What Happens When Empaths Are Pushed Too Far 

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True empathy says Amen

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All you're demonstrating is that so called Empaths are the same as everyone else. True Empaths don't hold back, shut people out, refuse to help people, be abusive and call it "mirroring", etc etc etc. They also don't call themselves Empaths for clout and admiration. You are describing a vindictive person, that's all. This Empath scam is pathetic. The worst most f'd up dangerous people I know call themselves Empaths.

Man I am lost for words still love with a woman she was totally narcissistic I think I was crazy and still think maybe I'm the one but I don't think so I'm more than our soul as a relationship she never cared about me. Should be gone four days in my car or truck record Vehicles didn't even care I'm just lost in all this I think we're over we got to be over I've been doing this for five years and she I know where flips everything on me everything

Amen!! I’m at that point now !! I’m over it . Bye ✌🏽

I feel you

Wow just what i needed. I am angry about it.I have always felt like a second class citizen and all those energy drainers continue.. I’m done.😮

The essence of empathy is caring about others. Why do you call yourself an Empath? What do you get out of that?

I agree 100%👍

Indeed

Facts. I DESPISE EVIL IN EVERY INCARNATE ESPECIALLY THE BANALITY OF EVIL THOSE WHO SIT IDOL AND IMPOTENT whilst EVIL occurs within their midst. Those who turn a blind eye and those who take pleasure in it. EVIL can only exist if good men do nothing.

Definitely a lifetime Empath who has had enough, is totally disgusted with ‘family’ expecting, never giving back, am slowly removing myself from everyone and everything!! I hate this!!

@@karenblum6185 it the gift that only feels like a curse because you are around a bunch of vampires feeding off your light. Don't feel bad about cutting people off. Do i instantly and surround yourself with people such as yourself as soon as you are able. The others will never learn from their mistakes. You can't fix them but you can fix YOU. Funny thing about getting rid of a bunch of people aka problems. As soon as you drop them suddenly YOU FLOAT TO THE TOP. The weights and heavy are lifted off your back off your heart and off your soul. All at once. And PEACE, TRANQUILITY, BALANCE hits your life. Then you have time to focus on you, fix yourself because we are self healers. And things will immediately get better. See THOSE PEOPLE will continue to make the same mistakes OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN. They never learn. 20 years can go by and those Same people are STILL DOING THE SAME THING. Let them go live their lives and you do the same. I had to learn this a long time ago and I LEFT. I joined the military and got away from them completely and I live on the other side of the country and only visit when I WANT TO. Sadly Strangers will appreciate you more than flesh and blood.i have a saying. Not all flesh and blood are FAMILY and not all FAMILY is FLESH and blood. Your family are those who support you, surround you, there for you when you need them, through the good times and the not so good times. 5hose who laugh when you do, and cry when you do and can make you laugh when you want to cry, and cry from happiness because they knew how to get you through whatever it is you were going through. Those other people are selfish light vampires and happiness sponges. Where ever they go, they SOAK the happiness right out of the area 🤔 they go. AVOID THOSE PEOPLE AT ALL COST. Take a step back and see who's actually concerned about you, and not what you can do for them. Separate the users and the a users from those that really matter and then set your boundaries. User's and abusers, dump them completely. You don't have to be accommodating, or please everyone. Stand up for yourself and if anyone has a problem with that then they are someone you should eliminate from your life. Those that support you you allow on a case by case basis. Once you get this down you will begin to be at YOUR NATURAL peaceful, loving and empathic state. We have a higher purpose than the rest of them. We are light workers. Ment to fight against the ultimate evil. We were chosen to be born now at a time of great peril and darkness. The final battle for good and evil is upon us. Wicked rulers seek to enslave and zero carbon life humanity. We must stop them. When the heart's of men grow cold. Its us empaths who have enough love and hope to save the world. Its us that can awaken humanity's souls and hearts from their own darkness. But we must be strong within ourselves. And with the creator. He gives us direction. Let him lead you to you higher purpose. Let his will be your will and you will instead of feeling all the negative and hurt and feeling like a curse absorbing everyone else's emotions overwhelming you. Sickening you, dimming you. You will instead EXUDE AND PROJECT YOUR OWN EMOTIONS AND RADIATE YOUR SOUL OUT AROUND YOU like force field and beacon. Driving away vampires and evil currupt people will flee from you once you attain you full potential. And you will be able to use your abilities to help and to heal those who need it, and to give counsel to those who seek wisdom and answers. You have to be strong and seclude, and isolate yourself from those things that bring you negativity and unhappiness. And surround yourself with true friends and family and people like yourself healers and givers of light. To the rest of them fuck em. Lolol let them figure it out without you.

