Be patient, work focusing only on your self, date other people, do not try to interfiere, if your ex mantains contact then be indifferent...if not...go full NC. If you had a solid relantionship...your ex will return 99.9% chance...i have own experience but play well
My Ex is in a rebound that is 100% opposite of me. Actually he chased my ex because he is very recently divorced. So it seems to be a double rebound. Not sure how that’s going to work out for them…?
My wife left me for a guy she says she had fallen in love with after 2 weeks. We were together for 5 years and this was totally out of the blue for me. She is 35F leggy blonde, spiritual and still in full time education. I’m 32M working full time, I’m athletic, no kids, fully finically supported her, did all the cooking and house work. She left me for someone totally the opposite. He is 47M overweight, he is married, on his third marriage, he has 6 kids, and is on his 6th job in 7 years and is looking to leave that one. She left saying I wasn’t “emotionally available” to her but he clearly isn’t either. Guessing this is a rebound? I miss my wife and would love to reconcile with her but she is rushing the divorce and sale of our family home and I’m worried she will rush it too far. 😞
This isn't what you'll want to hear. Work on yourself. She likely will not be back until she realizes the massive mistake she made abd by that time, you'll find the right person.
Yeah my ex is dating someone completely different than me. I'm skinny and he's pretty big. Like they're the complete polar opposite of me. Sadly I still am very much in love with her. Our relationship was very good and the end was a bit rocky. I'm not sure if I would take them back, sadly I probably will. Hopefully things change
I'm always open for a second chance, except for cheating or abuse. If they come back and truly show change, and the relationship was pretty good before the end, I don't see why not to give them a second chance personally!
My ex is dating a short ugly dude whose thighs are as big around as my upper arm. He also seems really boring and uninteresting, and the interests he does have are super basic (sneakers, sports cars, and NFL)… meanwhile, my ex always told me how I was the most interesting guy she’d ever met and that she’d never met someone with so many cool interests as me. Literally nothing abt this guy seems like something my ex would be genuinely into
@@heartymcdurianzI wish my ex had that same mindset, but all she ever does is run away from problems and pretending like they don’t exist, rather than actually addressing them and healing :/
She is very similar. In looks, personality, religion....I consider him to be very lucky to have another women who is loving, caring....just very good to him. They were friends while we were together. They have been together for about 10 months now.
We were together for 10 years, and she left me for a guy she met for a month, and courted her for a week, did my research and they really just started hanging out in a week, no prior engagement so definitely not a monkey branch, problem is I think she is an anxious attachment, and a person who is co-dependent, she just can't be with out anyone to give her love and affection and all the things she need, she moved to a city about 2 hours away, and with in a week she's already jumped on dating sites. Definitely total opposite, I look young for my age 32M and looks like I'm 26, I work as a therapist making pretty good money, Athletic build, not handsome but not ugly, on the whiter side in skin tone. The guy is total opposite, she said he was 33M but looks over 50, skinny ass, and has a low paying job, dark skin tone, and pretty ugly, got people to comment about this just to make sure I'm not just bitter.
Complete opposite of me. I've got long hair, big beard, academic, partime emloyed. He's big, burly, bald, no beard and a police officer. She rebounded after 26 days. Her best friend told me, she's done this before, she'd always stayed single for 1½-2 years after a breakup after a serious relationship.
Hello guys, i need some advice. My ex and I broke up a few months ago and we were together for 2.5 years. And she recently got into a new relationship about a month after we broke up. And after we caught up she told me how she felt that she may have rushed things with him and that he isn't the most attractive. I am guy who works out constantly and is working to become a doctor, while this new guy is a bit of a bum and isn't the most attractive. So I am convinced that this is a rebound that she is in, and my ex has also told me how she kept a lot of the gifts I gave her and even kept some intimate pictures of us. She even said that her friends thought that this was a rebound but her and this guy are trying to prove them wrong. So that makes me feel that it is not a real relationship and more of a stubborn choice she made. And then we ended up hanging out and grabbing lunch and it all felt great, just like the old times. And she gave me weird mixed signals like, "getting very close to me", saying "I actually forgot we broke up" and we ended up having sex. So I am super confused as to what she wants, because it seems her and this guy are moving super fast. Like they have been together for like a month-ish, he already mentioned about moving in together. So my friends told me to just stop talking to her, but I am very as to what she wants. I feel that it is very weird for her to say all these things to me, and try to hold my hand and run her hand thru my hair WHEN she was the one that broke up with me. I know she doesn't have the best relationship with her dad but I don't know if this is a common thing some girls do.
Literally nothing about her new guy seems like anything my ex would be interested in. He seems really boring and uninteresting, and the interests he does have are super basic (sneakers, sports cars, and NFL)… meanwhile, my ex always told me how I was the most interesting guy she’d ever met and that she’d never met someone with so many cool interests as me. He’s also a short ugly dude whose thighs are as big around as my upper arms
Everyone says we resemble each other a LOT.. Both appearance and personality.. Only difference is, that she is more extroverted which he was missing from me
My ex started dating other gender all together (after 9 years of relationship). What i came to know by my friend is that she is dating some women in different country she met on bumble or so. I am trying to find my way back to humanity and I assume they already have it. I am on a forced NC as i am blocked from all platform. However I did all the mistakes of begging long letter writing and so and mailed them. But have kept it all clean for the last 1 and half month .... (I do sound like a drug addict here)
Thanks for this video, I am going through a slow recovery after she abandoned me after 10 months and within 3 weeks she went back online on a dating site. That hit me like an avalanche, I felt betrayed and I went radio silent since then. I hesitated to date quickly as I have been holding out for her. Thanks for your insight on what's in her mind when she started going back to dating sites in just 3 weeks.
