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What REALLY Happens "Down There" After Birth 😧 👶🏻 | Postpartum MUST HAVES! 

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@Bhoomi555
@Bhoomi555 4 года назад
She's so calm but this video is giving me so much anxiety 😓 Dear lord I didn’t know there are more people like me-
@sakshiarora2870
@sakshiarora2870 4 года назад
Same. 😪😥
@AquaNinja36
@AquaNinja36 4 года назад
Higher Self Note: You’re causing yourselves anxiety. Nothing external of yourself can cause you to feel anything unless you allow yourself to feel it.
@OnePieceIsGoat
@OnePieceIsGoat 4 года назад
Me too 😭
@aminast4026
@aminast4026 4 года назад
Yeah i start panic now
@tweewin
@tweewin 4 года назад
LOL I was watching this so in a couple of years, when I'm ready, I will be "ready". Not gonna lie, no amount of description will ever make me feel calm or less anxious TBH. 🤣 I'm probably gonna pass out and they'll just have to cut me. 👋
@trixyq.7784
@trixyq.7784 4 года назад
I feel ssoooo betrayed that they don’t tell us these things in school. Sigh
@Izumi70V3Naruto
@Izumi70V3Naruto 4 года назад
Ikr !!!!
@emsiesid8437
@emsiesid8437 4 года назад
I think there are many things about human body and school cannot teach us ‘everything’ so I guess it’s okay to educate ourselves. Moreover, it’s selective and I think I would forget what they teach before I face it lol
@vilili8785
@vilili8785 4 года назад
Uhm it depends on your education wether you learn about this or not. If you dont learn this at your school, then you should self educate yourself about this through various sources.
@bridgettem.4632
@bridgettem.4632 4 года назад
Exactly! Everyone wants a baby but they don't know the pain
@clairebearie87
@clairebearie87 4 года назад
Plenty don't want kids
@monkeyyyy_6038
@monkeyyyy_6038 4 года назад
How can someone look this good so soon after having a baby? Ily Karen!
@iamkareno
@iamkareno 4 года назад
Ily too!! Thank you!
@guaponeela
@guaponeela 4 года назад
Makeup, stress free mind maybe
@EluandMom
@EluandMom 4 года назад
Makeup
@Beandal
@Beandal 4 года назад
Good genes and money
@isabellemclawrence2103
@isabellemclawrence2103 4 года назад
How about self care you haters
@day6atemywallet78
@day6atemywallet78 4 года назад
She said “tore” and I started feeling all types of tingling 😭
@miaa1762
@miaa1762 4 года назад
Same sis.
@zzarrzzz
@zzarrzzz 4 года назад
I love how the two people here are kpop fans
@bouzaienebalkiss1945
@bouzaienebalkiss1945 3 года назад
@@zzarrzzz make them 3
@zzarrzzz
@zzarrzzz 3 года назад
@@bouzaienebalkiss1945 yuppididoo
@melony13-24
@melony13-24 3 года назад
Same 😭
@phyllisaddo1
@phyllisaddo1 4 года назад
I feel this should be taught in schools to avoid teen pregnancy
@servicegemsapphire4593
@servicegemsapphire4593 3 года назад
Me: knowing that I dont have a stable house hold yet, and I'm not ready for a baby Also me: BABY FEVER I'm 18 and no where near ready to have a baby nor do I really want one but also I want one lol.
@whywouldyoudoit2322
@whywouldyoudoit2322 3 года назад
That won't stop teen pregnancy
@servicegemsapphire4593
@servicegemsapphire4593 3 года назад
@@whywouldyoudoit2322 But do you know what would? Absences!!!
@emmas5724
@emmas5724 3 года назад
my biology teacher always said education is the most effective form of birth control🤣
@tinalarmond547
@tinalarmond547 3 года назад
Repent , jesus christ is coming back , pray and read your bible ask him for guidance, there is nothing out there in the world , if you have any questions please ask me.
@MsUndead96
@MsUndead96 4 года назад
It makes me so mad the disrespect women go through despite BIRTHING THE WHOLE WORLD. We are amazing 💕
@traacijenkins345
@traacijenkins345 4 года назад
I was just thinking that i so agree
@leai4298
@leai4298 4 года назад
Yes we are 💪
@randialade8751
@randialade8751 4 года назад
And we still have issues with getting proper health care and time off work in the U.S.
@kennethfok
@kennethfok 4 года назад
And discrimination for breastfeeding openly in public. That has to stop because when a woman needs to feed her baby, she just have to do it even if she’s not covering up. Her breasts are for her babies to get milk, not for people to look at it with a dirty mind. If want to look, should at least give some encouraging words to the ladies and not discriminate her for not behaving decently. And for married man, pls don’t look at other women’s breast. You have your wife’s breast for enjoyment and it’s more than enough.
@mishaakamdar9847
@mishaakamdar9847 4 года назад
YAASSSS QUEEN
@auroralee4120
@auroralee4120 4 года назад
I don’t plan on having a baby soon but I’m so glad there are videos like this out there to help me and other woman prepare and be ready for when the time comes! ❤️❤️❤️
@iamkareno
@iamkareno 4 года назад
🥰🥰🥰
@chiaradelia829
@chiaradelia829 4 года назад
Same!
@anousalis4089
@anousalis4089 4 года назад
Same same!!! I’m so happy Karen made this video! Giving life is beautiful but the after math sounds painful 😭❤️
@blessedbygodnotman6406
@blessedbygodnotman6406 4 года назад
Amen
@neelam1514
@neelam1514 4 года назад
And also to scare us a bit 😅😅
@limayding5711
@limayding5711 4 года назад
As a final year medical student, I’ve delivered quite a few babies via normal vaginal delivery, but sometimes you sort of feel it ends there after the delivery. But I’m so so glad you spoke about the postpartum period. It’s something I feel doesn’t get enough attention, not even from health professionals and has such an impact on the mothers, which at the end of the day are our main concern. You’ve just highlighted how important it is to speak about women’s health and reproductive health. Thank you! ❤️
@moonlightq5728
@moonlightq5728 4 года назад
Can I ask you something Limay? You might know since you are medical student. I’m 37 weeks pregnant. I lost my sense of smell and taste at 28 weeks. I tested positive for COVID on July 7th. Negative on July 21st. Negative on august 7th. Negative august 24. Still no taste and smell. 😥😥😥😥 i been congested since 28 weeks as well , the day when I woke up with. I smell and taste. Is this the aftermath of COVID. Or is it a pregnancy symptom like the hormones ??? I’m so depressed. :( PLEASE RESPOND.
@limayding5711
@limayding5711 4 года назад
@@moonlightq5728 Hey there! The evidence at this point on symptoms that are ongoing after one has recovered from COVID aren't fully established, but the loss of smell and taste (known as anosmia and ageusia) seems to be very common. It ranges from person to person, but some people have reported up to 6 months post covid with residual symptoms. I'm sorry to hear you're still suffering from it, I can imagine it's a horrible thing to be experiencing. Congestion on the other hand may cause temporary loss of smell, but it seems that your's has been of a much longer nature, pointing more towards having had COVID being the issue. It's still definitely being looked at and the exact mechanism of how and why COVID effects taste and smell aren't fully understood yet. I hope this was somewhat helpful. All the best with the last stretch of your pregnancy, I hope all the best for you and your baby!
