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What wedding moment made you think "they're not gonna last long"? 

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@gloriamontgomery6900
@gloriamontgomery6900 Месяц назад
I played the organ for a wedding . The ceremony was delayed 45 minutes because the bride had been late for the rehearsal dinner and the groom felt he needed to punish her by being late for the wedding. After 30 minutes of playing prelude music I went to see what was going on. The bride was in the bathroom completely hysterical. A former girlfriend of the groom had showed up. Just an absolute mess of a situation.
@CaeliSterlingtheFirst
@CaeliSterlingtheFirst Месяц назад
How long did they last?
@gloriamontgomery6900
@gloriamontgomery6900 Месяц назад
@@CaeliSterlingtheFirst I don’t know, I didn’t really know them-I had been asked to play for the wedding because the regular organist wasn’t available. I suspect they didn’t last long!
@lydiapetra1211
@lydiapetra1211 18 дней назад
I don't get why get married if their relationship is so rocky?dude sounds like a jerk...
@vbarreiro
@vbarreiro Месяц назад
When in my cosuin’s wedding part of the bride’s vows was “Loving you has been one of the hardest things I’ve ever done” and then there was no “but”, she just moved on to the next point. They lasted less than a year.
@Cloudmaster1511
@Cloudmaster1511 Месяц назад
dafuq why marry then?
@jipsileigh4903
@jipsileigh4903 Месяц назад
I can empathise with this. Me and my son's father never got married but 9 months into the relationship I started thinking this, then a year in I said it a few times to him, there was a but though, I said 'loving you is hard, very hard sometimes but I will love you anyway cos you need it' and he did, he still does but the way he goes on with drugs and mood swings (especially his violence and verbal abuse due to an angry mood swing or due to drug abuse) I tried helping him and supporting him in whatever way I could but nothing helped and he couldn't change, so I tried to get him diagnosed or have psychiatric help to see if it was something specific we could treat or if he had like ADHD or a type of autism he couldn't control or acknowledge but there was no self help during the wait and bringing our little boy in the world it was dangerous and I had to leave, not cos I didn't care for him but because I had to keep our son safe. I didn't demand anything off him, I just left and told him if anything just to look after hinself. He is on the list to be tested for ADHD and\or autism as he has been cleared for bipolar and BPD. I hope he gets the help and support he needs, until then, though he deserves love from a girlfriend, he probs shouldn't be with anyone cos it's toxic and confusing and scary :\ he deserves a lot more for himself and in his relationships, I just couldn't put ou r son in that fluctuating environment and neither could I cope with the emotional turmoil and anxiety :\
@LMCorvinus
@LMCorvinus Месяц назад
😂 what a hilariously awful thing to say at your wedding ceremony
@althealee9375
@althealee9375 Месяц назад
Geez I would’ve left. And my dad probably would’ve decked the groom
@SallyJesseRaphael420lol
@SallyJesseRaphael420lol Месяц назад
Any time someone shoves cake in someone’s face. I never approved of this “tradition”
@taraellis8279
@taraellis8279 Месяц назад
We did it pre planned in our little wants lol it was fun.
@StealthTheFoxz
@StealthTheFoxz 24 дня назад
@@taraellis8279 Preplanned is one thing. Against one's wishes is another.
@taraellis8279
@taraellis8279 23 дня назад
@@StealthTheFoxz thats why i mentioned it. The right way.
@mztweety1374
@mztweety1374 Месяц назад
Do not pressure a man to ask him to marry you... it will end in tears because it wasn't from his heart honey.
@RubyRedRainbow
@RubyRedRainbow Месяц назад
Agreed. Plus you can have an amazing, lifelong relationship without ever getting married. The pressure of being forced to commit and the immense stress of planning a wedding can kill a relationship.
@krisCrashTV
@krisCrashTV Месяц назад
And if you share economy you can just have a contract about that if you want the safety of marriage.
@tagtraumerin5077
@tagtraumerin5077 Месяц назад
I see this more as setting boundaries. Marriage can be an important value for many. If you’re in a longterm relationship and realise that your partner doesn’t plan on getting married, you have to look for someone else who share your values.
@RubyRedRainbow
@RubyRedRainbow Месяц назад
If your partner never wants to get married but has no desire to end the relationship, why ruin a great thing.
@kimberlyyyyy44
@kimberlyyyyy44 Месяц назад
Yes because you never know why they aren’t proposing. My husband took 5 years to propose and it turns out it’s because he was saving up because he wouldn’t promise to me anywhere but Paris❤️ Worth the wait ❤️
@lucies804
@lucies804 Месяц назад
Honestly the one where she summoned him and he held her train was giving more "femdom" than "abuse" to me. We really don't have enough information to tell either way, but the image of OP feeling so sorry for his friend being treated like a servant while the groom happily simps for his wife is kinda funny
@hsihdbssbcjtzksk7426
@hsihdbssbcjtzksk7426 Месяц назад
Lmao, same. I thought it was just their thing or something. Dom/sub dynamics
@pokemagetech
@pokemagetech Месяц назад
Or just doting.
@aprettygothichick
@aprettygothichick Месяц назад
Honestly, if that's the kind of relationship they both want and it's all completely consensual, I really don't see anything wrong with it. Just because it isn't someone else's "normal" doesn't mean it's bad or abusive
@theencolony5595
@theencolony5595 Месяц назад
​@@aprettygothichick I have a pair of old friends who are together with a "pet" kind of dynamic. Visiting them is a wild experience each time, but they're both incredibly happy and supportive about the relationship!
@SatyreIkon
@SatyreIkon 19 дней назад
I immediately thought "mmmm, some kinky stuff going on there!" People who can express that dynamic without rubbing it in peoples' faces in an obvious BDSM fashion usually have VERY healthy relationships in my experience because they are very open with one another and that helps TREMENDOUSLY to solve problems in a relationship.
