What Happens if You Violate a Court Child Custody Order?

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If you have violated a child custody agreement or disobeyed a court order there are ways to remedy or at least help your case.*
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*This video recording is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as the rendering of legal advice. The viewing of this recording does not create an attorney-client relationship. An attorney-client relationship is only formed when you have signed an engagement agreement. We cannot guarantee results. Past results do not guarantee future results. Consult with a licensed attorney for information regarding the specifics of your case.
Violating a child custody order is serious business and it is essential to know what to expect and what is expected of you during your child custody case as well as your custody hearing.
So, what do you do if you have made a major mistake or messed up in some way regarding your custody case. First what are some examples of some scenarios which would not please the judge.
- Losing your cool with your ex-spouse in front of your child
- You Don’t follow through with a court order
- You have not followed up with a promise to your child or your ex-spouse or the court.
The first rule of thumb is not to blame anyone but yourself. You are the one responsible for your actions
Here are 4 things you can do when facing the judge at your custody hearing:
1. Be accountable. Admit to the judge you messed up.
2. Apologize to the court
3. Follow up with a statement about what you are going to do to make things right and how you are going to conduct yourself in the future
4. Put your money where your mouth is. Act in a way that is consistent with what you said you are going to do
Don’t despair if you mess up. We are all human and as long as you follow these 4 steps the court will not hold these things against you.
Wendy Hernandez is a family law attorney in Phoenix, AZ and founder of Command the Courtroom which teaches you how to handle yourself in court and achieve the best outcome when representing yourself in your divorce or child custody case.
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@RestoringReality 7 лет назад

I appreciate the thoughtfulness you've demonstrated by sharing your experience with legal matters related to parent child relationships. As you know, when one parent has found themselves without a $20,000 slush fund available to defend years of ongoing litigation, because other parents has used the courts to exhaust any money the other parent could possibly have left to continue the legal wrangling 7 years after the divorce, they often panic with fear, which can last for months and affect numerous areas of that parents life, believing they may be only one more motion away from losing their ability to parent their child for the final time, as the children are growning up and starting to drive. I'm trying to say this, "Thank you. I appreciate your time and willingness to help a stranger who is not a client." You've forced me to acknowledge that not all attorneys are predators posing as marginally functional, highly psychopathic officers of the court.

@kenyabriggs4008 8 лет назад

As always Wendy, thanks for the great info and tips!

@Commandthecourtroom 7 лет назад

You're welcome! I am glad they are helpful!

@ryanking4449 6 лет назад

So what the hell do you do if they other party isn’t following the court order

@aprilmusiccovers 5 лет назад

File a contempt in the court

@gregoryvaldivieso3139 5 лет назад

FILE CONTEMPT ASK FOR A TEMPORARY MODIFICATION OF CUSTODY.......

@DavidGarcia-uc2lt 5 лет назад

Nothing happens to a mom,nothing!, but go without one child support payment if your a father &you go to jail

@jessicajhonson6280 7 лет назад

i love your vidioes your advice helps me so much thank you

@smilingontime 7 лет назад

Thank You

@cloramurphy3838 7 лет назад

Thank you so Much

@ritarivera9320 6 лет назад

Thank you wendy my situation is my ex has not complied with any of the court orders and now he has his wife meddling in the middle how do I resolve this I'm asking for sole physical custody. As of Oct 2, 2017 we share 50/50. What type of proof would I need to not have his wife as a third-party and get soul physical custody

@rogelioguitarradiaz7043 5 лет назад

My kids mom don't is not respecting law order of court on seen hee kids supost to be 50/50 but she anly see them once at month.. And because of that, that we share custody is been times that i can even change they health doctors or do changes at school.. Could i get full custody?

@justinr9112 6 лет назад

What can I do if my work schedule conflicts with standard possession order. My daughter is suppose to get to see my ex on the 1st, 3rd, 5th of every month on the weekend. But sometimes our work schedule conflicts with that. My work schedule is 4 on and 4 off. Just to let you know the ex is 300 plus miles away. When her work schedule conflicts with the drop of time its ok but when my work schedule conflicts she throws the court order in my face that I have to be at 6 pm although I don't get out until 630pm and there its really hard to get out early. The orders state that we meet about 3 hrs away from where I live. What can I do so the court order is not violated?

