I mean, you’re allowed to tell people whatever you want as long as you’re not threatening their lives or harassing them lol so yes, she can tell her, but she doesn’t have to listen
Yeah, if he's been eating them I'd have her call him (if possible) and ask if he ever feels ill after eating them. If not, I'd go ahead and put them on the cake because clearly he isn't allergic to hazelnuts. It's important to remember that "nut" doesn't always refer to closely related plants. So being allergic to one nut doesn't always mean you'll be allergic to another.
@@catpoke9557 For liability’s sake, I think the safe thing for the baker to do is still refuse to put the hazelnuts on. If the mom wants to risk adding them herself afterwards, that’s her risk.
@@catpoke9557NOOOOOOOO Absolutely not - per the flower one, a baker is not a doctor: send the kid to the Drs to check he's not allergic to hazelnuts and then go from there.
@@obliviouz Uh... It's not about her being a doctor or not. It's about the kid having been eating hazelnuts for years and never having symptoms. Not every nut is closely related. Not every nut is even a nut. He might be allergic to a specific type of nut or a specific group of nuts that doesn't include hazelnuts, or he might not even be allergic to nuts at all and rather something commonly called a nut. Keep in mind, you can be allergic to a fruit and still be able to eat apples, because a fruit is not all fruits. He clearly isn't allergic to hazelnuts or if he is, not in the same way as his other allergy. If someone said they were allergic to apples you wouldn't be scared of giving them oranges, for example. There is clearly some sort of misunderstanding on the mom's part on what her son's allergy is. He's probably not allergic to true nuts but rather to peanuts and potentially other legumes.
That was my favorite. 😂❤ My son came home and described an incident and I couldn’t help but laugh. I SHOULDNT HAVE!! But kids are so innocently funny sometimes!! 😂😂😂
I have no god damn idea how a baker's channel full of bad experiences with weird customers got to my recomendations but i'm not complaining, this is funny
If mother in law dearest wants a different cake than the one that a completely separate customer has ordered, then maybe buy a damn second cake and then suck it up when son/husband says he prefers wife's cake.
You're right the baker lost a sales opportunity here. "I'm sorry, I simply cannot change or comment on an order placed by another customer ... but you yourself could always order another cake if you feel he would prefer it. Lol
@@kalynkaniggNope. There’s no way that MlL would’ve accepted the offer. The whole idea was to have her cake INSTEAD of her DIL’s cake. I know the type.
For real! I’m turning 22 in a months time and I could only dream of already being in my career like that. I have so many more years of schooling left ugh
3:29 Something similar happened with me. One of my friends said that rainbow cakes mean LGBTQ so we can't order them because we aren't LGBTQ (or more if we order them, people will think we're gay). And I'm like IT'S JUST A CAKE SIS! WHO CARES? 😭
I love wearing rainbow colored things. I've never been asked if I'm LGBTQ or anything. In fact, the only person who ever said anything wasn't and knew I wasn't. Everyone just says "hey, love your glasses" "love your jacket". People need to chill 🤦♀️
Rainbow sprinkles have been a favorite to kids since I was young. Trust me, if you eat them, your sexuality will not be affected in any way. It's food and it all looks like poo in the end anyway 😂
Any flowers used on or in food must be non-toxic. If you're unsure, look it up. Years in the greenhouse and bakery/ restaurant/kitchen have converged at this moment. I'm happy. 😊
Right? There are plenty of edible and even tasty flowers, why on earth would people think they can put random garden flowers on there? I can only imagine her putting foxgloves, iris, morning glory, and wisteria on there!
Roses are pretty, and generally safe, unless I’m mistaken. That’s what I’d go with if I wanted to decorate with garden flowers. Not that I bake. At all.
@@tilltab Roses are safe. So are hibiscus, pansy, nasturtiums, marigolds, calendula, squash, fuchsia, lavender, and others. The humble dandelion is one of the healthiest plants on earth, and every bit of it is usable.
@@tilltab roses are completely non-toxic or harmful, but if they're on the cake, don't eat them, because they don't taste good. Carnations/pinks and violets/pansies are also edible, but taste much better.
@@xelspethThe gays didn't take the rainbow, we all could've lived in the peace the rainbow promised They literally just gave it up- like a bratty child that only behaves for one person Instead of trying to learn how to teach the child, they just shoved it off to the person that already knew the answer 😅
@@midnightsarrow160 nobody gave up or took anything. It's just a pretty natural phenomenon that insane people from both sides try to push as a political thing, getting angry about it and not realising that it's a completely normal, harmless light distortion.
