What's Dating Like in Japan for Americans? | Street Interview 

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yes he did 😌

@@batataebom5077 maybe because most of their subscribers are Americans and they wanna cater to that audience.

Boy

The fact that he went up to her and showed her and wasn't afraid to ask her to join his snap chat, I give super props for him to do that because a lot of japanese guys do not go up to girls and ask. I like when guys take initiative and ask girls out.

😂😂😂

I think he is a man of culture.. disney.. Kpop.. avoiding parents like the plague..., just perfect hha

Yeah.. but that is true 😂😂

@@anthonymc8361 he’s like the perfect bf for me lmao. Avoiding parents part was so true.

He is talking real tho! Lols

Smart man

But his haircut resembles Justin Bieber

my man aint wrong

@@shruti4733 its typical male hair cut, just how justin looks like a typical male

A lot of things are Justins fault 😂

Now that would be interesting

Hard to catch those in crowd

interesting topic but bit tricky to find them lol

Koreans experience in Japan would be good too

They'll have to make a forum or appointments. In the street it would be impossible

As a Blasian I can confirm this

Why ??

@@alditahervianto9179 just don't. No questions asked

True he is a smart man

@@daisuke2795 i need to know the reason mate, i got no clues hahaha

Yeah I would imagine that there aren't a lot of foreigners outside of the major cities. Like the one guy mentioned how he would get stared at when he went to the countryside

You forget Kyoto also

Thanks for the info 😀

@@Mo10tov there aren’t nearly as many foreigners in Kyoto as Tokyo, it’s 60k vs Tokyo’s 560k

Well not entirely true but it still holds well for atleast 80% of the general population outside japan I used to work In Tokyo but then I was transferred to Sendei,Niigata and then now I work in one of the most Traditional perfecture in japan Gifu Ive been in japan for 6 years now(3 in Tokyo,1 in Sendei,2 months in Niigata and rest in Gifu) I got a japanese gf after moving to Gifu Met her in a traditional sun god festival dance and wah she was just shining But back to the elephant in the room it depends on the women Her family is not that comfortable with international marriage but she is independent and thinks opposite to conventional Im friends with some of my women neighbours partly cause since I'm a foreigner I take part in regional activities more to understand them and they treat me well They ask me questions about my culture and discuss about how central Asia is indifferent to the eastern.They always dream about international marriage to be similar to Hollywood stuffs but when it comes to reality they are more comfortable in marrying a japanese guy solely due to language barriers and cultural clashes Take your shot cause it not set in stones and it's relatively a large country Move to differentiate places and try to genuinely enjoy japanese culture then someone would find you Imma 8/10 back in my hometown but here I'm like 6 more or less Looks are added adv but japanese women looks for reliability like stable job,how you treat her and how you understand her

Absolute legend

He was really smooth lmao I’ll show him this 😂

@@kjmintokyo oh it was you? great for u XD

@@kjmintokyo Dude, your hair is incredible! I came to the comments section to post about it, but I'll just leave this here.

Hey it worked so good for him :-)

big same 😆

At least he's honest... 😅😅

@@lizzybennet5726 valid point lizzy. I just light how he was trying to word it. He clearly realized how he was coming across.

I do recommend everyone go to japan. It’s a cool country and Japanese are very nice people. At least that was my experience.

Dude should of just said he had Yellow Fever.

I love him too now. What a gem.

forreal this is not even a secret for Japanese women

Wow, he discovered wooing ... good on him 😅

wow so so romantic

Yeah it should go both ways too

Nah fr like UGH WHY ARE WOMEM SO PRETTY who let them do that

Describing someone in Japan with black hair might not be the best way to differentiate between people there.

YESSS, the black/mixed ones, they're crazy beautiful, they look like models!

they mid at best

the girl on the left has very pleasant smilling eyes

@asianboss ^^ this is something we would like to watch & know more about

Ohhh..that's going to be some culture shock, I think!

i had no idea about that community in brazil, i would be very interested in a video about that as well

yes would be super interesting! I visited brazil two times and have also been to japan, but I was so surprised to find so many japanese people in brazil and so many sushi restaurants haha would love a video on that topic

yeah we have so many people of japanese descent in Brazil (I myself am a hafu) and a lot of brazilian japanese kids who go to Japan don't have support from the goverment and end up relying on local community schools with teachers who are also brazilians of japanese descent, or not even going to school. And this is not a particular brazilian problem, foreigners in general face this educational issue in Japan

Hey nice pants! My gf and I noticed you had cool pants on hahaha.

