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What To Do When Your Husband Cheats And Lies | Do THIS If He Cheats & Lies!
Thank you for tuning into HAPPILY COMMITTED. We've started this project to help people all over the world find happiness and fulfillment in their relationship and in their marriage. I've helped thousands of women who had to deal with husbands who cheated and who lied. And if you're watching this video today, I must tell you that I have a lot of empathy and compassion for what you are going through. Trust is one of the pillars of a healthy relationship. And if you're dealing with a man who is cheating or lying to you, it can bring instability to every aspect of your life.
The first advice that I have for you is that you must accept your feelings. Don't try to suppress the pain don't try to just look away and not deal with what has happened. It is okay for you to be sad, it is okay for you to be hurt, it is okay for you to be upset because of what you've gone through and if he or someone else is telling you otherwise, it is important for you to distance yourself until you can fully cope and recover.
The second advice that I have for you is that it's important for you not to seek revenge. When we are hurt by someone we love we often lose control, or we want them to feel the pain that we are feeling inside. Seeking revenge will never bring you long-term joy, satisfaction, or stability. You don't want to create more damage and you don't want someone else's negative actions to impact your character. Stay true to who you are, to your core beliefs, and to your values. And don't try to hurt him because he hurt you.
The third piece of advice that I have for you is to keep the kids and the family out of the fight. It is very tempting to ask other people for their opinion, or to share your pain with other people around you. And quite honestly, what I've seen is that when you start to involve family members or friends or your children in your relationship drama, it starts to take a whole different life of its own. It's gonna be a lot harder for you to heal and rebuild it is best for you to deal with this in the appropriate ways with your partner. It doesn't mean that you cannot communicate to anyone. Of course, you need to feel supported. But don't bring other people in the drama. Do so in a constructive way, Reach out to a coach, or to a therapist, or to one close friend or confidant, so that you can basically share your feelings, but without backbiting, without trying to denigrate your husband's character. At the end of the day I've seen many people either blame their husbands continuously or blame themselves for the cheating. And it's important for you to separate yourself from the cheating that has occurred. A bad decision does not have to reflect the character and integrity of this person for life. And you yourself cannot make or take full responsibility for someone else's shortcomings. And that's very important for you to really understand, but also accept in a fundamental deep way.
Finally, it is important to give each other time and space to heal and to rebuild. It is very difficult to get over cheating instantly, overnight. It takes time. You must give him the opportunity to regain and to earn your trust. You must give him the time and the opportunity to earn and to fight for your trust. It is not your responsibility to fight alone to try to make this marriage work. He needs to take accountability and he needs to be invested in trying to rebuild a new and improved relationship that is going to be based on trustworthiness. And if he's willing to leave you for this other person, I highly, highly encourage you not to chase, not to be desperate, and not to compete with this other woman. Otherwise, you will lose self-respect you will lose your power and your attraction and you will push them into this other woman's arms

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@isithunywasamadlozi3189
@isithunywasamadlozi3189 8 месяцев назад
When a man cheats . He does nothing to earn your trust. Instead he becomes better and get new skills into cheating. He just becomes better at hiding it.
@pauloevangelista1054
@pauloevangelista1054 2 года назад
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again.
@myrtisbagley7718
@myrtisbagley7718 2 года назад
Very well said and very true
@pi772nty
@pi772nty 2 года назад
@@siripurapukusumanjali1289 you cannot change him or anyone else! If he doesn't see the value in maintaining character and valuing you then that's that
@piyu9570
@piyu9570 2 года назад
M undergoing the same condition
@elainedesantana1993
@elainedesantana1993 2 года назад
The feeling of not being worth is a sign that someone is not worth in the relationship, the universe showing you that someone is not worth and I don't think is the person that got cheated unless you deserve from being a horrible person if not who is u worth is the person who cheater ... gets your facts straight don't let no one put you down!
@VeronikaGonzo
@VeronikaGonzo 2 года назад
You can’t change reptiles but we aren’t forcing to be with them, just leave the relationship that’s unhealthy for you heart and soul without those two no one is stronger.
@janetlopez6155
@janetlopez6155 Год назад
My "christian" husband who also was a preacher turned out to be a serial cheater an liar.I walked out of a 36 yr marrige.Then he had a life changing heart attack....God will not be mocked
@faithamber116
@faithamber116 Год назад
Wow
@camillewilliamsHOLINESS
@camillewilliamsHOLINESS 10 месяцев назад
Whatever a man sow he will reap!
@maybox2084
@maybox2084 10 месяцев назад
Exactly it happenes to me, he is so religious but the true color he is a cheater & a big liar, always keep his current location with her mistress
@wezile310
@wezile310 7 месяцев назад
God will never be mocked mami😭😭😭
@zulemaflores8796
@zulemaflores8796 2 года назад
A man without God can’t change. If he cheats once, he will keep doing this over and over. A cheating spouse is toxic. You can’t be in a relationship where your spouse is unfaithful. HELLO!
@soothingsleepecstasy3160
@soothingsleepecstasy3160 2 года назад
Even if he as god he will do it again dont be fooled if he was so holy he wouldnt have done it in the first place
@brichijika5205
@brichijika5205 2 года назад
I think you are right, my boyfriend has spent the all work break in other province with his new girlfriend, when I call he cuts ,when I text he can't text back, when he called he complained that I don't trust him and it's not what I think
@therealone8628
@therealone8628 2 года назад
@@brichijika5205 can you imagine? These people are heartless.
