What's It Actually Like Dating With a Korean Guy? 

I've noticed that some foreign girls talk about their bad experiences with Korean men and they have something in common. they met Korean men in a club or on Tinder. The normal Korean man does neither.

It would be great with a topic of foreigners MARRIED to Korean guys. I’m dating a Korean guy, he is very kind and considerate, gentle,… but I feel a big difference in culture when it comes to marriage and the woman role in the husband-wife relationship, so really interested in other people stories.

Ive dated korean guys and my experience has been mostly positive. Definitely more gentlemanly and respectful than other guys ive dated.

I couldn't understand why people are running after love, the most important thing that people must look for is loyalty and trust

Can you interview people who are working remotely in Korea? For example: Someone from America who is working for American company, but working remotely in korea

It's great hearing their experiences because I've heard all stories. I think there's some differences as well between dating one and being married to one. Being married to one is a whole different angle. (In a positive tone)

When you meet people in clubs I assume they are not serious lol. Tinder and clubs are for hook ups. If you want a serious guy go to serious places. It’s not rocket science.

Really good interview. I wish all the best for these girls. They are very open minded and respect the culture of the country. Of course, in each country, you have different personalities, good guy, bad guy. The most important is happiness. Enjoy your life !

That girl really said she's been dating that man for 6 years... no marriage, they only see each other outside, he always works on the weekend... that's definitely suspicious. Either he's scared of facing his parents or he's just having fun with her until he meets a Korean woman that he wants to marry. He could even already be married and using her as a side piece

I just love how chill this interview is

The Israeli lady has a nice voice and all the girls are adorable 🥰

Best topic of the year 🤍

You always choose the most interesting themes for your interview😊, I will always support you, every interview is interesting after our first interview in itewon, I like it😅, good luck Jin)

This is fantastic Really enjoy your videos. :)

LOOOOOOVE IT, THANKS🎉🎉 GREETINGS FROM ROB FROM SWITZERLAND

진님 항상 영상 잘 보고 있습니다 덕분에 다른 문화권 분들의 생각을 이해할 수 있어서 굉장히 유익해요! 앞으로도 응원하겠습니다 :)

Different people are all over the world. Good guys, bad guys and in between. It totally depends on the individual person 😊

Slow,kind, and considerate ❤. So sweet 😊

Your interviews are very interesting and knowing about Korean guys more important information for youth generation How they are experienced about their life 😊

I feel like manners shouldn’t be such a weird thing to expect. HowEVER, I do feel bad for Korean guys cause Kdramas really do make it hard on them to be SO perfect 😂

영어공부하기 최고의 채널!! 항상 잘보고 있습니당

I really love your interviews! Those women came from 3 totally different backgrounds and they still have similar experiences in Korea. As some already pointed out here, the concept of Western women being the liberal - meaning sexually super active and open and a bit like typical men - is incorrect. What the women mentioned is being treated with respect and being cared for. A lot of men in Western cultures seem to think that after the emancipation of women and feminism manners are not needed anymore. It's also that many are unable to express emotions and take things for granted. Women are always the ones to care about men and the family. These girls are surprised that those Korean men actually cared for them. It's very moving and I hope Korean mem see this as a huge compliment. There are many cultural differences and not everyone can experience the full on kdrama but those ladies in the interview seem to enjoy themselves. Good sign.

항상 영상 잘 보고 덕분에 영어공부에도 정말 많은 도움을 받고 있습니다. 감사합니다!! 제가 유튜버가 아니다보니 편집에 관해서 잘 몰라서 혹시나 큰 어려움이 없는 과정이라면 한가지 부탁을 드려볼까합니다~ 진님의 영상으로 영어듣기 또는 영어 구어체를 배워가는 구독자들이 많은 걸로 알고 있습니다. 그렇다보니 최대한 자막을 가려서도 보고 자막 쪽으로 눈길을 안 주면서 영상을 시청하려 노력해도 자막이 달려있는 이상 눈이 자꾸 자막으로 가더라구요ㅠㅠ 단순히 영상이 재밌고, 외국인들의 시선에서 한국을 알고 싶은 사람들은 자막을 보면서 재밌게 시청하고, 영어 공부를 주된 목적으로 보는 사람들은 자막을 해제 후에 자막 없이 볼 수 있는 기능을 추가 해주실 수 있을까요? 영상을 편집하시는데 번거롭거나 어려움이 없을까 하는 걱정을 하며 조심스럽게 댓글을 남깁니다. 더운 날씨에도 길거리로 나가 외국인들과 소통하며 한국인인 저도 몰랐던 한국의 장점과 또는 개선해야할 부분들에 대해 배울 수 있게 되어 진님께 너무 감사드립니다. 앞으로도 건강하시고 항상 알고리즘의 선택을 받아 크게 번창하셨으면 합니다. 감사합니다~!!! (제 요구사항으로 인해 편집에 문제가 생기고, 편집 시간에 더 많은 시간이 할애된다면 가볍게 제 댓글을 넘겨주셔도 괜찮습니다~!!)

