What Every Girl Needs to Hear- (Girl Above) 

School is starting again. Anxiety is starting again. Girls who judge other girls, who put them down, they don't understand. Grils should stick up for each other. We should be a group, not divided, into the populars, and the others.

"A real girl is not perfect and a perfect girl is not real" -Harry Styles

“No one is born ugly. We just live in a judgmental society” - Kim Namjoon of BTS

This is me almost everyday. My anxiety makes me hide who I really am, and I am ready to stand up. Are You?

People need to stop judging. Skinny is not the ideal body type. If we dress cute it doesn’t mean we want men, it means we want to feel good.

Girls we really need to grow up.... And stop thinking about others... Just do whatever u want to do.... Freedom is everyone's self right..... Go girl get ur goal

Is anyone here dead inside??? Oh it’s just me 😞😭

I'm going to try to be confident more often 🥀

FINALLY, a video that actually describes a woman and how to make her life better.

"you have to be sexy for the boys" nobody needs to look 'sexy' for anybody else. Be who you enjoy to look like whether that look is sexy or messy or nerdy or weird. You are amazing just the way you are

I’m overweight and I’m actually really confident in myself. In 2019 I went through a little bit of a rough patch but I’m terrific now. They’re just stereotypes and you don’t have to listen to that.

''Girls: We have to be super models.... Boys: We have to be rich and successful .. Put them together: Loneliness ''

What every girl AND boy needs to hear. Boys have insecurities too.

Not popular enough, not pretty enough this is how I feel but this video tells us woman that we are amazing and beautiful just the way u r

Never judge people about what they are doing... Because you never know where they will end up ..

Girl: you are so fat *few months later* Same girl: you are so skinny Me: ...why can't I be me..?

I think the title should be what the society of this time should here Be nice don’t dudge were different and that’s what makes everyone special in there own way like damn bruh Go look in ur mirror first..fr take a good look at urself

I could relate to the part where the girl was playing the violin. Always told your grades will matter and you need to work harder. It's too much

Whoever Reading this Your skin isn’t a paper don’t cut it Your body isn’t a book don’t judge it Your heart isn’t a door don’t lock it Your life isn’t a movie don’t end it You’re beautiful Be you..Stay Safe

*No one is born ugly* *You are just born in a judgemental society* - Kim Namjoon 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

I Wish This was a Movie For Girls.

This. Is. Beautiful.

I'm sick and tired of girls judging other girls. Tnx for this video

"Everyone is beautiful. The fact is we r just in a judgemental society " - kim namjoon ( BTS )

This made me cry so hard, I understand how they feel... except I have no one to make me feel better.

this is, beautiful, just beautiful, and while yes I am a guy, I feel these same pressures, I'm having trouble finding my worth, but this really boosted my spirits thank you

God loves you more than you can imagine! 💗

I use to want to make everyone love me. I mold myself to be the perfect girl designed for each and every person. I can be calm, energetic, shy, bold, anything you like. Just mix and paint your palette. Little did I know, every time I get fitted into my new mold, part of me gets chipped away. I lost myself, who am I? I look into the mirror, point to myself with tears streaming down my face “Who are you?”. It gets better, I sit alone in the busy street. Once taking notes on what type and personality each person likes, I just close my eyes. I am not your doll anymore. The path for me is uncertain, I am still on the way to rediscover me, beautiful me.

i literally cried watching this

Crying everywhere and locked in your room squad where you at? I needed to cry, it's nice to just let it all out..

"But really, you're just alone." I don't think so. There's a difference between alone and lonely. Alone is when you're all by yourself, no one's around and you're surrounded by complete silence, absolutely nothing. Lonely, however, is different. You could be surrounded by hundreds of people each day and yet, still feel empty and lost... like you're not you. You could have everything you've ever asked for and yet still feel lonely, as if a part of you is just gone; disappeared and forever lost.

We are born to be real , not to be perfect

I always look at the mirror and think I'm ugly ,I'm fat,I'm not good enough, and after this video I just realised your not alone and this video is so inspiring that all girls should watch because your not alone in life.

