Pretty Prudent ......He cannot afford you, so don't ever waste your time talking to a man who makes you feel less than for not having the money to take care of him. MOVE ON!!!!
I agree ladies.... that's why I tell a woman upfront I can pay your bills but i expect to get the ass whenever I want and if we break up I still expect to get it while I continue to pay for your life
OMG!! I was saying this the other day, rich men do not care what you do for a living or what you make!! They want to know if you are free to travel and be spoiled! Love you Goddess!
Hope Pryor what a scumbag!!! Several years ago on about the 4th date...big snow/ice storm was arriving... this guy says let's go load up on all our favorite food, drinks, whatever we want at the store. So we did. Came to $280...he pulls out $30 and says that's all he's got, looks to me to pay the rest. HE was the one loading the cart BIG-TIME!!! I said I left my money in the car...i hauled ads out of there. Jerk
Hope Pryor Correction - They want to know whether young, sexy, models with tight bodies and perky breasts "are free to travel and be spoiled!" Not washed up gold diggers.
A lot of rich men may want young, tight, hot bodies but a woman who is not so young and doesn't have a tight body has a chance of getting one too. It may take a little more work but rich men are men nevertheless. Men like so many different things.
LaReginaPatrizia Of course there's a "chance" as with everything in life. Just like there's a "chance" of winning the lotto, there's also a chance for and average looking, older woman to meet a wealthy man. Realistically and statistically speaking the majority (99%) of women will never date, let alone marry, a multi-millionaire. Nearly all men prefer much younger women (relative to their age). The ones with the power and money know they have the pick of the bunch and that's why you see so many of them with much younger women. Just have a look at men (especially the older ones)in Hollywood and the music industry as an example of what I stated above.
I was hired by an uber wealthy family straight out of grad school . I have been blessed to experience things I had only dreamed of, being around these circles please , please believe wealthy men do care about your intelligence , your emotional and intellectual , they want well rounded people in their lives and their partner’s being void of that is not the exception ! Many of the women who are married in these circles have had a significant amount of success on their own , they do exert feminine energy but these women bring so much more to the table than that . They are confident , passionate ,active in philanthropy and fields that interest them , they are well read , travelled , cultured and do much more. Invest in yourself , read books on travel and finance , be passionate about something meaningful in your life . These men at dinner talk about the arts , culture , ideologies and yes politics . I say all this to say you don’t have to be wealthy to date or potentially marry someone of wealth but you need to bring way more than a pretty face and femininity to the table .
vANIBO1979 If she can fit into his circle by her appearance as well as the way she carries herself she will be able to attract and kept a man of means. A woman can be well read and if necessary can hold a conversation and not be formally educated. As Shera mentioned the way that you maintain yourself, the way that you dress sets a tone for the type of man that you attract. Thank you for the advice but not every woman around wealth has had the same experience. Also when a woman is extrodinarily attractive that does outweigh the need to bring anything to the table as long as she knows how to carry herself. Ultimately it depends on the man and how beautiful the woman is.
Hmm, hypothetically speaking if you take that femininity and beautiful face off the table and replace it with a masculine energy and a boring appearance I guarantee you all that intelligence and activism won’t hold up long enough to attract “him”. That’s bc they value the feminine energy and beautiful face more. Have intelligence, be interested and curious about life and have hobby’s but no need to go overboard and try to prove its there bc that’s not the main attraction.
@@leemahay6742 That's mostly because they met in school, but with the internet its less necessary to be in their vicinity. Yes, Jeff Bezos's wife went to princeton, but Elon Musk's gf is like barely educated and isnt even pretty aha.
Girl I don't know where you live or how you are meeting them but that's not normal. Guys should always pay on a date. Ask them before you go out are you paying? And if not then don't go on the date. You are worth being payed for. Even broke guys pay for dates.
This_Is_War you sound dumb as hell. Since I've seen her men are coming out the pocket now and it's only because I've raised my standards. Also one of my kids fathers is a wealthy man and Shera is right about everything she says.
Had a friend who acted like she didn’t even understand English,spoke broken English and acted dumb around these rich white guys😂she’s now married living wealthy,traveling the world.
I went to Target with a guy after a date and HE was getting a few things he said were on sale. Well we got close to the register and he suddenly stepped out of line to the restroom. Well I got there and told her to put all that shit to the side for HIM.I left and was in my car on the way home. He called asking was I outside with the bag! This is why I drive myself on first 3 dates.