@goodgollymissmolly7624
@goodgollymissmolly7624 18 дней назад
About story 10, it was not on the groom, that bride was absolutely abusing him. Maybe not physically - hell, maybe she was - but definitely emotional abuse was happening. It’s so difficult for victims of domestic abuse to be able to leave their situations, and this includes men being abused by their wives. The sad thing is that while women aren’t often believed because “he’s such a great guy!”, men aren’t often believed because “women can’t abuse men, that’s impossible!” I feel so bad for him, and I hope he genuinely does get his happily ever after.
@erickpoorbaugh6728
@erickpoorbaugh6728 10 дней назад
Exactly. It's easy to say from an outside perspective that an abuse victim is stupid for not leaving, but the fact is, domestic abuse is specifically designed to keep the victim from thinking clearly like that.
@MsAquamonkey
@MsAquamonkey Месяц назад
The groom turned up wasted, we heard the groomsmen saying he'd been drinking since six am. The wedding was at two in the afternoon. She kept dragging him around, forcing him to hug and kiss her, shouting at him when he didn't do what she wanted. She also screamed at guests to shut up several times. After the ceremony, several of his friends said he didn't want to get married or have any more kids, he'd been married before, but his fiance 'forced his hand.' They're still married but he's put his foot down and they aren't having kids.
@destmichael
@destmichael Месяц назад
😂😂😂I feel a marriage is doomed if there's a cake smash and either party is unsuspecting or unset. Like if it's mutually agreed upon that doesn't count but it spells divorce for anyone who pranks their newly wed spouse with a confectionery surprise attack. 😮
@GillianBergh
@GillianBergh Месяц назад
If one of the partners thinks a surprise cake smash would male their wedding reception memorable - how come they don't arrange to trip , so they get covered in cake? It's about controlling the other person.
@taraellis8279
@taraellis8279 Месяц назад
My husband and i pre planned it and it was so much fun!
@MzMidnight
@MzMidnight Месяц назад
Return of the King
@Daniel-cr7vx
@Daniel-cr7vx Месяц назад
The old narrator is back.(Edit: I honestly don’t care but it’s funny seeing chaos.)
@BIGGER_RED
@BIGGER_RED Месяц назад
The chaos has been great to follow 😆
@crealol2
@crealol2 Месяц назад
Maybe they're taking turns narrating to get videos out faster?
@ABadPassword
@ABadPassword Месяц назад
​@@crealol2 DING DING DING. I'm a narrator on the other channel, that's the goal (at least for now).
@BengalEmpire767
@BengalEmpire767 Месяц назад
Both narrators are good tho
@JomanJorito
@JomanJorito Месяц назад
​@BengalEmpire767 the last one (not the original) had a bad sense of humor and wasn't as "heartfelt" There was no real relationship in his voice just overall not great
@NaughtyNina1240
@NaughtyNina1240 Месяц назад
To answer your question about our own encounters at doomed weddings: my uncle called me to complain because i didn't come over to his wedding he has divorced 3 times "You must come, it is once in a lifetime moment for me" and I replied "Is it?" and he got mad at me i was sick of saying same toast 3 times not ready to say it 4th time Few months later they did end up divorcing.
@colonelrobertsjr.7882
@colonelrobertsjr.7882 Месяц назад
Remarrying an ex is like reheating McDonald's fries in the microwave
@latoyalegemah787
@latoyalegemah787 Месяц назад
😅
@whiskeymoore
@whiskeymoore Месяц назад
soggy and disappointing
@helookalikaman79
@helookalikaman79 Месяц назад
BRIDES when HIS family tells you NOT to marry him... BELIEVE THEM.... Prince Charming then say "I do" the bell rings ROUND #1 With Mike Tyson...
@Wolfie54545
@Wolfie54545 Месяц назад
*SON ALLERGY*
@kyototomokui6676
@kyototomokui6676 Месяц назад
Lmao
@JoshSweetvale
@JoshSweetvale Месяц назад
The greatest gift you can give your relative for their wedding is _event security._ Who answers to them, not you.
@user-ec3rm9wr1n
@user-ec3rm9wr1n Месяц назад
People do what's good for them .... Everyone knows how to build a family..... If they want to...
@eamonnator
@eamonnator Месяц назад
OLD NARRATOR IS BACK
@luvondarox
@luvondarox Месяц назад
😂 That polite hesitation on "drama people.... love drama. :)"
@TheSkiLiftGuy
@TheSkiLiftGuy Месяц назад
Honestly I am ok with 2 narrators for 2 hours a day of videos
@helloelena
@helloelena Месяц назад
Honestly, the stories are interested but the car driving in the background makes me dizzy. Couldn’t continue watching
@mo-s-
@mo-s- Месяц назад
I actually really like the car
@jasonellis4330
@jasonellis4330 Месяц назад
​@@helloelenajust listen to it then
@plastiqueneurosis
@plastiqueneurosis Месяц назад
My dad was drinking up the entire bar from free drinks and my step mom just had a few shots and margaritas. My dad had to lifted into the van . I think that set the mood for the marriage. They drink most nights and leave the entire bars worth of empties near the back door. I live under the philosophy that if you drink you’re unhappy or can’t have fun without drinking.
@shitneyb5562
@shitneyb5562 Месяц назад
You ever had a damn husband?
@plastiqueneurosis
@plastiqueneurosis Месяц назад
@@shitneyb5562 he drinks to deal with you.
@shadeblackwolf1508
@shadeblackwolf1508 Месяц назад
If you're normal but have a racist family, i would totally go black and white, a vanilla and a chocolate cake, and two choices of meal, but i wouldn't make it seggregated, let people choose.