This is a MOUTHFUL.. THANK YOU.. I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS JUST LIKE THAT.. DEM BIG GIRL PANTIES GON COME IN HANDY..

I'm thinking it should be a check box on job apps👍SERIOUSLY,CAUSE EVEN WHEN YOUR AWARE...SOMETIMES THERES JUST THAT ONE THAT EFFECTS YOU ,I PRAY FOR THEM ,BUT DAMN THEY MAKE A MISERABLE DAY...SO IT'S GOOD TO KNOW YOUR ONE,THATS FOR SURE CAUSE IT HELPS,CAUSE THEN YOU LEARN HOW TO HEAL FROM THEIR ENERGY...BUT IT STILL SUCKS 😅😅🙏AN KIDS THAT DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT IT MEANS IF THEY'RE FEELING THESE THINGS TOO,THEY ALL THINK IT'S " JUST DEPRESSION " AND IT'S SO SAD,BECAUSE ADULTS AND PARENTS AREN'T AWARE OF IT ENOUGH...🙏🌈👍GOD BLESS ALL💝LOVE,LOVE,LOVE.AND ALOT OF BREATHING,LMAO😘🙏✝️

It's sad that you've never interacted with another human in your life.

I am sure you have met many without realising it. I believe a true empath is capable of analytic thought, and is therefore able to compartmentalize things/people/events that warrant consideration or not. Then there is the perhaps/maybe situation. This will take time and a little more thought. But you will be unscathed because of your ability to either store, act upon, or dismiss as you see fit. Never, ever forget the key, intuition. Never question it. As long as it doesn't mean any danger, trust it!!!

I used to think that I'm alone in this world...till today and I'm 32 years old

Unfortunately most empath support groups get swamped by fake-empaths, either narcissists looking for prey as a “funny joke,” or people who think that being a people-pleaser and abuse-enabler makes them empathic when they often have little heart for truly loving and healthy people. It’s pretty lonely trying to find others like ourselves.

Narcissist don’t know they are narcissist or they do most importantly people who FEAR being narcissistic aren’t narcissistic

And when it involves a power differential as in a doctor or professor this can cause problems.. Empaths can see behind the outer masks of Gurus of any kind. Doctors, teachers, politicians. We are a threat and when you tell them who they are you can be met with their fury at being exposed.

Amen to that!! Once you stand your ground, they will try to gain a way back into your life. No way !! I turned 74 yesterday (in years😊) Life is to short to allow people like that to make you miserable. It’s doesn’t mean it’s ok at any age, you never know when it’s your time. ❤

@@kayjohnson5524 Happy birthday!🎁🎊🎂🎈 I totally agree. Freedom is wonderful thing, especially freedom from narcissistic abuse.

Yesss to this.

Truth. One tiny single red flag is a good bye.

​@@kayjohnson5524Thank you for your post beautiful soul ❤ namaste 🙏🕊

Love this 😅 I definitely have a dark side and it’s not something people want to be on! 😂😈

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Why are you screwed?

I'm 70 honey and I went through the same thing and it took me till I was about 50 to get it straight in my head. But you've got this far and things will get much better. Good luck with the rest of your life and hopefully everything goes well for you. I do have a suggestion for you. I have studied stoicism for quite a while now and it seems to help me more than anything on these issues.

Congratulations! You deserve it.

@@janetbaker7848 the stoics were on top of everything! Love Ryan Holiday!

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Exactly!!!

