What I’ve Learned in my 20s | Friendship breakups, Toxic Habits, Finances, Mental health

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@CreativeLinchpin Месяц назад

Time really does go by fast, one minute you're a teenager and the next you're a full grown adult

@chaelayankah808 Месяц назад

Literally It felt like yesterday I was 16 now I am becoming a legal adult 18 Crazy how when we are young I wanted to be an adult. Boy was I wrong😮

@fefemyluv Месяц назад

So true! I was recently thinking about how it has been 14 years since I graduated from high school. 😮

@sabrinawhite7185 Месяц назад

I'm in my 50's and I want to say I love the journey you are on. Life is a learning experience. Take your time and keep God 1st in your life. Peace and Blessings to you!!!!❤

@afisanaa Месяц назад

The first 30 years is *K thru 12* 31-50 is *University* 51 and beyond is *Masters/PHD* I turn 60 this month. This has been my experience.

@naomifinewood1461 Месяц назад

I turned 28 this year and it feels like I just turned 18 in the sense that I feel like I have a who lot ahead of me which I'm suprisinging excited for. I have always envisioned my 30s being some of the best years of my life, especially considering I struggled with depression, anxiety and ridiculous amounts of backsliding and spiritual warfare. Now I am saved, healing in every area of my life and God is guiding pretty much every decision I make. I just NEED to make sure I receive his word and act on it with humility, wisdom, and diligence and the rest will flow into place - it ain't easy though whew! The one huge thing I took from this video is getting serious about my finances...Yikes, I had a viseral reaction to all the things listed but will rewatch, take notes, and make a plan of action for August. By the end of 2024 all my credit will be clear and ready to build up my credit score in 2025 IJN Amen!! 🙏🏾💜

@CocaColeyy Месяц назад

I promise you- Its wayyyyy better at 30+

@knowthyself5044 7 дней назад

Yes, it does🪷

@ibiyemib2191 Месяц назад

Being an adult and growing up has been lowkey an obsession of mine for many years, so much so that I have a blog called allgrownup haha. Growing up is a lot and I think we need to talk about it more. Especially the fact that alot of people are just coping with bad habits. It wasn't until God stepped in that I've been able to experience freedom

@jazeerakalanda6568 Месяц назад

Wwwuuuhhhuuuu am among the first🎉🎉🎉🎉...so happy! About to exit my 20's and boy am I scared of the 3rd floor, but with the Almighty and people to look up to like you Chizi, I GOT this!

@g33k707 Месяц назад

Scared of what

@destinyschild5768 Месяц назад

Not the 3rd floor 😂😂😂😂

@g33k707 Месяц назад

@@destinyschild5768 y'all are bugging 3rd floor one of the best

@g33k707 Месяц назад

@@jazeerakalanda6568 one of the best

@joyhopeweathers1698 Месяц назад

This was probably one of the best videos of watched in a longgg time! I was literally had a whole breakdown in my car this week saying how hard adulting is and I don’t know what I’m doing. I agree we really do need SUPPORT as adults! All the points you made about the emotional rollercoaster, finances, community and your board of advisors and self care and boundaries. Chef kiss girl!! Like this really needs to be talked about more! Iwould love if you shared a little bit more about financial literacy. Definitely going to get a financial advisor cause I wasn’t taught none of this. Thanks for making this video. Cause it definitely makes me feel like I’m not alone in trying to figure this adulting thing out! Love you Chizi!

@justicesarko Месяц назад

The information in this video is priceless 🤑

@ChiziDuru Месяц назад

🙏🏾 glad you enjoyed!

@inshira6093 Месяц назад

Wow, I did not know about the free financial advisor through your bank. I just signed up for a meeting so thank you!!

@ChiziDuru Месяц назад

You’re welcome :)

@realistUPLOAD Месяц назад

I’m 27 this year I’ve been following you for a long long time so it’s really crazy how the mindsets shift in stages all around the word just the same

@vaishnavigosain7197 3 дня назад

I'm in my mid 20's and i have struggled lot. Been through a lot of depressive times alone. I hope life changes for the better but to anyone looking for an advice just stop planning everything and don't live with regrets. Life goes as it goes and there is nothing you can do about it but live!