@beatanowak3679
@beatanowak3679 Год назад
It happened to me. Unfortunately one time cheating turned into a lifetime of cheating.
@laurengonzalez8503
@laurengonzalez8503 Год назад
Trust and loyalty is important in any relationship, I realise I wasn't being paranoid or crazy and most times it's better to go with your instincts. Thanks for keeping to the confidentiality agreement CYBERLOGICS_ very reliable and professional
@zoeelizabeth1391
@zoeelizabeth1391 11 месяцев назад
Currently going through my partner cheating on me while I was about 2 months postpartum after having our daughter. He’s admitted to it happening twice but I don’t believe that it didn’t happen more than that. It’s literally the worst pain I’ve ever felt in my life. The ultimate betrayal. Ive always wanted my daughter to have both parents together like I did my whole life but I’ve now come to realize that doesn’t mean it has to be with her father if it’s toxic. I’m now in the stage of taking time and healing, trying to move on. God give me strength 🙏🏻
@nedodarom944
@nedodarom944 10 месяцев назад
I feel the same..i found out his plan to divorce me after talking to his new girl😭
@leeannamaiyang5495
@leeannamaiyang5495 10 месяцев назад
I'm going through the same thing so you are not alone.
@zoeelizabeth1391
@zoeelizabeth1391 9 месяцев назад
@@leeannamaiyang5495 I’m sorry you are also going through this. We do not deserve it.
@zoeelizabeth1391
@zoeelizabeth1391 9 месяцев назад
@@nedodarom944 I’m so sorry. You deserve better than that.
@carrielocker7044
@carrielocker7044 9 месяцев назад
My husband has been emotionally distant and had 4 emotional affairs and denied them. I left him and thought I was done for good. I slept with someone else and made things worse. Then I came back and my husband knows and things are hard, but we will still be living together. What's sad is he's still denying what he did, bc I feel he feels what I have done he is pardoned.. all was wrong and we r broken, but I have never been this way and have learned through loneliness I chose the devils way and gained nothing. I cannot take back what I did, but can be honest and hope my husband's walls break down more and he ends up telling me what I already know. Also him being an alcoholic maybe we both never will really know what happened on his end which is scary as well. If it's God's will, then he will change both our hearts and bring our marriage back, if not God will provide for both of us separately.
@timnichols7760
@timnichols7760 2 года назад
Once a cheater, always a cheater!!
@daisyvial1592
@daisyvial1592 Год назад
That's so true my ex boyfriends did that to me when I did absolutely nothing to them.
@mbahmichal1142
@mbahmichal1142 Год назад
👍
@yourstruly6107
@yourstruly6107 3 года назад
Just caught my partner of 5 years in my car holding another girl. I’m 8 months pregnant it’s just soo painful..
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
I understand the pain your going through. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you. Coach Adrian
@Meganmoonga29
@Meganmoonga29 2 года назад
am so sorry
@tamaracunningham21
@tamaracunningham21 2 года назад
Ohh honey 😔 I hope you and bubs are doing okay sending all my love xx
@aselyne5631
@aselyne5631 2 года назад
Hun i lost my 7 months son because of a cheating lying man it's painful
@Food4Taught
@Food4Taught 2 года назад
Babe I'm so sorry. I'm there right now ....
@RunAway99963
@RunAway99963 3 года назад
I've always given this advice if you have a serial cheater" accept the behavior or leave. it's that simple" just leave.
@gloriaprice8179
@gloriaprice8179 Год назад
It's hard to get over cheating. It's even harder (and useless) to remain in the relationship. Better to run as far away as possible and allow yourself to have quality human beings that have morals, values and respect approach you.
@graciakinyanjui6937
@graciakinyanjui6937 9 месяцев назад
i needed to hear this
@sharellhoney695
@sharellhoney695 3 года назад
There is some women who knows men have family they will still continue to be in that kind of relationship
@sokaynasafayra2217
@sokaynasafayra2217 2 года назад
I agree
@harpriyachadha5373
@harpriyachadha5373 2 года назад
Exactly
@wh4680
@wh4680 2 года назад
Yep, the worst kind of women
@ellahall2848
@ellahall2848 2 года назад
K
@ellahall2848
@ellahall2848 2 года назад
Every woman my husbsnd cheated with knew me, an knew my husband was married he still cheated an the whores he choose 2 cheat with still cheated with him. Some men r dogs.
@keishapuryear8180
@keishapuryear8180 2 года назад
I honestly don't believe a man will never or has never cheated. Even the best most responsible husband can cheat if offered a chance to appease his selfish desires, especially if they don't think they'll get caught
@mbahmichal1142
@mbahmichal1142 Год назад
That's just the simple truth.
@najimafihanisah5993
@najimafihanisah5993 Год назад
Definitely
@Kim12822
@Kim12822 Год назад
The honorable man(!) will never cheat or lie. He is a rare find. Though, again , the honorable man clothed in honor down to his soul will always be honorable. Never settle for the weak minded man. Ever. ❤️
@antoinetteransom1526
@antoinetteransom1526 3 года назад
Best advice. Don't chase. Take that trash to the curb! I needed to hear that. Thanks!