@moonlightq5728
@moonlightq5728 4 года назад
Limay Ding thank you so much for replying to me. I read your comment and I kind of understand COVID and it’s symptoms are still under research. Thanks for your nice and kind words. From Texas.
@jenjen6970
@jenjen6970 4 года назад
@@moonlightq5728 My aunt had something similar lost smell and taste for over a month after testing positive. It came back for her so maybe for you because you are pregnant its taking longer since your body is under so much pressure carrying a baby. The healing might take a bit longer. Hope you feel better soon ..... everyones body heals differently. I know being unhealthy takes a huge toll on your mental health as well. I hope you feel better asap.
@kaylaschregardus4062
@kaylaschregardus4062 4 года назад
As a prior out of hospital midwifey student, i can say it does NOT get acknowledged at all in western medicine. The medical system is a complete failure to women when it comes to postpartum, its not discussed at all. In the education I get in midwifery we learn all about this and educate the mom during her pregnancy about postpartum and what to expect. THats why women make these videos. We shouldnt feel shy or think " TMI" casue its not this is normal. WHen women arent educated it causes more stress postpartum when they are not sure what is happening with their bodies. I thank you for acknowledging it, hopefully you can be the change in how women are cared for as far as after the baby comes/
@heritage170
@heritage170 3 года назад
I just appreciated my mom after watching this. She has 7 of us and she gave birth to all of us naturally in the poorest stage in Africa. I hate myself for ever disrespecting her. But I’m so grateful for her and I promise when I’m finished with my college and start working in my dream career. I’m going to spoil her for sure
@nooranoora702
@nooranoora702 3 года назад
Aww i love this, truly inspired me.🤎
@foozjanahi9067
@foozjanahi9067 2 года назад
I hope you achieve what you wish for and more 💜💜💜
@iva.bc300
@iva.bc300 2 года назад
Awwww u r such a good child
@Maya-xm5jx
@Maya-xm5jx 4 года назад
This just reinforced that I need to really vet the father of my future children. I will only give birth for a man whose worthy enough. Thanks for this information.... no one really talks about this aspect. All I see are glamorous pregnancy photo ops on Instagram, gender reveal parties, and baby showers. Thanks for really diving in.❤️
@afolabiprecious798
@afolabiprecious798 4 года назад
@Tuatha De Sidhe wow
@kennethfok
@kennethfok 4 года назад
Yes, be wise and make sure you give your vagina and womb to the right man. One that loves you and is willing to provide for the family. Only such man deserves to enjoy your body. Every women loses her dignity when she spreads open her legs to offer her vagina to a man so it’s important that only the best man can penetrate the most intimate part of your body.
@eme2688
@eme2688 4 года назад
@@kennethfok exactly
@Myhomeeating
@Myhomeeating 4 года назад
YES! I was with the father of my children for almost 6 years(lived with for 5) before we had our first child. We've been together for 17yrs now & I think if more people took the time to get to know their partners BEFORE having children, we'd have a lot more happy families. Don't get me wrong it hasn't been a walk in the park, but I KNOW he has my children's back(&mine), & he knows I will always have his! I feel like I really didn't even fully know him until year 5! We have the same values, he provides for us, & most important... We BOTH LOVE TO EAT(that's what most of our vacations are centered around) 🤣. No really though people need to spend more time getting to know eachother!
@hanaali1380
@hanaali1380 3 года назад
Please do.
@laurenbi
@laurenbi 4 года назад
To think, so many women do this in developing countries without adequate medical care, without proper sanitation.. :(
@ivoryvignettes
@ivoryvignettes 4 года назад
Just a reminder that people in USA and UK are Hella poor too. A lot of women can't afford their proper needs, even pads/tampons. Some lose their jobs cause they can't afford pads and have to stay home.
@pamela1549
@pamela1549 4 года назад
and they still go through this many more times than people in the global north :(
@Nurluz
@Nurluz 4 года назад
I'm from Tunisia 🇹🇳 and we have great health care. Women don't have any problems with giving birth to a baby, in fact we have many birth alternatives that don't make you feel any pain. Also we have better hygiene thanks to our culture, we use water every time we go to the toilet, not just paper towels. And doctors keep up with you all the time.
@mizzlemay8388
@mizzlemay8388 4 года назад
Coming from a person that’s from a developing country, we have good health care and good sanitation. It’s not everywhere but we have lots and lots of them. The media doesn’t really show the reality of developing country.
@Nurluz
@Nurluz 4 года назад
@@mizzlemay8388 I mean it's a developing country not an underdeveloped one, so it's supposed to be continously evolving and improving. It's not only the media, i think individuals also have the responsibility of educating themselves a little.
@ziaverse6045
@ziaverse6045 4 года назад
I’m 17, and I definitely don’t have plans related to babies haha But this was so interesting to see.
@themango9644
@themango9644 4 года назад
Frrr
@imogenkemp4626
@imogenkemp4626 4 года назад
Ff fr I’m 15 ahaha
@laurenbi
@laurenbi 4 года назад
Always good to be educated! I’ve found a lot of women don’t know about all of this until it happens to them :) Like afterbirth.. no one knows about afterbirth hahaha
@sippygotnothing8286
@sippygotnothing8286 4 года назад
Same dude 😅
@kekelouuu4178
@kekelouuu4178 4 года назад
😂 same
@amor6611
@amor6611 4 года назад
I heard "tear" and immediately did not wish to have a baby EVER
@taraeze1791
@taraeze1791 4 года назад
Same I started tingling hearing her say tear
@anonymousany9695
@anonymousany9695 4 года назад
With u
@syasyaindah1357
@syasyaindah1357 4 года назад
Same 😭😭
@Highlyblessed_favored
@Highlyblessed_favored 4 года назад
💀 I was like bye
@-AnanyaMohanty
@-AnanyaMohanty 4 года назад
Me too😂
@auroramarquez48
@auroramarquez48 4 года назад
I personally appreciate the TMI. This what women need, a straight-forward explanation on what to expect after giving birth. With that said, I'll prolly just adopt
@gothic_nix
@gothic_nix 3 года назад
I don't want children so I'm fine🤣
@douglasgriffiths3534
@douglasgriffiths3534 3 года назад
Adoption is better anyway. Give an unwanted child a home. (Jan Griffiths).
@andand6710
@andand6710 2 года назад
Same🙏 I always loved the idea of adopting literally since I was a child myself. (Matilda the film might have influenced it 😂) I just wish that if I ever meet a guy that I love, he can understand it and want it too.
@alternativefactxtv7268
@alternativefactxtv7268 4 года назад
I'm not even married yet, and I don't know if I want to put my wife through this. God bless moms!
@deirdremorris9234
@deirdremorris9234 3 года назад
As a Grandma, Im glad to see a young man watching, learning and commenting. Truly, sex and baby making really is serious business. For women, support is EVERYTHING. Knowledge is power! Good on you for educating yourself!
