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What no one tells you about freezing your eggs | Natalie Lampert | TEDxBoulder 

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Ovaries. Most women have two; journalist Natalie Lampert has only one. Then, in her early twenties, she almost lost it, along with her ability to ever have biological children. Doctors urged her to freeze her eggs, and Lampert started asking questions.
What was once science fiction is now simply science: Fertility can be frozen in time. Hundreds of thousands of women worldwide have opted to freeze their eggs. Along with IVF, egg freezing is touted as a way for women to “have it all” by conquering their biological clocks, in line with the global trend of delaying pregnancy and motherhood. A generation after the Pill, this revolutionary technology offers a new kind of freedom for women. But does egg freezing give women real agency or just the illusion of it?
It’s never been so important for a person with ovaries to understand their body, their options, and their reproductive autonomy. But when it comes to women’s health, many of those options-especially technologies that promise control over something like fertility-aren’t all what they seem to be. In this powerful talk, Lampert explains why.
Natalie Lampert is an award-winning journalist and the author of THE BIG FREEZE: A Reporter’s Personal Journey into the World of Egg Freezing and the Quest to Control Our Fertility (Random House, 2024). A former Fulbright scholar, she has written for The New York Times, The New York Times Magazine, The Atlantic, The Guardian, and The Washington Post, among other publications. She has a master’s degree in journalism from New York University and has received fellowships and grants from Investigative Reporters & Editors, the Logan Nonfiction program, and the Alfred P. Sloan Foundation.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@philomath7535
@philomath7535 Месяц назад
Powerful! She basically described me to a T from the age, being career focused, out of a long-term relationship, back in the dating scene, etc.
@itsjonhiller
@itsjonhiller 7 месяцев назад
incredible talk. incredibly well researched and informed. this has me thinking quite a lot..
@mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat
@mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat 7 месяцев назад
I was eating breakfast and thought the title was about freezing chicken eggs! 🐔🥚🍳 😹
7 месяцев назад
me too from beginning :D haha
@morelyfrancis2284
@morelyfrancis2284 7 месяцев назад
😂😂😂Lol
@Spectrumix
@Spectrumix 7 месяцев назад
powerful message , i hope loads more get to see and understands her message.
@lynaeeakettgreene7208
@lynaeeakettgreene7208 7 месяцев назад
I was 22 when I was told I wouldn't ever get pregnant, with no solid explanation why. I did have 2 babies, that I nearly died from the complications of pregnancy in my mid twenties. I had 2 miscarriages in my early 30's and am very much done having anymore children.
@annat6249
@annat6249 Месяц назад
I am sorry for your struggle but if I were you, I would be done after baby #1. I would try not to have any more baby and try to live long to care for that child. It seems reckless to keep having more babies and risk your life and the chance of current baby would lose their mom.
@moolis
@moolis 7 месяцев назад
Q: “Am I settling…??” A: Get off social media. Egg freezing and fertility treatments are a business. Businesses will always market the upside of their products. Educate yourself before making any life changing commitments. Otherwise regret and heartache is right around the corner.
@map3384
@map3384 17 дней назад
And that heartache is life long.
@AmyeRheault
@AmyeRheault 7 месяцев назад
I can't wait to read your book! You've clearly unpacked so much on this vital topic.
@hypocryzi4177
@hypocryzi4177 7 месяцев назад
I myself have considered egg freezing but for a totally different reason. I actually have a wonderful partner for almost 9 years now and we want to get married soon - but we currently don't want to have children and aren't sure if we want any at all (we're currently both 30 years old). And yes, maybe we will decide to never have kids - everything inside me is screaming "No! You will maybe love your children, but you will not love motherhood and everything that comes with it." But there's still this little voice inside my head telling me: "Maybe you'll think completely different about children in 6 years". That the actual chances of having a child of those frozen eggs are so little was unknown to me until now - but I'm still considering it because I would be angry at myself if I wouldn't have used this opportunity while I could.
@ryancooper1144
@ryancooper1144 7 месяцев назад
Good luck in the future but her message was powerful, to not rely on egg freezing and other treatments cause they are just businesses and Businesses will always market the upside of their products.
@erikt1713
@erikt1713 Месяц назад
Women who freeze their eggs want to be childfree at 25, but they are then likely to want to be childfree also at 35 and permanently. I think that also explains why only 12% use their frozen eggs. Things simply do not change as much as they expect.
@naomi5495
@naomi5495 Месяц назад
It’s not always that they want to be child free though, is it? Very, very few men in their twenties are willing to ‘settle down’.
@erikt1713
@erikt1713 Месяц назад
@@naomi5495 It depends. You can select a slightly older guy or make it a priority that he should want kids when first selecting him.