@MariaDUS1976
@MariaDUS1976 Месяц назад
I was not even 18 when I got married and my husband to be was 21. It was 51 years ago...we are still married.
@ValleyOakPaper
@ValleyOakPaper Месяц назад
Yes, OG narrator! 🤗
@Jum-df9ug
@Jum-df9ug Месяц назад
Old person
@babosplace
@babosplace Месяц назад
my own wedding lol...we were getting married at the courthouse...we were in a room waiting to go into the judges chambers to be "counseled"...when the bailiff called us, my fiance had disappeared...he thought he was funny...he was in a corner behind a potted plant, rocking back and forth and repeating the word NO, over n over...i just thought "oh this isnt good" lol...and it want, what a nightmare
@GillianBergh
@GillianBergh Месяц назад
Is 'counselling' a normal thing either with courthouse or American weddings? When I was at school in the 1970s, we learnt something about French customs during French classes. (I don't say French lessons, as it used to imply something dodgy). :-) One of the things we were taught, was that before getting married, couples see a lawyer to decide how to divide the property in case of divorce.
@babosplace
@babosplace Месяц назад
@@GillianBergh where im from, whomever is marring u can say they need to council the couple...and if they dont think u should get married, then they can refuse to marry the couple.
@ff-pj3de
@ff-pj3de Месяц назад
22:44 When you decide to form your wedding around the "Interracial" tag
@JC-tf9wo
@JC-tf9wo Месяц назад
19 year old married 41 year old with 18 year old daughter. Right before the wedding they were fighting and she was having a meltdown over votive candles. Very immature and we all were against it. They annulled the wedding two months later. She said she wanted alimony. Judge laughed. It was a no.
@kristalsea
@kristalsea Месяц назад
Wouldn’t you be just as miserable married as dating?
@stadot1427
@stadot1427 Месяц назад
YES! Only worse, because now you're "stuck" and if you break up, it's a divorce. That being said, you would be surprised how many marriages can be salvaged if the spouses are willing.
@IllObserveAndReport
@IllObserveAndReport Месяц назад
Go get some therapy,learn to love yourself and keep it moving!!!...sounds like a solid plan to me😁😁
@canisXpolaris
@canisXpolaris Месяц назад
I believe my cousin was in, or a part of the costume wedding party. Some points of that story sound incredibly familiar
@Thatblueprotogen
@Thatblueprotogen Месяц назад
Fun fact! No body has finished the entire video yet! At the time of writing this the video was uploaded 18-19 mins ago.
@UnderSparked
@UnderSparked Месяц назад
I have a chrome extension that allows me to watch videos at 4x speed, try again. (didn't understand a single word said in the video)
@Henryeatspbj
@Henryeatspbj Месяц назад
@@UnderSparked4x? Rookie numbers I prefer 6x ( I have no clue what was happening)
@Thebigpiigg
@Thebigpiigg Месяц назад
@@UnderSparkedthat’s still 25 minutes 🤓
@kyototomokui6676
@kyototomokui6676 Месяц назад
@@Henryeatspbj6x? Rookie numbers, I watch my videos at 24x! (It goes so fast that the screen is nothing but epilepsy triggers)
@ZombieForLife_Unknown
@ZombieForLife_Unknown Месяц назад
@@Thebigpiiggtry that math again 😂
@Just1Nora
@Just1Nora Месяц назад
One of the things I see or hear in videos or reddit reads that is telling is if there is a violent cake smash. Not just a little cake or frosting boop on the nose, but the full on, basically hitting someone's face with a slight cake buffer, or slamming their face into cake on the hard table. Wedding dresses, wedding makeup, and wedding cake are all usually fairly expensive and complicated, so to ruin that effort and money spent on a surprise mean spirited and violent act towards someone you're supposed to love? It just doesn't make sense to me. How do you rebuild trust with someone who treats you that poorly on a day that is supposed to be about how much you love each other? Birch, yes the tree, is a good YT safe alternative for the b word, but honestly, even if my fiance yelled, "Shut up, woman," at me, that would be it for me. I knew that the c word was more common in Aus, but I hadn't heard that calling someone birch was more...acceptable? as well. If your SO is yelling and cussing at you on our wedding day, then that's a HUGE red flag! Plus, if someone "self medicating" that hard, then they probably have other things that should really happen first, like therapy or counseling, and possibly treatment from a psychiatrist. As for why a man would marry someone he doesn't like much less love? He's probably found someone he thinks will take care of him. There are lots of men out there who are looking for a maid or second mommy to take care of them and clean up after them. They think that their job is the only effort that they need to put into the relationship. Romance and acts of love beyond their own physical gratification? Nah, they did that while dating to get them that far. Laundry? Nope, that's "women's work"! Cooking and cleaning? Mommy never taught him how, so now he's useless and it's "too late to learn." (Weaponized incompetence) Parenting? Hell no! The woman handles all that. They work a career, then they play or relax leaving the hard work to their partner. Manchildren. My parents were engaged 6 wks after MEETING, no friendship or getting to know you before dating, and yeah they both rushed into that one without thinking, and it all blew up in my tweens to teens (because middle school didn't suck enough as it was, right?) They've been divorced for over 20 yrs now, longer than they were married. Dad still texts Mom on their anniversary, which is a bit weird, ngl. While I wouldn't call them friends, they are civil, live only a few mi apart, and do still care about each other in some capacity, which is much better than many divorced couples. We've been able to have holidays together and such, and if Dad or I need something small, we're both disabled and are living together, Mom is usually willing to help.
@SatyreIkon
@SatyreIkon 19 дней назад
My ex wife and I were one of those couples for others. There were some incompatibilities and I heard more than one person say we wouldn't last long with that stuff in the back. Now we're indeed getting divorced... after 19 years of being together, 17 years of living together, 14 years of marriage and in mutual friendship. We made work what wasn't supposed to work and I'm hella proud of that.
