How To Love Without Attachment | Buddhism In English 

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@@llohe9826why not?

@@lean4real_11 guess I'm too immature to let go what I love

​@@llohe9826not too much. It's natural. Don't sweat

Agreed personally love someone so much that let her be free as she wants to be, doesn’t mean that I don’t miss her terribly but to me that’s love!

This is the only true love : John 3:16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.

Please take this to your mind this is a Buddhist channel if you want to share your idea please go and put your comments on a Christian channel if you want to listen to this speech listen carefully and we don't care abought your God we only follow the ideas of our holy teacher Buddha

​@@DihasWijedoru-le9roall religious principles are same

What about commitment, marriage vows etc?

@@Raj-ne4us Nothing is permanent. Things change and eventually come to an end.

Well said !

But then how would this work when two people (man and woman) live together. Just my curiosity

True but with another you still need secure attachment

If you love someone enough to let them go you love unconditionally and have that persons best interests at heart, it still gonna hurt if they choose another but you have to feel the pain heal it and let it go ❤

True words

@trinasikananu9723 it's not easy when you are connected deep at soul level and feel what they are going through, it's not easy when your souls are one

@@Angellove222 Yes however nothing is easy but you can become the best version of yourself which personally i have attained. I lost 3 friendships my literal life and it was too easy because i taught myself how to love unconditionally enough to let go like you said. I am very much okay and wishing them the best. 22 yo old me would cry myself to sleep. 25 yo me now is free happy and willing to love a hundred times💜

@trinasikananu9723 I am not sure you understand being so connected at a soul level!!! I am not sure you understand when you are woken in the night by the other person's feelings of worry and despair, so much that it effects your mood!! You can't detach from that!!!

True

We learn through realisation and correcting our ways slowly by slowly. That's what my experience taught me. Not all of us were lucky to be born in a healthy family. But I think it's the way it is. For some of us it might occur that had this video been released much before we would have the love of our life still with us. But I quote again it is what it is. Learn from your mistakes and move forward. One cannot go back and change their childhood experience. Let's be sorry for that child ,let's pardon ourselves to carry forward those unmet needs to our partners and most importantly realise it embrace it and let's move on. This is how I healed and healing myself.

Same experience

Detachment to any thing or person will gv peace of mind and happiness .one could experience it by trying detachment .

Exactly my experience. My parents divorced when I was a baby and I never got that emotional support from my mother or anyone else. At 21 I met the woman who would change me, got attached and 36 years later she is dead and I've not been able to get over her death. Haven't heard from my children since the death so I lost wife and kids in one go.

Same incident I have bruh❤

Nothing remains permanent.

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​@@user-kx9ez9yu6e It is the true.. The truth is bitter anyway

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oh so painfull i wish you strengt

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Your parents will always be with you, just in another way. Take care

We are with you

Always God with you

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Nicely said 🌺

@@patsiebentley111 thank you for your appreciation. 🙏

You will🙏🏽

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I’m going through the same thing

Literally happened with me ..I always feel like I have lost a part of mine in him ..I don’t know about him but I will love him forever ..

​@@riyagulati2701 Can you do a back flip?

That's really nice. How is the marriage experience?

Thank you

Thx for the conclusion, :D

Well said !

It really makes sense ❤❤

Yes l get that. I have much fear of losing the few people that l love. I have a lot of difficult people around me and so l tend to hang on to those l do love. Sending peace to you and to me.

Perhaps the hardest of all is letting go of deceased loved ones (relatives, pets, friends). In order to free their Souls (and ours), we have to sever our attachments to them to break the karmic bonds that cause both you and them to continue to suffer on the Wheel, lifetime after lifetime in the earth plane. This is very hard, so repeating mantras like "I want your Soul to be free and independent" can help to let go. That is true love.

Well said

Nicely said !

Isn't the attachment / detachment that hurts? Love is always available. We can love someone equally whether their body is next to us or not.

It can still hurt yes but you let go much easier and are able to live them even from afar without I'll will or resentment or neediness or any other bad feelings

Stay strong. You’re parents love and blessings will always be with you

@@laserqueenpg thank you 🙏❤️

Well said !

I cryed God bless you my brother

I’m so sorry. I wish you strength and happiness . I lost my mother too. Hugs

It's a wonderful blessing in disguise !

yes, i came to late across this video, my love was attachment , so now my love is gone. i feel so sad, i cant do it over again.he was the firts i lived with

100%

Not if they have a personality disorder….you can love them purely but they are not capable of reciprocating that love….and it’s not in your control

Not necessarily the other person see your pure love.or even love at all. That's why many walk away from relationships and suffer.

Same here friend

Is it possible to come out.. I am trying but😢😢 whenever I see this video I feel better.. but again I am going back to the same state of mind.. literally dying mentally for living without him

there are no eternal souls in buddhism! gautama buddha is long gone like the many other buddhas before him. becoming enlightened means that there are no more rebirths! there are many monks like this full of wisdom in sri lanka, thailand etc