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Allow yourself to make a stop and think about your life for a moment. Is it boring or interesting and what makes it that way? The conclusion may be really interesting. Have you ever wondered if you are living a boring life? Julia Berkenfeld did and decided that this was a good question to raise in a TEDx speech! Julia went looking for the answer behind man’s most boring question. She researched standard, bored and boring people. Her conclusion is really interesting actually!
Being bored or boring is a waste of time, which is why Julia tries to make the most of it. She was raised an only child in Helmond, where she spent her childhood in a nice home and family. Now, she has her own place but usually she’s still on the road. She enjoys being outside, does horse-riding and likes reading! She’s really sociable, often goes out with friends and actively takes part in scouting. But that’s not all! You can regularly find Julia in the gym and she likes spending her free time being creative: she draws a lot and plays the guitar and the piano and sometimes sings in addition to that. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@saravalinemati2303
@saravalinemati2303 2 года назад
I know someone boring, whom I avoid at family gatherings Everytime. She talks NONESTOP about stories that have no endings..she could go on about 1hour about an experience that is not interesting AT ALL ...
@TK-el4sr
@TK-el4sr Год назад
I feel i'm boring because I don't like to talk.. I just like listening and not get bored
@Brian-rs4ug
@Brian-rs4ug 2 года назад
My hat goes off to Julia. For developing the skill and ability to speak in front of large groups of people at 20 years old. Most people would rather jump off a bridge than conquer the fear of public speaking. Great job! Keep at it, you have a compelling future as your life’s journey unfolds before one day at a time.
@nirmalsekar812
@nirmalsekar812 2 года назад
There's a lot of things we have to consider when we think of bore or interest concept as the social interaction changed gradually as a repercussion of technology development people who think and act unique feels boring and isolated it's just an example of the realtime circumstances.
@SebastianBeaumont-xr2nf
@SebastianBeaumont-xr2nf Год назад
It still didn't clarify why people are being so boring
@isabelfargas4227
@isabelfargas4227 2 года назад
Gracias!! Hablas tan bien y tan claro que pude entender todo. Me has hecho reflexionar! Saludos desde Costa Rica
@BeybladeDad
@BeybladeDad 2 года назад
It's good to put yourself out there. What a great talk 🙌
@med8523
@med8523 2 года назад
I so much relate with someone shaking while public speaking , It is scary.
@jpncrepresent2045
@jpncrepresent2045 Год назад
Good point girl... "Am I living the life that I want to live?"
@claudetteboudreau8251
@claudetteboudreau8251 2 года назад
Enjoyed your talk! I am 67 years old and I play and have fun daily! Today I went in the forest to pick fir branches to make Christmas table centers for friends and family! Hope you had a great day also!
@erikacortes
@erikacortes Год назад
Very interesting! I have observed more people who avoid creating connections and with it they stop seeing themselves, losing interest in knowing and experiencing new things, thanks for the explaination to can share this certanly speach!
@moraz8578
@moraz8578 2 года назад
I can fell the fear in her voice I cant blame her its a ted talk
@alite.
@alite. 2 года назад
The mic was too close to her mouth which made it more intense. :( Love the content and I hope she's way better now :)
@virgilstox2677
@virgilstox2677 2 года назад
Seems to have virus of omicron
@sebikelifeusvetparatrooper
@sebikelifeusvetparatrooper Год назад
More like DORK🤓talk.
@nickp9994
@nickp9994 2 года назад
I was told at a young age that only boring people get bored
@stargal786
@stargal786 2 года назад
Rly!?
@takwyszlotv
@takwyszlotv 2 года назад
I used to think it’s only boring people who don’t feel boredom, so cannot conceive of it in others.
@stargal786
@stargal786 2 года назад
@@takwyszlotv I think i am boring and i can feel the boredom now, although i never felt it earlier in my life, it is sad !
@humanz222
@humanz222 2 года назад
Yups it's a quote too. But I don't believe it 😅😂
@humanz222
@humanz222 2 года назад
@useD raW yupssss
@leeimmerzeel3481
@leeimmerzeel3481 2 года назад
Wowww what a proud moment Julia. It was a true privilege to coach you on your speaker journey. Your 20 years, the world lays open in front of you with possibilities!!!
@lil_raymond_sk8ts332
@lil_raymond_sk8ts332 2 года назад
This is awesome to hear! How do I find a mentor like this?
@leeimmerzeel3481
@leeimmerzeel3481 2 года назад
@@lil_raymond_sk8ts332 Richelle feel free to connect via IG or FB and send me a DM. Would be delighted to support you on your journey!
@brandingondemand5556
@brandingondemand5556 2 года назад
@ Lee. This guy just stole her thunder and used this Ted Talk to upsell himself.
