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My Ex Is In A Rebound Relationship What Do I Do?
In this video, we’ll discuss
- Do 45 days no contact
- Post the fun new things your doing on social media
- Try to not look at their social media
- Use sphere of influence
- Being There Method
What you should do if your ex has moved on and is in a rebound relationship, there are five key concepts to grasp,
Key concept #1 - Do a 45 day No Contact Rule
You need to give your ex and the “new girl” some time to reach a point to be passed the honey moon period. Timing is key, you need to give it enough time so your ex is comparing you and the new girl. This is why we tell clients to follow the 45 day No Contact Rule.
Advising our clients to follow this scope, the results were better.
Key concept #2 - Post fun new things on your social media
I’m always telling my new clients, make sure you’re posting interesting things, to create that really positive narrative about you, now this is especially important if your ex is in a rebound relationship.
More importantly, it’s understanding the natural behaviours that occur after a break up. It's been proven up to 90% chance that an ex will Facebook creep on you after a break up. So, you already know for a fact that your ex is going to become curious about what you’re up to at some time.
Showing how you’ve done things to improve yourself, not so much your personality, but your mind body and soul, so that when he looks at your social media it makes him think of all the happy memories you had together.
Key concept #3 - Try not to look at his social media
When you hear your ex is in a new relationship, the ultimate temptation that is going to happen is you want to check his social media account for information about him and his new girl, along with their relationship. This is a trap, that I really hope you don’t fall into.
Now throughout my channel and if you watch my new videos you will find I am talking about the “Ungettable” mindset. It’s this ideal woman that you always need to be striving towards. Always trying to reach this level of perfection, Ungettable status.
Now everyone idea of being Ungettable is different, but what we can look at is the patterns of behavior. One pattern that becomes extremely clear is that they’re focusing on the areas of their life that they can control, as opposed to the areas that they cannot control.
One thing you cannot control is your ex's social media accounts, now an Ungettable girl will not spend her time obsessing over her ex, hoping that she’s having a better relationship than the new girl does.
The Ungettable girl is too busy to even care about that stuff, you need to start modelling your life and this needs to become your new mantra. You make your ex obsess about your social media instead.
Key concept #4 - Utilize the sphere of influence,
So, the sphere of influence is the people he surrounds himself with, which are going to be the following, his friends, his family and new lovers. So, what you need to do now is get the sphere of influence on your side.
So even though he’s dating this new girl all his friends and family are talking about you. All of a sudden, the new girl feels threatened and he starts to think about his decision and maybe potentially regret it.
Key factor #5 - The being there method
This is an ideology that I am happy to say I am the brainchild of, now I will also say this is kind of a morally grey area, a lot of people don’t think the being there method is okay.
They think it’s akin to cheating, but the way I see it, it’s isn’t about morality it’s about what is working, and the Being There Method is the number one factor that will work in your favour if your ex is with a new girl.
So, what if you purposefully “Friendzone” yourself with your ex, it sounds weird, but doing this it also helps you utilize your ex’s new girlfriends’ fear of you, his ex.
Not many people will be okay with their new partner, being best friends with their ex. There is always a level of intimidation and protection there. So, your goal is to engage your ex in meaningful, interesting conversations and be a friend, simply “Be There”.
Now what tends to happen is if your ex is open to it, number one it says something about the state of the relationship with the new girl, and secondly the new girlfriend will become extremely frustrated and often give him an ultimatum.
Now, if you don’t fully understand the Being There Method, don’t be too shocked as it can be complicated. If you want to understand it better, go to the website and there are 15 - 20 new articles written in depth about getting an ex back, or even moving on from an ex if that’s what you want to do.
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