Both my parents died young my dad 40yo my mom 56yo…3 siblings 1 died at birth my only brother..2 sisters who I have now cut off…and also a spouse..I have 2 sons but only am close to one..the other married twice and his 2nd controls him…and he lives out of state..it is interesting that they don’t understand why you are at their beck and call any longer….I am too old for their games…

Well you are preaching to the choir. The same thing happened with me. I was 37 when one July day in 1991 I snapped, almost strangled my sibling to death. I left and cut the whole family off for 25 years. No contact. NONE. Years later Spirit demanded I go back. I resisted. In 2015 I got really sick. The closeness of death made me comply. Here's the deep part. Narcissists DO NOT change. Everybody in the family made nice for three years. In 2019 my youngest sister who I had tried to strangle when I snapped in 1991 reverted to type by trying to gaslight my sister Kathy into believing I slandered her. I remained calm. From then till 2021 she kept up a campaign of constantly trying put downs, bellitling-the usual shtick when I would visit. Didnt work. Two days after Christmas there was a little group assembled. Suddenly everyone's mask dropped or slipped-especially my youngest sister. I could SEE how truly evil she was and still is. That inner demon in her recognized my insight and tried to ďrop a cover over her but again it failed. It also showed her as the ringleader and I could SEE the threads and webs she weaved in other lives as well. The others DID NOT know they were showing themselves. I did reconcile with the other sister but it took a year with her to realize she had been manipulated and gaslighted to once again destroy our relationship-just because of sheer narcissitic evil. Did another year of alienation because of Normas mad evil manipulation. I flew back to California and realized Spirit sent me back to SEE who they really are and why I had to leave in the first place- NOT to reconcile. There can be NO reconciliation with EVIL. When I left the first time I was too young and inexperienced to KNOW and SEE them and understand that type of evil or evil in general and certainly didn't expect it in my own birth family. But years of meditation, prayer, yoga and spiritual study opened the third eye of discernment. My sister Norma is truly evil and so are most of my birth family and the family she married into. I wish you well in your new life without those we are taught and conditioned are supposed to love and nurture us. A lot of time it just ain't so. And remember a scripture says a mans enemies will be those of his own household. Matthew 10:36. Peace

Can you not block their numbers. I just broke contact with a toxic sister again after being denied the right to choose my own preferred spot for a grave in a Naturecemetery and being accused i had an oitbursr, whilst she had, i remained calm and assertive. She then said vile things to my oldest sister that i overheard, which triggered me into a fullblown traumastate. Emergency consult with homeopath released so much heartbreak i feared a heartattack. Now calmer. Be strong, be brave.

Cut my family off four years ago and honestly I don’t miss the burden of them

@@gertrudevanvoorden1416 Understood. The same tging happened when I went back. I had times where I couldn't breathe and I knew I was close to having a heart attack. That would have given the narcissists exactly what they really wanted. Me dead. Didnt happen. I am even stronger and more empowered than ever before. They hate that I can calmly LAUGH at them. at least I could. Now I just don't bother with them and I told the other sister that they are,BORING because they stuck in the same old game.🤣🤣🤣 Stay strong. I suggest you use cord cutting meditations found here on YT coupled with solar plexus meditation for power and control.

Im right there with you

Absolutely 💯

Absolutely. I'm the same. I am super patient & kind. But......... Enough is enough. Don't make me loose my cool. You won't like it when I do. I will give one warning for you to quit your BS, your deliberate antagonism. I'll ask you to shut up & back off............... but the warning is always ignored! What do the Americans say?......... "Don't poke the bear"

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i learned to move faster and leave people, who aren’t interested or friend to me.

@@faragraf9380, same as me.

Same. I kicked several people out of my life, having regarded them as very dear to me before that. Somehow I attract people that just want to dump their shit on me and use me for their advantage. Don't want this any longer. I'm fine living for myself only.

You can't help the blind pretty much. It is a rare occasion to make them see again.

Same, but I'm not at the "screw that" phase yet.