Right? I've never seen rainbow sprinkles and thought "gay." I've thought about how children get rainbow sprinkles and I don't want to look immature, then I realized that that's immature and I shouldn't give a shit because rainbows aren't a flavor and more color should just mean more joy. A thing I don't exactly get my daily dose of.
Sprinkles themselves are apolitical, but depending on how they’re arranged they can send a political message (e.g., someone uses sprinkles in the shape of a controversial flag). However… I doubt the rainbow sprinkles in the video were used to express anything other than “rainbow sprinkles and colours are pretty 😄”.
Rainbows have been around since water fell from the sky during a sunny break. There are many things that use rainbows as their symbol such as hope, leprechauns, friendship, the Rainbow Bridge, and Noah's Ark.
@@AndrewKarstaedtThis was supposed to be a real story that happened, right? Some weirdo comes in and says they won't eat a cake because it has rainbow sprinkles and they "don't support that kind of stuff". It's not really a strawman if it actually literally happened now is it?
Rainbow doesn't always mean LGBT😭 Did they forget rainbows exist irl??? EDIT: wether you support LGBT or not, please, have the decency to be a good person. Not everyone is Christian or homophobic, not everyone is a supporter for whatever reason. We both exist, why can't we just live and ignore one another instead of attacking each other? Your life won't change if [insert random person] is gay, it's not your life, it's theirs. Don't like gays? Then don't be one, ez.
The rainbow aversion thing is a great life hack. There's no faster way to work out if someone's a bigot and not worth knowing than to wear an aggressively rainbow shirt around them and pay attention to their reaction. 😂 🌈
i personally wear a bisexual flag patch on my hat, and i've noticed people, especially old white men, seem to look at me a little differently sometimes lmao
@@LordHoward cool but do you have anything productive or remotely worthwhile to provide to the conversation? or are you just here to parrot overused buzzwords and phrases?
Flip side: I wore a rainbow shirt and a lady I had never suspected was gay, came up and said, "I love your shirt" and then winked at me. Apparently she's out, but only down-low sort of out, to allies.
Ong the last one 💀 imagine not supporting people for no reason and giving them hate for no reason, I wish we were all equal and with the sprinkles like omg grow up its sprinkles stop the hatin' 😂🎉
The most hilarious thing that has ever happened was full grown adult men being afraid of rainbows. Had a construction dude lose his mind when our filled donuts were heart-shaped around Valentine's day. 😂 Its so cartoonish
When ones masculinity is that fragile, they should have bigger worries about being that unsure of themselves. Bad self esteem wrecks people ans those around them.
A friend wouldn't let her toddler get a particular stuffed bear kit because the bear was rainbow coloured, even though it was the the one he kept reaching for. I hate to admit this next bit, but as a child i stopped wearing rainbow stuff because I kept being bullied about it (granted i was always mis-gendered and sexual orientation assumed/questioned too). Rainbow doesn't automatically mean LGBTQIA+ ...so many Christians in my life apparently forget...God...rainbow... They just get mad that it was "stolen." I never understood the insecurity surrounding that. I'm now back to expressing my love of rainbows and a friend and i had a unicorn thing for a few years because of an incident with a bath bomb at a convention.
I grew up fundamentalist Christian and had all my rainbow stuff taken away. No more Care Bears or Rainbow Bright. Once I deconstructed I started reading about how to be a good ally. Part of that was examining myself and what I’d been conditioned to think and do without consciously thinking about it. Avoiding rainbows was part of that. I love rainbows and all the colors. So I’m embracing them now.
@@southernblackbird7240 I'm so sorry. I loved Care Bears and Rainbow Bright. I'm glad for where you are now. It seems my Christian upbringing was also fundamentalist. I'm... going to deconstruct but I don't even know where to start. Being a PK, having the upbringing I did... I don't know how to... People are still shocked that as a PK, as a person that grew up in the church, that I was spoken to by elders etc because of the questions I asked or how I answered their questions. Being told to not interact with sinners but you explain that means you'd have 2 other Christians to speak with in your new public school, one being family. Then the same person asks you why you haven't saved anyone. I said that Jesus started with relationship, with meeting people where they were at. He didn't like that. No teacher or parent liked my curiosity about other religions or evolution. I was told by a friend a few years ago that I was the first Christian that didn't condemn them upon finding out they were LGBTQIA+. I really do credit my mom for raising us to be how we were in terms of interacting with those who were different from us. But I was also bullied in many ways for being different myself.
Insecurity? They perveted a beautiful symbol that attacks children instead coming up somthing on their own. And are now o0enly admitting to coming after children.