Take your time man!! Just focus on you and do things that make you happy, she is probably trying to fill the void that an awesome person like you left.
@@fkaceng can’t fault you mate. Not dismissing your 10 months but you’ll move on pretty easily I think. I’m 14 years and now 39 so I going to take a lot of time and hard work
Not sure whether my ex is in a rebound relationship or if she monkey branched on me. She got to know the guy before she broke up with me, but she is giving me mixed signals (is stalking me, giving me compliments). And she isn't over our relationship for sure. The other guy is three years younger and they met on a party one month before she cheated on me, after that she broke up. Two days after the brake up they had sex together and now they're trying to get into a serious relationship. We had a great relationship for three years and knew each other for five years. I'm quite sure she's having BPD issues. She also cheated on their ex boyfriend and than we came together. What you suggest rebound or monkey branching? Most of the indicators of your video are fitting perfectly to my situation.
Ex is in a rebound- I’m from another country and one of the reasons for the breakup was he ended up thinking things were going to be too difficult logistically. Rebound is a long time family friend that lives in the same area. He said to me that he didn’t want kids and raising his own daughter was enough. Told me once his now rebounds’ 2 teenage daughters obnoxious- now he thinks he will potentially raise them??! 😆 I don’t have any kids! Ex wished I was softer and less direct, i can guarantee she’s exactly this as he initially met her and helped her while she was struggling with life a few years ago. I know she has always had a crush on him and just waiting in the wings for him. She would be totally stroking his ego and looking up to him. Something he thought he wasn’t getting from me(not true) and he would feel more empowered and confident because he would feel more emotionally, mentally, spiritually and physically better than her. We had a year long relationship, very attached we both were, breakup was mutual but I wanted to work on repairing things immediately after. He didn’t, was super emotional about the breakup.. within likely a week or 2 decided to take this rebound out of the Friendzone. She knew we had just broken up and it seems like his friends and family were encouraging this. So unhealthy. It’s been a couple of months now. Waiting for it to crash n burn. So yes, the rebound being opposite is such a real thing. 80/20 rule 🙄
@@fkaceng hi 👋 Yes my ex married his rebound about 2 months ago. But he had to for a number of reasons. Had to prove that he’s not a failure, wanted someone to control and regular supply of sex etc. I have done a lot of research and therapy and came to realise I was dealing with a covert narcissist. His marriage will probably fall apart within a year or so. I don’t really care at all now. Oh and all along he’s been stalking me, but only got evidence of this by doing some checking of social media accounts. He’s been stalking me after getting married, so how in love can he really be??!! 😆
My ex tried breadcrumbing me last year 3 times. Last time on xmas eve and now hes in a "poly" relationship looking for other girls to date. He even matched wih my best friend on a dating app and messaged her. Thats how i found out. Im so glad i ignored him and kept my boundaries strong. I am not a rebound or option. Or unicorn after he broke my heart. Fuck him 😂
my ex broke up with me and jumped into a rebound relationship after 2 days after a month she said she met another version of me not sure what that means, anyways this was 5 months ago they still together and im slowly moving on
My ex girlfriend has blocked me on Facebook and deleted all about me from it, after 3 weeks is now dating someone the opposite of me I'm a Daddy and he's a stoner , he smokes, drugs, looks dirty and smelly, and tattoos all over face and body, We had a great time and our own kids got on together and with us then she says she's not happy and broke up with me then on tinder and meets this person... Is it a rebound or is she a narcissist? Been about 1.5months now since broke up so she has been with him just over a month?
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COMPLETE OPPOSITE! All of his exes are like me. Dark hair, natural looking girls bc that’s what he likes. He HATES fake eyelashes and make up and eyebrows but hes now w blonde that looks like that and she is a sex worker and does only fans. I’m not knocking anyone, I’m just stating he’s went WAY opposite with a girl that looks and does things that he adamantely hates. Idek him rn 💔..
Hello guys, i need some advice. My ex and I broke up a few months ago and we were together for 2.5 years. And she recently got into a new relationship about a month after we broke up. And after we caught up she told me how she felt that she may have rushed things with him and that he isn't the most attractive. I am guy who works out constantly and is working to become a doctor, while this new guy is a bit of a bum and isn't the most attractive. So I am convinced that this is a rebound that she is in, and my ex has also told me how she kept a lot of the gifts I gave her and even kept some intimate pictures of us. She even said that her friends thought that this was a rebound but her and this guy are trying to prove them wrong. So that makes me feel that it is not a real relationship and more of a stubborn choice she made. And then we ended up hanging out and grabbing lunch and it all felt great, just like the old times. And she gave me weird mixed signals like, "getting very close to me", saying "I actually forgot we broke up" and we ended up having sex. So I am super confused as to what she wants, because it seems her and this guy are moving super fast. Like they have been together for like a month-ish, he already mentioned about moving in together. So my friends told me to just stop talking to her, but I am very as to what she wants. I feel that it is very weird for her to say all these things to me, and try to hold my hand and run her hand thru my hair WHEN she was the one that broke up with me. I know she doesn't have the best relationship with her dad but I don't know if this is a common thing some girls do.
@@fkaceng so some crazy things happened hahah. So we ended up talking around November and facetiming. It was nice catching up and she expressed all these things about the past. How she regretted not being more open with her communication skills and how she kept the old matching Disney hats that she bought us. So that kinda confused me because if she is still in this rebound relationship, why would she keep that kind of stuff you know? So we were talking and it was nice but she said since she is seeing someone rn that we can talk or whatever. Even tho she was stalking my social media accounts for about 5 months. So she blocked me on Instagram but I still see her check out my social media accounts and Tiktoks. So you tell me what that means. I think she is too stubborn/scared to admit she made a mistake because she knows she really messed things up between us
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