What To Do When You’re Troubled By Someone? 

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There is no such thing as friend actually. Some who we think is close to us we label them as friends. But it is all life acting in their own nature and cycles.

There is no bad friend either... Just people that aligns with your path...or ones that take you off it(is what your calling bad friends) since they are going a different way in their own way .. And the ones that are lost in harmful habits is exactly the time when every person needs a friend.. not someone who avoid/runs thinking it's self preservation..when actuality it's because of lack of experience insecurity runs away.. instead of being present and walking away in mindful decisions is two different things

I'm in my mid 50s and I have so many friends I all I need is two fingers to count with!. I tell people ( kids) life is not a popularity contest.

So true 🙏🏻🇬🇧💝

So true ❤️

❤🙏🏼

Just curious how you know krishna said this.. i mean is it written somewhere in scripture?

Reference please

Absolutely sir, we must change ourselves not others and we should be with the 'life'.

Coran said that first.

@@rassoul3548 oh really..Which chapter please.??

@@raymondtendau2749 Sadhguru never said to walk away unless it is real physical damage. All emotional hurt are self created. The hurt is because of what we expect and expectation not coming true. If you are truly enlightened, you need not walk away to save yourself from emotional damage.

@@pragyan507 Do not misquote or misintreprete me. I only quoted Sadhguru. You can verify this quote by Sadhguru pls. Thank you.🙏🏿

@@raymondtendau2749 I am not. I am explaining what he truly means

true

Since it has been happening again and again to me , now I am not bothered about it , and it’s become simple to move

And even when you realize it might not even be true

And some never realise, my opinion is lots of people think every thing should revolve around them 😵 I'm lonely at times but feel better off by myself ( we me and my cats are better off)

It hutrts am tired ...

Everyone is important

Hi . In my workplace, I have a small issue. I have a manager who doesn't do any work and our project doesn't follow any guidelines and always there is always a pressure from clients on the employees. Actually, many of the seniors have left the organization because of this toxic culture. But myself and some of the other people are freshers, we have worked for 1 1/2 year but didn't receive any promotion. Hoping that after we get some promotion, we will leave the organization. Our managers always give more work than we can do. So, we have to work for longer hours and we don't have any work life balance. Please guide me on how to respond to such situations and how to speak up for myself in the corporate culture? Because our manager doesn't speak for us. Myself and my friends do more work, so he assigns all the tickets to me and my friends. There are some people who doesn't do any work and are in the favour of manager. So they chill around. So, The manager assigns their work also to us saying they are on leave. But when they go on leave, not a single line of code will be written for the objects. If we inform the same to manager, he just nods his head and asks us to the development as the deadline is running out of time. Please guide me on the above issue.

I am in need of money urgently as I have some responsibility to pay the fees. So, I can't quit the job as well as of now.

I don't believe that

That's why you need a disciplined mind. Meditate and stay fit. Write if it helps. Eat healthy and sleep enough. Remember your past. Know that you will die some day, and what hurts today will not hurt tomorrow.

​@@babushkapoponick3384 Let's start a discussion. Why do you feel that way?

Same happened with me

Me too

I had to search for it :-)

Same here

Same here

Thank you......

For me as well 🙏

yes

So true

Spot on!

Awhh so kind of you ❤

Escapism is believing in gods of any kind.

So true❤Thank you!

No

Yesss, love him 😍😍😍😍

Yes

Yes yes yes....only

He is one of them, but there are many. Taking the ideas from multiple people can provide you the best viewpoint

I have to somewhat disagree. My mother was very abusive towards my sisters and I. I had a hyphema, and a giant bruise on my face, she hit my head against a cement floor and gave me a concussion, she almost drowned my little sister. But I only thought one thing, she doesn't know any better and I never want to do that to my children... ever!! I now know I was wrong. She did know better but still chose to hurt us, but she has sinced to apologized and I have forgiven her. I am 42 now. How can I hold a grudge forever, I would only hurt myself.

Sadhguru have experienced everything well ! 🙏 He is saying it's the mental drama that is causing more pain than others actually cause. 100% I agree that abusive words must not be spoken to a child, it has bad effects on the individual. Parents must teach them how to deal nasty people ? Actually Staying away and being safe is not a solution at all.

It's true it is very difficult. But what Sadhguru says is the only intelligent way to deal with life. We have no choice over our external circumstances many a times and how long do we suffer for life, bit by bit?It is so tiring. I am constantly reminding myself with the words of yogis to become inward focussed.

Emotional aggression normally leaves scars, bruises, the eyes cannot see, but which are real. This is something that needs to be embraced before the person may heal and move away from the abusive relationship - as Sadhguru recommend. Of course the person's ability to do that will depends on a number of factors. Sadhguru is not encouraging anyone to follow him blindly, unquestionably. This would be very unintelligent for a wise and realizem Teacher to say.

True. But that's a conscious choice we have to take!

Yes it's true,I don't create my own pain,words ,behaviors,can deeply hurt....I never suffer with good people,they can make mistakes,that's ok,but being ugly,vilain,toxic etc...is another story

Exactly!

Indeed, rightly said we need to build a power to take what we want and leave the rest

Toxic people hurt us with their words and actions.

Your iglis blows my mind

@@parth2sukhadiya Yes

you're everywhere..how ?

I highly suggest (Secrets of sanatan dharma) book by Author sai prasad panda ...

Please listen some healing music and frequency as well. Love and light 🙏💕

Try Vipassana meditation.

ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-zocEAmDXxA8.html Sadhguru talks about correlation between love sex and meditation. 🙏🙏

How do we stop giving them the right

your family did what they knew best. no need to feel ripped off by them

To be fair,they also gave you all the good stuff that help you develop into the person you are now.

Life is a journey and that realization is a detour towards a clearer path

🍷🍷🍷

Yes

I second your statement on Sadguru.

"The truth is not always beautiful nor beautiful words the truth !" - Lao Tzu.

Because we will do what we know the best ❤👌

listen it carefully again it's not vague😮‍💨

Agreed

He is telling you that YOU are in control of your mind and emotions. Don’t give that power to anyone else.

Exactly

I’ve felt narc pain it’s no joke… :(

I highly suggest (Secrets of sanatan dharma) book by Author sai prasad panda ..

Right ✅️

What if you get cheated on

@@nickthepiker Love them still. Sometimes loving means walking away to keep oneself safe.

@@nickthepiker if they cheat they loose not you, if you think somebody can fulfill you please don’t expect such a thing. You do what you can do rest leave it just find your tune of life. Life will poke you to give taste of reality if you still look after the unreal or illusion for fulfilment, you are going to get hurt either today or tomorrow one day definitely will come. It is better you find the truth of life then nothing will hurt you otherwise like a newborn child you are going to hurt yourself because of your incompetence

Honestly ❤

Hes a guru....what about the regular joe with feelings not realistic!

That's nice

I highly suggest (Secrets of sanatan dharma) book by Author sai prasad panda . Thanks

@@radhika5933 ok I added it to my amazon account. Looks interesting. Thanks!

So much indeed ❤