@joycecarvalho9502
@joycecarvalho9502 2 года назад
Very sound and practical advice. Vulnerability making one interesting was an eye opener for me. Thank you !
@asyhabdf
@asyhabdf 2 года назад
ur suit, accent, and speak break, it just perfect💯
@haeeunpak744
@haeeunpak744 2 года назад
Thank you Julia. Keep going!!
@tortuequimarche
@tortuequimarche 2 года назад
Things are only boring when you think of it as boring
@invisiblemann1756
@invisiblemann1756 Год назад
Ikr. Her whole talk is bs, how would you start your lecture saying "boring is subjective" then continue talking for more 10 mins about how it's not subjective? Anyways..
@sami-xv1zd
@sami-xv1zd 2 года назад
This came at the perfect time wonderful T.T.
@ellijohnson2368
@ellijohnson2368 2 года назад
i’m super proud of you julia!!! you did that!!
@karenquintana7953
@karenquintana7953 2 года назад
It's boring talking about being boring. I don't consider the conversation she overheard boring. It was actually quite important. Everyone has their own stories which I find amazing.
@TattoedKiss
@TattoedKiss Год назад
Same. My in laws talk a lot about economy, stocks and such but they don't do it in a boring way, they're really passionate about it because they know a lot about the subject.
@Zoey-zy9it
@Zoey-zy9it 2 года назад
After watching this video, several questions just came out in my mind. Are those 'interesting' people really feel interested about their life or just want other people think they live a interesting life? And this kind of happiness is based on whose perspective? How can we define other peoples' life boring or not? So, this speech is not persuasive enough to convince me. But I still respect her courage to give this talk.
@azeddinezemrak4795
@azeddinezemrak4795 2 года назад
That's good question ❤️
@ms.snowflake9619
@ms.snowflake9619 2 года назад
Yea.. agree with u
@prashantrawat4072
@prashantrawat4072 2 года назад
We have scientific proof of whatever she said New things create arousal and arousal create dopamine and that's how you get happiness and when you are full of happiness you can share happiness and that makes you interesting.. you can define other people boring when they're not full of colors and by colors I mean colors of life adventures of life.. I reply to question one...those people who are really very interesting doesn't pretend they just open up themselves and because their life is very already very interesting the result is categorization of these people as interesting people
@yoursubconscious
@yoursubconscious 2 года назад
@@prashantrawat4072 - Science has also proved that people enjoy suffering. They might even say it makes them feel more alive.
@L4dyOsc4r
@L4dyOsc4r 2 года назад
You asked yourself a question and you sought for an answer. In a time when many had stopped questioning and started obeying blindly you represent a nice path.
@leeimmerzeel3481
@leeimmerzeel3481 2 года назад
I totally agree with you
@masumshawon6680
@masumshawon6680 2 года назад
living here is all about perspective!
@1smadina
@1smadina 2 года назад
I appreciate you Julia, thank u for your speech. I’m also think that we are happy but not all the time, but in a little moment. I always ask from myself ” Is my life boring, to tell someone about my experience?”
@jll5568
@jll5568 2 года назад
Boring: Predictable / repeatitve
@evelineberden3913
@evelineberden3913 2 года назад
Well done, Julia! Inspiring advice!
@ManishaSingh-gn8tq
@ManishaSingh-gn8tq 2 года назад
Eye opening!
@williamf.buckleyjr3227
@williamf.buckleyjr3227 Год назад
TEXTBOOK DEFINITION of irony!! Speak about something that's boring, using the most predictably boring forum ever invented.
@Knockhem
@Knockhem 2 года назад
its probably a funny metaphor that she stepped out to make a ted talk for the first time as a new experience. Great ted talk
@zakariaalmohammadi5753
@zakariaalmohammadi5753 2 года назад
Great advice! Thank you ❤️ I got inspired by your talk. I'm 21 and I want to live a life I'd be proud of
@suzahdicosplayjackets
@suzahdicosplayjackets 2 года назад
In other words, like Maverick says, "Don't think. Just do." Be a kid. Life is short. Make the difference we always wanted to.
@prashantrawat4072
@prashantrawat4072 2 года назад
those people who are saying this video is boring it's just because you don't have a lens to identify the gems in this video it's required a lot of inspection a lot of study in psychology and human behavior to know what she's trying to tell..
@TattoedKiss
@TattoedKiss Год назад
The points she made are correct but her delivery and little jokes that don't land well are what they make the talk boring. There's not dynamic, it's monotone.
@joaogarrido6650
@joaogarrido6650 2 года назад
Very good talk! Thank you.
