuunza damage...Tete vakamira saying hatisi kuda damage tauya kuzosiya mukadzi wako that's when the guy responded saying yes taisangana nemusikana asi aindi bhadharisa, tete says kuti my daughter akasimuka achida kurova mukomana saying why would you say such a lie pevanhu vakuru....This was a well up family in the area and what he said to my daughter chituko that I didn't take lightly so takaita sekudaro and they paid damage.
I didn't give up on my daughter she went back to school I was taking care of my muzukuru. Fast forward KVG she has a good job at an NGO and is doing very well. So nyaya iripo ndeyekuti mukoma we mwana wangu musikana uyu came to me akanditi mwana wenyu ari kuonana futi na baba vemwana wake .Akamuona kuflat kwake...nyaya iyi yakaita ndinetsane ne my daughter that was in October last year. Two weeks ago I received a call from tete vake vachiti vana varikuda kuroorana mukomana ari kukumbira ruregerero...You know vedare it took a lot kuti mwana wangu asvike paava to have confidence after such humiliation from this guy...I told my daughter kuti yes you can get married but you will not have my blessing...what kind of love forgets the Shame that was brought to us that year. This man is after money from my daughter he will abuse her and talk her down just like he did years back.I need you mutonge nyaya iyi ariwako mwana unga murega here achipinda muwanano nemunhu akadai...I know kusunga moyo wangu is not good for mwana but kutosunungura kwatoramba help!!!