Caressa Clark Girl ok! I don't buy things for men. I guess he wanted to go dutch without really saying so. He had about $200 worth of sh*t...that I didn't buy.
she probably had no idea it is shocking how we are gaslighted past 3 generations or so.It used to be a point of pride for a man to say "my wife doesnt work "(outside the home).
I was thinking the same thing. I have learned years worth of experience and she answered a lot of my questions just by watching only a few of her videos.
It’s funny how so many men don’t like you, but if you go their channels, all you see is their complaints about western women being “too independent”. So many of them talk about going to Asia to meet real women, but those women are exactly like you (if not worse)! 😂 Then these guys get disappointed and make more videos about them. Lol. It never ends and they never learn. Nobody does or gives anything for free. Welcome to the world.
Asian women are extremely independent. There are A LOT of unmarried men because they do not have the requirements to even date them. A house, good job, nice car, etc. Look it up. They have villages of unmarried thrown out men because they cant afford women. We need to take a page out of their book.
You can’t expect a provider if you look like a bonetta. When I leveled up my wardrobe, did my hair, eyebrows, eyelashes, that costed $$$$$ I started to attract millionaires only, dusties were getting mad in DMs. How you look, is how they treat you. I never paid for a date or a drink, I go without a wallet :) ❤ Shera is on point!
When a man asked me what I could bring to the table other than laying on my back. I was offended. First of all, I don't lay on my back. I am worth more than that. That shows what HE things is important. And secondly, this is not a job interview *I* am the prize, not him. Jerk! LOL
Msnanamac This the classic question these build-a-bums love to ask from jump because they can't afford a woman and want a ladder chick they can climb 💀
Msnanamac If you're in your 20s and sexy then you're the "prize." If you're over 35 (regardless how you look) a man (especially with money) is the "prize."
+Msnanamac that's a new PUA+MGTOW game. They turn it around and tell women "what do you bring to the table?". The game is that the woman will start jumping through hoops to prove she is worthy when he's the loser. If you ever come across another type like that just tell them "I'm not your type but I wish you well on your search".. Block him and move on. Get the hell away from that bottom barrel hole digger.
@heavy coke addict No man with $$ would ever ask a woman that question. Because a man with money doesn't need the woman for anything. He's already reached his goals and has his life in order. He's just waiting on a companion. I bet Jlo and Nicole Murphy never get asked that question even though they are WAY over 35. They are still the prize
Shera, women DO bring automatically a lot "to the table" : children, taking care of them, taking care of my house, giving me good sex. that s all what men should ask for
You practically saved my life . being 25 now ..I was been relationship with a predator to try to get me to do Get and buy And do things for him ( he was a lot older and ugly too hahah ) and after I watch your videos to help self esteem and confident so much :) thank you for doing this for the ladies out there'll
Don’t do this with broke guys only men who can afford it! Girl you cracked me up! Dropping gems! I wasted my youth , body and love on a Narcissist for years. And he wasn’t rich and expected me to work and look great and keep the house and kids perfect! I wish my mom had told me what you are saying!
I can truly say , I'm at this point in my life...I'm not afraid to wait to get what I want because I deserve it . I tell my friends to do the same but they keep chipping at pieces of men that don't bring anything but sex and drama then get mad when they get suckered over and over again . Thanks for keeping it totally 100.
Sis you are speaking nothing but the damn truth ! Men love to call a woman who just wants a man who can provide well for her and give her a comfortable life is a gold digger. When we all know the only one's who are complaining are the broke ones. Men with money love to do that, keep you standards high.
Im just tired of being a busy woman. Thank you Shera. You are changing generations. One week on knowing you and i dropped the dusty ASAP. Equally i feel better and elevated.
This is so true. Only average men wants to know about your education and career. When I hear men talking about they like financially independent woman I turn and go other way. Rich men wants to know how exciting and funful you are.
You are so damn smart! This is in no way demeaning to women! This how things should be. The lack of it is the number 1 disorder in our society. You’ve explained this so well!
I’ve had two occasions going out to eat for my lunch break at work and the man in front of me pay for my lunch. I told my bf about it and he got so upset saying I should’ve said no. I’m sat here thinking why no!? It’s a free lunch my bf ain’t sending me money for it lmao
She's dropping gems. I'm learning so much from her but at the same time I'm getting triggered at all my exes who took advantage of me. I'm happy I dumped them but still feel like why was I so naive 😞
Same. I only had two like that but damn, they themselves said that I was out of their league and they should have paid to be with me. I was dumb and just felt sorry for them
I dated a guy once who pretended to be wealthy and when the bill came, his card declined. He told the waitress to wait 10 minutes and try again and it declined again lol. He didnt have cash on him nor did he have another card to use. #dustyindisguise lol
SheRaSeven, Doesn't matter how many likes you get from your sisters. You only have proven that women are the eve. The one who deceived Adam. You are taking all of us to hell lol!