@mackenzierivercasey6752
@mackenzierivercasey6752 3 года назад
WOW! You sat through this whole thing! LOL! I'm amazed! >_< You rock and your wife is lucky...some dudes only care about when they can have sex again lol! ( Now you know after watching this video why some woman are always so angry lol!) Good luck to you and your wife brother! She'll be fine because she has a good guy like you! And you're a rare type, believe me! She's a lucky girl for sure!
@sassyqueen9739
@sassyqueen9739 3 года назад
We’ll keep u
@amethystwhite5803
@amethystwhite5803 3 года назад
God bless you for being a dude who educated himself in this. Your wife will appreciate you greatly.
@lad3497
@lad3497 3 года назад
You are going to be a great husband!
@carol-bi2xs
@carol-bi2xs 4 года назад
shes the only karen that is not a karen
@auroradera2862
@auroradera2862 4 года назад
Karens are supposed to be white. Thats probably why🤷🏾‍♀️🤣
@brendonsforehead4961
@brendonsforehead4961 4 года назад
Aurora Peterson there’s still asian Karen’s tho, it might just be a bit rare
@malvikalove8712
@malvikalove8712 4 года назад
Can anyone explain me this karen thing
@horchatamochi1006
@horchatamochi1006 4 года назад
Idk why people decided to call them Karen’s cause all the people actually named Karen are sweet (ones I know of)
@madisonlanford7398
@madisonlanford7398 4 года назад
@Malvika Tiwari the whole karen thing basically refers to a middle-upper class white woman (typically white, but sometimes other races) who pretty much thinks they are better than everyone/ above the law. they usually have a short dark straight bob cut, and are soccer moms. (some of them are, not all of them though) their said to drive a mini van, and usually go to yoga or soemthing like that before they drop their kids off at school. if you look up karen videos, you can get a better understanding of what their like. hope this helps ahha
@SaminSays
@SaminSays 4 года назад
Every single pee I have after watching this video will not go in vain, Lord please forgive my ingratitude and let me be grateful for my privileges 😩 😔 ✊🏽
@Altunumad
@Altunumad 4 года назад
😂😂😂😂
@moodyspoint7377
@moodyspoint7377 4 года назад
Amen
@jenma9377
@jenma9377 4 года назад
Hahahahaha!!!
@day6atemywallet78
@day6atemywallet78 4 года назад
😂😂
@perpetuatheuri9742
@perpetuatheuri9742 4 года назад
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Bubu-tg6ul
@Bubu-tg6ul 4 года назад
I’m tearing up right know. I had a miscarriage and had to go through that all by myself because no one realizes how traumatizing it is. This video felt like a talk with a sister. It was comforting and takes the fear of when it’s actually going to happen... THANK U! ♥️
@chantelle4768
@chantelle4768 4 года назад
❤️❤️
@iamjayla1284
@iamjayla1284 4 года назад
I’m praying for you ❤️
@ac3483
@ac3483 4 года назад
Yes it is I had a miscarriage on 2 and a half months. It was terrible. I have 3 children tho. I never new I was gonna go threw that tho.
@pallavigupta9573
@pallavigupta9573 4 года назад
More power to you ❤
@eme2688
@eme2688 4 года назад
im praying for you
@wagner2223
@wagner2223 4 года назад
I love how she looks like a Disney princess and then says that the birth “felt like I need to take a big sh*t” 😂 I love your videos and your personality ❤️
@brightfunnybunny4986
@brightfunnybunny4986 3 года назад
I’m 28 weeks pregnant. Somehow it’s so soothing watching you explaining all this. Not so scared anymore.
@ritaritzzumba
@ritaritzzumba 3 года назад
U can do it girl, i did it
@The0unwanted0apple
@The0unwanted0apple 3 года назад
Who are you women I'm in my first trimester and absolutely terrified!
@indigom1394
@indigom1394 2 года назад
@@The0unwanted0apple dude…. I’m a week post, I was so scared! Its no fun. But the pain… you just kind of forget straight away. It’s odd 😅
@DesiPerkins
@DesiPerkins 4 года назад
Me watching this knowing I’m going to give birth in 5 weeks 👁 👄👁
@iamkareno
@iamkareno 4 года назад
You got this desi!
@pocketcinema5516
@pocketcinema5516 4 года назад
I have gone through the the third degree one, and it takes 6 weeks to heal, i wish u dont go through that. God bless u
@wtmfr
@wtmfr 4 года назад
Good luck girl, I would probably shit myself with fear :(
@purpleunicorns3844
@purpleunicorns3844 4 года назад
im 23 weeks atm ❤
@danijelanella2680
@danijelanella2680 4 года назад
Same, in 7 WEEK first baby on the way......
@THEKITOFAMILY
@THEKITOFAMILY 4 года назад
Watching this a week before my due date 👀 oh gosh!!
@lansc
@lansc 4 года назад
Good luck 🤗
@THEKITOFAMILY
@THEKITOFAMILY 4 года назад
Kaya Lan thank you 😊 💛
@aliyahmukhtar2036
@aliyahmukhtar2036 4 года назад
Same 😅
@himanshiidagarr
@himanshiidagarr 4 года назад
Good luck ❤️and hey I watch your videos 🌼
@DignaK
@DignaK 4 года назад
Courage courage! Everything will be okay
@blah2064
@blah2064 4 года назад
This all sounds traumatizing.
@kaylaschregardus4062
@kaylaschregardus4062 4 года назад
If your eduacted prior, rest, eat healty like soups and easy digestable foods, magnesium, stool softeners its easier, also sitz nbaths. THere are many remedies but were just not educated
@chrissip5802
@chrissip5802 4 года назад
It is. Postpartum is worse than giving birth
@jocygaleana2709
@jocygaleana2709 4 года назад
I’m so traumatized I cry, 4 days pp
@chrissip5802
@chrissip5802 4 года назад
@@jocygaleana2709 I'm still crying - 3 months postpartum 😅 What happened? How do you feel?
@haylieaylie269
@haylieaylie269 3 года назад
its very traumatic 😭
@smithabarman7018
@smithabarman7018 4 года назад
She: Explaining Me: *Feeling the pain*
@misbella3250
@misbella3250 3 года назад
Umm 📌
@mrkat1238
@mrkat1238 3 года назад
Sameee 😐
@jyotipunia8996
@jyotipunia8996 3 года назад
Damn true
@shannyjackson6944
@shannyjackson6944 3 года назад
Everytime she said tore, i get shivers through my body.
@Bicth97
@Bicth97 4 года назад
god I can't believe women do this. the more I learn about pregnancy I don't think I can handle birthing the baby myself
@Rooskwa
@Rooskwa 4 года назад
luckily there is plenty of support to get
@allergictohumansnotanimals5671
@allergictohumansnotanimals5671 4 года назад
Females have been giving birth since the start of time I think u can do it
@Rooskwa
@Rooskwa 4 года назад
@@allergictohumansnotanimals5671 Hi! you might not have meant that comment seriously, but I'm commenting in case. A ton of women have died from giving birth, babies too. There has always been a huge risk in giving birth. The risk is way smaller today, thx to modern medicine, but it is still there and giving birth is still extremely painful for most and in some cases traumatic. A good support system and professional help before, during and after is important. And also.. writing "lol" in that context is rude.
