@@maryfiero8122Steve harvey is a simp who caters to a female audience. He lost most of his money by being divorced by a series of women. Yet he still tells men to waste money on modern women.
I told this man once that he was my hero because he did something really nice for me when I needed it. He NEVER stopped trying to live up to that status.
Personal experience: Men don't like to pay for hair, gym, facial treatments etc. Never tell him that you need money for that. Say that you need money for: studying, fixing something at your house, a new phone because yours was stollen, medication, insurance, etc.
I don’t know why they wouldn’t like to pay for it since they like to look at the beautiful effects of all that hair and nails and gym workouts. If they appreciate the result they should have no problem contributing to its cost. That is, if they’re not a dusty❤️💫🌍
A lot of this came naturally to me, when I was 27 I had a guy take me shopping for a Gucci bag on the second date after we had dinner at a five star restaurant. Third date he bought me 2 pairs of designers sunglasses. It was all on how I presented myself during our first lunch date and he wanted to do all these things for me. He was aggressive to do so!
Wow I can't even fathom all these things that you're speaking of. I've spent my life being honest to a fault... I shoulda learned all this while I was younger.
@@starblossom1370thanks girl... That's why I watch her videos for tips and I see just how far gone I am... I was very masculine and getting worse throughout the years because my husband is too feminine. Now he wanna be masculine and I wanna be feminine again. I was a single mother for 5 years and then married a mamma's boy... You know the story could go on but will stop right here
33:36 A woman's sex IS so valuable. We have to stay polished, which isn't cheap nor easy (Shera pointed that out.) We risk all kinds of loss when we go there with a man who can walk away from us, even potentially leave us with his seed, his STDs from all the other women he's cheating with, and with a bunch of problems you'll have to straighten out on your own. We can't get back our dignity. Men can always make more money anytime.
Well another thing that works is just being mean af. That works the best for me. Listen, I’m not the best at giving compliments but I’m great at speaking my mind and it goes over well lmao. For example, if they use that girls scammed him line. I’ll straight up tell them that it has absolutely nothing to do with me and if they want to date me then they’ll have to get over it. I’m not dealing with what someone else did to you cuz I ain’t them. Result- I get my way lmao.
You are such an intelligent lady. I think all women should honor you for trying to share with us. Trying to spare us pain and suffering. God will bless you for speaking the truth.
Women were CREATED for men. That is the main reason why he must take care of her and provide for all she and her children NEED. Therefore men have always "tried" to impress women with their 💰
You need to write more books!!! You would probably be best seller. It's amazing how you are so accurate in detail about women's power in a relationship. You make me laugh too. Thx 😘 for your videos.
Gail123 then you can tell your sugar daddy that you like them better then regular pearls because they're unique like you. That way he also knows to get you the more unique (aka more expensive) jewelry.
I think average looking guys or older men are the ones who can be provider or are better target. The good looking ones know they can get others and will not put in too much work. Also, attraction can weaken your strength. So I say get a guy who is not heavily attractive so you can have an upper hand or better control of the relationship.
For the goth lady that asked her question, try a style called “corporate goth” it incorporates a lot of classy feminine but expensive elements. It’s a wearable style that’s appropriate for grown woman everyday wear.
IMPORTANT TOPIC! I think when a man say: my ex was a gold diger a good answer would be- hum but do you have financial dificulties? And ofc he would say no but i dont like golddigers, you say: is that of a big deal for you that a woman likes to be spoiled and pampered a bit? Usualy for most men i know thats just courting, not such a big deal. What u think girls? Give me some ideas pls what you think is the best answer to say to a dude who already got to bring up this topic. LETS TALK ABT IT AND BRING IDEAS
Marriedto WealthyHusband ofc i dont need to answer all his question as a matter of fact this is not even a question he ask. Many wealthy guys bring this topic up just in passsing to see what u respond and I want to know what everyone has to say when confronted with this scenario.
As I have said we just listen and smile. Act like you don't hear it. Or if you are having dinner compliment the food. Just don't get into discussion about it. We let men talk. We just listen.
My answer would be(so she left you to be with a rich man , didn't she! ) or (she is just a woman with standards!) . My honest opinion is to run away from that guy bcs he is a dusty and trying to tell you that he is practicing the 50/50 relationship concept in his life!
i love your channel Shera but I don’t want it to grow I don’t need all my secrets and tactics getting exposed! lol but my life has improved tremendously after discovering you. SD just paid for my trip out the country :)
I think the same...it will be bitter sweet to see channel grow...but most women won't listen, absorbs the info, or do what it takes to level up! So we're still good! They'll hear but not listen! I've tried to share her with friends, they don't want to change! They think they're OK! I now say oh well! Better for me, I'm always the center of attention now! They'll catch on later...I'll be on another level by then!
Just be subtle. Be yourself and be natural, and do everything Shera suggests with your own flavor to it. She's so freaking right about most of what she's saying, you aren't actually gaming when you understand why she's right. 💯
I struggle a lot with not being triggered by “what do you do for a living” question. It puts me in a defensive mode. What I translate that question to in my mind is “prove to me that you are not an unintelligent, worthless, piece of garbage that deserves poor treatment” So, I recently caught myself while in conversation with a young male Uber driver trying to “establish my worth” in his eyes and I later slapped myself for doing that. My abusive father used to call me “worthless and incapable of anything” and it clearly created a trigger within me that I have to now figure out how to keep under control. But at least I now am conscious of it being my trigger, where as before, I didn’t even know any better.
