What are Godly men looking for? Q&A with husband 

It's nice to see you so calm about it at 37. I'm 23 and never been in a relationship I was too busy chasing different idols and stuck up "no girl was worthy of me" but since I've been saved I really want a relationship but it's easy to be impatient so it's nice to see you so calm about being older and still waiting with patience.

@@vivaeuropa Remember, its God's time, not our time. I always say this to my elders when they pressure me to find a girlfriend With that said, I'm still open with knowing more people and giving a chance to girl I come across as suitable partner. I try my best to avoid places sluts "roam" especially tinder, church is a great place to get to know new people and find your future partner

Thank you! 🙏🙏

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@@NowBloom how old are you if I may ask

New subscriber btw! 😁

New gf btw!

Love you honey 🍯💕🙏

Cute 🥰

I love you, too, Adam. 😘

@@aramisy.cajigas744 😂

@@NowBloom You kinda look like Dua Lipa the first time I saw you and the second too

Yes this is so relatable! It would be lovely to have a video all about modesty and being firm and getting our self esteem from God and not other men.

I’m going to watch the modesty video!

@@TP-hu2yg As a Godly man personally it's the first thing I look for in a women is if she honors God with how she dresses. It's a very important first impression and dressing revealing is enough to completely write her off just to be safe because if she dresses to create lust in men then she probably is dealing with other problems like self worth, pornography addiction, still promiscuous etc.

@@vivaeuropa wow thank you for your response!

Hi. I hope you already got married in these 2 years, but if not, the problem is not in modest clothes. And anyway, a more "attractive" style of clothing does not mean short and fitted clothes, but I think you already know that. I am in the same situation, we really live in a world that has lost its values, with the distance from God we become nothing more than rational animals, because we already subject our soul to superficiality. For a long time I thought that the reasons why I didn't get married were either physical, or that the world has degraded in many ways and it's hard to find a truly Christian man. But... actually I had many unresolved traumas from my childhood that programmed me to attract toxic people and full of emotional wounds, because I myself was full of wounds. I'm not saying it's your case, because I don't know you. But I leave this comment in case it will ever be useful to someone, we always attract what we are and often we block our own paths because we have an emotional baggage behind us that needs to be thrown away. We have to imagine what we want in a partner and first, be ourselves in this way. Otherwise, we will attract all kinds of people who either do not respect us, or cannot love, or are manipulative or simply inappropriate. When we accept and love ourselves, asking God to be able to accept us, as He accepts us, we hope that we will also meet that right partner. Moreover, if we tend to idolize people, we should know that God will never send us a man whom we will turn into an idol, into our god. That was my problem, the trauma programmed me to idolize people, and the "prize" was ... exactly, a narcissist. Good luck, all the best.

It's very important to find a godly man. I have seen many Christians no longer going to church after marrying a non-Christian. Remember, its God's time, not our time. I have been single for all my life, my focus has been on self improvement and building my faith. Because while waiting for the right person to come, you have to be at your best to welcome that person. And just recently there is a new girl just started joining our church and the cell group I'm overseeing, even tho I'm not particularly attracted to her, we still chat and hangout some times. I certain can see a lot of positive responses from her in our interaction, tho she kinda hinted that she isn't attracted to me as well but we know if the only measurement is attraction, once that is gone, the relationship will fall apart. So we instead focus on something more fundamentals like our principles, values, chemistry, teamwork, faith...

I am godly man..where are you from..

Our pleasure, Veronica! We appreciate your kind words! Yes, keep waiting on Him, He's got you now until forever! God bless you!

Good point

Why and how exactly did you tear him down if I can ask. I don't correlate how low self esteem = tearing down someone else in the mindset.

@@user-tk4qd8dj1p Because we project our insecurities on others. In my case, I brought the prejudices of my family into my relationship.

Hey, just to encourage you a little. Delay is not denial and if God kept you in a place he sure knows and will answer you in due time, try to use this period to serve him and develop yourself

Good for you! God is the way!

Where you look is very important! Church, ministries, missions, weekend church camps, and Christian apps are the best spots imo

same heree!! :))

Aw thank you so much 😍🙏

Such a wonderful comment, thank you!!

I agree, I’d love to hear Sarah’s story about how she got to this stage. Especially after watching a video on the enemy whispering insecurities to her at a young age. How did you overcome all of this ?

Thank you, Natalie, for your awesome message, and for sharing with us! What a great respond you say when the enemy tries to discourage you! We are agreeing with you that the man God has for you is coming! Its funny you said "Eagles and Seagulls" because in 5 mins I'm releasing a new video called "Eagles or Roosters" over on my channel @Nowsoar, check it out, you will like it! God bless you, and thank you for watching our videos and kind words! Adam & Sarah

I thought they didn’t let you guys worship Jesus over there?

@@tvhead7074 Thanks for your caring. We can worship Jesus in China, so many church build up in China and so many christian these years. The public church is totally open, but the family church was controlled in China, the family church worship secretly. During the pandemic time, the public church was forbidden to open, but the family church still keep worship every sunday, and not let government knows, we have many ways to worship God even sometimes in the rough situation.Pls don't worry. 😄

@@margaretjon3066 you’re welcome. I feel bad for you guys. Your population deserves a better government.

@@tvhead7074 It's complicated, there're so many heresy in the name of Jesus here misleading people, our government try to make all people safe, maybe others feel bad for us, but sometimes God use this way to protest us the real christian and the people. It's really hard to explain, but I think our government also try their best to get the balance.

@@margaretjon3066 I understand, you have to say what you have to say in order to be kept safe from CCP