@graciejiujitsu4542 6 лет назад

Do I have to text or call if it’s not court ordered, I made a talking parents email but she doesn’t want to use it, the reason I don’t like texting and calling is because she’s always asking for money using inappropriate language cursing etc. but she refuses to use talking parents should I just continue texting ?

@taoho7564 7 лет назад

Thank you so much! I watch a lot of your information are very helpful. I am going through a divorce now and I have a son 11 and daughter 14. All I hope is the kids will be ok. is a Judge will awards the kids to stay with whichever parent they wanted since they both older than 10 in state of Florida?

@emmaaudsley1045 6 лет назад

What about how this affects the child/children? They should definitely be accountable for that.

@tinamkrkmn 5 лет назад

Let's see if my ex does this. I filed 14 contempt yesterday from him being awful to me. So far he's blocked me. Never got an apology

@daby8399 5 лет назад

Are you sure because my ex violated the court order so many times and I have proof of everything text messages email screenshots whatever and guess who got custody the one that violated the order

@larhondawhitt1531 7 лет назад

My sons baby mom has taken his child out of town to another city,violated court order as to his visitation rights and want let him see his daughter! He don't know her where bouts,school or nothing! The mother and her husband and the Girl momma(the Grandmother) want let us know nothing even when we calls. So now they have blocked our number and changed their numbers smh. My son is going through and it cost to much for a lawyer,but hopefully something will come through for us. The law is hard on these fathers that wanna do,and let mothers like her get by with alot! #imangryataikencountylaw #theysuck

@shakeelsaghir6699 5 лет назад

My bby mother ran away to diff ciry wouldn't tell me were only through court i found her

@benjaminjuarez3243 7 лет назад

Can you make a video, if parent travel internationally for vacation and does not give appropriate basic itinerary documentation, what is basic itinerary?.. a written text message with info...?

@rowdeo8968 8 лет назад

Thank u command the courtroom

@Commandthecourtroom 7 лет назад

You are welcome and thank you for your comment!

@jamarconover9863 7 лет назад

Command the Courtroom I'm having trouble big-time trouble I'm trying to take my baby mothers to court for visitation rights

@deepayton3575 5 лет назад

My daughter has full custody of her sister and brother the grandmother has visitation in December she pick them up for Christmas she was supposed to bring him back January 2 she has yet to return the children we have filed all of the paperwork even filed an emergency pick up order from Georgia North Carolina refused to honor it what should we do

@aprilghostfindder3213 5 лет назад

Are you still available I need legal questions

@elenapapa1 5 лет назад

WhAt happens if kids reported abuse and kids are refusing to go and can’t physically put them in car cause they are 12??

@coloradotrue247 7 лет назад

I was a parainoid mess this week unable to focus, even after talking with my lawyer, your advise has saved me once agian, I can't thank you enough Wendy. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You.

@amandacollaso7757 7 лет назад

My daughter's father hasn't been in her life for nearly 6 years but has come back into her life demanding for me to follow the past court order from 2009. My daughter is 9 and is scared to have to go with him alone and I have repeatedly offered to facilitate meetings between them with me present per her request, he refuses to allow me to be there. So now I have been served with papers for a contempt of court hearing. Is his absence for the last 6 years and alcohol abuse a reasonable defense? I have already submitted a response and filed a motion for modification of parenting time and decision making. Thank you. Your videos have helped me substantially because I am Pro Se.

@profribasmat217 5 лет назад

Amanda Collaso how did this turn out?

@thetruthmessenger6358 5 лет назад

Nothing happens if a mom violates the court orders. My ex has violated 7 or more orders and our final order since last August. Any damn way she pleases... NOthing happens. And yes filed against her for every violation. Still, nothing happens. OH Canada

@auntigingy8666 5 лет назад

The mother has placement ordered dad has primary placement. Mom's primary care provider when she works 12 to 16 hr shifts is her bf who is being charged with delivering heroin that killed someone. Mom also engages in violent outbursts and physically attacks the boyfriend in front of the child. Can the father force the right of furst refusal law and stop visitation due to the environment? Mom lies constantly and then when dad proves the truth she lies about ever lying in the first olace. Mom also forces the child to lie to dad knowing lying to gets her punished. She has denied tgis for years and nust admitted that was her plan. Placement hearing in 3 months. Can dad keep refusing to send child there allowing video visits to keep in contact with mom but away from mom's crazy life style choices? And will it be ok when dad provides the court with proof of why he chose to keep child from mom's house?

