LETTER TO THE NARCISSIST: YOU CHEATED ON ME, WHEN I NEVER WITHELD AFFECTION, YOU LIED TO ME. WHEN YOU DIDN'T EVEN KNOW I WOULD'VE FORGIVEN YOU FOR THE TRUTH, YOU MANIPULATED ME, WHEN I WAS GENEROUS WITHOUT STIPULATIONS, SO THANK YOU FOR TEACHING ME SELF LOVE!!
This Message Hits The Same Way With Me The Only Thing I Can Add To This Message Is I Never Withheld Affection From Him I Begged For It But He Had His Back Burner Supplies For That And To This Day He Swears He Never Cheated On Me What A Lier We Wasn't intimate At All So I Know He Was Busy Some Where Else
Yes have you noticed that everyone of them just turned into someone else at the drop of a switch' your right about the narcissist apocalypse' The good thing about it is we have the knowledge to see it for what it is and be gone.
I was married to two of them and I gave them so much hell they were more than happy to hurry with the divorce because I didn't sign up for all of that BS
A narcissist will always underestimate the empath!!! I remember my last words to my ex, five years ago: “I’m going to do us both a favor and leave you alone, because you don’t know who you are f’ing with”!!!
My mother was a narcissist. I went through it all with that woman. I made a promise to myself when I was teenager that I was going to move far away from my mother. And I did that and I am so fucking happy. Thank you Jesus Christ, Aman.
@@melody6111 My mother would come home from work and find something to bitch at us because she had a bad day at work My mother would always treat my sister better than me and I always ended up on the worst end of the stick. My mother would whoop my ass with the belt for stupid shit like I would wet the bed or act up in school. I doesn't matter what you say, my mother is a narcissist and there's nothing that me or you can do to change that.
I believe demons and angels are fighting against each other as we are nearing the end days my eyes are open to the spiritual attack....omg everything you say is real it's brought to light...
Most people who ghost people are narcs you know when they come in hot and heavy and when they don't get what they want which is knowledge to learn you' they ghost because they know you have strong boundaries in place' If you get ghosted be glad about it & laugh about it that says everything you need to know that they seen the sign that it's a no go.
It's definitely a spiritual battle. If they kill you, mentally or physically, it's definitely intentional. I asked him to go to therapy, and he declined, which was the beginning of our end. I am free!
My Mom may she Rest Easy 🙏🏽 was a praying warrior she's took me and my little sister to Sunday school every Sunday I do know about the gospel of Christ. The Lord wasn't going to let me keep on going through this with this demon I know deep dark things about him that he don't see he don't even know about his self that he can't even see in the physical realm but I can see it in the spiritual realm the Lord has shown me things about this Narcissis in dreams I done seen him with women in dreams I have the spirit of discernment Pray for everyday the Lord be showing me the Lord told me one day it was about three 4 in the morning he say you want to know what the narcissist doing go over to his house right now I went and pulled up to his house he got a female in the bed with him the same bed that I was in when I used to stay with him this is how nasty and trifling the narcs is same female he said that he would never deal with because she's the neighborhood hoe she is now with him and I'm glad they together I've been knew they were together the Lord just had to confirm so now I'm done I go hanging out with our friends they still telling me stuff about the narcissist that he did every time I go around his folks they telling me something that he did I am so glad that I don't sleep with him no more I don't mess with him no more I don't want to hang out no control over me no more I took my control back I don't want him in the house with me and my kids I am done he is homeless now he lost his Apartment an she lost her car so now they are getting rides an homeless together me and the kids is in our new condo and peace and quiet in my car that's pay for is outside the door 😂
You speaking facts!!!! They age fast and look horrible losing teeth and physically look a mess but still try to control and manipulate someone. I am done completely. I detached big time and focused on me.
Wow! When you said that the Narc has never done anything wrong in their life and even at almost a 100 years old refuses to see a need for change! 🥴 Fits my Narc to a tea. Always so critical of everything. Great message!!! ✨❤️
Hi, I'm here all the way from South holland, IL and I am a survivor of narcissistic abuse and I am still in it when it comes to family, I'm still weak but still pushing forward.
You should go. When you stop and think of the years you have lost with the bull crap.. it will make you run.. please save yourself they never change..I know. They are demons and will die that way..😢😢😢
My letter would be, you kept assuring me we were family, yet you never call me, never applauded my achievements, and never congratulationed me on my rewards...And when i asked where are you? I get crickets.... And then they redirect the convo to their life?😢 i decided to ghost them permanently when my nephew who they never allowed me too meet because of power, because i couldn't hv children, he committed suicide 😢. Im went fucking ghost!! im freaking done with this BS!! May Jesus continue to lead me and show my purpose.