@wancheng89
@wancheng89 2 года назад
Content wise I don’t fully resonate, but I applaud you for your courage. I’m older than you, and I can’t say I can do it better if I was the one standing on the stage. So remember, the credit goes to you and only you. Don’t let the naysayers get you down. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@7th_Generation
@7th_Generation 2 года назад
I too fell the fear
@prashantrawat4072
@prashantrawat4072 2 года назад
NOTES OF THIS VIDEO..SO YOU REVISE. ❤️ what boring is.. when you are not able to create fun.. when you cant dont create laugh.. when you cant establish contacts at multi levels.. when you cabt create novelty.. when you cant trigger happiness hormone. when with a person do things that are in capacity of the person that person likes..do like him positive energy.. small minded because of not being in social contacts... when they knew something that evokes intrest in you..meams when you knowledge or inyrrst hits their intrest... when you do activities that they like.. when you are very rare person that they have ever mey.. happy always.. openness.. usually people don't open up because they are chances for being dragged down when they get themselves vulnerable and vulnerable means telling in and out.. they shut themselves show and share intrest.. positive.. vulnerability..they allow themselves for being vulnerable to others establish strong connection when both gates are open..then there is sc not sharing interest.. not engaging with people simply just existing not living like a zombie kind of life where there is no colors whenever they have colors in life a person is very interesting sep sharing and engaging with people lyl living your life open up by talking to people.. star discussions.. give people compliments.. start asking how we doing.. connect by sharing your stories and experiences.. during adults.. fear the consequences of action and they don't do that that's why they are not full of adventure while kid do that and they have adventure everyday.. being childish can boost your happiness.. story of establishing and playground in Netherlands.. excited amazing to feel like kid again it feel amazing when you feel like a kid again explored and fulfill their and your dreams do something new set new goals go out
@theultimatereductionist7592
@theultimatereductionist7592 8 месяцев назад
You can always find greatness and amazement in boring. All learning is boring. If you are not working hard i.e. if you are not suffering boredom, then you are not learning.
@user-uh9bm3et9b
@user-uh9bm3et9b 2 года назад
How to overcome fear of public speaking...I would hear this topic next time
@manjulaa4144
@manjulaa4144 2 года назад
You are amazing
@serdarplaylist
@serdarplaylist 2 года назад
Very classic speech but according to your age good, thank you for to brave.
@Utya_-qq8wp
@Utya_-qq8wp 2 года назад
I think that she has demonstrated first time because she afraid with talk but she tried and it was so good 🤝 I'm also afraid with talking in big groups 😶😅
@siddharthsingh7292
@siddharthsingh7292 2 года назад
Vry nice...il try 4rm tomorrow
@user-ki1ey2te7l
@user-ki1ey2te7l 6 месяцев назад
What is with the background scraping microphone sounds????? 😮
@cpc4466
@cpc4466 Год назад
I find your vulnerability and courage interesting.
@hpssahota1977
@hpssahota1977 2 года назад
Couldn't go beyond 6 mins..😒
@meenalmane8848
@meenalmane8848 2 года назад
Loved it ...thanks 😍
@kimberlymahoney8437
@kimberlymahoney8437 2 года назад
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@m.rasoolzahiri5781
@m.rasoolzahiri5781 2 года назад
It make us interesting when watching your video.
@newgirl9893
@newgirl9893 2 года назад
You nailed this, queen!
@mikebasil4832
@mikebasil4832 2 года назад
Thank you so much, Julia, for sharing one of the most special and heartfelt Ted Talks ever. 👏🏻
@malayalamwriter
@malayalamwriter 2 года назад
A boring speech about boring 🤭
@yoursubconscious
@yoursubconscious 2 года назад
Let's see what she has to say in 20 years when she grows up and deals with more consequences. Not to be negative, but we cannot deny the truth.
@ssgg23
@ssgg23 10 месяцев назад
Lmao true. Those “boring” adults talking about stocks were the ones propping up her privilege in life to spend all her time as a young person training, probably without pay, to be an effective public speaker ( because her delivery, despite flaws in the message, is very good).
@pandazebra8576
@pandazebra8576 2 года назад
Cool! ^-^
@margaretchan9999
@margaretchan9999 2 года назад
I heard for 5 mins and feeling boring
@laraparks7018
@laraparks7018 6 месяцев назад
Interesting people evolve Boring people repeat.
@quantum_man
@quantum_man 2 года назад
This talk reminds me of that song by Junior Jack called Supidisco..."Baby make your move, step across that Line"
@gudduentertains
@gudduentertains 2 года назад
Kudos to her ❤️
@laraj221
@laraj221 2 года назад
Well done Julia!
@Utya_-qq8wp
@Utya_-qq8wp 2 года назад
I think that she has demonstrated first time because she afraid with talk
@riocervini1911
@riocervini1911 2 года назад
epic
@shivammandrai7773
@shivammandrai7773 2 года назад
Now offence its boring 😅.