@anonymousanonym450
@anonymousanonym450 11 дней назад
doubt thats the reason
@map3384
@map3384 17 дней назад
All I heard out of her lips was I want to be a career and party girl after college and enjoy my best years dating multiple alpha guys. Freezing her eggs gave her the opportunity but no guarantee the eggs would survive the years long process. Nor did she think about finding the right man. She certainly didn’t think about a man’s choice in dating a woman whose fertility was greatly compromised. Men date younger fertile women, not older and considerably less so. It’s a long way to 85 single and all alone. All feminism did was reduce the herd of future feminists.
7 месяцев назад
I think should put title for this speech is: "How women gain their freedom?". Thank you for your wonderful talks.
@zayn659
@zayn659 7 месяцев назад
That's called TEMPORARY ESCAPE not Freedom
@DebNKY
@DebNKY 6 месяцев назад
​@zayn659 said the person whose never been infertile. Sit down.
@map3384
@map3384 17 дней назад
My female cousin age 78 just passed away. Never married or had kids. Earned her masters degree in Journalism and was a cheerleader for Ohio state football. My she was beautiful. Probably was the 1% of the top 10% of women. She dated a handsome guy in college. His family owned the regional news paper. He proposed to her. Offered her everything. A career helping him run the newspaper and a family. She rejected his offer. She thought she could do better. She dated lots of rich men. Didn’t want to marry. At age 30 she worked for a family owned Chocolate company out of Austria. The son of the business absolutely loved her and they began to date. He proposed to her offering a career and a family. For the second time she refused. They broke up. By age 35 guys weren’t dating her anymore. Her beauty was fading. She stayed single for the rest of her life. Every Christmas she’d call my wife and I drunk and crying. I’m all alone! No husband! No children! I didn’t want to hear it and ended the call. My wife and I knew we wanted children. We didn’t play selfish games. My cousin died alone in a nursing home. They cremated her and now my family is deciding what to do with her remains. Most likely she’d be interned with my grandparents. I have no feelings on the matter. She decided for herself and that’s that. I just hope millions of modern women are ready to live as a lonely cat lady for the last 40 years of their lives.
@HeryFitahiana
@HeryFitahiana 7 месяцев назад
I'm interresting about your videos and your platform because it's very good❤❤
@garthian84
@garthian84 7 месяцев назад
For the vast majority of women, the reality is you must either choose career or family. Trying to do both most likely means you will not reach your full potential in either, simply because of the limitations of time and biology. Making all this effort to fight your natural biological processes is folly.
@DebNKY
@DebNKY 6 месяцев назад
A woman alone has no choice but career.
@map3384
@map3384 17 дней назад
@@DebNKYIt’s a long way to 85 all alone. No career will love you back.
@kurotheindivisible1938
@kurotheindivisible1938 7 месяцев назад
So, what is the message?
@zeinebmouhamed468
@zeinebmouhamed468 7 месяцев назад
😂😂😂 We need someone to explain to us what is her message ?🥲
@hannesRSA
@hannesRSA 7 месяцев назад
Yes I'm not watching this
@DebNKY
@DebNKY 6 месяцев назад
It's 13 minutes.
@marygnickel
@marygnickel 6 месяцев назад
Doesn't the new decision in AL about the viability of IVF call all of this into question? I know that these are not fertilized eggs, but eggs that are fertilized outside of the womb will be considered persons, and no clinic or company will want to be legally liable for the transfer. Assurance goes poof, at least for women in the South. Again.
@pharmclare
@pharmclare 6 месяцев назад
Great insights. Thanks for sharing
@ashxsh
@ashxsh 7 месяцев назад
That's not freedom, it is a temporary escape.
@MrsRight2020
@MrsRight2020 7 месяцев назад
Every body is different. I know a lot of women 50y old totaly normal pregnancy and also 20y old who cant have children. It's in our genetics. If you don't have good genetic you are not ment to reproduce. Unfortunately that is something we cant control.ber can just pray 🙏
@ryancooper1144
@ryancooper1144 7 месяцев назад
You are bringing in exceptional cases for some reason. Most women have organs and the necessary genes to reproduce. Her message was powerful, to not rely on egg freezing and other treatments cause they are just businesses and Businesses will always market the upside of their products.
@MrsRight2020
@MrsRight2020 7 месяцев назад
@@ryancooper1144 totally agree on your comment. My point is about genetics. Once someone is not able to have children then they will have different banks giving them an option to freeze eggs without guarantee that you can use them. For example, 10y after you try to use them and there is no embryo. They don't care about genetics it's all about money. No guarantees
@map3384
@map3384 17 дней назад
Most 50 year old women can’t have children. To suggest such advice to women is cruel.
