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I don't think you understand how much we appreciate your videos. I'm so mad at myself. I waited 8 years before getting Involved after coming out of a painful relationship. Now I'm right back at point A. Please pray for me. Thanku. Be blessed.
I have 4 grown daughters. Ages 30, 27, 24 and 24 twins. I have been forwarding your videos to them for awhile now and they have tremendously benefited from your wisdom and so have I. I just wish I had this teaching years ago prior to marriage and divorce. You’re a blessing to me and my family sir. Thank you!!
Awww.... bless you Sis! 4 daughters close in age. I pray that they're close & take care of one another. ❤ I'm sorry, I'm kinda mushy at times but I'm an only child & just thought about how cool it would've been to have 3 more of me. 🤣🤣🤣
ThoroughbredDiva it’s not fun it’s a bunch of headache fighting over toys and clothes lol ugh 😩 but at least you have some to talk to besides your mom and dad
TONY: “You have to understand that you will never in your life, Never in your life, NEVER IN YOUR LIFE meet a perfect man...in Manhood, Husband-hood, Fatherhood, Adulthood, In NOBODY HOOD are you going to meet a perfect man.” ME: Got it!! Now back to Tony’s words of wisdom. Be Blessed!!
What is wrong with people telling you how to do your job/calling/ministry??? Sometimes I think those educational degrees and 'years of experience' make people arrogant. Thank God he checks the heart and not the 'titles' people hide behind. Lord help us. Thank God for your patience Tony. Be blessed.
What I noticed is many people, don’t listen or hear God/The Creator or anyone else who speaks out of love. They screen what they accept of what is said.
Why do people get mad with the Truth and if you do not agree, you do Not have 2 . The Truth is the Truth no matter day, age, male or female! Come up. SMH
It’s perfectly normal to desire a man. Doesn’t mean you’re unhappy because you want a man. You just want to be at peace so you’re not desperate for one.
I think one thing women have to admit is that we hate wasting time so if we meet a guy that checks all the boxes we start wondering if he the one and than again sometimes we miss all the tale tale signs that the man we are entertaining is not a good man because we trying to get ojt the dating market . I would say take your time ladies. He's on his way
Another good practical teaching. As a criminal justice major I have been guilty of interrogating a man just like we was on the first 48 or the game show 21 questions 😂😂 but thank God for the Holy Spirit checking me 🙏🏽
Yes, over 3 years ago I met a physically beautiful man, I saw him and the lust of my flesh screamed Oh my look at this Greek God, the most beautiful green eyes, height , build, exciting, he pretended to be so kind! God gave me a word of knowledge and I asked him about it, guy tells me the truth, I ignored it, I asked him if he was a christian he said nope! I ignored that too! That man was literally and with no hyperbole Evil! We were together almost 3 years I was blessed to escape with my sanity and life!! I learned my lesson!
Be blessed, my deal breakers which I will never again compromise on are drugs, alcohol, cursing, smoking, spirituality, which all tie into character and INTEGRITY. I cannot be with any man that has questionable character and integrity point blank period! Men that are shaky in character and integrity are broke men in my eyes and a man that is solid in those things has real wealth in my eyes.
Since I've been listening and learning about men I learned to be patient. Why because I've come to an understanding not all men grew up good or if they have they have not learned how to deal and love a woman properly. I also pray to prepare myself for my husband. I pray for knowledge, wisdom and understanding in learning and dealing with men. All that comes together.
You ask all of the first 48 questions, he nails you to the bed and keeps it moving! Discernment is the key! Not looking for perfection. Tony G is a wise “man”!
Wait I can't 😂😂😂when you pulled put the interrogation list!!! I hollered🤣🤣🤣 with the first 48 checklist. I don't know if you're trying to be funny but its hilarious to me!
Commenting and watching, but the most important thing is to know what your deal breakers are and determine if he'll be a good fit for your life. I agree interrogation is never 🙅a good way to collect this information.
Thank you so much! I really appreciate your time and advice. I don't care if your videos are 30 minutes or more than 60 minutes. Your content is amazing. I'm working on my 3Bs simultaneously. Best part of video for me: The adversary will send you a distraction that looks like destiny. God Bless you and your family. Keep doing what you're doing!😊❤🙏🏾👍🏾
Tony, you’re my relationship coach that counsels me for free via your videos and books. Thank you for your faithful service! I’m Seventh Day Adventist and some of us are strict and some live differently we celebrate holidays in my church and for me the goal is to have a strong relationship with my Heavenly Father through Jesus while listening to The Holy Spirit that lives within me. Chew the meat, spit out the bones. Be blessed!
Thank you for these videos! I’m 26 and never really had anyone teach me how to date or even what to look for while dating or marriage. In my mind your like Uncle Tony to me.
I needed to hear this. In my professional life right now I'm facing this destiny vs distraction. And that last part was my life last year. I am now a single mom
My brother I appreciate you so much. The truth means everything and all of us single women need to be waiting on a man like you. Your wife is a very blessed woman.
47:58 🤯 that hit me! Thank you, Tony! I’m dealing with a guy like that now and I told him we wouldn’t work because we don’t have the same fundamental values and he totally ignores everything I say and tells me I’m only worried about myself and not what he wants! 😕 He’s def suffering with narcissism.
Love how thorough you are and give lots of examples, métaphores, stories to help your listeners understand the point. “Overstand” - Love it. Be blessed 🙏
This is so freeing!!! So many of us put all these rules in place instead of just doing what we believe is the right way to approach relationships. Thank you Tony for making this so simple and easy to understand!