@grind1111
@grind1111 2 года назад
I was bored than this video appeared 😐
@cringeisamindsetbabe
@cringeisamindsetbabe 2 года назад
the people here calling her boring aren’t understanding her as much as they think they do, just listen to her, she pauses to let you think about this not to be boring
@brendalam5336
@brendalam5336 2 года назад
She took a risk !😊 Good start!
@vivektulja4516
@vivektulja4516 2 года назад
Is this what now passes for a TED Talk?
@StagvanHeuten
@StagvanHeuten Месяц назад
I’m bored already!
@vitorbowen2347
@vitorbowen2347 5 месяцев назад
I have friends that are to "conservative" nothing against, but they just are aversed to fun, every talk is about grammar and politcs 💀
@yuliapona5042
@yuliapona5042 2 года назад
The most BORING ted talk I’ve ever seen!!!
@nirmalsekar812
@nirmalsekar812 2 года назад
It's not that easy to consolidate people mind just under bore and interest.
@henrystrauss168
@henrystrauss168 2 года назад
...what?
@jrelevates1574
@jrelevates1574 11 месяцев назад
I'm already bored
@johnnasution5825
@johnnasution5825 2 года назад
Her voice like she was cried or had a flu
@Shashanksoni98
@Shashanksoni98 11 месяцев назад
8:20
@marooali5247
@marooali5247 2 года назад
Hey , i need to practise English with someone, any volunteer here can do this with me . Thanks ♥️
@clairemortimer606
@clairemortimer606 2 года назад
mine is too bad
@joanne0
@joanne0 2 месяца назад
she is only 20?
@anirudh1389
@anirudh1389 2 года назад
I'll never get bored of watching you 😋
@sebikelifeusvetparatrooper
@sebikelifeusvetparatrooper Год назад
Was bored AF🤔......
@levantaaaaaaaa
@levantaaaaaaaa 2 года назад
This ted talk was boring as well 😡
@matt22blaster
@matt22blaster 2 года назад
I'm nearly 4 minutes in and I now know what makes a boring video.
@pradeepgrpradeepgr1421
@pradeepgrpradeepgr1421 2 года назад
All is work look time look no
@guywithakeyboard
@guywithakeyboard 2 года назад
Outstanding. Low confidence is visible but great content.
@brigittemolander4921
@brigittemolander4921 2 года назад
oh mann...die sieht echt geil aus!
@clairemortimer606
@clairemortimer606 2 года назад
stop who has time to stop?
@axermaster_yt
@axermaster_yt 2 года назад
Really great!But that's not realy the best.She's talking not very technical.And she could talk about that in 7 minutes.Anyway well done Julia!
@aygulcan07
@aygulcan07 4 месяца назад
It is very boring
@maciejkleszczynski9808
@maciejkleszczynski9808 2 года назад
She doesn't take up a lot of space on the stage and puts her arms together after each gesture. Sadly that impacts how she is going to get received by the audience.
@adamalpha7881
@adamalpha7881 2 года назад
Great stories come with taking risk 🤏😎
@AmyWinehouse.914
@AmyWinehouse.914 Год назад
To me boring is when you've realised your watching someone in DM boots,a Canary coloured top with a monotone voice waffle on and on to a half empty audience that'ss probably thinking WTF?
@ayaanabdulle236
@ayaanabdulle236 2 года назад
Boring
@mmustapicst
@mmustapicst Год назад
The worst Ted Talk ever. Topic is badly presented from a point of regular person that is too young to speak about these things. She presented basic motivation material that can be read anywhere and added some annonying retoric questions. Total waste of time.
@roosey
@roosey 2 года назад
These things are amazing but not gonna work for indian woman😃😃😃😃
@henrystrauss168
@henrystrauss168 2 года назад
Or a controlled Muslim woman.
@juanbecerra6253
@juanbecerra6253 2 года назад
boring is this video
@sameaster5150
@sameaster5150 11 месяцев назад
This is boring
@aliceli598
@aliceli598 2 года назад
BRUH WHY DOES SHE TALK TO SLOW GIRL YOUR TOPIC IS LIT ABT HOW TO NOT BE BORING AND IM FALLING ASLEEP LISTENING TO YOU
@dysonmadison1016
@dysonmadison1016 2 года назад
She is boring . She is not a charismatic speaker. Wrong casting.
@NoName-gy6qr
@NoName-gy6qr 7 месяцев назад
Ironically this TedTalk is boring 😂
@porodem
@porodem 3 месяца назад
usless and boring speech
@theultimatereductionist7592
@theultimatereductionist7592 8 месяцев назад
This talk is utterly boring.
@hussainkarimi1449
@hussainkarimi1449 2 года назад
you have too much anxiety while spoke up to your audience which made your speech awful.
@apexinaq
@apexinaq Год назад
Sound quality is really poor
@danejurus69
@danejurus69 Год назад
This was boring.
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