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Thank you for watching the video! Coach Adrian
@bethanyleonalemleykottonqu7570
@bethanyleonalemleykottonqu7570 3 года назад
Yes i just got rid if my narrcisst ex boyfriend Wayne who was lying and cheating on me .
@linsoopretty
@linsoopretty 3 года назад
@@bethanyleonalemleykottonqu7570 good job
@tinadraper9143
@tinadraper9143 2 года назад
If he cheats on you, leave his ass.
@AStarozzy89
@AStarozzy89 3 года назад
I was pregnant … told him … he cheated and I lost the child, we split, Gods plan.
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Thank you for reaching out.⭐ How To overcome being cheated on?👇 www.love.happilycommitted.com/offer-page-infidelity1608666073419 Coach Adrian
@moureenjulie1842
@moureenjulie1842 Год назад
So sorry
@nataliegrayhandle
@nataliegrayhandle Год назад
I’m sorry
@nataliegrayhandle
@nataliegrayhandle Год назад
Happened to my mother and I still hate my father for it
@athyjudy5682
@athyjudy5682 Год назад
Same, was pregnant caught him, kept there for my child, gave birth, baby died. Sign from God? I haven't yet recovered from both instances, don't know whether am mourning the baby or my husbands ways. Its 2month since burial so I haven't yet even made up my mind. I want to leave tho
@esther.6965
@esther.6965 Год назад
I have gone through these comments and l feel so much for any woman going through this. It is quite scary the world we live in right now with these red pill men who think cheating is their right as men. I pray that every woman can find love and acceptance in God and within herself before she finds it in a man.
@tsiheriambooka1137
@tsiheriambooka1137 9 месяцев назад
Amen
@Liz-in8lu
@Liz-in8lu 6 месяцев назад
Yes amen. It’s tough to be alone. But there is so much value in finding your worth in god, or a religion.
@me9860
@me9860 2 года назад
If a spouse is cheating they have no character!
@BBD1300
@BBD1300 Год назад
SUPER WELL SAID. Cheaters are LOW-CLASS animals.
@okeyizuwa1888
@okeyizuwa1888 Год назад
Thank you
@laurengonzalez8503
@laurengonzalez8503 Год назад
Trust and loyalty is important in any relationship, I realise I wasn't being paranoid or crazy and most times it's better to go with your instincts. Thanks for keeping to the confidentiality agreement CYBERLOGICS_ very reliable and professional
@mbahmichal1142
@mbahmichal1142 Год назад
The keep complaining everything that happen is always your fault..
@Dragonfly657
@Dragonfly657 2 года назад
You can never feel the same and the cheater needs to do the work!
@therealist9853
@therealist9853 4 года назад
Drop the cheat, that's the best answer. If its a narcissist, understanding wit them is absolute. Bs. Leave them alone.
@linsoopretty
@linsoopretty 3 года назад
Agreed!
@winsomedavy6830
@winsomedavy6830 2 года назад
I would like to speak to a coach
@marshatubongbanua2142
@marshatubongbanua2142 2 года назад
I still cant fathom how other women can forgive cheating husband. I know its hard because wife can face financial struggles after separation or divorce. Especially with kids involve. Being cheated on means a chance for you to find love somewhere else. Or just be finally happy with yourself again. For real. I might be wrong but women deserve to be truly happy after cheating.
@tsiheriambooka1137
@tsiheriambooka1137 9 месяцев назад
Well said. But the hardest part is financial struggles n children
@letitia27ful
@letitia27ful 6 месяцев назад
Going through this now, I’ve packed and left my husband of 13 years who cheated and during a time I needed him most when my father was dying and that betrayal and non support broke my heart 6 different ways and I’m not getting even, I’m being cordial because of the kids but I’ve kept my distance. Living with a friend because I can’t stand being around him right now, and I’ve let God just lead the way. Take this anger lord because just two weeks ago I didn’t see my marriage ending now I never know what will happen the next min. I’ve left home and I visit and bring the kids with me for a piece of mind and now I’m looking at places because I at this moment, don’t feel like we can come back from this because my trust is burned and I just need to be alone for now. I’m too hurt and confused to contribute right now.
@Liz-in8lu
@Liz-in8lu 6 месяцев назад
I’m a strong woman (38) but the loneliness I feel if I think of leaving my bf is crippling. I didn’t stand for cheaters in my 20’s , I could easily move on. But the alone factor is what’s making me stay 😞
@Poodle_Gun
@Poodle_Gun 3 года назад
Can we talk about the gaslighting from OTHERS that he gets involved making you the bad guy?
@ukumar-hb9km
@ukumar-hb9km 3 года назад
Dunno how people cheat with their partners??? I can't even cheat with my cat with another cat!!!
@anitaharrell3716
@anitaharrell3716 3 года назад
it hurts when your spouse cheats but it's definitely a different kind of pain when they cheat with someone in the family 😭😢😥
@emmafredd7131
@emmafredd7131 2 года назад
Really...?❤then you are the best man...but I grew up listening A man can never be loyal....😔 it's one of my biggest insecurities....I wish someone clear my insecurity....