@Eggshellrabbit
@Eggshellrabbit Месяц назад
I listened to this whole thing and two other longer videos while doing some art projects. Thank you for motivating my unhealthy obsession ❤
@krisCrashTV
@krisCrashTV Месяц назад
Maybe couple #1 should have prolonged their relationship with a ski or city vacation.
@gilliganallmighty3
@gilliganallmighty3 Месяц назад
Story 28 the marriage should have been ruled invalid, as the bride was obviously compelled to go through with it. The judge failed in his duty.
@marthasalter405
@marthasalter405 Месяц назад
I was MOH for a good friend, as long as I’d known her she dated women (before dating groom). Before marrying her husband, said she hadn’t told him about her history AND said it wouldn’t be his business if she had affairs. They had a child together and were divorced but apparently were able to remain friendly. I think she was mostly getting married to escape her parents.
@Termini_Man
@Termini_Man Месяц назад
2:37 To be fair I'm sure some dresses can be very limiting, so she might not have been able to. I'm giving the benefit of the doubt.
@Regrettable-Username
@Regrettable-Username Месяц назад
My time to shine! It was a lifelong friend, she's like a sister of mine. Background: She'd known this guy when they were kids, but he moved away for some reason and they lost touch. So he comes back to town and they meet up to catch up...48hrs later they are engaged. I wish I was joking here, but that's the exact timeline here. I was a bridesmaid, so I got an inside look at how doomed this relationship was from the jump. Friends and family were making bets on when it'd end, no one was excited about it at all, we were just there to be involved in the life event of our loved one. The day of the wedding NO ONE on his side even showed up. None of his family members, none of his friends and none of the wedding party, they had to get her brother to stand in for the man of honor. If you look at the pictures from that day we look annoyed or exhausted, even the bride and groom. If you had no context, you'd think it was from a forced school function or something because we all look like we'd rather be anywhere else. They lasted a few years, it probably would've ended earlier if she hadn't gotten pregnant and almost died in childbirth.
@blackosprey2219
@blackosprey2219 Месяц назад
Any idea why things moved that fast?
@Valkyrior_
@Valkyrior_ Месяц назад
I liked other narrator. He was funny, had some real charm. Always happy to hear your voice as well.
@Fade_NB
@Fade_NB Месяц назад
THE RETURN OF THE KING
@lmaChroma
@lmaChroma Месяц назад
That 100 years one was sad but it could have been so cute. X and I have been married for one year but it feels like 100, we've created a lifetime worth of memories and experianced more love than I thought possible. I wouldn't change it for the world and I wish you two the same happiness
@PeriwinklePig
@PeriwinklePig Месяц назад
Phrasing and tone makes all the difference...
@blackosprey2219
@blackosprey2219 Месяц назад
Not exactly a wedding moment, but a wedding downsizing. My friend group and I were all skeptical of our friend's relationship because his gf seemed to share no interests or beliefs with him, seemed to isolate and control him (he moved out of state and she didn't let him use social media), and money was always extremely tight. Originally they were gonna have a normal wedding open to friends and family, but then decided on a private ceremony to save money. Miles away from all of us, money so tight that they can't afford to have 5ish old friends around. He got divorced about a year and a half later. Financial stress got to him, though I don't think having polar opposite political views and no shared interests helped either.
@LoveValentineXO
@LoveValentineXO Месяц назад
BEST NARRATOR!! 😊😊😊😊
@fantasystaplesuwu1554
@fantasystaplesuwu1554 Месяц назад
Hi UnderSparked, I'm curious what that racing game is called in the background? I haven't played a racing game since I was a kid and this one looks neat
@Amiwa3
@Amiwa3 Месяц назад
My aunt's 1st wedding. I was around 7 years old, and I was the flower girl. They were highschool sweethearts and in their early 20s. He was in the military and had to travel to another state for training. She wanted to move out with him. My grandma said no because she is the baby of the family. With my mom's persuasion she decided to let her get married before she left because she had to be a "virgin." I don't think she was at this point. She was always a troublemaker. I don't remember much of the wedding as I was so young. But what I know they were having trouble having kids. The doctor told him he needed to lose weight to be able to have kids, and he refused. He ended up cheating, and she met a twice her age guy online and moved in with him before the divorce was finalized. They lasted 6yrs. With 2nd guy, she got married and had 2 kids. After around 13 years, they were divorced. I met him once, but he is super masajonistic and ah. They would call the police for their fights constantly. 4 months after the 2nd divorce, she married a 3rd guy behind everyones back. He is a nice guy, but my aunt constantly cheats on him with her kid's father. Poor man doesn't even know. For the high school sweetheart, idk aperently what my mom tells me he is married and happy.
@kimhohlmayer7018
@kimhohlmayer7018 Месяц назад
You’re back! So glad!!!!!!!
@scarletonyx8507
@scarletonyx8507 Месяц назад
I was at a family members wedding and the night before the wedding the bride found out the groom had been cheating for a while. There was a rapidly deteriorating grandparent and the bride insisted the wedding go ahead or the groom would never see or hear from her again. Their marriage was annulled before they had even returned from the honeymoon of 2 weeks.
@v_doll
@v_doll Месяц назад
I'm not German, but we have a similar tradition in Poland (and apparently many other countries since it started in ancient Rome): the bride and groom take a shot of vodka and throw their glasses backwards over their heads. It doesn't really symbolize anything other than a gesture for good luck. I started doing research and apparently the newlyweds will experience as many years of happiness and good luck as many pieces of broken glass they managed to count
@resolute1922
@resolute1922 Месяц назад
When the bride's sister called the groom a jerk during the toast.