@alisaspraggins8116 Месяц назад

You’re figuring it out, Chizi 🎉; Be you and except who you are- good/bad, God loves us ; He’s Priority !!

@nancyediagbonya6222 Месяц назад

Ah Chizi!!! Been following you since the natural hair grad cap days when you were graduating college and now you’re almost 29🥹 And I’m in my last year of college. Full circle moment ❤️❤️

@elizabethokemmiri55 Месяц назад

Same!! 😊

@stylecheck1014 Месяц назад

Love your realness sis ❤

@ChiziDuru Месяц назад

Thank you ❤️❤️

@MsGH91 Месяц назад

I love me a good coloring book. It's a great stress reliever 😌🎨

@a1_beats345 Месяц назад

You're so right Chizi, all these life skills and advice you're stating are so good, it helps people put their lives in order. God bless you

@ngum-ako Месяц назад

one thing about me I'm going to break down about my inconvenience😭 I am working on it, but this adulthood is GHETTO

@ChiziDuru Месяц назад

😂😂😂

@haleeade8325 Месяц назад

I thoroughly enjoyed this video so much! Yes yes yes to everything from your financial habits follow you so you must become aware earlier than later to break habits 😅 and yes board of advisors - I learned of this from Stacey Abram’s book, loved it so much. ✨

@Prozee_J Месяц назад

Loved this video Chizi. So much wisdom, you are wise beyond your years❤

@Love-Janine Месяц назад

Great advice! Coming up on the big 21 and all i can say is this was veryyy helpful. One thing i've found helpful over the past year, is laughing at myself and not taking things so seriously. Life is short, LAUGH

@demonareid4645 22 дня назад

We are in the land of the living and there’s hope!! Yesss amen 💕😊 Thank you for sharing!

@ld4064 Месяц назад

Great Video! You hit some great points. I can relate heavily to what you are discussing and enjoyed how the information was presented in an unpretentious and casual manner.

@cassiebrunson1590 Месяц назад

I thoroughly enjoyed the vid, vwry informative and inspiring....now can we get one on that hair? The install and all? It's too cute

@foyinlolasworld6072 Месяц назад

Beautiful sit down video😊 Thank you for the reminder ❤

@ibiyemib2191 Месяц назад

Loved it..... Always waiting for your videos lol

@linda-jeanhammond740 Месяц назад

Loved this video. Thank you Chizi. Would be really interested in a hygiene video as well

@rosedevyne858 Месяц назад

Great advice🙌🏾👍🏾

@MyAfricathis Месяц назад

Excited to be early here😊

@danielle2642 Месяц назад

Love this!❤

@fynedu8065 Месяц назад

Very good video & advices !

@alianewsome8676 18 дней назад

You look so beautiful with no make up on.

@DamiColon Месяц назад

Can you share the camera you're using? You look beautiful and the picture is so clear xoxo

@Lydia-t2k Месяц назад

My favorite Gal❤❤❤ . I'm 29 now,i don't think I'm ready for 30 lol

@trinandrealewis001 Месяц назад

So true 8:46

@ezettastewart4278 Месяц назад

💕💕💕

@rosedevyne858 Месяц назад

❤

@Jaja_nsh Месяц назад

I wish they were time stamps on this video

@NatashaMulowa Месяц назад

honestly, it wont make sense with time stamps because everything is connected. watch the full video because its so so good i promise, felt like a big sister hug

@Dorian_Gray123 Месяц назад

You are only 29???!!! With all the posts about your parents pressuring you to get married soon. I assumed you were in yours 40s or something. Which I was very confused about because you look really really really good for 40s😭😭😭😭 I am a south Asian and now realise that Nigerians and south Asians are similar in their parenting style 😅😂😅🤣😂😭😭😭😭😭

@ChiziDuru Месяц назад

I’m still 28! lol

@Dorian_Gray123 Месяц назад

@@ChiziDuru I hope I did not offend you. You look your age. I was just confused because of your videos where your parents were nudging you to get married so I assumed you were older. 😅 you are beautiful 💗