@allergictohumansnotanimals5671
@allergictohumansnotanimals5671 4 года назад
@@Rooskwa okay I apologize
@melopsicodelia
@melopsicodelia 4 года назад
And she was lucky, saddly a lot of mothers have It way worst, plus the no sleeping, urinary incontinence, keloid scars, depression, HTA, gestational diabetes, just to name some negative aspects. Some people think motherhood or giving birth is like nothing cause everyone does It and romantized and we never heard about the shitty side of it, but is not like that, It changes your life drastically, you are no longer the star on your own freaking life, but we don't heard about this a lot because for mothers it's not socially allowed to talk about It, so I really love this type of videos cause it's not just pink, shit can get dark but as a mother having a baby is the one thing you "can't" regret.
@HayleyAlexis
@HayleyAlexis 4 года назад
I am not pregnant, don't want to be pregnant.... and yet I still watched the whole video 😅
@randompotato7391
@randompotato7391 3 года назад
Same, I don’t even want kids 😂
@UntisPike-ds5mp
@UntisPike-ds5mp 4 года назад
Its hilarious that we know about sex this much but not about process of giving birth
@virginiam3348
@virginiam3348 4 года назад
This video should be shown in schools to girls at 16. It's so important to know. Yet at 31 I had no idea all this happens !! Thank you Love From London
@ZombieMan1997
@ZombieMan1997 3 года назад
I think it should be shown to everyone in middle school. Not just girls.
@FransceneJK98
@FransceneJK98 2 года назад
What do you mean you had no idea? It’s kind of common sense if you think about it. Some women can tear down there if the hole is smaller than the baby and doesn’t stretch enough. And obviously if it’s small it will tear.
@saniyarazak7425
@saniyarazak7425 4 года назад
I felt every word she said , even though im not pregnant nor have had any babies .....this gave me different type of anxiety 😥
@Rickpotato
@Rickpotato 4 года назад
Same 😭
@megankirby4002
@megankirby4002 3 года назад
@@mackenzierivercasey6752 lmao 30 as middle aged. I'll just go put myself off to pasture then...
@serenathompsons
@serenathompsons 4 года назад
I cannot BELIEVE the lack of pregnancy information we're given in sex ed class in high school. Unreal! Not having kids any time soon but thank you for this video, haha. Super informative!!!
@misslam26
@misslam26 4 года назад
Omg I'm so scared of getting pregnant now :(
@sobhalama6082
@sobhalama6082 4 года назад
Me too 😭😭this is scary
@hacgiaythiengia7516
@hacgiaythiengia7516 4 года назад
xx_mz same. When she talk about tearing I dont even dare to pee
@sakshiarora2870
@sakshiarora2870 4 года назад
Let's adopt. This is scary! 😪😪😪😪😓
@aestheticlemon6328
@aestheticlemon6328 4 года назад
@@sakshiarora2870 lmao same :-0
@bemit02
@bemit02 4 года назад
i’m actually feeling burn down there right now just by watching it 😂😂
@SamElle
@SamElle 4 года назад
OMG this is something ive always wondered but too scared to ask? also too ashamed? I know I shouldnt feel like this, but I still sometimes feel ashamed for asking things that should honestly probably be more normalized!!! I think it has to do with how I was brought up!!
@iamkareno
@iamkareno 4 года назад
Definitely don’t need to feel ashamed! I’m glad this video helped 🤍
@day6atemywallet78
@day6atemywallet78 4 года назад
Same 😭my mum disregards all this
@SamElle
@SamElle 4 года назад
@@day6atemywallet78 ahhh we all had the same childhood
@StorytellingHeadshots
@StorytellingHeadshots 4 года назад
Gives me a totally new appreciation for my mom. Mother’s Day presents need to be 10x!!! I had no idea.
@FransceneJK98
@FransceneJK98 2 года назад
Only if the mother actually acts like a mother should. Popping out babies without actually caring the way a mother should doesn’t deserve praise
@Darkpersephone66
@Darkpersephone66 3 года назад
I’m 37 weeks pregnant and I feel like I’ve learned more on postpartum needs, compared to the actual class I took. She’s so lively and very blunt, it’s nice to hear from an actual mother.
@Febzpassion
@Febzpassion 4 года назад
ok im scared to get preggy, give birth, and post partum...
@janistaschenker2396
@janistaschenker2396 4 года назад
samee
@buffandbrindle
@buffandbrindle 4 года назад
Honestly, being scared makes things hurt a lot more. It's so interesting. There are all kinds of birth affirmations out that to relax and calm you if you ever decide to give birth. The truth is our bodies were made for all this, and it knows what it's doing. It's about not over thinking it, and trying to control everything. It's like, the mind can make things much worse than they need to be. I've heard it explained like this, You know when you gotta poop in the public restroom, and someone walks in and you suddenly freeze and can't really poop easily. Same kind of thing with child birth!
@Febzpassion
@Febzpassion 4 года назад
@@buffandbrindle oh thats a really good comparison.. Now that im thinking about it its going to be really hard for me to do it one day if it feels like pooping and everyone is staring at my hooha 😵
@buffandbrindle
@buffandbrindle 4 года назад
@@Febzpassion I think that's why a lot more people opt for a home birth. Less people and more privacy.
@jemimaizua4711
@jemimaizua4711 4 года назад
Same
@mellbellsringing
@mellbellsringing 4 года назад
This is the most straightforward video on child birth I've ever seen. I've never seen the little cleaning spritz bottle before or even heard of it lol. Thanks for sharing all this information, and congratulations 👏 You look lovely!
@DonnaZed
@DonnaZed 4 года назад
I bet Shan Boody will do one as straight forward as well once she gives birth ( she’s a sex educator here on RU-vid she’s great )
@Black.Spades
@Black.Spades 4 года назад
This bottle is sometimes sold/used as a travel cleaning device for after you went to the toilet. Especially in countries which use bidets.
@HisSnuggleBear18
@HisSnuggleBear18 4 года назад
I got one from the hospital but it's just a clear bottle with a shower head type white cap. You fill it with warm water and just rinse and squeeze. Those, the witch hazel wipes and the dermaplast were the best things ever. And I had stitches.
@malvaviscoo
@malvaviscoo 4 года назад
I'm 32 years old and NEVER in my life heard about this information before... I guess because I had no plans to make babies before. But this definetly is information ALL woman should know. Thank you for making this very informative video. You are such a brave, strong and beautiful mommy! ❤️
@moodyspoint7377
@moodyspoint7377 4 года назад
How’s it feel? Do you feel any differently than you did when you were in your mid twenties?