@MisatoBestWoman
@MisatoBestWoman Месяц назад
*This narrator is my favourite* Marriage is a important thing to enter into, it’s disappointing so many people don’t understand that yet enter into it only to divorce months or years later, obviously there are genuine reasons to divorce I’m talking about the people who should not have gotten married but did. Also (we) need to stop the overspending on weddings it’s ew.
@Codm22712
@Codm22712 Месяц назад
Aa he’s back yay
@Lilou_Smiley
@Lilou_Smiley 5 дней назад
Story 46 should be a whole movie
@jmcatee62
@jmcatee62 Месяц назад
what game is this? i’ve watched a bunch of your videos now and i feel so calm watching this, i gotta play it
@dominikakratochvil860
@dominikakratochvil860 Месяц назад
My friend married a sexist idiot. They were dating three months when he proposed (without ring). After that, she paid for everything (she was single mother and still he didn’t pay for anything, only thing he paid for was $50 for his suit). That was first “they not gonna last”. I was bridesmade. When we wanted to make her bachelorette party, he didn’t let her go unless it will be bachelorette/bachelor party, both together. So we all watched how he got wasted, while she must silently sit in the corner. That was second “they not gonna last”. We all told her not to marry him, but she was pregnant and didn’t want to be alone with two kids. So she married him. And after ceremony, I was talking to her uncle and cousins, when groom came and start talking about my boobas, like if I was not there! He start asking them if they are real or not, and how he touched (he didn’t, I would never let such discusting guy touch me!). I said my piece of mind about him right there, he was angry I humiliated him. I think he deserved it. Well, they didn’t last even a year. He stoped working a few weeks after wedding, forced her to go back to work right after birth so they have money, but still wanted her to do everything at home. She was nothing more than maid and brood mare (the baby will be boy, or they will have emediately another. They had boy, and when she get pregnant again, he forced her to abort, because she couldn’t work if pregnant, and he had his boy already). She also find out he owed a lot of money, and because she married him, now half of it is on her. The last thing was, when he got jealous because she talked to another guy and he beat her. Badly. 😢
@LordMondegrene
@LordMondegrene Месяц назад
When she stabbed him in the back with a power drill before the ceremony.
@christinesinclair6938
@christinesinclair6938 Месяц назад
There is a sort of money dance in my region. You'd give a bill (possibly tied into a knot), get a shot, and dance with the bride. Usually these are small bills like 1's or 5's. More 1's than 5's. The occasional 10 or 20 is slipped in, but usually 1's.
@JoshSweetvale
@JoshSweetvale Месяц назад
That's creepy. Not all traditions are worth keeping. Blackface tradition bad. Money dance bad.
@christinesinclair6938
@christinesinclair6938 29 дней назад
​@@JoshSweetvale......wtf
@aliecarey
@aliecarey Месяц назад
Yay! I love your voice!
@Tetsujinhanmaa
@Tetsujinhanmaa Месяц назад
I have a story: It was my cousin's wedding. I found out about it when my mother said she wanted me to be a groomsmen at the wedding. I had to fly back to South America for it. No biggie. My mom and I planned a 10 day trip since i hadn't be back in 15 years. I knew it was doomed when I casually mentioned that I hoped this guy was better than her ex. My mom corrected me. She was marrying the ex. I was horrified. See, this guy had once thrown a pot of boiling water on her. She has scars on her chest and face. And she was marrying him. Well it turns out that i had to pickup a bridesmaid and take her to the church. We arrived 30 minutes early....to an empty church. It was me, the bridesmaid, my mother, our driver and the priest. Gradually the other groomsmen and bridesmaids arrived. Then the groom arrived. And still no guests. My cousin arrived an hour late. And we had the service with just my mom and the driver as the guests. It was one of the weirdest weddings I'd ever been to. We then all left for the reception and found everyone. None of the guests came to the service, they were all at the reception. I gave the wedding a year. They divorced after 18 months. But are still together because they have children.
@Olimar92
@Olimar92 Месяц назад
For story 46: That guy was in the most uncomfortable situation. Like how do you not leave when someone's underage daughter is bouncing around like that? At least ask someone to get her in a better fit.
@denofpigs2575
@denofpigs2575 3 часа назад
54:12. I live that the terrain there lost its textures
@lynn69jackson
@lynn69jackson Месяц назад
I used to officiate at weddings. Generally, the ones who spend way too much on the wedding or have a bridezilla failed a few years in.
@FallenKitty
@FallenKitty Месяц назад
First story.... yeah I get the guys issues. I have red hair, pale skin and I can get sun poisoning from the sun. An I did get really sick from school once because my innocent pale blue baseball hat might be "gang related" and from the 30 minute gym class I was so ill. I got to wear my hat after my mom chewed them out. Figured just sharing incase someone wonders how bad. Though I do wear sunscreen when out heh.
@atc35012
@atc35012 20 дней назад
I got married over a decade ago and went through with it because my dad got the day off to go to the wedding. We broke up three days before the wedding. My now ex-husband filed for divorce and it was finalized just short of four years into the marriage. The marriage was messy. I was afraid of him and living in my car to keep myself safe. He called me one day and said that I was going to give him a child or he was moving on, I refused and he left. Filing for a divorce is the nicest thing that he ever did for me.
@fancydeer
@fancydeer Месяц назад
I felt real bad for that feller that couldn't read, until I heard he was cheating on his wife WHILE SHE WAS GIVING BIRTH. Nah son, he's for the streets. But fr, our education system is fucked if an adult can go through and come out without being literate.