@spencerhaynes4766
@spencerhaynes4766 2 года назад
Recommend 4 all
@tonyakimberley1145
@tonyakimberley1145 Год назад
Ha! Thank you for making me laugh through all of this 🤣🙏🥰
@BBD1300
@BBD1300 Год назад
Because you are a human with a brain and a heart, and cheaters are worse than animals.
@sharicowley8186
@sharicowley8186 3 года назад
Started seeing this guy an found out he's married an told him to leave me alone
@MissesVp
@MissesVp 3 года назад
Good for you!! Many woman are not like you. You're a good one.
@ruthieparantar6795
@ruthieparantar6795 2 года назад
@@MissesVp yes, some women would pursue t relationship even she knows the guy is married, shame on them!
@princessamnemuhamad3755
@princessamnemuhamad3755 3 года назад
I feel soo relaxed after watching this video ..no revenge no regrets its a lesson
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
I'm so happy to hear you feel relaxed! Thank you for watching! Coach Adrian
@nadiayofav8
@nadiayofav8 3 года назад
Ssme
@moureenjulie1842
@moureenjulie1842 Год назад
I feel releaved and relaxed thanks bro
@justinelimocon560
@justinelimocon560 Год назад
Im so proud of you. Can I get an advised where to start forgiving? or what to do? I keep on doudting him.
@hydeesuicano5570
@hydeesuicano5570 3 года назад
Pain that keep in crushing your entire system. I always pray God to please take away the pain in my heart because i cant take it anymore My heart is already full
@cordelia81
@cordelia81 2 года назад
Answer from an overcomer> just be as quick as you can and forgive!!!!! And do not get bitter/ have high expectations and walk in faith/ love yourself and make sure you are better then you were before the break up!!! Inside out/ just make sure you are the best of yourself without hatred without gossip without bitterness/just go into prayers and make sure you do not do anyone wrong/ even pray for that cheating @guy@ and stop saying he is yours....Just cut off all contacts and save yourself from worsed.
@lukabasamuel
@lukabasamuel Год назад
But I have a child with him
@user-zg9kg3fm2x
@user-zg9kg3fm2x 3 года назад
Caught my partner cheating and I am pregnant with his daughter! I am extremely hurt and never would’ve seen this coming.
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
I understand what you're going through. ⭐ Need Immediate 1-on-1 Custom-Tailored Coaching | Schedule A Call With Us 👇: happilycommitted.com/coaching/ Coach Adrian
@shaziahussain3110
@shaziahussain3110 2 года назад
Stay strong 💪
@missemeraldalfeche1005
@missemeraldalfeche1005 2 года назад
That hurts. How are you?
@obuneziejekwu6475
@obuneziejekwu6475 Год назад
I'm 5months pregnant and I saw his messages yesterday on dating sites. I have not been myself. It hurts. I have no support from family or friends
@kobusingyemaureen5806
@kobusingyemaureen5806 Год назад
How can I deal with my husband,coz he rejected me sexually and he still say we're together am confused I need help
@jobrondajackson953
@jobrondajackson953 4 года назад
Im so numb ....
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Thank you for reaching out. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you. Coach Adrian
@MWoods-rs4wp
@MWoods-rs4wp 3 года назад
I feel you completely right now. He tried to tell me I suggested things, in other words it’s my fault. I never would. I know I’m not crazy or stupid. I just don’t know how to not want to seek revenge.
@MemunaZahid
@MemunaZahid 3 года назад
Love youself girl...
@motherrabbit4991
@motherrabbit4991 3 года назад
Same darling...same. I'm praying for you.
@awelemgbolu5592
@awelemgbolu5592 3 года назад
I find it difficult to trust him again
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Trust is early gained and takes time to rebuild. Please watch this video, it will be helpful. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ku_Lq7xzUdE.html Coach Adrian
@songlyrics3101
@songlyrics3101 3 года назад
I feel the same way
@nikkiallen1500
@nikkiallen1500 2 года назад
Angela Deal very well said! Trust is broken so it’s extremely difficult to be vulnerable to the unfathomable pain of infidelity.
@MrzShonny
@MrzShonny Год назад
This is excellent advice for someone who is sincerely apologetic & able to mature from past mistakes and move forward. But if you’re married to a habitual or pathological liar…you need to accept the fact that you had red flags long before now…and that the only way out is to separate yourself from the deception & ongoing toxicity, altogether. As much as it hurts, when it’s time to divorce….do it or you will subtract from your own self worth, peace and genuine happiness! Sorry.
@TinaShay
@TinaShay Год назад
Yes. You are right.
@justfine810
@justfine810 2 года назад
I must be honest that the act of revenge I took made me feel better. A man will never forget getting beat-up by a woman 1/2 his size in public while others watched, laughed & didn't help him. Im not saying what I did was right, but it did give me satisfaction.
@TravelRelaxParty
@TravelRelaxParty 2 года назад
Undeserved
@BBD1300
@BBD1300 Год назад
SUPER WELL-DONE. Sorry you had to make your hands dirty touching a low-class creature.
@margaretsanfran7317
@margaretsanfran7317 2 года назад
THE ONLY PEACE OF MIND U GET WITH A CHEAT IS GETTING HIM HER GONE FOREVER...NOW THATS THE GOOD FIGHT ...