JIN YOU ARE GOOD AND VERY TALENTED

Can meet good people and bad people anywhere There is no specific place for that, it is all stereotypes)) In general need to be careful anyway and anywhere... doesn't matter

There is a huge misconception with regards to Western women. We don't live like in movies, and even though our culture is more "liberal" women still don't like to be treated as objects. Some men and women are very promiscuous but that's everywhere in the world I think. Maybe the difference is made by small population. In sum, westerners alike Korean women like to be treated with respect, and to be loved for who they are not for just their looks.

1:25 An Omegle couple that actually worked😂😂👍👍❤

As an American, I think that I am too independent and think that I would have a difficult time dating a Korean. Unless there's a guy out there who doesn't get jealous, doesn't get mad that I speak up, and often say "no" regardless of position or age... I understand the culture difference, but I'm unwilling to change who I am or sacrifice my core beliefs. I'm a true believer in love though. If you truly love that person, compromise will find itself.

Honestly men are men everywhere don't expect to much

There must be alot of European foreigners there for work ,study or live in the country?

Am i the only one seeing the interviewer sweeter than other korean boys. He is gentleman, open minded, smiling,sweet, he seems like good person like kdrama characters.. I dont think most guys same like kdrama characters. But he is 😉💐flower for him

The girl from Israel who dated 7 years. Girl make the man to marry you 😂❤ it's time😂. Israel has the same culture as the Netherlands. Even if you want to be intimate with your boyfriend Dutch parents understand. And you don't have to go to a motel, hotel or video box. Dutch parents leave you alone when you go upstairs 😊 It's amazing how you get people to talk so easily to you knowing it's on RU-vid ❤ Maybe you must get a hosting show for television 😊

Not a stereotype. The better word to use is "idyll" or "notion". A stereotype is based on general behavior, like machismo is associated with Hispanic men because of culture. But the image of Korean men as "gentle" is based more on kdramas, and kpop idols.

Hyung make the interview with a guy who are dating korean women.....

달달하네욬ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 진짜 적절한 번역이네

잘봤습니다 ㅎ

How lovely to hear how Korean men date. It's a credit to their mpthers and fathers.

take a chance on him\here Than always wondering what could of been. Not all have happy endings . Just live in the moment .Its best to have lived and loved than not at all....Its always easy to judge a book by its cover , than when you open it you will find you in it....

The lady from Belarus seems really sweet

I just want to know where to find a good Korean man?!?! I live in the US in California. I am trying to learn how to speak Korean. So far, everything I have seen about Korean men, I really like. They are my dream men now. And yes, I know it won’t be like the K-dramas, but I still want to have a Korean man to spend the rest of my life with. Which isn’t a lot as I am going to be 46 in January and I have a 19 year old daughter.

Isn't it normal to go to your partner's house? Girl, run. This guy seems to be just spending time with this girl.

It's like dating any other man, they are human beings, you will find good ones and bad ones like in any part of the world. The end. What is the big deal with Korean man now?? Are these women just looking for a Korean man? Is this a requirement? That's all they can see when they are looking for a partner. No wonder relationships are so superficial nowadays.

Their experiences are very interesting and positive. Good for them! 🎉 Recently, I've just seen videos about bad experiences of foreigners with Korean men, and how some women have unrealistic expectations as consequence of K-Dramas which make them travel to Korea for finding their dreamed man. Regardless what we see in KDramas, it depends on each person, the background, age , experience, culture, family, how open-minded he/she is and couple agreements. From my experience (I don't generalize), I dated two Asians (non Korean). The first one a Cantonese guy who was born in Canada, even he was very opened minded about women's rigths and beign independent. On the other hand, he was very traditional and concerned about his mum expections. After 4 years dating his parents "suspected" about our relationship but he never introduced me (he wasn't married or dating someone else) just he was kind of afraid of his mum's opinion and approval. His mum wanted a Cantonse/Chinese girl for him, which was funny because his siblings were married with non Cantonese /Chinese. Plus, he used to say negative things about my appearance and my nationality (he considered his comments as jokes). At the end we just broke up, but that relationship was too far from a healthy relationship. The other one was a Vietnamese guy, who just didn't take things seriously. At the end, I've learnt it's just about how you're as a human beign and how your context and experiences influence you. It's funny, but without expecting I fell in love with a Scottish man, who is the most caring, romantic, respectful, kind and loving person (very opposite of some stereotypes of western men).