@blindvision4703
@blindvision4703 Месяц назад
Christianity can be hard for unbelievers to understand, but it’s also true that some Christians, whether they mean well, or not, do not always represent our faith very well. In fact, we mess up every day to one degree or another. This should really just be a sub Reddit compilation of weddings where people thought the relationship would end, but it took a positive turn, like a handful of the stories here. They really deserve a threat of their own along with others of that kind.
@ACNordstrom
@ACNordstrom Месяц назад
So you and ReallySparked are the same person right?
@felicitybywater8012
@felicitybywater8012 Месяц назад
"The bride was belligerently drunk on their wedding day". Fun but only for unrelated spectators. Edited to add that I laughed so loud I startled the neighbours when I got to "the drunk groom had a fight w a parked car that looked at him the wrong way".
@KleineSprechenfuhrerin
@KleineSprechenfuhrerin Месяц назад
Wowww that "frickin Jane Austen novel" girl reminds me of this so much.. 3 days into knowing each other I moved in with him (I was homeless) 6 moths into relationship got engaged. 1 year into relationship he got violent for the first time. Idk when he became abusive, probably around our engagement (which btw was in public so I couldn't say no). We were engaged for more than 3 years, I kept finding excuses. He was still better than the one before, though I had a feeling something was wrong.. I have BPD+depression over 10 years at that point +anxiety +ND +LOOOOOOTS of trauma +no home +addictions (that I successfully fought untill he came into picture). He's a narcissist and also 5 years older than me, so it was reeeeally easy for him to manipulate me. I was a kind, gentle but broken person back then. We broke up because of the war that blew up in our country. He did disgraceful things and rven tried to cheat on me. I could bare a lot. But not this. Now I'm 15km away from the front, with my new bf who is a soldier, clean from ❄️ for 2 years. Thank you for listening.. this kind of stories always trigger this memories..
@JoshSweetvale
@JoshSweetvale Месяц назад
If I ever 'picked up' a homeless woman as a housemate, I'd be _very_ dilligent about _separating_ our living arrangement. People need space to be themselves. Heh, that includes me. Not doing that has objectifying vibes.
@helookalikaman79
@helookalikaman79 Месяц назад
Wait.... The bride was a "prop to his plans and look good" Why does that sound familiar? oh wait that's the grooms job
@jenniferraab1831
@jenniferraab1831 Месяц назад
Hearing Polterabend in an American accent just made my day 😂😂😂
@Flowerfairyy27
@Flowerfairyy27 16 дней назад
After the reception, my dad with his horrible anger issues that only begun to surface after he and mom got married, began bickering with his family in front of my mom's family. He also refused to meet guests, said he needed to take a nap. During their reception. They're still married but I don't want to think about whether she even loves him anymore. Kinda depressing to watch your parents crumble and fall like that. Their relationship is one of the main reasons why I'm very hesitant and scared to get married.
@Flowerfairyy27
@Flowerfairyy27 16 дней назад
Also he was the one who really pursued to win over my mom's love in the first place. Idk what even happened to that and neither of them seem to want to talk about it.
@einmensch2182
@einmensch2182 24 дня назад
I love your pronunciation of Polterabend!
@alexacarrillo4339
@alexacarrillo4339 Месяц назад
I know people will counter me and say this didn’t happen to them but every no kid wedding I went to in my friend group ended up divorced in 4 yrs. If I see that on a wedding I know to go with a cheaper gift and not attend. If they make it to the 10 yr mark I will send a nice anniversary gift but I have yet to need to do that.
@jeebanjeeban87
@jeebanjeeban87 Месяц назад
IMO - the no kid wedding is always sign that couple can't handle stress. Thats how you know its gonna be a sh*tty marriage in the end. In my circle of friend - we got wiser and strict RSVP was imposed. Only immediate family kids and babies are welcome. They are not rejecting kids... they just have a strict head count. LOL
@ufazig
@ufazig 8 дней назад
I disagree. Some people are really happy but really don't like kids. We all know many kids can be very hard to control and may even cause huge embarrassing problems. It's a reality, it happens. Not always due to bad parenting, there are several circumstances involved. But it's a very specific form of stress. I think it's a fair choice wanting to avoid this specific risk whenever you have the right to. (Naturally I'm assuming the couple don't want kids, if that's not the case then I think the discussion does become more complicated).
@alexacarrillo4339
@alexacarrillo4339 7 дней назад
@@ufazig I agree that every couple is different but my experience was what it was. I spent tons of money on weddings for my friends only to have them divorce really quickly so I just temper my spending now. Covid weddings don’t count in this example but we also got uninvited from all of them because I wasn’t immediate family so I still did big gifts.
@alexacarrillo4339
@alexacarrillo4339 7 дней назад
@@ufazig also my favorite part of my wedding was my high school teacher’s kids stealing the DJ’s microphone and being super goofy 3 yr olds. Honestly it is my only good memory of my wedding.
@ufazig
@ufazig 7 дней назад
@@alexacarrillo4339 That's fair. In fact, I think one possibility that everyone should at least consider is that for some unknown reason, we might be in contact with a larger quantity of exceptions. What I mean by this is, for example: Not all childfree/no-kids couple fit your description, maybe most couples don't, but you're simply having more contact with couples that do fit this criteria, and you based this on several reoccurring behaviours around you. It's logical. I might have done the same thing, specially because nobody has an obligation of "spending a lot in gifts", and it's frustrating to see it "wasted.
@dabdabthethird2410
@dabdabthethird2410 28 дней назад
Did wedding photography once, was so chaotic I never did it again. Groomsmen jumped in front of the camera constantly even after the bride (my aunt) asked them to stop because they were ruining all the photos. Groom egged them on and asked me to photograph him smushing cake in her face and tried to fire me when I refused. They divorced 2 years later
@kay_faraday
@kay_faraday Месяц назад
Only been to, I think two weddings? Both family ones, both seemed to go alright to me, both are still together, though in one case I don't think they work as a couple at all, that case being my mom and her husband.