@sussyibethmoratalla3583
@sussyibethmoratalla3583 2 года назад
This happened to me today my husband was texting another woman and I felt like I was worthless. I got so upset that begged him not to leave and when he left i started cutting myself like I used to when I was little. Now that I think of it I feel stupid for crying for a man who doesn't deserve to be with me.
@annebleu2566
@annebleu2566 2 года назад
I am sorry for what you've been through. You are worth it Sis! If he ever left you for another woman, he is the one with the issue because he cheated. You will move on too just like the rest of us who were also been cheated on.
@pi772nty
@pi772nty 2 года назад
So sorry that happened. But please brush yourself off, dress up, exercise, do your hair, get new clothes or fix up the ones you have. Do things that interest you...invest in you and your wellbeing. This is what I'm going to do! Not letting this man steal my worth! Fix your crown queen 👑 Your life is precious! Someone loves you! Someone is depending on you. Treat yourself better today ❤❤
@pinksmurf10
@pinksmurf10 2 года назад
Hi how are you now?
@largefamilychaos1837
@largefamilychaos1837 Год назад
I did the same thing. I ripped my hair out how do I get help? I have a baby and I love my son so much I don't want to get in trouble. I need to get over this. This made all the hurt from when I was a child come out
@daisyvial1592
@daisyvial1592 Год назад
Omg that's said I am sorry
@krishenSaber
@krishenSaber 3 года назад
He start chatting with his x and i am shaking everytime i see him talking
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
I can only imagine what you're feeling Krishen. Remembers, you're not alone. Many people have been through this. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you more on a personal level. Coach Arian
@ibandkhar5419
@ibandkhar5419 3 года назад
The world had changed..better go ahead as single mother ..than living with a cheater.....
@crazychick3021
@crazychick3021 3 года назад
I have been cheated over and over , over the years. I almost lost my life for keeping it all to myself. I've learn not to do that and I'd beg people going through it not to keep it to yourself. Talk to a therapist or friends
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Thank you. I understand what you're going through. ⭐ How To overcome being cheated on?👇 www.love.happilycommitted.com/offer-page-infidelity1608666073419 Coach Adrian
@ramaneeskitchen2165
@ramaneeskitchen2165 2 года назад
I made the same mistake over and over again, I never told anyone about the problem. Rather always covered up for him to keep his `family-man´ image intact. Even I nearly lost my life, have definitely lost my mental peace and well-being though. I´ve left him but still I cannot think of loving anyone else. It is just him on my mind. It´s hard to forget him but I know I should never ever let him back.
@sharonadeer5535
@sharonadeer5535 2 года назад
@@ramaneeskitchen2165 I was in a relationship for 6 happy years so I thought when my partner cheated on me I found his recite in his bag what he bought her I was distraught couldn't understand why he done this to me he had everything with me
@sharonadeer5535
@sharonadeer5535 2 года назад
I'm seeing a therapist now
@daisyvial1592
@daisyvial1592 Год назад
I have been through the same thing.I agree with you.
@140klana
@140klana 3 года назад
Best advice I’ve come across so far...Trying to hold everything together is so hard mahn
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Thank you for your kind words. I understand it is hard, please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help. Coach Adrian
@rubysanchez7830
@rubysanchez7830 3 года назад
How in the world do I even try to get over this pain!? It’s been 10 months that my husband cheated and left me for a younger woman. I hearts desire is to reconcile our marriage, but he’s out there living his best life and acts like I do not exist. I don’t know how to fight for my marriage or if I should even try to? I just need this pain to stop.
@daisyvial1592
@daisyvial1592 Год назад
Get marriage counseling and then get therapy or just do both at the same time.
@millennialmommoneymagnet3340
Amen great tips. Never be desperate. We love people at our free will. Thank you.
@Vanessa-hd9yn
@Vanessa-hd9yn 2 года назад
Am really hurt and sometimes I feel like he doesn't love me, he lies about everything and also a cheat, I think d best way to free myself from this pain, is by divorcing him😭😭😭😭
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 2 года назад
Hey Vanessa, I know how painful this must be. I am sorry to hear about this Vanessa and I know the heartbreak that comes with this. If the lying and the cheating is damaging you and your emotional/mental wellbeing then I think the best step is to move on and focus on healing yourself.
@awomansstory.2019
@awomansstory.2019 11 месяцев назад
The pain of discovering infidelity is like no other. My husband of 27 years cheated on our marriage for at least 1 year with his married coworker. MY FAMILY AND I DISCOVERED THEIR AFFAIR WHO.E WE WERE ON OUR FAMILY VACATION! His mistress was following us! She was in her home in Salmon Arm Canada and we were in NEW ORLEANS! SHE WAS FOLLOWING WHERE WE WERE AND WHAT WE WERE DOING!!
@crystalclimenhage9980
@crystalclimenhage9980 3 года назад
I haven't even watched this....but the best thing to do with cheating is leave. Chances are they are a narcissist and will destroy you
@kaitlynnblaylock2432
@kaitlynnblaylock2432 3 года назад
I’ll just stay in my room and be mad about what I’m mad about and try and figure out how to not be mad about what I’m mad about cause I’m really mad. Lol.