​@@amable111The sooner you get to that screw that phase the better. Your emotions and mental well being needs to always be your number 1 priority. Once you can get to that stage, where you learn that you need to respect yourself more to not let toxic people harm you, the better.

@@kasuraga, I agree. I am at the age where I would rather just be alone.

Take care

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Sorry for your problems I know because I am in a marriage with a narcissistic person it sucks

Have decided to do my own thing and enjoy my life and be positive that's who I am and I like it and me

I am becoming dark and I DONT LIKE PEOPLE

Thank you❤️

I know exactly how you feel...and it hurts. It hurts me that I feel this way and it's hurts me to know you feel the same way. Yeah, it's fucked😒😒

Same boat friend. Mmy advice is to erect healthy boundaries, and develop strong standards for the people you allow into your life. You deserve the best, because you give your best 110% of the time! Don't give up on people, but learn to stop enmeshing yourself into EVERY stranger's problems, you know? Apathy is abusive in a normal person's hands, but it's a life saving tool in the hands of an empath. You can only give so much, and when you have everything taken from you, you are left with nothing to give.

No no no. Trying to get what you need from others by treating them as you want to be treated will work with a few people. Love them all but let the users toddle on.😂

I read a quote that said " there was a nice person they said fuxe this shit & they lived happily ever after " learning to say NO..... set boundaries & when u know ur being manipulated and controlled get away fast❤❤❤❤

Took me way too long also.. My mother, MIL and husband are narcissistic.. Since my MIL passed away my husband has been better.. I have also set a lot of boundaries with the help of a good counselor who has now passed away..Takes a toll on you mentally, emotionally and physically..

❤ thank you so very much for your comment. I'm 52and just now learning that I am not a weirdo but a beautiful person who has allowed too many too help destroy EVERYTHING in my life. But God is Good, and I am learning more about this every day and I am learning about boundaries but a bit scared to enforce them. But I'm getting there quickly. 🎉❤ Much of God's Beautiful Love to you. Be BLESSED 🙏.

You seem right on target. The biggest challenge comes when the narcissistic husband gets a incurable diagnosis and the empath stays until the end. Although it's rare, getting an apology or confession of inappropriate behaviors can happen on the narcissists' death bed. In some ways it's a relief in other ways it's almost like a final jab from the narc. Almost as if he was saying "yes I hurt you but you were foolish enough to stay all these years, so it's not all my fault. You abused yourself." Ugh, it's hard to swallow your anger when he's on his last breath. But what else would an empath do? It's taken years, but I've slowly regained my footing & feelings.

Redrose.... I, too, share a similar situation. My 47 yr marriage is over! My husband is a Narc! I ended the relationship! Free at last!

We were born this way, the Narcs were born there's. I grew up with one who played our Parents easily. I became the rebellious kid,he the one that made them proud for being such great parents. I left home as soon as I could very angry & confused. Immature & trusting knowone I struggled for years. But I helped others as a 'need' to do so,yet despising myself for the compulsion! Eventually maturity,rational & thinking befriending other empathic folk sorted me out. I became a professional Care giver. I try to be a compassionate person to all. Its the best of me & I'm grateful for it. But when I'm confronted by a Narcissist I can be as ruthless & cruel as they are & what scares me is that I enjoy it !

There is no other life. This is it. Except for life with Jesus.

Only you can change this... Take responsibility for your part and move on... Easier said then done I know... But if nothing changes, nothing changes... Much light n love to u.

Only if you are obedient

Now is the time for you.. go to a tranquil place in your mind, and your light will come back.. Your innocence wont come back, but the wise light will be back. 💖

Remember, these freaks couldnt wait to take your light. Keep what you have and do not share it again. Your purpose is YOU now whatever it is. Not the next life. That comes when it comes. Bathe is your OWN power it will make a difference! ML

I'm soooooooooooooo envious. I've got a narc.

How do I confirm if I'm an empath or not? Is there any particular test to know it?

