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What’s inside the Shanghai Marriage Market (ft. foreign friend searching for love) 

miranda wang
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Curious about Chinas largest Marriage Market, I am bringing a friend to experience it in real-time, where local Shanghainese revealed hidden aspects of its dynamics and matchmaking culture.
Beneath the surface, I reflected on how this market showcases many social issues in China, including a historically low birth rate, aging population, and segregation between urban Hu Kou and rural Hu Kou (city of residency).
Thank you for being a part of my journey :-) welcome to share any personal thoughts, experiences, and suggestions.
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0:00 intro
0:19 pre-market food for thought with guest who learns Mandarin
2:00 marriage market reveal, what's on display
2:42 I was not allowed to film this…
4:41 most important thing in this market
6:15 social issue reflection
#china #travel #shanghai #vlog #culture #society

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15 июн 2024

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Комментарии : 62   
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
Comment below what interesting social issue / phenomenon you see from China or other countries! I want all of us to learn and spread new perspectives instead of speaking from cultural stereotypes. If you share this video to other friends/family who might be curious about China, I would also appreciate! 🎉
@rogeriosoares6281
@rogeriosoares6281 21 день назад
🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷 Entrevista Brasileiros
@JustaKarenDiscoveredTheIntrnet
@JustaKarenDiscoveredTheIntrnet Месяц назад
Ali is Punching the Air
@Xochit2012
@Xochit2012 Месяц назад
😂😂😂
@sneak916
@sneak916 Месяц назад
Ali is in his room listening to Drake all day. That’s why we haven’t gotten a new vid 😂
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
😂
@rcBorneo
@rcBorneo Месяц назад
Poor Ali 😂
@rashiidabdulhamiid456
@rashiidabdulhamiid456 18 дней назад
Trust me Ali Is More Chemistry Then this Natural Guy And i hate when things " its just business"😅.
@epophom9080
@epophom9080 Месяц назад
Hi Miranda! it was worth watching to know unique culture that exist we were unaware of. Anyway nice vlog and keep going.
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
Thank you! glad you enjoyed it!
@ivanwong8528
@ivanwong8528 Месяц назад
Such an eye opening video and wholesome video!🥰🥰 Well done Miranda! I've no idea the market existed, even though I visited Shanghai back in 2017. 😅😅 Keep up the good work, Miranda! You're an awesome vlogger with lots of potential! 加油!
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
Thnak you Ivan for the support! Apparently this market has been around for decades, but has gained more popularity due to the only-children born in the 80/90s growing up to be adults in recent years, so their patients are extra worried about them not getting married... Glad you liked the video!!
@ivanwong8528
@ivanwong8528 Месяц назад
@@mirandawng You’re always welcome Miranda☺️☺️ oh wow! That’s absolutely incredible!!! I guess that’s the typical Chinese family mindset. I get pressured by my mum and other family members all the time🙄🙄, so I can definitely relate to it!! I definitely did!😀😀 thanks so much once again for filming such an informative video! Don’t stop making videos!!! I eagerly await your next video hehe. Until then please take care and may you have a good night ahead! 晚安!
@ripsaw7521
@ripsaw7521 Месяц назад
great vid
@rogeriosoares6281
@rogeriosoares6281 21 день назад
Bruna Miniquelli is very famous in Brazilian China, she is the presenter of Chinese products 🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷 on the orange app known here in Brazil
@Rhinozzzz
@Rhinozzzz Месяц назад
Nice job getting the video footage even though the "sellers" didn't want their wares advertised! LOL 🙂
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
Hahaha thank you ☺️ I did feel like I was walking through a black market of covert business instead of a matchmaking market in this one tbh lol
@envitech02
@envitech02 6 часов назад
Welcome to the marriage market where relationship is a business proposal.
@leroystea8069
@leroystea8069 Месяц назад
Thank you Miranda for sharing this unique experience. I could tell in your video that many gave you uncomfortable stares because you were filming. So I live in the U.S. In Michigan. I'm 70 years old, not working (basically living off of my social security and a small pension) and have an apartment. I was married for 34 years, we opted not to have children and unfortunately she passed away almost 2 years ago from illness. It has been such a strange life for me ever since. In a sense trying to rediscover who I am without her. I have friends from India living in the U.S. where family is very important to them and they seem very happy. In my neighborhood it is an interesting mix of people. Mostly keeping to themselves, mothers with children but no husband, women who are single living a "party/have fun" lifestyle, children living with grandparents. So curious. I really like you as a person. And appreciate what you try to share. Very different from my perspective. Stay blessed my friend. May you find that which you seek and may Joy find you.🤗❤
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
Thank you so much Mr. Leroy. I am sorry to hear about your loss of your beloved wife, and that's a beautiful story of you trying to 'rediscover yourself' and being so positive. I just checked out your channel too, and you seem like such a joyful person to be around with. Also interesting the hear about the Indian families having such diverse lifestyles in the US that make them happy, goes to prove that a good life takes many shapes and forms :-) have a blessed day! 😇
@businessdoubt
@businessdoubt Месяц назад
