Westerner try to understand Weirdest Korean Gay Behaviors 

7 years living in another country and she can barely speak the country’s language. That’s too much patience.

​@@taoist32 they probably speak english

@@Theoneandonlybish They aren't the only people in the world. Blondie only socialize with English speakers or ask her partner to translete. It's typical behaviour from someone, who born in an English speaking country.

@@taoist32 u do realize not everyone can learn languages that easily right? Why are u dissing immigrants of any origin.

@@Jaszzzzzzz I’m not. It does take time to learn, but she has a Korean wife and has been living in Korea for the past 7 years. If she studied and immersed herself every day in the language it would take less than 7 years. For example, my cousin who only spoke English went to China to teach English to children. No previous knowledge of Cantonese. After 2 years he spoke fluently. Obviously, not everyone will learn fast, but 7 years is a bit long for the majority who are already living in their host country.

I know right? Love it. Lol

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same here LOL

you don’t need to be lgbtq to learn/listen to lgbtq content! we need more straight ppl who learn stuff about us too :D

Me too

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Tbh it's mostly international fans that ship idols together not koreans....korean fans videos are mostly just about the chemistry between certain members but not in a shipping manner, just in a realistic and cute way.....all ir at least the majority of the shippers come from other countries and are just delusional about that, so even if the idola themselves tell them to no do it or that they are dating a girl or whatever they still stick with their narrative and delusion

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111 likes🍀🥰 I won't ruin it

@@lemonjuice6715 😘

Awww thanks ❤️

@@LeztravelTogether Karisa seems like such a charismatic person 🙂. I'd love to know more about her personal experience as a queer plus size woman (I'm also plus size) in Korea.

@@renazbaghchaiy6278 I love that you commented about that because it's a CONSTANT struggle. I was honestly so worried about even doing this video because of it especially with the obsession of appearance here. We had to run right from work (teaching kindy all day) in the rain to do this vs. the other couples who were able to take the day off and get makeup done and stuff. I had a mini melt down before the show but luckily Eugene was there to calm me down. I think things have gotten better in the last few years but when I return to a western country or even Thailand for example I always feel so much better about myself because it's easier to shop and I feel more "normal"

Girls, don't worry about sets!!! It got tested. Worry about EVERYTHING you touch!!!!

@@littlescully3637 im a little germaphobe 😂 so when i touch something i wash my hands right away..

I used to hold my friend’s hands if I’m pretty close to them, so if it’s a public place we won’t get lost. I also cuddle with my friends girls and guys lol 😂

@@sherbear6625 yeaaah that. we dont put any malice (if thats the right spelling) to it.. if our mindset is set to "close friends" then theyre close friends, nothing more.. cause by the time you like someone, you're too embarassed to do all that skinship stuffs.. im a huggable person (thats what my friends say about it, theres something about my hug that's comforting) 😂 and i really like hugging the people im close with, but being in America, that changes everything.

@@clay_themultifan Ya when I was a kid I would hold hands with my guy best friend and some kids would be like oooh and I’m like nah he’s just a friend. Like there’s no reason to put any thought into it unless there’s PDA like kissing then it’s like ooooh ya they are more than friends type. I’m also a huggable person as well.

I think everyone knows that, it's just a meme picture

cómo se le dice en españa? 😊

@@borntobetogether Se le llama Churro va!

It goes to show that even in different countries girls are allowed to be touchy feely with their female friends but guys aren't allowed to so they don't.

@@sunnyv7745 It's not like men aren't "allowed to"...It's their own fault since most of them have fragile masculinity, the same reason why they invented the "No Homo" lol

It's funny you mention the drunk part because true, guys here usually aren't touchy bc the "don't wanna be gay", but last time I saw a group of drunk dudes, it was one guy's birthday" and they were singing and grinding onto each other and slapping each other's butts and giving deep looks... but they looked very... Assi. And I was like "Kinda nice to see them be so happily gay as totally not stereotypically gay dudes." They were more like the douche-y bro type and I was like good for them to also be proudly gay. Then my friend told me she knew them and they actually are the exact opposite of gay - homophobic a-holes and EXACTLY the douche-y bro types they looked like. One of them apparently always bragged about scoring milfs and so he did that evening aswell.... It's always those types that feel the need to be touchy with their bros so bad, but by god don't want to look gay or the world would end 😂😂 They are the type thinking "it's ok, I said no homo" 😅😅

I was clickbaited by that photo 🤣 Did they ever talk about them or they were only used as thumbnail?

@@Angel-jh6zp I replayed the whole thing and there was none of Lisoo 🤣

It's North Americans being weird on the crossing legs, men do that all the time in Europe xD

Yay^^ Thank youuu

We’ve been telling them it’s just cultural differences but they just wanna deny it 😭

I've never sit on a public toilet. Even at work. I hover, but also make sure the seat stayed clean after me.