​@@adarshmahajan6796Did you grow up feeling like the emotions of others had a heavy impact on your own emotions? I remember in jr high or highschool, a girl was crying her eyes out in class because something tragic happened in her life and I couldn't help but want to cry just as much because I felt so bad for her. Im constantly trying to be very considerate of other peoples feelings and how what I do or say affects those around me.

You are so lucky. I always believed that would happen to me, but....

@@deep-pond I only got lucky in my 40’s.. so keep praying, you never know when it’ll happen and keep believing.

I think it is a CURSE. We get drained and used so much. Its a hard existence

The hardest obstacle is the GUILT WE FEEL WHEN WE PULL AWAY AND LEAVE SOMEONE CLOSE TO US in order to save ourselves.

Ditto

Yep. And it can be just a little thing too, like the straw that broke the camel's back.

I know how you feel. I did the same. I also picked myself back up went out and found a better place. A lot what I was experiencing is at the present employer I’m with. That’s all changed I start my new one next week. At first I wasn’t going to give a notice, I was just going to pick up and walk out. On a professional level it wouldn’t look good on my end. But still I’m glad I’m getting out of there.

Yes!! Effort is KEY!! My older brother is a narcissist, but he does actually make an effort to be human sometimes. That’s the one and only reason I’ll communicate with him. I keep him at arm’s distance, however.

Glad you can relate to this

You will

At first I was shocked at learning about NPD because it answered all the problems I had been having with a few people. Then after almost 3 years of living with that knowledge and them only getting worse and more abusive I went COLD. I don't like what I turned into, no longer joyful and smiling, happy-go-lucky. My face is falling from the sadness and turmoil. I have been packing in between the f'ed up love bombing that is obviously fake; he just doesn't want to lose his cook, maid, etc. Now I find this video and am kinda shocked to see how many are in this "I've had ENOUGH " ship. We are truly never alone even tho we feel like we are ❤

@shan But don't forget the lesson.

@@christinemccoy4471👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

It's a normal process ... renew your mind and heart with the word of God and His Love for you.. I've been through it myself... I couldn't think straight.. drained so much until I couldn't take anymore.. and I left.. the best thing I ever did❤... another word for Narcissist is either being influenced by a demonic entity assigned to torment and try to destroy your true Empath qualities... Jesus was an Empath.. but look how He talked to the church leaders of His day.. ❤❤❤❤❤

You still care or you wouldn't be watching this. You have just finally established boundaries. Unfortunately for empaths, we have a hard time with a middle ground. It is usually all or nothing.

May you heal and time remove the sorrow that has bought you to these conclusions. I wish you peace and consolation

I align with everything you articulated. The swing of the pendulum has wrought harsh self- judgment for being too much of a people pleaser (read: weak), then morphing into a snarling wolf. I can now accept that it is part and parcel of being a super-empath. Thanks for your sincerity, for the courage to integrate your shadow (as Jung's teaches...), for revealing to me that the other side of the pendulum swing is not a character flaw, nor is the first side. I feel that now I can embrace both; enjoy the gift of giving, knowing that the she-wolf is not a beast but a natural protector. ❤💫

Yes I agree because I am 69 and now have the time to look back on a life of good positive experiences and some negative ones too, one thing that has shocked me not to judge people too harshly is discovering that about 95% of the problems that I encountered in my life with various family members were influenced by a dna reaction to gluten, this has had a dreadful negative effect on the physical, mental and emotional well-being of six of my closest family over three generations, it’s a long painful and tragic history and I am still in shock as to how much damage these allergies can cause, not to mention how much damage this may be causing in the wider community.

I can understand how challenging it must have been to deal with a narcissistic person and to finally speak out about their behavior. It's important to stand up for yourself. Have you found any strategies that were particularly effective in dealing with this situation, and what advice would you offer to others facing similar challenges?

This the most common thing that could have happened. If you speak out about narcissist and expose him for being a narcissist, they will manipulate you into feeling like you are the one to blame. A mind perfectly designed and accustomed to feed on other people’s energy will remain this way in the name of survival, unless they do something about it themselves, which is super difficult, since they’re trapped like an addict in that pattern. Just leave, as an empath you are narcissist’s food. Don’t be. It is on them to seek help and finally face the reality of their true self, it is on them, not on you.

