What Are Women Really Thinking When They Ask For Divorce? From A High Conflict Divorce Coach

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KAREN MCMAHON is a High Conflict Divorce Strategist, Certified Divorce Coach and Founder of Journey Beyond Divorce.
She began divorce coaching in 2010 after recognizing that the pain of her divorce led her on a transformational journey into a powerful and unexpected new life. Karen leads a national team of divorce coaches in supporting men and women around the world to become calm, clear and confident as they navigate divorce.
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@timizo691 11 дней назад

This conversation just confirms how spoiled our society has become. Women don’t feel heard or validated. Life is just so hard for modern women. They have to put dishes in a dishwasher or laundry in a machine that washes it for them. Do you think women during world war 2 cared about validation. People have unrealistic expectations on what marriage is. My ex wife ignored my needs and didn’t validate me for years. But I didn’t divorce her for it. I made a commitment. For better or worse. Richer or poorer. In sickness and health. She left me after I took care of her as she went through breast cancer treatment. This society is BROKEN!

@Dr.Drakken_ 10 дней назад

💯 roles of men have been defined for centuries. Women’s roles have been hijacked by feminism. Never before has it been easier to be a wife. Maids, robotic vacuums, instacart grocery delivery, and on and on Meanwhile men are asked to help out more and more around the home

@StradTrumpeter 10 дней назад

We have to take women and society as they are, not some idealized version of what we want them to be. So either opt out or learn the game. One thing I’ve learned is marriage / relationships aren’t the finish line but the starting point. Be prepared to constantly be on your game or get screwed. This kind of sucks. It’s also reality. Plan your life accordingly.

@DeadCat-42 10 дней назад

My ex didn't do housework. She didn't pay bills. She didn't have sex.. I worked two full-time jobs and cooked her a meal every night. Sometimes to tired to eat it. When I wasn't able to maintain a high salary, she split. Some of my friends are single dads. The ex is no where and none received and assistance. One literally pays child support for years even though he has had his son with no contact with the mom. He's 13 .. he wouldn't know her if she walked in the door. They arrested him at when he didn't pay... $27.... Another friend married a women with two children had a baby she left him with all three . Never saw her again. . Dating is dead., women wr t after the top 1% of men choosing the bad boy and now only bad boys date. The good men I know have up years ago..

@KennethGreen-hk9hb 9 дней назад

Any man that's even taking the time to watch this and even more to comment just proves. You were not the problem. Be strong brothers...

@Dr.Drakken_ 9 дней назад

@@KennethGreen-hk9hb 100%!

@ma8839 10 дней назад

“Mom, why did you leave dad?” - “Because he wasn’t spending enough time with us, so now you only see him half of your childhood because this is healthier.” WTF? This was so bad.

@DVul 10 дней назад

This is justifying poor communication by women because they think they are being clear but usually not from the mans perspective.. thats a you problem... not a gaslighting men problem

@StradTrumpeter 10 дней назад

I took it as more explaining than justifying. And even if it is justifying at the end of the day it doesn’t really matter; if your wife fits this mold you’re dealing with a poor communicator who let things fester for years and now everyone’s life has blown up. Maybe there’s still time to salvage things. Maybe there isn’t. But figuring out whose shitty communication style allowed this to happen is probably not productive at this point. You are where you are. If finding a way to blame her makes you feel better then enjoy but it doesn’t do much for the bottom line of what you’re facing nor does it give you actionable information. Unless it’s actionable information for a new woman.

@generationscalleywag 10 дней назад

Just make divorce penalties for both parties expensive and harsh. Specifically for Women with children.

@PaulSullivan828 7 дней назад

Any man that leaves a marriage should pay 50% of his earnings to his exwife!

@dougposten 10 дней назад

Women that cannot be honest with themselves cannot be honest with their husbands. Expecting their husbands to fill the empty void within themselves that they experience on a daily basis is not possible. And because women cannot process and understand their own emotions, it creates issues within a marriage. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment - we make a vow and will keep that vow until our dying day: we are willing to listen (and not try to solve problems), we are willing to do anything necessary as we are committed to our family. Yet women are not committed to their vows and their family - they are committed to their momentary emotional state.

@StradTrumpeter 10 дней назад

It sounds like we men need to do a better job of vetting the women we make that commitment towards.