@maniacalworm
@maniacalworm Месяц назад
my oldest sister's wedding. she married a narcissistic abuser. everyone was telling her not to but she did anyway, got divorced 8 years later. most traumatic thing in her already trauma riddled life. her current bf is a really cool n awesome dude and im glad she has been able to heal and learn from what she has been through. she and i have always been close and ive always looked up to her. she is thriving now
@vanisebassett1001
@vanisebassett1001 Месяц назад
Woah this is nuts! My brother had a narcissistic wife who also had bpd and she was very abusive, he called the police on her and he got arrested, I bought him a camera so he could put in his living room, she got arrested and they divorced a year later! But he still needs a ton therapy and he hasn’t been able to trust women and he’s gay now.
@shitneyb5562
@shitneyb5562 Месяц назад
​@@vanisebassett1001that escalated
@Daniel-cr7vx
@Daniel-cr7vx Месяц назад
The first story: 💀
@saagabragi6938
@saagabragi6938 Месяц назад
40:00 The family priest??? What?
@GZilla311
@GZilla311 17 дней назад
Probably my Uncle's third. It’s not even at the wedding stage yet. It’s just that he’s gone to the same exact look (but younger each time) three times now. It’s to the point that his oldest son from the second marriage (who is also my oldest cousin) is completely aware his dad has a type.
@shoshishaw8762
@shoshishaw8762 28 дней назад
FINALLY I hear about someone Else allergic to the sun!
@bdg77
@bdg77 16 дней назад
Every wedding I went to.
@princesskenny1654
@princesskenny1654 Месяц назад
i love the goldcoast bro
@DixineEditz
@DixineEditz Месяц назад
OMG IM FINALLY EARLYYYY I LOVEVEVVE YOUR CONTEBT
@mvc861
@mvc861 Месяц назад
A cousin confessed to us, his family, the night or morning of the wedding day (it was like 12 or 1am) that he didn’t want to marry his girlfriend. Everyone was livid. We had been decorating the ball room for many hours and we were sleepy. I don't know how, but my aunts convinced him to continue with what was planned and honor his word.
@lex6487
@lex6487 Месяц назад
"I take thee, Rachel..."
@HyenaDandy
@HyenaDandy 13 дней назад
So I wasn't at the wedding. I haven't even been around my cousin her since the wedding, since we only talked on facebook and she married into an amish or memnonite or whatever family. I haven't been there, but my sister has since they share a summer cottage, and from everything she says, my cousin is just... Not herself. Always in a bad mood, always annoyed, complaining about the fact that they have to do work on the cottage since 'her husband doesn't want to work on his vacation'. Well, okay, but it's a 100-year-old cabin that didn't get wifi until 2020. Only got a modern phone line in THIS YEAR. Last year my sister discovered that, in the six years since my father died, NOBODY had cleared out the brush at the top of the hill. Not once. So, my sister, in between preparing for her own wedding, helping my septugenarian and extremely unwell from Vitamin D poisoning mother, and rushing back home to take care of her disabled brother (hi), managed to bundle up all the brush at the top of the hill. My father, who would do at least some of that every day they were there when he was alive, would usually clear out one-two bundles of wood a year. Sister cleared out ELEVEN bundles, in only about two weeks, and drove ten of those to the dump in her truck. Only left ONE behind when cousin came up for her time in the cabin. Cousin got angry and chewed out my (rail-thin, 73-year-old) mother for not having done it and leaving them with something to do. Literally all they needed to do was carry a bundle of sticks to the car, drive to the dump, and throw it in. The place is literally falling apart and cousin won't give it to sister, but also refuses to do anything to take care of it. Despite marrying a woodworker, and it's a wood cabin, she insists he shouldn't have to do anything because he doesn't want to work on vacation. Which, okay, pal, but then you gotta find the money to pay someone ELSE for it.
@BeeWhistler
@BeeWhistler Месяц назад
I also got married in a Temple, wih far better results. And I was not the cheeriest bride, I admit, because I have brutal anxiety and am Autistic and we’re famously bad at change. So even though I wanted this, I was in a state, man. And since the nearest Temple was four hours from my parents’ house, we had the wedding a couple of days before the reception. So after the wedding my parents suggested going out to lunch with the people who had been to the wedding, just a handful of family. But I didn’t know the city (and had no appetite what with the anxiety) so we went to Olive Garden because my brother loved the unlimited breadsticks. I mean, fair, but then that douchenozzle spent the next hour dropping political topics, like meat into a pool of piranha, and watching my dad and my husband’s ex-step-mom, two know-it-all old farts, have a “well, actually” competition. This is both a bad memory for a wedding day, and kind of a hilarious story. He just had to feed that ADHD need for mental stimulation… Anyway, the good news is we had nowhere to go but up after that. Nice wedding, very peaceful and sacred, stupid lunch, chill reception because I knew I’d hate anything too fancy so it was just an open house kind of thing. And our 31st anniversary is in May. And we’re still in the Church. Can’t blame the girl in this video for being disillusioned after what she went through, though. Homeboy should have changed his mind then, rather than torture her. Sounds like a real creep. And if anyone is still reading… we went to a wedding a few years later that fit the description here. Everything was for show. Groom’s mom got her officiant’s whatever so she could perform the wedding, made a comment about them sleeping together before they got married (dude… this is why we have someone else officiate), the whole wedding party was plastered BEFORE the wedding… so of course at the reception they’re staggering around all over the place. The only path to the bathroom was a narrow route between extra chairs because the venue seemed to think just shoving off to the side was fine. Only one person could move through at once and one sloppy groomsman always seemed to be at the other end when my pregnant self was trying to get through and he always decided he got to go first. And yeah… they didn’t last long. When the main focus seems to be on presenting a big show instead of starting a marriage I tend to doubt how long it’ll last.