Son of a butcher here. I feel your pain.🤣 We had a client that reads "free glass" on a applesauce pot. She said o it's free and just left. We where so stunned by her stupidity.
She was clearly only interested in the glass not the contents that she had scrub out of it. I mean glasswares are what one goes the a butcher for isn't it?
I feel like it’s more that while they don’t like it, people aren’t surprised by homophobia but are baffled that a person’s brain can be so addled by their homophobia that they can be afraid of the color spectrum.
The world has ruined a lot of things. Another example is St. Peters cross, thats legit the way he asked specifically to be executed, now its a symbol of satanism
@@evilsharkey8954 the thing is the rainbow symbolizes this oath. Yikes. People demonizes stuff without reasons (sometimes, e.g. black cats, they're as loving and sweet as every other cat).
Can you imagine if people would respond to quotes from the video with lore from The Silmarillion or Harry Potter like they're facts? 😂 That's what non Christians see whenever they read comments like this. I know a lot of anti-LGBT people are Christian, but there's exceptions to every rule.
@@18skeltor As Christians, we believe homosexuality and transgenderism is a sin. That is what the Word says. If someone denies the Word the question becomes whether or not they are Christian.
I grew up fundamentalist Christian where everyone was incredibly homophobic. I had my Care Bears and Rainbow Bright taken away. Avoiding rainbow anything became second nature until I deconstructed and left the faith. When I was learning how to be a good Ally I realized that I needed to question my subconscious decisions that I’d been conditioned into making because of my upbringing. Avoiding rainbow things was something I’d been doing so much that I’d forgotten how much I loved rainbows. So I have a lot of rainbow stuff now. It makes me happy and upsets awful people. Win win.
I'm glad for you! I'm a lesbian and i love rainbow themed things, but not because of the LGBTQ community, but just because rainbows are pretty and make me happy (even though i like that our flag is a rainbow)
I was a teenager before the LGBT community used a rainbow flag. My mother decorated my room in rainbows. I had sheets with rainbow stripes, she used a set of the sheets to make curtains, with a pull shade behind. Another sheet she stretched over a canvas at an ark to make a rainbow.🌈 And she found a poster cut out of an actual rainbow, it was huge. Give my mother a theme to work with, and step back. If the LGBT community had claimed rainbows as theirs before this... I don't think my mother would have questioned using rainbows. But she might have been able to find more things with rainbows on them. I chose rainbows because I was an art student for 5 years at the time, and loved all of the colors. I had a hard time picking a color for my new room, so I said I want all of the colors, I want a rainbow. Funny how times have changed. Something as beautiful as a rainbow is denied to children because they might turn out different than the parents hoped for. I turned out just fine; well, except for my husband and I were never blessed with children. But I'd never blame a rainbow for that. Everytime it rains I still search the sky looking for a rainbow. *Too bad your overly religious parents forgot in the Bible it tells us the rainbow is a promise from God, that he will never again try to kill all of us with flooding. Rainbows are a promise from God.* 🌈 Your church doesn't read the whole Bible, just the parts it agrees with? SMH. Take care stay safe have a nice day. 👵☮️🖖
I hate nosy, entitled mil’s…been married 43 years and dated from age 14-18 then married..hubby lived with his grandma from 16 till we married @ 18…mil only raised him 14 years and still tries to tell me she knows what’s best for him..where was she when he was in iCU/hospital/rehab for two months when I was there with him 24/7? I think I know my hubby a little better than his hateful, demanding mother!
@@AmieMorley-st6tzthank you..she’s 85 and lives next door but I usually only go to her house to fill her meds for her once a month…I wish she treated me as well as I always have her, lol
I did not know that mere anything about rainbows meant "supporting" and not having to do with any rainbow is "not supporting".. I miss the days when rainbows are just rainbows :< I love rainbows.. they are like.. happiness.
Clearly the last one must object to the physics of light refraction too. Does that mean physics is gay?! Yes, I’m being sarcastic. These crackpots will latch onto to anything to randomly fuel rage.
@@VDruid50, oh, they lost their minds over that one too, at the 50th anniversary of the album release for “Dark Side of the Moon”. Went absolutely ape sh*t crying that it was “woke”. After 50 years! Like I said, they take everything as offensive because they live to be full of rage.
Not like that. The customer doesn't want items that explicitly resemble a rainbow flag. The rainbow in the sky and refraction is all science. Sprinkles is man made and so is the design. It used to be just a rainbow. Now it's a Political symbol for LGBT rights. So many avoid the flag or the design on cakes.