10:29 I really like this girl mintality, because she got lucky but she knows not everybody have this lucky. Is not good to have a naive mind and trust everybody.

안녕하세요 혹시 저희 비디오는 언제 업로드 될까요? 😊

Lovely stories ❤😊 If to compare with my hometown ours are cold and careless But if to compare at least with guys I talk even online from language app.. there is a big difference, I like that they are emotional and interesting))

Why are all three of the ladies wearing rings on the wedding finger if they are only dating?

I think the girl from Israel with the 6 year relationship is a concern .there are some red flags.he works every weekend and can only see her on Tuesday. They don't visit each other's house like in Israel? What does culture have to do with it. if he is dating her they should be able to frequent each other'other's homes.PERIOD.

For the Israeli lady...you want to notice she never said she MET his parents. She said, she "started talking to" his parents after 2-3 months but made clear he MET hers. Six years is a long time to date. Hmmm

Me da gracia lo que dice de los chicos de Belorusia, si dice que los coreanos son más demostrativos y menos fríos, no me puedo imaginar el nivel de frialdad que tienen los Belorusos jajaja

it's sad when people (mostly men) say "don't expect a nice guy" which means - they are scumbags. and if we expect a nice, gentle, considerate man, we are expecting too much! LADIES, WE NEED TO HAVE STANDARDS! men need to do better!!!

Guys are guys everywhere the same but my dream is to get a korean guy but a dutch guy is good to if he dont dump me or act rude to me😒

i also had foreign girlfriend before. when her friends talked about korean guys, they are not serious about relationship with foreign girls. but that is not true. nowadays, many korean guys want to marry with foreign girl. but sad thing is foreign girls try to get korean boyfriends in hongdae or some other club area. i'm sure about that is stupid. why they try to find nice guy in club area. that sounds like trying to find gold in the junk yard. if the foreign girls want to get korean boyfriend, just talk to them first in the street or cafes. not a club. korean club have only shitty guys. like ons. nice and kind korean guys hardly go to club and they are so shy.

I had my 10 years experience in a up and down, break up and make up relationship with korean bf, he is basically everything all the girls mentioned here.. he can be very sweet romantic considerate taking care of me and pay attention to me alot even to my weight😅 and he would work many hours to the point he could be missing a few days without news😅 we met in our late 20s until we are in late 30s he actually going on 40 korean age and he never mention about marriage plan, and end up he asking me to find other guy to settle down cuz he cant picture his future with me😅. Im from southeast asia country anyway.. which it seems thats the issue, maybe if im white people we would've marry me long time ago😊

F to ppl who think all Korean boys are similar to the ones on Kdramas

Me watching the video to not idealize Korean men but all the girls saying that it's true that korean guys are more gentle, caring and romantic!!! Booking a ticket now!! lol, just joking, very nice video!

Talk to them after they marry them!

다른 문화에선 어떨지 모르겠지만 한국에선 클럽 분위기의 술집, 클럽, 데이트 앱, 랜덤채팅 앱을 통해 만난다면 보편적으로 나쁜 인연일 확률이 높습니다. 여자, 남자 구분없이 정상적인 사람을 만나기 위해선 평범한 사회, 일상 속에서 인연을 찾으세요.

I need a Korean guy 😢.

South Korea has high standards in beauty.....it’s tough to measure up.

All around the world boys and girls date or try to hook up. If the person is genuine, they will treat you well.

Am I the only one seeing red flags with the girl that has been in a 6-year relationship? Lol

They can't be getting those stereotypes from the same K dramas I have seen. They are horrible to the women that they end up falling for. It's like, what is the relationship really going to be like, when you are upset, or want to break up.