@maryonnaire
@maryonnaire 4 года назад
Just wanna share my birth experience Karen. In my country, the govt hospital would not offer any painkillers or epidural as they encourage birth as natural as possible. So I was in pain the whole time before my contraction really kicked in and they had to induce me because my water already broke for 24 hours but my cervical opening was still quite small. Within 3 hours after induction I delivered my baby Elijah. The moment I heard him cry and out of my tummy was the happiest day of my life. I didnt cry because I was too tired and I really slept right after birth but 5 hours later the nurse woke me up and put my baby beside me. Oh my God my tears were flowing like waterfall. Tiny miracle and I instantly fell in love! But postpartum journey like you said..it was not talked much even by our mothers or sisters! I was really not expecting many thing during postpartum stage. So my postpartum journey was a heck of painful and sore one because my perineal tear was quite long. Once again, I was not given any pain medication and I dreaddd every single toilet visit especially going for poopoo. My tear was only totally healed on the 6th week postpartum. Breastfeeding was also exhausting for the first time mom like me. I didnt have alot of milk coming in the first 2 weeks but I encouraged active direct latching so now my milk supply is pretty good. Hunger kicks in all the time and I think I munch onto things like every hour. But now I get the hang of it and I truly and really appreciate all these moment and now I feel like I want another baby again lol! But minus the pain please >.
@amichele862
@amichele862 2 года назад
Same hear. No epidural. No kit to take care of vaginal. You take care of your baby just after birth.
@ondreatorrence4322
@ondreatorrence4322 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing !
@indigom1394
@indigom1394 2 года назад
Oh my goodness. I Didn’t want the epidural at all, but I had to have a epidural as I was stuck with him in the “ring of fire” stage. They had given me Remi fentanyl but it wasn’t working it was sending me to sleep so they basically shoved gas and air in my face told me I was having an epidural or I would have had to have an emergency Caesarean. The adrenaline thing that they gave me to keep me awake worked fine but the epidural didn’t actually work at all so I was now just very awake and in a hell of a lot of pain. They really don’t tell you how wrong it can go, I did have a 2nd° tear but I tore it both front and back and I lost over a litre of blood. My poor partner! They gave me no pain meds after the birth, and even during my stitches ( which was hell). But my Elijah was born on the 30th of dec 2021, and once I held him….. I totally forgot the pain and was saying to his dad that we need to make sure he has siblings. He looked very pale and said “really?! Are you sure?” I think it was more trauma for him than me lol But postpartum, I’m finding it harder than birth ngl. 💜💜💜
@lifeandallitscharms6484
@lifeandallitscharms6484 2 года назад
Same here, I uploaded a video and talked about it.. it's my first video, lol 😆 I am in awe how pampered these ladies on RU-vid are... so blessed, if I had that option, I too would've taken it.
@mandy4401
@mandy4401 3 года назад
jeesh i love the way this lady talks about her body. like no joke i’ve had two and tried to keep a positive self image but looking into the mirror was HARD. hearing her talk about the pooch part and say something like “i still have one and that’s completely normal” was amazing.
@anonymousmuse
@anonymousmuse 4 года назад
As of this time, I no longer have the desire to have children, so imagining myself go through this with that mindset is so scary it’s making me cry. I know it’s bad to have children when you didn’t want them because it’ll be devastating for the child to ever learn that their mother never wanted them in the first place. Definitely avoiding ever getting pregnant unless I actually feel ready, and hope that my future partner will be understanding of that, too.
@CatCamilis
@CatCamilis 4 года назад
I think exactly the same, I don’t think I’ll ever want to give birth (I would much rather adopt a child and give a homeless baby a second chance). And watching this just makes me shiver, it made my vagina hurt hahahaha Still very informative and interesting
@sarroumarbeu6810
@sarroumarbeu6810 4 года назад
It is scary af...but as far as I know this ONE variant of what giving birth is like, other woman have it easier other much worse. It all depends.
@argerinejordan4703
@argerinejordan4703 4 года назад
That's why i never had kids.
@merikaislamurto9225
@merikaislamurto9225 3 года назад
I found my people. No birth gang!!
@sreshmi3552
@sreshmi3552 3 года назад
Trust me.. I'm crying right now seeing this video.. y we women need to go through all this.. it scares the shit out f me.. I will never be ready to have a baby .. noo😭😭😭😭
@annaendter8197
@annaendter8197 4 года назад
I can't imagine how my mom did it.. She had a natural birth for me at home with absolutely no pain medication/epidural. btw great video, most people don't talk about what exactly happens afterwards.
@Meelany261095
@Meelany261095 4 года назад
I had mine natural and tore up horribly. Had to have 2 reconstruction surgeries after 2 years. The labor was painful I can't imagine how I survived 12 hours in pain started with 3 minutes contractions apart of each one for 5 hours every 1 minute.
@tweewin
@tweewin 4 года назад
Mad respect for my mother. She successfully delivered 4 of us, naturally. God bless her! 🙏 😱 I kept asking her about the post-partum, and she says don't worry about it. 😶 I've been hunting for a video like this to be honest with me. Gotta mentally prepare myself. 😂
@camilleasillia9074
@camilleasillia9074 4 года назад
I had a natural birth mo meds and no tears or stitches
@tweewin
@tweewin 4 года назад
@@camilleasillia9074 and how was the pain? Lucky you. Not many can claim no tears. 😶
@camilleasillia9074
@camilleasillia9074 4 года назад
@@tweewin i was induced had contractions from 10 am until midnight which we're all in my back but manageable i could watch tv during ..but then they broke my waters it was severe awful pain then pushing part i didnt mind so much that hour was bad though and i screamed a fair bit lol..after just sore when had a wee not terrible all im saying
@jannell2696
@jannell2696 4 года назад
Hi Karen! Please don’t think this video is TMI. There are sooo many women and young girls such as myself who do not have mothers or female role models in their life to help us understand or even acknowledge what happens with our bodies, so we do look up to female influencers for this sort of information and trust me we’re so grateful for informative videos such as this one. So thanks sooo much! You’re doing a great job! We are ALL learning because of you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@babyyoda5140
@babyyoda5140 2 года назад
So well said, thank you!!
@pixiedustgirl3894
@pixiedustgirl3894 3 года назад
I just hug my mom tightly after watching this, thank you!!
@miale3593
@miale3593 4 года назад
As a mom who went through c-section not v birth, I’m still so nervous whenever I heard about tear. Moms are so damn hero!!!!
@meowtime6141
@meowtime6141 4 года назад
Girl, I love how sincere you are about everything,this is such a taboo and having someone saying the true thing without trying to make the situation romantic like you see in magazines and movies, I don't even intend to have a baby but I feel that this was a really valuable advice , thank you for this video , I hope that you get 100% healed as fast as possible
@kimkookie6289
@kimkookie6289 4 года назад
Lara P Between normal people it is a taboo, but between healthcare professionals its quite normal! We talk about it all the time, it’s quite interesting.
@meowtime6141
@meowtime6141 4 года назад
@@kimkookie6289 I know, this should be more open for normal people, I see so many girls getting pregnant and finding their selves in the dark wen it comes to after birth, is a extreme, our they find something romanticise our a horror story
@kimkookie6289
@kimkookie6289 4 года назад
@@meowtime6141 That's so true, and they need so much support. Believe it or not, mainly nurses are supposed to educate women in these things...but then I remember not everyone is like me in that area. Let's hope they have a good experience and a nice healthcare team that'll educate and support them.💖
@madrehoodlocura
@madrehoodlocura 4 года назад
Maybe TMI but I lost my mom recently in June & I’m about to have my first baby in October & this video helped so much thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@tajanotaja
@tajanotaja 4 года назад
Not TMI at all! Soooo sorry for your loss though 🥺
@eugenehoek.