@martybarnardmb71 11 дней назад

Mgtow

@StradTrumpeter 10 дней назад

Mgtow doesn’t advertise. Men just arrive.

@arniep740 11 дней назад

Thanks for this video. Very relatable. WHen I thought about the question "what does your spouse do to make you feel loved?" it occured to me that the most loving think she did was to tell me she wanted a divorce. Once the shock wore off and I had time to reflect on our marriage, I realized that I had been very dissatisfied for over 10 years of the 20 years we were married. I should have divorced her years ago but did not have the courage to pull the lever. SHe did and now my life is so much more relaxed and drama-free since I don't live with her and her schtick anymore. Thanks for your videos, Rachael!

@maciejkolosko4950 10 дней назад

What burns my ass is the statement that women think they have asked for something , they feel they did not get it and then it is the guy that is the bad guy for not reading minds and making corrections based on what she thought she said and now feels unheard

@CallsItLikeISeizeIts 7 дней назад

Single,parent homes are most destructive construct in our society today, no matter if mom or dad.

@AdrianRif 9 дней назад

I can see why a lot of good men are going their own way after divorce. Many tried their best, but to them they think their wives betrayed them. It seems they are being punishing for not understanding or picking up what their wives wanted.

@DeadCat-42 10 дней назад

$ $ $ $ $ $ $...

@gaspingfortruth 10 дней назад

MEN. GET. A. LAWYER.

@JonMartin-c2v 11 дней назад

What are the chances of recovery after that conversation?

@soundjunkiea22 10 дней назад

Hmmm my only thing I got out of this was “Conflict Avoidance” and this opens my eyes why my ex NEVER wanted to talk about her unhappiness even AFTER I was served notice. So sad. My advice….examine your wife carefully before you propose. She was raised in a non-loving alcoholic abusive parent family and learned never to communicate without an abusive threat to her. It breaks my heart she would not or could not communicate her unhappiness with me until it was too late.

@DreamLife-bd7rz 5 дней назад

Tnx for sharing this❤️❤️❤️

@thereactionnurse 9 дней назад

Thank you for this video. I thought I had to get back with my ex so my kids would not be damaged by the divorce. I have seen that I have a better relationship with my kids now than I did when I married. I guess I have learned from this video that even if I am divorced, I now have a better opportunity to be there for my kids than I was before dealing with an emotionally unavailable woman I was always anxious around her. Thank you for this video it is very freeing.

@user-dn5uw3el4j 9 дней назад

The only options are not have conflict and damage the children or get a divorce so the conflict won’t damage the children. How about both people self reflecting, taking responsibility for the negatives they are bringing, finding the origin of the problems and learning new healthier behaviours. Not only does that not damage the children by separating but it also models to your children how to repair problems. Rather than running away and ignoring problems.

@Dr.Drakken_ 9 дней назад

ONLY thing I dont agree with is the RUNNING away from the marriage commitment. Long gone are the days were two couples based it out and realized BOTH were responsible for current situation. So just RUN from your flaws, divorce, fix flaws by yourself or with someone else. Forget the family you just upended

@stz03 11 дней назад

Insightful collab and great questions Rachel.

@jasonsmith2881 10 дней назад

So what about when the woman leaves, but the man is the one making himself available to the intimate communication but the woman is shut down? Literally 18mo of couples counseling trying to get her to talk and be truthful, then she leaves calls me the narc and then absolutely refuses to reconcile for 18mo before completing the divorce, finishes the alienation of the adult children from me. All the while I’m pleading for the relationship, communication and being together. She bought into the victim and ‘control’ narrative and convinced everyone it was true, but counselors who actually knew said the opposite.

@StradTrumpeter 10 дней назад

Walk away my dude. Find yourself a woman who wants you.

@jasonsmith2881 10 дней назад

@@StradTrumpeter Yep she’s gone. Already on the hunt.

@StradTrumpeter 10 дней назад

@@jasonsmith2881that’s the spirit! I need to do a better job of not dwelling on my ex too much, which has become the real challenge. I want to keep it close enough to where I don’t make the same mistakes but not so close it colors everything. That’s the challenge nowadays.

@KennethGreen-hk9hb 9 дней назад

This is BS. Just justifying ĥeadiing to the streets