@@thisisntsergio1352 Thank you! these pants are my favorite!

Tell your friend good on her for putting boundaries on her relationship! Boys can make their own bentos lmao

You are so beautiful.

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People that Ghost people act cowardly. Just have the decency to end the thing and move on!

Ghosting is not real

@@edwardcm9175 cry some more

@@edwardcm9175 they don want problems and hurt feelings no shame in that

@@komea12 I guess. I've never had a problem talking truth and being direct. If you Ghost someone without any explanation, the other person will feel left wondering what did they ever do so wrong, especially if they really tried to make something happen. They'll feel sad and worthless. They'll have to get over it sure. And what goes around comes around.

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@@batataebom5077 what?

I agree. I came here in 1989, and had the same feeling. People I met talked about the good times in the 70s and 80s when you could set up your own English school, etc., but by 1989, there were too many people doing it.

How old are you?

@@newbabies923 54, and you?

@@newbabies923 late 50s for me.

Probably both right. There were probably more foreigners in Japan in 88 than 68, but there is also probably more foreigners now in 21 than in 88

Yeah Kpop, Kdrama and Korean culture in general are HUGE in Japan. You can easily hear korean songs on the streets and in the shops. Also, many japanese enjoy watching korean dramas on Netflix.

thats why it is a lot easier for korean guy get attention from japanese girl many of 10, 20's girls in japan are so much into all of korean thing - drama music fashion food etc these phenomenon is more prominent in taiwan HK thailand phillipine vietnam etc all of asia korean entertainment is like hollywood in ASIA it is getting deeper and deeper

@@2x1qsdqw40 So true! Even in India especially north - east India korean culture is becoming very popular, people love kpop, kdramas, korean fashion and what not!

@@sambatra6162 more like they are into anime and stuff...and then got introduced to kdrama

@@sanidhyasrivastava9008 true after i watched anime i got into kpop and kdrama

It was the first meeting. I am sure next time, we won't need booze to get him to talk more.

Me too. That's how to win the old man over.

It’s huge in Korea too. Huge

Yes, it's big in a lot of places, makes you wonder if it's just Americans being thick and feeling entitled to being addressed directly. Seriously, take yourself down a peg, and take a hint.

@@Zhengrui0 this! I never understood why Americans act like ghosting makes you this horrible person. Like just grow up and move on, it clearly wasn't meant to be.

@@Zhengrui0 i think for us the ambiguity of leaving it unsaid or open ended can be confusing for people in our culture, being direct and straight forward is generally preferred in the US to avoid mixed messages. calling us thick and entitled feels a little antagonistic but each culture to their own.

@@barthamellow1138 I would agree, if not for the all-around need for continually confirmation, like they've be told way too many times that "it's other people who just don't see your worth", and more often than not, a creepy clinging to hope that often translates to a pushy and confrontational final goodbye. Let's not pretend like people don't know what I'm talking about

I've noticed alot of black people do this (the nod thing) it's like telepathy, they acknowledge or hi5 each others , kinda as if it was family. I love this energy

@@MegumiHayashida I'm not black but I understand that yeah haha

Sometimes they also ignore your head nod or wave.

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Many Americans do this including black people but not limited to

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, that was really interesting

You have the coolest style ^_^

Can I get your snapchat?

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omg you’re so pretty and well-spoken :))

I always get excited when I see people from Georgia I'm from Macon. I can't wait for me to be there.

@@Mickeii617 I’ve spent a few days in Macon and a few months in Tokyo, you’ll definitely be upgrading lol I’m in Bangkok right now but Tokyo is an amazing city.

@@CBMedia404 Love your content in Thailand man! I'm from Atlanta and moved to Japan in Dec 2020. Just before the borders closed again! I could say a lot about dating Japanese women, but I would probably never get interviewed since I don't live in Tokyo lol

@@Soffex thanks for watching dude and congrats on getting out in just the right time lol I did the same

CB Media Thank you for your videos about Thailand. :)

felt

Same my experience being an Asian /pacific islander American. For me people in general will they assume things and ask weird questions. But now I m less offend by the questions., And I just politely correct them on what the question they ask because most of the people don't mean to be offensive. I'm still excited about going to Japan with my husband. I m just so glad there are channels like this so I get an idea of what it might be , when we finally get to visit Japan.