@eugenehoek. 4 года назад
I've lost my mother many years ago and I agree with you a lot. We have to learn this info from somewhere, even if it's RU-vid. Hope your birth experience will be the best ever ❤
@madrehoodlocura
@madrehoodlocura 4 года назад
Ευγενία Κτ ❤️❤️
@jillianlewis2574
@jillianlewis2574 4 года назад
Keeping you in my prayers, good luck love (*3*) remember you are strong and you are loved!
@tweewin
@tweewin 4 года назад
Best wishes on the delivery!
@morningcoffee2471
@morningcoffee2471 4 года назад
I didn’t know there is varying degrees of tearing. That’s sounds painful and mind boggling. I knew birthing is painful, but now I feel it’s more painful that I originally thought.
@unapologeticallyk8021
@unapologeticallyk8021 4 года назад
I'm almost 37 weeks pregnant & this definitely helped. I'm so nervous and I dont want to tear 😭
@vladislava8351
@vladislava8351 4 года назад
I feel like the more I learn about pregnancy, birth, and everything that comes after... the less I want to have kids in the future... this is so much to deal with. It’s honestly kind of scary
@FransceneJK98
@FransceneJK98 2 года назад
Yup one reason why I prefer to stay childfree. They don’t tell you how stressful and hard it is after birth. Years of sleepless nights, stress to the max and risk of your man leaving you. Not worth it
@Ren-mm5ic
@Ren-mm5ic 4 года назад
i still don't understand how youtube recommends this to me. i'm 22 and not even married Holy, i've never had this many likes. Thank you so much 🙏
@dianeculas3780
@dianeculas3780 4 года назад
Me too! But it was definitely interesting to watch.
@caratsuji
@caratsuji 4 года назад
Same here 🤣
@anaestheticcorner9658
@anaestheticcorner9658 4 года назад
Girl same🤣
@aditipathak1201
@aditipathak1201 4 года назад
Same....i am not even 20...😭
@saira9130
@saira9130 4 года назад
Same
@PINKIDENTITY
@PINKIDENTITY 4 года назад
I'm 6 days postpartum! Oh my lord urghhh I was so scared of my first poop but I was prepping, drank lots of water, had bran and took stool softeners and whew! I survived😭 no pain at all... Postpartum recovery is an anxiety trip but having someone there with you takes half of it away
@dawnforlife
@dawnforlife 4 года назад
38 weeks! Hope I'll have no pain like you!!!
@PINKIDENTITY
@PINKIDENTITY 4 года назад
@@dawnforlife good luck ❤️❤️❤️ you got this
@dawnforlife
@dawnforlife 4 года назад
@@PINKIDENTITY Thank you and enjoy your little one! :)
@sakshim2616
@sakshim2616 4 года назад
Its been a week since you comment i hope you and baby both are healthy
@PINKIDENTITY
@PINKIDENTITY 4 года назад
@@sakshim2616 Hey 🤗❤️ Baby is very healthy and I'm also doing well... The stitches are still a bit of a thing but these things take time. Thank you so much for asking
@aw16922
@aw16922 4 года назад
This sounds horrifying omg. Idk how I’ll have kids. It actually makes me a little sad.
@MiaMizuno
@MiaMizuno 4 года назад
I understand and I told my best friends the Light Version of my post-partum... And what was left was 1 friend without kid, and the rest was "ew, you made myself not wanting kids anymore"... I felt so devastated because I really tried my best not telling all Details (they asked!!! and expected some positive perfect birth answers?) and I found some Info very important... But I also learned that I did basically nothing wrong, I just had the wrong friends. I think us women just do not know enough, Sex education should be better... Because when you are pregnant you can get scared about what stories your own mom or aunt brings out. They all told me "I did not want to tell you, because I feared you do not want to have kids anymore" ... We women are so strong and we become even stronger afterwards. So I want to share the message, we are mentally able to overcome these things! :)
@sassyqueen9739
@sassyqueen9739 3 года назад
I’ll adopt
@OfficialRoses
@OfficialRoses 3 года назад
same :( and i don’t want to adopt because i actually want my own haha
@lifestyleinamerica6645
@lifestyleinamerica6645 4 года назад
I will give birth in january,thank you for reminding me of everything.I forgot everything i did with my first born,that was 7 yrs ago!Very usefull tips.Thanks again!
@marissalg9284
@marissalg9284 3 года назад
How was it ? Just curious I’m scared
@breezum5356
@breezum5356 3 года назад
"I just felt like i had to take a really fat sh!t" i screamed😭✋ so happy for you and your baby, mama!
@melindapocsai590
@melindapocsai590 4 года назад
I'm 21, no plans on having babies, going to Uni , travelling etc, but I saved this video thinking: "I need all that stuff when I give birth" Now searching videos on how to prevent tears during birth.
@softsunlightnaiad
@softsunlightnaiad 4 года назад
Hahaha
@douglasgriffiths3534
@douglasgriffiths3534 3 года назад
Have a C section, or just don't have kids. Don't give up your freedom to do what you want when you want. I never had kids , and have no regrets. (Jan Griffiths).
@khandoscookingdiary
@khandoscookingdiary 3 года назад
😂
@MirandaSinistra
@MirandaSinistra 3 года назад
Perineal massages help a lot to prevent tearing.
@akirahayama2653
@akirahayama2653 3 года назад
Same. I still want kids. I think its important to be educated on the entire process so I like watching these videos.
@thecourageousorange
@thecourageousorange 4 года назад
btw. "Flushable" wipes aren't really flushable. so just throw those in the trash instead. othervise they can start clogging up the pipes.
@vplmuse
@vplmuse 4 года назад
everytime I hear pregnancy/birthing stories, my legs tense and tighten - why does it seem so scary D:
@sarroumarbeu6810
@sarroumarbeu6810 4 года назад
The scary possiblities (although not so common) are just a deal breaker >< all that pain >
@blimtaeterna7006
@blimtaeterna7006 4 года назад
And then there are women who just don't know they are pregnant and give birth on random places or on their own houses apparently effortlessly.
@Lilbit0912
@Lilbit0912 3 года назад
@@blimtaeterna7006 these women are generally in denial. Being pregnant myself, there’s no way you couldn’t know for months especially in the third trimester.
@barnhartourfamily9259
@barnhartourfamily9259 3 года назад
Everything unknown is scary. And labor is intense, there's no denying that. But women don't break. Our bodies were designed by God to relax & stretch during labor. If you ever decide to have children, try reading up on The Bradly Method. Rather than focusing on breathing like Lamaze, it focuses on working with your body during contraction, not against it... resulting in less pain! -Blessings!
@RacingPepe
@RacingPepe 3 года назад
Well it is. You need to feel some sort of love for this unborn baby where you think it's all worth it and you suffer through it because you really want this. I can't relate at all personally but I guess some women truly feel that way.