Kim BlaQue miss please don't listen to this woman. You will stay single for the rest of your life and end up a sorry old woman. Men like ride or die women that have amazing personalities that are hard working and can take care of us like we take care of them. We don't mind paying for you at all, but if you live your life looking for a man to support you, you'll never find one because we are looking for loyal women who will help us become more and more successful as we build up our lives. I can assure you her husband is a working class man that cheats on her often, doesn't love her, and does whatever he pleases while she plays with his bank account because he regrets marrying her and doesn't want to lose half of everything and his home at this point. She is not telling you anything that will help you, but in fact teaching you to live in a false, ignorant state of happiness. If you're looking for someone to support you, you will never meet this tall dark handsome millionaire, but instead die alone. I'm sorry but that is the cold truth. Would you like to know why her husband doesn't love her? Because she has time to make videos like these while he does what he pleases.
I'm a 2 time winning beauty queen and I was told by a male friend of mine who wants to date me to lower my standards for him. Been there done that and it gets you nowhere but heartache. He lives in his dad's basement with his 4 kids with no job nor has he had one in 10 years or more by the way smh,
You are a gift to us women . I found your videos around the same time that I met my current sugar daddy. All of your tips and tricks work. You definitely know what you’re talking about
ms_hav 1 I am Dutch and I can tell you that my grandfather always picked up the bill, lol! This is relatively new nonsense that no woman should put up with! Dusty guys try to pretend that this is cultural we ladies know better :-).
yes, it really annoys me when men i'm dating keeps asking me about job, like time to time.. i knew it is about because they want 50/50 kind of lifestyle .. thank god it turns me off every time and ignores them after dating or ask them the same question.. feminine men really bugs me a lot..
A "male friend" of mine messaged me asking me to buy him cologne just because we exchanged gifts once a couple Christmas's ago and I got him cheap avon cologne. Like no... we are not married so I'm not buying you a random gift when it's not your bday or xmas. I sent him the link where he can buy it online himself for $13 bucks and told him not to ask me again. He asked me for $20 once to buy his kids food. I can see he has not problem asking women for money so he gets the axe.
My husband did not care if I worked or not when he was struggling with his career. He just wanted me to be happy. Maybe he had rich man thought's #lol but I agree on everything else. Cause I know how to be masculine at times. ( I just wanna be a lady #lol) I don't like asking my husband for money...So we both have debit cards to his account, i just wanna get the money without asking #lol
Rich people are wierd. Some of them accumulate more money in a single day than I can in a lifetime, yet the best they can come up with to spend it on is highly overrated fermented grape juice, the least stimulating yet most expensive sport on earth, house furnishings that are as pricey as they are ugly and meaningless, and painfully bland clothing.
Absolutely true. They do not value the hardworking dollars of other hardworking people. They do not value poor people. They are stupid , and not appreciative in those things.
Yea I'm starting to realize that broke men wait to sleep with you then start treating you more nice, well some men and the rich men are the total opposite. Treat you nice before and after
You are walking hard!! That is so true...I dated a broke man that wanted a woman with a title, 6-figure income, and educated. He got exactly what he wanted, he rely on her money and moved into her house!! LOL!!!
I'm very good at dating and when I show up they already know I'm not paying lol I've never went half and I don't go on a date unless it's the type of guy who can pay One time a guy asked me to tip the bartender,I was like I don't have cash lol,and never saw him again- do not pay especially when he asks u out la
Sherrita - So how often do women ask men out? Men initiate the asking out 95% of the time. Women don't want to put any skin in the game when it comes to dating. They expect the man to take all the risks. Women have put themselves on a pedestal so high the average man can't reach them, and quite frankly, doesn't want to reach them.
Laura Croft Sherrita said that a woman shouldn't pay if a man asks them out. I was just pointing out that men mostly do the asking out so they pay by default. There is also an unwritten rule that if a woman isn't interested in a guy she should pay her share of the date. That's neither here nor there as I don't pursue women anymore. It's a huge waste of time. To many women nowadays are entitled, self important, and undesirable. I have met some really nice women before but they had weight issues... no thanks. It's all about what makes a person happy. If someone wants to get married, more power to them. At the present, the single life makes me happy.
