Wellcast: Guide to Maintaining Friendships

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Maintaining friendships during life-changing events such as graduation and moving away to college isn't easy. It's not uncommon to grow apart from your friends as you get older and it gets harder to stay in touch. Fortunately, WellCast has 4 tips on how to keep your friendships strong!
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@MarcioLiao 10 лет назад

Just remember that some friendships will die no matter what you do.

@ikyiAlter 10 лет назад

Yeah... these aren't bad tips but... it's extremely tiring if it's only one side doing these four steps. And that's just unhealthy for a relationship (friendship kind). Any kind of relationship (friendship or couple) require both sides to contribute. =/

@andimcdove 10 лет назад

Ya sometimes people are only meant to be in your life for a season. Put in the effort and if it doesn't work out than that's ok, don't force it, it should come naturally. They may come back eventually or they may not, but either way you made an impact in each others lives even when it doesn't feel that way

@ikyiAlter 10 лет назад

Andi McDove But...it's so saddening that it just fell apart.

@Clevoliver 5 лет назад

exactly.. I already had 2 good friends.. 1 talks to me Through Texting and the other We don't have much in common anymore

@miloschwa5321 3 года назад

That's pretty sad but true

@DassahMariee 10 лет назад

This is exactly what I have a problem with :( Except my problem is that im very shy so its hard for me to make friends and when I do finally make some I am never able to maintain them :/

@JunguianPhantom 10 лет назад

After college all of my supposed friends stopped an and all kinds of communication. I know that everything withers in time but that was pretty fkd up. I saw them all as more than friends, they were family. That is why these kind of separations hurt so bad. So be prepared young friends: nothing lasts. And precisely thats what makes everything so special in life. So cherish you time together, and let go when all is over.

@animelover390 10 лет назад

Thanks Wellcast. I'm in my last year of high school, and I felt scared about my present AND my future friendships. This made me feel a little better.

@MomoGobboYT 7 лет назад

Now this is all fine and dandy but I have one important question... What if you never had any friends to begin with?

@RomioneWG 9 лет назад

i love how the beginning is a DIRECT reference to Friends (the show)

@thejumminjammer4237 9 лет назад

+Jade Rice They didn't solve all their problems in 22 minutes, they had alot more problems than they could solve in 22 minutes

@caroldell2118 8 лет назад

I can't even make friends, socializing is so scary.

@rowbottherobot9472 7 лет назад

Carol Dell Ik this was a year ago but I feel you so much :(

@caroldell2118 7 лет назад

Hey, I'm actually doing a lot better now and I'm sure you will too! Don't lose hope and keep trying ♥

@rowbottherobot9472 7 лет назад

Carol Dell I've always been crap around new people XP I always feel super stressed, like they won't except who I am, my sexuality, etc

@caroldell2118 7 лет назад

Me too, I'm sooo shy at first, but if I feel a connection I tend to slowly open up :) do you want to be friends? If you have Instagram or Snapchat we can talk there

@rowbottherobot9472 7 лет назад

Carol Dell Sure I don't see why not Snapchat: rowantherowbot

@MsChicago1901 10 лет назад

I am leaving my closest friends this year and going to college 14.5 hours away, but with this video I definitely found new ways to keep in touch with them. But luckily one will be 3.5 hours from my college...you know who you are!

@twebasenoi 10 лет назад

Thanks WellCast!! You've really helped me in my life issues

@sjngeek7451 7 лет назад

Can u make a video on how to maintain a longer distance relationship

@catsgameplayer8416 9 лет назад

Thank you sooo much for this, i actually had a serious problem with my friend and i was missing step 4. She has changed and wachtwellcast rememberd me to accept it! Thank a bunch! :D

@anpho8165 10 лет назад

I love all the animation! So cute and relaxing!

@jackiethegoldenjackal 8 лет назад

It is easy for me to make friends even if I don't try they come up to me! But once they are in another class it is easy to forget rather than continue friendships. I guess I don't have committment.

@jazminestryder 10 лет назад

So what do I do in my situation where no matter how many times I bug them they don't take action to hang out? They almost always say they're to busy, and then they somehow make time for other people... what's frustrating is I don't ask all that often, for the very reasons above..