I am the same way ! I have to get it out or I will explode! When I have had enough I will explode and lose my mind if you push me to far ! Example I have been married to my husband for forty two years for those forty two years his younger siblings have tried to annoy and bully me and others his younger sister. Refuses. To treat me or her nieces. Like family ! Well one day she was rude again with our daughter walk by our daughter like she did not exist and this shit has gone on for forty two years ! Well my daughter told her Aunt she was done that there would be no more abuse and she would not bother. Her anymore ! Which after Forty two years and her doing the ignorant behaviour of acting like we are not that important to her , I blew up and told her what I thought of her and her brother who were two of the biggest narcissists and find it necessary to constantly abuse ! But same thing I would write letters and not send go over things in my mind But when your mind finally says enough it explodes ! And it actually felt so good to say what I had to say but than being a empath I all ways feel guilty for losing my temper but I have allowed my self to get angry and I actually feel better ! I love my husband but I told him for my own mental health I can not see his family anymore. And he is fine with this because he is a empath also and he has had his own issues with his family

Be thankful that u have ur partner …and that they’re normal….

I did the same thing, except I sent the letter. - I was told, and I quote, "I don't think this letter warrants a response." This is from my sister, who was 9 when I was born, and she has hated me all her life...simply because I was born and being an empath made it even worse for me (I could feel all the hate but couldn't process it as a child) and for her ("You're such a goodie-two-shoes!)

Thank you So Much for Writing Each One & the Time Frame ❤ THESE ARE 💯 ACCURATE 🙏🏽

Ouch. Inverted narcissists. Such a messy dynamic between the narcissist and empath. Equally dysfunctional

​@@catherineband6023no. Empaths become like the above when abused for too long. The world doesn't have enough empaths and has too many narcissists

Yes. I see the point. I have learned sooooo much recently.

STRAIGHT UP FACTS 💯💯💯💯💯

you can strength your selfconvident and stay nearby yourself, not in need for others.

What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger? If that helps.

@@faragraf9380 is that

Sometimes it is good to put some one else in YOUR shooes for a change. Imagine that SOME ONE ELSE, your friend, your child, your dog is treated in the same way that you have been treated. What would you tell to that person? Probably you would tell her/him to leave the person that is treating you/her so horribly. So why do we stay in such a relationship?

I also put myself in someone else's shoes. I drove 6 hours to see a friend that is sick. I tried everyday for four days to see her. She didn't want me to come said she's not up to company. But her cleaning women was there. The plumber and the air duck men were coming the next day. I drove back to my home😢

Just remember that you will find yourself in a new version of yourself, not so much returning to yourself but more like you version 5.0.

Focus on your own healing. And conserve your energy.

It will be like a transformation. You will be a different version of "you". Refined and more whole. Healthier. Stronger. Happier. One day at a time

Sometimes they do know what they're doing

Great! Thanks for sharing

You don't sound the least bit Empathetic to me. There's no such thing as an Empath in clinical terms. It's a term coined in a Star Trek episode. Why do you need to give yourself special labels? You sound like someone who needs an excuse for unhealthy behaviors. One that leaves you Pure and Superior. That seems to be the TRUE definition of an "Empath" based on my experience and the comments here. Sounds like another way to manipulate and control others, that's all.

You won!! ✌+❤

Maybe, but it never feels that way.

@@genemagnette5483. Why? Because some people claim to be special so it’s their job to correct everyone, cause they say so? This Empath bit is just another Narcissist mask, worn to be awarded special consideration and privileges. Someone has to tell you about yourselves. Right?

@@genemagnette5483 Which proves that you have no clue what Empathy is. Do you? Or maybe clear things up and define it for us, demonstrating how it is identified, and how being the party pooper aligns with the definition? You can't can you? Nor do you even believe that you should, correct? Too busy telling yourself how special and gifted you are. Right?

