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Thanks so much for the video Jessica, why if u are married to a man & love he with everything inside of you & when ever you people have a little misunderstanding & he keeps on telling or compelling you with his ex & at the same time telling you he can never be with you & u have come to realize that he's not available for you when you need him so u decided to be unavailable to save yourself from another heart beat.
@@rejoicereeves1749 No man will marry a woman he doesn’t love accept is the woman who married him. Please how was the relationship before marriage, if it was perfect then you are the right place. Don’t complain. That’s how marriage is. You are destroying it , if you become emotionally unavailable to him. He doing what he’s doing is the man you married, so it’s up to you to accept that and let him live his life and also focus on yours and live. That’s how marriage should be. If there are issues if you love him, stay… and learn and improve cause it wouldn’t end. And if he tells you he doesn’t love you, just understand and ask him now what you guys do?
Don't pursue emotionally unavailable people or you will get hurt badly. These people won't care about you or your feelings. You will always feel you are on the edge fighting for something.
Respectfully, I think it's bad advice to tell people to pursue emotionally unavailable individuals. I was emotionally unavailable for a period of a few years due to past relationship trauma. Some men would try to persistently pursue me even though I said upfront I was only up for platonic friendship, not interested in a romantic/emotional connection, etc. They would always try to convince me to change my mind and it made me feel a deep feeling of disgust towards them, that ultimately pushed me away. I could only become emotionally available again after healing from the trauma, doing therapy, and spending time alone. Being in a relationship is not ideal for healing, as you will only inflict pain on the other person and continue the cycle of trauma. Emotionally unavailable people can be alluring to some because of the "challenge" aspect, but it is a fool's errand to pursue this
Well however much it's not a good idea to Persue sm1 who is emotionally unavailable... I think it's a good thing towards that person who has that problem more so if the person persuing is mature and genuine in that even if this person completely builds a strong wall u know that thy have a problem more than them bein proud.. It helps the emotionally unavailable person to know that sm1 out there still believes that thy are worthy of something good
My ex was emotional unavailable, It hit me hard but i think i became a little bit clingy and She quit. But my advice Is, dont Chase an un emotional unavailable woman, its draining and useless..
Don't pursue such a woman, it's too much work, and in the process, you the man will end up getting hurt. Leave her alone, if she needs you, she'll come around, if not, let her be. In the meantime, go find a woman who won't make you feel that you're on trial.
I can’t stay in such relationships… Making such relationships work depends on the guy… Relationships works when both parties work together to achieve a goal
What if the wall she’s built is to protect herself from the man who has constantly gave her the bricks to build that wall? Nothing from her past before him, but all the bricks were given to her to build that wall by him. She tries and tries to take bricks off to get rid of this wall, but he finds them and brings them back to her AND still expects her to be emotionally available to him 24/7. What about that?
I think J is talking about this. If a man hurt you several times, you need to be emotionally strong and move on. This is to men who met women who are hurt by another man. I pray you get me. 🙏🏿
I was in 3 toxic relationships back to back to back. And I am here to tell you trying to heal a broken woman is a complete waste of time. Do NOT do it. You will only be left feeling like them in the end, BROKEN!!
Someone shouldn't ignore you or treat you that bad because of her bad past. We all have those.. am in that kind of a situation been through hell and still manage to be with this new girl and treat her so well but she ignores me. So am meeting up with her today I will bring this up one last time if she can't change that would be the last time I try
Women assume that all men will treat them bad that’s why they don’t take relationships seriously even when you do. I would advise, stop trying to chase her. I know it hurts but it makes no sense to stay with someone who doesn’t love you.