But as the Bible says we reap what we sow, and when we sow discord in people's lives, that same discord, will come back but even harder then they dished it out. So Karma is something we don't have to put our hands on but just have to allow Karma to do what it does.😊
Yees iam began God please take him far away from me ,forever, for good ,no hoover means They know we re stand in our grounds of our boundaries, because WE RE WORTH IT 🙏❣
Mami please divorce that man!! what we waiting for? Cause if something happen to you he will have all rights and control over everything! he don't deserve that! He don't deserve you. Much love Mami 😇🙌
Control empath can give it to you and take it back when they're good and ready like the city turn on the water and will you stop paying the bill they turn off the water just like that
Listen, I have 3 sons. I'm super nice. Women want to snatch a man from his family and bring them over to hers and everything goes to her mom and everything is HIS mom's fault. It's incredible.
One of the best things that I have done in my life is letting my narc go! I deleted all contact information from her. Unfortunately I no longer have her number to put her on block…. For all eternity.
I am so well this rainy Connecticut Saturday morning, April 15, 2023 joy to the world divorced 2017 the same day I got trapped 2008 this fool had know clue I come from survival. Iam so glad that Jesus christ saves.
Woman's work is never done , Household chores and raising children means that in some cases , women work longer (than salarymen ). 🔥🔥🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥💫💫💫🌹🌹🌹🌷🌷🌷💯💯💯💪💪💪💎💎💎
I wish i could agree that it’s a lack of proper upbringing that creates/created the narc. I know for a fact the narc in my life was pretty much demon filled as a child.
An attack on the mind is an attack on the soul. Mind, free Will and emotions equal the soul. I believe the emotion part is their most frequent attempt to approach and attack the mind in attempts to take your soul. Pray for me. I have exspiriencial knowledge of these things. Joshua.
It's crazy how you describe what my life was like for 4 long years! It's been a year and he's still in jail. I still have to get our car shit handled and hope I never see him again after the trial in June.He sure does have me roped in with both our names on the car. I can't even sue him while he's incarcerated! Lord have mercy! But you keep me focused sister! Keep doing your thing!
They be stalling the divorce too. Mine came back after two years once i got in a new relationship and started asking about dumb ish. Like bihhh who are you??? Block Then the number she texted me from was the same number throughout our whole marriage and that she was ignoring me on and saying that she changed it. So yall apparently she changed her number on me when we broke up then now two years later the phone company gave her the old number back 😂😂😂😂 narcissist lies be so funny
I’ve prayed to god to get me out that relationship 18 years. He told me he wanted my life to be a living hell. Cus I can’t love him like how he wanted to be love. Now he found somebody who can be him mom cus I couldn’t be it.
He tried to constantly hoover me so finally I told him if he bothered me anymore I threatened to send his new supply all his emails and texts begging me to come back and using her to constantly hurt me and threaten me. A much younger woman a life long drug addict and criminal sitting in prison. Exposure their greatest fear! Haven't heard from him since. Thank u Lord!🙏🙏I am free from this demon.
My mother is a narcissist, and it is so hard. This is what she’s doing to me. Any advice would be greatly appreciate it. I asked if everyone could pray for me about my mother hating me and having my neighbor spying on me for her his name is Todd and he’s making me feel uncomfortable. I’m getting anxiety I don’t even feel safe in my house so I asked people to pray for me that all that go away and he will move out of my neighborhood, thank you and God bless❤
live to your fullest darling and make him and her see that you know what they're doing, he's her flying monkey and foolishly he's dancing to her tune, live like a bully darling, he will shy away from you, you know that they're fragile afraid of strong 💪 appearance and confidence
Ben Taylor from Raw Motivations and Leon Walker are 2 Self-aware Narcissists that are kicking Satan in the Teeth on their channels. Both Bible believers. They both help keep me strong against the Hoovers! They both make me question a lot of things??? !!