Ya this is true. But you really don't have to explain your life story. The confusion comes from the fact that they don't even know white Americans have their origins in Europe. Simply tell them "I'm American" and let that be the end of it. Eventually it will catch on that Americans don't have to look a certain way.

They'd have to make other channels called AfricanBoss or LatinAmericanBoss 🤣🤣

@Waldel Martell You may have misunderstood my comment. Asian Boss focuses on Asia so what I'm saying is that they should get the perspectives of other nationalities living in Asia, not just Americans.

@@Sasquatch10 I meant that they should approach other nationalities living in Asia, not just Americans. So we can have multiple perspectives of what it's like to live there.

@Waldel Martell Yes, nationalities from those continents. Meaning Southern Americans or Africans living within Asia. Which is to say they shouldn't just interview Americans living within Asia, there are other types of foreigners there.

@@a.m4520 shut up

*black people nod*

Awesome! Georgia represent! 🍑👏🏻

Hey Georgia

Hello 👋 nice to meet you good morning ☀️☀️ send me your Gmail address to talk more better over there

Hey! You seem really sweet and down to earth. I have a lot of questions about visiting and living in Japan (especially since I plan on visiting one day haha). Would we be able to chat one day?

lolll😂

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Thank u Korone

Yeah many Japanese date a foreigner just for the sake of saying they dated a foreigner

I think this channel receives money from the United States to advertise them. they just talk about the united states all the time, they wouldn't do it for free.

Can I ask why you moved out to Japan? As an American I just want to understand why a foreigner would choose to live there, since it's so dramatically different!

@@pozloadescobar Me? Because I was given the opportunity and wanted to try something new.

Same!!! I thought I was the only one who noticed it lol!

I was searching for that comment 😌

Lol

I wish they'd focus more on other groups. These last months it has only been about why Americans are living here, what is it like for Americans to do this, Why do Americans eat breakfast in the morning, it feels like I'm following American Boss

@@osumanaaa9982 true...

@@osumanaaa9982 yeah I feel ya

Its because american midia is everywhere. I live in brazil and i know a lot of things about u.s.a but i dont know anything about argentina or other latin countrys (my neighbours)

Mas é porque os outros países não estudam a geografia em geral.

I’m in Georgia as well! It’s very encouraging to see people from here! I’m currently in college for Business & Accounting, but will be getting my CELTA to teach there. (:

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@@batataebom5077 That's o.k. with me because I am an American. 😆

Yup, girls like that all around Maryland and the East Coast

Eh ok

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that's going to be ugly... Bunch of stereotypes and overall toxicness.

@@jayson4119 that is not true!

@@jayson4119 what's wrong with Asian Americans talking about their dating experience..?

Racism 🤗

Impossible, you're more likely to be assisted post COVID than be seen as a sexual partner

Tackling the hard issues head-on, can't wait for the dating in Tibetan and Uyghur internment edition

Its so played out

@@Zhengrui0 OOP-

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You gunna cry about it?

@@Brickcellent I already did. Same as what your ancestors did for centuries when they were facing injustice.

@@taidenpong2246 I mean obviously. You're in a country where 98% of people are of Asian decent, so of course you wouldn't approach them. When I see a black person, I automatically assume they are an American, in america, because that's what I was raised around. Stop being ignorant about it. Think logically, not emotionally.

I feel ya buddy, Latino Americans are the same

@@taidenpong2246 Don't think my ancestors ever cried about something so trivial as "not looking American" lmao

Yeah, where’s my bento????

yeah except germanoids like yoy

They already have videos about foreigners that aren't necessarily Americans on their channel

This video does say Americans in the title. I don't know what you were expecting. You showed up to a concert and wondered why the band on the ticket was on stage.

@@themanicmarauder if that’s what you think then you did not get my comment right🥴

@@dianakonig2988 Sorry, I thought you had seen other videos on this channel already.

How'd she get a gun in Japan??? That'd scare me the most!

lol

@@daddyleon going to the goverment branch that regulate weapons in japan? even in japan you can buy guns but you need a license and that license demand to many burocratic steps and training even before buying a weapon, that's one of the reasons why japan it's so safe .

I think this channel receives money from the United States to advertise them. they just talk about the united states all the time, they wouldn't do it for free.