I understand being worried about people rushing their relationship as it usually ends poorly but six years is definitely a long term relationship lol it’s just a mother thinking no one is good enough for her “precious baby boy”/hating other women for “stealing” him away or encouraging him to build his life for himself and build a future, not just follow his mommy around
@@bluegirl278 Same. If this was like a six month relationship and they were ordering a cake because now they've suddenly announced that they're getting married, I would completely understand why she might be concerned and trying to make sure everything was being done the "right" way. It's still ultimately not her decision, but I could sympathize with it. But six freaking years? Nah, that's just "they're my baby and no one else can have them" shenanigans.
Literally baffles me when a customer pays top dollar to turn a chef inspired journey to a foreign land through the interpretation's as told by the human sense of taste, into a midwestern meat-and-potatoes.
I'm a cake decorator at Walmart and I once had a lady come up to me with a message cookie asking me if the gold sprinkles on it were seeds 🤦♀️ I was tempted to say yes, that we grow our cookies in-store
Ive never imagined that simple garden flowers could be toxic,like...i know theres a LOT of poisonous plants (and i love them...) but like,the common ones? That everyone smels or sucks its nectar sometimes?? Its a litle worrying,and in particular in how my dumb mind didnt thinked it before
Omfggggggg the one about the sprinkles!!!! It triggers me on a different level, cause honestly wtfff? Ive experienced that same situation so many times! Like just eat the fkn cake.
3:56 I don't get it, why are people upset with the rainbow? Are you upset with the sky? The colour spectrum? All because of a group of people who aren't really harming anyone and didn't even chose it.
Yeaaa if you are going to put flowers on the cake, make sure they are edible. Like roses and violets. But also make sure they are chemical free and dont grow next to a road.
@@katie7748 Yeah man, nothing keep me awake at night more than Tax Deducted at Source. If only i could live rent free, i gotta pay all these taxes. Fr though, the hell is TDS? You can't expect people to just know these weirdo acronyms, especially when i'm imagining it's some hateful nonsense only used by a bunch of unhinged dipshits.
That last story, was someone so anti LGBTQ that they think that anything colorful is off limits to them by the chance that it makes them feel supportive.
I had no idea random rainbows supported the LGBTQ community. Sprinkles must especially supportive. How insecure must one be to refuse to eat rainbow sprinkles? Some people's kids...
As a person who already had a brother with severe schizophrenia and had already worked attending public, I can say this: People with mental disorders literally have MORE notion, maturity and self-control than this (Because at least they know that a store is JUST for buying stuff and nothing else).
Someone can be allergic to some nuts, but not all of them. It's easier to just say you're allergic to nuts than list the ones you're allergic to. I know someone allergic to nuts who can eat Ferrero rochers and almonds. Also some people think peanuts are nuts so you can always ask for specifics.
First one reminds me of people saying it’s okay to allow their dog in a restaurant because it’s small. Like let me break the law because you’re an exception
I thought the "toxic flowers" was going to be about a customer freaking out and accusing you of selling poisoned cakes because you used the flowers that are edible. I was GOING to say that calling flowers poisonous is a little like saying berries are poisonous because holly berries and others are toxic 😅
Working retail for far longer than I have any right to, and I'll always remember the time that a quiet child randomly blurted out, "We laugh at poor people". And the parents just got silent and didn't say anything for the rest of the order.
50? The child needs glasses or has the youngest looking uncle in the world. If I were guessing your age 20 would be the highest I would go and owning your own shop is great.
@@cadewynnttv1627 Everyone else IS super old if you are 8!!!! Seems like for most people, regardless of age, everyone older than they are is "old" and everyone younger than they are is "young".
These are all from people whose native language is English, my ESL (English as second language) mother can never remember what a hazelnut looks and tastes like because there is no word for it in her lamguage, same thing with chestnuts. Luckily neither of us have any nut allergies, and love hazelnuts and chestnuts, but my mum keeps thinking the very inside outer texture of a Ferrero Rocher are both crunchy wafer. And she thinks what's sprinkled on the outside is moist non-salty pretzel bits covered in a milk chocolate+ dark chocolate liquid mix and not nutella.
Honestly didn't know it was hazelnut when I had them initially and couldn't figure out why I got sick off them...then I found out after a few times and went "oh." We have a nut intolerance/allergy in our family, with us all having different nuts we react to, whether just intolerance (like me) or anaphylaxis like others. It wasn't till I was an adult and coworkers were complaining about my banana bread not having nuts that I connected the dots....mom *never* made food or treats with nuts for us or school events. If nuts were in the house they were the few we could all eat in the early days before my sibling had anaphylaxis during the holidays.