Hi..I would like to share something with you. I'm a 9th grader. I'm not lonely. I have loving parents and have really a lot of friends and also a bestfriend whom I can rely on. I started wearing eyeliner from 5th grade. Here, where we live, eyeliner is considered as make-up...I mean there are only a little students who wear lipstick, foundation etc. So as I was saying, I started applying eyeliner to school every single day because I wanted to look more beautiful of course. But then I started watching these kinds of inspirational vedios on RU-vid saying that "you should be just the way your are" etc. So I too felt a desire to be free without any make-up. I hate makeup actually...but I still applied it because I didn't look nice without it. But after watching these types of vedios, I decided to stop wearing eyeliner in 8th grade. I went on like that for a weak. But I started wearing make-up because of the comments of my own friends, teachers etc. But this year finally I decided to stop it. I wanted people to love me for who I am and not for my external features. I stopped wearing it for about 2 weeks now and ofcourse I got many comments from my friends and even teachers saying that "you should really start applying it again", "you look so dull without your eyemakeup" etc. One friend even told me that I was looking like a zombie. But I didn't care. I just stopped wearing makeup. And see where it brought me now. When people saw that they could no more change my decision, they gradually stopped. And I'm happy now. And I suggest everyone to do the same. It's ok if you wear makeup or you don't wear it. But you should not let people put you down. If you have a desire to do anything, go for it. Don't care what people say. You don't have to change yourself for other people. Let them change thier opinions. And all that inspired me to stop caring about what people say are RU-vid vedios like these. Keep it up. Thankyou😊.

The title should be more like, "what everybody needs to hear"

Me:Do I look fat? "Girl,loose weight" Me:I dont wanna eat.... "You're overeacting" Me:Im innocent,right? "You call yourself innocent?!" Me:Can I jump now? "You won't survive so NO"

I cried so hard! this is so beautiful... i wish a had that magic mirror

I love this. It will make me think more about myself and believe in myself more. Thank You

" No matter what Love your self cause no one is going to do it for u "

*Here's to the girls* To all the girls who don't wake up with perfect hair. Who don't mind eating a burger instead of a salad. Who doesn't wear 50 pounds of makeup. Who'd rather spend the day in sweatpants rather than skinny jeans. Who doesn't get all the guys. Who's not popular but feels like it when with their friends. Who sticks to sneakers instead of heels. Who doesn't get everything they want. To all the girls who doesn't need a guy to tell them that they are beautiful.

This is beautiful

So beautiful it gave me goosebumps

Girls, we are who WE are if people try to bring us down we can rise back up TOGETHER

I keep hearing voices and i wonder if they're talking about me, and it just tears my heart apart it irritates me and it stops me of being who i want to be. And that doesn't only happen to me it happens to every single person in this world, that's how the world is different. We hide our true identity. We try be perfect for everybody but sometimes we can succeeded. Once i wanna stand in front of the whole world and just let everybody listen that we are not perfect. Most of the 50% of the world are against bullying, or the other 50% are just too shy to come up to a person and say 'you are strong.' or just stand up for them for once. Trust me, you don't wanna be the person facing all the fears. You don't wanna be the person who is seeing someone getting bullied, but as you look around everyone tries to avoid it and apparently it's not their 'business' Just look around and you'll recognize and understand what the word is really is. Like if you agree.

All the girls in this are beautiful. The entire message is beautiful. THIS ENTIRE THING IS BEAUTIFUL!

That is one of the reasons that Muslim women put the Hijab. The hijab covers the women body in order to be looked the same way as an human and not something else. We want to be valued /judged not from the outside the but in the inside, in other words our morals . Also, they feel more comfortable in their skin because they used to compare less their self with other because the look its not that important but I know its difficult because our society we value the beauty of women... :( - Be beautiful your own way and be comfortable being you

Just be yourself, God created u unique. Stop seeking peoples' approval. It's not worth it. Seek God's approval, you'll be set free. 🤷‍♀️🇦🇺

We all are unique, beautiful and strong! 💖💪💞

Great film.. But just imagine yourself looking in the mirror seeing your reflection, then your reflection moves but you don't 😂

I thought the magic mirror gonna change their looks.. they are beautiful anyways

Namjoon said in a speech "You are not born Ugly,you just lived in a judgement society"

Well I am tomboy girl... I hate makeup and cute clothes or dresses or nail polishes and fashion.. I don't care about it.. And everyone in my school says I am so beautiful, even bullies... You don't have to be someone for someone you have to be someone for yourself💜💜I Purple you...

Incase someone hasn't told you this yet your gorgeous no matter what anyone says it's what's in the inside that really counts 💚

This video made me break down in tears... I don't know how to feel anymore

I don't know who needs to hear this but you are ENOUGH and you deserve MOORE so LOVE yourself and put yourself first DON'T be afraid to be alone you gonna be OK 👑❤😘

"I want to feel like I'm worth something" I WANT. But I don't.