@@batataebom5077 Most people watching English-language youtube videos are from the USA. The others are well aware of USA, its culture and people. Pick another nation and many people would just be less interested. It's sad, but it's probably how it is.

I think this channel receives money from the United States to advertise them. they just talk about the united states all the time, they wouldn't do it for free.

@@batataebom5077 Bastos at malabad ka

U need to put urself in their shoes , being ghosted is more kind then telling us they are not interested. They feel scared or too awkward saying it. And if they ghost they belong to the streets anyway lol

@@subiebrz2361 I am a female and got ghosted by a male, one day before everything was COMPLETLEY normal, no fight, argument, we never said anything wrong... I have never be so confused in my life.

Happens a lot in America too tho

Those two girls have tiktok and one of them have a RU-vid channel

the girl with the black hair & pants has a tiktok! @blackloserinjapan

@@GmingTai but what’s their @ ?

I thought you meant Conan O'brien 😅

@@emericask8r130 I was looking for him too!

i feel like this is true for me sometimes

kanazawa is an ultra conservative japanese city (in comparison to tokyo) from my experience, sounds like it would be very frustrating for the type of person you described

If you don’t mind me asking where are you from and what made you want to move to Japan?

@@alexanderroot6086 yeah. Tell me about it. I’ve been here almost 2 years and had a prettty hard time dating. My guy friends do fine though.

@@BrickedUpp I’m from America. I wanted to live in Japan because I’m an artist and I wanted the chance to meet and learn from artists in Japan in order to further my career eventually.

Facts

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@@batataebom5077 I think you replied to the wrong comment buddy

IDK about you but where im from in America its pretty 50/50.

@@redswift31 In Europe it is not so much, unfortunately.

@@sandracarli1110 My gf and I literally had a fight 2 times (once started by each of us) when we thought the other was slacking on chores. I would feel like an ass if I made her do everything.

same i aint never seen a guy clean something without being asked...the bar is so low :(

@@sandracarli1110 where in Europe tho, Europe is not a country

Just accept your differences, you either maneuver around the differences or welcome those

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@@batataebom5077 they're not even for that and the owner made several vids about this channel before. They WANT to do it for free bc they wanna be a news channel on yt. Are you dumb that u cant even catch up on a few vids from last year till now? Go back and rewatch

@@2468whodoweappreciate you are so naive

@@batataebom5077 u are more naiive and u dont even watch all videos

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Safe safe too, Remy you are beautiful

@@kelvinpeters1047 😐📸

Masks are so rather underwhelming in protecting the user. It's more of a containment, except people use masks as fashion now. Miss seeing faces too, might as well take off your mask if you live in a developed country

😂😂💀💀💀💀

He's probably just given up, after bad experiences.

He’s not lying though, most Japanese people are not open to dating foreigners.

Sorry to say, Japanese people tend not to be "woke". In any ethnically homogenous society there will be some xenophobia that comes with that. Try asking some Japanese folks whether their parents would approve of dating a foreigner, and you'll see this guy isn't wrong.

no its just japanese people dont like wierd creapy people who collect data on them if i was even an american girl i wouldnt date his ass

Ikr, Americans gotta check those privileges.

50,000 too many

@@weih2974 …or the fortunate decision not to be made an American territory following Japanese surrender during World War II. Which is worse?

@@MarkWyche America needs to get out of Asia

I agree with the sentiment (ala eyes being windows to the soul, etc)... But no. Watch videos where girls (with great eyes vs whatever eyes) take their masks off. It is way , way , more complex than that. Even a new born baby can tell the difference between acceptable beauty and otherwise, in studies. The whole face matters in attraction determination.

It’s really the existence of the nose that’s the issue. Only my opinion though

I think a smile makes the person. And masks have completely hidden thag

This mask wearing situation has reiterated my belief that we foreigners have big noses lol

@A J you won't believe how much we do it without realizing it.. Most infants and adults are lip readers and especially as you age when your hearing becomes defective your brain naturally compinsates by reading the lip movements of the person you are communicating with. It's not that the mask muffels the sound as much it's more that we can't read the lips at low volume.

I had no game when I was stationed in Japan and I dated a few Japanese girls. I had to learn game coming back to the states. I was 5'11 and in decent shape because I was in the military, which that could play a role into it, appearance wise. Just in the states, after learning game, just telling a girl she is cute in the states doesn't hold up that much weight compared to telling Japanese women that they are cute.

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