@paxtonb7202 8 лет назад

I have a friends (Patrick). He's like second cousin to me and I can go months without talking to him. But whenever we do speak its like no time has past between us. As if it's been only a day since we've last spoke, even though it been months. I miss him and the fun we had.... There's no reason why I should be crying now.

@MlpSapphire 10 лет назад

Cool this is really helpful but I do have a problem with this girl, you see, we talk over messages and I told her I don't like something she likes and she had a right go at me, what should I do about this wellcast

@GraceYocum 4 года назад

Love the video!

@GlitterKittiee 4 года назад

Thank you so so so much. You have NEW FANS!!!!

@Araylie 10 лет назад

even if i already saw that video, it's good to remind me..

@rayneharris8949 10 лет назад

Can you make a video about how to deal with OCD?

@yupraymond 10 лет назад

nice re-upload

@TheBluewolves100 10 лет назад

Hey Wellcast, I've been having a big problem. One of my dear friend's has been taken away from me.(Not by death,tho by law ) I keep crying,wanting to hurt myself,and pretty much going crazy from missing them so much. What should I do to maybe try to do things that will make me forget about what is going on or make me feel better about what is happening in my hard time.Could you maybe help me? -From Water

@lucyrobb1702 10 лет назад

Love welcast!

@MegaSmithzone 9 лет назад

I miss my friend so much. I moved away during high school. We're both soo busy, so we hardly talk. But when we do. It's like nothing has changed. Although we talk about whats new. And it seems pretty okay. But when we don't talk or text. It feels like we've disconnected from eachother. And it makes me soo sad. :( i don't mind being busy or her being busy. I just miss my friend.

@m33yuh 8 лет назад

me and my best friend have been friends since 3rd grade. she moved away in 4th grade and we still contact each other now. i hope we can stay friends until we get older

@youngieLs2 10 лет назад

Can u share the programs that u guys use to make video and teh work sheet becasue it look just so adroable and it will be really usefull for my next comning presentation :) Thanks

@TheDKdoublekill 9 лет назад

Been through that phase of life. it isn't easy let me tell you. But in end you actually learn who are your friends and who aren't.

@CelebiCute 10 лет назад

Hey wellcast, I told my crush that I like him and he wants to stay friends, but I still love him. How do I get through this adjustment?

@samkum8612 8 лет назад

Thanks

@bhavyarawat56 10 лет назад

What if it's a long distance relationship/friendship and you can't really call the person or video-chat with them often...will it still last if you chat with them through email, online messengers etc?

@gunakshitayade9398 7 лет назад

Hiii I like you videos soooooooooo much

@zimran1978 10 лет назад

Yes

@HeyItsTyler2000 10 лет назад

Your friend doesn't like The Killers any more? C'mon look on the Mister Brightside

@yukta_meow 8 лет назад

ur Wright

@yukta_meow 8 лет назад

I mean right

@foodthive6177 8 лет назад

I could start using these tips and I could probably be able to have a better friendship

@TheNesdsachannel 10 лет назад

How do you post exactly what I need when I need it?!?!?

@dajo-2 10 лет назад

When I started secondary school about a year and a half ago, I had to say goodbye to my best friend from Primary school cuz she went to a different secondary school but not long after starting at secondary, I make some friends and now I'm nearly starting year 9 and I have 2 friendship groups, I would rather have 2 friendship groups than have 10 groups because I wouldn't be able to make time for them all but it's better to have more than 1 group of friends in case you fall out with the people in that 1 group, just some advice, don't know if it will help ;)

@joelmccary2559 6 лет назад

Plz tell me this is only for high school and collage because IMA going in mid school

@Bunnyfrogawesomenes 10 лет назад

What if your friend lives in Sweden and you live in The US? :( we. Email but it's not the same as it used to be he's 6 hours ahead in time so we can't really call either :(

@devenkkchheda 8 лет назад

actionable points in lucid way...

@sooteh6597 10 лет назад

Go wellcast!!!

@frannyzooey11 9 лет назад

Yeah, go away Wellcast. Are these people serious ? Or are the comedians ?

@preciouspayne3188 2 года назад

@@frannyzooey11 that's not nice

@agneslarson6872 10 лет назад

Would it be the same steps if you were to feel like a third wheel?