Im 14 and this has Helped me

Every one needs to see this

Anytime you hear a bad thought, imagine you eating your favorite food/ favorite place and you there, feeling the pleasure of being alive and having happiness.

I just wish I had someone to talk to. My family deals with a lot of problems and they think that I'm not going through anything because I never talk about it. I just don't feel comfortable talking to my family about this sort of stuff. Sometimes I can't hold it in anymore and just start crying. I told myself to NEVER get any social media because I know what it can do to people and I don't want to go through that, because I wouldn't be able to take it. My family doesn't know how sensitive I am, my friend says to me "it's not like words can hurt you" but he's wrong..I can start crying if someone just says a cuss word me. I also told myself to never say a cuss word because my sister gave me an inspiring speech about how cuss words don't make you cool. I really look up to her. I've thought about talking to her about stuff but I'm just too scared to. I don't know why.. Sometimes I talk to my friend about stuff but not like my problems. I know I shouldn't just be thinking about myself and I'm not trying to but I just really wish j could talk to someone, I think if I had someone to talk to then I would feel better. I keep everything to myself, and it's not healthy. I lost all three of my friends to corona, and I miss them but I miss only one of my friends the most. She was a true friend, she always stuck by me and didn't care about what other people thought about her and she didn't care about a popularity. She was one of the people that inspired me to not care about that stuff too. I miss her a lot.. I still have this one friend though, we didn't hang out at school though. I met him when our teacher put me and him next to eachother in one of our classes. We did talk then but as soon as the teacher moved us around again, we didn't talk at school, we only talked online. I don't feel comfortable enough telling him personal things about myself, and I wish I did but even if I did, he wouldn't know how to talk to me about it because he seems like the type that doesn't know the words to comfort someone. Yeah, so it just feels like I don't have any friends now. It feels like I'm all alone. But even so, I keep going, keeping positive thoughts in my head. Everyone at school used to call me nice and stuff because I was nice to everyone, but I was never myself at school. I can only be myself around my friends and it feels so good to be myself. And it feels so good typing all of this out now. I just hope I don't grow up to be a horrible person. I try everyday to not be the judging type. I don't care about looks, popularity, I don't care about any of that. All I want is to have true friends that can truly talk to me and trust me enough to be themselves around me. I don't want to end up around mean people, I want to end up with people that trust me with all their heart because that would make me so happy to know that. I've read some of the comments and honestly, I agree with a lot of them. I just wish their wasn't any judgmental people in this world. I just wish people would accept others for who they are in the inside and out. But that's not how it works, people have to judge others to be "popular" and they have to look pretty. But I just wish people would know that you don't have to be popular to fit in... I didn't realise how long I made this but I'm glad I got it all out, it feels so good to talk about it. Especially to people you don't know.. There is a high chance that no one is going to see this but I just had to let it all out. If anyone sees this, God bless you and I hope you live the happiest life. You only get one chance to live, so live life to the fullest.

Dear girls Don't let anyone ruin your dreams.Don't let anyone say anything to you to make you feel bad.Some boys just don't understand that how much a little thing can gurt a girl.Boys prefer to call a girl "hottie" "sexy" rather than "beautiful".They judge a girl by her shape..But guess what it is her body so shut up.Like she said 100 years earlier womens couldn't vote..Why?Because no one knows how worth it we are..I have seen in some works they pay a men more than a women and they are in the same posicion..And why do they pay the women less..Because she is a women..Many boys said that womens can't do mens work.But guess what a girl can do it to..They think that womens are only worth about cleaning the house,making the dinner..It is our time to speak..RAISE YOUR VOICE GIRLS.THE WORLD WANTS TO HEAR IT❤

This video brought out the best in me

I am the same I think so badly about myself and my family and friends get mad so that's how I know they love me for me but I think badly about myself no matter what

I'm a guy and I decided to show to this to a friend of mine and she broke out to tears.

For once, I came down here expecting sexist comments about women, but there were none, yasss people let’s keep it that way. Ps this was beautiful and right in every way possible

I cried so hard watching this. I used to have a lot of close friends and be happy..... but there was a problem I "watched anime and was fat" none like me and all judged me. So I stopped watching anime. I sold and got rid of everything that had to do with it. I then began to cry and step in the scale. Every free second I got I was on that scale. All for him. This dick popular boy who thought he was better than everyone else. I loved him though, what girl wouldn't.. he was hot and funny, but in the inside he was just shallow and mean. He made fun of me tonight and I am crying my eyes out. I JUST WANT TO BE ACCEPTED 😭😭😭😭😭😭

I keep lying to myself, change to the personality that everyone love, and now I don't even know myself anymore.