@judyf37
@judyf37 4 года назад
Just the thought of giving birth, scares me the most..thankyou for sharing this karen...i have so much respect for all mothers
@jessicanganhuynh4769
@jessicanganhuynh4769 4 года назад
Aww, I'm 20 and I don't even have a bf, but I'm so curious about these experience lol Thanks, Karen for sharing your experience. This definitely makes me appreciate and love my Mom even more ahhhh!!!!
@samanthaavelar5863
@samanthaavelar5863 4 года назад
Loved your video!!! Usually it doesn’t hurt to go pee after baby, but the area can be swollen and make it hard to pee after baby comes out. Also you need to pee so your uterus can contract! If your bladder is full of pee it pushes your uterus at a weird angle and makes it hard for it to contract which can be dangerous as contracting helps with the bleeding so you don’t bleed out ❤️
@iamkareno
@iamkareno 4 года назад
This is what the nurse told me when I was still half drugged up from my epidural! Thanks for sharing with everyone 😍
@samanthaavelar5863
@samanthaavelar5863 4 года назад
IAMKARENO right! 😂 it’s so hard to soak up all this important info when you’re half asleep, drugged up, baby crying, everything hurting lol! Your video has actually kinda inspired me to make an experience/ what to expect down there from labor and delivery 🥰
@jordiecartier
@jordiecartier 4 года назад
I love that you’re very organic and natural (wooden toys, your color sets, etc) but not to the extreme of not accepting things that aren’t 100% natural or modern medicines (like the epidural and the ibuprofen). You just like being comfy 😂 and that’s how I want to be as a mom eventually!!💖💖
@emmascholtz4427
@emmascholtz4427 4 года назад
Appreciate all the TMI 😂❤️ Might be personal but no one talks about it and you were so helpful ❤️
@beeluck3y
@beeluck3y 4 года назад
Nursing student who’s never had kids learning from you! Thank you for your honesty & openness
@swaleyko
@swaleyko 3 года назад
1.5 weeks postpartum and taking comfort in this knowing I’m not alone 🥲 Thank you Karen!
@maddyrevenge
@maddyrevenge 4 года назад
Just make sure not to flush the “flushable” wipes! Even though brands call them flushable, they do not break down like tp does and can cause blockages in sewer systems!
@sprinklesfrosting3919
@sprinklesfrosting3919 4 года назад
I remember when you used to make fashion videos, you made me buy cherry earrings, and now you are married with a baby talking about child birth time has passed by so fast😭😭😭
@fathpenaflor1157
@fathpenaflor1157 4 года назад
Omg same and when she died her hair green! Now shes a mom 😭
@thepensivedragon
@thepensivedragon 4 года назад
I’m not a mother yet, but I’ve always been curious about the postpartum healing process. Thank you for making this video and sharing your experience. Not a lot of people talk about this topic so I appreciate this.
@charbelelhachem9683
@charbelelhachem9683 4 года назад
more women should speak up about this as naturally as you. much love ❤️❤️
@_justjaynexo
@_justjaynexo 4 года назад
I’m scared 😂🙈 it’s like “do I really wanna get pregnant and go through all this?” 🥺 you did a great job explaining your experience though and the advice 🤙🏽❤️
@kaylaschregardus4062
@kaylaschregardus4062 4 года назад
Find a good provider, try a midwife or birth center. If your educated and supported a lot of your fears will be lifted.
@_justjaynexo
@_justjaynexo 4 года назад
@@kaylaschregardus4062 thanks for the advice 💕
@FransceneJK98
@FransceneJK98 2 года назад
@@kaylaschregardus4062 you can have a great doc and support system but doesn’t mean you should have kids.
@verynaomi
@verynaomi 4 года назад
I loved your honesty in this video! I am nowhere near having a baby but I’ve always been so curious about the actual details of it
@sclizeth05
@sclizeth05 4 года назад
34yr old me clenching my legs. Contemplating if I really want kids.
@selflove3807
@selflove3807 4 года назад
😭
@andreeutza22
@andreeutza22 4 года назад
Same, also 34😅
@beyamy9392
@beyamy9392 4 года назад
Ditto. I don’t think it’s for me!
@wendihyd6799
@wendihyd6799 4 года назад
You only have a year left to decide
@lovi_s_passtime
@lovi_s_passtime 4 года назад
@@wendihyd6799 why
@APPLESMOUA
@APPLESMOUA 4 года назад
Omg such a great video. When I had my daughter NO ONE told me that I would bleed for a whole month! No one!!!! There's a lot of things that I had to figure out on my own which sucked! Thanks for sharing with us and hopefully it can help other women expect or be aware of body changes postpartum.
@jeaninegriffin1196
@jeaninegriffin1196 4 года назад
This video is everything! My youngest is 11 so it’s been a long time since I have been here. BUT everything you are saying is so true. It’s crazy because as time goes on you forget all of the things. Ladies, you and lady parts will be fine.
@annmcdonough1470
@annmcdonough1470 3 года назад
I’m 30 weeks. Thank you for being clear and honest. I’m sure it’s awkward sitting in a room alone talking about pooping but it reaffirms lots of information about PP!
@jennahuang1525
@jennahuang1525 4 года назад
Some of your descriptions killed me 😂 saving this for when I have a kid in the next 5-7yrs 🤣
@iamkareno
@iamkareno 4 года назад
😂😂
@lunar.metals
@lunar.metals 4 года назад
who actually wants to give birth then, this is terrifying.
@chloe7219
@chloe7219 3 года назад
Tbh I’d be more worried about the labour. At least at this point she’s got her baby to remind her it’s worth it. I’m more scared of labour
@douglasgriffiths3534
@douglasgriffiths3534 3 года назад
It IS terrifying!!! You have the pregnancy to deal with, the weight gain, possible gestational diabetes (which may stay with you after), your body will never be the same, widening hips, swollen ankles and feet, etc. I have never been pregnant just for these reasons. Also, I feel I would not have been a good parent, because I would have had to sell my horse before the baby came. My ex in laws would have seen to that, and I would have been resentful. Not only that, I understand that you bleed for SIX WEEKS after the birth. I would not have been able to deal with that crap. My ex didn't want kids either, and at age 31 I was sterilized, and my horse was safe. (Jan Griffiths).
@jenniepeach6764
@jenniepeach6764 3 года назад
@@douglasgriffiths3534 DIABETES?????
@douglasgriffiths3534
@douglasgriffiths3534 3 года назад
@@jenniepeach6764 Yes, some women can get gestational diabetes, which should disappear after the birth, but sometimes it dosen't, and the woman has diabetes for the rest of her life. Happened to a friend of mine. (Jan Griffiths).
@ZombieMan1997
@ZombieMan1997 3 года назад
I have a seven year old. The pregnancy sucked. It was hard and then the delivery was a long painful 18 hours but he is so worth it. I'm currently 15 weeks withbmy second child first daughter and I am so excited. The pregnancy sucks too. Lol. But I know more and will be better prepared this time and don't have to worry about school. I was 16 when my son was born.