@cassie3145
@cassie3145 2 года назад
Just because you forgive him doesn't mean he cares if u do or not he will still cheat
@working43
@working43 3 года назад
I'm glad I stumble upon this advise, I'm trying to stay focused and just work on myself. My husband just denied everything.
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
I'm glad the video was helpful for you, thank you for watching. Coach Adrian
@shirleyrussell7089
@shirleyrussell7089 2 года назад
You cant fix it if the person who cheated won't admit to cheating and ask for forgiveness and may continue to cheat on you, you have to except that it's over and move on with your life if you're married divorce him life is to short to live it in MISERY.
@nathaniacole4243
@nathaniacole4243 9 месяцев назад
How are u grateful for the video if your husband denied everything? Which means this video obviously wasn't the fix. And this coach solution didn't work.
@ashleysoles4058
@ashleysoles4058 3 года назад
I try to take things for what they are my bf of 4 years is cheating on me found a POF app on phone , im not gonna fight him about it just blocking his number and moving on
@TheApachesxy
@TheApachesxy 2 года назад
It hurts so bad my man of 6 years cheated on me and kept on doing it after he asked for forgiveness it's a pain I can't describe 💔
@BBD1300
@BBD1300 Год назад
He is a real trash. Hope things can get better for you soon.
@sophiaann1437
@sophiaann1437 Год назад
Same here 4years💔🥺
@duaneminchin97
@duaneminchin97 9 месяцев назад
😢😢😢😢
@maycharminediacor5932
@maycharminediacor5932 Год назад
my husband cheated on me while i was on my 8month of my pregnancy and I thought he will change after I caught him. But after I gave birth about a month he left us for that girl he hang out when I was still pregnant🥺 I suffered panick attacks, anxiety, post partum and traumas after that🥺
@momeealways9094
@momeealways9094 4 года назад
I couldnt agree more with your suggestions. Love them all.
@makhautamaweng6825
@makhautamaweng6825 3 года назад
Thanks so much my brother and your team for helping couples in their relationships the most dangerous game in our lives please women let's not force ourselves in relationships which doesn't work if we want our relationships to work it must be both of us not only 1 person let's be careful of third-party in our relationships or marriages 💖
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Thank you for watching! Coach Adrian
@vintagecopycat
@vintagecopycat 2 года назад
I know what to do Leave him/her for cheating!
@purplegirl3455
@purplegirl3455 2 года назад
I took the low road and got revenge. Still don't regret it to this day. Working on myself to be better.
@ZionsSong
@ZionsSong Год назад
LEAVE HIM!!! Don't stay with a cheater!! Don't give them another chance in my honest opinion. Especially once they kissed, or had sex with the other person. RESPECT YOURSELF AND SAY GOOD BYE TO HIM! Then let yourself heal. Divorce is an option, you are no forced to be with someone who showed you that they don't care about you
@Atumba_Emmanuel
@Atumba_Emmanuel Год назад
I totally agree with you, I had to spy on my ex wife phone to get more evidence. Can't thank the above name enough, he literally gave me complete access to my ex phone without her knowing. @ZionsSong
@shalom744
@shalom744 10 месяцев назад
The same with emotional cheating.
@Rayyanabd-hc6bq
@Rayyanabd-hc6bq 8 месяцев назад
Yes
@raniyaroja5360
@raniyaroja5360 2 года назад
I loved every single advice you told. I have already done all the things you mentioned not to do. And I have seen all the results too. He burnt my heart.
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 2 года назад
We are happy that our advice helped you!
@tiffanyhannible8242
@tiffanyhannible8242 11 месяцев назад
Hello did your marriage work out ??
@vijikumar2088
@vijikumar2088 3 года назад
Thank you I am going through this phase now just as I was thinking of leaving him since it’s very painful for me to accept and forgive him your video came up to me . I’ll do as you say thanks again
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Thank you for watching, Viji. I'm glad to know the video was helpful for you! Coach Adrian
@vijikumar2088
@vijikumar2088 3 года назад
@@HappilyCommitted 😊 welcome
@faithgrace2063
@faithgrace2063 4 года назад
Great advise 🙏
@ms.marynailz748
@ms.marynailz748 Год назад
DONT GIVE A CHEATER A SECOND CHANCE. HE WILL DO IT AGAIN. END OF STORY
@lindacamuendojoaojoao5383
@lindacamuendojoaojoao5383 3 года назад
Great content!.Thank u for healing my soul!I was deeply in pain.Thank u Sir!
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Thank you! I appreciate it! Coach Adrian
@lindasue1955
@lindasue1955 Год назад
Well at this point I'm not looking for long term joy , just short term kick ass.