Nope

Lol, same. I'm a bathroom loner, unless I'm drunk with girlfriends 🥂

Yeah, that’s too much dependence on her spouse. She needs to immerse herself in the language. I’m deaf so I cannot speak much,but sign language only comes in two different types. She needs to learn the language before she gets too old.

@@taoist32 right. That’s a lot of dependence and I feel like if you’re going to be living in a country that long and interacting with the people you should at least try to learn the language.

So how many languages do you speak fluently?

@@DollfaceLizkah 2 sans English for a matter of fact. But what does that have to do with anything? Am I hating or dissing her? I’m simply inquiring about how someone can live in a foreign country for 6 years and seemingly not know much of the language. It’s something to be discussed and this video definitely invites that discussion. Thanks.

She can read, understand easy Korean. It's not like she knows nothing.

Don't.

It's a part of this community's evolution in language usage, and is a generational thing. It is sometimes considered by the older generations to be offensive, because being called queer was a slur in their times. It has since been "reclaimed" and used by this community for the following reasons; Largely, it's to be more inclusive. We should be a unified community, and it allows people to feel more included despite their possible differences in attraction and identity. It means you can protect some of your identity by stating you're queer, without specifying an exact labeled attraction that may cause social rejection or just feel too personal for a person to openly display to anyone. It also means that you don't have to constantly come out to people if your attraction changes, a different label suits you better, or you decide to go unlabelled. This is quite common in our community, and so just going as 'queer' reduces internal questioning over a current label, having to keep others informed, the anxiety related to having to come out to everyone again, and any other things. As @This doodo kindly reminded me, 'queer' is also used by people because sexuality is a spectrum and people experience attraction in a multitude of ways that can't be described by a restrictive label or a preconceived idea of what fits into one "box" and not another. It's freeing. As they describe it, "Sometimes you feel no form of attraction to a gender for a long/short time and then it comes back. So you just label yourself as queer." It's just a nice, inclusive word. It allows you to define what being queer means and looks like for yourself, too. Hopes this helps! Thanks for asking :)

@@user-dg3ug7ny5d I thought you can’t change attraction like I thought it’s not a choice.

@@Numbll It's complicated to explain and do excuse my morning brain, but I'll try. Attraction isn't a choice; it's just something your brain does and the physiological responses that come with it. It is a choice to engage in an attraction, though, which is leading into what I meant. What I was referring to was the idea of 'compulsory heterosexuality,' a.k.a. "comp(ulsory)het(erosexuality)". Basically, it's how heteronormative social pressures impact peoples' abilities to engage in their true attraction/s, let alone realise them. E.g. many queer women experience this and are forced into cis, hetero relationships with men. Despite not being into men, the heteronormative social pressures represented by the dominant BVAs of family, friends, and greater society push them into the relationship. Often comphet is internalised, meaning that people who experience it are so deeply entrenched in its impacts that they aren't aware of it until they figure it out (often much later in life), if they figure it out. So by me saying "your attraction changes" (I can see how it's confusing, possibly reductive, language), what I mean is the internal process of how someone's attraction is perceived, as in, you can discuss attraction as a "before and after" of understanding comphet and recognising it within yourself and your present and/or past relationship/s. There is no language to distinguish between this recognition and the quality of a relationship and the experience you get out of it, before recognising comphet compared to after. So "attraction changes" is the best way I can put it, because it kinda is. The brain patterns of those affected by comphet would show the body "lying" to itself by creating untrue feelings of attraction, and so you would count that pre-recognition stage to post-recognition as a "change in attraction". Literally because your body can fake attraction, but it just isn't felt as true as the "real experience". E.g. people affected by comphet feel like their relationship doesn't live up to what others explain attraction is: breathless at their entrance into a room, bright, floaty feeling, a source of life and energy, etc. After realising comphet, leaving that affected relationship, and possibly entering a new relationship that soothes their true attraction, people experience what is said when attraction is mutual and complete. I hope this makes sense. Ideas like this are still without proper language to explain it and I don't have a Doctorate in queer studies, so this is all me recognising patterns in peoples' relationship experiences and trying to explain it in my own language I can understand, and that can best convey what I mean to others.

@@user-dg3ug7ny5d You explain well to me because since lgbt is well known right now there are some people who hop on and say they are… but they are not and for me that’s very disrespectful. So when I saw “attraction can change” I was huh? So now I understand where that was coming from.

@@Numbll Thank you for listening and asking for an explanation. It's important to weed out bigots by questioning what they mean, so thanks again. I hope it was informative :)

Because when you go solo, a troll may find you ;)

I only ask when I already knew that the line will be long so I can talk with somebody while waiting. But would go alone if no other one needs to pee. Another opportunity is, that I asked I girl to join me if I think she would be harassed if I leave her alone or be scared of me one.

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