I have been with one for 3 and a half years. Trust me people, you will end up with pain no matter how hard you try to fix things. This video perfectly makes sense, I wish I had seen this earlier
Im so happy i saw the red flags 🚩 so early even tho she wasted my 2 years .. I placed her on monitoring last year September of which I told her all she’s doing that pulls us backward..gave her time to evaluate this but bro she doesn’t deserve me in the end.. Broke up with her this month & I’m happy I did.. Someone I intend to marry,,, I would ve died
18,40,I know these women I was married to one for 30 years and met one just the same ,cold and secretive ,always insisting “just friends” waste of time 😢
Dont take it personal. Keep your head up ..and especially if she admits all these points about hherself let her be. Believe her. Wish her well and keep your dignity. Standing by her may prove a lot or get her more scared and officially break up
As an emotionally unavailable woman, I've just come to terms with the fact i might be alone forever coz i wouldn't want my partner to walk on eggshells around me and feel insecure but i also don't know how to accommodate them and their needs
wasted my 6 years of life on her...I got hurt eventually..Gentlemen Run when you sense it..Your effort should be on someone that she receprocates your love at some point ..may be 6 months Is enough I guess
Yeahhh when they sense you.. They will say ohh thank god I have no love intrest in my life.. Thank god I have a no girlfriend in my life to give her time They pushed away with in a second..that's the most painful situation ever you feel side out.. Nothing to mean theme.. All the love care effort are gone n they know it still... Emotional unavailable people are worst than enemies
Point 6 is my issue with my girl! I know that I can get through to her because I have before. Then she retreats. But, since she does come my way, I keep her on occupied longer each time. I have to tell you, I stay with this one because she has a deep soul and I like to do hard things period! Either way it ends up, I'll be stronger than before. But I think it'll be positive for both of us because I don't quit on things and people I value. And I'm undefeated.
Just broke up from an emotionally unavoidable woman, it was not clear at the start but after 4 months it was obvious, no emotion at all, arctic in the bedroom. We parted and got back but it was just as bad, it was painful in the end. The only advice I can offer is not to get involved, you will not win. The unavailable person must heal themselves before getting involved, you cannot change them, if they do not want to change they never will and it will end in tears.
I'm in a mess. I'm asking a girl out for over 2months, we've gone on a date and it was perfect. We discuss constantly and she's quite chatty, we have quite deep conversations...but she says she's not sure( that she is too much in her head) and she never texts me first. I always have to initiate the conversation, but when I do she is very very willing. I'm just totally confused. I think she is the one and that is evidenced by the fact I'm still even talking to her,if it was another girl I'll have let go long ago. I'm really frustrated 😣. I have finally decided to give her distance and haven't spoken to her for a while, cuz I want her to initiate to know if she's actually into me. At this point I'm moving away but I've still got that voice in the back of my mind. I meet a lot of girls but there is none which I have connected to like her...
Focus on yourself! Sounds like you are kind and that's a great start, improve your life however you can. If you are confused, she's not the one! I also went through a situation recently and these were my takeaways.
Bingo that last half.. give her distance. While stuff will hardly be balanced, feelings is one thing that should be reciprocated.. If she says she's too much believe her. A great convo can lead to you just being a great friend. She has to show interest as well If you have told her your intentions that your looking for a girlfriend it hasn't registered and she just want friendship, weigh it and see if you can tolerate that. Just remember you can't force someone to like or love you.
In as much as I would want you to keep initiating the conversation, I also want you to know that it is a futile effort that won't yield the desired result you need. Just don't give her space, rather, let her go. It'll be very painful but the earlier the better! Sorry Bro
Try to be unavailable for sometime.. scarcity depicts value and attractiveness. And sometimes been too nice can something else. Be kind but dont be niece.
I'm a woman and my personal opinion is that she's not interested in you and just using you to pass the time, and potentially a bit of ego boost, whenever you reach out to her. If she were truly interested, you wouldn't feel confused or unsure. She's not that into you. You're chasing her because you probably have an idealized version of her built up in your head, not facing reality, and potentially have some attachment issues of your own which are causing you to latch on to someone who doesn't show that they genuinely like you. Good luck untangling from this, it's in your best interest
I need help. I am EU and my partner is Codependent. I am starting to believe that we are trauma bonded. We Are both good people individually and I believe if we were both healed we would be amazing. Starting couples counseling soon.