@eunicereyna7235 6 лет назад

hi I would like to know if iam in trouble I missed to pick up my children on time because I thought that the times has stayed the same but it had change and but I did have my mother show up but I find out it was 2hours late he had left with kids

@mymomisapsycho6889 6 лет назад

Eunice I have the same problem here. I have 50/50 joint legal and physical custody of my son. his mom didn't show up when I went to pick him up. I filed a police report with the local police station to protect myself in the event she lies and say I didn't show up. for me, I'm not gonna use this as a gotcha moment. next exchange I'll show up again. if she doesn't bring him I'll file another report. the third consecutive time she does it I'll be right there waiting for the courts to open. what I'm saying hopefully your ex doesn't treat this as a gotcha moment. my ex is very nasty and hurt that I didn't want the relationship anymore. while I can't say her not showing up was unintentional, I can't say it was.

@Melissa-zt4ul 7 лет назад

My son father married a narcissist women who is extremely jealous over me because he still wants me but I don't want him .The father and I were getting alone until this crazy women got involved . She dose all the exchanges of my son and she is now using the father's email to communicate with me . Father has sole custody .she is bad mouthing me to my son . She makes all court order phone calls from me and the child and for over a year she hasn't fallowed the court order I've show cause the father for missed calls . Any advice on how to only communicate with the father and not his crazy wife ?

@miriamfrohriep3239 7 лет назад

What if violating a child custody order is to protect the well being of the children involved? For example, a standard joint custody order was originally placed through mediation, but the other parent has become addicted to serious drugs and aggressive behavior has been displayed in front of children. My attorney advised me that the court (Texas) generally prioritizes child endangerment over custody orders. We are pushing for modification, but in the mean time, I refuse to put my toddlers in danger

@mymomisapsycho6889 6 лет назад

you're probably in contempt especially if your accusation is hear say.

@jojokukahiko 5 лет назад

Even if the child is Special Needs in the parent said that they would do something that they're you're telling the court that I'm not doing?

@BIGNORM1031 7 лет назад

I have money order is that proof I been paying my child support. But is not court order..

@robertstevens913 5 лет назад

I am so glad I no longer have to deal with this"GOD AWFUL RACKET" anymore I was "trapped" in that mess for over 25years. And all it did was get worse and worse And no it is not getting better In fact it discriminates against men worse than ever. So much for equality????

@jessicajhonson6280 7 лет назад

my ex violate the order by not picking my son

@Young_927 6 лет назад

Jessica Jhonson Did you report this and the child didn’t go?

@dravenwood3100 6 лет назад

No such thing is a court ordered child support

@mymomisapsycho6889 6 лет назад

can you prove that? why are so many people on child support?

@lydellgreen8053 5 лет назад

My children's mother is court ordered to pay child support, however she's only paid 40.00 And still owes 10,996.00 if I were in here position ide be in jail

@tiaralove4148 6 лет назад

Please help! I have sole custody and decision making of my child, Dad is in prison for life with no parole for 1st degree murder. His parents have visitation one overnight every other weekend. We went to mediation, on the court order for visitation it does not specify wether I can or cannot move out of state, all it says is I must inform the other party before or after I move. What happens if I leave state and not tell them?

@amariherman6332 6 лет назад

Teana Danae you lose your kids

@tiaralove4148 5 лет назад

Amari Herman you idiot

@chensophia85 5 лет назад

My husband only pay $75 for child support. But he pay $485 for car mortgage. I think judge is not fair. The judge think car is more important than my 2daughter . And my husband has car and I don't. Also, I take care my 2daughter and my husband does not. And both of us is low income. I think only God knows what is fair.

@bella28498 5 лет назад

Little Angel the car is more important that is how he work and make money. If u have a problem with it give him custody because it sound like u are the one who can’t afford the child.