@Rin-ig3ci
@Rin-ig3ci 2 дня назад
When they meet their partner on a cruise ship, while they were drunk the entire trip, then later get married without telling any of their family after dating for less than a year, only after that they obtained citizenship in partner's country of origin, and all of this was done before said individual got their own life together and stopped drinking. = "We all saw it coming from light-years away." said everyone who knew them. My takeaway from all of that was: the partner introduced me to my favorite sorbet ice cream, the one time I visited them, it was a shame when it disappeared from the shelves. But even good things can go away someday.
@thishandleisalreadytaken449
@thishandleisalreadytaken449 26 дней назад
I'm calling it now, that husband in the first story was a friggin vampire.
@oliviapetithomme
@oliviapetithomme Месяц назад
what game is the background?
@kimberlyyyyy44
@kimberlyyyyy44 Месяц назад
One couple I knew because they fought all the time even on the phone while at work and he would always talk to her like she was a child and yes there was an age gap. Second couple I knew because he was very misogynistic and was rushing to get married because he was 30 and they also fought all the time. I feel like if a couple fights in public you know it’s bad.
@rebeccah3091
@rebeccah3091 Месяц назад
I have a sun allergy I earned from medications they didn't tell me can give me a sun allergy . I literally allow anyone to go and enjoy their fun without me or having guilt .
@stadot1427
@stadot1427 Месяц назад
I have to speak up for my girl Jane Austen. Her romances are all about people understanding, honoring, and getting to know their spouse's character thoroughly BEFORE marriage and have tons of cautionary tales for when people don't take the time to open their eyes. Edit: and as a word of advice FROM a conservativ(ish, biblical, not traditional) Christian, if a supposed conservative Christian is marrying someone who is not, best case scenario is they're making a horrible mistake. One of my best friends did that and her faith is the single biggest strain on their marriage. Ironically, her husband doesn't realize it's also the greatest boon for him as she takes her role as an ever-improving wife very, very seriously.
@nicolad8822
@nicolad8822 17 дней назад
Ever improving wife? Aka doormat?
@saagabragi6938
@saagabragi6938 29 дней назад
47:20 I don't get the pun. The autosubtitles could also be misspelling it?
@sandyn3384
@sandyn3384 4 дня назад
Getting married at 18 is not the flex they think it is.
@lovelysakurapetalsyt
@lovelysakurapetalsyt Месяц назад
On the first story, there isn't a "sun allergy" just by having a sunburn, as that would require a rash. Having sun sensitive skin, however, is a thing with having a sunburn
@H0nEY._.SkuLL..
@H0nEY._.SkuLL.. Месяц назад
What is a sun allergy “It describes several conditions that cause an itchy rash to form on the skin after being in sunlight or other sources of ultraviolet (UV) radiation.”
@lovelysakurapetalsyt
@lovelysakurapetalsyt Месяц назад
@@H0nEY._.SkuLL.. I'm saying that the person didn't have a sub ALLERGY, not that it doesn't exist. Sorry if it came across like that Having a bad sunburn isn't a sun allergy, as the definition you gave says it's a rash thing
@Wolfie54545
@Wolfie54545 Месяц назад
We now have Son allergy and Sub allergy
@erinselectronics5748
@erinselectronics5748 Месяц назад
While this particular case sounds like the typical weakness to sunlight of most red haired people, multiple autoimmune conditions absolutely can cause what can be described as a sunlight allergy.
@lovelysakurapetalsyt
@lovelysakurapetalsyt Месяц назад
@@erinselectronics5748 I'm gonna edit my comment bcs I evidently had an error in wording
@Onanewjob
@Onanewjob Месяц назад
I can basically put all but one family member on my mothers side. They have in common that “when you are not living with them. You can find a future spouse.” Even when the divorce papers haven’t even really started. One of my uncles about a 4 years ago now got married. (She was pregnant during all of this) I did not go because it was his third. He also always has the same reason for divorcing his previous wifes. (They are all drunks that don’t do anything.) They are never what he says. Well, I found out that wife #3 is the home wrecker to marrage #2. The first birthday for the 3rd marriages first kid is only a few days apart from one of his other kids and she had no presents, pictures, or anything showing people that it was her (my cousin) 8th birthday. The entire party had a bouncy castle slide thing, baby pink ribbons, pictures of only the baby, and the cake only had the one year old. I feel bad for my cousin now even 3 years later. I have stepped away from my mother’s side of the family. This is rather common for all of them.
@vagasint.4345
@vagasint.4345 Месяц назад
First dude is a vampire
@Whendidweloseit.
@Whendidweloseit. 27 дней назад
When she invited all her exes. The cried to me about how they didnt come. Two weeks into the marriage she conplained about how she only will have one man and he isnt even attractive. All i could ask is why would you marry him 🙄 she is 3 years in and having an affair. I stopped talking to her after that, saying her husband is a good man and she should just leave him.
@slangoognals
@slangoognals Месяц назад
Imagine letting someone who slept with your husband be in your life at all, let alone your bridal party.
@indigowulf
@indigowulf Месяц назад
I was a karaoke host/dj for a wedding. It was in their back yard. Everyone got absolutely wasted. Bride passed out. Groom and one of brides male friends got in a fist fight. Noise ordinance said we had to be quiet after 10, and I turned off the machine at 10 sharp, because the neighbors had called several times and 3 cop cars were in plain sight on the road waiting to bust us lmao. (I was sober, I saved them from sooo much trouble). From what I heard, it lasted 3 months.
@EasyE3939
@EasyE3939 Месяц назад
Lol couldn't tell the gender sometimes but great vid
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