Don't hold on tight. 6:11 hold on loosely if you decide to hold on. This is for the #1 reason. Holding on tight is like smothering or drowning. Holding on lightly shows you arent going to abandon but you aren't going to force yourself on her either.
I wrote my comment, b4 I listened to your presentation.If at any poin, My woman is unavailable emotionally,why should bother, when in my heart, I know I have dotted my i's and crossed My T's.A woman is the factor determining the live of a relationship....What if her heart is gone from me... Would going for her, having done the "necessary",.be needful?
I found a woman who seems similar to this. I like her but she gives me signals like she rarely replied to me than before. We dated once and even hooked up once. After that, she feels cold again and unavailable.. I dont know what our status is as of now...
She has become my ex and she keeps calling and texting and I like her very much that I couldn’t love another. But she doesn’t want to open up or commit. I feel I may waste my time but it has become difficult for me to move on.
So im in a weird area. I met her online and shes telling me everything i want to hear and more but she says shes emotionally unavailable and hinted not ready for a relationship i think..... she texts a few texts a day and dissappears, sometines misses some days.. she told me shes not really the talking type and she works often... but she told me shes an honest person and tells me if another guy is trying to talk to her... but its getting exhausting its been like 6months and this is getting really confusing and draining but i cant do any better shes the best i can get.. need advice bc i have shit luck
Thank your Jessica, now I understand better, I involved myself in similar situations some months ago, she wasn't readily available for any serious discussion but I love her and I want to continue,....Thank you..... Continue to grow in wisdom and more revelational knowledge.
Please I fall in love with my female friend but she told me that she is in a serious relationship but she can stay away from me she sometimes behave as if she accepted my proposal but turns back and tell me that I missed interpreted her please what can I do?
stop trying to trick her into a relationship by trying to be the horse whisperer. Just because they are emotionally unavailable with you doesn't mean that they are generally emotionally unavailable. She just can't tell openly that she is not interested in you.
I have partner with these problems. Yes, its hard and needs effort and time. But other way, the love you get is amazing. Its like moving a big rock from the top of some mountain. At first its really hard to push. But when it falls, it fall so fast and powerful.
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no thanks....not pursuing anyone emotionally unavailable... waste of time and effort..go get someone better who IS emotionally available is the best thing you can do gentlemen
Anyone out there please RESPOND TO ME: I’m in this situation rn and it’s burin me out and yes I still love and want her but damn it feels like she dnt feel the same about me and still cares for her ex . Idk what to do. Should I keep tryin or just let it go? She’s done some good but also has done som bad . Pleas help thank you
The best thing to do is to move on bro. Focus on being the best version of yourself (gym, your clothing and finances). Dare her to find better. Let her go because effectively that’s how they end up wanting you more in the end.
When a man is able to let them go. Let’s say they get back with the ex. Eventually it will flop. If it didn’t work out the first time, I doubt it will work out again. Focus on yourself heavy and then she will come crawling back wanting your piece. Don’t block her, just get yourself out of social media and go Mia for awhile working on yourself.
So exhausting. I should have known when one of her friends pulled me aside and said "you might have some walls to knock down" She was basically whispering in my ear (you're fucked. Get out now before you get hurt).
This is piss poor advice. People, you should be asking yourself why you don’t feel worthy enough for a whole and healed individual! If you’re chasing after an emotionally unavailable person, there’s bigger issues a foot.
Hi Jessica. Sounds very much like my ex! She recently finished me out of the blue. In September! She’s started going through the early menopause in early 2022 ( Hello everyone Me (34)and my ex avoidant girlfriend (47 Yr old ) split up on September 12th after 5 years together!! (Work at the same place) Citing lost feelings….Though earlier in the day we’d booked to go on our Christmas works due together?!?! We briefly split at the end of Covid 19 from March 2021 to June 2021.Her Hysterectomy Op has sent her in to early menopause this year , Along with her daughter having mental health problems and her mum been diagnosed with cancer it’s been a tough year for her. She’s had a really bad dating past: . Cheated on . Domestic abuse . Doesn’t know her real dad . Husband left her when she was pregnant
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