I feel the exact same way you do, if only I had known this at a younger age, well baby I know it Now ❤ and they better be careful...be Blessed

Definitely!!!! I listened to this and literally sat down and checked off EVERY THING she described. My mother and I used to discuss these very things before she passed. She was a hyper empath. She saw it in me. When I used to tell her how much I changed from a nice person who cared to an at times bitter, curt person. She said “It’s not that your a bad person, you’ve finally become tired of all of the abuse you’ve endured from others! You’ve gone from not ever speaking up to what you perceive is the opposite!”

Thank you 💛💛

@@PsychBuzzyalso the healing from guilt takes a long time. This should be discussed more.

​@@synthiamiller5990It is ACCURATE to the 💯 🙏🏽 Experienced ALL OF THESE. It Made me Wonder About Myself Also; but I am Learning Now and Realizing What Happened to Me ❤ Thanks be to the ALMIGHTY GOD 🙏🏽 He Is OUR HEALER & STRENGTH ❤🙏🏽❤️

Well said

Very true. We also have to heal ourselves

I don't believe in goddesses or queens.

And they return very little to nothing. It sucks.

You get it! People think I'm a fake! It's one certain personality type that I have most of the trouble with. They can't understand caring about others simply because I do, wanting nothing in return. And these skeptics have tried to squash my light so many times, at this point, I want to shove it up their derriere! Enough!

It's essential to prioritize your own well-being as an empathetic person. Knowing when to distance yourself from negativity can help protect your inner light. Self-care is key. 😊 How do you maintain your positivity in challenging situations? ❤️

I am human the best thing for me is too acknowledge the challenge, ignoring does not work! Spending time focusing on the solution and honoring who I am helps, meaning being true to my core being based in love and peace as I look to surround myself with others of light! Peace and Love

Stay safe and strong

When I went through that, I was told by the person being narcissistic that "I've cut off my empathy." You don't wanna be horrible back but you also have to allow yourself to not feel so hurt, protect yourself etc, again it's probably a balance.

in fact there was a time I wasn't sure if I was actually a psychopath :( but i am not

@@saintessa yes I understand that definitely, I thought I was too because I want reacting anymore to other people’s pain and problems. But I realize because I was trying to heal myself

Once you get re harged you will be back. Walk the ground barefooted lay your hands on a tree

Especially when the brutal truth hurts everyone around you. But sometimes it’s necessary, people won’t listen sometimes.

You must know. Don't be harsh to yourself, you are doing the right thing, the thing that every normal human being must do in his lifetime. The most and very important thing: Don't change yourself, don't put it on yourself and don't lose hope.

And then when you've given everything you had, they say you haven't given enough.

Thanks!

Yes. Love from afar.

Wonderful!

This is so true.. I can't stand being gaslit,and knowing as it's happening and still there it is. It's like being in the Twilight zone, with a narcissist. Talk About stressful!! I've tried to use the tactical way's to put up protection barriers.If I'm with one past a certain point my barriers are let down and I'm screwed. That's no way to be , it's like wanting to be besties with someone who only wants you for their amusement or until something better comes around. It's not getting a backbone, it's getting to know myself and setting boundaries.

Thank you

You are so welcome

Me too. You have to learn how to "be" and empath. One must learn how to differentiate their energy from others, how to self-care, and how to say no. I have been an extreme empath my whole life, therefore narcissists are attracted to me. I had to learn about empaths, what kind I am, and narcissism to keep my energy and self safe.

Thanks for sharing this insight

It is funny to hear someone else call them that. I always call them energy vampires. 😢 Because that is exactly what they do. They suck the energy right out of you and drain it all if you are not careful. I try to avoid those people and situations at all costs.

trust in your light, the strongest power on this planet!

People mistake soft spoken as a weakness.

What is it about our words that offend?! I've always thought it was my plain-spokeness, my lack of tact. Maybe it's something else. I never, ever mean to offend, but I do! What is it?

Hi empath, just reaching out to you as an empath as well, I hate crowds myself, am also looking for what I call my spiritual family which are other empaths, you can hit me up anytime if you need someone to talk to, you know we're all healers as empaths right. Sandra is my name

Exactly the same😊

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