@nurulsolehah1144 10 лет назад

What if they don't want to help me with the situation

@TheGreenMaster21 10 лет назад

Do one about getting rid of TV addictions

@asad9414 8 лет назад

I'm 11 and my friend and I have been together for 9 years. But this is our last year together. 😭😭

@danielmak6140 10 лет назад

I LOVE THE KILLERS!!!

@GraceYocum 4 года назад

FaceTiming is also really good

@1127stac 10 лет назад

Omg this was made just for me

@WickedGameFowl 7 лет назад

It actully worked for me😱😱😱😀😄😊😌🤓

@adannacamacho4837 8 лет назад

i love you so mush thanks

@pastelprincess0943 10 лет назад

YAYYYYY OMFG YOUR BACK OMFG YESSS

@marsyasf 4 года назад

but, usually it'll hard to communicate with old friend czz we're not so connected as in the past. it's like they are new people, but knew you already little bit. awkward moment pleaseee:')

@abbyd8064 10 лет назад

Me and my best friend are not on the same team this year and she blaming me for are friend breaking up

@hazelbird0286 10 лет назад

I'm in middle school and I had to say bye to almost all my friends but my friends had no other friends from my school

@mursie100 10 лет назад

Does the artist have anything against men or something ?

@adamg354 10 лет назад

Does it matter ? The idea is still the same whether you are a girl or a boy

@divelostmind 10 лет назад

people typically make things loosely based on themselves, if it was a male artist, chances are he would make everyone male, so vice versa

@featherluxray568 10 лет назад

Men suck women RULE! WOMEN forever!! :P lol jk. Both are great. Maybe they shou D include men... :o

@reilly4355 9 лет назад

Well, the animator is a girl, and girls tend to draw girls better.

@jackiethegoldenjackal 8 лет назад

+animayo did you just assume their gender!?

@Mar-xs3hg 7 лет назад

Too late I already lost all my friends 😂😂

@Holms 10 лет назад

Would be nice to get video how to make friends ;D

@GraceYocum 4 года назад

Starts at 1:60

@Sirhc7000 10 лет назад

Am I crazy or am I experiencing deja vu right now?

@meghanjoyce881 10 лет назад

I have a friend who isn't telling me something and she told other friends and they talk in code around me I'm not sure if they feel like they can't trust me or their simply not telling me...please help me

@norma6954 9 лет назад

Talk to her at the end of the day like bye or see yah tomorrow then stop talking to her but not in a mean way, when she talks to you look at her and answer regularly...

@meghanjoyce881 9 лет назад

Thank you for responding, and for the advise

@eltina21 9 лет назад

Siign i wish i could go see my friend but...she's in another country.... well... continent...

@socialmilkshake6074 7 лет назад

I had so many friends...then I got hurt and was gone and they all don't like me now ;-;

@gymclasshero1006 4 года назад

Same

@darkfire5727 10 лет назад

I was in 2nd grade when I met most of my friends and also 3rd grade I'm in 6th grade now and we are probably going to separate after graduation :_(

@emersonolivares9217 3 года назад

I tried all this and did not work.

@alfiewalls-shaw838 10 лет назад

*no

@Zyserk 10 лет назад

I feel gay for being subscribed to this channel...

@earlgrey2130 10 лет назад

Well you shouldn't. If being interested in having friends is making you feel bad about yourself you have an unhealthy view of things.

@gracekelley-annlarsen2684 10 лет назад

Eat some chocolates, Forrest.

@RAZIdrizzle 10 лет назад

nah bro dis shit is gangsta, its how to keep tight with all y'all homies

@smartplug6073 10 лет назад

i fel the same

@mrleroy9276 10 лет назад

only a bit

@alfiewalls-shaw838 10 лет назад

One help

@prettylittledolls9946 6 лет назад

If I try to be friends again with my ex bff , like , we were really close. She would just ignore me and move on with her new bff.

@patiglaczkowska 6 лет назад

Doll Trends I understand how you feel, same thing happened to me

@davidhoang8389 10 лет назад

how to make friends..............