@plother4242
@plother4242 Год назад
Why should anyone stay with a cheater? They don't care about your feelings or else they never would have cheated in the first place. I have never know a cheater who didn't cheat again and again. they may be sorry they did it but it won't stop them from doing it again. I have been with 3 different cheating men. All of them I tried these things with in this video to try to work it out. All of them cheated again. One of them I didn't leave until after the 5th time he cheated on me. They don't stop. They just get get more clever on how to hide it so you won't find out. Yes, you love them but they don't love you back the same way or they wouldn't cheat. Leave them and save yourself years of heartache. There are people like you out there that won't cheat. I finally found one and we have been together for 14 years now with no problems like that. Once they have cheated you will never trust them again. You will always wonder why they are so late getting home from work or why they spent 4 hours at the hardware store buying a hammer or why they sit in the bathroom for an hour texting. Why their phone is locked, why they have cologne in the car, why they get up a leave the room when their phone rings, why they don't want dinner that night after getting home late. The list goes on and on and you know all the things I am talking about. Don't put yourself though all the pain and heartache. Leave and then throw yourself into making yourself happy. Find a job you love. Find a fun hobby, Go out with friends. Go on a road trip even if its for the weekend and take someone with you. You will run into a person that you can be happy with that respects you and cares enough to not want to hurt you. You deserve that.
@elizabethstokes7369
@elizabethstokes7369 8 месяцев назад
Thank you
@grateful8824
@grateful8824 3 года назад
I seriously feel being taken advantage of and unappreciated. I just want to know the Truth.
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Thank you for reaching out, Khanyiso. I understand how you're feeling. ⭐ Want To Tell Us More About What You Are Going Through? Call Our Hotline Now 👇: 786.635.8373 Coach Adrian
@sukeyng3918
@sukeyng3918 3 года назад
Thank you for the advice, i need it so badly 😭😭
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
You're welcome, Amelia. Glad to hear the video was helpful for you. Coach Adrian
@giftuz8185
@giftuz8185 Год назад
I need a friend that will help me forget the lies and focus
@milkyway2254
@milkyway2254 2 года назад
Thank you coach adrian, i am here again in your channel after two years with same issue. God bless 🙏
@lolitadore1710
@lolitadore1710 4 года назад
My husband told me his ex was sweet in bed yet they have a kid together. He lied me he never loved her that he got her pregnant by mistake.i feel very very bad whenever I remember that.
@katedaracan3405
@katedaracan3405 3 года назад
😞 Im in pain.. I just caught him.
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Thank you for reaching out, Kate. I understand what you're going through, you're not alone. ⭐ Need Immediate 1-on-1 Custom-Tailored Coaching | Schedule A Call With Us 👇: happilycommitted.com/coaching/ Coach Adrian
@sarahwilson3804
@sarahwilson3804 2 года назад
Leave him you love your self for it there are many men to take his place beautiful
@perfectpeace123
@perfectpeace123 7 месяцев назад
My husband is being very dishonest with me. It’s as if everyone around me is laughing at me because of my marriage. He tells others his half truths/omissions yet he continues to lie to me and abuse me. It has broken the trust and I don’t even know if we can be friends after the breakup. I don’t think I ever did anything to him to deserve such horrible treatment from him. I only tried to help him yet his goal is to try to hurt me. It’s as if he is blaming me for his sins. I can’t trust him with my children either.
@patriciasalmon7167
@patriciasalmon7167 3 года назад
Thanks Adrian for your advice. I feel better just by listening to you
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
You're welcome, Patricia. Than you for watching. Coach Adrian
@mishty99
@mishty99 3 года назад
I've never imagined that i have to watch this kind of videos!!!:)
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Glad the video was helpful for you, Nusrat. Coach Adrian
@yanti-sr7kf
@yanti-sr7kf 4 года назад
Thankyou bro, inspiration words
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
You're welcome, I appreciate it! Coach Adrian
@pearljulian2257
@pearljulian2257 3 года назад
Eversince i also started cheating on him am the happiest woman ever. No more hurting and by the time he gets back to him senses i will long be gone
@treac1570
@treac1570 2 года назад
Powerful! Thank you!!!
@idontknowanymore8968
@idontknowanymore8968 3 года назад
My live in boyfriend of 8 years got busted yesterday, he was searching on google for a woman he cheated on me with 6yrs ago. He likes to drink so I poured out most of his apple crown royal and replaced it with water, bbq sauce, soy sauce (for color) and orange juice...does that count as revenge 😎✌️ If so guess I flunked lol.
@ShannonShenanigans79
@ShannonShenanigans79 3 года назад
What are you do when they continue to hide things, tell you it's none of your business you're not their mother blah blah blah. what do you do when they don't make the appropriate steps to build that trust, I guess that's when you know you really got to go.
@maxfitnesstraining1585
@maxfitnesstraining1585 2 года назад
I totally hear you
@shinigami9811
@shinigami9811 2 года назад
Yea, why stick around to be disrespected, throw that trash in the trash can.
@pennydavis476
@pennydavis476 3 года назад
My soon to be x is definitely and narcissist ontop of that, he cheated and I have physical proof and text messages. He’s very vile and abusive and that’s why I left him. I’m 350 miles away and refuse to go back. This is my time to repair all the damage and thank god, we have no kids together. I wish you all the best.
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 3 года назад
Thank you so much I really felt the support by just watching this video .
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Happy to hear the video was helpful for you! Coach Adrian
@payalrajput3086
@payalrajput3086 4 года назад
God bless u bro ❤️
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 4 года назад
Thank you. Glad you are enjoying the videos. I hope you are finding them helpful.
@lindiwemnisi922
@lindiwemnisi922 2 года назад
The best thing is to love your self , never blame your self for him cheating on you . He must be the one showing change and working on the trust .
