What If She's Also Doing No Contact | Why it Doesn't Matter 

You are basically enabeling this behavior, by having your door always open.

@3SRtales Not anymore. I closed the door. But anyways isn't that exactly what this channel teaches ? That women come & go as they please like a cat and you must accept it

@@puertoricanprince7690i think we should never close the door, we just need to Get detached from them and fook them the moment they step in that door

@@3SRtales Damn good point, sir

@@puertoricanprince7690 ​​⁠ ​​⁠ It s unacceptable in a commited relationship, if a woman disappears for several days or weeks. If you re dating still, it depends on what you re looking for. You only tolerate what you want. It s your frame. The cat metaphor is just saying „never chase“ (and it works).

What's your purpose and mission ?

That's fine. If she never reached out again, she never wanted you in the first place.

Lol. It worked perfectly.

You are so right man, this agreeing answer is coming from a young guy 30+ enjoying my loneliness from within and building my life as well

@@bYz4rEel That’s awesome.

What about the need for s3x?

@@nteta10k If you are just looking for sex then why are you getting attached?

@@nteta10k They don't have it

@@Themajoritydoesnotrulemy-iw4ds Very true....

Yeah, its risky for men now more than ever@@Themajoritydoesnotrulemy-iw4ds

She can be. The guy in the video was just being needy and seeking reassurance signaling to the woman he's afraid he'll lose her.

The only thing you need in your sickness is God and a Doctor.

What's the point then, if you want the girl lol ?

@@juliend9495 If she wants you less, than you want her, she is basically wasting your time.

That's what they're doing so that's what you have to also do

Bro throw her stuff out asap lol

@@p0tah7 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Just drop it on her porch and dip. That right there tells them you're serious about moving on. She's gonna get upset and make a fuss about it. Trust me.

If you were strong before the no contact and you're in no contact because of a pullback test, she probably didn't take a look at other men. If she pulled back because you were needy and she wanted space, she 100% was probably trying to find a stronger option. You just have to be honest with yourself about which situation you're in. If you guys lived together, that's a huge mistake btw.

Sadly, you're both being selfish. You don't want to give in, neither does she. Best to just give it time. Time is the best arbiter.

Stay in no contact until she reaches out and don't cry in front of her or express your feelings in stuff. If she's at least close enough where you can drive to see her on the weekend, the long distance relationship is actually your best friend here. Women build attraction in the time you spend away and this makes it easy for you to limit your attention. Don't call or text much in the interim if she does come back. Try to only use electronic communications to set in person meetups.

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Maybe tomorrow or the day after, hang on a bit more brother 😂

It’s dead bro

@@OnderHassan lol. I was joking when I typed that.

move on. find someone who is actually interested in you. She isn't the perfect girl for you because she isn't into you. If she was perfect for you she would want to be with you

​@@fiat_ow7876 You are right. I can't show interest to girls that are interested in me. Maybe I am just into the girls who don't even want me. It could be some type of mental illnes of mine. But the problem is that I can't get rid of it. And don't know how to.

Use law 36 things that you can’t control avoid or ignore it

@@el-huncho7658 thank you

My ex is an angel, I know there were lots of orbiting guys waiting for her to breakup to have a chance with her. But she loved me, strongly, so I’m hoping we can sort it out before she’s taken and moved on🤞

@@terryl9996so are you saying I should ask her to hang out then ask her on a date

@@terryl9996 you are chris ? 🤣

@@neshifuturowho

Go and approach her. Tell her "Hey, you seems like a cool girl, Can I have your number So we can hang around " Something like that, keep it simple If she like you, she will make easy for you. If she doesn't want to meet or want to share her number, move on She has to like you more , then you like her.

@@junaidahmed6486so do you think I should ask Shaina my crush out

I know its hard but you gotta stop texting her and move on..I been in your shoes before, the best thing I did was delete her off all my socials, stop texting her and moved on with my life

@@bry9895 thank you for your opinion, i did remove her from everything the day we broke up, we only talk on email. I will stop doing that too. She doesn’t mind talking to me, she just doesn’t wanna talk about the breakup. I will start no contact now. Work on myself. Rest everything on time.

No. She sees you as a weak man. Just move on dude. You already killed the attraction when you got emotional and angry.

@@fernvill27 bro, she literally cries every time i get angry. In fact the same happened yesterday. She cries when i use strong words. Also update, I talked to her mom yesterday, and they said they are very disappointed and angry with their own daughter. They said they aren’t happy with the breakup, they even opposed it, and they too claim she is being psychotic right now, not only with me but with them too, with her own parents. All because of new found job, friends, partying and exposure.

@@adityatripathy3334 she obviously has issues. In my opinion, just move on. It will be better for you in the long run. She's not going to change.

Exactly. I feel like that's where the distinction needs to be. If y'all are exclusively dating, and she can't even check up on you when you're sick or etc, she needs to be questioned about it. Because if the roles were reversed, all hell would break loose if the guy showed her no support while she was sick.

@@tfkvng3187 yeah I don’t believe that you should go no contact if you see you’re committed girlfriend or wife going cold/distant! That’s not something you ignore and hope it goes away

It seems as if she liked you at start but perhaps felt you exhibited some weak and needy behaviours underneath/like you were doing, persisting to get her back on the date, instead of giving the CCW "I don't care attitude" arrange another date and move on, you said you really like her and messaged people online about it, she must of also got that impression, always as Chris says in this video be the one of higher value, make her feel like SHE is lucky to be with you, continue to work on yourself and keep going! Date multiple women also, don't invest too much too early, you've invested way too much energy into this women who hasn't shown/apart from opening her legs one night, that she is worthy. Ask yourself/swap the script, do you think she has proven she is good enough to date you? Have a high regard for yourself and confidence. It's all mental. Good luck! Go to the gym, lift heavy, you will strengthen from this, always stay focused on your mission and purpose in life, girls come and go like cats, have an abundance of options thus you have the POWER, not HER. Easier said than done but it's the only and best way/course of action. Be indifferent of her behaviour, exhibit and possess STRENGTH AND ALPHA MALE traits.

@@alexholmes7249 we don't talk anymore she was the last one to send a message I won't force anything with anyone who doesn't want to be around so I say goodluck to her

Your father sounds like a loser. And thus, in turn, you probably inherited loser genes.

​@DevelopAttraction 😆ruthless. You sure you don't have a vicious girl writing your lines m8😉

​@DevelopAttraction you probably pay for women you little dweeb

​@@DevelopAttraction😂