Solomon Grundy And, many women have crawled so far into a hole dealing and working for and with men, they cant dig themselves out. I myself have spent lots of time in the trenches with a man, and not with none of them today and been hurt. 🤔 I can't get that time back.
It's funny to me that women have to ask a man to pay for dates. I expected men to pay for dates when I was dating. I expected the man that I gave a chance to pay for everything! I was up front with my expectations. I do not believe in women paying for dates ... Period! If he had a problem to pay (thankfully I have never had that happen because I can smell dust from a distance and I act like I'm too good for them) I would just leave and he can do some dishes or something. Maybe it's the Jamaican in me, but I'm upfront and confident and rich men found that attractive even now although I'm married with children. It's refreshing to find your channel. Good video. Keep up the good work.
@This_Is_War no, shes teaching self respect, and a wife should be supported. In the Bible its says "a man is lower than an infidel " not to support his wife. And it also says "allow the woman to keep the work of her own hands". She deserves her portion.
Thank the Gods for you,Ashera(deprogrammed /woke us up⚡)! This broken system screwed up our heads( fluoride in the drinking water, divisionist media,gmo foods,& etc),I'm so glad we have good people like you to inform us on helpful things! Thankyou so much!💞💞💞💯💎💖❤💜💛
Thank you for your words of wisdom! I’ve been sugar momma for broke, older men when I was 25 and under. Now at 26 I’ve retired that and became sugar baby lol. You helping me get my finances back up from these men thank you
Ah! This is so true. Seduction is not okay if men cannot afford the lifestyle. Usually you figure it out on date 4 or 5. Another thing is time & work. Men with a lot of money tend to be busier. Have patience!
Men have bamboozled us into thinking requiring a provider and a protector first is outlandish when in actuality it is the natural way of things. Even in the wild.
Joseph...health care, social service and education is given mostly by Women, you flexing right now lol. You know there are enough successful real men for us. And enough pick me's for broke men
+Joseph Celestiel Why don't you just date and marry a pick-me? Stop being pre-occupied with woman you can never have and just settle with one that will give you a weakly allowance. Problem solved, honestly.
Passport bros threaten you with ‘traditional’ foreign women but then find out these traditional women expect traditional providers - no broke, lazy, irresponsible men need apply 😂 and their families and societies enforce it.
I am now leveling up in the way I look. Next week I am going to the surgical dentist to see whats the cost for a more harmonius smile. I am learning a lot with you and Mikki. I am really grateful for all the wisdom you share.
thank God I have learned so much about life, love is not my focus and I always attract older males but my goal is first and foremost.the knowledge you are giving should be taken seriously.
i need God now And Prayers. Many older men flock to me too. The ones I've given chances to, I've found were stuck in their ways, a little hateful and already lived life, married and divorce with grown children. So they just want fun and yes to spoil. I want a husband and kids God willing however.
This is so very true.. Wow had to sit back and think about all of this. I agree men who are not well established and educated. Love masculine women because they feel less masculine by not being accomplished. Men who have money automatically love to spoil for no reason. They love feminine woman. Who at least can take care of herself. Especially if he is attracted to you and you take stress away from him. I attract alot of older men I'm 29 n they will be 40's plus. They already know jus by looking at me, I'm the catch even if they are well established!!
I remember my so called college whatever he was started questionin me about my future plans. Like basically, askin me about my job history etc i was like what the heck is this a job interview? I immediately took offense to it and he was like tryin to act like I’m crazy. This was before I even knew about Shera and stuff and I was already thinkin like this. Smh I just walked away and went on to date a guy who had his act together and never asked me about my future plans. Took me on dates and spoiled me crazy 😜. This brokie came back and started to say this guy wanted to sleep with me. And I’m like yea they all want to but what about you? You want to sleep with me without doing anything. This guy wants to but does a lot. Chile boy bye go find your struggle love or barb the builder love else where. I was dating a doctor awhile ago and he started to gave attitude by the fifth date bc he was the only one payin. Yeah that was when I knew I needed to exit then he write me a full pg essay askin me to be his gal after I’d spend the entire day with him at a friend’s weddin. I was like this man is a whole doc and cheap naw not for me
This is so true men with money never ask for sex but broke men do, this is why I have a man who is paid and jest got me a new car and bedroom set and we don't even have sex that much cause he's always working but I love it 😍
You can’t do this to the dusty guy he done spent all his paycheck on you , now he knocking on yo door like i need a place to stay 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 it’s the oh shoot for me 😭😭😭😭😭😭