@siro4239
@siro4239 4 года назад
Never knew this! Why don't we learn this at school? (I live in Europa, so we do get a pretty good sex education, but still only the biological and not the real life stuff.)
@day6atemywallet78
@day6atemywallet78 4 года назад
Aside from the scary storytelling, you are really glowing 🥺you look absolutely gorgeous, so glad to hear you are enjoying your motherhood despite the whole experience 🙏
@aishanana6535
@aishanana6535 4 года назад
I'm 12 weeks postpartum for my first. I had an episiotomy. I remember the first poo...oh my gosh.. I was so scared and I cried cos the poo was so hard, I was scared of ruining my stitches. It took 6 weeks for me to completely heal from my stitches. Now, when I think of it, all I do is smile. My baby is the best gift 🤗 . Wishing all pregnant women a safe and easy delivery.
@Cece-ro8vd
@Cece-ro8vd 4 года назад
Omg I had one too but it took me 5 and a half months to heal completely 😳
@av4275
@av4275 4 года назад
Wow. Every woman is definitely different. I've given birth 3 times. 100% natural. I had no problems using the bathroom. I never took pain medication postpartum and I didn't have to use all of that stuff other than pads and with water bottle to clean. I was up and running around as usual. My tummy went flat within a few days. Yes I has uncomfortable moments but nothing I couldn't handle. 🤷‍♀️
@simiedulay
@simiedulay 4 года назад
U blessed!! 💖
@SR-el5qw
@SR-el5qw 4 года назад
You are right every women is different. The first time I had an episiotomy and I was sore but not bad. Didn't take any pain meds. Did bleed alot but after a few days I was fine. My second one I tore but no real.pain. but I didn't bleed hardly at all and felt almost normal right away.
@liz-pz1ke
@liz-pz1ke 3 года назад
How does it feel to be God's favorite?
@av4275
@av4275 3 года назад
@@liz-pz1ke idk you're asking the wrong person.....
@7Donna77
@7Donna77 3 года назад
@@liz-pz1ke she is just probably very strong, not a drama queen type of person. That one in the video will complain about giving birth for the next 10 years...
@danirios2293
@danirios2293 4 года назад
I don´t plan on becoming a mom anytime soon, but I just love how talking about this is being normalized! Thank you Karen, wish you luck to you and your beautiful family!
@adeezodlem9787
@adeezodlem9787 4 года назад
This makes me want to be childless even more 😂 Much love and appreciation to all mothers out there! Be proud of yourselves 🧡
@shainabrownmedia1848
@shainabrownmedia1848 4 года назад
I love how you are so raw and honest about your experience!
@itssudeshnasaha
@itssudeshnasaha 4 года назад
Seriously I have so much respect for all the mothers and womens out there, it's so painful like I can't describe but they are so damn strong☺❤❤no one can ever imagine the pain
@FransceneJK98
@FransceneJK98 2 года назад
There’s other pain that’s just as bad for some people. Tired of society glorifying motherhood like it’s something out of this world. Women are biologically built to do this
@Zôfiëmakeup
@Zôfiëmakeup 4 года назад
Love that you gave all the grimy details because people never talk about those and they are so important! 👏🏻
@lovexjessicuhh
@lovexjessicuhh 4 года назад
this is awesome. after you give birth, you still retain a lot of fluid (like swelling) and there's a lot of swelling down there, which is why we like you to use ice packs. and an epidural lessens your sensation to pee...you probably still had epidural medication in your system so it was hard to pee. your uterus and your bladder compete for the same position in your body, so if your bladder is full, the uterus stops contracting and you have a heavier flow. that's why you need to pee to keep your uterus contracting and control your bleeding
@raisingezra7165
@raisingezra7165 4 года назад
I’m due in 6 weeks and this video has helped ease some of my anxiety regarding recovery-you were so honest and real so thank you!
@TalkWithJoce
@TalkWithJoce 2 года назад
It's incredibly valuable for people to have access to real, raw, educational videos like this. Thank you for that community service!! I hope that you and your family are safe, healthy, and happy.
@alyupde9337
@alyupde9337 3 года назад
As a mom of two about to be three, grab depends! Also you can put aloe gel and which hazel on some and freeze them. It feels good down there after birth! Also look into belly binding!
@laylac1473
@laylac1473 4 года назад
So happy you made this video! Everything I’ve learnt about pregnancy has been from my sister who has had three children, before that I truly knew absolutely nothing, videos like this help normalise and educate! ☺️
@greta1411
@greta1411 4 года назад
me, a virgin:
@priesthoodworshipper9147
@priesthoodworshipper9147 4 года назад
i just love her confidence...like no mom i knoe has talked about these stuff with me...i really appreciate it
@jaylayianieves315
@jaylayianieves315 3 года назад
A little over 3 months pregnant watching this like O__o But I loveddd all of the information! I literally didn't think to look ANY of this stuff up and I'm glad I found your video because now I will really be diving in deep lol. God bless your baby girl and your family! Praying myself for a healthy manageable delivery and now praying for manageable postpartum effects and pains.
@cheezeball6153
@cheezeball6153 2 года назад
im 16 and pregnant. thank you for the video. i was so scared but knowing what will happen makes me feel so much better. thank you thank you
@steph8703
@steph8703 4 года назад
Im due any day now, and was under the impression id be getting a c section until a few days ago when the dr said i have to try natural, so now im LITERALLY TOTALLY UNPREPARED and freaking tf out! But this was so helpful, so many of these videos include mass amounts of items n stuff that really seems unnecessary, im glad u showed the basics n kept it real!🙏💖
@guaponeela
@guaponeela 4 года назад
For c-section also similar problems are there, check out those as well.. if you end up c-section those helps. Bless you
@clownpilled
@clownpilled 4 года назад
Thank you for all the mommy related videos 😭 I’m currently 36 weeks and terrified cause I’m young and it’s my first baby 😿 these videos are so informative and encouraging, thank you Karen 🥺💗💗💗
@perseo-np7lq
@perseo-np7lq 4 года назад
Wondering how people deal with postpartum in medieval times without all this.
@assikamei2558
@assikamei2558 4 года назад
That's why lot of them simply died
@Beandal
@Beandal 4 года назад
Many of them died or had issues for most of their lives.
@amkinspiration9676
@amkinspiration9676 4 года назад
Half of women died giving birth or during the post-partum , same babies
@sreshmi3552
@sreshmi3552 3 года назад
Sameee
@babieofchat8667
@babieofchat8667 3 года назад
Pure will power or death
@juliagouyeah1072
@juliagouyeah1072 4 года назад
Just bumped into this video and it's actually so nice to finally hear someone talking about postpartum so freely. I gave birth over 2 weeks ago and am still struggling with the pain - but it does get easier 🙏 I was in total shock the day following the delivery tho, as I wasn't expecting so much pain and had never really heard about it, and I didn't know what was happening to my body. It's a good thing to talk about it so the mums-to-be can get ready for it (like we'd get ready for all the other steps of the pregnancy).
@courtneyl6308
@courtneyl6308 3 года назад
I’m not even having a baby or planning on it but this is so interesting and you’re so down to earth so really easy to watch , Dove is adorable also x
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