Finally, something that says the truth. Because you are not accepted by people ,doesn't mean you're not accepted by GOD. THE creation cannot be higher than the creator. You are beautifully and wonderfully made ,says the BIBLE. stop bugging yourself, because only you ,will be there for you. So don't let people drain you,before you finally use YOU for something great.

Brought tears to my eyes

yeah I love the message but eAsiEr sAiD thAn dOnE

"You are worthless if you don't get good grades" is what I hear everyday. I could totally relate to this video, I am insecure everytime I go to school. Thank you so much for uploading this awesome video, I cried in the end. ❤️

*Thank God for the blessing of Islam alhamdulillah* ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

"You are born to be real not to be perfect"- Min yoongi

everyday I always hiding my true self when I listen to this message I stand up for my self you guys need to stand up for yourself

This literally made me cry. I have no self confidence, and this just made me believe in myself. Not to listen to what people tell me, dont listen to people that tell me I'm not good enough or I need to change. Thank you love♥️

As kids we were told pulled hair and pushes meant love and now when we’re asked ”why won't she leave” it's because we were taught abuse was love.

don't judge a book by its cover lv urself

These videos make me feel empowered, well it lasts for a day or two at the most. I remember when I was in 7th grade a girl in my class said "my face looks like a bottle." Also regularly my so called friends are reminding me that I'm fat and heavy. My brother does the same. I said nothing to them, just smiled and I felt I was strong. But I cried when they weren't there. I've realized one thing though, no matter what anyone else calls you as, your true worth is how you define yourself.

wow it helped me this video made my heart and brain feel light and confident which was surrounded by stuff like confusion fear anxiety thoughts provoked me like u can't fullfill ur dreams and discouragement inside me and i was like wasting my life while other having good life seeing myself down and i was trying to give up my dream but no i will not and video gave me some hope thank you

I needed this... I've been feeling depressed a long time since.. I felt like I was unfit in friend's group and I know people talk about me stuffs this and that.. It hurt me and still am... But Thank you I feel better

This got me crying 😭😭😭 jesus bless all women

So did that one girl just give up the violin or what?

whoever disliked this video is telling girls that they don't deserve to feel good about themselves.

I have to admit, I used to judge girls, I’m getting better, I never meant anything I said about them, I just put my insecurities on others, as a girl, this truly hurts our confidence, if a girl wears something out, she’s not looking for attention, she just feels happy wearing it, and we shouldn’t point it out, there is no such thing as skinny or fat, there’s only such thing as beautiful, stick together ladies, we’ll get through this, and finally be our true selves 💛💛

More people should see this❤️

Be a girl and show the society what you are.. All the best dear😊🤗

My eyes are teary every sentence and words in this short film are true its so true that you want to be reborn into someone else that you want to be

I am just like the girl with piano Everyone tells me to be perfect It makes me feel like I'm not perfect yet It makes me stressed To be good at everything

This is phenomenal..... 😍I started to cry because the message you'all sent was heatlrt touching n true 💝....

This is amazing. Very inspiring. Stay true to yourself everyone and stop caring what other people think. You may think that everyone's judging you but in reality there not.❤️

This happens everyday with me I really care about what others think and I can't do what I want but now I am gonna be that girl who will be bold and I wouldn't think about others

social anxiety leads you to become very possessive over every single person you consider as a friend, people start leaving you, you get sick of your situation, you feel lonely left and ugly, you fall into depression that's what killed me

I've been struggling so hard and this just help me

But like this goes for boys too... just cause they don't talk about it don't mean it isn't happening. Boys deserve videos like this too. And this can go for the boys as well but why does it have to exclude them? I just don't get it.

Being imperfect is what perfect means to me. So be who you are!

I loved this message, it was so beautiful and true!!! Girls and woman, do not judge yourself or others, you are perfect just the way you are. Share this video!!!

So, so many year's of teaching. But yet no one taught us how to love ourselves. Edit 1: dear girls: we are more powerful than we believe we need to change the way we see ourselves we are unique! Just be you because that's who u r going to be!!! We're used to being judged so we begin to judge ourselves it doesn't matter what other people think. The only thing that matters is your opinion about yourself. Be comfortable with your body! Don't waste most of your life pretending to be someone your not! Show you're true self! 💕

10 seconds in and I already started to tear up

My dad kept telling me to be me and I used to judge myself all the time but here is the thing don’t try hard just be you and you can be the most beautiful girl in the world