@prossylen7301
@prossylen7301 4 года назад
Thank u for the advice
@Delnique-kp7dq
@Delnique-kp7dq 8 месяцев назад
I was arrested due to his lies. I asked him to not show up in court. He did anyway. I have will never take that man back..
@christinaquinkerquinker6450
I am nine months pregnant and because of my insecurities I am just troubling my baby .My husband finds more intrest in chat webs I have deleted more than twice bt he find chatting apps more convincing so he keeps on downloading .I left my parents n siblings .my family was against our love n now every single day I regret y I chose this path
@Mika-qp9hw
@Mika-qp9hw Год назад
Hang in there love for your baby. Im afraid im heading to the same route just caught a cheater 😞
@sushivlog5682
@sushivlog5682 Год назад
😥
@silent_talk265
@silent_talk265 Год назад
Don't worry, leave it all to God and make a life for your child , you will be their life Too.
@camillemaez3819
@camillemaez3819 Год назад
Hang in there. I’m pregnant too & I know how this feels because I’m going through the same thing… praying for us all. These dogs don’t deserve us!!!
@renerume6229
@renerume6229 Год назад
Are u a Naga?
@mstiqphn1x579
@mstiqphn1x579 3 года назад
Other people only add fuel to any fire already burning, it’s about the 2 people it involves in what they will do, not what someone else would do
@harshikhashrivastava3721
@harshikhashrivastava3721 2 года назад
God bless all of u who needs to watch this🥺
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 2 года назад
Thank you for your kind words!
@claireann2813
@claireann2813 3 года назад
The best advices I heard ...it makes me open minded now....thank you.
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Glad to hear the video was helpful. Coach Adrian
@joviedwards1064
@joviedwards1064 3 года назад
I just want a happy and peaceful relationship
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Thank you for watching the video, Jovi. ⭐ Subscribe to Happily Committed Here 👇 bit.ly/2QTt3XA Coach Adrian
@kristina-ob9cz
@kristina-ob9cz 3 года назад
its so sad, all these stories, how am i supposed to be hopeful 👀
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Thank you for watching the video, Kristen. Subscribe to Happily Committed Here 👇 bit.ly/2QTt3XA Coach Adrian
@rosemariealpuerto5390
@rosemariealpuerto5390 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing, this help a lot especially who's being cheated.
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Glad the video was helpful for you, Rosemarie. Thank you for watching. Coach Adrian
@adelina10ify
@adelina10ify 3 года назад
Great advise 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Thank you, Adelina. Coach Adrian
@linsoopretty
@linsoopretty 3 года назад
Thanks Adrian! I just wanted to know how to deal with a cheating spouse! Great advice given.
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
You're welcome! Coach Adrian
@onebree4u
@onebree4u Год назад
What to do if a person keeps lying and keeps cheating for years and years and you have kids with this person?
@grayce6509
@grayce6509 Год назад
I hear exactly what you're saying learned my husband of 26 years being cheating for 23 of those year..we too have kids...how did I miss the signs. Stay strong..
@user-sr7mt3qx5p
@user-sr7mt3qx5p 8 месяцев назад
Tanks so much you’ve been so helpful this is exactly all what needed to hear right now
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 8 месяцев назад
You are so welcome!
@dorcaschibike6484
@dorcaschibike6484 3 года назад
Thanks for the the best advice I needed to hear this
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
You're welcome. Thank you for watching! Coach Adrian
@manifest_with_cecian
@manifest_with_cecian 4 года назад
Thanks for the video.
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
You're welcome! Coach Adrian
@grateful7785
@grateful7785 3 года назад
Focused on the cheating, but what about lying about that and other things. Was hoping to hear about Lying specifically.
@Proudmuslimah123
@Proudmuslimah123 3 года назад
I just found out recently also. It's so painful and soul destroying, he doesn't even know that I know and I am trying to figure out the best way to handle this going forward
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Thank you for reaching out, Lamiya. ⭐ How To overcome being cheated on?👇 www.love.happilycommitted.com/offer-page-infidelity1608666073419 Coach Adrian
@missghtv6075
@missghtv6075 10 месяцев назад
Am married for 4 months and 5months pregnant now I saw that my husband is cheating on me. My heart is breaking now
@patriciagreen2278
@patriciagreen2278 3 года назад
GREAT advice, I will and did take heed and YES I did separate from my cheating husband
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад
Thank you, Patricia! Coach Adrian
@sudevinair1117
@sudevinair1117 4 года назад
This is the common problem most of the women's r facing..At present time I feel that marriage is a very bad decision...because after marriage each one of us facing one or other issue regarding relationships..on one is satisfied...so why I should spoil it while life after this...it will be better if we spent our time with oneself n find out what really we want to remain happy throughout the life...once we get married we r stuck in many emotional family dramas n responsibility..n have to live depressed life..so enjoy it one life rather run after this uncertain life in relationships
@soniemungai1836
@soniemungai1836 4 года назад
This is true
@2b2unit
@2b2unit 2 года назад
I can't breathe...decades of this and I ignored the red flags..he loves being superior & go have a life"
@ND-ef6pu
@ND-ef6pu 2 года назад
He left me with fractured leg with two kids in pandemic and he and his family blocked my number, he don't want to take our responsibility
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