Some advice from an European man who is 40 years married and has some basic knowledge of the Korean culture: 6 years of dating equals "I will never marry you and treat you like a substitute for my future partner". Men working at the weekends means that there is a high chance of an other girlfriend. Telling someone that they have gained weight when one is not very acquainted is down right rude and not a sign of concern.

6 years, and he has not proposed girl what the hell are you wasting your time for ???

What's white horse riding in Korea?

I am a Russian woman and have dated 4 Korean guys, really small there...sorry.

The right reply for Koreans: how much plastic cirurgies you have? You have a mister Ethiopia conquest? The mirrors are so expensive in Korea?

So for the most part they are more gentle than western men? I like that ❤

הבחורה הישראלית❤😅

한국 전통의 가부장적인 책임의식과 서양의 레이디 퍼스트가 합쳐져 이렇게 되어버렸다..

한국남자 만나면서 외국애들이 이야기하는 안좋은점은 1.고스팅 (싸우고 잠수 타는거...특히 일본여자애들이 엄청 뭐라하는거 봄) 2.초반에 러쉬해서 로맨틱하다가 익숙해지면 말도 함부로하고 소중하게 대하지않음 (금방사랑에빠지고 식고나서 외모지적이나 폭언등등 외국은 좀 잔잔하게 릴레이션쉽하는데 한국은 초반에 모든 기운쏟는듯) 3.마마보이 (데이트하는데 엄마 전화와서 아들 밥먹었니?이런안부묻는게 독립적인 성인같지 않다고 이것도 일본여자가 그럼)

"Strange website" Is it Omegle ???

girls rule no 1 never run after men find good man in your locality because if he cheats you atleast you can tell other people or have support in family

What I notice is any marriage with a Korean person whether woman or man, the person only ends up adapting and changing to the Korean culture. It’s never the other way around. I never see a Korean guy or girl adapting and speaking the other language or culture except one girl. Koreans in the end prefer to stick to their own kind, I also notice this society after watching many documentaries about lonely /suicide deaths of lots of young people in their 20’s to 30’s, its not the healthiest society to live in or married into. No disrespect, it’s what it is. Nothing is like the dramas.

Straightforwardly to say, most young Korean guys are so sweet only in front of Western beautiful ladies. At the same time, they are so honest to check their girlfriends' outfits or looks day by day. They wanted to have a date with gorgeous Western girls. Hollywood & European movies made Korean guys Western girl trackers nowadays because many awesome attractive actresses have shown their stunning body shapes and fascinating faces. If those Korean males can have a chance to marry Western girls, might do that without any hesitation. The reason is most unmarried young Korean women don't want to become housewives and also want to dodge their housework and babysitting. Recently, many Korean guys who married Western girls became popular RU-vid video creators introducing their sweet marriage to subscribers. And they are regarded as a major trend by lots of Korean video watchers these days.

Mmh, I don't know what they've been watching but there plenty of nasty bad guy characters in kdramas. I don't believe anyone thinks that those are representative of Korean men...? And that teenagers who are known to be infatuated easily and sometimes can be delusional, might fantasise about such a guy, can be excused as youthful naivité. No reason to put anyone down. smh

palastine💖

And why are we generalizing all these men? Like just having a bad expeirience with one doesnt mean all korean men are bad? Same as all over the world. There's good and ugly everywhere

alright then ladies let's book our flight to korea 😭

6 years and he's never brought her to his house? They only see once a week? She still hasn't met his parents? That doesn't sound normal even for Korean, that sounds almost like shes the side chic.

the Israeli girl is so sweet btw!

Some ladies complain about being dumped, but.. Just as a lady can reject a man, a man can reject a lady. Why do ladies think men shouldn't always leave them? Just as ladies don't like unsuitable men, men also don't like unfit ladies.

if you meet guy in a club, its hard to meet decent guy.

Ok but there no country called israel

Do not believe this so much they said

The Israeli woman- conforming to what she believes is right, whereby it should be both the man and woman in the relationship adapting to each other. NO ONE should just adapt for the sake of someone else. Adapting the culture is different. Getting used to it, being respectful is totally different. But to say the foreign partner HAS to adapt (basically change) to fit in is ludicrous 😒. All I heard was red flags 🚩 from her. 6yrs n you are the one who only has to change? No chance. The lady who met the bloke on the dodgy website? I .. yea no words 😂! Dumb move. Just… no. I saw on another platform, someone said this - you’d have more chance meeting a Korean bloke outside of the country, than within. Who knows! Could be right or wrong. There good blokes n bad (women too) everywhere! I dk much about KR to want to visit, even though I do like K-pop guy groups, so I won’t be booking a flight anytime soon👍🏾. Especially not for a guy. Did that once, and never again!😂 Culturally, would be good to see more and know more. But ladies, be careful where you meet blokes! Western women are not the same, but if you’re of a more whiter complexion, you’d have more chance, than someone like myself who is a black female 👍🏾