We have so many dealbreakers and I have been guilty of this. We missed out on a good person due to this. Tony I remember you said ‘Become Love 💕 and you will attract it.’ Be Blessed
Tony, Tony, Tony! You broke this thing down today brother and I love it!💯!! I thank God for you and for this message!! Keep on allowing God to use you and being a blessing to His people! God bless you and you be blessed!!
I'm mixed with maturity, education, two kids, and some hood ways. I can honestly say I don't know it all about men but I'm willing to learn. It will only benefit me in the future because what I have done so far obviously haven't worked if im watching this video.
The truths hurts you were speaking to me. My ex husband was a atheist and I am a Christian now I’m a single mother. I’ve learned my lesson I’ve been single and abstinent for the past 6 years. Can’t get a decent date in church or out of church if I’m not willing to have sex.
I’m not a Christian and I believe when we remove sex from the equation it removes clouded judgement. As a society we place too much significance on a practice that involves vulnerability and trust by offering this sacred moment to be made casual. There is nothing casual about SEX. EVER!!!
You're right Tony I know I blocked my blessings. I need to work on ME. I have so many thoughts and distractions😫. Date with destiny -> Boy that's deep🤔 This is definitely your calling. Be BLESSED 🥰 GOD is REAL
Thank you for the video..I am inspired and eager to learn more..Heres why: I am a single woman and Ibwas raised without my father and all the information your giving im getting it late in life, I still believe theres someone for me. I look at video to improve my thinking and outlook on Men..my view was distorted because of my up bringing.. Your classes and coaching I cant afford yet, Im working on my finances and myself.
Tony another phenomenal video , one thing I no for sure these mature women better start taking notes about these mature men, because they run game even better than the younger guys because they've had more practice. You are so on point the tip is not sharp enough. Keep preaching my brother, I'm 55 and listening on the edge of my seat. I will get married again and because of you I will do it right this time. Thank you, you and your family are a blessing. S
Be blessed Tony, I am so happy to have you available to women for your sermons from God. We are so grateful for the time you commit for your purpose to actually help both women and men. God bless you, your wife, and family.
Be blessed!! Tony is speaking the truth and nothing but the truth. “When you are getting ready to have a date with destiny the adversary will send you a distraction that looks like destiny” Experienced this for myself. The man had everything going for him BUT had absolutely no belief in God! I thought, “well he’s everything else I desire and he has a great heart.” No ma’am that did not work! As great of a person is if they don’t believe there is a God and you do, I promise you you will be bumping heads on a regular basis. Never again will I date someone that I can’t even talk to about simple things like my time with God
Powerful message... I've wondered for a long time where i went wrong and you just answered yet another question for me. I'm listening to the audio book "A Woman's Influence" and I've told every female that i care about, to get the book. I love your wife's humility and transparency in this book, none of us have it all figured out but she knew she wanted better for her life and she clung to her beliefs God worked it out for y'all! You guys are truly sent from above! Thanks again!
Be Blessed Tony and Your Beautiful Family!!! Your videos are the best gift! Don't listen to people who said your videos were too long or whatever. You're amazing!
Woo Tony Tony! That last bit was for me!! Thank you thank you! My son will indeed recieve the blessings of Ishmael! Thank you Tony for your obedience to the Holy Spirit!
THANK YOU!! You have done it again and I can say that you are 100% correct on everything you shared a years ago. I was in a relationship. I thought I met the man that was sent just for me. We had a strong connection, met each other family. He was very supportive and we stayed by each other side during our time of need. We was planning to get married one day. Fast fwd he started to change. Mainly his spiritual beliefs. I found myself not knowing who I was, my wardrobe chnaged, eating schedule, hanging out with certain people was limited. I really had to take a moment and say this isn't me and I can't do this anymore. I had to get a counselor. He wanted us to get a counselor as well. We came to a mutual understanding that it won't work. Now I am so happy and back with peace and continue to grow my relationship with my savior. THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR ADVICE AND GUIDANCE.
Actually, these pagan holidays do go against God (Yahweh). They are built on paganism; practices that pagans used to worship their own gods, and on vile and perverted things. All of their origins go against what God is about. And He speaks directly against this in Deuteronomy 12:29-32. If we all research the root of these holidays, we'll be enlightened to the truth.
The "Whited out series" 1 through 7, on the Watchman Reports "RU-vid " channel (Watchman and Deborah) will break it down. A must see . I have learned so much from Tony and respect his relationship coaching views. We all have an appointed time when The Most High Yah wakes us up. I mean this with the up most respect to Tony, his family and his viewers. Stay in peace my sistas!! 😊 Thank you Tony for sharing your gift and The Most High Yah using you as a vessel to see in the minds of men that mean women no good.. I am grateful...
Yahushua's Absolutely. This was not, and is of, no disrespect to him. I was just enlightening him to the truth. I respect Tony to the fullest and all of what he shares. I watch all of his videos and look forward to it every single day. He's my top relationship expert and giver of the game. Much repect to him.
@@crystaldemarr I totally agree with you Crystal. :) I am with. I am piggybacking it. I typed that (no disrespect part) should my comment have others in their feelings as when it comes to the TRUTH, it is an extremely hard pill to swallow for some. So, it was my intent assure them that there was absolutely no disrespect and it no be taken out of context. After reading your comment, I felt so compelled in my spirit to join in agreement with you. Thank you for your kind respectful response as well. Much love to you my sista! SHALOM.. :)