@@mamisotrue Thank you, its all been very hurtful. But myself and son are doing well and that's what's important, my ongoing focus. Your channel is motivational , so helpful with the process of moving positively forward. God bless you 🙏🏼 ❤️ 🙌🏼
Yep had it all documented.16yrs been there done that.Seems to have taken her 2yrs to Realised am done.did not really wanted to hurt her cause I knew from jump who n wat she was a sick person stuck around to make sure 2of 5kids get educated.then when she realized I was fix on making sure the daughter get to college.n she doing her best to make sure it did not happen.Had not choice than to separate the evil from my life.Demons n profoundly evil to the max
Hello i ran around your page we need you raw and honest .you have until for me too be on my healing journey i was with my nar for 7 years and been away from him about over 2 years now .i got my power back and living my own life now .im @ peace not pieces keep giving us knowledge and wisdom keep schooling us sis Love you Bless you and Everyone in the comments ❤❤❤❤❤❤
The devil trying to call you. Throwing your focus. Repell and cast him down. Shake that snake off and keep your mission focused. Paul shook a snake bite off after the ship wreck. You have. Authority
Wow!!! So true the narc was tellimg my partner stuff about me behind my back wayyyy before i was really serious with him!! tried to turn him against me. Theyre so jealous of your happiness its unreal!! Wow im just only understanding this now
I went thru 15 yrs.of mental,physical,emotional ,etc..you name it I went thru it 🥲💔I can't even believe I'm alive ..Abused due to loving these ppl. Litterly were punished the more you try to luv than the more the attacks on All levels this is the thanks you get 😡 Have you trapped in your own head afraid to leave only to find out I should of left immediately but there luv in the beginning is so unreal love you never had before which is all part of there plan ...many I'm sure no but I just found out that narcissist abuse mainly physical cause traumatic brain injury my gosh this is horrific...I'm so free as of 9 yrs I love myself & life & I'm a strong damn women try me now 😉💪🙏 thank you for Helping all of us w/ your Chanel knowledge is power we all can help each other in getting as well as staying away from these non humans 🙏💪🌹
I too have a story infact if I had the time I have a book 📖! This started when covid came around 20’-23’ it was definitely way over within this period. It has been 2yrs no contact! So the actual encounter was short on/off experience and they showed their ass once I started to detach and focus on me and self love 💕. Yes I was trauma bonded! 😮Thanks for yr video x
One of the biggest misconceptions of the MANIPULATOR'S Narc is that DIVORCED WASN'T THE VICTIM'S BEST OPTIONS telling them to take HITCHHIKER HOME SEEKING FOR Divorce lawyers 😂😅
You are AWESOME. Thanks for your knowledge and passing it along. I have been in 1 for a few months (long distance) but it still hurts. I watch you everyday to THRIVE and keep GOD 1st and me 2nd. Much love and keep it coming. ❤❤❤
Its been 3 months no contact for me. I now sit back and review the 20 years i was with her. She disgust me 🤮. i am at the Apathy stage now, i look at her and wonder what I saw in her. She wasn't even my type, my life at the time of meeting her I was full of pain. Each time while we were out we would always bump into each other while walking together. That should have been a true red flag to show me that we didn't fit each other. I now enjoy my peace, my body is healing, my thoughts are becoming clearer, im focusing on God's plan for my life and pursuing my self development and personal goals for my life.
Fellow empath/chosen... I'm reaching my point where these narcs have pissed me off. I'm still wise on how to react. My narcs are at HOME! AND another one at work. My devil narc manager. I'm counting on them to read these messages. I'm not being sneaky at all. The manager narc took me off the shift with any other manager besides him? Like if that's not a set up on top of control. How do you get to change my schedule just so I work with only him? That's a stalker and sadist and a pure evil man. So he can isolate me like idk what's going on. How point blank easy is that to see. So he can tell me what to do and I never listen. That's childish. These narcs are so child like. There very easy to spot out. It's all torment like wanting to order my steps. I already cursed him out months back. This prick thinks I'm going to ever conform. I'm about to get out his days completely. And at home my very own brother is the narc who is the big devil. Pure shit bag. This one is head scratching because my dumb narc aunt who has the rights over the house now. She let's him come in and this bewildered soul doesn't work or do anything at all. It's like a grown ass 5 year old who is nothing but a devil knowing I dont love or want this trash bag in my life so his Hoover is moving in the house. It's real sad. All he does is lay around and smoke. Just a no good piece of nothing. Its definitely time for me to live. It's a family full of narcs. They get me from me being the youngest one and I grew up in it not knowing anything about it. I gotta leave a long story because I've been through it. They act like there so real. I'm so ready to do whatever it takes to be out these bums
Hello, Ms. Miami so true:-)! This reason I resonate with so well, absolutely fight your message informative and Powerful, and thank you. I would like to ask something about the narcissist they have a strange eye contact and is very powerful so make sure you wear your sunglasses when you talkin to him or her. You know what Miss mommy said about packing up and leaving sunglasses so you can't tell them nothing and don't you got to leave quiet that's what that silence is all about not just don't talk don't talk with your moves in front of them you supposed to make silent moves we're supposed to make silent moves when we getting away from a dangerous person. Cuz one thing people seem try to automatic estimating placate on is how dangerous is narcissist really is. And so many ways and don't think they're not capable of un alive you. Okay peace and love be careful, because these narcs are out here narcing lol :-) oh yeah that's for real:-)! PS thanks so much teach timer for session formative information and very helpful your message is helping people to be safe away from these people. Have a great one and continue to be great everyone:-)!
I was the one always leaving because he was always pushing me away and never fought for me or showed he cared, work I'm always getting messed with because I'm not like all of them and I enjoy working without the need to gossip or be in the same lane as them, family they just move funny and want me to over exert myself and this list goes on they also wanted me to be co dependent instead of doing it for myself it's hurts to be honest
I have been tortured by my Father, than almost killed by my ex spouse...I haven't se my little.boy already 2 year's because she accused me for very same terror she did to me
Think about it like this, we ALL won a game we didn't even know we were playing, only they knew it was a game, while they have the whole play book and still lost, make that make sense (to them anyways) broke up from the floor up... lmao