@MrsRight2020
@MrsRight2020 17 дней назад
@@map3384 yes, it is possible
@map3384
@map3384 17 дней назад
@@MrsRight2020 sure. A lotto ticket winning is equally possible. I still wouldn’t waste a dollar.
@angelos1446
@angelos1446 7 месяцев назад
TEDx has ended up being a self-promoting platform. Disappointing
@angelos1446
@angelos1446 7 месяцев назад
@@Smethells2023it happens a lot in businesses, but TEDx used to be about ideas and substance. Nowadays it feels like it has got out of its tracks and it has lost most of its magic.
@DebNKY
@DebNKY 6 месяцев назад
God forbid infertile women should have hope.
@piratekingthethtaroo
@piratekingthethtaroo 2 месяца назад
Zip it, you lil cynical keyboard warrior.
@atenas80525
@atenas80525 7 месяцев назад
false assurance
@Rocinante808
@Rocinante808 7 месяцев назад
Settling? What’s that other word for it? Marriage!
@remnantchannel2434
@remnantchannel2434 Месяц назад
FUN FACTS : Most MODERN WOMEN today are SPIRITUALLY BLIND and ended up freezing their eggs🥚unlike traditional women. John 15:5 “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit apart from me you can do nothing." 😥
@rhondasisco-cleveland2665
@rhondasisco-cleveland2665 7 месяцев назад
Is it necessary, when they can do ovarian regeneration with stem cell injections?
@DebNKY
@DebNKY 6 месяцев назад
Yes, a reproductive system is more than ovaries.
@renjit9044
@renjit9044 17 дней назад
You're clueless if you think ovarian regeneration with stem cell injections is a thing and viable solution
@ChannSitha-xd5gk
@ChannSitha-xd5gk 7 месяцев назад
So great😍🥰
@taamouchhamid9186
@taamouchhamid9186 7 месяцев назад
it's a smmer morning in Morocco "FEZ city"
@OfficialAnup132
@OfficialAnup132 7 месяцев назад
😮
@Calisheeko
@Calisheeko 7 месяцев назад
She said they freeze their eggs because they have not found the person they want, when the reality is modern women does not think about marrying in her prime and play around till they hit the wall. This is brilliant idea but what are the consequences I do not think everything will be fine.
@c.f.okonta8815
@c.f.okonta8815 6 месяцев назад
Exactly
@DebNKY
@DebNKY 6 месяцев назад
It doesn't work like that.
@Calisheeko
@Calisheeko 6 месяцев назад
​@@DebNKYDo you Think it wont have Consequences?
@naomi5495
@naomi5495 Месяц назад
But if women settle with a man who they think will be a good father etc, and it later turns out that he isn’t and she ends up a single mother, she gets 100% of the blame and shame. So you can’t blame women for being choosy and having anxiety about making sure they find a reliable man. Women who are not choosy end up in financially ruinous positions. Plus, many women in their twenties want to settle down, get married, have kids. But men on the whole are “not ready” until their late thirties…by which point it is nearly too late for women to have the family that they want.
@Calisheeko
@Calisheeko Месяц назад
@@naomi5495 I do not think most of the women in their twenties want to settle down get married, have kids etc as you said because they are playing around and you can not hide the truth. when it comes to settling down a lot of men in their thirties some in their twenties often propose to women in their twenties but unfortunately end up getting rejected because she does not want to settle down and end the "fun". however, later later on when consequences of their actions catch them they blame men.
@salvatorevuicebot6658
@salvatorevuicebot6658 6 месяцев назад
Maybe women should get married early on.....anyone ever recommend that?!
@map3384
@map3384 17 дней назад
My wife was 22 when we married. Had our first child when she was 24. Three more before 30. Today’s she 52, has a great job making very good money but her job never loved her back. Her family loves her.
@atenas80525
@atenas80525 7 месяцев назад
"For the first time" - who lied to you? Who told you that you should spend your peak fertility years chasing advanced degrees for a ton of debt and jobs and "careers" you don't like?
@JeanBohanie-tj6dq
@JeanBohanie-tj6dq 2 месяца назад
Então como você vai sustentar suas filhos? E se seu marido morrer? E se ele ficar com outra?
@map3384
@map3384 17 дней назад
@@JeanBohanie-tj6dqThat’s why people have life insurance policies.
@masalfarizi-xn4pw
@masalfarizi-xn4pw 7 месяцев назад
😢😂😂😂😂😂😂❤
@abdulraheem8203
@abdulraheem8203 7 месяцев назад
Useless content waste of time
@DebNKY
@DebNKY 6 месяцев назад
Information is never a waste.
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