@girlscoutkiera 8 лет назад

My friends hate me they ignore me I sit by them they talk about how I made mistakes and my mom all she does is Yells at me not my sister my sister at age 13 almost 14 years old I'm 11 I'm yelled at every day and my sister is like the little perfect angel she does "nothing " wrong it makes me depressed and makes me less happy at school I used to be smiles every day now I'm that girl who hides in her room ands cries because no one likes me my mom says she loves me I doubt it

@gilliancalvert2950 8 лет назад

I bet your mom loves you, you may get yelled at but she created you so of course she loves you. stick with people in your class that share the same interests. do you like gaming? hang out with kids that like gaming. you may end up liking the same game as them! and if that doesn't work, just remember that you are awesome and confident

@girlscoutkiera 8 лет назад

+Gillian Calvert thanks but my self esteem went down so low I'm now doing my makeup and hair every day no matter how early I have to get up

@gilliancalvert2950 8 лет назад

+A unicorns world I bet your gorgeous. I think I'm ugly but really it matters what's on the inside and I bet your a smart, caring beautiful girl! don't let stress or anxiety pull you down.

@girlscoutkiera 8 лет назад

+Gillian Calvert thanks but I just come to the point I hide I don't care about myself I only care what others think I have damaged what I used to love just to try and make friends

@gilliancalvert2950 8 лет назад

+A unicorns world I'm the exact same. I used to try to transform myself into this barbie doll that I thought everyone liked but really everyone liked it when I was myself. and I can be a new friend :)

@iamami117 10 лет назад

How to avoid awkwardness. Video

@Name-nh3up 7 лет назад

what about skype

@jaquelynnpalen8024 10 лет назад

i dont have a phone yet so i just email my friends

@cassie1421 8 лет назад

You use to like The Killers, man! Come on, you're making me a Mr. Darkside.

@ninasally 10 лет назад

I got really pissed with all my friends today so like we were at lunch yeah and I was being quiet not like normal AT ALL, I'm kind of the leader off my group so we were there and my ex was there and I didn't want to really talk to him, so I left. AND NO ONE NOTICED. there was like 10 pepole there and no one noticed I was gone, and now I'm arguing with my best friend. HALP ME

@gracekelley-annlarsen2684 10 лет назад

How bout you not over react...? People were eating, that's why they weren't paying attention. And saying your a leader of your friends is kinda mean. Friends are supposed to work together, not control each other.

@ninasally 10 лет назад

by at lunch i mean we were at break lunch the middle of the day yeah that hour. And there's always kind of 1 or 2 most popular people out of the group and the most confident. I just feel that i wasn't getting noticed enough i know i sound like self centered, and that in over reacting that's just what i feel ok.

@gracekelley-annlarsen2684 10 лет назад

ninasallyclub That's perfectly fine. I bet they didn't MEAN it. :)

@maryannnardelli1756 4 года назад

I don't have friends my own age. Old people and dogs are my friends.

@jorgeavila8297 9 лет назад

What...... What are frands?

@yukta_meow 8 лет назад

u don't know what are friends 😮😕😕

@pikachudabomb5026 8 лет назад

Yeah..what are they?!? 😕

@chipperFangirlsage 10 лет назад

all my friendships are doomed

@tamaraschembri9304 9 лет назад

Alice lindell i will be your friend

@nazahahessack3822 8 лет назад

SCREW FRIENDSHIP !!!!!!

@EveryMomentRedLetter 10 лет назад

What about Skype?

@nano9396 8 лет назад

less friends less bullshit keep your circle small

@InvisibleLovatic 10 лет назад

1 view? What

@Harwiisaur 10 лет назад

HAHAHAHAHAHA, i dont have friends to begin with .... :'(

@Harwiisaur 10 лет назад

***** thanks :)

@soniahunter194 10 лет назад

FIRST COMMENT

@Jo-bu3fr 10 лет назад

What about guys? Stop saying "she" so much

@jamesbellamy9328 10 лет назад

Do you all realize this is a reupload? Please, everyone, unsubscribe. We ought not condone this policy of reuploading old work.

@SanbaiSan 10 лет назад

But this brings an older video into greater visibility for people who haven't seen it yet - plenty of comments indicate this is their first time! Come on, it's a FREE VIDEO SERIES. Do you really need to bag on it? Have you made a multi-video series of your own that only uploads new content? Hmm? It takes a shit ton of work to make even the simplest of animatics, not to mention recordings and research. I wouldn't judge so harshly unless you were A) paying for the content or B) making something even better. Rather than complaining in the comments, take the next step and send a query to Wellcast themselves - I'm sure they'd let you know what's up if you, yanno, put a little effort into it :P