Dusty men always want to know what you do for work! Just say “I don’t work” and if they keep asking just say “I don’t feel comfortable with that question”. Set boundaries babe! ❤ Remember that you don’t need to answer all questions like a child has to for a parent. You decide what you’ll respond to.
Chile you can say whatever you want you have nothing to prove to a man. If he like you he like you period. Or tell him your working towards your goals. Trust with the right man or wealthy man he’s not going to care.
I struggle with people asking this question too. Because they usually only ask as a means to determine how they will perceive you or what level of regard to hold you on or treat you. Some genuinely want to know, but they still judge based off of what you say, whether they realize it or not. We have to learning being confident in saying "I don't work" bc usually, as long as you say anything and carry yourself with confidence, you'd be surprised how much people let slide. Your worth as a woman is not in what you do for a living. I always have to remind myself of that.
You look awesome! Love the makeup, please do a tutorial! I started trying out makeup after watching your videos and wake up early to make sure I'm looking fabulous and I've already started getting attention EVERY SINGLE TIME I leave my house! Everything you say WORKS! I wish I saw your videos before getting with my ex.
@@ChrisCranham I don't want a guy 15 years older then me. REALLY? EWWW. Also we will have no time together then as he will die far sooner. No good. Guys want too much free time. A little is fine. I won't allow the BS, I won't be a doormat. Then there is NO RELATIONSHIP! I was looking for a relationship! So he can be off but we can't? Sexist, double standard, hypocrite. Why don't guys help as well? It can't be all on us!!
The goal on this channel is to get/create a lavish or at least comfortable lifestyle. Wherein ypu don't have to work and can be taken care of by a provider, not a 50/50 mate. This is the background they were coming from, above. I'd rather date 15+ older and have a life insurance plan, name on deed, car paid for and family set for life. Than a man my age whos looks ill grow tired of and who'll never have enough money or maturity.....
@@nofybn7794 ??? If your goal is love, yea, this channel is not for you. If you're looking for a financially stable life...it is.... about your mindset!
@@escyartemis6913 Why the marriage rates in the USA have hit an all-time low is because men are not being rewarded for marriage. Since marriage is dropping, the birth rate is dropping and now the birth rate in America is below replacement level. Women selfishness the really destroy a population
It all started when men disrespected marriage beyond repair...which deeply wounded women, who are directly in charge of nurturing kids.. So biased kids were raised..and so be it!! Dont worry about the universe..it will sort itself.
@@escyartemis6913 No, it all started when women decided to disrupt traditional gender roles. Women were brainwashed into believing female traditional gender roles are inferior. Humans evolved as a two sex species with each gender having a specific role. When humans begin to behave like there is only one gender, it throws off the natural course in which causes a drastic population decline. This is why the countries that have decreasing populations all embrace gender equality instead of gender balance
@Femme Fatale Shera believes all the woman has to do is look pretty, get as much as possible from the man, and save for her own individual personal gain while giving absolutely nothing to the man.. Getting a maid is not traditional gender roles... Shera seems to want women to receive as much as possible while giving as least as possible... Individualism and extreme selfishness is the name of shera's game.
i start to like being demanding. The other day a guy asked for a coffee date, i said that i had no time for this type of invitation, he told me that it was rude, well i just ask for a little of respect (also I am not 17 yo anymore)
Hi SheRa , I just wanted to take the time to say that YOU are AMAZING 😉, Keep doing what you’re doing ❤️❤️ I am sure you hear that a lot but I think you deserve all the good words.
I’m a leveled up goth but my provider is also a goth. There was a dude in here trolling me about it and we were joking around. I could see why and I don’t stay mad at people, particularly strangers. As well, I’m too feminine to get into combats with men. Leveling up as a goth is one of those things needs to be very artful. I’m very fortunate and the man I found is a goth. In fact, I became more of a goth than ever before to better entice him. I’m responding to the fellow high value woman who asked the goth question and thank you for the Morticia reference, Ashera ❤️ SheRa would know! She was a mortician 💯
I love your lips!😍 Would love to see different looks with them!💗. Also, your advice works for me at my job, too. All the guys chase me and even do my work for me even when the girls want to bully me. I even stole this one girl's crush🤣 im not dating him but she was so mad had me on my neck
Naive Cynic for some ladies, depending on where they live a man making a 6 figure salary isn’t enough/isn’t impressive (NYC, LA, DC, Chicago) unless it’s high 6 figures or more
Your nails need to breath from time to time. So constantly wearing polish , acrylics etc isn't idea.. acrylics damages your nail beds , thins them out etc...so letting your nails breath for a month between new sets is what is needed. ..same for gel polish etc
All females/ladies over age 16, please STOP popping and smacking your lips. I believe you have something to say; it's just difficult to hear over all that.
The one about him buying me a car reminds me of the Gastineau Girls. They said "when a man asks me my age I tell him I just celebrated my 16th birthday" Why do I now think that means someone just bought her a new car for her 16th birthday? 😂
I was listening and quite impressed of how good you are at manipulating men. Than you said 43 is too young for you. At that moment i understood that you actually only manipulate needy old and desperate men. That's fair ! If these grandpas want young girls it's ok for them to pay. LMAO