2:10 it's called Palestine, not Israel

1줄요약 : 한남:헌신,퐁퐁 전략임

I only date Chebol Onnies

what is israel ? its called PALESTAIN

I don't believe this. It's just that foreigners are not really embedded in Korean society. Back in the day those dramas reflected Korean life. Although today many are for entertainment now but dramas really reflected Korean life back in the day.

I wish you can interview some Latinos to get there point of view.

The girl with 6 years of relationship, you should brake up immediately. You are just a side chick for him. Don't do this to yourself.

If you want to meet a serious guy don't go to club

God please i need a Korean husband 😭😭😭💜💜🇮🇳

자 오빠가 솔직하게 적어줄게. 우리 한국 남자들은 그동안 수많은 K드라마들과 인식변화의 과도기때문에 엄청난 훈련을 해왔다. 여자에겐 이렇게 해야된다. 저렇게 해야된다. 여자들은 이런옷을 입으면 싫어한다 좋아한다.여자에게 이런행동하면 감동받는다 등등 여자들에게 가스라이팅을 당해왔다. 이건 나만의 생각이 아니라 내 나이대 사람이라면 너무나 공감할거다. 여자들의 그런 말들속에서 우리는 대비를 할 수 밖에 없는 처지가 되었었다. "아...원래 나처럼 행동했다간 여자 손 한번 못잡아보고 인생 하직하겠구나.." 라는 불안감 때문에 나름대로 스스로 익히고 공부해야했다. 예를 들어 데이트 비용을 남자가 지불하지 않으면 개 찐따 쪼잔한 새끼가 되는것이다. 또는 헐렁한 바지에 양말신고 샌들을 신고 나가면 여자가 도망갈 수 있다 등등.. 그래서 한국 남자들이 어떻게 해야 여자의 마음에 드는지 온몸으로 체득하며 살아왔다. 그렇게 힘든 과정을 거쳐 여자를 만나면 초반에는 여자 마음에 쏙 드는 행동들만 골라서 어느정도 버틸 수 있지만 사람이기에 결국 본모습이 드러난다. 원래의 내 모습이 여자에게 비춰지면서 처음과는 다른 남자친구의 모습들을 보게되는것이다. 여자도 그런것에 실망하고 떠나겠지만 사실 남자들도 원래의 '나' 로서 여자를 만나고 싶은게 사실이다. 그러다보니 스트레스가 쌓이면서 그냥 어느순간 나사가 하나씩 풀리면서 본모습을 보이는것이다. 원래 내 모습을 사랑해줄 수 있는 사람을 만나고 싶지만 그렇지 않은게 현실이다. 원래의 내 모습이 너무 완벽하고 멋있다면 괜찮겠지만 일반적인 남자들의 모습은 다 그럴 수 없는것 아니겠는가. 한국여자들이 한국 남자들을 너무 쥐잡듯 압박하는것도 맞고 심한경우 결혼하고서도 여자에게 잘해야 한다는 생각에 버티고 버티다가 큰 싸움으로 이어지기도한다. 내 친구의 경우 힘들게 회사일 마치고 집에오면 집안일을 다 해야된다. 집에 하루종일 있었던 아내는 그냥 남자가 당연히 해야되는거라는둥 내 친구를 압박한다고 했다. 난 그냥 한국 일본 중국 여자만 아니면 정말 괜찮다고 생각한다. 일본은 왜? 라고 하는 사람 있겠지만 일본의 실상은 굉장히 차가운 관계로 겨우겨우 이어져 살아간다. 이걸 버틸 한국 남자 많지 않다. 그래서 한중일 빼고 다른 나라 여자라면 모두 괜찮다는것

Surprise no black Women

Nice interview. I dont understand one thing why Slavic and Causcaissian girls opt the korean girls gesture and style after arriving korea. While talking, their hand moment, talking style, pauses in talk, nodding head, everything copied from korean girls. Sometimes not match their physical features and look weired as these gestures only suit for korean girls 😊