I'd be fascinated to see what happens when someone uses the agency to find a suitor for their son or daughter. Imagine bringing the suitor home and introducing them with, "This is who I picked out for you." The reactions would surely be interesting. I'm curious if it's usually the parents who hire the agency to find a match for their child or if the individuals themselves are the ones looking. Thank you for the video; interesting look on marriage in different parts of the world.
@efrentribiana7106
@efrentribiana7106 17 дней назад
New subscriber here from the Philippines 🇵🇭 after watching Ali's vlog. You and Ali look good together you're like future husband and wife material. Looking forward to your second date. GBU and take care always!
@SaltyTubers
@SaltyTubers Месяц назад
In the US it's more like a faint glimmer of hope for grandchildren. I will say that there are MANY cultures here in the US and many of them value family above all else, so perhaps pockets of "guess who you're marrying!" do exist.
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
I like the “faint glimmer of hope” in the US, I might need to steal that phrase if my parents start asking me about their grandkids 🤣
@SaltyTubers
@SaltyTubers Месяц назад
@@mirandawng 🤣 Well, you have a LOT going for you and it's really good to find someone that adds to that instead of subtracts from it. 🙏
@zelonirak3435
@zelonirak3435 Месяц назад
4th content out! No pressure Miranda but looking forward to the next 1000 vlogs.😛
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
I thought I counted one more zero. Thanks for the push 🫡
@lusteph
@lusteph Месяц назад
My two favorite people!! I want to tour the marriage market with you too (or maybe we can join hahhaa) 😂
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
Hahahah you’re in the market with us in spirit!! ❤
@Kevin_Huynh0207
@Kevin_Huynh0207 Месяц назад
Miranda is like the perfect girl. She doesn't seem like a materialistic person. She is living the simple life.
@alyonapetrova694
@alyonapetrova694 Месяц назад
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@sourosa5808
@sourosa5808 Месяц назад
You are so lovely Miranda ❤
@nilupulmanodya3681
@nilupulmanodya3681 Месяц назад
🥰🥰
@jimlam227567
@jimlam227567 3 дня назад
A lovely girl ❤
@ollif_tattoo
@ollif_tattoo Месяц назад
Me and my friend passed that marriage market in people’s park recently… two old guys were shouting to us trying to get our attention and one young dude even aproached us asking my friend to be his gf 😂
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
Omg that’s wild bahaha, goes to show how desperate people can be in the market even to foreign visitors passing by who don’t speak their language 😂
@leonardoaguilerahonduras2067
@leonardoaguilerahonduras2067 Месяц назад
Succesful in Marriage Market is my next goal after my import investment from China to Latin America ^^
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
Well sounds like you’ve got a plan! Godspeed 😎
@leonardoaguilerahonduras2067
@leonardoaguilerahonduras2067 Месяц назад
@@mirandawng You are right ^^ Godspeed!
@zelonirak3435
@zelonirak3435 Месяц назад
Bummer, i was waiting to see if you would be surprised to see your parents in the marriage market. That would've made a hell of a content 😂😂😂
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
LOL i would ask my parents to disown me on the spot with all due respect. hide me FOREVER 😂
@zoltanfabiansk5795
@zoltanfabiansk5795 5 дней назад
What do you recommend for a foreigner from Europe who wants to find a girlfriend in/from China? Thanks
@rolansmith9951
@rolansmith9951 14 дней назад
Your so beautiful 😻
@bloodluster7086
@bloodluster7086 Месяц назад
I was there for a summer internship in 2015, unless you are a chad or very wealthy, finding a wife in Shanghai is hard, the fertility rate in Shanghai is lower than South Korea.
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
interesting, you think shanghai's fertility rate is really lower than Korea? I'm interning at the biggest maternity hospital in Shanghai, and we have patients at max capacity giving birth all year around.
@daisybarba4999
@daisybarba4999 Месяц назад
Subscribe 👍❤
@Kevin_Huynh0207
@Kevin_Huynh0207 Месяц назад
If I had to ask someone to go on date with me, I would just ask Miranda. Why should family get involved? 😀
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
Hmmm, you would ask me if you want to ask someone to go on a date with you? Am i the parent? 🤣 jk.
@Kevin_Huynh0207
@Kevin_Huynh0207 Месяц назад
@mirandawng No no no. I would ask you directly to go on a date. I don't need parents to help me.
@3g3q5
@3g3q5 Месяц назад
That pressure even exist if asians go abroad. Keep in mind that you are marrying a family not an independent person.
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
Asians do share similar cultures! But I think the 'marrying a whole family' concept doesn't apply to many young people now, especially those who have lived overseas :)
@sleepyjoe4529
@sleepyjoe4529 Месяц назад
Chinese girls are easy if you're foreigner -- especially if you're white. My friend taught English there for a few years and he said he hooked up with over 100+ girls. Sometimes 2 girls a day lol
@manub.n6223
@manub.n6223 Месяц назад
This is 100% true ESL white teachers get laid like anything
@IRBBM
@IRBBM 29 дней назад
MIRANDA have u forgot about ali
@ninjacat8372
@ninjacat8372 Месяц назад
啊啊啊,那个老毕等太坏了,故意毁坏您的财物,气得我跺脚脚,我们上海人真没有这样的
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
哈哈哈,谢谢你可爱的评论~后来也遇到上海大叔主动给我当讲解员,还是非常友好的:)
@geodive5542
@geodive5542 Месяц назад
“Local” yet you have an American accent. Lol…
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
It’s possible to pick up the accent - my TOEFL teacher with perfect American accent from China has never been abroad 😂
@gn7867
@gn7867 Месяц назад
Ummmmm………Japanese women #1! Chinese women……no comment.
@mirandawng
@mirandawng Месяц назад
#1 in terms of loyalty? obedience? looks? All women (and men) in these countries are different, don’t you think?
@manub.n6223
@manub.n6223 Месяц назад
@@mirandawngDifferent until they see a white ESL teacher 😂😂
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